St. Paul recorder. [volume] (St. Paul, Minn.) 1934-2000, 1946-08-09

DAHL have tried with all my
power to use my head and do what
Is right, but | am afraid to trust
myself. The boy friend l go with
now makes fun Of me because
don't allow him to say ugly words
and make dirty remarks in my pres
ence. He refers to me as being
goody-goody. This hurts me very
much. Should | give in to this boy
or stay as | am. My girl friends
just snatch my boy friends away
when they get ready.
Ans: The boy friend you have
now is on the fast" side. He thinks
II is smart and big time to talk
fresh" You would not be losing
a thing 10 have one of your girl
friends put the snatch on him. BE
sweet and friendly to all the boys
but don't give in to any Of
them. You can be a good sport and
still draw the line when II comes
to going too far.
D.M.F.-I have missed" The
last time was March I. | don't think
| am pregnant because ! am the
same as | was before. | am not
getting fat and don't feel bad.
am very anxious to know what is
wrong. Am | changing lives or am
| too young?
Ans: Visit your family doctor
and let him examine you. | think
you'll find that you are with child
again. Yes, you are quite young
TO be going through the change Of
life.
E.S.M.-I have worked for man
last year and same this year. He
wants to build me a house on his
place. Should | accept his offer
or not?
Ans: II you accept his offer you
yourself to him. At your age, this
might not be the wise thing to do.
You are happy living there with
your sister for she is a comfort
and you enjoy each others com
pRny. Talk this over with your sis
ter before agreeing to the propO-
sitiOn. The main question is. will
you be happy living alone away
from your sister? | don't be-
lieve you will.
Ell have had trouble since
my husband came out of the Navy.
He says he loves me but he stays
with another woman and he asked
me to wait a little longer for us
to be together. Would | be happy
or should | leave town. How much
longer should | wait?
Ans: You have waited entirely
too long now. Your husband is be-
ing selfish and unreasonable in his
actions. You were true and faith
full TO him while he was in the serV-
ice, which is all a good wife could
do. Let him make a definite choice
now and fOreyermOTe. Either he
comes home and quits this other
woman for good or you quit
him. You are too young a woman
TO let yourself be imposed upon in
this fashion.
LB.S.-I want you to tell me
why does my husband act so
stranger He seems to be very
nervous. We haven't lived together
in seven years but he comes to see
me and gives me money. He keeps
me worried. feel sorry for him.
He is upset over something.
Ans: See II you can't talk your
husband into going with you 70 visit
a physician preferably a psy-
chiatTist. A psychiatrist Is a doctor
who diagnoses nervous disorders.
He definitely needs treatment and
the longer he puts OF taking action
the more difficult Il will be TO over
come this condition.
Leo am a girl of 81.
have been going with AIN. for
about three years. He tells me he
loves me, In April | met F.H.E.
He had been in the Army and he
tells me that he loves me. Then
there is Pc, who is about rs miles
from my home town. He comes to
see me every Sunday and tells me
he loves me. Which one should |
marry?
Ans: Marry the one you love
the most Mr.. F.H.E. These
other boys are good JOe's but
your heart has set on one. You