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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20

me OF neglect or lack Of faith II
I don't do 1t.
THE COUNCILS VIEW
This mother and son are
locked in an unfortunate pat
tern that should be broken be-
fore much more damage is done
George appears determined
to place himself in a dependent
position toward his mother. and
he is just as determined to pun
ish himself by making sure that
she will withhold the very
things he demands of her.
If he wanted the return OF
his money, pure and simple. he
would not upset the apple cart
by telling his mother his "crazy
schemes" for investment. If he
were interested in the job, pure
and simple, he would explain
to his mother that it is often
helpful to discuss the field with
lust another employe"-even
one who does not have influ-
ence.
Mrs. L. g. plays into Georges
hands when she makes excuses
and promises, instead of COM
ing straight out with what is
on her mind. She should tell
George fatty that she would
like to hold on to his money
for him until he is in a posi-
ton to handle it better.
If she cannot get his agree
ment, she should turn the
money over to him. Whatever
money loss he might suffer
would not be as bad as the loss
Of time, happiness and growth
caused by this self-created,
frustrating situation.
The same line should be fol-
lowed by Mrs. L. G. in relation
to the job or any other "ridicu-
lous or impossible. demand
made by George. She should let
him know how she feels about
it and then drop it.
George should recognize that
it is not his mothers confidence
he needs at his age. but his own.
He can't get this by making his
immediate future dependent
upon what his mother will or
won't do for him.
(Copyright 1897. General Features
COrp.)
Tomorrow: A wife end husbond
differ on whether their children should
40 steodv.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20

things beng done 10 keep people
heolthy and hoppy when they get
old. This is the third OF O series.
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slower pulse plays a part. the
decline is mostly the result Of
less blood being pumped at
each beat.
Then, we set out TO find what
this decline in output means
in terms Of the aging heart and
circulation. For this we had to
consider accurate measure
ments of blood pressure.
How TO Measure Heart
Since most of the work Of the
heart is to pump blood under
pressure through the arteries
and tiny blood vessels OF the
body. the job done by the heart
is measured by its pumping
work in terms of pressure and
flow. The condition Of the blood
vessels may be measured by the
resistance which they offer.
Thus with these two catego-
ries Of Observation-Disclosures OF
blood pumped and blood pres
sures-we could learn some
thing about age changes moi
only in the work performed BY
the heart but in the condition
OF the blood vessels Of the body
We found that the resistance
to flow against which the heart
must pump increases signifi-
cantly with age. mounting from
year to year a little more thar
the output Of the heart fall.
of. We found. too. that the &C.
tual work the heart perform.
tends to fall off with age.
What do these findings mean;
Should we be distressed to learr
that our hearts. while we are al
rest, do less and less work as W,
grow older?
Not II this is because oul
bodies are demanding Of oul
hearts less and less work. Thi,
seems to be the case. We know
that as we grow older many o.
the working" tissues OF tn,
body tend to actually decrease
in volume, thus demanding les
from the heart.
But our STUDIES show, too
that the older heart, though les,
is demanded Of II. Is not really
as effective as the younger one
With the increase that W,
found in resistance to flow more
Of the energy available TO tn,
heart must be spent overcominI
friction and balancing pres.
sure, and less is available FOL
actually propelling blood.
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dollars in his will. My mother
needed some extra cash at that
time and turned the money
over to her. She no longer
needs that cash. yet she keeps
making various excuses for not
returning it to me. OF course.
I know she isn't trying to do
me out of the money. She just
doesn't trust me to handle that
much money properly.
This is just one of many ag-
gravating things she does. She
could. for example, help me to
get a particular job I want by
talking to one Of her friends
whose husband works in my
field. She keeps promising to
do it, but never comes through.
She doesn't have any conf
dence in my ability to prove
myself in this field. Shouldn't
a mother have some faith in
her son? +
Mrs. l.. Cd like to have
more confidence in George. but
he certainly makes it hard,
Every time I decide to return
the money to him. he comes up
with another crazy scheme
about what to do with it. He
talks of investing in very Specu-
lative stock or opening some
ridiculous kind of business he
knows nothing about.
The best 1 can do is try to
hold on to that money until
George is ready to get married.
When he has girl to steady
him. he may be more sensible
about using it.
AS for talking to my friend
about the job George wants
the whole thing is silly. This
friends husband is Just another
employee and has no influence.
1t would create an embarrass-
ing situation. There is MOTH
ing to prevent Geogre from ap-
plying for this job no his own.
George always asks me to do
some ridiculous or impossible
thing for him and then accuses
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20
EA7uRz Rcz
How to
STOP KILLING
YOURSELF
You'll Never Be Free of Worry
By DR.. PETER J. sTEINcRoHN

