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riage on the forward move.
Here are five suggestions:
1-Take up an interest to-
gether. Since you were mar
ried. there has probably been
much in your lives to pull you
in diverse directions. A man is
drawn out toward his work and
the office; a woman is drawn
in toward her children and
home. Gone may be the days
when. during courtship, they
played tennis together, swan
together, or tried to improve
their bridge game together.
Now is the time to reach out
for something new. a direction
which can absorb mutual in
terest, whether it be listening
to symphonies. collecting an
tiQues, or learning to ski.
How TO Move Forward
People do get stale if they
do not constantly refresh their
minds and imaginations. There
is a tendency in all of us to-
settle back. to retire a bit from
life. We are poorer for it. So
are our marriages. The spark
of enthusiasm, of learning, Of
doing, can add new vibrancy
to marriage, can keep it NOV
ing in the right direction
forward.
ASK your mate questions
A question is quite a compli-
ment when the questioner sim
cerely wants to know your
thoughts and opinions. Too
often, we take our mates
thoughts and opinions for
granted. What questions we do
ask are, for the most part, mat
ters of, routine: What time
will you be home, dear?" !
DO you want me to invite the
Murphys for dinner?" i
Jimmy wants to go to the
movies Friday night. Is it all
right?"
How about some real ques-
tions to show that you value
your mates ideas? If your wife
has. just finished reading a
book, what a compliment to
her if you were to ask her sin
cere questions on her evalua-
ton of the book, her reaction
to it, her viewpoints about it.
Or. if the two of you have been
to the movies. how much more
there is to ask than, "Well,
how did you like it?" Any hus-
band would be gratified we're
his wife sincerely to solicit his
analysis of the movie.
Ask About Anything
Ask about India, ask about
President Kennedy, ask about
Wall Street, ask about Canav-
eral, ask about Laos-or ask
about whether the schools are
teaching what they ought to
teach, whether the younger
generation is going to the dogs
or how about the fluoridation
Of water, the communications
satellite, the newest country in
Africa-or whatever interests
you-but ask about something.
Show that man or woman you
love that you are interested in
what he or she thinks.
"a passionate interest in the
others ideas" was listed as es-
sential to the intimacy of mar
riage earlier in this series.
3-Discuss new ideas. Your
daily newspaper is a showcase
for the newness of the world.
Our world is never quite the
same from day to day-and
neither can you be. When we
are young, we think a person is
stimulating and exciting if he
is full of new ideas and things
to talk about. No less so after
we have been married a few
years or a few decades.
In marriage we may settle
down, but we should never
settle back. Alertness in new
events, aliveness to new ideas,
are the lubricants which keep
our minds running swiftly and
smoothly; they also keep us
interesting as people.
4-LOOk at the stars" It is
a rare courtship that doesn't
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said to his wife. II love you
more than any man in history
has ever loved any woman. :"
When he was older and wiser,
he said, Tn 50 far as /, am
able to love. Iflove you"
The man had learned a
great truth; that being able to
love is quite an accomplish
ment, loving quite a talent. AS
a psychiatrist friend of mine
put it's *
ITO exclsim. I love your is
really quite a boast. We ought
to be more modest. We ought
to say, I love you to the ex-
tent that I am capable Of CIV
ing love- or When 1 am in a
good state of adjustment and
able to love at all, you are the
one I love.'i'
Love is an achievement
quite a rare and important
achievement. Thus, the mod
ern psychologist speaks of the
ability to love" as the musi-
clan might speak OF the ability
to create or appreciate music.
People believe that nothing is
easier than to love-" says DR..
Erich Fromm. But on the con-
trary-while every human be-
ing has a capability for love,
its realization is one of the
most difficult achievements"
Here is a continuing chal-
lenge for marriage. Some
naively think that marriage
begins at the zenith of love
and has no direction to go but
downward. One sceptic de-
scribed marriage as "a meal
with the dessert first" But to
any couple who have achieved
successful marriage over many
years, it is crystal clear that
the wedding is but the COM
mencement. A#
Real love, at the altar, is not
so much a fact as q possibility.
1t begins to grow and thrive
the years together. One
wife who, with her husband,
had achieved a brilliant love
relationship said on her goth
anniversary, And to think we
believed we knew all about
love when we got married."
The love Of person" says
DR.. Harry Overstreet, implies
not the possession of that per-
son, but the affiliation of that
person. 1t means granting him,
gladly, the full right to his
unique humanhood. One does
not truly love a person and yet
seek to enslave him-by laws
or by bonds of dependence and
posseSsiveness."
DR.. F'romm puts it, this way:
ITO love a person productivity
implies to care and feel respon-
sible for his life, not only for
his physical existence but for
the growth and development
Of all his human powers .
1t is the expression of intimacy
between two human beings un-
der the conditions of the pres
ervation of each others in
tegrity."~ 8
Love might be called the soil
in which the loved one grows.
1t enriches him without limit
ing or restricting him. 1t is
basically a giving operation.
though we often think of it as
taking.
Don't Stond Still
The 18th century Georgian
poet, Shota Rustaveli.- wrote:
That which you give away is
yours; that which you keep is
lost" ......
Think on this when you
think of love-
Marriage is a living, growing
state; don't settle for the status
quo. Nature hates to stand
STILL. Marriage. like all other
human relationships, is con-
Stantly on the move. The ques-
ton: which way is it going?
There is much that both of
you can do to keep your mar
Evening star., 1962-11-10
BY DAISY CLELAND
Star Staff Writer

