The Omaha guide., 1948-09-04

NJ. B.-Have / the wrong o.
pinion Of my husband? He is
very nice 10 me. ] don't work,
Just take care Of the home cho-
res but sometimes he acts a bit
nasty, nor for any cause Of nv
part. ] ike right and honest
doings- When he acts indiff-
erent ] tell him about il and he
doesn't ike that and then he
acts real nassy. We never fuss,
just speak each other out, then
we are through. An ! right in
accusing him.
Ans. The accusations you
make and the cool, indifferent
attitude you assume toward
your husband Is wrong. You
should not accuse your mate Of
anything unless you have def
mite proof, even then it is a bad
policy TO do so. And-you may
not think that your habit OF
speaking him cut IS not fussing
bst II Is. IL antagonizes him
and every time il occurs it has
a tendancy 10 increase the ten
sion between you. Display a
little more love and understand
ing IN your marriage.
l.. C.-I received the Hap
pier Living Lesson and have
bSen benefited greatly by il. |
enjoy even more reading your
most helpful letters OF advice
which have been light to my
eyes. Here Is ny problem. My
m0ther-in-laW IS not Veil and
has sent a railroad ticket FOR me
10 cOrEe visit her and bring our
boy which she has never seen.
really want to 60 but do not
want 10 leave my husband. He
SAYS he thinks il would be nice.
Should ! go;
Ans: By all means do. She
will be overJoyed to see you an
her grandson. There is no queS
ton but that it will lit her spir
It's Plan your trip Tor the week
before Labor Day and your hu
sband can make the trip on the
weekend. All three OF you can
return together.
N. C.-I find your column
most interesting. | have had a
good paying job for the past
eight years but We have little
to show Tor it. ! want a COM
Portable home and a little mon
ey TO show for II. / want a com
Portable home and a little mon
ey ahead but my wife lives on
IN for today. Ii / mention saw
ing, II causes a mInundestand-
ing. Vet, i hate 10 make such
good money and keep mum a.
bout il slipping away SO fast.
Ans It's Jolly to live up eve
SythIng that you make. You
are wise 10 avoid a misunder-
standing with the wife but you
can do something about the
matter. Set aside a definite
sum each pay day for saving.
Put this money in the bank
and refuse To discuss it further
Continue 10 give the balance Of
the check 10 her 10 manage as
she desires.
5. Nj graduated from the
University this past June. The
re are three men in my life.
One Is a successful business
man, one Is a medical student
and one Is studying law. All ;
have proposed marriage but |
cannot make up my mind. !
wsnt 10 know which one would
make the best husband and
make me happy in future years
Or should / choose either one?
Ans: You are not ready for
marriage In your anxiety to
make a good catch-you are
overlooking the most import
ant factor OF alAand that IS
LOVE. When YOU feel that
you have met the one and only
man IN the world who can make
you happy-then you will be
ready for marriage. Give up the
idea right now and accept the
position you have been offered.
u. M met a girl in Texas
when l was vacationin~ there
IN June. She was nice to me
and said she would like to come
up to this part Of the country
and live. She wrote me twice
TO send her money for her tic
ke1 and get her a place to stay
This ! did, but she did not com
Now she has written again.
Should ] send il TO her?
Ans: She's not your respon-