Sentence:  The lady understands best what is required to make others like herself, and it is required to make all girls into ladies; not, perhaps, into delicate <WSD>white-handed</WSD> beauties, but to give their souls that gentleness, and their minds that beauty, which are better than the whiteness of lilies or the morning blush of the summer rose. 
Meaning of the word marked with <WSD> tags:  Characterized by delicacy and a pale-skinned beauty.