The Omaha guide., 1947-04-12

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E.. HI have fallen in love will
a married man and he is very deal
to me. He gives me practically
everything I need. When I frs
met him it was three months be
fore I knew that he was married
and I thought it was too late Il
quit then because I had fallen 81
in love with him. Please advis,
me if I should 60 on with him 0.
not. 1 am Is years old.
Ans: Child, the minute yol
found out this man was married
and leading you on, you shoult
have quit. 1t is not too late yet
Although he may be kind and Civ,
you things you want, he know.
that you are only a child and tina
what he is doing is sinful and a
gainst the law. When not in schoo
studying, you should be spending
your play time with other youns
people your own age. There i.
nothing in the world for you t
gain from any fellowship with thi.
married man-but, he can harm
you in many ways.
Y. A.-Shortly after our MARI
iage my husband went into the ser
vice. When my allotment check!
started coming in, I begun to ge
the house fixed up and by tn,
time he returned, the place wa.
coy and nice. I can see a grea'
change in him and we don't get a.
long at all. 1 have in mind to ash
him to leave as I feel that if eth
er of us have to leave, it should bt
him and not me. 1t was his house
when we married, but I have done
a lot of work on it. Do you think
l am right in asking him to leave
as l feel sure we will not be able tc
along.
Ans: Two and a half years is a
long time in the span of life. Nat
urally your husband changed.
you have too. You were married
for such a short time before he
went overseas--~-you had hardly
time to get acquainted. You are
both going through a period of re
and you must be pa
tient and understanding. 1t is up
to you to help him in his efforts to
get back to a normal life. This is
certainly no time to ask him to
cave his own home. It is true that
you did a lot of work around the
home but while you were doing
this, he was making a greater sac
rifice----..and remember it was his
monthly allotment that furnished
the money for the improvements.
You folks can get along if you
bury the Ratchet and pull together
as married couples should.
10
You have been so much help to
me but it has been several years
I wrote you. At that time I
was leaving my home town for Chi
-cago to get a job. I got the job
and it was a good one. I have been
on the same job since 43. You had
told me to set a goal and call it
my 5 year plan This I did and
the Lord blessed me. In '46 T
bought a As acre farm and paid
cash for it and made a down pay
ment on a 6 room building three
months later. May I say thank
you for everything.-A,B.G
M. A. TT was called home to
Texas a few months ago by my
Mother was low sick. At
he time I was with a girl whom
had thought seriously of marry
ng. After a few days at home I
called that 1 was falling in love
mothers nurse, and also
'aw that she was falling for me.
We saw quite a bit of each other
Ind when I left to come back to
Chicago, I asked her to marry me.
She accepted and said she would
,ome to me the next month. She
lid and we were married but l still
continued to see the old girl friend
Now here is my problem. My wife
md l are expecting a child and I
I'M beginning to worry for fear I
10 not love her. My mind has been
m my old girl friend for weeks
and when I see her I know
he is worrying about me. Tell me
to do.
Ans: The girl friend is not worried
about you as much you think.
SO far Is she is concerned it was
Ill over and done with between
'ou the day you took the other girl
or a wife. You may as well face
he facts You are a married man
low and no longer free to fit from
girl to another as Of old. The
'ther girl didn't come up to your
expectations, or you would have
married her before you met your
wife. Forget the old flame and ap
.'reciate the girl you have. BY
our fretting and Tuning you are
'assing up lightly one Of the most
important events of your life
ecoming a father.
900
K. M.-Every SO often I meet a
Dung man and imagine myself
1adly in love with him. 1 put my
aith in him, believing everything
c says, forgetting that there are
cry few young college girls as
erious as L. And I suffer a great
urt when he tires of me as he al
rays does, but in time get over it
nd start anew. Quite recently T
rent steady with a fellow whom I
mink, is as close to being my ideal
S anyone could be. We seldom