St. Paul recorder. [volume] (St. Paul, Minn.) 1934-2000, 1947-01-24


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Able WALLACE Service, In car,
s., Minneapolis, Minnesota.
"You can never hope to attain
the realization Of your dreams
unless you, yourself, take steps and
actually do something to make your
dreams materialize.
Able Wallace
NJ. MI am a farmer and a
preacher. didn't get to finish high
school and have decided that ]
would like to take up my studies
again and get a high school diploma
il possible, but this is my problem.
l have five young children and when
get my books down to study they
make so much noise don't get
much out Of what l read. Some
times l feel like just giving up, they
worry me so.
Ans: You are quite right in
wanting to further your education,
and should you be able to get a
diploma it would mean a lot to you
in your work. Instead Of taking
your study period at night, right at
the time that the kiddies are clown
ing and cutting up the most, my
suggestion Is that you get up an
hour earlier in the morning and
study while the children sleep. Be-
ing a farmer, this shouldn't be too
hard. Children are only children
once. At their ages, play is neces-
sary for their growth and develop
ment. Be patient and understand
ing with them.
NJ. Tt have been married five
years to a very fine man. We have
a nice home, he is kind and gives me
everything l want, but for the past
few months l have been very I'M
happy. On my vacation this sum-
mer l met a man that l feel sure
can make me happier than l have
ever been before. Unlike my hus-
band, this man likes parties, dances,
music, etc, and suddenly l find that
l do also. In fact, we have every
thing in common. He is also mar
ried but says he will divorce his
wife if l consent to marry him. Mr..
Wallace, did l marry the wrong
man? Please tell me what to do
about all this.
Ans: 1t could be that you mar
ried the wrong man, but l doubt 1t.
Continue to cultivate this outside
friendship however, and there is a
strong possibility that your hus-
band will feel that he married the
wrong woman. For a song, a dance
and a few drinks, you are fOOlishly
considering walking out on a good,
kind husband and taking unto your
self one who has proven by word
and deed that he is just not the
type to be faithful. Come down
out of the clouds, lady, and get your
feet on solid ground. Chuck this
friend, and stick by your tried and
trusted mate.
II. H.-This is your old friend
Hazel. I am back in California
again and l am writing for you to
tell me how to start saving money.
1t just don't seem as if can save
no money at all. Give me some ad-
vice.
Ans: Go to work on 4 regular
Job there In California and be con-
tent for awhile. You will never
save money jumping from place to
place. You know, a rolling stone
gathers no moss, Hazel. Travelling
and moving expense is eating up
the greater portion Of your earn
ings. Until you settle down, 1t will
continue so. I believe / have Just
the thing to help you in my new
Happier Living Lesson No. s.
HOW TO GAIN AND HOLD
MONEY. Send for II at your ear
lest convenience.
Dear Abbe'-I love to write to
you about my condition as you seem
to know what is best for me. | am so
proud Of a man like you. My Guide
is wonderful and after reading it
my eyes are open to a lot Of things
that I did not dream of and l also
feel better in mind. l must say
before | end these words that you
are very wonderful. l remain your
brother and friend.-A. B."
NJ. F.-My husband and l are
buying two lots in Memphis and we
have gotten hard up and find we
cannot keep up the payments. My
husband has paid for one of the
lots and we asked il we could turn
the other back in but find that we
won't be allowed to DO that. Should
we just let it go backH
Ans: One lot is paid for. Hold
on to it II you can. For that is the
location Of your future home. Your
problem is TO get rid Of the second
lot. II should not be too hard to
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