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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1963-12-15

Cuber and Mrs. Peggy B. HarrOff, queried 437 upper
middle-class men and women aged thirty-6ve to
6fty6ve married at least ten years, and classified
their marriages according to five varying degrees of
intimacy.
First on the list was the resigned squabbIing
marriage, in which the couple maintain sort of
armed truce in public, and constantly snpe at one
another in private.
Second was the devitalized marriage, in which
both partners have given up all pretense of init
macy, and live together as more or less Indifferent
strangers.
Third is the substitute marriage, which re-
places personal communion by interest in other
things. Apathetic to one another, the individuals
may have passionate devotion to a certain sport,
or to politics, or religion.
Fourth, DR.. Cuber and Mrs. Harroff listed the
vital marriage, in which the man and wife are
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united by common devotion to goal, whether it
be his career, or raising their children.
Finally, there was the total marriage, in which
the sharing is so intense it is "as if neither had
truly private existence"
But this DR.. Cuber and Mrs. Harroff pronounced
rare What is wrong? Why don't more Americans
achieve the intimacy of the total marriage?
l asked this question of Mrs. Else Siegle and
Mrs. Irene Blicksten two veteran case workers and
marriage counselors of the Community Service
Society of New York. Most Americans are roman
tics" said Mrs. Blickstein. They expect instant
intimacy. Very few realize it is slow, difficult
process"
Most couples instead slowly become mired in
what many counselors call communications
breakdown" Confused by their inability to keep
their original romantic feelings intact, they lose
touch with each others real personalities. After
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4EARFULLH, Mrs. Edith kenfrew, an attractive
woman of So, told her best friend that her l9year
marriage was over. None Of the standard problems
sex, money, children - had ever troubled them.
But nevertheless gulf had slowly opened between
her and her husband Albert, printing executive,
until now they barely spoke, and he rarely came
home before midnight.
Why? They had failed to meet marriages deep
est, most subtle test - the challenge of intimacy
Thanks to the assiduous use of the word in the
tabloids, intimacy" for most people has become
synonymous with sex. But for modern psychiatrists
and marriage counselors, the word far transcends
the sexual. Among the first to apply the word to
emotional problems was the brilliant American psy-
chiatrist, the late DIR. Harry S. Sullivan, whose
theory of 'Interpersonal Psychiatry' is SO influ-
entail today. For DR.. Sullivan, intimacy was not an
act, it was state of existence in which two people
gradually shared more and more of their innermost
thoughts and experiences. Sullivan saw this contin-
ung growth as the key to the loving relationship
Ara American hallmark
Noted sociologst DR.. Clifford Kirkpatrick sees
this intimacy as the ideal hallmark of the modern
Inc EcldLOuSnlp DetWeen
modern married couple involves total personality
contact" he says in his book, 1.-THE Family: As
Process and Institution mot only in regard to the
home and children, but likewise in regard to ltera-
ture, politics, philosophy of life and many other
things
DR.. Gibson Winter of the University of Chi
cagO's Divinity School, goes even further For Dr.
Winter, intimacy is not only the key to a successful
marriage, but also to constructing truly human
personality. In his book, love and Conflict" he
says: Feelings of personal isolation have pressed
men and women into an unreenting search for init
macy. In our day marriage is the one relation
ship in which one hopes to be loved for oneself
in which the shriveled self can come to lfe''
Most successful" American marriages seem to
fall far short of genuine intimacy. Over the past
three years two Ohio State sociologsts, Dr. John F.
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80 q a EIs a

The key, psychologists and marriage
experts say, lies in the challenge of
intimacy. Here is the story of Mr.. and
Mrs. Renfrew, who drifted apart, and
what brought them together again
BY THOMAS J. FLEMING
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John ID. Peterson
In Western Pacific

