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ZajednicÌŒar = Fraternalist. [volume] (Allegheny, Pa.) 1894-current, 1958-05-21

Treci novi Clan je 9 godina
star i njegova mjesecna u
plata je opet 10 cent? visa,
nego prijasnjeg clana, dakle
1882. U roku cd 20 godina
otac &c uplatiti svotu cd $4,-
$3.50. Ako odabere option
broj 1, zajedno sa dividendi-
ma biti &c mu povraceno $3,-
724.90. Ako odabere option
broj 2, dobije uplacenu osigu-
raciju u iznosu cd $14, ,495.O0.
Oval otac je osigurao svo-
je troje djece ma $4,000. Ia
20 godina on &c uplatiti $13,-
478.40. U to vrijeme on &c
dobiti natrag u formi divi-
denda 81, $4,000. Njegova die
ca, ako odaberu option br. l.,
dobiti &c natrag S10,132.95,
dakle svega S11, 1925 i pre-
ma tome sva osiguracija sto-
j samo $1,995.45. Ali prize
smo objasnili, da &c primati
dividende i nakon 20 godina
clanovanja, pax prema tome
uplata ma ovu osiguraciju BIZ
ii &c neznatna.
Ali ovo posljednje je mai
vaznije: Otac owe troje djece
osigurao i'll je ma svotu cd
$4,000. Nakon 20 godina, a
sada wise nisu djeca vec lju-
di, njihova zajednicka osigu-
racija &c iznasati svotu cd
$40, ,345.N dozivotno iii do ma
vrsene IS godine zivota, a da
nista "a ovu osiguraciju ne
placaju. I kao sto smo prize
rekli, oni &c i nadalje prima-
ii dividende, maine $500 po
hiljadi iii zajednicki $4,000
svake godine.
To je, eto, brace moja, mai
bolji najsigurniji nacin sted-
ME. To je najsigurniji invest
ment. Ugledajte Sc u oval
PRIMER i obavezite Sc da &C.
te svakog mjeseca staviti ma
stranu dovoljnu svotu, da u
platte clanarinu "a svoju die
Gu / tako &c vas novac pra-
viii novac kada &c vam die
ca biti punoljetna, moti &c Sc
okoristiti sa hiljadama do
lara, koje su roditelji sa mje-
secnim uplatama polucili.
Istina, onaj, koji imade 60
tovine ma ruci, moze da uzme
ovu osiguraciju ma Sin 81 e
Premium i tn &c biti jos mno-
60 VEGA usteda.
Nastojao sam owe certifi-
kate objasniti sto sam maj
bolje mogao ma papiru; usme-
no bio bi jos bolje, ali Sc ma
dam, da &c ovo sada biti po-
svema jasno, kako bratu Sa-
ricu, tako i svima ostalima,
'koji sc zanimaju~
ZajednicÌŒar = Fraternalist. [volume] (Allegheny, Pa.) 1894-current, 1958-05-21

