Chicago world. (Chicago, Ill.) 1918-????, 1948-08-07


sible. They look you over as if you head
of cattle, undress you with their dirty looks like
prostitute, and il you pass that examination they
just want to 60 to bed with you. No tenderness,
no pretense Of OF Interest," mean personal inter-
est in you as a human being-just impersOnal dir
ty SEX
"A neurotic man complained: Women are i'm
possible. The force man who just wants to pro-
position them for pleasant bed party to TOLL the
silly hypocrisies of romantic love, tenderness, per-
sonal interest, and what not. And the upshot? After
much time wasted in the game OF seduction, they
are frigid in bed, Unsuitable, for the same rea
SON.
what is wrong with these two people? The
woman did not say anything about trying to avoid
these impossible men. On the contrary, she ad-
mitted that she constantly started affairs with
these neurotic women chasers, whom todays slang
calls wolves "Her description OF them, however,
icorresponded to observable facts.
"The wolf separates completely the tender and
the sensual cOmponents OF love. He claims that
does not believe in tender love; actually, ne IS
completely incapable OF it. The rsult is that Tor
him the whoe problem of love reduces itself to re-
lease of sexual tension. Even that desire is mostly
fake since his potency is frequently poor, MS
orgasmic capacity ven worse His only pleasurable
gain is that he thus proves that he Is 'he-man.
Since his inner conscience is more than skeptlca
Of this claim, the alib has to be repeated all too
frequently These weak men--all wolves are in
wardly inflated, neurotic sissles-become patno-
logically cynical substituting in love quantity Tor
quality. Their happy hunting grounds are the typl-
lcally frigd women who are on the eternal search
for the imaginary men who satisfy them.
"a comparison of the two statements quoted
above shows a remarkable difference: The lady
appeared to be loding onto the ideal OF real love-
while the gentleman had abandoned it cynIcally.
Ones first impression is that the man had more
precisely appraised his neurot1c Limitations IMAM
had the woman That impression is erroneous Ihe
amount of self-deception varies, the variation nav
ing some connection with the senseless yard
sticks and values accepted in the neuroic environ
ment The man about town in VOLTS clothing mas
and aura of smartness, the promiscuous woman
the copotation of-tramp. Consequently, the man
could afford to speak more frankly than could the
woman
1.-The frgid woman-insde and outside OF mar
raee-s attracted to the wolf type OF neurOtlc Ior
both conscious and unconscious reasons. Inc con-
scious reason is based mistaken premise
Since she does not know that neurosls In herselt
makes her constant hunt for the imaginary salts
fer pointless she clings tenaciousy to the ldea
that her problem is only to find the right man
ard that the process OF elimination, coupled with
persstency will lead sooner or later TO SAUSAGE
tory results Since the wolf has an air OF great
sexual experience, the frigid woman believes that
he a connosseur can evoke feelings in her where
the amateur failed and was helpless. But hel
nothing but a venereal disease damage to her re-
mutation and constant dissatisfaction. The soper
fact is that frigdty accounts for ninetenths OF all
cases Of female marital infidel1ty