Many books have been
written on the subject of worry
They promise to show us how
to stop worrying. If that is
their one and only premise
they are bound to fail. As
human beings we are so con-
stituted that we are bound to
fail. AS human beings we are
so continued that we cannot
ever be entirely free from worry
of some kind aor other. Will
Rogers said: "A man who
doesn't worry is either dead,
drunk or idiotic."
/ have been told by many
patients: I'm the kind of
person who never worries. If
have something really bad the
matter with me / wish you'd
tell me. doctor. I can take it. +"
After a few, early, diScom-
forting experiences with such
people. learned to think twice
before being brutally frank
about their illness. Such were
the ones who couldn't take it. /"
Their talk about not being
worrierS was their way of
whistling in the dark to keep
up their spirits.
Admit II
Admit that you worry, at
least to some extent, and you
are on the way to becoming less
of a worrier. For example, if
you can stand of and look at
yourself effectively. you may
see yourself clearly as a worry
wart." You go through life,
not only worrying about the
things. that may happen. but
you relive the unhappy events
that occurred yesterday and
last year. 1t becomes a vicious
circle that excludes any enjoy
ment that may be present in
today's living.
In some cases ! have helped
such worriers by showing them
that they were dying daily in
stead of living daily. And that's
exactly what people do who are
so worried that they live every
minute in fear and anxiety.
There are LAO minutes in a
day. why kill them of? Time
once lost is never regained.
I recall many a patient with
imaginary heart trouble. They
are the ones with skips, palpi-
tation or other symptoms
which they "are sure" spell out
true heart disease. They live
out their days as if they are
numbered. They are afraid of
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20
LAW IN THE NEWS
Rules in Courtroom
Anger Many Persons

Judge Adlow was not ad-
vocating the use of Legal
methods for the world of com.
merce. That would result in a
colossal business bottleneck. He
was pointing out that even in
court it is hard to arrive at the
true state of the facts.
For the courts are expected
to settle arguments that have
proved too tough for ordinary
mediation, which means that
the methods used to arrive at
the truth in any court case
have to be governed by pretty
Stiff rules.
Friday: Getting OF a corporation
,sfkhnatk 0esake
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20
West Wind Breaks
Icy Trails in North
BY THOMAS r. HENRY
star Science Editor

THULE. Greenland-The trail breaker of the Far North
is the United States Coast Guard cebreaker West Wind
Its ob-to clear channels through three to six
feet thick through which thinhued ships carry cargo
to the arung isolated Air Force Army posts
along the coast Of Greenland perpetuay ce-cov
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20
MARRIAGE
LICENSE
APPLICATIONS

Under D. C. ldU couples
must apply for a marriage
license on one day, iDait three
full days and receiue the
license on the fifth day. Sun
days and holidays are counted
the same as other days.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20

The Family Council consists Of q
judge. q psyehiotrist. three clergy
men, q newspaper editor. o wOmeD's
editor and two writer's. Eoeh criticize
is summary Of on octuol eoSe his
tory. The council reports on prob
lens thot hove been deoIt with by
responsible agencies and eOunselors.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20

Thursday: Emotional losses pfecoar
depression ihot comes with old on
aei
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20
FAMILY COUNCIL
Son Thinks
Mother Fails
ToTrustHin1
THE PROBLEM

GEORGE G.-Mother has no
faith in me.
MRS. L. Gle always asks
the ridiculous or impossible.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20
THE DETAILS

George G.-I am %, the old
est Of three children. and old
enough. / believe. to handle my
own affairs. Evidently my
mother doesn't think so.
When my father died a year
ago. he left me a few thousand
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20
SECURITY FOR YOU
Science Of Aging
Is Gaining Attention

Roy Henry hos osked q group Of
specialists Of the Public Health
Service. the Governments chief
heolth agency. TO tell some OF the
things beng done to keep people
heolthy and hoppy when they get
old. This is the third Of q series.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20
THE COUNCILS VIEW

me Of neglect or lack Of faith If
! don't do 1t.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20

