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as susceptible TO q simple
formula solution. but every
one who attended the ses-
sions felt he got useful in
sight into his problem.
Several Of the grandmothers
felt 1t had been valuable to
recognize the Importance Of
keeping up or developing ties
to the community, through
church, school, club or other
work, so that they stayed in
teresting persons in their
own right.
An unexpected dividend TO
several members Of the second
generation was the oppor-
tunity 1t gave them to think
ahead effectively to the day
when they will be the first
generation. and think how
they want to spend their
declining years.
The first five sessions Of
this pioneering program, all
that originally we're planned,
were such a success the par
Elephants want them to con-
tinue. The Montgomery
County Mental Health As
ISOLATION also, is considering
setting up new groups, If
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jects which are very personal
to many Of them?
There is a Government
statistician and his wife, with
his mother. anxious to iron
out some Of the conflicts -
mostly concerning discipline
ing the family's three little
girls--that developed when
the grandmother. a widow.
moved In three years ago
after q coronary attack.
There is a working couple
he, q program analyst for
the Army controller: she, a
music teacher. Their interest
arose when her mother-who
came to the sessions, too. be-
gan living with them inter-
mittently. (She moves to an
apartment whenever the ten
sions get too great.)
There is the wife OF a
State Department employee,
who came by herself. Her
problem was her father, who
moved in with the family
after a physical breakdown
last year. and whose raging
tempers at his three grand
children had the mother In
despair.
There was a pregnant
mother Of six. who came with
her 75-year-old mother who
shared her time between two
daughters. This couple came,
not because they had O prob
lem, but because the rrand-
mother was interested in the
subject Of aging grand
parents.
Woman, Is, Keeps Busy
The 75-year-old was the
life Of the discussion group,
the rest agreed. Busily en-
gagged in taking college
courses In anthropoloey, the
ology and dramatics, she had
no time for brooding over a
loss of function or status, de-
Ginning health. disrespectful
grandchildren, or the fact
that she no longer Is the cog
wheel In her own busy house
hold-all problems that are
likely to bother grandpar-
ehts. according to DR.. Bloch.
This grandmother, former
ly a social worker with ado.
lescent girls. says she has so
many elderly friends who are
miserably unhappy in their
declining years that she
wanted to study their prob
lens to see II she could help
them.
DR.. Bloch. too, puts great
stress on the positive values
that can come out Of a
grandparents becoming part
Of a second and third genera
ton household.
Moving in the grandpar-
ents should not be thought
Of merely as a desperate last
resort, to which a family is
driven only out Of bitter
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/ they were less set In their
ways and more capable Of adj
justing.
This is sometimes true, but
is largely an individual mat
ter. he said. 1t probably is
true. he went on. that mem
bers Of the older generation
have more adjusting to do. in
the sense that they are the
ones whose status has dras-
tically changed.
They move from q posi-
ton Of strength and domi-
nance. where their children
lean on them, to a position Of
dependence, with their for
mer child now the strong
one, In command Of finances
and the general situation"
he said.
Some grandparents react
to this by relaxing into mar
tyrdom. the nobody listens
to me any more" routine. he
said. Others get into a power
struggle with their son or
daughter, in an attempt to
maintain their position Of
dominance.
Still others become more
babyish than the youngest
baby in the household" he
said. They give up what
ability they have and insist
that 1.-THE second generation
must take care of me-" This
is particularly likely to hap
pen to someone who is he'd
ridden. he noted.
DR.. BlochsfelJ that one of
the most useful things that
came out Of the discussion
group was the insight 1t gave
the participants into the fact
that "other people have prob
lens. too. They may not be
exactly the same problems,
but even the differences are
worth analysing"
II made them feel they
weren't so isolated, and often
1t suggested ways each could
help his situation" he said.
One Found Solution
In at least one family, a
clear solution was found as
a result Of attendance at the
sessions. The woman who
came because Of despair over
her fathers temper tantrums
at the children came to rec
ognize that although 1t never
seemed to be the cause Of the
tantrum, the real trouble was
that the father felt he was
not wanted in her home.
Il find If I can make an
opportunity to reassure him
every few weeks about how
happy we are to have him
with us. and point out that
we didn't have to ask him,
and wouldn't have unless we
meant it, then everything is
all right" she said.
Other problems were not
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enough people call or write
to express an interest. The
cost for five sessions is s.
a couple plus $3.50 for each
additional person in the same
family.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-22

