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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10
People About
Him Affect
Child
Adults Contacted
Daily Must Show
Love, Approval
By angelo Pafri

A child is not a simple entity. He
is part of all who have gone before
him. part of life in all its COM
plexities, part of those who are about
him. His grandfathers' traits balance
his behavior, his mothers hands on
his head change his thinking, the
tones of a voice influence his ways.
1t is not possible for one to say.
This is the kind of child he is"
unless one speaks for the moment.
At his next breath this may be
different child.
1t is this terrible completely that
makes the difficulties that mothers
and teachers face daily. The spe-
cialist who is called in cannot give
a solution at the moment because
he cannot know what forces are at
work in this child, what kind of eX-
periences he has with the family and
relatives, with his playmates and
teachers. Everything that happens,
from the weather to fall off the
roof; everybody whose life touches
the Child'S, from his mother to the
stranger who passes by and smiles
on him, influences the child's be-
havior and has bearing on his char
acter.
1t is extremely important that
those closest to the child his
mother, his immediate family, his
teachers are we'll balanced per-
SonalitieS with matured outlooks and
understanding. Impatience. temper
and dislike warp the mind of child,
and when that happens all sorts of
behavior traits. most of them TN
desirable, appear in his conduct.
Sulks, rebellion, deafness to di-
rectionS. neglect of duties. fire set
ting. and bad personal habits of
different sorts are some of the traits
that are brought to the surface by
the behavior of adults who, them
selves, are underdeveloped mentally
and spiritually.
Some parents and teachers think
that they can hide their disgust and
impotence and dislike from the
child in their care but never were
they more mistaken. The feeling,
be what it may seeps through in
the voice, in the touch of the hand,
in the glance of the eye. even
through the stark stiffness of re-
pressed anger. The child knows. and
his knowledge affects his behavior.
The approval of the adults about
him is necessary to the child's hap
pineSs, mental health and physical
growth These are tied together in
bonds that are never to be separated
When a child feels himself to be I'M
wanted, disliked. a nuisance. he is
deadly unhappy His mind is
troubled and sick, and he ceases to
be a healthy, well-adjusted child
and becomes a behavior problem for
the psychologist and a patient for
the physician.
1t is not possible to live in a state
of bliss on this earth. Nobody eX-
poets that. The best child in the
world is going to annoy somebody
sometimes. usually daily, but if the
child feels under the disapproval
! anu army amt tilC oOlu4llS dIlCOtIOll
of his elders, the annoyance will pass
naturally, leaving no trace in either
mind. If. to his grief. the child feels
anger and dislike beneath this pass
ing annoyance. it does not pass
without trace. but leaves its mark to
work havoc with the child's growth
and character.
II you cannot like child better
let somebody who can like him take
care of him.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10

give de luxe combination ice-pick-
bottle-opener- clothesline-pot holder
to a man who has no earthly in
tereSt in home accessories. On
the other hand, you can't go wrong
on books, smoking accessories and
slippers for the fireside type of
father.
When We say know your sub
ject' We really mean it. Maybe
you think dads wallet is too shah
by for words. but maybe it just
suits him and he wouldn't part
with it. If you insist upon buying
a wallet. then buy an exact dupli-
cate of his dearly beloved model
and you can't go wrong. Also ties,
socks and hankderchiefs seem pref
ty prosaic, but they're always as
useful and welcome as the stock
ings and lingerie you love to re-
ceive.
Don't overlook the hobby angle,
and if it's a hobby about which
you know nothing get some expert
advice in choosing the gift. There
are unlimited quantities of new
and practical items for the fisher
man, golfer, tennis addict, bowler,
book. stamp, china and animal COL
lector-to name but a few. We're
all for buying Dad a thoroughly
frivolous and luxurious gift-but
only if it's something he'll show
his friends with pride in the un-
Outstanding and taste You possess.
See whether you can't shop like
one man giving a gift to another
It's the best formula we can
imagine.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10
Appropriate Games Add to
Fun of a Pioneer PARTY
And Make 1t a Success
Competition Between Teams
May Wax Fast and Furious;
Square Dance Amusing
By Kay CaidiUeH and Alden Harrison

you're looking for unusual idea make first
will
dignity
Have the gather house the girls in snbonn
hay ride Or hire farmers convert into covered
of will be
a mood by the time reach cabin or barn.
the
the pioneers problems off with hilarious
empty pals
then lined between the full buckets.
dipp At the Go" signal he fills
on by
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10