gov privatni poslovni zivot
| i tako u Mihu Mihanovicu u
poznao jednog znamenitog
covjeka uzor covjeka u
svakom pogledu.
Prvo: Milo Mihanovic ie
bio mas najkulturniji self
made iseljenik. Govorio je hr-
vatski, spanjolski, portugiski,
talijanski, engleski fra n
cuski. Poznavao je po dva-
tri dijalekta spanjolskog i
talijanskog jezika. Jednom mi
je pokazao knjigu pjesama ma
jednom cd talijanskih dijsle-
kata. "Citajte', rece mi, ii
katie mi koliko razumijete i
koji je to dijalekt''. ia nisam
razumio nj deset cd sto rije-
ci, nisam znao koji je to
talijanski dijalekt. On Sc ma
smijao: ITO yam je genoves-
Xxi dijalekt, koji ia dobro ra-
zumijem i u uzivam m citajuci
pjesme u MENU. "Pa vi, kao
poslovan covjek, pjesme vo-
lite". Milo Mihanovic ne od-
govori nista, nego povuee jed
nu ladicu svoga velikog sto-
la, izvadi jednu knjigu i do
da mi ju. Pogledam naslov:
Njegosev "Gorski vijenac".
"Divna knjiga", rece mi, "sam
ne znam koliko sam je puta
procitao. Nema joj ravne u
nijednoj literaturi. "Iguman
Stefan!!" 1 napamet izrecitira
nekoliko stihova iz govora
ga sam prosa sito i reseto".
Milo Mihanovic je uzivao u
citanju velikih spanjolskih,
talijanskih i engleskih pisaca.
Rece: '"Tko ne voli cvijece i
pjesmu, nije pravi covjek. A
imam ia jedan broj vasega
"Hrvatskog Glasnika" sto ga
cuvam u ovoj ladici." On IL
vadi tai broj, rastvori ga, |
upre prstom u jedan clanak
koji je imao naslov "Zavist".
ia Sc odmah sjetim toga clan
ka koji sam bio prestampao
IL jednog domovinskog lista.
"Ovaj cianak je napisao je-
dan mudar cestit covjek",
rece gospar Milo, ii u ME-
mu tako jasno prikazao maj
goru manu- nasega naroda i
n je z inc ubitacne posljedice,
da sam ga sacuvao. Mas CO.
vjek se ne raduje uspjehu
svoga zemljaka nego mu Ia
vidi, ] najradje bi ga poteg-
nuo dole k sebi, nego Ii da
Sc n 81 OIL uzdignuti gore
k MENU"
Drugo: Milo Mihanovic bio
je svijesni, istinski hrvatski
rodoljub i svijesni Jugosla-
ven. Ia prvog svjetskog rata
bio je ma celu ogranaka Jugo-
slavenske Narodne odbrane
ma Atlantiku, kao Pasko Ba-
burica ma Pacifiku. Jugosla-
venska Narodna odbrana po-
dupirala je londonski Jugo-
slavenski o. d bor "a stvara-
MEM i s t i n S k e Jugoslavije
ravnopravnih naroda. S vre-
menom Sc je sve wise raz-
ocaravao politikom beograd-
skin hegemononista, koja je
dovela do raspada drzave u
prvom ratnom sukobu.
(Ma st q 11if 20 coN
ZajednicÌŒar = Fraternalist. [volume] (Allegheny, Pa.) 1894-current, 1958-05-21