economic necessity. he main
tains.
II feel rather strongly that
our society tends to be too
antiseptic and puerile. No
body knows about subjects
like dying. growing old. dis
ease or what have you.
I'VE live in what the soci-
ologists call an agesgraded
society,"" he continued. -Four
year-olds don't talk to s.
year-olds. It's a very juice
less way to live. It makes for
a kind Of bland security.
Your humanity is sort Of
deadened."
Sense Of Continuity
In a three-generation fam
lily, children have a sense Of
continuity, the psychiatrist
said. There is something in
kind OF knowing where you
came from. The grandparent
who can talk about his or her
own childhood to the chill
dren often can bridge almost
five generations. It gives O
sense Of purpose to life"
Grandparents also "can do
a good deal for the youngest
generation that parents can
not do" DR.. Bloch said.
"They are not in a disciple
marian role. They are free
to love, free to indulge, free
to give in, in a way parents
cannot"
The concensus Of the group
was that one of the most
important things they took
away from the sessions with
DR.: Bloch was o realization
of the importance OF COM
munication.
II suddenly came to realize
] had not understood my
mother all my life, and still
was not understanding her.
until / heard some of the
things said In the discussion
group" one second-genera-
ton mother explained. Even
then, / came to understand it
only partly through what
mother said, and partly
through what other grand
mothers said. But it opened
a channel to mother, so that
we could pursue the discus
sion later. which we did"
Often, DR.. Bloch said, per-
sons who get involved In an
emotional struggle with a
member Of their own family,
much Of it carried over from
earlier years. lose the ability
to explain what really is on
their minds.
Sometimes they Just clam
UP. stop talking" he said.
"Other times they continue to
talk. but they mask their
real feelings and concerns"
The psychiatrist disagreed
with some Of his students"
who suggested that members
Of the second generation had
to adjust the most, because
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-22
GROUP PROBES PROBLEM
| Is There Room for Grandma
| In TodQy's Smaller Homes?

on the three generation
household. sponsored jointly
by the Montgomery County
Mental Health Association
and the Washington School
Of Psychiatry. DR.. Donald
A. Bloch. a member Of the
Washington School and a
psychiatrist In private prac-
tice. has been conducting the
sessions.
Who are these people. who
turn out for two-hour BIZ
weekly bull sessions on sub
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-22

the best solution for all con-
cerned? II 1t is. what are
some Of the tensions and
conflicts that may arise, par
ticularly around the third
generation? What can be
done to alleviate them?
An earnest group of Mont
gomery County residents has
been spending some Of its
winter evenings probing these
questions.
The group has been at
tending a series of seminars
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-22
BY ISABELLE SHELTON
star stan Writer

Is there room for grand
mother in today's SIN all
homes?
Can today's family. in a
culture which has moved
away from the idea of sew
eral generations living to-
eether. stretch its walls and
its heart to make room for
gran d m a - and perhaps
erandpa-if the need arises?
Is taking in the old folks
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
Miss Carroll
ToKeepPost
With Father

Miss Diane Carroll, daughter
OF the Colorado Senator, ex-
poets to study law part time
and retain her $12,500 q year
job as her fathers assistant.
Her tentative decision came
after the Rev. Francis E. Lucey,
head of the Georgetown Uni
versity Law School, pointed out
that school rules provide a full
time student may not work
more than two hours a day.
Miss Carroll said today she has
not yet talked to school officials,
however.
Miss Carroll has been her
fathers full time office mana
ger.
The Senator, a Democrat.
said he would hate to see her
leave her office job because II
couldn't get along without her. {"
Miss Carroll said she still
wants to get her law degree
and will continue at George
town on partial schedule. Last
semester she was taking only
10 credit hours but she in
creased this to IA this semester,
considered a full time eurri-
culum.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03

baSsy official as suggesting Boz
liyia. because Of It's economic
problems. should be abolished
as o country and "its neigh
bors divide the country and its
problems"
Mr.. Siles took to the streets
and the radio after the riot
ing resulted in the fatal shoot
ing Of q 15-year-old student
At one point mobs burned the
United States flag but there
were no reports Of injuries to
any Americans In the city.
In q radio appeal for an end
to the disturbances. Mr.. Siles
said the United States charge
d'affaires had told him the
Time magazine article did not
correspond to statements made
by any American diplomatic
official.
There had been. Mr.. Siles
told the nation. q ''provocation
by an irresponsible journalist
that reflected the thought of
international capitalism"
The quotation in question
appeared in the current hemis-
phere edition Of Time. which
circulates in Latin America,
but not in the United States
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03

