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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-10-29
STOP KILLING YOURSELF
What Is Causing
The Dizziness?
. BY DR.. PETER J. sTElNcRoHN

your help. At this age most
girls develop the breast. But
we have q bump under the
right part of our breasts.
One Of us has had it since
September, another since.
April, and a bump is just
starting in the third.
We want to know why 1t
is there, and what it is? Does
this happen just to certain
girls, or Is it just q regular I.
part Cor beginning part) OF
growing up? We want to-
know if it's serious because
we are worried, trying to-
think If it is serious or not
Signed: Three Readers" n
1 THINK you can stop
worrying. The fact that ahs
three have the same kind Of
problem Is pretty good in
dication that it isn't any
thing serious. But read on.
Here is what I'd like you to
do. Serious or not. better tell
your parents you are worried.
Show them this answer, If
need be. Tell them you'd feel
better if you went to your
doctor and had him check on
it. Only he can tell you def
initely that everything is all
right. And don't let your
folks talk you out Of it.
Sometimes parents are en-
tirely unaware of the ankle
cites and Illustrations their
youngsters suffer. They'd
rather you didn't keep things
from them.
** -
Dear DR.. Steincrohn: At 81
years Of age I still have my
regular periods. Is this un-'
usual or dangerous at my
age? OF my six children the
youngest is 9-years. I have
heard of women taking shots
to stop at so years Of age.
Shall I2-Mrs. T.
I HAVE known some wo--
men to have their normal
period in their late so. But,
chances are. yours will cease
quite soon. And let nature
take care Of it. Don't 60
fooling with shots"
BELL Syndicate Feature)
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-10-29
MAKING MARRIAGE MORE REWARDlNG-7
You Have Got to Be a New You

change is going to take place,
no matter what; the vital con-
sideration is not VIII ether e.
husband is going to change his
wife but in which direction he
is going to change her, and the
wife the same.
Anyone who has ever talked
Of inspiration has talked Of
change. II we are inspired by
q Lincoln or q Voltaire or a
Jane Adams, then we are
propelled by their influence in
the direction Of change. We
want to change ourselves to
measure up a little more to the
values for which they stand.
AS children, we build ourselves
largely out of the ideals We.
find exemplified in others, and
as adults we go on through
the world surveying its people,
and selecting those we choose.
to emulate in one way or ans
other. ~
1t is out Of admiration, one
Of the ingredients Of love, that
we choose the individual with
whom we wish to blend and bes
come one in marriage. II that
individual brings about in us
change in the direction Of the
very qualities we admired, do
we not gain thereby?
Rather than husband and
wife asking guiltily, "Am I
changing my mate?" the ques-
ton should be, I'm what de
rectipn am I changing my
mate?" If the change is for
the better, then this, happily
is another of the dividends Of
successful marriage.
A man married 20 years told.
me recently Of a classmate he
had met at a college reunion.
MY wife and knew this fellow.
in our early years Of marriage"
he related. "He married at
about the same time we did,
My wife was always holding
him up to me as an example
Of the calm and easy-going
husband. He didn't make any
demands on his wife. or crowd
her personality, or try to make
her over.
mo, he didn't do any Of those
nasty things that lots Of us
other poor, benighted husbands
do. But, you know. at the class
reunion / found out one thing
he did do. Fl
HE divorced her!" ~
Copyright, 1862, BY Howard WHITMAN
TOMORROW: First Aid for Fights.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-10-29
WORLD ECHOES
North American Newspaper Alliance

HUGO AFFOL TER, a
grocer in Bern, closed up his
shop to go hunting on open
ing day of the shooting
season. He put this sign on
the store: CLOSED on Account
of Opening"
Oa Liberte, Fribourg)
JACQUES HUET and
Andre Poher suffered minor
injuries when their cars
collided head on at Anjou.
Both men are Paris traffic
policemen. Huet was rushing
off to his vacation, and
Poher was hurrying home
from his.
4. Gle Pogres, Lyon
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Wolf Disney
BY Rupe


