The Detroit tribune. (Detroit, Mich.) 1935-1966, 1942-11-14

B.M II nave accepted eOOu
Office position in a city about 800
miles from home. Now my sister
and some other relatives don't want
me to go and they have just about
frightened me to the extent thar
am afraid myself that may not
be capable OF handling the job. OF
that something Will happen. am
sure that would ike that Kind of
work. what do YOU suggest? oh
yes. am 26 years old.
Ans; Ii you want the jOb
take II. surely You are old enough
10 make Your own decisions.
don't doubt but that YOU could
handle The job Ii you try. An hon.
est eiiort goes u long way. As for
something happening 10 You in the
city II you are ever going Ia
take care OF yourself. better start
learning how right now. You have
to give yourself u chance before
you can expect 10 find ont what
your own capabilities are. II won't
take your relatives long 10 adjust
themselves 10 your absence.
ER.:--There are two women in
my church who won't speak TO me.
We had a few words at a meeting
not long ago and they got peeved
with me. II makes it very unpleas-
ant 10 have 10 put up with such
as this as we are constantly thrown
together in our work.
Ans.:- What shame that people
will use the house 0f God 10 air
their personal grievances. The
church loses It's true purpose when
the members wrangle and fuss
among themselves and very little
good can he accomplished when
conditions Of this sort exist. My
advice 10 you Is for you 10 90 10
both OF these ladies and tell them
that you are sincerely sorry about
the little misunderstanding YOU
had. believe that Ii they feel
you are sincere In offering your
apologies. they will be glad TO ac-
cept them.
Att have been going with
married man for a long time. lie
does not want me TO talk 10 any
body and says il quit him he is
going TO kill me. Must / quit him
or not?
Ans.:-Of all the brazen nerve.
This man wouldn't think OF quit.
ting his vile for you he Isn't
planning to make any sacrifice ns
lar as you are concerned. yet
he j. selfish enough 10 want You
10 give mp all your other friends
and survive on the few crumbs of
attention he Offers. You are Ger.
talnly n gIutton for punishment 10
allow this man 10 dominate Your
life. II getting away from him
means your lea, Ing town then
do 80. You know you aren't get
Ting any younger or prettier and
there II no better time than right
now 10 be making friends who are
eligible for marriage.
E.DW.:-I am freshman in
high school. and | already think
school is boring. though we lust
started. Do you think | will pass
every year in school and what
can do about my nasty temper?
Ans.:-YOu can pass your courses
II yOu will change your attitude
about school. Any routine Is likely
10 be bOresOme ut times hut an
education won't be handed 10 you
ON silver platter. You will have
to work for Il. and work hard
school life would be far more In.
terestlng for you II yOu would take
an interest In various school &C.
tlvltles. clubs, etc. Learn the trait
OF stickablllty' while You are
young -. II Will come In handy as
you grow older. Your temper can
be kept under control N Won will
make the effort. The person who
speaks his mind regardless az
what anyone else Thinks II some.
one to be avoided like the Itch.