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brought together a company
Of 100 or more.
Judge Kelly's parents. Mr..
and Mrs. William F. Kelly,
were invited and found many
friends in the group because
Mr.. Kelly is a prominent
lawyer here.
In fact, the honor guest
practiced in the family firm
of Kelly and Nicholaides for
two years before her appoint
ment in 1858 as an Assistant
United States Attorney. The
latter post led to her appoint
ment to the Municipal Court
bench.
Capital Native
A native Washingtonian,
she was graduated from
Western High School and re-
ceived her law degree at
George Washington Univer-
sity, Before entering law
school, she spent a year
travelling and studying in
Europe. attended Smith Col
lege and served in the Wom-
ems Army Corps during
World War II.
Judge Kelly is a member
Of Kappa Beta Pi Legal So
rority which gave a luncheon
for her last spring.
She also is a member of
the Washington Club whose
headquarters on Dupont
circle provided the setting for
Yesterdays party.
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course, the new parent must
be prepared to accept the
child and give him the love
and guidance he needs.
Not all people are At to be
parents. The mother should
consider carefully whether
she wants to marry q man
who cannot accept her child.
! It would be q wonderful
thing If we could have centers
where these orphans Of d.
vorce could be sent and child
less couples with great hearts
could give them warmth and
love.
Tomorrow: How to hondIe post
divorce sex problems.
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PsYchidtry Professor
To Address MEETING

The Ladies Board Of the
Georgetown University Hos
pital will meet today, 1890
noon, in the auditorium of
the Nurses Home.
DR. George N. Raines, Di-
rector of the Department of
Psychiatry and Professor of
Psychiatry. will continue a
series of talks on Know Your
Hospital" DR.. Raines is also
Chief of Department of Psy-
chiatry, United States Navy.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-11-25

Mr.. and Mrs. Harry Polans
of Long Island, N. Y. an
nounce the marriage of their
daughter, Helen Polans Han
zook. to Mr.. David M. Wartel
of Boston, Mass. The wedding
took place Saturday in Ar
lington, Va. The couple will
reside in Rockville, Md.
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Rocun-Reed

Mr.. and Mrs. William Inge
Reed, jr.. announce the mar
riage of their daughter Mary
Lila to Mr.. James Richard
Rogan, son of Mr.. William
j. Rogan and the late Mrs.
Rogan. The wedding took
place Saturday in st. Mary's
Catholic Church, Piscataway,
Md.
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WEDDINGS

Mr.. and Mrs. Frank j. Koinig
of West Palm Beach. Fla.
The wedding took place Sat-
urday in st. Catherine La
boure Church, Wheaton, Md.
The couple will reside in West
Palm Beach, Fla.
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about her ex-husband's visits
to their child. why should
he be permitted to see the
child at alp" she fumed.
MY boy comes home con-
fused and upset after the
visit and he is difficult to
handle. / think it ought to
STOP"
This is an unwise attitude
for a divorced mother to
take. The child continues to
need his father as much as
his mother. Unless the father
is a disturbed person land
the emotionally involved
mother cannot be the judge.
he is entitled to visitation
rights. What has to be de-
veloped is an intelligent and
responsible attitude toward
these visits so that the child
is not harmed. The visits
should be peaceful and af-
fectionate and constructive.
NO subtle attempts should be
made to turn the child
against the absent parent by
gifts or other means.
Father Serves As Example
To a child. the father is a
flesh and blood sample of
manhood. His example will
determine the child'S re-
sponses in future life. If the
father isn't there. the youth
full mind Will be at a loss,
for there will be no example
for him. The absence of the
father leaves a vast inner
desert, a guideleSs anxiety.
The child feels he has been
robbed. And he feels rejected.
Parents do not cease being
parents because they are
divorced. They might try
harder to give the child more
love and security. They
might try harder to share
their lives with him. The
wise father looks forward to
these visits and plans for
them.
1 think the role of the
father is to educate the child.
He is not to be a policeman
or a Santa Claus bringing
gifts. He is rather to be a
hero. to be accepted and
admired, and with whom the
child can identify himself.
Imitation of parental ex-
ample is the way in which
a young personality grows.
Girls also need the compan-
ionShip of a father to pre-
pare them for normal boy
girl relationships.
The source of juvenile de-
linquency is not so much the
broken home as the broken
spirits of the parents who
have no time for their chill
dren or who resent them.
Selfish Parents
Modern parents are selfish.
Their pleasures and activities
come first. 1t is rare for the
family to get together in the
home and give it meaning.
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AFTER THE DIVORCE
Society us Whole
Suffers From Errors

