Sentence:  Until you are sure that this girl has a genuine interest and might be compatible, no dates or gifts. Why should you be the one who feeds every straggler in your town? It's time to break away from these byzantine patterns of square behavior. It's time right now to break away from all those years of bad programming. You're a <WSD>simp</WSD> because your family made you that way. 
Meaning of the word marked with <WSD> tags:  A man who foolishly overvalues a woman and puts her on a pedestal.