The National Guard Ar
mory was transformed last
night into a vista of fabulous
room exhibits and a play
ground for Washington Of
ficialdom and society to sip,
champagne and try the twist,
To top it all. this was for
the benefit of the Washing
ton Hospital Center School
of Nursing.
The event was a cham
pagne preview of Beauty of
Design, a fund-raising party
to kick off the National Cap
ital Home Furnishings Show,
which opened to the public
today and will last through
the 18TH Both the party and
the show are sponsored by
The Star.
The exhibits fill the huge
expanse of the Armory, but
for last nights party the COR
ner that was most popular
took on a cafe effect and
weary wanderers sat at small
tables for a glass of cham
pagne while the more hardy
toured the exhibits and then
took a turn on the dance
floor.
Ribbons Shipped
Highlights of the evening
included the opening or "rib-
bon shipping of the official
Government exhibits Of ia
pan, Denmark and France.
Doing the honors for these
were the Japanese Ambassa-
dor. and Mrs. Asakai. the
Danish Ambassador and the
Countess Knuth- -Winterfeldt
and the French Counselor
and Mrs. Pierre Pelen.
Assisting from the benefit
committee were Mrs. VIII
liam C. Foster, chairman;
Mrs. E., Fontaine Broun and
Mrs. Arthur George Syran,
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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23

The principal security con-
trolls at this time consist of an
embargo on exports to Red
China, North Korea and North
Wet Nam; an embargo on ev-
erything to Cuba except GER
tain foods and m e defines;
broad controls over exports to
Russia and Eastern Europe;
limited restrictions on military
items to the Congo, and limit
ed controls over exports to the
free world to prevent trans
shipment to the Soviet bloc.
But Senator Heating COM
planned that instead of apply
ing IAN economic squeez
against the Reds, the free
world over a period of years
has made a substantial con-
tribution to building up Soviet
economic strength"
I'm the process we have for
feited one of the most power
full weapons we have in the
protracted struggle against in
ternational communism" he
continued. THE amendment I
have offered is designed to help
reverse this trend"
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23
Keoting Rups Red-BIoc
rode Policy as Vague

Senator Heating, Republican
OF New York, charged today
that present policies governing
American trade with Commu-
mist countries are Inadequate,
vague and Illogical"
He made the charge as the
Senate met in an unusual Sat-
urday session to extend the Ex-
port Control Act and make it
permanent.
Senator Heating will ask the
Senate to vote on three amend
mentS to clarity existing policy,
call for disclosure of more in
formation about exports and
Stiffen penalties for violation
of the law.
In reporting the bill from
the Banking Committee, Sena-
tor Sparkman, Democrat of
Alabama, said that two types
OF control are being exercised,
one for security and the other
to avoid short supply of COM
modities in this country.
He said security controls are
designed to regulate and, where
appropriate, to stop the flow of
strategic commodities directly
or indirectly to the Sino-Soviet
bloc.
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VA Burrinq
Segregation
In Funerals
By the Associated Press

