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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
By Dr.. Paul Popenoe

Mr.. and Mrs. L. have just gone
through one Of the most terrible
tragedies a married couple can
encounter. The question is how
they shall adjust themselves to it.
I'm backing the car out Of the
garage" Mrs. L. explains, my
husband ran over our 2-year old
child and killed him. We were
both Frustrated for days and
realize it is even harder on my
husband than on me-. if such a
thing is possible. ! just don't feel
that I can go on living in this
house, with that memory.
This is our immediate diff
culty-my husband does not want
to move. We live on half an acre
with service station which my
husband is buying. 1t is at the
intersection of two State high
ways which are soon to become
national highways. My husband
says never in our lives can we get
another deal as good as lhis-our
whole future is at stake. He claims
I am influenced by my widowed
mother. who came to live with
us but who has never liked it
here and wants us to move back
to the city. He says we cannot
run away from things like this,
but have to face them, and that
I mustn't let my mother wreck
me emotionally. But I don't see
how I can stay and face this.
What do you think, DR.. Popenoe?"
To answer your question I'd
want to know more about your
personality. Mrs. L.. and particu-
larly about what psychologists call
your affective tolerance; that is,
how much emotional strain lou
can stand. Some people can en-
dure almost anything; others can
be broken by harsh word-fg-
uratively speaking, at least. Every
one will sympathize with your
desire to get away from this mem
DRY. The question is, can you
do so? No matter where you went
you might take it along with you
inside you. Since you have the
space Of half an acre, you could
at least move the garage and
change the driveway, if that were
any help. But let's consider the
general principles involved in
facing any domestic tragedy; and,
unfortunately, none of us knows
when he may be forced to deal
with some sort of tragedy in his
own family.
/. The first thing to do is to
face it frankly and not try to
evade it. For most people, at
least. it is a mistake to try to be
stole, or to deny the seriousness
OF the problem. Psychologists
nowadays attach great Importance
to adequate expression of grief
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Overseas Service League
To Mark Arrnistice Duv

A reunion breakfast ano
wreath-laying ceremony will mark
the Armistice Day celebration OF
the Washington Unit of the Wom-
ems Overseas Service League Sun
day.
1t. Col. Mary c. Fulbright. rep
resenting Col. Mary A. Hallaren,
director of the WAC, and Miss
Sigrid Arne Of the Associated
Press will speak briefly at the
breakfast to be held at 1890
pm. at the Broodmoor Hotel, $500
Connecticut avenue NV.
Principal speaker on the break
fast program will be William w.
Young, senior projects officer in
the Division of Agriculture and
Natural Resources of the Tech
nical Cooperation Administra-
ton, whose subject will be, THE
Effect of the Point Four Program
on Undeveloped Countries"
Following the breakfast. repre-
sentatives of the group will lay
a wreath at the Tomb of the
Unknown Soldier and another
upon the grave of Gen. John j.
Pershing.
Miss Ann Gray. president of the
Washington unit and charter
member of the league, said the
group, which originated shortly
after World War I, now is well
coming the young women of the
last World War into its ranks.
Reservations for the breakfast
may be made until Friday with
Miss Gray. who lives at 3244 @
street NV, or with Mrs. Violet
Virgins Of 1901 Sixteenth street
NV. The event is open to women
who have served this country over
seas in a civilian or military ca
pacity.
AT Wives Luncheon
A luncheon meeting and fashion
show will be held by the Air Force
Officers Wives Club of Washing
ton at 1890 pm. Thursday, at
the Army Navy Country Club in
Arlington.
Only the first 400 reservations
can be accepted and none will be
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Program Planned
For Film Council