Friday: Getting OF a corporation
without assets.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20

Tomorrow: Nervous tremor moy be
helped.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-08-20

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The Miami times. [volume] (Miami, Fla.) 1923-current, 1957-11-23
EAL Social Civic
Club Annual Tea

The Eastern Air Lines Social
Civic Club gave its annual tea on
Sunday, Nov. TO-, pm. at the
James E. Scott Center. Among
those appearing on the program
was Alexander Brooks, civic and
religious worker of Greater Mi
ami, who was guest speaker. His
subject was christianity and
Organization" and was very in
spring.
The opening selection was,
"Jesus Keep Me Near the Cross"
Prayer was offered by Rev.
Mitchell and the welcome adj
dress by the mistress Of cere-
mony, Mrs. Ruth Smith. can Old
Saw" was read by Miss Eugenia
r. Blackshear; "The Creation"
was nicely done by Miss Elva
Evans. Several inspiring selec-
tons were rendered by Mt. Car
mel's No. 2 choir. The mistress CT
ceremony introduced the mem
bers and the president, Hermon
S. Blackshear the closing re-
marks.
We appreciate the cooperation
of all who participated with us.
Alex Gaines, vice president;
Wesley johnson, recording secre-
tary; William Lynch. treasurer;
Willie Franklin, financial secre-
tary; John Simpson, assistant
business manager; Nose Jones
parliamentarian; Wallace Herell,
chaplain; Thomas O.Wright, bus
mess manager-reporter.
The Miami times. [volume] (Miami, Fla.) 1923-current, 1957-11-23

Pictured is the shapely and vi
vacious Annette Gillian, 15-year-
old daughter Of Mr.. and Mrs.
Damus collie Mae) Gillian, Of
1888 Washington Ave-, Cocouut
Grove.
An only child, Annette is an
18th grade student at Carver Sr
High School, whose ambition is
to enter UCLA for her college
work while majoring in drama
tics.
Annette has had some model
ing experience under the guild
ance Of Frieda -Rente of N W
York. She hopes to become q
professional model and her teen
age hobbies are singing, dancing
and movies.
Sorry, fellas, we can't let you
have her phone number.
The Miami times. [volume] (Miami, Fla.) 1923-current, 1957-11-23
MAXINE MEDALS
ey MAXINE BETHEL

ey MAXINE BETHEL

Hello ..
WITH A FIERCE pride In our
State And who among you
would suggest that our glorious
Miami bow in Difference to any
city in the nation? II Is well, too,
we boast this adamant pride
Every city has its peculiar charm
unique unto only that city and
feels ITS citizenry more selecf
than the citizenry anywhere But
our Miami claims all the super
IativeS.
WHY, ONLY MIAMI offers
you this news script, which in
turn gave you a former society
writer par excellent, Mrs. Doro-
thy Sanford. We feed lot OF re-
spect for that one! Yes, and we
can thank her for the pangs of
inadequacy we feel at our at
tempts to assume a position she
filled SO Welt
-
WrlLETTA LONG, a charm,
(she's brainy too,) VIII be one of
the models struttfng current fash
iaas at the Sir John hotel on
Sanday, Nov. "a at 4:30 pm.
LOCAL ZETAS are preparing
to entertain their sisters Of the
Southeastern Regional Confer
ence when they convene in Fort
Lauderdale Nov. $3.50. Con
gratulations! Our best wishes for
a successful, entertaining meet.
THE FATES have realized and
answered another OF our needs
in Mrs. Betty Fox who will con-
duct ballet classes In the Opa
Locha area. She is the wife of
Melvin Fox, who is employed in
North Dade Jr.-Sr.'s physical
education department And
the Liberty City area has in the
competency Of Mrs. Sylvia Espy
a musician who is Offering pri-
vate piano instruction to residents
OF aH ages.
THE DORSEY Memorial Ii
brary sponsored Edwin l.. Davis
a local attorney who is an ener-
get1c participant In the civic and
religious Fife of the community, in
a book review during the cele-
bration OF National Book Week
The audience was app5eciative OF
the ideas impaired through this
Timely topic The library has
planned an Informative and en-
tertaining series Of Mlms, stories
book reviews, spiced with music
appreciation. We shall post topics
and dates for your agenda as the
series progresses.
O. YOU HAVE not already
there stin is time for you 10 make
your contribution to JESCA's an
naai bazaar to be held In Deem
Der at the James E. Scott Homes
Auditorium.
CONGRATULATIONS TO the
new North Dade Jr.-Sr. High
School, of which Charles Wyche
Is principal, for having been the
FIRST school in the county TO COM
plete its United Fund Campaign!
The school community far ex-
ceeded the quota fixed for that
area. Already this new addition
to the high school roster Is Inn
printing itself indellibly upon the
consciousness of the city In many
ways .. We are watching you.
MiAMiANS, you have urea.
bounty In the successes, pro-
crosses and social aura gracing
your lives. Share them through
us with others.
Aryicntly.
The Miami times. [volume] (Miami, Fla.) 1923-current, 1957-11-23

