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Evening star., 1960-02-01
BY PATRICIA YAROCH
North American Newspaper Alliance

DETROIT, Jan. 3l.-Mary
and Joe's visit to the mar
riage counselor was a COM
promise.
They had been married for
five years and had two chill
dren, Susan, 3, and Tommie,
18 months. There had been
quarrels during their mar
riage but, then, doesn't
everyone have them?
Trouble increased in the
past year. And three nights
before, when Joe returned
late after bowling with his
team, there was a big blow-up
and Joe asked for a divorce.
The very word shattered
Mary. She didn't believe in
divorce. She felt a marriage
that started out we'll must be
capable of being made well
again.
The next morning, after a
sleepless night, she asked Joe
tc visit the marriage counse-
lor with her. He agreed,
reluctantly and belligerently.
Their Stories Differ
Joe told his side of the
story first:
1--WE bickered about many
things ever since we were
married." he said, "but none
of it ever added up to much.
And our sexual relationship
never suffered from it. Now
even that has smashed up"
Mary had a different ver-
sion.
Joe probably has told you
that our sexual life has been
good even though other
things were wrong" she said.
But it hasn't been. I've been
acting almost from the day we
were married. I know a hus-
band is entitled to his wife's
body, but I can't help think
ing Joe just views me as a
body and that's all. He's
never affectionate unless he
wants to 60 all the way.
Why. I can't remember
the day he last kissed me just
to kiss me-"
So once again the counselor
heard the "old wives tale" Of
marriage. Because Mary, like
many other wives, was a
pretty good actress, Joe
hadn't countered with the
challenge so popular in many
such marriages: my wife is
frigid."
p I'VE have a bad sexual
adjustment" is one of the
most frequent complaints
couples take to marriage
counselors. If this is so bad,
they seem to feel, then the
whole marriage must be.
Sex is important, yes"
said Mr.. Lee Blaskey, assist
ant director Catholic Social
Services of Wayne County.
But it's not as important as
couples have been forced to
Evening star., 1960-02-01
WHY DO WE DIVORCE?
1t Isn't Always Sex

says Mr.. Rutledge. But even
a telephone line can carry
only a limited number of
messages before garbling
them all. So it is with sex.
The breakdown in sex rela-
tionS which are being used
for more than they were in
tended to be may come any
time in the first five years
of marriage.
Men Get Blame
Mary and Joe'S counselor
felt that Joe was using his
and Mary's sex experiences
exactly as such a communi-
cation system. Mary had not
fully understood this.
What about Mary's COM
plant? Do men too often ig-
more the little affectionate
pats wives would like? Or
do women expect too much?
Men get full blame for
their omissions from DR..
Samuel Sharp. pastor of
Bethany Church of God
here. who does a great deal
of marriage counseling.
Too many men don't
realize that while sex is rs
to 30 per cent physical for a
man it is rs to 80 per cent
spiritual for a woman. What
a man must learn is that to-
nights sex began when he
left for work this morning."
Does this mean that Joe
Evening star., 1960-02-01

and Mary should have re-
versed the acting roles
with Joe pretending a furry
of affection during the day
SO Mary would not have to
pretend at night?
Husbands Often Try
"No acting should be neces-
sary," says DR.. Katharine
Greene, Wayne County mar
riage counselor. Showing
marital affection through pet
ting, patting or nuzzling is a
very natural urge, Just as
natural as patting baby.
But we are not brought up to
think we can fondle adults"
However, men do not get
full blame from DR.. Greene.
Husbands often make noble
attempts at being affectionate
right after marriage" she
said. But their wives rebuff
them for being uncouth.'"
Mary and Joe never got
that divorce. Once Mary
realized that she had har-
bored feelings from childhood
that sex was nasty" she be-
gan working at changing her
ideas and building a good
marital relationship.
Joe on the other hand
learned to show affection with
a pat on the shoulder or q
wink across the room.
But more Importantly, says
their counselor, they discov-
cred that other problems
like the sex problem-could
be solved if they just talked
them out.
Next: Mixed bIessine-interfoith
moriose.)
Evening star., 1960-02-01
Chofine Dish
Mrs, r, G., E. Gdi