The Veterans Administration
has instructed all of its hos
pital directors to put a non
discrimination clause in con-
tracts for funeral and burial
services.
A spokesman said yesterday
the agency issued a circular
letter June l to the directors
stating that the new policy is
to become effective June 80.
The circular said those in
situations which have separate
contracts covering funeral and
burial services for persons of
different races must cancel
them effective June 80 and
promptly enter into new con-
tracts with an anti-discrim-
ination clause. The clause must
provide something like this:
"All contractors must fur
nish such services for all ELI
gible beneficiaries of the VA
without regard to race, creed,
color or national origin of the
beneficiary"
The circular also directs
that if the hospital is unable
to obtain contractor who will
agree to the non-discrimina-
ton clause, the director is to
advise the families of deceased
patients to select their own
funeral directors. The families
are to be advised of the fed
eral burial Allowance maxi
mum of $250-and Of the pro-
cedure for filing of claims.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23
CONSTANTINE BROWN
The Rusk Trip to Europe

public service must be duty,
honor, country"
Few Europeans had the OPP
portunity Of reading Gen.
MacArthur's eloquent speech.
But portions Of the much
respected generals state
ments were transmitted to
European chancellerieS. And
those who have read him
wonder how his words tally
with Undersecretary Balls
political philosophy that the
aggressive ring Of the word
victory" implies "all or
nothing" and leaves no room
for accommodation"
But, as q recent visitor
from Belgium stated, "Ac-
commodation implies that the
United States must accom-
modate' itself to the aims Of
the Soviet Union II it Is to
succeed in a USA-USSR CO.
existence; Soviet aims to
overthrow Franco and Sala-
Ear on the Iberian Peninsula,
Soviet aims for q coalition
government in Laos, Soviet
aims to dominate South
America and so on around
the world"
When your reporter inter-
rupted to say that this was
an extreme application Of
accommodation" the Belgian
diplomat insisted it was not.
He said that all our recent
diplomatic actions pointed to
the same final goal: placat-
ing the Soviet Union even at
the price Of further dam
aging the Western defense
structure.
Mr.. Rusk is not expected to
spread in Europe the good
tidings that this policy is
changing. On the contrary,
he is expected to argue once
more that our allies would be
wise to be more accommo-
dating and toe the Washing
ton line since it is Washing
ton which bears the major
brunt Of responsibility.
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WSVA Manager
Heads Virginia
Broadcast Group

VIRGINIA BEACH, Va, June
% AP).-Hamilton Shea, gen.
eral manager Of WSVA, The
Washington Stars radio and
televiSion stations in Harrison
burg, was elected president of
the Virginia Association of
Broadcasters yesterday. He sue
ceeds N. Wilbur Kidd, general
manager Of WAYB, Waynes-
boro.
Other officers named at the
final session of the associations
annual convention were Horace
Fitzpatrick. of WSLS, Roa-
noke, vice president, and Rob-
ert c. Wolfenden, general man
ager Of WMEV. Marion, secre-
tary-treasurer.
Directors n amed are Mr..
Kidd; Carl Lindberg, Of WPIK,
Alexandria; Robert H. Smith,
WCYB AM-TV, Bristol; Tom
Chisman, WVEC AM-TV,
Hampton; w. R. Preston,
WRVA, Richmond, and Philip
Whitney, WING, Winchester.
Members voted to meet in
Williamsburg next year, June
1921.
The broadcasters adopted a
resolution expressing appreci-
alton Of the services rendered
by GraySon Headley, of WNNT,
Warsaw, who died recently.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23
-Four Doctors Sued
For S. Million
In Sex Surgery