A discussion of whether widows
should remarry seems trifle aca-
demic. since they are noted for their
prowess as husband-getterS. Never
theless the problem does occur and
one charming young creature in her
early 30S. with three small boys.
nice little home and a comfortable
wad of insurance money. is debating
whether she shall marry again or
stay single and devote her life to her
children. 1t isn't that there is any
particular man in the case. or doubt
less she would answer her own ques-
ton in the affirmative 1t is just
that an adult woman finds the So
ciety of even her own youngsters
a little fat and longs for the COM
partnership of a husband. Also she
realizes that modern children have
a trick of growing up almost over
night, and she wonders if life won't
be pretty dull when Tommy and
Johnny and Dickie jump the home
nest and she will be left with nothing
to do except to be a professional
widow
One would need to have been
bitten by Solomon's dog to be able
to answer this question, for no sub
ject is more controversial and no
woman is ever put in hotter spot
than the widow with children who
has to decide whether to live a
lonely life for her children's sake,
or TO risk putting stepfather over
them. There are a thousand differ
ent angles to the situation. each one
as plausible as the other and
thousand cogent arguments can
be urged with equal force and
equal CONTINGENCIES both for and
against it.
For woman so placed the chief
argument against remarrying is the
danger that the new husband will
mistreat her children. Cruel step
fathers are just as common as cruel
stepmothers. Men are just as likely
10 be jealous of their stepchildren
as women are and when this occurs
1t not only wrecks the happiness of
the child but of the mother.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10

dumping it in the empty pail, and
the empty dipper is then passed back
to the head of the line. The race
continues until all the water has
been dumped on the fire.
Any player who spills water is dis
qualified and has to drop out of the
line. Mere dripping doesn't COUNT
This means that before long each
brigade will be considerably reduced
in size. and the f1reflghters win really
be having a strenuous time. But
they can rest up when the game is
over by taking part in Cabin
Raising" such as the old settlers
used to hold when they were build
ing a new home
Divide the crowd into couples and
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10
HELP MEN.

BUsBOY- HOUsEMAN. colored, 1920 yrs,
medium size for boarding house. Good pay
, meals daily. Day of each week. 1896
u st st. NV.
airy commensurate with ability State par
ticularS- Box 465-D. Star.
COLLEGE STUDENT, for summer work:
haberdaShery exper. not nee. about S25
VIZ. 1927 Eye NV, Room POS.
Go6K colOsed q to IS Yrs old: sand.
refs. Apply 3d. pm, s12 9TH st. NV.
COUNTERMAN. experienced; also short
order cook must be sober, honest reliable;
good salary. 636 N. Capitol st,
COUNTER AND SODA MAN experienced:
refs: S25 wk. to start; good hours. Capitol
Towers Pharmacy. 20S Mass. ave. ne.
DANCERS good. 10 teach ballroom dane
ing: experienced preferred; but not nee
eSsary training given; salary plus COM
mission. Apply II to 6. Martini, 1910
10Th st. NV.
National Drug Co. 1000 Conn. ave.
DRIVER for, dry, cleaning route, in Silver
Spring; good salary steady Job. Shop
ELECTRICIAN; with tools; car references;
pm. for appointment. TO-
ELECTRICIANS helpers, with tools and
five years local experience / apprentice
boy, 3 years old; good wages; good con-
ditions. 1875 Irving st. NV.
ENGINEER, watch. 3rd-class license re-
auired: 6-day week: $50 per month
Apply Managers Office Dodge Hotel or
chief engineer
ENGINEERS ocean. unlimited license 1st
End. 3rd for cosstwise shipping; wages
from $40 to S245. Write giving past
experience to United Licensed Omcers,
6O1 Stewart Bldg, Baltimore, Md.
FIf1PINO OR CHINESE cook and house
boy, for employed couple: excellent salary;
pleasant conditions for competent person
with references. Box 216-D. Star.
FIREMAN for stationary boilers; perma-
nent position. good salary; room and meals
IL necessary Apply in person to Mr..
Inman. Carvel Hall Hotel. Annapolis Md
FURNITURE FINISHER, excellent oppor-
tunity for experienced man; permanent
connection; ideal working conditions; in
side work Phone Woodley 424S. or call
in person. Colony House, 4244 Connect
cut ave. NV
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10
Give Dad Luxurious Gift Provided Also Has It's Useful Aspect
Buy Fathers Day Present
With Thought of Mans
Likes and Dislikes'
Consider Age, Taste and Hobby
For Successful Selections;
Expert Advice Is Helpful
b. Helen Vost