Mrs. r. G. E.. GditherSburo
I received a lovely copper
and brass chafing dish for
Christmas but haven't the
faintest idea how to use it.
Can any Of you readers help
me?
To begin with, I don't
know how to cook in it. There
are two pans; one fits into
another. Does water go into
the lower pan or is it merely
a means of distributing heat
evenly? What is cooked in
1t? 1 have no recipes for
chaf1ng dishes and can find
no recipe books in this area.
Any chaflng dish recipes as
well as instructions for its
use would be much appreci-
ated. Thank you all for your
help.
Evening star., 1960-02-01

believe in recent years. This
constant hammering on the
subject-using it in almost
all advertising. in movies
and television has thrown
the whole thing out of pro-
portion. Worse yet. We
know that few of those sex
troubles started in the bed.
They are simply reflec-
tionS Of troubles that exist
in the marriage-selfish-
nesses, immaturities, lack of
understanding of one an
other"
Mr.. Aaron Rutledge, of
Merrlll-Palmer School here,
a private school interested
in the family situation,
agrees that culture does lay
a trap for married couples.
He has developed a theory
of what happens in many
Misunderstanding up in the
complaint like Mary and
Joe'S.
Child "Grows Away"
He believes every person
has a need for a feeling of
"nearneSs" with another
person. This is an emotional,
physical and spiritual need.
In a baby this need is an
swered with the skin-to-skin
contact of mother and child.
But as the child grows away
from his mother, he is frus-
trated in getting near" any
one else.
I'VE teach him that if any
other person gets to know
you for what you really are.
he will not like you or will
use the information to hurt
you-in arguments or SUCH"
Even in Gating, says Mr.
Rutledge, boys and girls learn
not to talk about problems
religion, family, houses they
want some day or even about
how much they like the other
person.
Talking about problems
they face too often lead to
arguments and bitterness"
Mr.. Rutledge says, "and if
you let on you like someone
too soon he may frighten
him or her off,"
So couples never learn to
solve problems, says Mr.. Rut-
ledge. Instead they rely on
physical methods to show
how they feel.
In marriage sex becomes
the vehicle for expression"
Evening star., 1960-02-01
EXCLUSIVELY YOURS
Press Club Inaugural
Stars Nixon, Bob Hope

take over his new duties un-
til he paid the dime he owed
on his bill. Somebody
called. rs there a Rockefel-
Ter in the houSe?" And
down in the front row of the
audience there was a quiet
response: mo, but there's a
Nixon" Whereupon the V.P.
left his front row seat and
walked up to Ed to hand
him a dime. And, said Mr..
Nixon, Just to keep the
record straight, I borrowed
it from Jack Kennedy"
TV tycoon Hope, intro
duced by Bob Considine,
started off on a political
note. Speaking of President
Eisenhower's golfing and
foreign travels, he said.
Hes afraid to go to Cuba
and ask what Castro
shoots" Jack Kennedy
uses hair tonic now" he
said. If he isn't nominated
he can always do a Clairoil
commercial" "Adlai's
just going to LA. for the flu
season." Lyndon john
son won't be satisfied until
he runs for President of the
United States or Governor
of Texas. I don't think our
people will vote for anybody
from a foreign country,
though" In Nixon's home
town of Whittier, Calf,
They're so sure he's going
to be President they are now
building the log cabin he
was born in"
On the subject Of Khru-
shchev'S visit to Hollywood:
"Nikita was very f1attered at
going to the luncheon at goth
Century-Fox. He thought the
studio was named after him.
Regarding Rockefeller's
withdrawal from the presl-
dental race: "I thought it
was sad. There went our last
chance to balance the budg-
ct" There was one guy
I didn't think would run out
of gas" But politics is
funny. "One day you're at
Ciro's drinking wine: the
next day you're at Fresno
picking the grapes"
ANOTHER NEW PRESI-
DENT will get a big welcome
in Washington this Thursday
when the head of Smith Col
lege, Thomas Corwin Men
denhall, arrives for a banquet
in his honor at the Shoreham
Hotel that night.
I've never met President
Mendenhall, but as an old
Smith girl I am prepared to
greet him with open arms for
two reasons: Cd AS a men,
Der of the Yale faculty, he
was on the 8-man committee
that two years ago proposed
a stiffening of the curricu-
lum of the undergraduates
first two years, and (2) Right
after his Inauguration at
Smith he had Ella FITZGERALD
sing as a present to the Stu.
dent body. There's a man of
perception.
Mrs. Gerard Smith, wife
of the Assistant Secretary of
State, is in charge of the
reception that will precede
the dinner. Mrs. Robert w.
Wilson is chairman of the
dinner, and as a nice gesture
of co-existence she has in
vited Robert F. Wilson, presi-
dent of the Yale Club here,
and his wife. The head
mistresses, presidents and
Evening star., 1960-02-01
BY BETTY BEALE
Star stan Writer

