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Evening star., 1952-07-06
Modern MARRIAGE
Widows Should Seek Wise Counsel
On Financial Matters
BY Dr.. PouI Popenoe

When q widow finds herself
alone with only o small inherit
|ance or payment from a modest
insurance policy, she is faced with
the problem Of preserving her in
dependence. This problem is es-
|pecially acute if she is compare
lively young and must plan on 20
|or 80 more years Of making ends
meet.
Some widows move into COM
Portable situations with loving and
understanding children where
they can easily earn their way as
assistant houSekeepers and baby
tenders. Others have been pro-
|vided for by their husbands care
full investments which insure
them adequate income. But how
about q woman, not yet SO, with
none Of these refugees and only a.
small amount Of money on hand?
Mrs. e. writes:
MY husband left $1,000 in life
insurance and I own our small
home. free Of debt. I am 48 years
old and. according to all reports,
its almost impossible for a woman
lot my age to get a job. Yet that
5000 won't support me for the
IreSt Of my life. The only thing I
see is to invest my funds in some
little business that will take care
Of me. Don't you think this would
be wise, DR.. Popenoe?"
This is one of the few questions
I must decline to answer, Mrs. E,
I'm not going to answer Mrs. E. S
question because ! don't know her.
I have no knowledge whatever of
her capabilities. temperament,
training or anything else I should
know in order to advise her. But
I am going to tell her and all
widows this:
When you face the problem of
investment. turn to people who
have known you for years, people
who have known your husband
land whom both of you have
trusted for a long time. Among
these should be your banker, a
man wise in money matters.
j These friends most likely will
advise Mrs. E. that to risk her
small holdings in q business
would be extremely reckless, un-
less she is either thoroughly ex-
tperienced in the business world OF
Ihas the personality, intelligence
and horse sense to learn fast and
battle hard.
The New York State Depart
ment Of Commerce advises people
who contemplate entering bust
ness Of their own to ask them
selves these questions: /. Can ]
iget along with people and inspire
|conf1dence? 2. Am I willing to
shoulder the responsibility of
meeting payrolls and paying
debts? 8. Do I like the business I
expect to enter we'll enough to
work long hours and make per-
Sonal sacrifices? 4. Do I under
stand that business is a specula-
ton and am I willing (and able)
to take the risk? S. Do I like to
sell? 6. Can I make decisions and
weather wrong ones? z. Am I re-
Evening star., 1952-07-06
Delta Gamma
Called

Delta Gammas from Washing
ton will play a leading role at
the 35th biennial convention of
the international fraternity to be
held July 8-12 at the Greenbriar,
White Sulphur Springs, w. Va.
On Friday, the Washington
group will be hostess to the con-
vention delegates. Mrs. Herbert
H. Beier is directing arrangements.
Plans include a luncheon with a
United Nations theme and the
annual banquet.
Mrs. Northcutt Ely will be
toastmistresS for the banquet.
Mrs. j. c. Green of Arlington,
daughter of Anna Boyd Ellington,
one of the three founders of the
fraternity. will be an honor guest.
Another Washingtonian. Mrs.
Albert F. Murray, jr.. will play
a leading part in the National
Project Committee meeting. She
will report on the clinic for the
social adjustment of the pre-
school blind, which is operated
by Washington Delta Gammas at
Childrens Hospital. Aid to the
blind is also a national project
of the fraternity.
Delegates and officials from the
Washington area will include Mrs.
Otis Peterson, Washington alum
nae chapter: Miss Joann Cristo-
pherson, American University:
Miss Patricia Kirkpatrick, Univer-
sity of Maryland; Miss Abbie
Oliver. George Washington Uni
versity, and Mrs. E. c. Stephens,
newly appointed province secre-
tary of this area.
Still others expected to attend
include Mrs. Herbert H. Beier.
Mrs. H. H. Jacobs, Mrs. Richard
Mayo, Mrs. Merle Thorpe, Mrs.
j. C. Green, Mrs. Victor H. Beech,
Miss Anne Larrabee and Miss
Mabel Dysinger.
Now in it's 8Oth year, the fra
ternity has more than $4,000 liv-
ing members and includes 76 col
legiate chapters and 168 alumnae
groups.
Besides q national project OF
aid to the blind, the fraternity
sponsors foreign exchange stu
dents and many scholarships.
Evening star., 1952-07-06
Problems Today
Young Girls Should Avoid Courtship
By Married Men Like the Plague
By MurieI Nissen

