Sentence:  It was safe to assume that Papa , sighing heavily , had said many times to his remaining daughter , `` Thank God your poor mother was <WSD>spared</WSD> this '' , and indeed it might be true that it had been easier for Henrietta to leave , with her hand in Charles ' hand , just because her `` poor mother '' was gone already and would never know . 
Meaning of the word marked with <WSD> tags:  save or relieve from an experience or action