njolski. Tada ga brat Nikols
dade u privatnu skolu da uc
engleski i knjigovodstvo. Nj
kola je zelio da Milo postane
farmacist te ga uputi da ra'
di kod farmaciste Miha Per.
lendera, nasega zemljaka.
Ali u Mihovim zilama .je
kolala stara pomorska dubro'
vacka krv. Ne htijuci postal
farmacist, izmoli cd brata da
ga namjesti ma njegov paro.
brod, koji Sc zvao 1T orc"
Tako je Milo zapoceo svoju
pomorsku pa brodovlasnicku
karijeru. "Toro' je prevozic
stoku il luke Bahia Blanca U
Buenos Aires, a 'Torov" a.
gent je bio Felipe Caronti
Radeci ma "Toru" Milo uvidi
da je prevazanje stoke unos.
no, i da bi moglo biti jos u.
nosnije. Dogovori sc sa Ca.
rontom da kupe "Tora" cd
brata mu Nikole. Dogovoreno
= ucinjeno. Posao s "Torom'
je samo sjajno uspjevao.
God. 1889. kupi Milo cd
Carontija njegovu polovinu, a
brat mu Nikola proda ma cd.
platu cetiri parobroda i sest
lancha. Iste godine Milo o.
snuje plovidbu "Sud Allan.
tica" S kapitalom cd 100000
funti sterlinga ga sjedistem
u Bahia Blanca i prugama
do Buenos Airesa, i do Porto
Allegro i Rio Grande u Bra
zilu.
"Toro" znaci blk. Do 60
dine 1920. Mihova Sud Allan
tica sastojala sc cd 9 manjih
i veilkih parobroda, i 60 Ian
cha - skupa 23,500 tona. U
svojoj floti Milo je imao bro
dove i S imenima "Vaca" !
"Ternero" - krava i tele, od-
nosno, blk, krava tele. Jed
nom mu primjetih da su ia
imena bila odvec prozaicna.
On Sc nasmijesi pa odgovori:
cali, kako da ne pocastim
svoje brodove 8 njihovim j.
menima kada su me volovi,
krave i telad obogatili".
Ma 1. julia 1920, prodao je
Milo Mihanovic sve svoje do
nice u Sud Atlantiki velikom
engleskom drustvu Compania
Argentina de Navigation IN.
Mihanovich) Limitada, koje
je, god. 1914, kupilo i svu
golemu flotu brata mu Nj
kole.
Poslije prodaje svojih paro-
broda odluci Milo Mihanovic
da zbaci sa sebe sve veilke
brige velezaposlena covjeka.
Ma ulici Sarmiento izgradi u
redsku zgradu sa devet spra-
tova. Deveti sprat udesi "a
svoj privatno poslovni ured.
Jednog mladog i vrlo sposob-
nog argentinskog Holandja-
nina namjesti kao svoga tai
nika poslovodju, koji &c vo-
diti evidenciju b rigu mad
swim njegovim investicijama
u kucama i vrijednosnim pa.
pirima. Ma Peralta ulici po-
digne gospodsku rezidenciju,
koja je mogla da pogosti do
200 uzvanika.
ia sam u Juznoj America
proboravio dvije godine i &C.
tiri mjeseca. Kada nisam pu-
tovao boravio sam u Buenos
Airesu i vrlo cesto bio u Mi.
hovu drustvu. Rijetko bi pro.
sla dva-tri dana a da ne bi
dosao autom po meme. ''Hajd-
mo, Lupisu, da Sc proveze-
mo, da vam pokazem sto jos
niste vidjeli, da razgovara-
NO." On je, kroz svih pet
po godina m oga izdavanja
"Hrv. Glasnika" u Chicagu,
bio jedan cd najrevnijih ME-
govih citalaca. Pa me je "a.
volio, imao potpuno povjere-
ME u meme, a tim wise sto
su Sc nasa misljenja o SWEET
skim dogadjajima, 0 prilika-
ma u Jugoslaviji, i 0 obojici
,,o7ro q fiy,o 1i,,d;yoo ,r1,s; c1o
ZajednicÌŒar = Fraternalist. [volume] (Allegheny, Pa.) 1894-current, 1958-05-21