get out, but he turned it
down. "I1l stay" he said, "as
a buck private" He stayed.
They transferred him to
Cherry Point. Within a year,
he was voted Marine of the
Month. No amount of extra
duty could make him blink
those blue eyes, nor ruffle
that skin haircut.
When he got out, he won an
honorable discharge. On his
way home to Massachusetts,,
he stopped in New York to
thank Berman again. What
are you going to do?" the
lawyer said. Matt shrugged.
Keep praying every day for
the souls of those six kids"
he said.
Berman had done a job
which, in military jurispru-
dence, ranks with anything
Clarence Darrow ever did and
he did it-not for money-but
because a judge had asked
him to go south and interview
a prisoner and see if he de-
served counsel. Berman had
returned home, picked up the
hanging threads of cases he
had left in New York.
LAST WEEK, I spoke to
Berman. The voice sounded
untouched by time. He is
running for district attorney
in his home county. 4.
ID. A.?" I said. Il know a
lot of writer's who would vote
for you, but they don't live in
your county" "I'll return
the compliment" he said.
when I'm elected, I want
try them for crimes they
don't commit"
King Features Syndicate. Inc.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-10-29

force colonel In Burma in
the war.
He was entitled to wear
three medals, including the
Distinguished Flying Cross.
He had a wife and two chill
dren and lived in Roslyn
Heights, Long Island. He
was known, in New York,
as a lawyers lawyer. The
thing which endeared him to
the reporters was that he
could make droll stories of his
own early mistakes.
The sun never sets on Par
ris Island. 1t can be felt on a
wet sheet at 3 AM. The case
went on, day after day, week
after week. Berman made the
judges forget McKeon. The
Marine Corps, he said, was on
trial. The system Of training
boots was the issue. One after
another, he paraded sergeants
to the stand and each one ad-
mitted that he had often dis
ciplined a platoon by march
ing it, in full gear, through
the boondocks.
Before it was over, Berman
had the Marine Corps COM
mandant on the stand, and
also 1t. Gen. Chesty Fuller.
the hero of Peleliu. They not
only testified. but backed the
tough discipline of the drill
instructors. When the verdict
came in, Emile lola Berman
had not only won the ad-
miration of the court, but he
had infused new spirit in Nc
Keen, too.
McKeon served II days. He
was busted from rank. The
corps gave him a chance to
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twice and let others accumu-
late for six months. 1t was a
pain to Margaret for the first
three years of their marriage.
But Harvey grew up and
changed. As he put 1t on the
tenth of one month when the
desk was cleared, tits so much
easier to live organized"
In big things, in little things,
successful marriage is a con-
tinuing growth process.
ooh, but I don't want to lose
my individuality" asserts the
wife or the husband.
OF course not. But since
when does individuality mean
stasis? Since when does it mean
rigidity? Since when does it
mean refusal to open up, to
move, to bend, to change, and
to grow?
"But I don't want anyone
to dominate me-" persists the
rugged individual.
Does the teacher dominate
you when you emulate him?
Domination implies restriction.
The rigid individual restricts
himself. The loving individual
frees himself: he pours his per-
sonality willingly into the cha
lice of marriage to blend with
the personality Of the one he
loves. n
One Life Together
One of the most reactionary
doctrines of our day is the no.
ton of separateness in mar
riage. 1t belongs in the 1920s.
along with ankle-length skirts,
dance marathons, and needle
beer. Remember the freedom
compacts? well be married
but we'll each have our own
life. too" This was regarded
as chic, modern, emancipating.
But you can't have your cake
and eat it, too, as any school
boy knows and many a couple
has found out. The vogue OF
independence in m arriag e
fizzled, and today many an
adviser who once toyed with
the separate lives" theory rec
ognizes that this is precisely
what it leads to: separate lives.
Said Judge Julius Miner in
a Chicago divorce case, "You
can't have independent lives
that's not marriage" Indeed,
the essence of marriage is not
to lead ones own life but to
lead one life together.
Face it. You do not marry
to be yourself. You marry to
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was described by the 18th
century poet, Wilton cowper, os
the "onIy bliss Of Porodise thot hos
survived the foIl." II hos also been
characterized in our time by iokester
Joe E. Lewis as q blond oIlionee
between "humdrum you and monot-
onous me-" Which is it? II con be
either. In this series, Howard Whit
mon, noted writer on human offoirs,
points woys to make your own mar
riose more vibront, more exciting
more like you olwoys dreamed it
would be.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-10-29