edition. A spokesman at the
magazines offices in New York
indicated a statement might be
issued later.
Angry mobs burned issues OF
Time in front of the Embassy
A police Gordon was thrown
around the building and along
the neighboring streets. but
about 200 youths broke through
and demonstrated.
Later one-throwing mobs
broke many of the windows in
the Embassy. Others stoned
the Offices Of the United States
information service two blocks
away and broke into the USIS
Library, destroying books and
magazines. A jeep outsice was
overturned.
Shots were fired in the air
in front of the Embassy by
rifie-bearing youths, as police
used tear gas to try to dispense
the surging mobs.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03

leased British sterling balances
frozen In this country since the
invasion.
The terms Of the British
Egyptian financial agreement,
signed yesterday In Cairo. were
spelled out In the House Of
Commons.
They provide for resumption
Of normal commercial rela-
tons, including aviation.
There was no mention in the
agreement Of restoring diplo-
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
Britain, Egypt
Air Pact Terms

LONDON, Mar. . (AP) -
Egypt win pay Britain f27.5
million ($77 million) for Brit
ish property nationalized in the
Suez invasion. according to
terms Of the new British
Egyptian agreement announced
here yesterday.
Egypt also has agreed to "re-
lease to the owners, under an
agreed procedure. the British
properties" which 1t has held
since the British French Israeli
attack on Egypt in 1856.
In return. Britain has re-
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
MorshoII's Condition
Reported UNCHANGED

FORT BRAGG. N. c., Mar. 3
tAP).--Gen. George C. Mar
shall continued in serious con-
dition today.
A late medical report said
there was no change from yes
terday when the 78-year-old
general was described as being
" a little more alert" but still
seriously Ill.
Gen. Marshall. in Womack
Army Hospital here, suffered a
second stroke February II.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03

matte relations. broken on dur
ing the suez fighting.
But Egypt agreed to grant
diplo m attic immunities and
privileges to British represent
atives in Cairo who handle the
complex administrative details
of agreement.
Distribution Of the f27.5-
million compensation payment
viii be entrusted TO a commits
Ision established for the purpose
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
Castro Sees
Greet Error
In AcquittuIs

HAVANA, Mar. 3 (AP)-
Premier Fidel Castro today de-
nounced a Santiago tribunals
acquittal Of IS airmen of mass
murder charges as "a great
error" and a service to ex-
Dictator Fulgencio Batista.
Prosecutor 1t. Antonio Cejas
already has appealed the YER
dict and the airmen are kept
in Jail pending a new trial to
be held in a few days before
another tribunal.
Mr.. Castro said in a state
ment published by Revolution,
organ Of the revolutionary gov
eminent, that the prosecution
has as much right of appeal as
the defense "if the sentence is
not just"
Demonstrators last night
ranged through Santiago, cap
ital of Oriente Province, shout
ing protests against the ac-
quittal. The protests abated
after announcement of the
prosecutions appeal.
The court mad held the
charges had not been proved.
They were accused of bombing
and strafing civilians as part
OF former President Fulgencio
Batista's campaign against
Fidel Castro's rebels.
The defendants claimed they
deliberately dropped their
bombs in open country to avoid
killing civilians. The prosecu-
ton based its case on action
reports which the defendants
admitted signing, but the flyers
said they faxed them to escape
punishment by air force au-
thorities.
Seven convicted war crimi-
mails were executed in Oriente
Province yesterday, bringing
the unoficial total to 1852.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
LOST

BOXER. z mos, fawn colored with
white bib. wearing chain collar; lost
IN Vicinity Of 9th and d SITS. Sc,
Answers to the name OF Skipper. i
BLACK fORSE at Great Falls, Md. Re-
ward. 2. N. ScHAEFER. VIII 2-4S26
con Conn BLACK a fsRs sss05 red sOI.y Vic
ward. CO 5-0524.
COMPACT, gold. Initials r.. p. O..
Reward, $50, Call EN-. 2-440O.
DIAMOND RING, mans. white gold;
Beach DR.. mr.. Military I'd. Reward,
WO. 6-5507 or HU. 3-7745.
SETTER, black and white. mos. old
female: vic. Potomac School in Lang
tseyi va area. Reward. Call Ell.
WRIST WATCH, Tiffany gold; between
Glendale Golf Club-CoI. PIX. Estates
sample house. Reward, APP 7-6sO0
$50 REWARD for information leading
70 return OF red. long-haired dachs.
hund, lost in North Arlington ia
S-1S14, after pm
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
FOUND

