Represent the dialog for retrieving similar scenarios Speaker1: but it's becoming real now, leaving this place
Speaker2: Thats good. You'll finally get some distance
Speaker1: yea, it's scary though
Speaker1: i am afraid of lonelyness
Speaker1: i've had sad thoughts about the chances of future relationships
Speaker1: i still don't know how we ended up together with nicola, other than she was patient and persisting
Speaker2: Technically iy should be easier,  as you have experience now
Speaker2: Also you making her pregnant forced ypi to stay with her
Speaker2: I still remember the talk we had in baigle place
Speaker1: which one was that?
Speaker2: When you told me shes pregnant and you dont know what to do
Speaker1: yeahh.. there was no easy answer
Speaker1: i think i did what eero is doing now
Speaker1: didn't make a decision, which is, as witcher teaches us, a decision on its own
Speaker1: my options were to call it quits, or really embrace it
Speaker1: in hindsight, at least the 2nd option would likely have been a good one
Speaker2: You have to move on
Speaker1: hey you were the one to bring this part up! 😛
Represent the dialog scenario for retrieval Speaker1 is leaving the place and is afraid of loneliness. Nicola was pregnant with Speaker1. 
Represent the dialog scenario for retrieval The situation in Kongo is terrible because of its resources and politics.