DEAR MISS NISSEN: Three
years ago, when I was IA. I fell ir
love with a married man Of IS
He said he loved me and woulc
divorce his wife to marry me wher
II was old enough. Now I'm sure
I'm old enough to get married, but
he evades the subject every time
bring it up. Do you think he is
sincere, and should I keep hoping?
MEG.
ANSWER: The keeper of the
neither regions should have a spe-
cial corner reserved for married
men who make aspractice of win
ming the affections of teen-agers
causing untold heartbreak and
anguish to these youngsters.
Older women caught in the
same situation are at least fully
aware of what they can expect,
but an inexperienced child has no
conception of the villainy lying in
wait for her. Young people are,
by nature, trusting. 1t is by con-
tact with the good and bad in life
that we learn where to place con-
fidence and where to withhold it.
Countless letters come to my
desk from young people like this
reader, who succumb to the at
fractions of older men with 1lne
line of being misunderstood at
home, and eager-oh, so eager
to get a divorce. Their protesta-
tions of affections, their empty
promises are as false as desert
mirage. But how can a young
girl, taking her first steps into a
Imendacious, adult world, recog-
Inize such consummate perfidy?
A girl who has had the benefit
Iof a good upbringing and religious
background might find it hard to
resist the honied words Of a suave
Casanova: how much more diff
cult it is for a youngster lacking
these advantages!
If I had but one message to give
young girls, it would be to stay
as far away as possible from men
lalready married. Avoid them like
the plague, and avoid also the
inevitable heartache - sometimes
disgrace-that follows these un-
holy friendships.
The most hollow promise in the
world is the promise of a husband
to divorce his wife in order to
marry his inamorata. Young, in
Inocent girls-as well as many older
women who should be wiser
have spent fruitless, hopeless
years waiting for such promises
ito be kept. When they finally
realize that the path of love in
their cases has been a path of
destruction. they are embittered,
Evening star., 1952-07-06

women who have
nothing left in their hearts but
the dead ashes Of a sordid ro-
nance.
Don't let it happen to you. Meg.
III you need further help, get it
from your mother, a trusted teach
Ier, your minister-any one who
will show you what lies ahead il
you continue to love this despic-
able apology for a man who has
mo aim In life but the gratifica-
|tion Of his own vanity.
DEAR MISS NISSEN: I am
very self-conscious about my hair
which my mother insists I keep
long. All the other girls have
short hair, but I am forbidden to
have mine cut.
BROWN EYES.
ANSWER: Long hair, this year,
lis just as popular as short. and
surely you can find q becoming
style with long treSses. Your
mother probably has a sound rea-
son for wanting your hair long
and, although this is a point on
which I think parents should let
children decide for themselves,
you can only accept the family
verdict and make the hest of IL
DEAR MURIEL NISSEN: Two
months ago I met a boy of 19-
four years older than land,
though he asked me for a date,
my mother wouldn't let me 60
out with him. So. met him at
my girl friends several times.
Now mother has changed her
mind, and will permit me to see
him, but he never does come to
the house when he promises, and
when he does get here he's some
times been out drinking with his
friends.
ANSWER: I'm sure you realize
from your boy friends conduct
that your mother was justified in
forbidding you to see him in the
first place. You were very wrong
to do so against her wishes, and
I hope you have sense enough
now to follow her Judgment and
stop seeing this boy, who certainly
isn't worth your attention.
Evening star., 1952-07-06

sourceful in emergencies? 8. Am
I a good organizer?
If you're convinced that you
want to undertake the step. Mrs
E.. talk to your banker. Perhaps
he knows of some small business,
requiring minimum investment
which you can run yourself. But
he'll probably tell you to beware
of certain unScrupulous deals in
which you buy merchandise you
may be stuck with. Listen to him.
Write me for a reading list of
helpful books on the subject of
Spare-time and part-time work
for women. obtainable at your
library. It will be sent with the
compliments of this newspaper If
you enclose a stamped, self
addressed envelope with your re-
quest.
Evening star., 1952-07-06
Zonto Luncheon