COLLIE, female: in Silver Spring. ~
S-5lS3. $50 to pm.
DAscHsHUND, black; VIC; I3o0 block
NAL RESCUE LEAGUE. NO. 1880
DOG, part collie, approx. mos. old
area OF Walter Reed. Call RA. 1866.
DOG, Ice. retriever type, black, friend
~: near FL. Washington. CHI. S-7Sl6.
PeO6CkETkNIFE, ANTIQUE gold: found
200 block Of 14th st. NV. ma, S-OOj5
PUPPY, male. black and tan, white
cnest and feet; vic. 23d and s SITS.
NV. HO. 2-276a.
MANCHESTER TYPE, female: in Silver
sprine. JU. 5-51s3, $50 to 5 pm.
POINTER, female, white and black,
prown collar; in Silver Spring. JU.
3-hlS3. $50 to 5 pm.
MINED CoCKER. bun and white, fe-
maIs' IN Bethesda. JU. 5-5Is3. $40
TOAIOIsE.sHELL CAT-Near scott
circle Do. 1880 evenings.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
Teo Experiment /

South Carolina has grown
tea experimentally and with
success but production costs
were too high.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
Time Story ThotIncited
Bolivian MODS Denied

LA PAz Bolivia. Mar. tAP) Seeking to calm enraged
mobs who stoned the United States Embassy Bolivian Pes
dent Herman Ses said last night American officials have denied
Time magazine story that touched on the antiAmercan
o1tbWst.
The Time article quoted unidentified United States
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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1959-03-03
RATE LEADER MAKES HIS MOVE

Japanese ht leader Bin Aao e toward Foreign
Minister Achro Fuyama gh the aes office in Tokyo last
week police inspector and two others restrain Mr. Akao who
Japans voluntary repatriation Of Koreans
North actually touched the
Foreign Minster.-AP Wephoo
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15
Weddings

Francine Rae w ol k O. f +
daughter of Mr.. and Mrs.
Meyer Wolkoff of Pasadena,
Calf, became the bride OF
Eric Dorian Mayer, son OF
Mr.. and Mrs. Lawrence Do
rian Mayer, May 3 in the
Huntington Sheraton Hotel
in Pasadena.
The bride attended Pasa-
dena City College and Los
Angeles City College. Her
husband graduated from Tue
son High School and the Uni
versity of Arizona. The cou-
pie will live in Phoenix.
.
Miss Roberta Joan Kelly,
daughter of Mr.. and Mrs.
John R. Kelly Jr. of Lincoln,
Nebr., became the bride of
Herbert M. Singer, son OF
Mrs. George Singer of Pitts
burgh, in a civil ceremony
April "a.
The bride is a junior at the
University of Arizona. Mr..
Singer attended the Univer-
sitv of Arizona and Arizona
State University and now is
manager of the iple H
Ranch.
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15

PROUD OF NEW PLANT-Dovd Bickmun efD and his father,
Robert stand proudly before Wosh Well No. which opened
recently Sixth Street and Fremont The dve-in oUn
offers complete laundry ond dry cleaning service The
family Tucson from Cleveland prior World
War II.
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15
OxYanIzat7ona/ Activities

classes held an exchange pic
mic and softball game May z.
A. E. Phi
Alpha Epsilon Phi staged
its annual Spring formal at
the Wilmot Inn. Mr.. and Mrs
Martin Rosenblum hoSted the
group in their patio before
the affair.
Phyllis Rakita of Tucson
won the best a ctive and
pledge scholarship awards.
Linda Friedlander and Linda
Lantin were CO chairmen for
the affair.
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15
Post BoWlers
In PIoyoff;
Banquet Set

The Arizona Post bowling
league comes down to a
photo-finish next week.
Jerry Courtney and Bna1
Birth bowlers are tied with
4O-28 records and will playoff
for the second half cham
pionship Tuesday night at
The Copa. The playoff win
ner returns Wednesday night
to meet Encanto Park Drugs,
first half champion, for the
overall league championship.
Winners and all boWlers of
the league will be honored
Sunday, May "a at $50 pm.
at the annual banquet at the
Pioneer Hotel. In addition to
the awarding of trophies and
installation of new officers,
there will be dancing to the
music of Lou Broder and his
orchestra.
FTNI-
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15
Rishonu Pioneer

