St. Paul recorder. [volume] (St. Paul, Minn.) 1934-2000, 1957-03-15
THIS N THAT
by hazel
underwood

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ever noticed a really charming
person is the one who has learned
10 listen?
II you feel the least bit shy a.
bout meeting a person, just
drink" in his or her every word
and ask about their work or hob
by. They will do most of the talk
ing and think you are a very
charming person. II and when you
can get word in edgewise, tell
them how much you admire their
latest new car, home, wife, hus-
band or child
BY the time they have told you
all about their family you win be
the best Of friends. You must be
sincerely interested and do not
flatter them, because flattery
gets you nowhere, fast.
What ever you dO-keep your
eyes ON the person TO whom you
are talking. Don't let your mind
wonder off, give him your at
tention and that IL all he needs
or wants.
When he wakes up and finds he
knows nothing at all about you or
your family or hobbies he win
realize he has done most of the
talking and from then on you are
the best of friends. He will be
kept busy the next half hour
making himself agreeable to you.
Try is sometime and see for
yourself. All of Us are human and
all OF US are a little shy and all of
us enjoy friendships that win be-
come lasting, Build them on a
strong foundation of truth and
sincerity and you will get along
all right.
After this first happy meeting
they will seek your company.
DR.. Roy A. Burlthart said
CYour LIFE II you are satisfied
with the person you are, you are
in danger. Nobody can tell you a
thing You are not responsive to
advice. You know II all. You have
the first and the last word" If
you want 70 achieve success you
must be as ready TO give as to re-
ccivc.
You must take life for graft
tudc. and not for granted. Last,
but not least, you can hold only
what YOU give away"
SO il is important that each Of
us looks honestly at himself.
Or. and Mrs, Anton Lyzcnga:
Mrs. Sloan Allen Of Benton Har-
Dor was in Battle Creek the other
day and asked about you and
your family. I promised TO send
this word to you.
Rev and Mrs. NJ. L. Simmons:
Hat" and Pete" Of Detroit
were here the other day and they
said for me to tell you they are
so happy to know you are doing
50 well at st. Peters Pete said,
look out"
Mrs. Rosa L. Gregg came up to
us and asked me to be sure and
tell her saw you and that she
asked about you and your family.
Hattie's mother, Mrs. Golden and
Mrs. Gregg's husband were bur
led about the same time,
Rev. Lewis Williams OF St
James ANIE church, St Paul.
Mrs. Gregg and Rev and Mrs.
Allen Peterson were also happy TO
know you are doing so wei in St.
Paul.
Many Twin Citians, especially
members Of the National ASsocia-
ton Of Colored women's clubs
will be grieved to learn Of the
death OF the National President.
Miss Cleo F. Haley Of Battle
Creek. Mich.
Miss Haley was also a register
Ell nurse OF as years service in the
largest Ssnitarium in the world,
the Battle Creek Sanitarium. now
owned BY the U, S. Government,
and called the Percy Jones hos
pital For years she was in
charge Of the general nurses de-
psrtment and also the Diathermy
department,
Emerson Harris, l. A sub
scriber; All Of your home town
friends in Kalamazoo and Battle
Creek are happy to know Lorena
is able 20 be At home
What has happened to my lis
tening poStsF"
This is IL. this week