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and in a loud voice told her
friend not to touch her son.
l stood there and heard the
things that those two women said
to and about each other and their
families. Il was in my own yard
reading, or rather had been
reading).
Please believe me when l tell
you while those two unreasonable
young mothers talked on and on
l saw the children holding hands
while they listened to their par
ents talking. Later, all three chill
dren were playing as though
nothing had happened.
Those two couples had been
friends since they were newly
weds. The women tried to keep the
husbands from being friendly but
had no luck. But for the four
years they lived there after the
quarrel, neither one would speak
to the other. The youngsters all
played together the husbands
were friendly and did they could
to get those two young women
to become friendly, but they had
talked too much.
Being good friends does not
give you the right to tell each
other that: you nag your hus-
band, no wonder he stays away
from home; or that: you are so
greedy you won't spend a nickle
for this or that; or that: you
get sick Of her silly slow drawl
because you know she has never
been below the Mason-Dixon line;
or that you know she spoils her
children, etc, etc.
Later that week, Mrs. q. told
you how she wished she could have
taken back the things she said to
Mrs. A, because she was so sorry
and so ashamed; yet in the next
breath she said" as long as I
live l will never forget some of
the things Mrs. A. said to me be-
cause they hurt so much"
Regrets are useless, you should
think what you are saying and not
blurt out what ever comes into
your empty head, for it is empty
when you act so childish and just
stand and make one ugly remark
after another to a dear friend or
to anyone, for that matter.
Why get into a childish fight?
The children, if left alone, win
fight one minute and be eating
off the same dish the next. OF
course you can't stand to see
your child getting hit You don't
have to, Just turn your back and
stop looking. A glance out now
and then is necessary so you viii
know the fight is not going to
end in brick throwing or any,
thing that will hurt either child.
Otherwise, let them fight it out.
They are Just learning their
strength" and in any group there
is always an agreessor. He, too.
in time will learn he cannot run
the children all of the time. One
will finally get up enough cour-
age to bluff him and then there
will be peace in the circle.
You remember how your mother
talked to you? When you ran into
the house saying Mary or Helen
hit you your tears dried right
up when she looked at you and
said, and what did you say or
do to Mary or Helen or Joe ?"
OF course you hadn't done a
thing. but Mother knew better,
so she wiped the tears from your
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BIG ONES NEED
IIITIE ONES

Pointing up the mutual Deepen
dence Of large and small busin-
esses in our land, a survey reveals
that one OF the largest companies
depends upon more than $4,000
smaller ones to supply II with
goods and services II requires.
over 64oS Of the supphers en-
ploy fewer than 100 persons, and
sec have fewer than 500 employ
ees. Their employees total $4,000,
900. and their plants are in every
one OF the as states.
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Mound Bayou urs 10Th Anniversary OF Eoundna On July
PredIe, Neasro covnsIImon WIN Be- IIee,ed

Detroit ANP)-Although he any particular
candidate among the dozen asprants job
president
that will its Negro councilman
Reuther prediction the lS
NAACP Negro
win members
Democratic Action (ADAl,
bigod appear
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A handful of common sense IL
worth "A bushel OF learning.
Whose bread / eat, his song
sing" comes to us today as a
warning proverb from the England
Of long ago when men we're fight
ing for their freedom.
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Detrot(ANP)The National Links presented the NAACP
payment
organization
Hawkins Philadelphia Links president wilkins
secretary
the Links the NAACP $4,000 check
brings
organization they something fight
Negro freedom n country
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Chapter Of American Veterans
Committee.
Eight maritime unions cabled
the United Nations Secretary
General this month urging that
the UN take steps to effectively
guarantee free passage, without
discrimination, for ships of all
nations through the Suez Canal
and the Gulf of Aquaba.
Unions which have cabled Dag
Hammarskjold urging freedom of
navigation include: the Norwe-
gian Seamen's Union, the Finnish
Seamen's Union, the Netherlands
General Seamen's Union for Mer-
chant and Fishery Fleet and the
Netherlands Union OF Transport
Workers, Swedish Transport
Workers Union. the Belgian
Transport Workers and the Isra-
eli Seafarer's Union.
Law Abiding citizens We're urg-
ed to rally to the defense Of the
NAACP in its fight for survival
by Msgr. George C. Higgins, writ
ing in The YARDSTICK, official
publication Of the National Catho-
lie Welfare Conference. He said
that Southerners and state Off
cials who would outlaw the or
ganization for its role in the reg
regation battle are clearly violat-
ing a fundamental principle Of ma
tural law. the freedom Of asso-
citation, which is given to men not
by government but by the very
law Of nature itself and which
may not legtimately be taken
away from them"
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eyes, told you to run along and
be a good girl and you ran out
and played as though nothing had
happened!
What a difference in parents
attitude! You want your children
to have friends, then in heavens
name, teach them to be friendly,
not quarrelsome.
It is so EASY to be kind, so
why don't we think twice before
being so frank with words?
Beatrice Ford Parker wrote:
"Unkind words, unkind criticism,
cruel words, no matter how true
they may be, never are justified.
They can hurt deeply, and they
may be remembered for a life
time-remembered not only by the
their recipient, but by their crea-
tor.
A word, once spoken, can never
be retrieved. Like an arrow that
has found its mark, its damage
is done, and the resulting scar
cannot be removed by apology. In
letting reckless words escape, we
are storing regrets for ourselves
as well as pain for others. IS
IT WORTH TIP"
When you read this, Off you do
l will be in Minneapolis.
Until next week, this is 800
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WoRLD WIDE News
AT A GLANCE
North Caroline Cops Run Across $50 Colon Still