RiShOna Pioneer Women
will hold the first of a series
of affairs May II for the
benefit of a scholarship fund
for a deserving Israeli stu
dent. A buffet supper will be
served at the home of Mr..
and Mrs. Isaac KatZ, 2617 E.
Fifth, at 3 pm.
Group singing will be led
by Mrs. Chain ToWber. Mrs.
Soma Click is mistress of
ceremonies. Inc community
is invited to attend the bene-
fit affair.
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15
Sigma Delta

Linda Omansky, daughter
of Mr.. and Mrs. Sid Omansky,
34O9 E. Third Street is among
the new pledges by the Alpha
Pi pledge colony of Sigma
Delta Tau sorority at the
University of Arizona.
Other new pledges are Lin
da Belfeld, Rita Langert and
Elinor Scher of Phoenix and
Susan Wachtel of Washing
ton, DC.
The Sigma Delta Tau and
Alpha Epislon Phi pledge
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15
Engagements
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII Observation-Disclosures

Mr.. and Mrs. Zellie Capin
of LoLinda Estates in No
gales, have announced the en-
gagement of their daughter,
Linda, to Stephen Waldeck
Smith of Piedmont, Calf.
Miss Capin, queen of the
1856 Fie S t a S de Mayo in
Ambos Nogales, is a junior
at the University of Califor-
MIA at Berkeley.
The groom-to-be, who also
attended the University of
California, is co-owner of a
chain of mems stores in the
San Francisco bay area. He
is the son of Mrs. Jesse
Smith and the late Mr.. Smith.
Mr.. and Mrs. Samuel M.
Violin, $50 E. Waverly, have
announced tn e engagement
Of their daughter, Dawn Ann,
to Alan I. Gould, son of Mr..
and Mrs. Murray Gould of
ScottSdale.
Miss Violin, a graduate of
Tucson High School, is COM
pleting her sophomore year
at the University of Arizona
now.
Mr.. Gould is a senior at the
University of Arizona and is
/ member of Alpha Delta
Sigma. He served with the
is. Air Force.
A wedding is planned for
ate this summer.
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15

presidents elected were Mrs.
Joseph Himelhoch, admins
tration; Mrs. Jack j e e ,
community welfare; Mrs
Nester Roos, education.
OTHER OFFICERS elect
ed were Mrs. Melvin Ritter,
financial secretary; Mrs. Da-
vid Wiener, treasurer; Mrs.
Sheldon Balk, recording sec
rotary; Mrs. Gerald Hirsch,
corresponding secreta a y;
Mrs. David CARRIER, histo-
rian. Mrs. Charles Gordon,
pa r Humanitarian; directors,
Mines. Ted Bloom, j o S e p n
Haas, Harry Fisher and Mel
vim M. Halpern and Mrs. Les
ter Wellman, elected a dlrec-
tor for life. -,
Rabbi Albert T. Bilgray will
be installing officer. A musl-
cal program is planned fol
lowing the installation. Res
ervations may be made by
calling Mrs. Haas or Mrs.
Jules Agron.
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15
Workmen's Circle

Workmen'S Circle Morris
Wanger Branch 152 will hold
an executive meeting May II
at 2:3O pm. at the home of
Mr.. and Mrs. Ben Chesin, SIG
Downing Lane.
A regular meeting will be
held at Cong. Anshei Israel
May 20 at 8 pm. Members
are urged to attend as sum-
mer meetings will be held
only once monthly.
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15

STRIKES TO SPARE E.
In matches this past week
B'nai Birth pulled into the
playoff by defeating Jerry
Courtney, 40; Lascco took
four from Auto-piano and
Ben Shein three games from
Mi Art. Encanto Drug won
three from National Cancel
lation Shoes and Beacon
Lighting split with National
Health Studio. Hank
Green rolled high game of
218 and high series of 562.
Beacon had high team
game of 91O and Lascco high
team series of 1868.
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15
National Council Chapter
To Install New Officers

Officers and directors of the Tucson section OF Natona
Council of Jewish will be honored at an installation
1cboo Nav % at noon at Ell Conquistador Garden
Roof. W.
Mrs Ralnh Harrison been reelected president wee
The Arizona post., 1959-05-15

PORTLAND, Me-, (JTA)-
The 1859 campaign of the
Portland Jewish Federation
has ended with pledges of
$3.50 more than the quota
of $685.