be q better half. Ad do not
think of this as compromise;
it is growth.
The Greek philosopher Her
aclitus concluded that change
is the basis of all reality. Stu
dents of philosophy still pom
der his maxim, zone cannot
step into the same sire a m
twice." II change is so essen
tial to existence, why do we
fear it? AS someone said, Life
is like the North Pole -if you
stand still, you freeze to death"
Standing still has undoubtedly
accounted for many frozen
marriages.
A Phony Doctrine
Our generation. one Of whose
distinctions is the highest di-
vorce rate in history, was raised
on the theory that changing"
or making over" ones mar
riage partner is very, very bad.
This became virtually the
eighth deadly sin during the
Freud-intoxicated period which
brought forth progressive edu-
cation and "reminiscences. AS
parents were told by the sages
of this persuasion to allow
their children to express
themselves" without let or him
drance, so the husband was
counseled to accept his wife
exactly as she was and to want
nothing more than for her to
continue being her own sweet
self, and the wife vice versa.
Any attempt by the one to
change the other was seen as
heresy.
Experience with this doctrine
has proved it highly tinctured
with bunkum. It is impossible
for two people to live together
without changing each other.
The nearest they can come to
avoiding this process is to be
so totally indifferent tn t
neither is sufficiently exposed
to the other to be influenced.
Man and wife begin to Gre
ate a new joint personality on
their wedding day, and each
contributes to the entity which
emerges, thus influencing 1t,
while at the same time he is
himself influenced in like mea-
sure. It would be q static
marriage, more like death than
life, which brought about no
change in the partners.
The important point which
the opponents Of old-hat psy-
chology have missed is that
Evening star., 1962-04-11

premature and superficial con-
cluSions."
The Rev. David Colwell, min
ister Of First Congregational
Church here and a representa-
tive of the United Church of
Christ, said the conversations
did not erect any roadblocks.
The atmosphere was excellent,
and the future is open, but
there is an awful lot of work
to be done. 1t is not going to
be done in a short time"
Interest in the proposal has
been remarkably sustained, :"
DR.. Eugene Carson Blake of
Philadelphia. stated clerk of the
United Presbyterian Church,
asserted. At this meeting a
of formal and basic
decisions carried us much far
ther along than we dared to
hope"
1t was sermon delivered by
Evening star., 1962-04-11
Hearing Is Set
In Water Dispute

RICHMOND. April IL CAPJ.
The State Corporation Com.
mission has set May "a for a
hearing in the dispute between
the Alexandria Water Co. and
the Fairfax County Board of
Supervisors and Fairfax County
Water Authority. -.
The Fairfax board has IN
Stituted condemnation proceed
ings against the properties Of
the water company in Fairfax
and Prince William counties.
The company contends the
board and an agent for the
county water authority have no
power to act unless the sec
decides the issue on the basis
Of public convenience and
necessity.
Evening star., 1962-04-11

both for two-year terms. Mr.
Parlin is one of the six presi-
dents Of the World Council OF
Churches.
Progress Satisfactory
A statement expressing salts
faction with the progress made
during the two days was issued
at the concluding session yes
terday. 1t emphasized that mo
attempt to reach agreement in
areas Of difference" was made,
but rather I'VE have sought to
isolate issues that need further
study and Qualification" Dur
ing the period preceding the
next meeting committees will
explore the different questions
raised by the varying traditions
Of the churches involved.
Among those to be studied
are the historical basis for the
Christian ministry that is found
Evening star., 1962-04-11

DR.. Blake on December 4, 1860,
in Grace Episcopal Cathedral,
San Francisco, that initiated
the discussions Of possible
union of the four major
churches.
Move Sparked in 1860
Washington area delegates
to the meeting were DR.. Nor
man L. Trott. president of
Wesley Theological Seminary,
Methodist; the Right Rev.
Robert F. Gibson, jr., of Rich
Episcopal Bishop of Vir-
ginia; DR.. Charles D. Kean,
rector of Epiphany Episcopal
Church; DR.. Theodore o.
Wedel, warden emeritus of the
College of Preachers, Washing
ton Cathedral; DR.. David G.
Colwell, minister of First Con-
gregational Church, United
Church of Christ.
Evening star., 1962-04-11

in the Scriptures and the early
church; the origins, use and
standing Of creeds and con-
fessional statements; a restate-
ment Of the theology of liturgy
and the relation of word and
Sacraments.
The final aim, the statement
said. is the possibility Of form
ing "a church truly catholic,
truly reformed, truly evangel-
ical." These conversations, it
added, have shown that further
discussions are desirable.
Hopes Exceeded
DR.. McCord said the meet
ing was more hopeful than
many believed before we came
Six committees met during
these two days. They did not
have a great deal of time to
reach conclusions. One thing
We want to do is to escape
Evening star., 1962-04-11

Methodist Church, e.s million
members; Protestant Episcopal
Church, 35 million members; ;
United Presbyterian Church,
U.S.A.. 3.3 million members, and
the United Church of Christ,
% million members.
If the three churches to be
invited accept the invitation,
the next meeting in March,
1868, will represent seven
Protestant denominations hav-
ing more than % million mem
berS.
Elect Chairman and Secretary
Delegates to the two-day
of the Consultation on
Church Union yesterday elected
DR.. James I. McCord. president
Of Princeton Theological Sem
mary. as chairman and Charles
c. Parlin of New York, noted
Methodist layman, as secretary.
Evening star., 1962-04-11
Three Churches to Get
Bids to Merger Talks
BY CASPAR NAMES
Star Staff Writer