Star Stan Writer
Vice President and Mrs.
Nixon were still grinning over
Bob Hopes deliciously anus
ing patter when they left the
mems National Press Club in
augural party Saturday night.
Chic (as usuaD in a short,
black, all-over-glittery dress,
Pat said. II have heard him
many times, but I have never
heard him say the same joke
twice"
The ace comedian came
down from New York to star
in the program that saw Ed
Edstrom of Hearst NewSpa-
pers sworn in as the new
president of the press club by
none other than Chief JUS
tice of the United States Earl
Warren.
Mr.. Warren didn't exactly
swear him in-probably be-
cause he S used to swearing
in the President of the United
States and there might be a
little mix-up if he swore in
another president, any type.
But he charged Ed with look
ing after the club for a year
and doing no worse than his
predecessors.
Eds predecessors, inciden-
tally-at least four of them
got into the act in a little
gem penned by two of them,
Jack Horner of The Star and
Ted Koop of CHS.
UNDAUNTED BY THE
KNOWLEDGE that they were
to compete for dramatic lau-
rels with Mr.. Hope, they were
calmly discussing the need
to learn their parts and re-
write their lines as late as
the dinner hour that pre-
ceded the show. Compared to
their relaxed attitude, Mr..
Hope seemed downright edgy.
1t went off just fine
though. Facing the audience
from behind a bar (the at
home touch). Messrs. Horner
Koop, Bill Lawrence and Ben
Grant had no trouble at all
keeping the ball rolling, as
'twere, except when two at a
time tried to read from the
same unseen scripts and
couldn't find the cue.
MAUREEN O'HARA, whose
emerald-green beaded dress
accented her brilliant red
hair and flashing orbs, also
came down from Manhattan
to say a few words on the
program.
She, the Nixons, the War
rens, Bill Hearst, Bob Hope
and his son, Tony, and the
Edstroms all sat at the same
table at the rather small din
ner given in the club restau-
rant at 7 o'clock.
At the sight of tall, dark
and nice-looking Tony, who
is a sophomore at George
town University, Mrs. Nixon
remembered something he
said last summer and chuck
led. She flew back east on a
plane with Tony after visit
in California, and Tony very
kindly offered to baby-sit
for her sometime in WASH
ington. Most of the pictures
of my girls were taken a
long time ago and he thought
they were very young. He's
19 and he didn't know that
Tricia is IA now!" she said
with a delightful giggle.
PRESIDENT EDSTROM
found he couldn't actually
Evening star., 1960-02-01
Eggplant Recipe
To H. T. B., Washinoton

TO H. Z. B., Washington
Mrs. X. v. S., Washington
This is a very easy and
tasty recipe. Cook "a pound
of ground beef in a frying
pan until it is no longer
pink; add several teaspoon
fuls chopped onion. Mean
time. pare and cube and
cook in salted water until
tender, l medium size egg
plant. (This does not take
very long, Mix cooked beef,
eggplant, / medium can of
stewed tomatoes, u cup but
tered bread crumbs and "A
teaspoonful Italian season.
ing IN buttered casserole.
Bake in moderate oven until
well heated and bubbly.
Place slices (or grated
American cheese on top and
when this has melted, serve.
Evening star., 1960-02-01
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Evening star., 1960-02-01
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Evening star., 1960-02-01

The grim stotishe is 1000 United
Stotes divorces every doy. The
rate lost yeor climbed more thon
] per cent over the previous
yeor's. To learn the reasons
behind our staggering toll Of
wrecked morioees. Potrieio Yo-
roeh, Detroit news writer. toIked
with authorities. In this, the
second Of eight articles, she dis
eusseS sex os o moritol problem.
Evening star., 1960-04-10
There will be a record mum