John D. Peterson, electri-
clans mate third class, USN,
son of MIR. and Mrs. Lloyd c.
Peterson of 100 Seventh Ave,
SW, Sidney, Mont, serving
aboard the destroyer USS Lof-
berg, a Pacific Fleet unit cur
rently on six months deploy-
ment with the Seventh Fleet
in the Western Pacific.
The Lofberg was among the
ships of the recovery task force
which stood by in the Central
Pacific TO pick UP astronaut
Cooper after his history-mak-
ing 22-orbit spaceflgiht in May.
Ports of call during the Far
East cruise include Sasebo,
Kobe and Yokosuka Japan),
Hong Kong, and Subic Bay in
the Philippines.
Prior to tile Lofberg's early
June departure from Pearl
Harbor, Hawaii, her normal
base of operations, the ship
participated in anti-submarine
detection, attack and hold.
down procedures with the air
craft carrier USS Kearsarge
and seven other Pacific Flee
] deStrOverS.
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HzlI|1lI|Ikzl|'|'l[|ll2 HzlI|lIIkl|'l[|l2

and four children of San An
tonic, Texas. MIR. Pedersen is
in the air force and is sta
toned at Kelley AF'B. He is
on a three weeks leave.
Mrs. VIM. Schafer and three
sons of New Rockford, N. D.,
and Mrs. Leroy Peterson and
son of Boulder, Colo, were
recent guests at the home of
their father, Richard Hass
and also visited other relatives.
Mrs. Peterson met her hus-
band in Miles City last Fri
day for the trip home and
Mr.. Schafer and their five
older children drove over
from New Rockford Sunday to
visit and all returned home
that Monday.
Mr.. and Mrs. S. H. Braaten
and family returned last week
from a vacation trip ON which
they spent the 4th at Kenosee
Lake i'm Saskatchewan and
then went to Darling Lake,
Mimi, for a week. They at
tended the wedding of Mr..
Brattin's niece, and also his
parents 50th wedding anni-
verSary observance both in
Fergus Falls. Mr.. Battin' S
niece, Mrs. Wayne Swenson,
is now living in Sidney, where
her husband is connected with
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24

MIR. and Mrs. Blaine Butler
of Pollack, Missouri, and their
son and family, Mr.. and Mrs.
Edwin Butler of st. Joseph,
Missouri, visited at the Lon
Frost home this past week.
Mrs. Butler is a sister to Lon
Frost.
The Rev. and Mrs. Wilbur
Whanger and their four child
rem left the first of the week
on a trip to Fromlberg and
Livingston, after which they
will go to Buckhannon, West
Virginia, for a vacation visit
with Mrs. Whanger's father.
Mr.. and Mrs. George Norr
and family left by car last
week for Iron Mountain, Mich
igan, where Mr.. Norr will be
connected with the First Nat
ional Bank.
Mr.. and Mrs. Ray Holte
have for their houseguests,
their son-in-law and daughter
Mr.. and Mrs. CORN Petersen
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24
County Agents News
by Sharon Fiegle and Hugh Maxwell

shaped. Some find them at
tractive and others do not.
The attractivenesS of the pop
ular shift depends upon the
fit and the subtle shaping of
the dress. A shift should fit
at the shoulders and lightly,
not Snugly, over the bust and
hlplines! some are shaped in
slightly at the Waistline.
Most shifts are more attrac-
tive and hold their shape bet
ter if they are completely lined
or underlined, especially if the
material is soft. A lining also
prevents clinging and wrinkl-
ing. Belts, when used, are
usually of the soft tie variety.
and should be fastened loose
ly, usually below the normal
WaiStine.
Not every figure looks its
best in a shift, even when the
garment is correctly designed
and worn. However, today's at
tractive fashions leave many
other choices for those fol
whom shifts are less becoming
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24
Chemical Control of Rust

With inquiries being re-
ceived ON chemical control of
rust of wheat, l would like to
pass along information receiv-
ed from e. L. Sharp, associate
plant pathologist at Montana
State College.
Sharp reports that Dithane
S-31 has, in some cases, con-
trolled rust when applications
were made at the proper stage
of plant growth.
For stem rust of wheat it is
necessary to make the first ap-
plication at the boot to early
heading stage when a trace of
rust is first noticed. This is
followed by a second applica-
tion ten days later. Two APP
plications and no more are
recommended, and Dithane
S-31 should not be applied
within 81 days of harvest.
The material is applied at
the rate of three pounds per
acre in about five gallons OF
water for aerial application.
Cost of material plus applica-
ton is about $500 per acre
per application.
Experimental plots were
established by the Mont. Agri-
cultural Experiment Station al
Bozeman and at CreSton this
wear to obtain more informa-
ton on controlling rust with
Dithan S-31. However, SHARP
said, until more information /:
available the station canno'
recommend this chemical.
In the station trials the
sprayed plots appeared tohav'
less rust and a SomeWha
greener appearance after th'
second aerial spraying. Sharl
said. but within another weel
this difference was not appar
ent.
Similar observations wer'
made last year in Washington
and Oregon. At Pullman, Wn
the additional yield of treatet
plots Just about paid for tn
cost involved.
Sharp adds that the useful
ness of Dithane S-31 for rus
control may vary from yea
to year and between location.
depending on the number c
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Cartwright News