Members of the Zonta Club
of Washington will hear high
lights of the recent national
Zonta convention held in Houston
Tex, at a luncheon at 1896
pm. Wednesday in the YWCA.
Mrs. Florence Parker Warner
president of the club, will be the
speaker.
Evening star., 1952-07-06
Alumni Instolls

Mrs. Stanley Levin has been in
stalled as president of the Wom-
ems Auxiliary of the Alpha Omega
Dental Alumni, succeeding Mrs.
Milton Cohen.
Other newly elected officers in
stalled for the coming year are:
Mrs. Frank Feldman, first vice
president; Mrs. Dolph Zeller, sec
ond vice president; Mrs. Emanuel
Rabin, treasurer; Mrs. William
Binder, recording secretary; Mrs.
Gerald Rose, corresponding secre-
tary; Mrs. Irving Rothstein, f1han-
cial secretary, and Mrs. Albert
E. Woronow, editor.
Evening star., 1952-07-06
AIumnue Elect

Mrs. Anais Harding Conroy has
been elected president of the I'm
maculta Alumnae Association.
Others who will serve with her
are: Mrs. Anna Mae Ryan Need
ham. vice. president; Miss Jean
Travis, recording secretary: Mrs.
Dorothy Mcintosh Svendsen, cor
responding secretary and Miss
Fredna TreWitt. treasurer.
Evening star., 1952-07-06
Miss Ruth Lurie
To Wed in August

Mr.. and Mrs. Harry Lurie an
nounce the engagement Of their
daughter. Ruth Shirley, to- Mr..
Marc Shiowitz. He is the son of
Mr.. and Mrs. Bernard Shiowitz Of
New York City.
The bride-elect Is attending the
University of Maryland and Mr..
Shiowitz is a graduate of the City
College of New York.
The wedding will take place in
August.
Evening star., 1952-07-06
Buffet Tomorrow

A buffet luncheon for members
of the Women's National Demo-
cratic Club will be held from noon
to 2 pm. tomorrow in the club
house, 1926 New Hampshire ave-
nue NV.
Evening star., 1952-07-06
Picnic Planned

The Wake Forest College Alum
nj will hold a picnic on Saturday
at the Fort Hunt picnic area No:
IL just off the Mount Vernon
highway. Families Of alumni will
be guests.
Montana farmer-stockman. [volume] (Great Falls, Mont.) 1947-1993, 1952-04-15

you can't see the difference
but it's there" says Standard
Oil Agent Harold Jones in ex-
planning how balanced gasoline
gives best results. James L.
Moster, expert feeder of Frank
lin County, Indiana, knows that
balanced ground feed and ordi-
nary feed look alike but the diff
ference shows up in his prize
cattle. It's the same with gaso-
line: the difference in balanced
STANDARD RED Crown Gasoline
shows up in more powerful,
more economical performance
of your tractor. Your Standard
Oil man can show you that it
doesn't pay to take a chance on
the quality Of the gas you put
into valuable farm equipment.
Montana farmer-stockman. [volume] (Great Falls, Mont.) 1947-1993, 1952-04-15
Il knew him when he was that

Il knew him when he was that
high, says Charles Brochman,
right, about the young man
filing his storage tanks. He is
Paul Yocum who has taken
over as Standard Oil Agent in
the North st. Paul, Minnesota,
area on the retirement of his
father, a. A. Yocum, at left.
Mr.. Yocum served the Brooch
man farm for 80 Of his SO years
on the job. Long records of
service like this are common
in the Standard Oil family. It's
a friendly way to do business.
Let US show you how it works.
Call your nearby Standard Oil
man today.
Montana farmer-stockman. [volume] (Great Falls, Mont.) 1947-1993, 1952-04-15
News and Notes
FOR APRIL