Yet it is these personal rela-
tionships that are SO impor-
tant.
A mother often says that
her ex-husband only spends
Sundays or vacations with
the child and it accomplishes
little. But / disagree. It is
how the time is spent rather
than how much that is i'm
portant. Even in q happy
home the child may not often
see his father, who may come
home tired and read his
paper. He may not have the
energy to participate in the
life Of the child or exert
much masculine influence.
The father who has vista
ton rights at least has the
advantage in that he has
saved a definite period of
time to be with the child.
If he uses 1t wisely, a con-
structive relationship can be
built, one that will give the
child the emotional founda-
ton he needs to grow up to
be a wholesome human being.
It is because the parents
keep on firing the guns of
hostility after divorce that
they fail to have any clear
cut objective in handling the
child. The parents suffer
from a sense of guilt over
the failure Of the marriage
that only worsens the situar
ton and makes for incon-
sistent attitudes toward the
child. He then may become
distraught and may express
his psychic distress either in
a hostile naughty" act or by
failing to react at all.
Then the parent complains,
Il can't do anything with
him"
On Neutral Ground
The fathers visits with the
child should be in a neutral
place under the supervision of
a neutral person. But def
nitely not in the home of the
mother where her physical
presence could create an at
mosphere of hostility.
I think the courts should
get reports on these visits
very much as it does from a
probation officer. If the child
is being harmed, the court
can then decide whether or
not the visits should be con-
tinued. The child is the future
citizen and society has a
stake in his future.
How about remarriage?
Parents often ask whether
the child should be sent to
q boarding school in the first
years of his parents new
marriage. Certainly not! nat
urally at the outset the child
will be hurt by the substitute
parent and will unconscious
ly resist him. but mother
must prepare the child to &C
cept the newcomer. And, of
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-11-25

Freda Utley, the controver-
sial English-bo American
author who has covered her
political beliefs in some 10
! books from the time she was
q Communist through her
swing to the far right. has
written another book. To
launch "Will the Middle East
Go West?" she gave a party
yesterday in her r street
house.
1t was an interesting coll
lection Of people who dropped
by for the $50 cocktail gath
ering that turned out to be
q supper too.
There was the Presidents
Special Ambassador and Mrs.
James Richards. the retiring
Egyptian Charge d'Affaires
Anwar Mai and his success
sor Egyptian Minister Amin
M. Mouftah: the Chinese
Ambassador and Mrs. Hol-
lington Tong. the Sudanese
Ambassador Ibrahim Anis,
Iranian Ambassador Ali AM
mi who said he had read Miss
Utley's book and thought it
pro-Egyptian. and the pub
Usher Of the right-wing news
letter, Appeal to Reason.
Lawrence Dennis.
Harry Byrd. IT,, dropped
by as did James Terry Duce,
the influential Aramco execu-
tive who is such q good friend
of the King of Saudi Arabia
and says the latter is still
pro-American.
Speaking Of gifts, Mr.. Duce
said he knew Of another Gov
eminent EN- ploye besides
Victor Purse who had ac-
cepted an automobile from
the King but was never found
out. Calling 1t playing with
fire." Mr.. Duce said he. him.
self. though not in the Gov
eminent, had accepted only
one gift from his generous
majesty-a gold sword. And
in return he had given the
King a historic Damascus
sword.
Mrs. Joseph Mccarthy was
expected. the hostess said,
but she had not arrived when
I left. Miss Utley, who testi-
fled for Mccarthy against
Owen baltimore. said she
couldn't go along with him
in the hn-Schine business.
A young red-haired man
named Brent Bozell who. said
Miss Utley wrote McCarthy's
speeches during the last year
and a half of his life-"but
he started too late"-mingled
in the group of Egyptians.
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Mrs. Word Returns

Mrs. Dorothy Lee Ward has
returned to Washington after
a month in France, a month
in England and two months
on an African safari.
On December 10 Mrs. Ward
is giving a dinner at the
Sulgrave Club for Gen. and
Mrs. Curtis E. LeMay.
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Invitations Issued

Invitations have been issued
by Mr.. Edgar Hamilton Fair
Funk to view an exhibition
of paintings and have tea at
Chapter House." 1882 Mas
sachusetts avenue. The in
vitations are for Saturday
from 3 to 6 pm. and Sunday
from 8 to 2 pm.
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Shermun-Goldm0n

