St. Paul recorder. [volume] (St. Paul, Minn.) 1934-2000, 1947-01-24

s., Minneapolis, Minnesota.
"You can never hope to attain
the realization of your dreams
unless you, yourself, take steps and
actually do something to make your
dreams materialize.
Able Wallace
NJ. MI am a farmer and a
preacher. l didn't get to finish high
school and have decided that /
would like to take up my studies
again and get high school diploma
if possible, but this is my problem.
l have five young children and when
l get my books down to study they
make so much noise l don't get
much out Of what read. Some
times feel like just giving up, they
worry me so.
Ans: You are quite right in
wanting to further your education,
and should you be able to get q
diploma it would mean a lot to you
in your work. Instead of taking
your study period at night, right at
the time that the Riddles are clown
ing and cutting up the most, my
suggestion is that you get up an
hour earlier in the morning and
study while the children sleep. Be-
ing a farmer, this shouldn't be too
hard. Children are only children
once. At their ages, play is neces-
sary for their growth and develop
ment. Be patient and understand
ing with them.
NJ. Tt have been married five
years to a very fine man. We have
a nice home, he is kind and gives me
everything want, but for the past
few months | have been very I'M
happy. On my vacation this sum
mer met a man that l feel sure
can make me happier than l have
ever been before. Unlike my hus-
band, this man likes parties, dances,
music, ETC., and suddenly l find that
l do also. In fact, We have every
thing in common. He is also mar
ried but says he will divorce his
wife if l consent to marry him. Mr..
Wallace, did l marry the wrong
man? Please tell me what to do
about all this.
Ans: 1t could be that you mar
ried the wrong man, but l doubt it.
Continue to cultivate this outside
friendship however, and there is a
strong possibility that your hus-
band will feel that he married the
wrong woman. For a song, a dance
and a few drinks, you are fOOlishly
considering walking out on a good,
kind husband and taking unto your
self one who has proven by word
and deed that he is just not the
type to be faithful. Come down
,ut of the clouds, lady, and get your
feet on solid ground. Chuck this
friend, and stick by your tried and
rusted mate.
H. H.-This is your old friend |
Hazel. I am back in California
lgain and l am writing for you to
ell me how to start saving money.
It just don't seem as if l can save
10 money at all. Give me some ad-
rice.
Ans: Go to work on 4 regular
OBJ there in California and be con-
ent for awhile. You will never
ave money jumping from place to
'lace. You know, a rolling stone
'athers no moss, Hazel. Travelling
nd moving expense is eating up
he greater portion of your earn
ngs. Until you settle down, 1t will
ontinue SO. I believe l have just
he thing to help you in my new
Happier Living Lesson No. s.
low TO GAIN AND HOLD
fONEY. Send for II at your ear
est convenience.
Dear Abbe'-I love to write to
gu about my condition as you seem
o know what is best for me- am so
'roud of a man like you. My Guide
S wonderful and after reading it
ny eyes are open to a lot Of things
hat l did not dream Of and also
eel better in mind. l must say
'efore | end these words that you
re very wonderful. l remain your
brother and friend.-A. B."
NJ. F.-My husband and l are
'uying two lots in Memphis and we
AVE gotten hard up and find we
annot keep up the payments. My
husband has paid for one of the
OTIS and we asked if We could turn
he other back in but find that we
Won't be allowed to do that. Should
We just let it go back?
Ans: One lot is paid for. Hold
N to it if you can. For that is the
DcatiOn Of your future home. Your
,rOblem is to get rid Of the second