from San Pedro, California
Thursday evening for a visit
at the Milton Olson home. Mrs.
IIetherington is a niece of
Milton and spent some child
hood years here with her
grandmother.
Mr.. Ray Schatteman of East
Moline, Illinois visited at the
Emma Leens, Frank Leens and
Emalie LaSSey nolres on Sun
day, also Mr.. and Mrs. Art
LeenS and MIR. and Mrs. Perry
Elletson of Fairview and Emil
Leens of Havre. Mrs. Schat-
terman works for John Deere
Company and had interests at
Minot, North Dakota, SO came
out this way to visit his wife's
relatives.
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place conrnUously 10 assure you or me finesf
products of Americas forests and factories and
can provide, through Bestwoy Budget Plan, q
sensible way for any home owner TO meet, out of
income. any modernizotion or repair that may bs
needed or desired.
After fhe last na is driven is the logical time for
you TO look around for partner in mointoning
your property. We would welcome the responsibility
and challenge of helping you mointoin moximum
lyobility and value in your home for lifetime
and longer.
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24
Democratic Women
Hear Katanga Talk

The Democratic Women's
Club of Richland County met
July 18th at Myrtle Johnson's
home.
Mrs. Ralph Jensen and
daughter, Jenasy, and Mrs. E.
w. Page were guests.
Delegates to the Democratic
Women's State Convention,
Margaret Williams and Betty
Danielson, gave reports.
Members and especially host
esses, scheduled for August 19
meeting, please note: there
will be no August meeting due
to conflict with Richland
County Fair. Next meeting will
be September 18th, evening
meeting, with Mrs. Henry
Schepens, Lillian Houglum,
RoSelyn Leuck, Hazel Nor
g9ard, Lillian Lane, Helen
BenSen and Dolly Williams,
hoSteSSeS.
Mrs. E. w. Page talked to
the group on the Katanga Civil
War. She titled her remarks
''The Other Story About
'Katanga': The Untold Story"
She pointed out that there are
those who hold that the COM
mentary which accompanies
the motion picture about the
Civil War are ga deliberate
Misrepresentation of facts" She
also gave an account of the
history leading up to the ex-
ploSion of the Katanga revolu-
tiOn.
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24

Delayed
Vance Vickers accompanied
Norman Bratcher on a trip to
Arizona last week returning
Sunday.
Mrs. Frank LeenS went to
Epping Friday for the Ray
mOnd jacobson funeral. Mrs.
jacobson is a cousin of Mrs.
F. Leens and Mrs. Sam Patter-
son and spent her childhood
near here.
Emil LeenS came from Hav-
re, Montana, last Tuesday and
spent the week here with
relatives and at Arnegard
with Mrs. Leens' relatives.
Mr.. and Mrs. Bert Young
strom drove to Miles City on
Monday where Bert entered
the Vets Hospital for treat
ment and observation. Mrs.
YomgStrom returned home
Tuesday.
Mrs. Arnold Skogen accom-
panied her brohter, Lawrence
SundvCld, and Mrs. Andrew
Sundvold, and her mother,
Mrs. Sundvold of Culbertson
and Froid on a "trip to Mime
sofa spending the week with
relatives.
Mr.. and Mrs. A. J. Briar
have his Siste-, Mrs. Pierce OF
idaho as a house guest. John
and Clara Ann Drew, their
daughter, came from Chey-
enre, Wyoming and were Fri
day overnight guests at Briars
The Darwin Calkins family
Mrs. John Dunbar and Bryan
spent Tuesday and Wednes-
day in Minot with relatives.
MIR. and Mrs. Robert Hether-
ington and two sons arrived
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24

and soon will be on their way to new Jobs. 1t i
proud moment for you and great climax TO
time, planning and saving that have gone into II
your greet adventure in home ownership.
without attempting TO disturb the illusion. may
odd note of coution:
You are now on your own The folks who eonsfrue
your home have turned over the keys. You ore
new manager. The responsibility of mointenon
the problems of protection and conservation of
major properly investment ore now up to you.
decisions you make can determine whether y
home will be q source of continuous worry 0
sound, long term investment in better living an
wise financial program.
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24
LEGAL NOTICES
CALI, FOR. RInS