Mr.. and Mrs. Harry Gold
man of Alexandria announce
the marriage of their daugh-
ter, Evelyn Rose to Mr.. Rom
aid Sherman, son of Mrs.
Rose Rothwarf of Miami
Beach. Fla. and the late Mr..
Abraham D. Sherman of this
city. The wedding took place
October 20 in the Hamilton
Hotel. The couple is resid-
ing in Silver Spring.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-11-25

(As told to Lillian Genn.D
North American Nauenaner Alliance

tfAS gOAU W A<AAhA4n NCuMsI
North American Newspaper Alliance
NEW YORK, Nov. 25.-
Courts should require COM
pulsory instruction of all
parents who are getting a di-
vorce on how to handle the
children. If the parents are
unfit. the courts should act.
1t is absurd that divorced
parents should founder
around the way they do. So
ciety as a whole suffers from
these unhappy people and
their hostile children.
Recently an embittered d.
vorced wife consulted me
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-11-25
Fleming-Pdnor

Mr.. and Mrs. George Pa
nor of this city announce the
marriage of their daughter
Sophie to Mr.. Philip Vincent
Fleming, son of Mrs. Philip
Sheridan Fleming of Revere,
Mass. The wedding took place
yesterday in St. Thomas
Apostle Church, Washington.
The couple will reside in
this city.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-11-25

Background: Modern parents ore
selfish" soys noted psychiotrist Dr..
RoIph S. Bonoy in this second article
Of q five-port series. The fathers
role oil too often is left untitled
when mother tokes custody Of
child Of divorce. The fathers visits
must be on important port Of i'd
iustine children to the troeedy Of
separation.
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Observation-Disclosures

Mrs. Alexander Gordon
Billingsley of Arlington an
nounces the marriage of her
daughter Carolyn Virginia to
Mr. Donald Riggs Dougherty,
jr., son of Mr.. and Mrs.
Dougherty of Arlington. The
wedding took place Saturday
in st. Georges Episcopal
Church, Arlington. The
couple will reside in Airing
fOY
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-11-25
Koinio-Cunninqhum

Mr.. and Mrs. j. Maxson
Cunningham. jr.. announce
the marriage of their daugh-
ter Audrey Riordon to Mr..
Edward Paul Koinig, son Of
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Deeth-Kluqe

Mr.. and Mrs. Edward
Kluge of Valley, Nebr., an
nounce the marriage of their
daughter Irma Martha to Mr..
Raymond Emil Deeth. son of
Mr.. and Mrs. Emil Deeth of
Scranton, Iowa. The wedding
took place Saturday in the
First Trinity Lutheran Churh
in this city. The couple will
reside in Washington
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-11-25
Selfish Parents

Modern parents are selfish.
Their pleasures and activities
come first. 1t is rare for the
family to get together in the
home and give it meaning.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08

posal on troop movements, au-
thoritative sources said.
Part Of Bigger Plan
Mr.. Stassen emphasized that
both proposals should be in
cluded in a partial agreement
setting the stage for q full-scale
treaty ending the world arms
race.
Mr.. Stassen said the troop pro-
poSal would cover such move
ments as the transfer Of soldiers
from the United States mainland
to Alaska because they would
have to cross international
boundaries or international
waters.
A. subcommittee source said
Mr.. Stassen described the pro.
posals as desirable but not in
dispensable" in any halfway pact
on disarmament.
Mr.. Stassen. in outlining his
ideas to the subcommittee dele
gates Of the Soviet Union. France.
Britain and Canada. said the ex-
port-import proposal could OPP
crate either by treaty or with
the establishment of border con-
trolls.
90-Minute Meeting
The subcommittee met for 30
minutes with no apparent men.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08
u. S. Envoy
Walks Out of
Reception