Ali jos nj to nije potpuna sli.
ka, jer i nakon sto je ovaj
clan odabrao oval izbor, on
&c nadalje primati dividen.
de u iznosu cd $500 po hi.
ljadi, sto znaci, da u ovom
slucaju clan &c i nadalje pri.
matt svake godine $1,000
ako pozivi do IS godina Ii.
vota, on &c primiti jos $61O,
a to znaci, da ga osiguracija
nece nj s t a stajati, nego &c
dobiti natrag $57.15 wise, ne.
go je uplatio kroz vrijeme cd
20 godina!
Treci izbor jeste jos mai
bolji "a onoga, koji zeli imati
dobru osiguraciju pod stare
dane i koji zeli ostaviti sto
vecu svotu novca svojim bas-
! tinicima nakon svoje smrti.
Ako oval Clan ne povuce
nista cd Zajednice kada mu
je certifikat dozrio, on &c do
biti potpuno uplacen certifi-
kat u vrijednosti cd $4,000,
koji &c biti isplacen bastinici-
ma u slucaju smrti, iii clanu
kada navrsi 85 godina. On
&c takodjer nadalje primati
dividende $500 po hiljadi i u
ovom slucaju $1,000 svak e
godine.
Ovdje zelim objasniti jedno
vazno pitanje, koje sc cesto
postavlja. Ako slucajno oval
clan, o kojem je rijec, ne u
zme $4,000 nakon sto mu :je
certifikat dozrio, vec je oda-
brao option po kojem je do
bio certifikat u vrijednosti cd
$4,000, a par godina kasnije
MENU treba gotovine, on mo-
ze u svako vrijeme dobiti
svojih $4,000, pa i wise, ovisi
o. tome kada &c traziti svoj
novac. Njegov nova c pravi
novac originalnih $5,OOO.OO
svakog dana wise vrijedi.
Dakle, sa izborom option po
kojem je PRIMO certifikat cd
$4,000, on 81 nije time O.
nemogucio, da dobije u sva-
ko vrijeme originalnu osigu-
raclJu cd 5000.
Niece stetiti ako uzmemo je-
dan konkretan PRIMER. Reci-
mo da oval clan cetiri godine
nakon sto je PRIMO certifikat
u vrijednosti cd $4,000 od-
luci da povuce svoju osigu-
raciju u gotovom, on &c pri-
miti umjesto $1,000 koje je
mogao dobiti pred cetiri 60
dine, $5,493.75 i povrh toga
"a owe cetiri godine vec je
PRIMO $128.OO u formi divi-
denda iii ukupno $621.75.
Toliko o slucaju mladog 4
godisnjeg clana, kojeg je u
pisao brat Saric. Sada cemo
uzeti drugog, a zatim treteg
clana, ali skraceno, jer isti
princip vrijedi kod svih ova-
kovih slucajeva.
Drugo dijete je 6 goidna
stare. clanarina "a ovo dijete
&c biti 10 cent? mjesecno wise,
nego "a prvo, naime 1872.
U 20 godina uplatiti &c $4,-
1920, u dividendima primi-
ii &c, kao i u prvom slucaju,
svotu cd $45O.OO. Ako zatim
odabere option ,broj 2 i po-
vuce u gotovom $3,392.10, to
znaci, da &c mu biti povra.
ceno $3,842.1O. Kada sc 3D.
bije svota, koju je PRIMO cd
svote, koju je uplatio, tada
ga osiguracija ma ovih $4,000
stoji $65O.7O. Ali, po6to &c u
ostalo vrijeme sve do smrti
iii do IS godina starosti j ma
dalje primati dividende cd So
po svakoj hiljadi koncem
kraja MEGA &c ova osigura-
cija u svemu stajati $60.70
sve to vrijeme biti &c osigu-
ran ma $4,000, koje, kao sto
smo vec rekli, mole dobiti ma
trag kada navrsi IS godina
zivota.
Ako bi oval Clan odabrao
option broj 8, on &c dobiti u
placenu osiguraciju u iznosu
M ok ES0 M M r, oa;o1,.
ZajednicÌŒar = Fraternalist. [volume] (Allegheny, Pa.) 1894-current, 1958-05-21
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ZajednicÌŒar = Fraternalist. [volume] (Allegheny, Pa.) 1894-current, 1958-05-21