North Caroline Cops Run Across $50 calon Still
Raleigh NJ c(ANP-Poce agents here last week
combination whisey and preheaer upright boiler
capacity gallons 1900 gallons
small wey raid brought about by the odor from
the ain
agent Roy Longenecer he and other
the wind Of the stn while driving along the highway about
Johnston County when strange odor hit their
Longenecer said he really high
investigate After finding the location Of the
said they waited after noticing
there
little while they said, three Negro and
three David Watson AZ Sylvester
Clayton arrested and bound
for In
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Chicago Deputy Coroner Held On Charge OF Attempted

Chicago Bills repeatedly returned Wednesday
the grand charging Deputy Coroner William Martin Photo
obstruct
mmed charge they solicit $500 bride change
jury verdict
Martin the Dr. Martin Chicago politician
Sanitary president Negro
American Baseball League,
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There are only two things that
will stop office gossip: the hands
of the clock at o PM.
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Norfolk Va(ANP)Mrs Rose Morgan Louis told friends
brief visit to this seashore city Sunday that there will be
Again repeated to friends there will divorce
gacousy accepted
while the city the first achievement award from
Norfoks Bachelor Benedict Club honor
that groups annual dobutante ball
II rumored that popular busnesswoman
cosmetic the boxing cham
pon, at the parting OF the ways.
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New York City Chosen For NAAcP's soth Convention

New York-(ANP)The annual NAACP convention 1859 will
this celebration of anniversary the
founding Of the civil rights organization.
Delegates attending
Detroit June 1880 voted to the city of the organizations
golden jubilee NAACP
be that convention
u95s the 49th
selected the Francisco
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Uph0d Neero e0ters Rsh. ereensboro

Greensboro N C ANP)The Fourth Federal District Court
Appeals upheld injunction forbddDg
city Greensboro barring Negroes the Gillespie
city appealed
private corporation
companan argued that the city disposed
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o U r n U M A NJ
r Ell ALTO MS
BY Lou Lerman

Patterns of segregation in the
South are changing according to
a survey OF the impact Of the race
issue on Southern unions. The sur
vey indicated that two-thirds Of
Southern locals have both Negro
and white membership. and one
quarter Of these locals have at
least one Negro officer. In no
other Southern organization has
segregation declined as much,
A report of the survey was pre-
sented by Emanuel Muravchik.
National Field Director of the
Jewish Labor Committee. Prepar-
ed for the AFL-CIO the survey is
intended to serve as a guide for
organized labor in meeting the
problems of racial tension in the
South.
Loyalty to the AFL-CIO is in
dicated by the fact that not a
single local, has disaffihated be-
cause Of the national organiza-
tons position on the Supreme
Court decision.
The survey covered more than
one hundred representative locals
in Alabama, Florida, Georgia.
North Carolina, South Carolina,
Tennessee Louisiana and Missis-
sippi, and was made possible by a
grant from the Fund for the Re
public,
William r. Ming, law professor
OF Chicago, is the new National
Chairman Of the American Vet
Grams CommittsS. He was unani-
mously elected by the delegates at
the AvC's 10th National Conven.
ton.
This is the first time in the ma
TONS history that a Negro veter-
an has headed a National Veter-
ans Organization, despite the fact
that there are more than two
million Negro veterans in the
country today
The American Veterans Com
mittee is a liberal veterans or
ganization. Among its honorary
members are, Or, Ralph J.
Bunche, Mrs, Eleanor Roosevelt.
The Most Rev. Bernard J. Shell,
and former President Harry s,
Truman.
Governor Orvine Freeman is an
active member Of the Minnesota
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s,urt sanana pemon,,retIon roUr OF JamaIea