An advance showing of stills
from the forthcoming motion pic
ture, Quo Vadis," will be given
by Morgan Hudgins, information
director of the film, at meeting
OF the Motion Picture Council of
the District at 1890 am. tomor-
row in st. Johns Parish Hall, 819
Sixteenth street NV. Release date
for the Sc million production has
not been announced.
Guests at the meeting will in
clude Or. Gabrielle Paresce, press
counselor of the italian embassy.
Introductions will be made by the
council president. Mrs. Virginia
Rollwage Collier.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Modern MARRIAGE
Evoding Tragic Memory
Will Not Solve Problem

to mourning openly and un.
ashamedly.
2. If you are able to stand emo.
tional strain. the next thing i.
to force yourself to go ahead, rec
ognizing that life must still be
lived. that there is work to b.
done and people to be helped who
are even more unfortunate thar
yourself.
3. 1t is also important not tt
let outside influences determine
your actions. In this case, If youl
mother is working on you-as your
husband asserts and you do no.
deny-you must disregard her ane
make your own plans.
1t is entirely possible. Mrs. L.
that you can face this tragedy
just as we'll in one place as an.
other. Some people cannot face {
tragedy anyWhere-they are made
OF breakable material. so to speak
You'll have to decide with YOU
husband on what is going to bs
the best long-term plan.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Sorority News

The Washington Alumnae Chap
ter of Delta Gamma Fraternit,
will hold white elephant sale a
8 o'clock tonight at the home Of
Mrs. Wilbur L. Gray, 1929 Bancroft
place NV.
DR.. Helen M. Dyer of the Ma
tional Institute of Health will be
auchtioneer. Mrs. Allen G. WeiSe
is hostess chairman.
Koppo Beto Pi
Eta Alumnae Chapter, Kappa
Beta Pi Legal Sorority. will meet
at 8 pm. tomorrow at.the American
Newspaper Women's Club. Dwight
w. Dalbey. special Federal Bureau
OF Investigation agent. will ex-
plain scientific crime detection to
the group. Miss Katherine Kemp
fer. dean. will preside.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
DR.. Evans to Speak

DR.. Luther Evans. Librarian OF
Congress and a member of the ex-
ecutive board of UNESCO, will be
guest speaker at meeting Of the
Silver Spring Branch. American
Association Of University Women
at $50 pm. Wednesday in the
Takoma Park Junior High School
DIR. Evans topic will be The Pub
lie Library: Rampant for Free
DOM"
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Sausage adds voriety
to dinner menus

Sousose for dinner-sausoae with
fried oppIes and woffIes, sousoee
with corn fritters. sausose with
srits. ete.--mokes a tasty. zestfuIIy
different evening meeI.
seusose is becoming popular as
dinner dish because its spicy
flavor gives new zip to dinner
menus. and because il gives new
dinner economy sousoae be-
ing one Of the best buys in the
meet ease todoy. Even the best
sousose-Jordon's sousose-i. 50
reasonable in comparison with
other meets.
Jordon's Sousose is oil pure pork,
mode and seasoned in the old
country styIe-by the poekers, Of
Jordon's fomous Virginia hams and
Jordon's old fashioned hickory
smoked bacon.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05

taken after tomorrow. Mrs. James
r. Andersen, Plat Ordway street
NV, is in charge of reservations
The fashion show will feature
women's accessories and dresses
scaled to Air Force budgets.
Mrs. Hoyt S. Vandenberg, the
clubs honorary president. will pre-
side at the main table during the
luncheon, and will have among
her guests the wives of top Air
Force dignitaries.
Potriotic Women's Tee
The annual fall reception and
tea OF the District of Columbia
Council, National Society of Pa
triotic Women of America, will be
held from 4 to $50 pm. Sunday
at the home of Mrs. j. Emmett
Sebree of 1861 Crescent place
NV.
Purpose of the meeting will be
to collect Christmas gifts for
mountain school children of the
Purchase School in Virginia, which
is sponsored by the District group.
The council has adopted a young
mountain girl for whom they will
provide clothing and education.
Mrs. John Hall AFFORD, presi-
dent OF the District Council, will
head the reception line.
Chorus to Entertain
The Women's Chorus of the
Chesapeake g. Potomac Telephone
Go. will entertain at a Mems
Night" program of the Arlington
Neighborhood Club at $3.50 pm.
Wednesday in the club.
The chorus. under the direction
Iof Mrs. Gertrude Smallwood
Mockbee, will be assisted by a
beauty shop quartet and classical
trio.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
University Women
ToHeur Educator