l Y
bira nakon 20 godina. Ma tre-
Gem predavanju upisan je isti
mladic ma svotu i certifikat,
kako je to brat Bazdaric re-
kao dan prize. ia sam naseg
mladog prospektivnog clana
pozdravio, nakon sto ga je
brat Bazdaric predstavio ma
Sol skoi. Svakako svi prisut-
nj su takodjer vrlo lijepo po-
zdravili naseg novog kandi-
data "a clana.
Ovih dana PRIMO sam tri
molbenice cd brata Nikole Sa-
RIGA, upravitelja Djeejeg Do
ma. Svaka molbenica glasi ma
osiguraciju cd $5,OO0.0O ma
Twenty Year Endowment
prema tome ukupno $4,000.
Brat saric pise, da je on pri-
licno objasnio owe certificate
ocu owe d djece, koji je mas
clan cd prize, ali nije u sve-
mu posvema siguran, a po-
gotovo ne u koliko Sc to od-
nosi ma options. Kaze brat
Saric: "Slusao sam ia Vase
brata Belle tumacenje, ali bas
u to vrijeme netko mi je ne
Sta saptao u uho i tako ia
nisam sve to dobro shvatio. "
Nadalje on zeli, da mu Sc po-
Sale objasnjenje, a jos bi BIZ
10 bolje, da je u engleskom
jeziku, da moze pokazati ocu
owe djece. On nadodaje, kako
Sc vec sada vidi, da vrijeme
utroseno u ovu skolu nije BIZ
10 izgubljeno.
| Dragovoljno Gu udovoljiti
zelji brata Sarica. Ali da cd
ovog objasnjenja b u d e sto
vece koristi, odlucio sam, da
objasnim owe certificate kroz
mas Zajednicar, to u oba-
diva jezika, da Sc tako sa IT,
me m ogu koristiti mnogi
drugi nasi clanovi, koji nisu
Il moguce nece imati prilike
ucestvovati u skoli. Ovo &c u
stvari biti nastavak skole u
Chicago, samo sto ovom pri-
likom necemo govoriti o pro-
spektu, vec konkretno o slu-
cajevima, koje su p polucili
braca Bazdaric, a zatim tro-
str~uko brat Saric.
Brat Saric upisao je troje
djece u jednoj obitelji i to u
dobi cd 4, 6 i 9 godina. Uzeti
cemo r e d o m najprije dijete
cd 4 godine.
Roditelji, iii u ovom slu-
caju sigurno otac, "a osigu-
raciju cd $4,000 ma Twenty
Year Endowment placati &c
mjesecno 1882. U godinu
dana upl a it i &c $223.44, a
u 20 godina $4,468.80. U to
vrijeme primiti &c 18 dividen-
da cd $500 po hiljadi, sto
znaci $25.00 godisnje, iii "a
18 godina $450.00. Prema to-
me osiguracija &c ga stojati
"a vrijeme cd 20 godina S4,-
018.80. Svakako treba imati
ma umu, da u slucaju da die
te umre bio u koje vrije-
me, bastinik primi svotu cd
$4,000.
Ali sada, nakon 20 godina,
kada je certifikat dozrio, clan
imade tri izbora. On moze po-
vuci potpunu osiguraciju cd
$5, 900 i wise nije Clan. Tai IL
Dor mi ne preporucamo nj
kome, jer osiguracija je tom
mladom clanu sada jos wise
potrebna, jer sada je navrsio
"a godine, a biti bez osigu-
racije u tim godinama nije
umjesno.
Drugi izbor jeste, oval clan
moze doibti cd Zajednice svo-
tn cd $3,465.95 u gotovom
novcu i estate i nadalje o.
siguran ma cijelih $1,000, a da
nista wise ne treba uplacivati
"a osiguraciju. Ova svota &c
biti isplacena njegovim bas-
tinicima nakon njegove smr-
tt, iii MENU samom, kada i
ako navrsi IS godina zivota.
Oval isti Clan je vec prize pri-
milo ma racun dividenda svo-
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08
By JOSEPHINE BOWMAN
naafatar ara rrvthuna Syndicate

RceAetcA oho AAAS1AS GsANsSN
At teen-age habits Of pos
ture, outlook, grooming, n.y.
giene and nutrition. are so
very important because the
woman Of a few years hence
will reflect all Of them. What
you will be like at 20 or 80
depends a lot on what you
eat, how you exercise, how
you care for your skin and
hair and how you think, to-
day.
Adolescence is a vital time
also because minds and bodies
are so pliable and so easily
changed. They have not yet
settled into rigidity. This is a
rapid time of growth physi-
cally, emotionally and mem
tally. The direction young
folks give this quick-chang-
ing will have a great intiu-
ence on their adult lives.
Poor posture often develops
at this time because of the
speedy growth rate. Young
people have not had time to
learn how to carry this in
creased development correct
ly. The same thing is true of
mental and emotional bal
ance. The. transition from
childhood is SO sudden.
In today's teen-ager we
often can see the background
for the Dowager's Hump, the
round shoulders, the double
chin, the protruding abdo-
men, the dull hair and skin Of
tomorrow. Now is the easiest
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08
WHY CROW oLD7
Don't Let Bad Habits
Develop at Teen-Age

time to change this picture,
not when it arrives years
later.
Young people need exercise
in order to develop the health
and stamina which will carry
them through the trials and
responsibilities Of later life.
1t seems too bad that all
young folks do not indulge in
sports, for the sake of good
looks as well as Of health and
fun.
The teen-age girl should
wash her face several times
each day with & mild soap.
Most compilations Of this age
have plenty of oil, most too
much, so that cold cream is
not usually indicated. How
ever, if a young girl has a
fairly dry skin, she may re-
quire some cream during win
ter months or when in q very
dry climate.
Habits Of grooming should
be taught long before teen
age. The little girl loves to
follow beauty routines when
she sees her mother do so.
However, teen-age is not too
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08
JOINT ACCOUNT
GOES TO
SURVIVOR