WHY, ONLY MIAMl offers
you this news script, which in
turn gave you a former society
writer par excellent, Mrs. Doro-
thy Sanford. We feed a lot Of re-
spect for that one! Yes, and we
can thank her for the pangs OF
inadequacy we feel at our at
tempts to assume a position she
filled SO WELT
The Miami times. [volume] (Miami, Fla.) 1923-current, 1957-11-23

tF YOU HAVE not already
there stin is time for you 70 make
your contribution to JESCA's an
naai bazaar to be held In Deem
Der at the James E. Scott Homes
Auditorium.
The Miami times. [volume] (Miami, Fla.) 1923-current, 1957-11-23

WrLLETTA LONG, a charm,
(she's brainy too,) WIZ be one of
the models struttfng current fash
inas at the Sir John hotel on
Sanday, Nov. "a at 4:30 pm.
The Miami times. [volume] (Miami, Fla.) 1923-current, 1957-11-23

LOCAL ZETAS are preparing
to entertain their sisters Of the
Southeastern RegioHal Confer
ence when they convene in Fort
Lauderdale Nov. $3.50. Con
CALCULATIONS! Our best wishes for
a successful, entertaining meet.
The Miami times. [volume] (Miami, Fla.) 1923-current, 1957-11-23
CONGRATULATIONS {,
MiAMiANs, you have

MtAMlANS, you have urea'
bounty In the successes, pro-
crosses and social aura gracing
your lives. Share them through
us with others.
Ardently,
Maxine Bethel
Evening star., 1957-12-26
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Evening star., 1957-12-26
WHY GROW OLD?
Do You Cloud Others
With Your urNeQativism?

criticism. a pessimistic view
pcint--all paint the back
ground against which we live.
people make life for other
peoplel How wonderful il
could be II we were always
kind in our association with
others.
Folks make life dificult
even for those they love. Yet
We all know how the heart
lifts and the day brightens
when we encounter a Rra-
cious thought or action or q
humorous attitude.
We have q tremendous re-
sponsibility not to stahd in
the light Of others, not TO
dim the mood of their day
with lack Of enthusiasm. not
to add TO an atmosphere of
tension and irritability.
We may 60 to church every
Sunday. We may give to the
poor. we may have moral
standards. but II We habitu-
ally depress others with our
negative moods. I think 1t Is
downright sinful,
Evening star., 1957-12-26
By JOSEPHINE LOwMAN

II is the seemingly unim-
portant little things in daily
life. q word here, an action
there. which add up to such
q big total in happiness or
Illustration and fatigue.
When real tragedy strikes.
people either rise above It
and live vibrantly In spite
Of their pain. or they become
neurotic with self pity.
However. small. petty dis
appointments and irritants,
and rudenesSes and thought
leSsness We run into have a
way Of slipping up on us and
changing our personality be-
fore we realize IL.
] think folks most often
become bored or depressed
or maladjusted because Of
the small things which hap
pen to them and color their
daily lives. The barbs Of envy
or rudeness. the cross word
spoken by someone we love,
lack OF appreciation or un-
derstanding. an unexpected
Evening star., 1957-12-26
HarriSOnS'
Yule Menu
Duplicated