PortofSpan ANP)Banana Demonstration Tour OF jamaica
by speaking 80 delegates
from the Of the Caribbean, started Monday.
Visits win be made Caymanas Estates witness demonstra
spraying oil using hecopers
tractor spraying with Bordeaux
The Jointly sponsored by the Government OF Jmaea the
the Caribbean Commission
gates inspection trip
benefit Of their countries the developments which taken
place the long established banana industry Jamaica.
Mound Bayou Marks 10th Anniversary OF founding On July
Mound Bayou. (ANPl-Friday, July
Anniversary founding
largest all Negro town the United states Isaiah Montgomery
and his Benjamin both Josep
brother
eracy
people Bayou something holiday
represents Negroes attempt government
the United States and in Mississippi
official stated; annually keep
reminded the challenge carry
reddcate noby begun by Founding
Fathers
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Gaypt Kills Rock And Roll

Egypt-ANP)-The death Knoll Tor rock and ron music
sounded the chief Of police morals here
Terming public morals" the chief ordered
night Egypts belly
dance TO remain.
The belly dance traditional here wherein women
wggle for the tourist
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When you read this, Off you do
l will be in Minneapolis.
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Until next week, this is 80"
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Mrs. Rose Morsan-Iovis Denies RUmors OF Divorce

Producer sheehan has secured
ZajednicÌŒar = Fraternalist. [volume] (Allegheny, Pa.) 1894-current, 1957-10-30
Youngstown Cagers In
FrMic Al Crodf Home

YOUNGSTOWN, Ohio -
The "St. George" CFU Lodge
66 Basketball Team will spon-
sor its Fall Dance on Sunday,
November 3, at the Croatian
Home, 1912 w. Federal St.
For the dancing and lis
tening pleasure of our
guests, music will be fur
nished by Joe Marmilich
and his Balkan Serenaders,
featuring Paul Adamovich.
Fest tivities will begin
promptly at 500 pm, con-
tinuing until the early hours
Of the following day.
At this affair, members
and fans will have the oppor-
tunity to see and meet the
1888 version of our CFU
basketball team, which will
host the 1858 tourney.
Chuck Koker, Sports Dir.
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uing.
A healthy birth rate-25
per thousand population-is
combining with a falling
death rate to add to the num-
Der of consumers able to buy
the goods and services that
keep our economic machinery
in smooth running order.
Economic Well-Being
Underlying and bolstering
that machinery is the high
personal income enjoyed by
Americans today.
The percentage of families
in the lowest income groups
has been cut into less than
half since 1885. The percen-
tage with incomes of $4,000
or more has more than dou-
bled-a real improvement in
economic well-being.
This rise in income is af-
fecting our eating, clothing
and entertainment habits.
With the introduction of
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ton has increased almost 100
million; and yearly income
per family, on the average,
has shot up to more than
$4,000 and is still rising.
These statistics have their
human impact. A rosy-looking
world encourages marriage
the boys and girls of the
195Os are not afraid to face
the responsibilities of welded
life.
Not only are more people
getting married = they're
marrying earlier. Brides in
1949, with a median age of
2O.3 years, were nearly two
years younger than those Of
1890.
Grooms, at 22.7 years,
were three-and-a-half years
younger than their turn-of-
til e-century counterparts.
And this trend toward
earlier marriage is contin-
ZajednicÌŒar = Fraternalist. [volume] (Allegheny, Pa.) 1894-current, 1957-10-30
| Detroit 318 Mothers
In Midst Of Campaign
For New Club Members.