Representatives of four major Protestant
concluded woday meeting here yesterday church union
by agreeing to invite three church future
situations
The three denominations International Con-
venon of Christian Churches Disciples of Christi 8 million
Evening star., 1962-04-11

Delegates to the Consultation
on Church Union held at the
College of Preachers. Washing
ton Cathedral, represented the
Evening star., 1962-04-11

members; the Evangelical
United Brethren Church. 750.-
600 members, and the Polish
National Catholic Church, 2SO.-
600 members.
Evening star., 1962-09-16
PunheIIenic
Association
Plans MeetinQ

Plans for the coming years
activities will be made at the
Saturday luncheon meeting
of the Washington Panhel-
lenic Association to be held
at the home of Mrs. Paul c.
Hartman. Mrs. John r.
INNER, president. Alpha Xxi
Delta. will be hostess.
Other new officers include
Mrs. Howard Abernathy,
Beta Sigma Omicron, vice
president; Mrs. John c.
Kenealy. Delta Gamma, cor
responding secretary; Mrs.
Robert M. Stearns, Chi
Omega, recording secretary;
Mrs. Robert Douglass, Sigma
Sigma Sigma, treasurer, and
Mrs. Bruce Mcpherson,
Gamma Phi Beta, historian.
Evening star., 1962-09-16
KEENLY INTERESTED
Kennedy Likes
The Rose Garden

Editors note: The outhOE, q vet
eron Washington correspondent, is
on omoteur sordener who grows test
roses for several leading rosorions.
ANIMALS such as phlox, orien-
tai poppies, chrysanthemums.
iris, cannas, shasta daisies,
anchuSa, rudbekia, lythrum,
delphinium, snapdragons,
zinnias and marigolds.
The garden is tended by
william Ruback, a 29-year-
old horticulturist of the Ma
tional Park Service, with the
help of one assistant. Ru-
back, a native of Lansford.
Pa, got a Bachelor of Sci
ence degree from the Uni
versity of Maryland in 1858.
He has been gardening since
he was 16 years old, but says
this is the first time he has
taken care of an outside
garden ION the professional
level"
Pest Problems
He has trouble with insect
pests and plant diseases, Just
as every home gardener. This
season has been particularly
bad for blackspot on roses.
He sprays fermate for black
spot and mildew, uses sevin
to kill Japanese beetles. kel-
thane and malathion for red
spiders and aphis.
Ruback said he feeds the
grass with an organic urea
1856 fertilizer, and an or
ganic 1866 for the flower
beds. He mulches the beds
with Michigan n peat moss,
but said he has to compen-
safe for acidity where flow
ers want a neutral soil. He
plans on adding q lot of
sand to one flower bed where
the drainage has been poor.
The gardener uses q Is
gallon power sprayer. but
said he gets to spray only
when the Kennedys are away
from the White House. This
is not because anyone is
afraid of poisoning the Pres
ident-the chemicals are not
that toxic in the open air,
but some of them leave an
unpleasant odor.
Ruback takes a great pride
in the White House garden.
1t has to be the best, he
says, simply because 1t be-
longs to the White House,
the home Of our President.
Evening star., 1962-09-16
ZIPPERS

Imosine -. q Upper thofs truly q
home sewers delight the new
Talon Zephyr. This omazing Upper
won't pinch. bite or snog because
it's nNon coil, not metal. lightweight
too. and il sews as slim as q seam.
See it demonstrated during Fobri-
eonzo by Miss Frauke Wiets. From
35c to Csc
Evening star., 1962-09-16

Zoe fare permits 2 hours shop.
ping, TuHs every S minutes at
regular bus stops on F, zth and
6th Streets, M.
Evening star., 1962-09-16
BUTTONS

The finishing touch that insures q
professional look to home fashions
:. foshion buttons by 3. G. E.
Originates from France, ItoIy, Jopon,
England, Western Germany, Spain,
Holland and the U. S. A. We show
just sompling from our collection
of unusual sizes, shapes, textures,
foshion-keyed coIors. 15c to 900
Evening star., 1962-09-16
TRIMMINGS

