Sentence:  Eugenia suspected her of deliberately overturning the heater because she was getting tired of dragging it back and forth and still wanted her own way , but Hope said if Grandma would n't <WSD>have</WSD> the heater nobody would have it , so Grandma had to give in . 
Meaning of the word marked with <WSD> tags:  have or possess, either in a concrete or an abstract sense