Threats to Public Education
will be the subject of a talk to
be given by DR.. Richard Kennon
before the Washington Branch
American Association Of Univer-
sity Women, following a business
meeting at 8 o'clock tonight in the
branch conference room at 1885
Massachusetts, avenue NV.
DR.. Kennon, who is secretary of
the National Education Associa-
tion's National Commission for the
Defense Of Democracy through
Education, will speak at 9 pm
Miss Nancy Larrick, Education
Committee chairman. will preside
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05

ESTABLISHED AT SMlTHFIElD, VA, IN 1910
FOR NAME OF NEAREST DEALER WRITE 10:
BOX 324, RICHMOND, VA.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
7 rovel Talk Slated

Mrs. George Wythe will describe
a recent trip to England and
Spain at a meeting of the Queen
Elizabeth Chapter, Daughters of
the British Empire. at BIS PM
tomorrow in the studio. 1851 Co.
lumbia road NV. Plans for a
Christmas bazaar also will be
made.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Inner Wheel Club

The Inner Wheel Club of Wash
ington will meet at 1915 pm
Friday at the Mayflower Hotel
Following luncheon. dolls to be
dressed for the Salvation Army
will be distributed among mem
Iber. A surprise program also
will be presented.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05

Every good mother wants her child
to develop mentally and physically
at the rate he or she should.
Yet, shocking fact is disclosed in a
recent survey of 9,543 children: 4
out of 5 are not well fed according to
the standards Of The National Re
search Council.
Mother-ALL the essential food ele-
ments your child needs each day are
2 supplied by meat, bread, milk, eggs,
fruit, yellow and green-leafed vege-
tables.
Wonder Bread is a wonderful food,
because it helps your child grow big
ger and stronger ways as shown in
the chart.
Good for Growth and Energy
For example, growing children need
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Helps Build Stronger,
Bigger Bodies 8 Ways

The chart you see at the lower right,
shows the 8 body and ain-building.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Speaker Named

DR.. Allen A. Stockdale of the
National Association of Manufac-
turers will speak on the subject.
Lets Build a Better America" at
meeting of the Takoma Park
Women's Club at 1890 pm. to-
morrow in the Takoma Park
Presbyterian Church,
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1951-11-05
Luncheon Meetino

Mrs. r. M. Fortier will be host
ess for the luncheon meeting of
the Excelsior Literary Club to be
held at 1890 pm. tomorrow at
the Broadmoor.
The Bluffton news. [volume] (Bluffton, Ohio) 1875-current, 1951-06-07
NEWS OUR I FATHERS READ
FROM ISSUE OF OCTOBER 9, 1919

