St. Paul recorder. [volume] (St. Paul, Minn.) 1934-2000, 1942-09-11

l.. H.: I'm a lad of 20, am
athletic and a fair student. I'm
not as nice looking as most CLAM,
our boys but I am we'll built anG
have always dreamed of the day
when I could meet a girl who is
true and whom l could love whole.
heartedly. Pm searching for a CIR
who will come up to my expecta.
lions of personality, sincerity
physical charm and character. Also
tell me if my second year at Col,
lege will be as successful as my
first?
Ans: You can make the kind OF
record at college that you choose
to, for you certainly have the
ability if you will apply yourself
You passed the first year with fly,
ing cOlOrs, and there is no reason
why you can't keep up the GOOD
work. l don't doubt but that you
will eventually meet the girl Of
your dreams. You must use dis
erection in choosing your girl
friends and associate with the type
who comes up to your ideal. AS
for you not being as nice looking
as some of the fellows, the football
hero on the campus rates far more
with the pretty goods than the
glamour boys.
Hope: I certainly enjoy reading
your column, professor. Conditions
at home are not the best. I love
to sing, but a girl who is not in
school does not have chances like
the rest. How could I get someone
to listen to my voice and give me
a trial?
Ans: Not being in school is no
reason why you shouldn't have your
chance. You have the advantage of
living in large city where there
are numerous bands and Orchestras.
Contact some of the leaders and ask
for an addition. You might offer
your services free for a weeks
trial to get the experience. If you
have what it takes they will
help you get lined up. You are at
tractive and you do know how to
sing. Now learn to overcome your
stage-fright and "give-Out" with
the personality.
M. E. G.: My husband and l are
expecting a baby soon. He quit his
job Saturday and has put his car
on the taxi line and is driving it
himself. told him when he quit
work that 1 was going to get some
of his money every night when he
comes home from driving the taxi.
Should I or not? He has been
drinking a lot lately and he says
that he drinks to keep from
worrying about me having this
child. I believe he drinks because
he is running with women who
drink too. He is young and right
nice looking. I want you to tell me
what to do.
Ans: You are in no position to
make a change at this time. Try
to accept the fact that your hus-
band is exceedingly young and en-
joys the attentions and flattery of
the ladies. But also realize that
he'll soon wake up to the fact that
there's no money in the taxi bust.
ness when he rides the ladies gra.
tbs. When the money runs out
they will leave him alone. Their
he will be forced to get a job. As
for getting his money, l suggest
that you get your hands on as much
of it as you can and hold on to il
as you will need it for your
near-future expenses.
K. L.: Tell me if I will be sue.
cessful in the business I am plan.
ming to enter the first of the month
It will require practically all of my
savings, and that is why 1 am q
little skeptical.
Ans: Under ordinary conditions
would say eyes, go into business
for yourself" But war conditions
put you in too complicated a posi-.
ton to make this advisable. You
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