romantic
will thinking weddings and
far institution Fathers Day
Sunday it's the time that doesn't have
the OF
bills
the compleXy
him gift he'll really like whether it
appeal feminine Don't choose silly
that Dad likely
hopefully for but which he has never bought because
a permanent
of that last paragraph not
doWnrodden marred individual Let's
merely saw that Pop his hearts desires just
theirs Wed like to Fathers Day
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10

successfully celebrated as Mother
Day-and that reminds us, what
ever happens to the Childrens Day
festivities?
We could, of course, list count
less gifts as suitable for this special
occasion. but a quick trip through
the department stores or men S
specially shops will show you the
array of excellent articles avail
able. Instead, we'd like to devote
this column to the active business
OF buying appropriate glfts-sensl-
Bile shopping and few short cuts
to success.
First, and most important. is to
know your subject. Consider his
age. his activities and hobbies.
Bear in mind the type of clothes
he likes to wear, not the type you'd
like him to wear. Doing that will
save YOU the embarrassment OF an
tncongruous choice-Such as a short
'jitterbug" raincoat for the banker
type of father, even though daugh-
ter's best beau looks super" in
the same model. Watch colors care
fully, because they matter to men,
even as they do to the ladies.
You'll be smart to buy such arti-
Giles as ties. handkerchiefs and
shirts in a reliable shop. trusting
the trained salesman to help you
make a choice This, of course,
after you've taken a careful look
at the things Dad picks out for
himself and consequently likes.
Remember that "gadgets' are
near and dear to the heart of the
female of the species, but the ma
toritY Of men detest them. Don't
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10

II you wish to have my leaf
let, KEEPING ROMANCE
ALIVE" send a Scent stamped.
self-addressed envelope with
your request for 1t to Josephine
Lowman In care Of this news.
paper
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10

requires 27s yards 36-inch fabric,
bolero jacket Ia yards. Ric-rac
outline takes yards. Pattern Is
complete with sew chart.
For more STYLES. send Is cents for
our new fashion book. If you are
starting your summer sewing. send
for one today. You'll find in it over
100 styles. all planned for practical
home sewing. all styled in accordance
with the latest New York fashion
ideas.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10
HELP MEN.

