The Omaha guide., 1946-10-19

AAdlc IcclS FdSlly superior 10 the
others. He has faults which are
repulsive to you and marriage
would not correct them. Do not
continue to encourage him unless
you can accept him as your social
equal.
d. M. il need your help. MY
husband and I have split up and I
am not going back to him. My
mother wants me to come back to
l.. A. with her. / have a good job
here but l am alone and have no
brothers or sisters and 1 want
your advice about staying here or
going to mother.
Ans: A change right now is not
advisable. You should get all mat
tiers settled permanently between
yourself and husband before you
leave the state. You have a good
job, a place to live and many good
friends and you should fare very
well until you return to your mo
Tiers home.
we IdNt DCcH lldIIlCd 1OI D
years. My husband and 1 didn't
live together but a few months be-
fore he was sent overseas. He has
been home with me now for six
months and l know that / am ma
king his life miserable. / do al
right every day and just as soon
as he comes home from work. I
-aapo n oaf mad &c 7 CON ha onJ
start fussing and can't seem to
stop. l know 1 hurt his feelings.
When he is not around me, / feel
that 1 can't wait to see him. 1
love my husband and he loves me.
Tell me what to do.
Ans: You are an adult now
and must cut out the emotional
display. Surely, you realize your
husband will not tolerate this be-
havior much longer. You two r
deeply devoted and could be very
happy and you must not continue
hurting him as you are doing.
Shower him with love and kisses
instead OF fussing and complaining
1 recommend that you pay a visit
to your family physician for a
checkup. Have your husband go
along.
a.. ]. B.-This is my last year
in high school and I am wonder
ing if it would be wise for me to
60 to the university next fall. l
am afraid 1 won't be able to make
good grades. Must I try or give
up the idea and 60 to work?
Ans: High school work hasn't
stumped you at all and there is
no reason for you to begin dread
ing the college curriculum. 1t
would be well for you to go ahead
and register right now, paying
your entrance fee. if you expect to
get in the university this fall. Let
nothing interfere with your educa-
ton.
G. L. CT am undecided what
I must do. When I was discharged
from the navy 1 promised c. S.
I would send for her but since /
have been home, l have fallen mad
" in love with e. P. Which n
must l choose for b wife?
Ans: Slow down Charlie. You
shouldn't promise yourself to two
girls knowing that you can't mar
ry but one You are too eager to
get married. You need to give
more thought to the future mate
and choose a girl whom you love
devotedly and feel you cannot do
without and one whose interests
are parallel to your own. When
its the real Mccoy, there won't be
a doubt in your mind which girl
to ask to be your wife. You are
not quite ready to take this step.
G. z. Pr am a girl Of 10 and
very much in love with a married
man of 25. He seems to be very
much in love with me. He asks
me out often and visits me on
Sunday afternoons and 1 have no
other friends but him. Should I
stop going with him? He is really
nice to me.
Ans. It's not surprizing your
friends have dwindled. "a girl os-
stracizes herself completely in
time if she persists in dating a
married man. You are much too
young and attractive to ruin your
life in this manner. You are not
happy and you will grow miserable