Sentence:  `` The pattern '' , says Dr. Morton Schillinger , psychologist at New York 's Lincoln Institute for Psychotherapy , `` is for the husband to <WSD>hover</WSD> about anxiously and eagerly , virtually trembling in his hope that she will flash him the signal that tonight is the night '' . 
Meaning of the word marked with <WSD> tags:  be undecided about something; waver between conflicting positions or courses of action