Represent the dialog for retrieving similar scenarios Speaker4: I'm going to Paul tomorrow and again i feel I don't know what is expecting me there
Speaker1: We never know what expects us tomorrow
Speaker4: But maybe it's how it should be
Speaker3: Yes
Speaker3: a partner is not a dog
Speaker3: They are free to go away any minute
Speaker1: Or a Disney princess (I am watching sleeping beauty now on TV)
Speaker4: 😂😂😂 Yes, so they have the right to leave us and we should be able to see life after them always
Speaker1: Yes, this is the biggest problem of the ideology of love. The idea that love is life. Love has been equated with life. Especially for women, but not only, also for men. People can't imagine life without it
Speaker4: Yes, but we love this dream of life that is love and love that is life
Speaker1: And this creates dependency, jealousy, frustrations, drama
Speaker1: It's not even a very beautiful dream to be with someone all your life. The promise of no change. Stability forever. It is what capitalism needs from us - 40 years of mortgage and marriage
Speaker4: Ahaha, yes and that somebody will take care of us when we are sick. 
Speaker1: Love is beautiful, intense, crazy and brief. And it was transformed in a long lasting good, a house. Something like this.
Speaker4: But i think, or I suppose that we should be able to love for life potentially. We cannot approach love with a plan
Speaker1: Yes, sure, but a substantial group of people, not one. But the problem is that love is mostly approached with one plan. Being together, get married, etc
Speaker1: Or now, under the new regime of supposed sexual freedom, Speaker2: nothings lasts and love doesn't matter. But this is substituting an ideology with another, when we should just let it be.
Speaker1: Simply 😅
Speaker4: Yes, I agree
Speaker3: and most of all this myth of love as life is a disappointing lie that makes people suffer a lot
Speaker1: Yes, the dependency that it creates is horrible
Speaker1: I see it with my friends, it breaks my heart
Speaker4: sounds sad
Represent the dialog scenario for retrieval Speaker4 is going to Paul tomorrow and doesn't know what to expect. Speaker1 and Speaker3 share their views on the ideology of love. 
Represent the dialog scenario for retrieval Speaker3 is not in favor of contemporary feminism movement.