BUFFALO, N. Y, June %
(AP).-In a SIS million damage
suit a former used car salesman
charges that surgery designed
to transform him into a wom-
an turned him instead into a
sexless freak"
The suit was filed in State
Supreme Court yesterday by
David Reed Cameron, SO. It
names four doctors and Buff
falo General Hospital, where
the operations were performed
in 1860 and 1861. according to
the complaint.
Named as individual defend
ants we're: DR.. Samuel Yochel-
son, a psychiatrist now at st
Elizabeths Hospital, Washing
ton, D. c.; DR.. Leslie H. Backus
and DR.. John R. Paine of Buff
falo and DR.. George F. Koepf
of suburban Snyder.
Mr.. Cameron'S complaint said
that he was told the surgery
would enable him to live a
normal life as a woman. In
stead, the suit said, he was left
"a freak and nonentity, with
out sex or sexal reproduction
organs, male or female"
Mr.. Cameron, who said he also
is known as Joan Carol Reed,
told a newSman he tried wear
ing women's clothes for a time
after the operations but since
has reaSsumed his old identity.
He was dressed in a sports shirt,
Stacks and loafers. His hair was
cut crew-Style.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23
POTOMAC FEVER
BY Pete Wymo
By FLETCHER KNEBEL

Dick Nixon says East Coast don't know the
California politics Well if it's like other states
it's about to against the taxpayer.
From Poor Billie Sol Estes Almanac Early to bed early
to rise. trick your friends and fertilze.
The House kills JFKs farm BILL leaving the surplus prob
lem intact farmers get paid for not growing things
congressman get paid for not solving things
Wall Street ODE To market to market to buy fat
stock. Home again. home again, flat as a rock.
An inventor has up with gadget to do away with
work. It's button to push push-buttons Anybody the
plant operate it-no pull required.
The Pentagon orders SIG million worth biscuits
dough.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23
English Professors Lecture Called
Herald of New Geo-PoIiticuI Era
RALPH McGLL

Now and then a prophet is
proved, by events, to have
been so right that one is
awed by his accuracy.
In a lecture, delivered In
1904 before the Royal Geo
graphical Society Of Great
Britain. a young oxford
teacher of the subject, H. ].
Mackinder. called upon his
colleagues to take a new
look at the physical world, or
planet.
That lecture, entitled 1.-THE
Geographical Pivot of Histo-
ry," marked the opening Of
a new era in the study of
political geography and of
the art of world strategy
which is so closely related to
it.
Mr.. Mackinder looked first
toward the Eastern Henri
sphere. comprising the con-
tinentS of Europe, Asia and
Africa. He showed that it was
a single great land mass sur
rounded by ocean water. He
called this land mass 1.-The
World Island"
He noted that, from the
beginning of recorded hiSto-
ry, the World Island had
been the chief repository of
political power on the planet
and the scene of what had
generally been considered the
most important events in the
history of mankind-in par
ticular, of the rise and fall
of the Empires" and other
organizations of power which
had dominated and largely
nodded the life and the So
cial and economic conditions
of the peoples inhabiting
what was known as the Old
World"
Set over against the Old
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Mount Moriuh Center
To Be Dedicated

Members of Mount Moriah
Baptist Church will name the
religious education building the
j. Harvey Randolph Memorial
Building at a dedication serv-
ice at 3 pm. tomorrow in the
church, Seventeenth and East
Capitol streets.
The Rev. j. Harvey Randolph
served as pastor of Mount
Moriah Church from 1910 I'M
til his death on July 6, 1860.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23
.CopehortFoe
Is Chosen
ByDemocruts

INDIANAPOLIS, June %
(AP).-Senator Homer E. Cape
hart's opponent in his Novem-
Der bid for q fourth six-year
term will be q young State
legislator little more than half
his age. :
Indiana Democrats nomi-
mated State Representative
Birch E. Bayh. IT,, of Terre
Haute for United States Sena-
tor on one ballot at their State
convention at the Indiana
State Fairgrounds yesterday
The margin was overwhelming
but the campaign often had
been bitter.
Senator Capehart was re-
nominated without opposition
at the Republican State con-
vention on Tuesday. Senator
Capehart is IS years old, and
Mr.. Bayh is "a.
Mr.. Bayh, carrying the in
dorSement Of Gov. Matthew E.
Welsh and backed by the DEM
ocratic State organization, re-
ceived 1882 votes to 459 for
Mayor Charles H. Boswell of
Indianapolis and 106 for Mayor
M. Jack Edwards of Marion.
He needed only 1890 votes for
nomination.
Mr.. Boswell left before the
vote count was completed. Mr..
Edwards congratulated Mr..
Bayh for both himself and Mr.
Boswell and said. THE mayors
OF Indiana will stand shoulder
to shoulder, and we'll win in the
fall"
Mr.. Boswell had been bitter
after Gov. Welsh Endorsed Mr..
Bayh during the campaign.
In his acceptance speech, Mr..
Bayh called for unity and said
he will ask all the support ne
can get, including help from
Mr.. Boswell.
There was only one other
contest. The delegates rejected
John S. Gonas Of South Bend
in his bid for denomination to
the appellate court and nom
mated w. Dan Bretz Of Kokomo
in his place. Ten unopposed
candidates were nominated by
reclamation.
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DEAR JOHN
DEAk JOf7N
Mccormick Asked
To Shun State Fight

