The Detroit tribune. (Detroit, Mich.) 1935-1966, 1943-01-09

wake yourself up 10 the iact.
~ My husband Is working ~
dcfcns" factory down In Ala
hama. he is a skilled worker and
Is making good lie thought when
II, lrfl that the childfcr and
could follow him later. But De-
can't find any Ilace for Us ~
stay. Should We continue on here
or insist that he return?
ms: You can't afford to a>h
him 10 give up government
Job. He l. needed there. and yon
will Just have 10 forget your own
personal desires In nm emergenc,
oi this sort. Everyone will he
called upon 10 make sacrifices IN
this war. and ii your sacrifice i
temporar, separation from your
husband you must take II In your
stride. By no means insist that
he give M this job.
KIT We had planned TO mar
=, this month until the other
night he saw me look at another
bov rear hard and he hit me. He
hts me TOO quick all the time for
nothing We've been couriing q
long time should We marry?
Ans: Your boy friend owns
aud operates n nasty temper now
hut after he marrles. he VIII
be like u bull In a china shop.
To live with n man Of this tyne,
would he nothing short Of blltz-
krelg. You arc living In such q
state of emotional uDheayaI try.
Ing 10 keep this hot-tempercd
'nlt-fire n"cliloi that YOU are en-.
tlrely overlooking the appeal
other fcIlows NAV have. In fact.
The fellow Won fought over Is n
desirable catch.
CO Please tell me whether |
should continue TO keep company
with this hoy. take him for my
best hoy friend. bu; he gets an
Fry when | don't do what he
wants me TO do everybody says
! am the incest girl around here
aud don't want 10 do ANYTHING
that isn't right. Toll me what TO
DO
Ans: This bOy has the repnta-
tion 81 weakenin~ n girls resist.
ance and II You value your good
rnme u had better drop him
from yonr list. The fact that he Il
50 persistent doesn't mean that
he u In love with you. hut merely
That he wants 10 nccOmnlish his
ono desire. Then l. will he of
with the old and on with the new.
Make sure that you give him M.
L v. Nv problem NAV he un-
usual hut II means the difference
between what we think will be
happiness for us or loneliness.
We had twin daughters and just
This past summer they were mar
lied 10 two fine. upright soldiers
III the army The have made their
homes In distant cities. We have
plwavs built our lives around
these girls. and now that thew
are gone We hardly know how "a
adjust ourselves. II has been a
desire OF nv husbands all these
years 10 have bow but we we're
not blessed He has Insisted for
The past few weeks that we adopt
son as we are financiallv able
to assume this RESPONSIBILITIES. d.
"" thint wo orc too old
Ans.;-I think Won have hit mn.
ON n wonderful nlan 10 fiH this
On" that vour daughters mar.
, .mges iefi. No' only would adopt-
ire n child afford vou and your
.ns"and gr""t derI ~ nIeasure.
hrt " w0n'd ha wand"rf-'iv -ar.
erc"s ~ ven and wonId offer
: s"r," homeless voungsier n nor.
mal home life. you are ~ Your
IoHies AVID you conld easily OK.
pcci To see nm adopted son mer.
RCD. With children. your dar"h.
isrS reaI'y" how Ioresome Won arr
r wr"""' 'hcm r~d fhe- wor'S~'i
." 49, vonr~c- brother. Tell
We 'opr fam'l- DOCTOR ana sc~t
/ his help In finding a child for
adoption.