Need help? A leading university points
out five ways to meet the farm labor
shortage: Spread out peak loads by
careful planning. Prevent accidents.
Use equipment more efficiently. Train
Montana farmer-stockman. [volume] (Great Falls, Mont.) 1947-1993, 1952-04-15

workers In labor-SaVIng
methods. Build community
cooperation in solving la
Dor problems. There's one
more way to get
extra help. Lots of 9sA
folks think of their
Standard Oil man
as an extra hand"
His prompt, friendly
service will keep you from
running short of fuel and
lubricants just when you
Montana farmer-stockman. [volume] (Great Falls, Mont.) 1947-1993, 1952-04-15

lubricants just when you need them
most. You can depend on him for quail
ity products, dependable delivery,
friendly service.
Montana farmer-stockman. [volume] (Great Falls, Mont.) 1947-1993, 1952-04-15

625 million chickens went to market in
1850. To get your share to market in
1852, depend on the economical steady
warmth of STANDARD Heater Oil to bring
chicks through the chilly nights ahead.
For good service on STANDARD Heater Oil
and STANoLEx Furnace Oil, call your
Standard Oil man.
Nous the time to get acquainted Nth
RED Crown Gasoline. It's the famous
KNc-sIzE GAS BUY, called that because it
gi0es you premium UoIatiIity at regular
price. Let me tiII your storage tank
today"
Montana farmer-stockman. [volume] (Great Falls, Mont.) 1947-1993, 1952-04-15

Every minute counts when you're work.
ing night and day to get your seed in, but
don't ever try to save time by retueling
while your tractor is running or while it's
hot. You might get away with it, but don't
take the chance. And don't take chance
on the quality OF the oil you use. Play safe
with PEREALUBE Heavy Duty Motor Oil.
In 1850, farms yielded III million tons
of iron and steel scrap, an average of
500 pounds per farm. We've got to do
The Key West citizen., 1952-11-13
Drake Back Tops
Pass Catchers

NEW YORK R-Joe McCIaren, a
six-foot, one-inch junior from Erie,
Pa, leads the nations major col.
lege football players in passes
caught, figures released by the Ma
tional Collegiate Athletic Bureau
revealed today.
McClaren is virtually a one-man
offense on the Drake team. He has
Snatched az passes from the teams
tossers, which is just half the com.
pleted passes of the eleven.
In addition, he has accounted for
SIG per cent of brakes aerial
yardage.
McClaren, leader in this depart.
ment since the start of the season,
isn't far ahead of John Ryan Of
Illinois, who has caught 50, and
George Black of Washington with
81. AL Ward of Columbia and
Bernie Flowers of Purdue have Sc
each. All have two games left to
play, so it is highly possible that
they will overtake McClaren.
Don Koch of Southern California
heads the punting leaders with a
44.7 yards-per-kick average.
The Key West citizen., 1952-11-13
|NCAA To Step Up
Its Cage Program

KANSAS CITY R-The National
Collegiate Athletic Association to-
day announced plans to increase
the number of teams for its basket
ball tournament and at the same
time shorten the season and reduce
poSt-season competition.
The announcement came jointly
from Walter Byers, NCAA execu-
tive director, and Arthur Dutch
Lonborg, University of Kansas ath-
letic director and chairman of the
NCAA basketball tournament COM
mittee.
The plans are dependent upon
any recommendations which might
come from the NCAA extra events
committee, now completing a sur
vey of post-season competition, and
subject to any actions which might
be taken at the associations an
nual convention in Washington,
D. c., Jan. $40.
The NCAA, according to the an
nouncement today, would better
the administration and conduct of
its tournament through the follow
ing devices:
81. Advance the date of the
tournament by one week. Regional
games for 1853 would be held
March 1914 and the finals March
17-18..
''2. Limit eligibility for the NCAA
tournament each year to teams
which compete in no other tourna-
ment after the close of their regu.
larly scheduled playing season.
"3. Increase the number of con.
ferences whose champions will
automatically qualify for the tourn-
ament. This will have the direct
effect of strengthening conference
playing leagues and developing
more closely-knit and better-ad-
ministrated conferences.
Ca xxx Expand the tournament
bracket to enable more member
institutions to qualify for the tourn-
ament."
The Key West citizen., 1952-11-13
Key West Bowlers
Win Over Miami