BOSTON, June % (AP).-
House Speaker Mccormack has
received a Dear John" letter
from his nephew, asking him
to stay out Of the MaSSachu-
sets Mccormack Kennedy po-
litical fight.
Speaker McCormack's neph-
ew, State Attorney General Ed
ward j. Mccormack, jr., is
opposing the Presidents
younger brother, Edward (Ted)
Kennedy. for the Democratic
nomination for the United
States Senate.
Ted Kennedy was Endorsed
for the nomination over Ed
ward Mccormack at the Demo-
cratic State convention on
June 9.
The younger Mccormack
said he will oppose Mr.. Ken
nedy in the open primary on
September 10.
The President and his other
brother, United States Attorney
General Robert F. Kennedy,
have said they will take no di-
rect part in Ted's campaign.
The President said in a news
conference, however. he ex-
poets to campaign for Demo-
cratic office-seekers after the
primary.
Attorney General McCor-
mack wrote a letter to his I'M
Gle yesterday opening with
Dear John" and asking the
Speaker to stand clear Of the
State campaign because Of the
critical Importance Of your
position as Speaker -. :"
The younger Mr.. Mccormack
also said some Of the press
might try to make it a fight be-
tween the Speaker of the House
and the President. He added:
81 cannot take the slightest
risk of jeopardizing the great
fight for Democratic principles
and the security of the Nation
in which you are presently en-
gagged.
Nor can we risk having any
issue before the Massachusetts
voters in this campaign other
than the question as to which
man is better qualified to be a
United States Senator"
There was no immediate COM
ment form the Speaker.
The younger Mccormack is
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23

ney General A. C. Miller, State
House Speaker Carl Burgess
Representative E. Y. Berry and
1t. Gov. Joe Bottum of Rapid
City.
Mr.. Bottum, an attorney, i
considered by some as the hot
test prospect. Mr.. Foss now
lives in Dallas, Tex, where hi
Is commissioner Of the Ameri'
can Football League. Mr.. An.
derson now is in Washington
as a member Of the Fair Labor
Standards Commission. Mr.
Jensen owns a telephone COM
pany at Hot Springs.
Part of the leaning toward
Mr.. Bottum comes from the
informal agreement that each
of South Dakota's Senators
should reside on opposite sides
of the Missouri River that splits
the State. Senator Mundt lives
on the east side, while Rapid
City, Mr.. Bottum's home, is the
largest city in the western part
of the State.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1962-06-23

ROME. - No hopes are
raised among Western Euro
pean leaders that the visit
Of Secretary Of State Dean
Rusk to the main European
capitals will really dispel the
present confusion and fric-
tons with our allies.
There is no indication, for
instance that Washington
has budged from its position
regarding the French claim
to join the ''Nuclear Club"
Or that we have changed in
our way of thinking concern
ing concessions to Moscow
which are unpalatable to
Bonn.
European specialists on
foreign affairs are still try
ing to solve the puzzle of
what the ultimate goals Of
American foreign policy may
be. The contradicting state
mentS-sometimes within a
single speech by President
Kennedy or other high Of
ficials-indicate that Wash
ington is still in a state of
confusion.
The European experts who
have learned the need to
follow closely everything that
is going on in Washington,
including congressional hear
ings. note that during the
hearings in the Senate on
''muzzling the generals" Mr.
Rusk was asked: IF you
found anybody in the State
Department who advocated
a 'no-win policy would you
get rid Of him as fast as you
could?" The answer was,
THAT is correct"
A few weeks later, Under
secretary Of State George
Ball explained to the same
committee that the word
victory" had been deleted