Sentence:  Emma perceived that the nature of his gallantry was a little <WSD>self-willed</WSD>, and that he would rather oppose than lose the pleasure of dancing with her; but she took the compliment, and forgave the rest. Had she intended ever to "marry" him, it might have been worth while to pause and consider, and try to understand the value of his preference, and the character of his temper; but for all the purposes of their acquaintance, he was quite amiable enough. 
Meaning of the word marked with <WSD> tags:  Obstinate; strong-minded; unyielding to the desires, concern or opinions of others.