The southern news., 1946-11-09

Ans: You need TO go to work
but you must make some satisfac-
tory arrangement for the care OF
the child before you can do so. II
your mother cannot assume this
responsibility, you must employ
someone to look after your child.
1t would be best for you to con-
tinue living at home if possible for
your mother could supervise the
care of your youngster without
having to do the actual work and
that would be bic relief for you.
S.M.J. - 1 have been married six
years. Two years ago Christmas
young man came to our neighbor-
hood on visit and l met him one
time. believe l fell in love with
him as l dream Of the man all of the
time and he is instantly on my
mind. Ny husband is a good man
nut he drinks little but what
want to know is does this man love
me as much as love him?
Ans: TO be painfully frank. he
hasn't given you a second thought.
You are making yourself perfect
ly miserable by harboring dreams
of this young man. Turn little ct
his emotional excess y, ur hu..
bands way and the result will o.
most gratifying. You'll forget the
guy too.
W.R.C. i get so disillusionec
here lately. Tell me is it worth tae
sacrifice am making to send my
son to school and to the muse
'lasses he is Attending? My nev
friend says it is a waste of timc.
Ans: The welfare of your son
should be your first consideration.
1t is certainly not waste of time
and money as long as he absorbs
what he is taught Prepare him 10
the best of your ability to meet
this future and do not think of wha;
you are doing in terms of sacrifice.
It's to your interest as well as his
that he make good and succeed in
life.
CHS. - Will you please help me.
All my friends tell me I have
lovely figure but my skin is in bad
shape. 1 know that it ruins me. I
have tried everything and want you
to put me on the right road.
Ans: Visit your family physician
and if he advocates further medical
attention. he will recommend
skin specialist You have access to
a free clinic in your city and if
you prefer. go there for a diagnosis.
Young people your age are inclined
to eat only what they want instead
of good balanced diet and they
must pay the penalty
CIR. - Tell me if the man I'm
with loves me? I try hard to please
him and it may be my fault. He
promised to marry me but each
time he puts it off. Sometimes l
feel as if he hates me- What's
wrong?
Ans: You put the cart before the
horse and naturally got eff to d
very bad start in life Tial MAJ
-iages have no real foundation
and just can't Withstand the re-
sponsibilities heaped upon it. Face
the facts. If you are getting nowhere,
you had better call it quits and
build new life for yourself. Next
time, see the preacher before you
begin living with man.
BMM. - My boy friend has an
other girl too. I'm wondering if
ne cares very deeply fer me as he
claims? Am I making a mistake in
phoning him?
Ans: You would profit more by
Haunting a new boy friend in has
face then worrying him to death
with your phone calls Men still
like to consider themselves the pur-
suers it flatters their ego
temporarily for a gal to phone
them, but it soon grows tiresome.
Don't keep it up
C.B. - Shall be his friend in the
manner he frequently asks?
Ans: No. not on his terms. He's
interested in you for one thing
purely selfish reason. There is no
deep devotion on his part as h
would have Won belinVe