FOUNTAIN MAN for new. air-conditioned
restaurant. Charpal Grill, 1887 18th st.
gesE7 ~ ism Fh ono. e H6Tk fN1F
Star 12'
GROCERY CLERK. experienced; good
hours. 1850 81. NV.
GROCERY CLERK WANTED. must have
c"37 Minnesota ave. sc.
HOD CARRIERS experienced. $40 per
day. report ready for work; 18th and
Scott Circle.
HOTEL ROOM CLERK, with local expert
P. B. X. Apply Ebbitt Hotel
HOTEL CLERK. experienced for perma-
nent position Apply Hotel Grafton, 1899
Conn. ave.
HOTEL ROOM CLERK: experienced. capable
and references in 1st letter. Box BOD.
Star.
MAN. Young white help in grocery store;
good worker. 1928 N st. NV. No tele-
phone calls.
MAN young, mechanically inclined. to
work at Ace Auto Glass Shop, Decatur
MAN, experienced in sales department.
paint store one capable of handling sales
force; state qualifications, age. Box 13--G
Star.
MAN colored as dishws sher: night work:
$40 week. Johnson's Sandwich Shop. 1927
lth ST. NV No phone calls.
NAN MAN young wanted to drive truck: must
& Son a33 G ST. NV
MAN. young. in drug store, with or without
experience. Box CSC, Star.
MAN. white. to manage gasoline and tire
station: must be thorouehly, experienced;
See Mr. Carroll. 3446 i4th St NV.
MAN colored. highly recommended; inter-
ested IN church work: collecting and SELL
ing, Must furnish security Excellent OPP
portunity to right man. r. Behan, 10 9th
MAN. young. ~ 80. ability to sell. to call
Apply Kay-Evans. 1924 H st. NV, wednes-
MEN wanted for service station employ
ment, also automobile mechanics. Jobs
open in almost every section. Apply all
day Monday or Tuesday morning. Retail
Gasoline Dealers. Inc. 1882 @1st st. NV.
MOTION PICTURE OPERATOR. Apply
PAINTERS experienced Report ready for
work 22nd and virginia ave. NV. S6,40
per cav
PLAsTERERs wanted, SII.la per hour:
report ready for work. 18th and Scott
PLUMBERS plumber. expert
enced in iobbing and remodeling Must
know city and drive auto. Reference re-
CURED. ]. c. Flood & Co.. p12 14th St
PORTER AND BOY for small fountain,
must be honest. willing worker; references
REQ. Apply drugstore. ) r. /. ave. nv.
PRESSER, steady work. Apply 1896 Park
road NV.
PRESSER, experienced. ladies' and mems
wear: good salary, steady Job, non-eXperi-
enced need not apply. 501S Conn. ave.
established firm. Address Box 19-G, Star,
stating age qualif1cs tons and salary ex-
pected. All replies confidential.
RADIO sERvICEMAN, good salary and
opportunity for Thoroughly experienced
man with car. Mr.. Byram, 635 D st. NV.
REFRIGERATION SERVICE and shop men.
sober, reliable. thor exp; good pay; also
apprentices Mr. Schenkel. 1918 14th NV.
REFRIGERATOR SERVICE MAN. good sal
largest appliance house. Atlas, 921 G
st. NV.
SALESMAN, all or part time; collecting
and selling; white and colored accts;
salary-comm. r. Behan. 719 9Th st. NV.
statesmen experienced in paper and
general merchandise Dixie Paper Co.. 513
Morse ST. ne.
SERVICE STATION ATTENDANTS, white
District Automotive Supply Co., 210O
Fem. ave. NV.
SERVICE STATION ATTENDANT. expert
and Rhode Island ave, NV.
SHORT-CRDER COOK Apply 2121 will
son blvd. Arlington. Va.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10
HELP MEN.
Statesmen.
HELP MEN g WOMEN.

Debating MACHINES: excellent OPP
tunity for right man. Phone District "a
appointment.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10
| WhyGrow
Old?
Bv Josethine LO,cman

By Josephine Lo,oman
In his book, The Doctor Looks
at Marriage and Medicine" Joseph
Collins says: The best lubricant
for the wheels of the matrimonial
chariot is commendation-the most
effective brake is condemnation,
and the most effective shock alb
sorber is concession"
Yet women seem to be crawn as
though by a magnet toward the
tempting pastime of criticizing
their husbands. They fit about
this dangerous habit much as
moths play with fire and just as
often get their wings singed. No
doubt this is true because woman
wishes to help her husband, but
he would much rather be told that
she thinks he is attractive and
good looking and that he is the
only man in the world for her. If
a man couldn't take little honest
criticism he wouldn't be worth hav-
ing. but virtually all wives could
dish out less of it with happy re-
suits.
Many women labor under the
disastrous delusion that they are
the only ones who must be made
to feel important, who need to be
loved. Husbands are people, too!
Their egos also require the boost
which praise from lips they love
can give them.
In fact. many psychologists agree
that man is more romantic than
woman-that he remains senti-
mental long after she has settled
down with security and children
as her main interests in life and
after she has assumed a humdrum
attitude toward marriage. They
say that no man stops being ro-
mantle until after his wife does.
There are no doubt exceptions
to this, but I am sure that mar
riages would be happier if wives
stayed in love with their husbands
and concentrated on their good
points rather than their faults.
II you wish to have my leaf
let, KEEPING ROMANCE
ALIVE" send a Scent stamped.
self-addressed envelope with
vcur ranuax{ for n IA Ioeanhina
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1941-06-10
Special Notices, Lost and
Found, Page A-3
HELP MEN.