JAKARTA, Indonesia. May 8
|R.-United States Ambassador
John Allison and his wife walked
out on President Sukarno's re-
Iception for visiting Soviet Presi-
dent K1ementi Voroshilov last
might because no seats were pro-
vided for them.
A United States Embassy
spokesman said the Allisons ar
rived at the time specified for
the reception and found the
usual program Of Indonesian
ceremonial dances already under
way. A Foreign ONCE official
spotted the American couple
wandering down an aisle, uShered
them to the front row. and left
them standing.
Witnesses said that. when no
chairs were provided. Mr.. Al
lison turned and led his wife nut.
Indonesian officials said the
Americans had arrived 80 min
|utes late. because the schedule
had been changed.
The dancers included Mr..
ISukarno's two daughters. 6-year-
old Rachmati and 0-year-old
IMegawata. The program fol-
lowed a dinner attended by diplo-
mats from the I'VE Communist
nations represented in Jakarta.
the Indonesian cabinet and
Egyptian Ambassador Ali AM
roussi representing the rest Of
the diplomatic corps.
Speaking at the end Of the
dinner. Mr.. Voroshilov said IS
years of the Soviet Unions his
tory had been wasted in wars
Imposed by enemies" and that
his government now only wants
peace. prosperity and friendship
with all nations.
Mr.. Sukarno In reply said the
Soviet Union and Indonesia were
similar in their dedication to
universal freedom. universal
social justice and universal
peace"
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08
u. ). 10 Disclose
Troop Orders
If 0t1ersDo

LONDON. May 8 R.-The
United States has offered to tell
the world beforehand OF any in
|ternational movement OF United
States troops, even including
transfer Of forces from the main-
land to Alaska.
United States Delegate Harold
lStassen made the offer to the
u. N. Disarmament Subcommit-
tee on condition that other ma
tions agree to give such advance
notice.
Mr.. Stassen also called on the
Soviet Union to accept an inter.
national control system over Inn
ports and exports Of arms.
Mr.. Stassen's proposals got q
non-committal reception from
the Soviet delegation. Jules
Moch Of France gave arm sup
port to the United States pro.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08
Two Die as Worker
|PIunoes Il Floors

HUNTINGTON. w. Va. May
"a window worker fell from
the 18th floor Of the Chesapeake
& Ohio Building yesterday. kill
ing himself and . veteran Gao
porter standing on the sidewalk.
A second pedestrian was In
jured.
Police identified the window
washer as James Ross. AZ, Of
Huntington. They said his
safety belt apparently broke.
The porter was Ben Ramsey.
about 40. Of North Kenova. Ohio.
He was dead on arrival at q
hospital.
Alfred Tharp. 50. OF Hunting
ton was injured. His condition
was listed as satisfactory.
Mr.. Tharp apparently had
been talking to Mr.. Ramsey.
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ton made Of proposals for ban
ming the hydrogen bomb or con-
trolling nuclear tests. It Is meet
ing again today.
Two newly arrived Americans
sat at Mr.. Stassen's side. They
are DR.. Ernest Lawrence Of the
University Of California and DR.
Mark Mills Of the atomic labora-
tories at Livermore. Calf. The
nuciear scientists were brought
from the United States for con-
sultation and advice.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08

on the basis Of answers given
to q scientifically prepared ques-
tionnaire form on home and
family life.
The family will take mart in
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08
Couple Selected
In Family Search

MIR. and Mrs. Walter A. Fox
and their children. Michael, Z.
and Jacquelyn, 1. were named
"All-American District Of Co.
lumbia Family" yesterday in the
first Nationwide All-American
Family Search.
The family. who live at all
Oglethorpe street Me-. was
named in New York in q con-
test conducted nationally by
"the Book Of knowledge" and
the Boys Clubs Of America. CO.
sponsors Of the search are Fruit
of the Loom and Arson Jewelry.
The Fox family was selected
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rotary of the Embassy in Mos
COW. The Russians fixed no
deadline for his leaving.
The move was regarded as
possible retaliation for the
United States custer last month
of Gennadi Mashkantsev, 0
member Of the Soviet Embassy
stan here. The Russian was ex-
PEELED for trying to entice Rus
SLAMS living in the United States
to return to the Soviet.
MIR. White was asked why Mr..
Bowe's custer might have been
requested.
I'VE know Of absolutely moth
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08


ing" he said. The press officer
added that the Soviet Foreign
Ministry had said Mr.. Bowe must
leave Immediately because Of
activities incompatible with his
status as an accredited diplo-
mat"
!. Mr.. Bowe. 40, is from Holyoke.
Mass. He is q veteran Of eight
years In the diplomatic service.
The Mashkantsev custer was
ordred after he got in touch with
Peter Pirogov. who fed the So
Wet Union in O Red air force
plane about eight years ago.
Mr.. Pirogov lives now ct Alex
andria. Va,
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08

the National All-American Fam
lily Conference, along with AZ
other winning families. at Mi
ami Beach, Fla. from May %
to June 8.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1957-05-08
Soviet ExpeIs U. S. Aide,
But Offers No Reason