GALL FUK BIDS
RICHLAND COUNTY, MON
TANA will accept bids on two
~ 1854 heavy duty gravel trucks.
Bidders may obtain Specifications
at the Clerk and Recorders Of
flee in the Sidney Courthouse.
Bids will be opened in the Com
missioners' Room at 1000 o'clock
AM. on Monday, August 5, 1868.
BOARD OF COUNTY
COMMISSIONERS, RICEILAND
COUNTY, MONTANA
Melvin T. Bakken, Member
publish July II, "a and 81,
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24
NOTICE

The Little Missouri Ranch
ers Association wish to ex-
press their sincere appreciation
and thanks TO the Sidney Cham
Der of Commerce, the Sidney
National Bank, Richland Nat
ional Bank, Yellowstone Live
stock Commission and all
others who have given us such
active support in our opposi-
ton to the proposed National
Park Service Parkway con-
Meeting the units of the Theo-
dOre Roosevelt National Mem
Orial Park under Senate Bills
786 and 1913.
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24

portion Of them ore built with moteros from
Bestwoy. At one time your home may have been or
our drafting boards, or perhaps your contractor
used our interim financing service TO compIetesih
structure. But whether your home is still new enc1gt
to smell of fresh paint or approaching ripe, ole
oge :. and whether the moeroIs were supplied b,
US or not +. we do have q specialized interest il
mointoinns its soundness. beauty and intrinsic value
As property owner. we noturolly feel that YOU
property problems can best be solved by firm
ihot speeoizes only in building and construction
materials and their uses. And fuI!-line. full
time" building moferiols deuler We v,v,,,v
s'''s'a '' bring 's' he fSlEa
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24

ul1SI QGNSlOpIIlGIlI.
Clean Grain Storage
One job that grain produc-
ers can do before the busy
harvest season begins is to
clean and repair their stor-
age bins for the new crop.
Although tine clean grain pro
gram has not been in the news
much this past year it is still
very much alive and the Food
and Drug Administration con-
tinues to keep a sharp lookout
for contamination in grain des-
tined for human use.
George Roennhild, entomolo-
gist at Montana State College,
says that birds and rodents are
the most common causes of
contamination in Montana, and
that the best preventatives is
to make sure bins are rodent
tight and bird proof. Grain
damage from insects is not
too common a problem in Mon
tana, although it does occur
occasionally. Roemhild advises
amy producer who has had
trouble with insects in his
grain to spray the bin with
| DDT after the bin has been
thoroughly cleaned.
If bins have been used for
the storage of seed grain treat
ed with any of the mercury
compounds an extra thorough
job is necessary.
Making sure that bins are
watertight, that there are no
places where birds or rodents
may enter, and that bins are
thoroughly clean before new
grain is stored are all steps
: that will help prevent con-
tamination.
Care of Picnic Foods
The occurrence of more than
10000 cases of food poisoning
each year in the United States
is reason enough to be con-
cerned about food spoilage
l which may lead to food pois-
/; oning.
! A very likely place for food
spoilage to occur is at picnics
Typical picnic foods, such
: as ham and other meats; poul-
t try products such as chickens
r and turkeys; salads especially
J, salads with chicken or tuna
I and potato; and cuStards OF
2 cream-filled desserts such a.
cream pies, are especially sus
l ceptible to spoilage if propel
1 transporting and refrigeration
has not taken place.
| The most common type o
\ food poisoning is staphylococu
\ poisoning. This makes up one
| half of the reported cases eacl
year. Growth of the organism
l on the food causes a build-u,
\ of a poison which would no
Il be destroyed with further hea
treatment.
/ TIomemakerS should be extr
L cautious in preparing an
l transporting picnic foods
l Cleanliness is important in tn
/ preparation of the foods. He
l foods should be given adequat
l heat treatment before bein
taken to the picnic area, an
/ proper refrigeration is a mus
/ If food is to be transporte
and eaten within am hour, ther
l is little danger of food Spoi
1 age. For delays of more tina
1 one hour, ice chests or othe
1 cooling methods should be use
I in transporting the food. Lef
1 over foods should be refrigers
4 ted Immediately or disposed o
/ and NOT left on the picnic tax
1 les for later consumption.
HI Fashions of Today
HI FaShions-conscious girls an
4 women are wearing shifts tt
4 day-straight, belted-in, or A
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land leveling company.

