Sentence:  You may be very religious , a good church member , an upright , honest and sincere person ; you may be baptized , confirmed , reverent and worshipful ; you may attend mass , do penance , say prayers and zealously keep all the sacraments and ceremonies of the church ; you may <WSD>have</WSD> the final and extreme unction but if you are not born again you are lost and headed for hell and eternal punishment . 
Meaning of the word marked with <WSD> tags:  have or possess, either in a concrete or an abstract sense