When a husband or wife
dies, their Joint checking
account goes to the sur
vivor under laws Of the
District of Columbia, Vir-
ginia and Maryland, it is
pointed out by local bank
officials.
A recent syndicated ar
ticle by DR.. Paul Popenoe
in The Star did not apply
to banks here. When one
spouse dies, the joint &C
count in a Washington,
Virginia or Maryland bank
Immediately becomes the
property Of the other and
can be drawn on imme-
diately as desired.
However, when one
spouse dies. any outstand-
ing checks written by the
deceased Immediately be-
comes void. The surviving
spouse can replace the
voided checks with new
ones.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08
principle Succinctly long ago:
"OvercoYfle evil with Qood

principle Succinctly long ago:
Overcome evil with good"
In a case like this, start
with the second principle.
Try to find more activities to
take your mothers time and
interest.
Like many others, she evil
IDENTIFY has some ability and
drive.
Sound out her clergyman
and other friends, telling
them of her need for more
interests to fill her life. It's
a hard situation for any old
person to face-the feeling
that she's no longer needed
or wanted by anybody.
After that, put the first
principle right to work! Take
a stand. Never mind about
the neighbors and family
friends-they know her! Let
her find that she gets visit
ors when she behaves well. no
visitors when she behaves
nadly. Tell her frankly that
you've been staying away
because the last visit was so
unpleasant. etc. If she starts
her tongue-laShing routine,
walk out on her.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08

chocolate cake, homemakers
have been asking for more
recipes using Bakers German
sweet chocolate. And now
one Is ready for distribution.
II contains the famous cake
and six other recipes. include
ing Mrs. Eisenhower's mil
lion dollar fudge which APP
peared in a cook book issued
a few years ago by the Wom-
ems National Press Club.
In the leaflet 1t has a new
name \. celebrity fudge.
II you would like one Of
the leaflets simply send your
request to Dept. Csc 8/6S.
General Foods Kitchens,
White Plains, NY. There Is
no charge for the leahet.
Germans Chocolate Cake
/ package sweet cooking
chocolate
u cup boiling water
/ cup butter, margarine, or
other shortening
2 cups sugar
4 egg yolks. unbeaten
/ teaspoon vanilla
az cups sifted cake -four
/ teaspoon baking soda
"a teaspoon salt
/ cup buttermilk
4 egg whites, stifily beaten
Melt chocolate in "a cup
of boiling water. Cool, Cream
butter and sugar until light
and fluffy. Add egg yolks.
one at a time. beating after
each. Add vanilla and melted
chocolate and mix until
blended. Sift flour with soda
and salt. Add sifted dry in
gradients alternately with
buttermilk. beating after
each addition until batter is
smooth. Fold in stif1iy beaten
egg whites. Pour batter into
three 8 or 9 inch layer pans,
lined on bottoms with paper.
Bake in moderate oven $3.50
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08
Miss Adkins
Honored at
Reception

