Represent the dialog for retrieving similar scenarios Speaker1: how do I come out? my mom is sweet but conservative and I'm scared shitless
Speaker3: you still didn't? wtf man
Speaker2: chill out they probably figured it out
Speaker2: you're 30 and they are not stupid
Speaker1: my family doesn't talk much
Speaker1: my sister has never brought any date with her
Speaker3: I guess you should start with 'I will never have girlfriend, mom'
Speaker2: one of my friends had the worst coming out ever
Speaker2: his father saw him having anal sex
Speaker1: omfg
Speaker3: ok so don't show your sweet mom your porn collection ;p
Speaker1: damn
Speaker2: lol
Speaker2: it sounds funny but it was a nightmare for my friend
Speaker2: his father got batshit about it
Speaker1: I think I'll follow Speaker3's advice
Speaker1: sth about not having gf
Speaker3: and you can compare yourself to sb famous she likes
Speaker3: Elton John maybe
Speaker2: that's actually very good advice
Speaker2: I think Freddie Mercury melted many straight hearts, too
Speaker1: mom I'm like Freddie, I can't sing or anything but I have sex
Speaker3: don't say that she'll think you have AIDS
Speaker2: lol
Speaker1: ok so no riddles such as what does Freddie Mercury and your son have in common
Speaker3: stick to the no gf script
Speaker3: tell us how it went when you'll talk to her
Speaker2: I think she'll be shocked but she'll come around :)
Speaker1: i hope so
Represent the dialog scenario for retrieval Speaker1 is stressed about coming out to his mom. 
Represent the dialog scenario for retrieval Speaker1 will join Speaker2 at the races at the weekend.