Represent the dialog for retrieving similar scenarios Speaker3: Trudy heard about our WhatsApp group. She wants to join.
Speaker2: Why not?
Speaker1: It's a family group and technically she's not family.
Speaker2: Your understanding of family is very narrow... 
Speaker1: For me family is either blood bonds or marriage
Speaker2: And if you had an adopted child it wouldn't be your family then
Speaker1: Trudy is not an adopted child. She's just a friend
Speaker3: Should we add her or not?
Speaker2: Yes!
Speaker1: No.
Speaker1: We can make a different group if she wants to chat with us.
Speaker1: But family group is just that
Speaker3: Maybe we should vote? 
Represent the dialog scenario for retrieval Speaker1 doesn't want to add Trudy to their WhatsApp group because she doesn't belong to the family.
Represent the dialog scenario for retrieval Speaker2 and Speaker3 don't like what the man in dreads looks like, but Speaker1 does.