Mrs. Marthena Harrison
Williams was too young to
remember the Christmas din
ner her grandparents. Presi-
dent and Mrs. Benjamin
Harrison. served at the White
House in 1889.
She had a chance yester-
day. however. to enjoy Q
sumptuous menu duplicating
that long-ago repast. She
dined at the Mayfiower Hotel
which featured the Harri-
sons Christmas dinner in
the Presidential dining room.
Mrs. Williams had as her
guest q friend from Wiscon-
sin. Mrs. Mary Pullen. who
is spending some time in
Washington.
On her arrival she was
presented with a white or
child corsage as q tribute
TO Mrs. BENJAMIN Harrison
whose fondneSs for orchids
started q fad for this deli
cate flower.
As q youngSter. Mrs. Will
liams spent many months
in the White House which
was quarantined once when
she contracted an illness
diagnosed as scarlet fever.
Yesterdays menu included
q clear soup made from a
recipe Mrs. Harrison con-
tributed to q book published
In 1890 under the title,
"Statesmen's Dishes and How
Evening star., 1957-12-26

berry jelly. mince meat and
American plum pudding fol-
lowed by ice cream tutti-
frutti served with lady fin
gers. macaroons and carls-
bad waters.
All this was topped of
with a variety Of fruits plus
black coffee.
Evening star., 1957-12-26
LIT. John Viney
To Be Murried

Or. and Mrs. william Z.
Defphey, Of San Marino and
Vista. Calf, announce the
engagement OF their daugh-
ter, Elizabeth. to Army 1t.
John Alvin Viney, son Of
Brig. Gen. and Mrs. Alvin q.
Viney Of Arlington. Va.
Gen. Whey islDeputJ Chief
Of Engineers for military
operations.
1t. Viney was graduated
from the Military Academy at
West Point, class Of 1855.
After being commissioned in
the artillery he completed
the Airborne and Ranger
Evening star., 1957-12-26

to Cook Them" she person-
ally autographed her con-
tribution with the signature,
Caroline Scott Harrison.
The dinner started OF with
blue point oysters. half shell.
1t also featured such favor
ties as terrapin al Ia Mary
land. roast turkey with cram
Evening star., 1957-12-26
BY DR. PAUL POPENOE

~ DMs EAUL FOFENOE
Helen writes, II don't think
there's anything objection
able about me. but there
can't be anything very de-
sirable either because no one
seems to pay any attention TO
me. Some girls stand out
In q crowd. ] don't.
Apparently I'm that face
less woman you read about.
People meet me and walk on.
leaving me behind like q
piece Of furniture. I'm get
ting discouraged. DR.. Pop
enoe."
Anyone can do better with
q little training. Helen. Many
great organizations spend
hundreds OF thousands Of
dollars training people on
how TO make a good FIRST
impression. They think. quite
correctly. that this is Inn
portant: and they tell their
men and women that the
first ten seconds Of q meet
ing may be decisive.
Intense Courses
Some OF them have in
tensive training courses COW
ering many weeks. I'll boil
this down TO half a dozen
points which are particularly
important In that ten-second
start you're going to get:
/. When you meet a per-
son. look him in the eye and
smile Make this a pleasant.
friendly smile. not one Of
those cast-iron smiles that
you see In male and female
politicians and some other
people in public life.
2. Speak first. The experts
attach much Importance to
Evening star., 1957-12-26
MODERN MARRIAGE
Make Good Impression
In Only 10 Seconds !,

this. OF course. II isn't al
ways possible, for one reason
or another: but work toward
1t. II you stand there like
a clothing store dummy.
you're not giving the other
fellow any encouragement,
are your
3. Don't waste your time
trying to figure out some
clever opening remark. A
mere How do you do?" or
Good morning" is usually
all that's necessary II you
really act as II you meant It.
I. Train your voice. II you,
say nothing more than Good
morning." end on an up-note
rather than q down-note.
Enunciate clearly. You can
spend a lot Of time profitably
working on your voice.
Use Name
5. II you have the other per-
sons name. by all means use
1t. II you're being introduced
for the FIRST time. get the
name and repeat II. II you
don't catch 1t. as is often the
case. ask again for 1t.
6. When you are being In
troduced, step slightly toward
the other person. but don't
get too close as II you in
tended to pounce.
Psychologist Roswell H.
johnson, director of coun-
selling at the American Insti.
tute Of Family Relations. has
a mimeographed bulletin on
How to Increase Your Cor
diality." that contains many
helpful suggestions. I'll send
q copy free TO any reader who
sends a stamped. self-ad-
dressed envelope with the re-
0fiaef