a land leveling company.
Mrs. c, E. Varco returned
last week from Missoula where
she spent two weeks at the
home of her daughter, Mrs.
Leo Smith and also enjoyed
being with her granddaughter
and her husband, Capt. and
Mrs. Donald Erickson and lit
tie daughter Kathleen. Capt.
Erickson is stationed at Trav-
erse AFB in California and
had come to Montana to take
the dental state boards which
were held in Butte. Mr.. and
Mrs. Smith brought Mrs. Var
CO home and visited here for
a week.
The Sidney herald., 1963-07-24
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Regardless of what you have
tried or how hopeless your
case. NEPHRON could an
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ing results. See your Drug
gist for NEPHRON.
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The SUNDAY STAR

about It," He declared his
contract null and void and
this was upheld in the courts.
Actually in this third year
with Maverick Garner got
himself a new. agent who
negotiated a fresh contract
which paid him $1,000 a week,
But I never went on
suspension and I kept quiet
about the situation. 1t was
only when I got ulcers that
my doctor told me, Don't
hold anything in.'"
"You can call 1t luck or
timing, but If all this had
happened to me 10 years AGO
I might not have been able
to get a job. There was no
Mirisch then, no Ransohoff.
Inc SITUATION is different
today with all the indie
pendents."
"I'm 35. which is the best
age for an actor in Holly
wood. If you look back you
will see that no one made
it before they were 30. Mar
Ion Brando started to be a
star when he was %, but he
clinched 1t when he was 80.
To go back to Warren Beatty.
I don't think he will make 1t
until he is more mature. The
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1963-03-10
Garner Was Lozy One,
So He Became an Actor

1t was more than I made in
all the years I was under
contract to Warmers
I asked the 35-year-old
actor whether 1t was a good
idea to make four or five
pictures q year as he plans
to do. Most Of the top stars
today, with the exception of
David Niven and Laurence
Harvey, are content with two
films a year.
Exposure Makes Stars
CLARK Gable and Jimmy
Cagney made pictures all the
time" James replied. TITS
the constant exposure as
much as anything that makes
a star. That's why the tele-
vision stars are so popular.
You can see Dick Chamber
lain in Doctor Kildare every
week. Warren Beatty who
hasn't made a picture for
two years will never get off
the ground unless he makes
more pictures. I'm just as
glad that Maverick is still
going around. It's on two net
works" This surprised me
because James fought long
and loudly to leave the series.
Il was happy playing Nav
erick for the first two years."
the star conceded. although
! was paid a low salary and
do not get any residuals. I
received $685. a week plus
$2l5 in advance for all resi-
duals. A total Of $500 a week.
This advance residual pay
ment was a trick employed by
the studios in the early days
Of filmed television. I cured
this situation when I became
a vice president of the Screen
Actors Guild. In my second
year with Maverick I was
paid 5000 a week. Here I was
in the top-rated show in the
country and getting this low
salary. Everyone kept telling
me You've got to do some-
thing about It, I said, NO,
I signed a contract But
when Warmers broke the con-
tract, during the screen ac-
tors strike, and took me off
salary. then I did something
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public won't stand for i'm
maturity"
James met his wife at an
Adlai Stevenson rally. They
have two daughters. III o W
about actors in politics." I
asked him.
II don't think an actor
should get involved. He can
say anything he likes to his
friends, but not to the pub
lie. 1t isn't fair to influence
people to vote for my can
didate just because they hap
pen to like me as an actor.
They like the character I'm
playing, not James Garner"