The State Department Russia has ordered United
States dplomatMartin s. Bowe jr-expeled from Moscow
without explanation
Press oncer Lincoln White announcing the expulsion
late yesterday said the United States
to know why Mr. BoWe has
The Bluffton news. [volume] (Bluffton, Ohio) 1875-current, 1957-05-02
Cedaryille Beats
Beaver METERS

The Bluffton Beavers inexperienced
tennis team dropped their seasons
opener to Cedarville 4-3 at the La
gonda park courts at Springfield Mon
day afternoon.
Freshman Emil Kreider led the
way for Bluffton as he polished off
his singles match 60, Ga and teamed
with veteran netter George Bailey to
defeat Cedarville's John Entner and
Lane Moody, 6-2, 6-3. Other Beaver
winner was Kan Lu, who disposed of
Cedarville's Chaffee, 8-6, 2-6, 81.
Cedarville's big winner was Entner,
who disposed of Bailey in the singles
ga, 7-9. 6-3. Collett dropped BCs
John Kraft 6-1, GA and Moody topped
Bluffton's Don Nussbaum 6-3, Ga.
The other doubles match went tc
Collett and Chaffee who had little
trouble sinking Kraft and Nussbaum
| 60 6-1
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Beavers Split Double Header In Opener
Last Thursday With Ashland Eagles

Erupting for five runs in the last
half of the third inning the Bluffton
Beavers salvaged the second game of
their opening double header Thursday
with the Ashland Eagles 6-1, on the
local diamond. Ashland took the
opener behind the tight four-hit
pitching of Marty Kemp 20.
Veteran Beaver Highlander Jim
Roberts threw fiye-hitter against
Kemp in the opener but three Beaver
errors, two in one inning, helped the
Eagles squeak across all the sup
port Kemp needed.
In the second game pitcher Jim
Knox gave himself plenty of support
as he lashed a two run triple to
climax the big five run burst. After
second baseman Spike Berry opened
things with a double Milt Lee walked,
Roger Bixel doubled, Jim Musser was
safe on an error, Ted Hasis singled
and Knox filled things out with his
big triple.
Knox, pitching his first game in a
Bluffton uniform, gave up seven hits
but had errorless support as Bluffton
choked off Ashland whenever the
chips were down.
The Bluffton news. [volume] (Bluffton, Ohio) 1875-current, 1957-05-02
st. Gerard Gusts Pirates In NOn-COunty
Tourney After SO Victory OUer Ada High

Lima st. Gerard thumped Bluffton
high school out of the area Non
County baseball tournament 22-2
last Friday after the Pirates had
surprised Ada 9-3 the previous
Wednesday.
st. Gerard's hoped on Don Al
spach, pitching his third game of
the week, for three runs in the first
and four runs in the second to ice
the game before Bluffton even had
their first hit. The Gerries closed
things out with IS runs in the last
two innings.
Bluffton never had a chance after
Lima left fielder Christoff pounded a
3-run first inning homer. In the
sixth Lima duplicated the blast.
Only Pirate runs scored on a two
run sixth inning double by third
baseman Jake Basinger. Alspach col
lected the other Bluffton hit double
in the fifth inning.
Catcher Dave Shumaker was in.
jured when struck by swinging bat
as he attempted to block steal o1
home. He received a badly cut scalI
which will keep him out of severa
games.
Against Ada the Pirates toppled 6
club which was expecting to gain al
easy victory at Buttons expense
Alspach received 10-hit support from
The Bluffton news. [volume] (Bluffton, Ohio) 1875-current, 1957-05-02

Coach A. c. Burcky got his first
chance to see his Beaver squad under
game conditions. Working with some
of his best material in the last
several years he started entirely
different lineups in both games. Only
senior catcher Bixel, who went the
route in both contests, escaped the
free hand of substitution.
This afternoon Bluffton meets
Central State in single game on the
college diamond. Game time for the
affair, makeup of postponed game
of last month, is $3.50. Last Satur-
days scheduled doubleheader with
Huntington has been set back until
May 10, Burcky said. Only Beaver
action in the next week is double
header at Wilmington May 6.
With the flock of doubleheaders
coming up Burcky is glad to find two
freshman pitching prospects, Carver
ick and Riser, moving into form SO
they can give Roberts and Knox
plenty of help. Besides having II
lettermen Burcky has what he has
described as one of his best punches
of freshmen in his many years at the
local school.