A team of local Navy wives
captained by Cherry McFarlane
defeated the highly rated Bruins
wick Bowland womens team from
Miami on Sunday November 8,
1852 at the Naval Station Bowling
Alleys. The victorious Key West
team was composed of Cherry
McFarlane, Captain; Winnie Hum
phrey, Ruby Caldwell, Gloria Aren-
tn and Flo Bustard. A return match
viii be rolled on the Miamians
home alleys on November 80, 1852.
On the male side of the double
victory a team of inspired bowl
ers rallied around the superlative
performance of Jim Caldwell who
rolled an outstanding series of 224,
257, 225 for a 7O6 total. Team
scores were 942, $50, 500. The
winning team was composed of
Jim Caldwell; j. G. McFarlane;
Joe Atzert; Vince Humphrey and
collie" Olsen.
The Brunswick Bowland team
team consisted of: Blanche, Cap
tain; Alice Swanson; Cora Harris;
Rose Oretega and Dotty Metzger.
The mems team from Miami con-
sisted Of Glass; Ortega; Johnny
Metzger: George Swanson and
Phil Atzert.
The Key West citizen., 1952-11-13
Northern College
Has Ten Grid Wins:
Only 275 Students

PERU, Neb. R-The college with
the nations winningest football
team this season has only 275 stu
dents, no jobs or scholarships for
athletes and a coach who's had the
job for Is years and likes it.
Peru State Teachers College
wound up its season with 10
straight victories.H
But they're not packing up the
football duds at the southeast Ne
braska school just yet. Word
around the athletic department is
that any day there will be a bid
for one of the smaller college bowl
games.
Last September, so of Peru's 174
male students turned out for foot
ball practice. The squad was whit
tied down to 4S by the end of the
season.
Just the same, it gave Coach AL
Wheeler enough men to use modi-
fled platoon system. Some of the
linemen see duty on both offense
and defense.
Wheeler gets a break in fresh
man eligibility for varsity sports.
Quarterback Bill Allen, a fresh
man from Chicago, has averaged
better than Is yards per carry as a
slippery, pace-changing bali toter.
The Key West citizen., 1952-11-13
Vandy Will Test
Tulane This Week

NEW ORLEANS R-Vanderbilt
viii try TO do something Saturday
the Commodores haven't accom-
pliShed since 1928-beat Tulane in
a Southeastern Conference football
game.
And the Commodores chances of
ending the 24-year-old jinx were
frightened today with the word
that their great quarterback Bill
Krietemeyer viii make the trip.
The freshman sensation, who's
completed IS of 139 passes this
season for S22 yards and three
touchdowns, has been the victim Of
a mysterious leg infection.
It's still uncertain whether his
leg viii be sufficiently healed to
allow him to play against the Green
Wave.
Passing quarterbaeks have led to
Tulane's downfall in three defeats
this fall, and the thought Of KIiete-
meyer in the lineup sends shiver
up Coach Bear VOLTS back.
Georges Zeke Bratkowski beat
Tulane with hts wicked passing,
Jimmy Lear gave Mississippi .
one touchdown advantage over Tn
lane. and. last week, Kentucky's
Steve Meilinger led the Wildcats 10
27-6 victory over Tulane.
Tulane has won tao Southeastern
Conference games this fan and lost
four while Vanderbilt defeated
Florida zo-i3 and tied Mississippi
2l.2i.
But the Green Wave is physically
worn down after last weeks loss "a
Kentucky while vsndy should be
ready after q refreshing 90 victory
over Miami
The Key West citizen., 1952-11-13
SPORTS
MIRROR
By The Assoclated Press