A change was made in Bluffton
retail stores when the new firm of
A. L. Baumgartner and Son was
announced as successors to Baum
gartner, Locher and Co., dealers in
clothing and shoes.
Miss Minnie Patterson and Grant
w. Smith were married.
Miss Edna Lugibihl became the
happy bride of Hiram Neuensch-
wander in a quiet wedding. They
were married by the Rev. w. S.
Gottshall, pastor of the Mennonite
church.
Mr.. and Mrs. Asa Stratton eele-
brated their 54th wedding annivers-
ary at their home on Elm street.
A freak tomato grown by Master
Howard Benroth is on display in the
News window.
Two special interrurban cars filled
with Bluffton people ,journeyed to
Lima to hear Sousa's band.
TTdlh dlHkGE Ol aud "iA' ihoNS
soon on the farm he purchased of
Olney Daft.
Ralph Stearns left on ten days
southern trip. He will stop at Gil
lett, Ark, to visit the Swinehart
family.
Ray Triplett and family will move
from the Peter Thut house to their
new home on College Drive.
John Warren was appointed as a
delegate to represent the Lima
presbytery at the Synod meeting at
Athens.
Paul Stratton has been appointed
road master of the Northern Ohio
rail road. He and his family will
move to Plymouth, Ohio.
Miss Grace Clark of the Dixie
garage was a guest at the Ed Nc
Henry home.
Alva luminous honorably dis
charged from the army after serv-
ing 13 years plans to re-enlist.
Homer Basinger is studying medi-
cine at Northwestern University.
Albert Deppler left for Texas to
work in the oil region.
The Bluffton news. [volume] (Bluffton, Ohio) 1875-current, 1951-06-07
IN THE COMMON PLEAS COURT OF
ALLEN COUNTY, OHIO

Alice Phillipy, Plaintiff, VS.. William Phillipy,
Defendant Case No. 402S2.
LEGAL NOTICE
The defendant, William Phillipy, whose ad-
dress and place of residence is unknown and
cannot with reasonable diligence be ascer-
tanned, will take notice that on the 22nd day
of May, 1851. the plaintiff, Alice Phillipy,
filed her petition for divorce against him in
the Common Pleas Court of Allen County
Ohio. in Case No. 402s2. on the grounds of
Gross Neglect of Duty. Extreme Cruelty and
Habitual Drunkenness. praying that she may
be divorced from said defendant and for such
other and further relief as is just and proper
in the premises. Said cause will be heard on
or after six weeks from the first publication
of this notice.
ALICE PHILLIPY, Plaintiff
BY J. F. Emans, Her Attorney
202 Dominion Building
Lima. Ohio IL
The Bluffton news. [volume] (Bluffton, Ohio) 1875-current, 1951-06-07
CARD OF THANKS

We wish to thank the friends,
relatives, and neighbors for their aid
and sympathy during the death of
our beloved son and brother.
Especially do we thank Rev. Landes,
the singers, and the organist. The
floral gifts and cards were greatly
appreciated.
Mrs. Lavina Burkholder
and family
The Bluffton news. [volume] (Bluffton, Ohio) 1875-current, 1951-06-07
SPORTSMEN'S CLUB
ROD & REEL NOTES

Motor boating on the Buckeye will
be permitted this summer on Thurs
day afternoon and evening, and also
on Sunday afternoon and evening.
Directors in charge of the quarry
state the use Of motors is necessary
to aid in keeping the quarry waters
areated.
Jackie Fields caught a 23-inch
walleye and two-pound bass at the
Buckeye last week. Donavin STRAIT
ton also snagged a 20-inch walleye
at the same place.
Gene Benroth opened his belated
drive for 1851 fishing honors with
the catch of fine bass and 17-inch
walleye Monday He was using
crawlers for bait.
Harold Kohl landed a 22-inch
walleye and Francis Kohl hooked an
18-incher Friday evening.
Over the weekend Jesse Manages
landed a fve-pound catfish, one of
the largest ever hooked here; and
also got six channels on Sunday
morning. On Monday evening Jess
hooked a 20-inch walleye and six
channels.
Mrs. George Swank broke her cane
pole hauling in a 21-inch black
sucker, but caught the fish.
Mr.. and Mrs. o. F. (Bud) Rey-
nolds, Lima returned from a Michi-
gan trout fishing expedition and re-
ported excellent luck. Accompanied
by Mr.. and Mrs. John Dellinger,
Lima, the party made a heavy
catch of brook trout, browns and
rainbows in the Boardman river near
Elk Rapids.
Last Thursday night the Reynolds
brought 65 trout of their catch to
Buckeye park and Mr.. and Mrs. Ell
bert DeWeerd of Lima and Bluffton
friends were invited in on a trout
fry. Needles to say all lucky enough
to partake of the feast could not
brag enough on how good the fish
tasted.
Thursday night, walleyes at the
Buckeye hit in grand style after a
week of inactivity. Jess Manages
hooked 4 walleyes while fishing from
a boat and Bill Pulford from West
inghouse hooked a 27" walleye on a
daredevil also fishing from a boat.
Francis Kohl had a strike and
was able to bring the fish to bank
but lost the walleye before he could
use the landing net.
Sam Steppleton hooked a II inch
walleye Decoration day. Fred
Tschantz hooked a pickerel on Tues
day evening. On Friday evening
Sam Stepleton hooked two large
channels at the Buckeye.
Denver Augsburger and John
Gilbert each landed a good sized
pickerel on Friday evening.
A new record for walleye fishing
at the Buckeye quarry was made
Tuesday night when John Gilbert
and Ray Reichenbach landed eight
walleyes in the aggregate while fish
ingfrom a boat. Largest was over
% inches in length. Minnows were
used.
Jess Manages and Michael Reagan
fihsing from another boat the same
evening snagged five walleyes in the
aggregate and Manages also snagged
five channels. Minnows were also
used as bait.
Tuesday night Alvin DeMille,
Lima, snagged troutu sing a small
worm for bait. The trout measured
13 inches.
The Bluffton news. [volume] (Bluffton, Ohio) 1875-current, 1951-06-07