There will be a record mum
Der of cruises this summer.
Most popular will be those
along Americas inland water
ways, the North Cape, the
Mediterranean, Hawaii. Ber-
muda and the West Indies.
The American Express travel
survey for April estimates more
than 100000 vacationists will
cruise the inland waterways
All lines report advance book
ings up 10 to 80 per cent.
The st. Lawrenee-Saguenay
Rivers expect to draw $4,000
Typical trips are those on
Canada Steamships two to
eight-day cruise tours ranging
from SIS, to $199.50.
There also are three special
cruises set from New York to
the Saguenay-July 2 and
August Is aboard Furness
Lines Ocean Monarch and
August Is aboard Swedish
Americans GripSholm.
More than $4,000 vacationers
are expected to take Great
Lakes cruises. Another 5000
will cruise the Mississippi
Ohio and Tennessee Rivers on
the Greene Lines Delta Queen,
An estimate 5000 are ex-
pected to sail to Alaska, and
more than 1900 to Hawaii,
Another $4,000 will head for
Evening star., 1960-04-10
Summer Cruising Due
To Set New Record

: Bermuda and the West Indies,
1 Many Mediterranean cruises
are scheduled to coincide with
the Olympic Games in Rome,
with rates running from $3.50
to $1,100.
Evening star., 1960-04-10
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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1960-05-04
Editor Reports
Summit to Find
U. S. Unprepured

A magazine editor said last
night>-that President Eisen-
hover will be the most forceful
figure at the forthcoming sum-
NIT conference but that the
United States is not prepared
for such a meeting.
Addressing the Crestwood
Citizens Association at Grace
Lutheran Church. Warren Null
len, editor of Foreign Letter,
a bimonthly publication, said
the United States is torn be-
tween opposite points of view
held by Britain and France
concerning Russian strategy on
Berlin. The four-power talks
are scheduled in Paris this
month.
The United States, he said,
is going to the meeting totally
unprepared" and must play
it by ear" The lack of pre-
paredneSs, he said, comes from
lack Of unity between the
Western allies on a nuclear
weapons test ban and disarma-
ment.
Soviet Premier KhruShchev
will use Berlin as a lever to
obtain what he wants at the
summit, Mr.. Mullen declared.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1960-05-04
CRISIS ON THE CAMPUS
Many Colleges Roise
Standards for Entry

the regional accrediting agen-
cies,. their campuses will fill,
too. The high school enrolment
has gone up, and is going still
higher. Many high school grad
yates will leave their classes
every June for the next 10
years. And more of them will
seek admission into colleges.
U. S. Help Necessary
What is the solution? Col
leges and universities are in
the midst of a construction
program Of unprecedented pro-
portions. Within five years they
expect to spend Sc billion for
buildings. laboratories, libraries
and plant equipment. But that
is not enough. Even with the
projected buildings, colleges will
be unable to admit 100000
students who will seek to enter.
1T is imperative that we act
now" declares Arthur S. Flem-
ming, Secretary of Health, Edu-
cation and Welfare. Reliable
enrolment projections warn us
of the need to have vastly
expanded facilities ready for
occupancy in the fall of 1864.
BY that time, there will be
approximately l million more
students in our higher educa-
ton programs than was the
case in the fall of 1859"
Federal aid, in the form of
assistance in building class
rooms and laboratories, is rec
commended by many educators
and Government officials. But
that is not enough. More funds
will have to come from friends
of the colleges - the alumni,
the corporations, foundations
and industrial concerns.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1960-05-04