Miss Bertha Adkins, new
Undersecretary Of Health. Ed
ucation and Welfare. was
honored at q 4 to 8 pm. re-
ception yesterday given by
the merican Newspaper
Women's Club. Of which she
Is an associate member.
The party was the first held
by the club in its new head
quarters at 1886 Connecticut
avenue NV.
Receiving with the honor
guest were Mrs. Alice Curran.
new president Of the ANWC.
and the program chairman,
Miss Annette Cutler,
Those asked to take turns
in pouring included Judge
Burnita Shelton Matthews,
Mrs. Donald A. Quarles, Mrs.
Charles Pearre Cabell. Mrs.
Benjamin M. McKelway and
Mrs. James George Clark.
Mrs. Clare Williams, vice
chairman Of the Republican
National Committee, a post
formerly held by Miss Adkins.
was among those invited to
yesterdays reception. The list
also included Mrs. Anne
Wheaton, associate press Sec
rotary of the White House.
VINO formerly directed pubic
relations for the women's d.
vision Of the g. o. P. COM
mittee.
Still others on the guest list
included the Deputy Commits
sioner of the Office of Educa-
ton, HEW. and Mrs. Wayne
o. Reed; Mr.. H. c. John Rus
sell, HEW press relations ON
Ger, and Mrs. RUSSELL. Mr.. and
Mrs. Daniel Bell and Mr..
Scott Kirkpatrick.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08

Mrs. NJ, and they need to be
considered by many thou
sands of families who have
such difficulties to deal with.
One Of these principles is
that no one is benefited by in
justice. 1t is bad for you but
it's also bad for your mother.
The longer she continues such
behavior, the more she's in
juring herself-aS well as
you.
An Axiom
The second principle, q
counseling axiom which I
have mentioned frequently in
this column. is that the best
way to get rid Of something
is to put something better in
Its place. st. Paul stated the
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08
BY VIOLET FAULKNER
sar Food Editor

This Is a story about a
cake. like Jack and the
beanstalk II grew and grew
until 1t crossed the nation.
Last fall when I was in
Chicago for the annual food
editors conference, / heard
great rumblings about a
chocolate cake the home
makers down In Texas were
baking. Before the week was
out ! wrangled the recipe
from Julie Benell, food editor
on the Dallas Morning News.
The recipe was sweeping
the State. she told me.
Grocers couldn't keep a sup
ply Of German chocolate on
hand. Food brokers we're 60
ing crazy trying to keep pace
with the demand,
1t didn't take long, Of
course. for the news to reach
the ears Of the chocolate folk.
What, they wondered is going
on down there2 They sent
their scouts to find out and
discovered 1t was a cake caus-
ing all the Juror.
And all this time I've been
boarding the recipe. in
tending to pass 1t along to
you but the time was never
right. Now 1t is.
Like any recipe. many wo-
men have varied the formula
slightly tried a new FROST
ing given it a new name.
So now there are several'ver-
sions floating around but the
recipe given here is the one
that originated in Texas and
has been kitchen tested by the
General Foods Kitchens.
We recommend it highly
to anyone seeking the tried
and-true way to q mans
heart.
AS q result Of the remark
able popularity Of Germans
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1958-09-08
YOUR FAMILY AND YOU
Mother Makes Trouble
For Her Offspring
BY DIR. PAUL POPENOE
national Newspaper syndicate

Mrs. M. poses rather a COM
mon problem in her letter to
me: II have an aged mother
who lives alone. ] don't mean
to sound hard on her, but
she's q domineering woman
who enjoys needing her
children beyond endurance.
Thanks to our strict up
bringing, we're afraid to de-
fend ourselves even though
we're all middle-agedl
Should we go to see her
regularly? She insists on
weekly visits of not less than
four hours each.
Condemns
Every one Of those hours
she spends in denouncing
everyone she knows, con-
demning the degenerate times
In which we live, and in
lamenting over the sins of
other members of the family.
IF we miss one week or cut
one visit short, she either
won't speak to us for days or
else gives us such a tongue
flashing that we're unfit to
live with our husbands and
children!
We've tried just about
everything. We've ignored her
emotional outbursts only to
have her tell all her neigh
bors about how ungrateful
we are and how shamefully
we've neglected her after
she's sacrificed her whole life
for US.
"As I look back over what
I've written, DR.. Popenoe, it
sounds pretty bad. Well, it is
bad. To me. it's hopelessl She
is financially fixed to take
care Of herself. so she's not
suffering from any neglect.
We're the ones who are suf-
fering-and we certainly need
help from some sourcel"
There are two principles
involved in such q situation,