Create look thot's yours alone with
our unUsuoI ribbons and trimmings.
Tropunto Ribbons can circle your
waist, trim q sweater or hem or
shape q head piece. IFS up TO you
and your imagination. 75c to 600
House of Fronken Trimmings give
any foshion in your wardrobe q
touch of glitter or elegance. Choose
sequins, rhinestones, mock pearls,
velvet or lace oppIiques, wool
broids. yard, Soc to $500
W&L- Notions, Buttons and Trimmings -.
Washington Store
Evening star., 1962-09-16

Self-heoling Zephyr
in action: d
i: If threod is cuvaht,
simply bend the 'nyIon.
Upper in half
2. Pull open and rsIsoss
thread
8. Zip down once post
breok
4. Zip up TO the top
S. Upper Is restored TO
proper working order
Evening star., 1962-09-16
Only One AA Award

The only rose in the garden
to win an All American
award is peace, a Meilland
introduction from France,
rated 9.6 out of a possible
10 points in the All-America
rose selections (AARS), and
generally considered to be the
best rose of all time. 1t is
used as a tree rose in the
White House garden, al
though peace is a vigorous
grower for such a delicate
purpose.
President Kennedy also ac-
cepted 40 plants of Speaker
SAM" named after the late
Speaker Sam Rayburn, from
q nursery at Tyler, Tex.
Marketed commercially for
the first time last spring, it
has not yet obtained a rating
from the American Rose So
city. In the Washington cli-
mate it somewhat resembles
peace. yellow with a tint of
pink.
Notably missing from this
garden are some of the newer
and better varieties intro
duced in recent years by out
standing American roSarians,
including the Jackson & Per-
kins Company of Newark,
N. Y. Also missing are some
!. of our favorite perennials and
Evening star., 1962-09-16

All Stores Open Early, Open Late Mondays
East Cleveland leader. [volume] (East Cleveland, Ohio) 1942-1970, 1962-01-18
Home Owners,
Ace SIS or Over

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seniors presently living in homes
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time necessary for lsisvreIy tron-
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selection Of future fenonts.
The whole story will show this is
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10 enjoy the best years Of their
lives. So without obligation on
your port or ours, write Box IS.
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Thank You.
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HOUSEHOLD GOODS

ICE skates. sizes 7ia and 9, "a each:
table model television, good pic
ture, S16.88; child's 2-speed record
player, like new, So; Magic Chef
36-inch gas range, very clean, $40;
Westinghouse automatic. washer
and dryer. both for $50. Al Used
Furniture, 38113 Second It,,
Willoughby, 946-2843.
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WANTED TO RENT

GARAGE space to park car. near
Lake Shore blvd. and East 222nd
ST. 73l 1884.
Q OR 3 furnished rooms: East l65th-
st. Clair area. kE. 1896.
COUPLE, l8-year-old son and Chi
huahua dog want 5-room upper
of 2 family, unfurnished; Euclid
Noble area. PO. 1879.
URGENT: Boy Scout executive de-
sires 3-bedroom home, Euclid vi
cinity; 3 boys, ages 1-4-6: close
to public schools: will pay to
sl25. Phone RE. 1878.
East Cleveland leader. [volume] (East Cleveland, Ohio) 1942-1970, 1962-01-18

ELECTRIC dryer. $40; boys skates
size Z. So; picture window drapes
$40; lamp, end tables, S5 each
wicker porch set, S5; 9x12 rugs
fair condition. 1929 Pennington
PO. 1888.
East Cleveland leader. [volume] (East Cleveland, Ohio) 1942-1970, 1962-01-18

2l-INCH Admiral television. shop
serviced; s3s; "A Gu. #. Norge
frigerator-freezer, 12l Id. freezer
capacity, was S499. reduced to
clear, $355. with trade. Pummels,
VIII. 2-4324.
2 STEP tables. coffee table. S35. Call
VIII. 3-3467, after 4 pm.
Evening star., 1962-04-22
Judgment Hits
Where It's Felt

HOLLYWOOD CNANA). -
Judgment at Nuremberg" is
now driving home its message
where it will do the most
good.
One of the questions most
often asked Of Producer STAN
ley Kramer in press confer
ences prior to his world pre-
miere of the movie last De-
cember in West Berlin was
whether any of the Nazi legal
knaves pictured were still &C
tive in the German judiciary.
Kramer pointed out that sew
eral still were in powerful
places-and the results of his
celluloid and oral indictment
are now being felt.
Political demonstrations re-
sulting from the pictures run
there have forced the retire
ment of Judge Hermann
Markl, accused of having
acted as a prosecutor in a
Nazi trial that sentenced a
Jewish businessman to death
in 1912 for racial infamy."