standards of admission have
gone up. Many colleges that
would have accepted c students
five years ago now insist on B
averages. And the colleges that
considered B adequate several
years ago have gone to A.
But not all colleges are over
crowded.
Students who have not been
accepted by q college should
write Richard Hewitt, director
Of the College Admissions Gen.
ter, Glenbrook High School,
Northbrook, ILL.,. or College Ad-
missions Assistance Center. 585
East Eightieth street, New York
These centerS serve as clear
inghouses where student appli-
cations are scrutinized by those
colleges that still have avail
able room. The college then gets
in touch with the student, Il
he is found to be acceptable.
OF the 1851 applicants re-
ceived last year by the Illinois
group. SO per cent we're con-
tacted by at least one college
And of the 926 received in New
York. 70 per cent later were
enrolled In college.
Favor Own Students
Students should remember
State universities are beginning
to favor applicants from withir
their own borders. They say
their first obligation lies with
parents who support the insti-
tutions.
Typical of this policy is the
case of the University Of South
Dakota. Out-of State student.
must have an average of C OF
better. South Dakota student,
are admitted If they have
graduated from high school
The tuition fee for the STATE
students is $l98 a year. Fol
out-of-Staters it is 1866.
For the next few years many
students will find that TIT
smaller, lesser-known college,
still have available space. Blu
even here the end is in sight
AS the small unaccredited insti,
tutionS get more funds, and &c
recognition from their State o.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1960-05-04

This is the last Of three articles by
the educotion editor Of the North
American Newspaper AIIionce.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1960-05-04
BY BENJAMIN FINE

North American NeWspaper AIIlanee
NEW YORK.-A survey of 80
colleges and universities. made
by North American Newspaper
Alliance. indicates that getting
into college has become both
an art and a triumph.
Despite the many students
who now attend college, the
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1960-05-04

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Evening star., 1960-02-24
NEWS OF MUSIC
Miss SchWorzkoDf
Near Perfection

ert Sanders. a 54-year-old pro-
fessor of music at Brooklyn
College, was commissioned by
the Ford Foundation and had
its first performance in Knox
vile last November. 1t is a long,
conventionally romantic piece,
reminding one repeatedly of
one or the other of Sibelius'
first two symphonies, but with
out either the drive or the bril-
liant scoring of Sibelius.
Several motto expressive pas
sages on the low strings, with
out much accompaniment, turn
the device into a mannerism,
and it seems to me that any
long slow movement that is
little more than a cantabile
recitative for cellos hardly fills
the bill in any symphony. The
composers scheme of recalling
early themes in further reci-
Evening star., 1960-02-24

Elisabeth Schwarzkopf, who
sang last night with the Ma
tional Symphony, is today one
of the most versatile and re-
nowned singers in the operatic
world. The variety of roles she
undertakes is staggering, and
her ability always to compare
favorably with the best in
whatever she does is remark
able.
She has a fine Voice-one of
the finest-but in tho small and
select company she today finds
herself a member Of, it is not
an outstanding, a glorious"
voice. On the rare occasions
she makes excessive demands
on it, it sometimes SOUNDS a
trif1e forced and harsh, and in
its lowest register below middle
c it is not unusually appealing.
If these remarks are accu-
rate, Miss Schwarzkopf is one
of the greatest singers alive
today, for the skill and intelli-
gence with which she promotes
the outstanding qualities of her
singing and minimizes those
less spectacular make every
thing she sings something spe-
cial and something exciting.
She must have few superiors
in the ease and relaxation of
her singing, in the variety of
heI tone-coloring, and in the
charm of her phraSing. The
two arias of Fiordiligi from
"Cosi fan lutte" and the init
mate and reflective closing
scene from Richard Strauss
last opera, "Capriccio," made
an evening of song of seldom
experienced stylishness and
appeal.
The Symphony in A of Rob-
Evening star., 1960-02-24

tative in the last movement
may have distinguished ante
cedents in Berlioz and Bee
thoven. but it is not at all q
success.
For years some of my friends
my peers and my betters have
attempted to show me that the
prelude to Tristan und Isolde"
is the last word in sex, worldly
decay and various human and
violent passions. Alas, to me
it still is what it always has
been-an exercise in third-rate
harmony and exceedingly irri-
tating rhythms. As for the
Liebestod, that monstrous
Evening star., 1960-02-24

merry-go-round that Joyce re.
fers to as "mildewed Lisa's'
music. it simply makes me sick
The phenomenon is instruc-
tive: If music has the un-
doubted power to captivate the
human sensibilities, would there
not be something suspiciously
unreal about the whole busi-
ness if it did not also have the
power to disgust them?
Those who enjoy Wagner will