The chick output for flock replace
ment is not likely to exceed last
year.
Evening star., 1951-12-11
By josephine Lowmon

To dye or not to dye the tresses;
that is the question which is both
ering many women.
This is an individual matter. In
the first place, how does gray or
graying heir affect you? Does
it make you feel older? Actually it
shouldn't because many women
gray at quite a youthful age. How
ever, if you feel older because you
have it, then by all means, do
something about it.
If you decide to dye your hair
be sure to have it done by an ex-
pert and be prepared to give neces-
sary time and money to it's upkeep
There is nothing more unattrac-
tive than dyed hair which shows
it is dyed, is Streaked, or dark OF
gray at the roots. Do not start un-
less you are going to do it right.
Avoid harsh monotones with nc
Dark dead browns and
blacks make your face look older
and emphasize any lines you may
have. If you dye your hair make it
a shade darked than the natural
color when you were younger. Your
skin tones have changed.
Rinses have been so greatly i'm
proved that today some of the
vegetable rinses cover gray hair
fairly we'll and blend it with the
rest of your hair. These can be
shampooed out. They are boon to
the woman who isn't entirely gray.
Evening star., 1951-12-11
By Angelo Potri


No day passes without some
happening We do not like. 1t rains
when We wanted clear weather
but there is nothing we can dc
about 1t, so we rearrange our plans
and open an umbrella. We must
go on. Children do not under
stand that, being children, and
they are likely to expect us to re-
arrange the world to suit their
comfort. AS that cannot be done
it is better to teach them that
hard truth as early as possible.
The baby spits out his first
spoonful Of firm food. He is say
ing. Il don't like it." His mother
expects that and lets it go at that,
but the next day she again pre-
sentS the spoonful, a tiny taste.
and if he does not accept it, goes
on placidly from there. But he
gets that taste again and again
and again until it becomes famil-
lar and he accepts it.
When that child grows older
and begins to make decisions
about what he will accept and
what he will refuse according to
his feelings his mother is not so
likely to insist. She is more likely
to take his side and say, You
can't blame him for not wanting
to do it." and brings up reasons
to support her attitude.
I'm not going back to school.
l don't like that teacher" Now
what? What's the matter with the
teacher? She makes me stay in
Evening star., 1951-12-11