DETROIT, Mich. - The
Mothers Club of Nest 318
wishes to welcome all of the
new members who attended
the Open House, on Wednes-
day, October 2.
1t was grand to sec such a
turnout and we are sure that
everyone spent most enjoy
able evening becoming ac-
quainted. Several games were
played, after which coffee and
cake were served.
Perhaps there were some
of the ladies who could not
attend that particular
meeting. May we take this
opportunity to extend our
utmost welcome to you to
enroll in our membership at
any time.
We meet on the first
Wednesday of each month at
the Croatian Hall, 1876 E. Nc
Nichols Road.
Catherine Kaurich, Sec'y.
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Minnesota Members In
Old Fashioned Funniest

so. ST. PAUL, MINI. - On
Sunday, October 13, CFU
Lodges TAP and 316 jointly
sponsored a Barbecued Smor-
gasbord Dinner, from 100 to
500 pm, in the Croatian
Hall. We are glad to say that
it was we'll attended by the
members of both lodges.
The dinner was arranged
by an arrangements commit
tee and the lodge officers and
proceeds will 60 to our Nest
304 for a very nice Christmas
Party.
The success of this affair
has proven that we can really
do something when we work
together. We should and will
do it in the future.
In behalf of the arrange
ments committee | would like
to extend our thanks to all
the members of both lodges
for their gifts and their work.
Special thanks also to the
sisters of both lodges for their
baking and work in the kit
chen and also to the young
ladies of Nest 3O4 for their
cooperation.
Matt ko,acic, Chair.
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ST. Paul Members To
Discuss Party Aqenda

so. ST. PAUL, MINI. -
The next regular meeting of
E. S. Lodge 742 will be held
on Friday, November 8, at
1880 pm, in the Croatian
Hall, 445-2nd Avenue So.
We hope that all members
will attend as we will discuss
the program for our Nest 304
Christmas Party, at that
time.
Matt koyacic, Pres.
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Cleveland 99 To Host
Pitt SteeIer Fans On
Sunday, November 10

CLEVELAND, Ohio - "St.
Joseph" CFU Lodge 80 will
sponsor a Social and Dance at
the Croatian Home, 6314 st.
Clair Ave, on Sunday, No
vember 10.
On that date a large group
of Pittsburghers will come to
Cleveland to attend the Cleve-
land Browns-P i t S burg h
Steelers football game. So far,
we know of at least 40 who
are coming in on a chartered
bus.
After the game a fine meal
will be served our guests, fol-
lowing which, at 700 pm,
an excellent tamburitza or
chestra will entertain the
happy crowd with music for
dancing and vocal selections.
It is not often enough that
friends Of long standing and
potential future friends can
get together in a relaxed and
yet stimulating atmosphere
for true enjoyment.
We urge our members and
friends to take advantage Of
this opportunity to enjoy gen.
uine Croatian music, food,
dancing and singing.
Steve Shimits, Pres.
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Spared The Fair Ones

Spared The Fair Ones
The Lodge encountered diff
ficulties in finding suitable
meeting places.
At one meeting in Septem-
Der, 1909, a motion was
passed that the only two fe-
male members of Lodge 351
not be required to attend
meetings since it did not look
right for two women to be in
a room with 20 men, and, un-
til more women joined the
Lodge, they were not expect
ed to attend meetings.
At that time a fine of rs
cents was imposed for fail
ure to attend Lodge meet
ings; Lodge officials paid
a fine of $1.0O.
Finally, in 1912 lots were
purchased for the purpose of
building a Lodge Home and
on September Is, 1913, the
membership voted to proceed
with the building of the Ma
tional Croatian Home under
the ownership of "Zvijezda"
(Star) Lodge 351, National
Croatian Union.
! AS a matter of fact, they
worked so furiously that
within a month they were
able to meet in their own
quarters. Unfinished, true,
but it had a roof and was
sufficient for their immediate
needs.
(To Be Continued)
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Hammond, Ind, "Maywoodites" Close
Books With Bang On 50th Anniversary
Hoosier State Lodge 358 Members Rank
Al When 1t Comes To Fraternal FervOr
Continued From Page 81
Continued From Page 81