TODAY A YEAR AGO - The
Boston Red Sox traded southpaw
pitcher Chuck Stobbs and infielder
Mel Hoderlein to the Chicago
White Sox for outfielder Don Len
hardt and highlander Randy Gum
pert.
FIVE YEARS AGo-BiIly Fox.
Philadelphia, scored a technical
knockout over Jake Lamotta of
New York in the fourth round of
their scheduled Hereunder at Mad
ison Square Garden.
TEN YEARS AG0-Beau Jack,
21-year-old lightweight sensation,
stopped Allie Stoltz Of New York
in the seventh round, due to a bad
cut over Stoltz' eye.
TWENTY YEARS AGQ-Colgate
remained the only college football
team in the nation to be undefeat-
ed, united and unscored upon in
eight games.
The Key West citizen., 1952-11-13
Rivera Placed
On Probation
Bv SHELDON sAKoWITz

NEW YORK R-BaSeball Com
missioner Ford Frick used the
velvet fist treatment in placing
Jim Rivera, Chicago White Sox
rookie, on indefinite probation.
Base b rs boss could have
barred the 29-ycar-old New York
born Puerto Rican from baseball.
but instead he put the speedy
outfielder on probation yesterday
and warned him that if he failed
to ''toe the line" he would be ban
ished permanently.
Rivera was cleared by the Cook
County CHI Grand Jury on a rape
charge last month, but Frick main
tanned the Sox outfielder is guilty
"of a certain type of moral delin-
quency."
Frick, in handing down his deci-
sion said that he ''could not place
himself in the position of going
over the heads of an American
jury"
The Chicago White Sox will be
held responsible for Rivera's ac-
tions on and off the field and will
have to submit report to Frick's
office if the controversial outfielder
misbehaves in any way.
The commissioner also prohibited
the Chicago club from transferring
the players contract for a period
of one year and the only way the
White Sox can dispose of him is
by voluntary retirement or suspen-
sion. A.
"The commissioner recognizes.
as does the Chicago American
League club" Frick said, "that
they have an obligation to the pub
lie to maintain the highest possible
standards of morality among all
men who are connected with the
game"
The White Sox player was SEN
fenced to prison on a rape charge
while he was serving in the Army.
Last Sept. Is he was charged with
raping 22-year-old married wom-
an in Chicago. Rivera admitted
being intimate with the woman
but denied using force.
In Chicago, Mrs. Grace Comis-
key, president of the White Sox,
said she was delighted over the
commissioners ruling.
William Harridge, president of
the American League, said he was
in complete accord with Frick's
decision.
The Key West citizen., 1952-11-13
MISSISSIPPI IS
FAVORED SAT.

team ready for Florida's Casares.
Hall-Long. combine by sending
them through a second straight
lengthy Scrimmage.
Florida's Bob Woodruff, one of
the generals favorite pupils, won
dered aloud to newsmen how you
score against a team rated third
best in the nation on total defense.
Tennessee is in the national sta
tistics three times and Florida does
not appear once" moaned the Ga
tor coach, who spent lot of time
yesterday trying to improve his
teams passing game.
Wally Butts of Georgia, who shuf-
hes his Bulldogs like a deck Of
cards, sent Frank Salerno from
guard to tackle in the defensive
line and announced that freshman
John Campbell would start against
Auburn in Salerno'S old spot.
Auburn's last scrimmage before
the meeting with Georgia featured
bullseye passing accuracy by quar-
terback Dudley Spence.
Georgia Tech and Alabama held
contrasting workouts for their head
line meeting which is the TV game
of the week. The unbeaten Engi-
.neers drilled lightly, in secret
'Bama had a rough scrimmage
highlighted by halfback Corky
Tharp's brilliant runs.
Vanderbilt coaches spent another
disagreeable afternoon seeking a
replacement for Bill Krietemeyer,
fabulous freshman quarterback,
who is sidelined with an injury.
The CommodoreS' next opponent is
Tulane.
Tulane's snappy c ri m m a 6 e
helped make Coach Ray Wolf less
fretful over the loss of defensive
guard Bill Spollen. Spollen, just re-
covered from dislocated shoulder,
is expected to miss the Vandy
game because of an infected tooth.