uble coffee and remaining flour;
blend with 2 tablespoons water:
add to gravy in pan; stir until
| thickened; pour over meat balls.
Or omit gravy if you desire.
LOBSTER NEWBURG.
p cups butter or margarine.
d cup flour.
a cup paprika.
l teaspoon nutmeg.
l gallon cream.
5 % quarts cooked lobster meat.
l quart egg yolks.
"a cup salt.
IS % cups sherry.
Melt butter. add flour, paprika
and nutmeg, and blend. Heat the
cream and add the butter mixture.
Add the cooked diced lobster
meat and heat to boiling. Add the
well-beaten egg yolks to which
some of the sauce may be added
to make incorporation easier.
Cook just to thicken. Overcooking
will cause sauce to curdle. Add
sherry and salt. Serve at once
Makes 48 servings.
Evening star., 1951-12-11
ChiId's Likes and DisIikes

to do my arithmetic" And why?
Just cause I forgot to bring it
in. And she hollers at me if l
do the least thing" Investigation
indicates that he is not doing even
the least little thing that matters
in school and his teacher is strug-
Cling to make him do something
But he doesn't like her, so his
mother wants him given another
teacher.
The growing girl shows no in
clination to assume any response
bility for the home or the family
life. You might make your bed
and tidy your room" says her
mother.
II don't like that kind of work.
l hate making beds" Well, this
child will become a woman and
the head of family. There will
be many things she will not like
but they will stay in her path de-
manding attention.
1t is wise to investigate the
cause Of childs dislike. He may
be right. Usually he is protest
ing against doing something that
mterferes with his pleasure. He
wants to play ball, read a book,
listen to the radio program in
stead of doing his duty.
The only thing to do is to
budget childs time. program his
day SO that he has a time for
duty, a time for play. a time of
leisure. His likes and dislikes are
not to govern that program, just
share it. Duty alone is deadly:
pleasure alone is death to the
soul. Mix the two and all goes
we'll.
Evening star., 1951-12-11
Why Grow Old?
Natural Effect

They are helpful in that in-be-
tween and unattractive stage.
Rinses today do not show on the
scalp or come off on the brush
as they used to.
Dyeing hair has become a true
art. Today when they do it they
even leave a few gray hairs for a
natural effect. One warning-do
not wait too long to make up your
Evening star., 1951-12-11
Tri Delta Purty

The Virginia Group of Delta
Delta Delta Sorority will hold its
annual Christmas party at 8 pm.
tomorrow at the home of Mrs.
Clarence Castle, 1913 South STAFF
ford street, darlington. Mrs.
Raleigh E. Baldwin will be CO.
hostess with Mrs. Castle.
Members have been asked to
bring wrapped children's gifts to
the party, to be turned over to
local hospitals.
Evening star., 1951-12-11
THE EVENING STAR, Washington, D. C.
TUESDAY, DECEMBER IL 1881

mind or the change will be start
ling to your friends and family.
Experiment with rinses first. Some
women have more luck with these
than others. 1t depends on how
porus your hair is and other fac
tors.
If you would like to have my
leaflet about hair styling send a
stamped, self-addressed envelope
with your request for Framing
Your Face Attractively," leaflet
No. 81. Address Josephine Low
man in care of The Evening Star
Evening star., 1951-12-11

SWEDISH MEAT BALLS.
l teaspoon soluble coffee.
81 cup hot milk.
Ia cups soft bread crumbs.
"a cup minced onion.
4 tablespoons fat.
l pound lean beef. ground.
4 teaspoon nutmeg.
l 2 teaspoons salt.
Is teaspoon pepper.
l egg. slightly beaten.
"a cup flour.
l cup evaporated milk.
! teaspoon soluble coffee.
l y tablespoons -four.
Dissolve first teaspoon of solubl,
coffee in hot milk; pour over breac
Cook onion in 2 table
spoons fat until soft; add to breaC
Add beef, seasoning ant
egg. Form into balls about / incl
in diameter: roll in u cup -four
brown lightly in remaining fat
Add milk: cover: simmer 5 min
utes. Remove meat balls to serv
ing dish. Combine l teaspoon sol