In those early years, the
marsal, the predsjednik and
the tajnik, wore the troboj-
nice in parades and it seemed
that parades preceded most
any big doings of the lodge.
The three mentioned wear
ing the trobojnice, the STAN
dard bearers carrying the
lodge flags, while the rest of
the lodge members wearing
their lodge badges followed
proudly behind, trying to keep
in step to the brass bands.
AS one "old timer" was
heard to say - To su nekada
bill sretni dani!
To give the guests some
idea of how this was car
ried out, a marsaI, pred
sjednik and tajnik, Steve
NovOseI, Steve Ban and ST.
mum Puskarich, were called
forth to put on their tro-
bOjnice.
Mr.. Matosec's presentation
of this part of the program
was such that he literally had
his listeners on the edge of
their seats enjoying every mi
mute of his recital.
To many, it was reliving old
times, to others, like our
selves, something very new
and to everyone a wish that
we still had some of those
customs of bygone days.
Forward, Maywoodites!
1t is up to us to build, to
treasure and guard the May
Woodites" and the Croatian
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Fraternal Union.
So that those who shall in
herit it from us will be proud
of our achievements as we
are this day proud Of the un-
selfish and self sacrificing
contributions of our sturdy
pioneers.
It wasn't our intention
to make any profit from
this affair. In fact the lodge
picked up the tab for par
tial payment of each men,
ber's plate. We are of tho
belief that when you preach
Fraternalism, a good policy
is to practice and carry out
your beliefs.
The "Maywoodites" are
thankful to have reached the
50th birthday intact, finan-
cially secure and, above all,
blessed with 200 some mem-
bers who are fraternal mind.
ed, politically disinclined, and
always ready to put into prac-
tice the tried and true slogan
- ALL FOR ONE AND ONE
FOR ALL!
We sincerely are grateful
to all our members, each and
every guest for being with III
on this memorable occasion.
To the Croatian Fraternal
Union and it's Editors, Ste-
phen F. Brkich and Philip
Vukelich we extend our ap.
probation for their moral
support. 1t was a job we'll
done!
(Conclusion)
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Americans Are Still The Most Fortunate People On Earth

whole new lines Of ready
mixed, prebaked, frozen and
concentrated foods, the Ame-
rican diet has changed-for
the better.
We eat fewer potatoes
and cereals, but more
fruits, vegetables, dairy
products and eggs. The
synthetic vitamins or min
erals now added to . num-
ber of foods has also In
creased the number of
Americans enjoying ade-
quate diets.
Yet the picture is not all
rosy. Some Americans still
cannot afford to buy the food
they need. Others-and there
are many more of those =
have enough money and may
even eat enough total amount
of food, but do not choose
the right foods in the right
amounts to give them the ele-
ments they need.
Ito Be Continued
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Detroit's "zora" Lodge 351 Members
Look Back On 50 Years Of Ups, Downs
Memorable Depression Of 1905 Proved
That Fraternalism Is Thing Of Splendor
CONTINUED From Page 81

Our Lodge owns it's own
hall and is in the midst of a
Embarrassing drive for the
purpose Of building a larger
home, sufficient for it's needs,
and the needs of other CFU
Lodges in the vicinity which
have always found the well
come mat out in Lodge 351's
home for their meetings, par
ties, dances, etc.
During it's very early be-
ginning, our Lodge met in
homes, in business places
of it's members. Detroit at
that time was an entirely
different city than the one
with which we are familiar.
The automobile was only 4
years old; airplanes were on
the American scene only Z
years; firetrucks were still
drawn by horses; electricity
was the Pickering variety -
most of the homes used gas
lights; workers worked 16
and 1S hours a day for a
daily wage of approximately
$1.OO.
In 1909 Lodge 351 records
show that a New Years Eve
dance was held in a hall or
Gratiot and Russell for which
the rental was $500 and the
orchestra "a brass band, not
tamburitza) cost $3.50. The
net profit of this dance was
$11.5O.
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So. Chicago 948 In Banquet Nov. 3

SO. CHICAGO, Ill. - "Sve-
ii Ante" CFU Lodge 948 will
sponsor a Banquet and Pro-
gram on Sunday, November
3, at the Croatian Home, 9618
Commercial Avenue, begin
ming at $50 pm.
This fete will be a 40th An
niversary commemoration for
our surviving members Of the
former "Hercegovacko Pot
porno Drustva Sveti Ante,
which merged with the Croa-
tan Fraternal Union in 1943,
and the 4Oth birthday of our
Lodge 948.
Bro. Philip Vukelich,
Croatian Editor of the Ia