AMANUENSIs capable OF training typist
for several members Of Congress. Box
302-E. Star.
ASSISTANT STATION MANAGER, good re-
liable worker. No Sundays and no night
work; $50 wk. to start. Box 456-D, Star.
AUToMOTIvE MACHINIST must be ex-
perienced with micrometers. Apply 300
H st. ne.
AUTO MECHANICS HELPER and service
station attendant. Apply Johnson's Ca
BAR BOY 21-25, clean-cut and nom
drinker, for highclass cocktail lounge.
Call Mr. Bal, from 81 pm. MI. 1898.
BooKKEEPER- sTENOGRAPHER by Arm in
plumbing, heating and general construction
business. Must be thoroughly experieneed.
cations, salary and reference. Prefer
party familiar with credits and collections
and CAPABLE of managing ONCE work Box
1882 Star.
BOOTBLACKS (3l, wanted; GOOD pay.
Apply 629 E st. NV.
BOY, white. Is to 81, for sandwich shop;
local references: no exper. necessary. Apply
404 9th st. NV. II"
BOYS. white. over 1s, soda fountain work;
no experience necessary. Colonial Phar-
macy. 1113 18th 81. NV.
BOYS FOR FOUNTAIN, food experience,
REFERENCES: salary and commission. Dailey's
DRUG Store. 1924 Florida ave. ne.
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21
u. S. Aiiache
To Visit Here
Groves Returning
To Shanghai Post

n. Lawrence Groves. CONNER
cial attaohe Of the L. :. legation
in Shanghai. ~ill b Tacoma
visitor Wednesday while en- route
hack 10 his post after an extended
tour Of the United states
At mat time ~ will bs guest
Of honor and speaker At q meet
ing OF the Tacoma Chamber of
Commerce marine affairs commit
tee, to be held At noon in Hotel
Winthrop.
Groves also will hold confer
snces with local importers and sx-
porters and other interested bust
nessmen; appointments are being
arranged BY Miss ingrid Void.
representative Of the L. s. Bureau
Of Foreign and Domestic Com
merce at the Chambw Of Com
meree.
The record OF Groves sssign-
ments since 1919 reads like q
travel book Of Europe. with Fin
land, France. Switzerland. Latvia.
Estonia, Lithuania. czechoslova-
kia, Austria. Yugoslavia. Ruma-
mia. Germany. Belgium and Greece
all being named once or more.
During this time he served ~ COM
mercial sttaohe at Prague, Vienna.
Berlin. Brussels. and Athens.
His latest assignment before his
return 10 this country for re-
assignment was AZ commercial
sttache to the American legation
at Athens. Greece.
In addition, he was assigned 10
the Interparliamentary conference
at Prague In 1924. as = technical
expert to the Conference for Re
moval Of Import and Expert Re-
strictions at Geneva in 1927. and
q delegate to the 18th Intvrna-
tional Housing and Town Planning
congress in Berlin In 1891.
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21
PORT cAI.ENDAR
Petroleum Under Rigid
Export Control System

WAS HING To N--Prssideni
Roosevelt Friday placed all petrol-
cum products under the rigid en-
port control system.
The presidential order will be
used TO embargo all oil shipments
from the eastern seaboard. except
to Great Britain. Egypt and Latin
America. II is the eastern sea-
board that now IL threatened with
an oil shortage.
Tn peresident said the further
restriction Of oil shipments from
the Gulf or Pacific ports Of the
United states IL not contemplated. .
although by subieeting all petrol
cum products 10 export control
tho machinery for such restrictions
IL automatically established.
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21
Urge Oregon Butter Be
Used 10 Aid England

SALEM, Ore. Conversion ~ 10
million pounds Of Oregon butter
into ehssss for England At govern
msnt expense was asked BY the
state board Of agriculture Il tie
semi-snnual meeting here.
The board drafted q resolution
to Gov. Charles A. spraEus. ask
ing him to nss his influsnes In
getting ths federal government 20
subsidies ehsess factories.
The resolution pointed out that
oregon exports 10000 900 pounds
Of butter = year. and that cheese
Of high food value could be pro-
duesd n also pointed out that
Oregon IL the NTH ranking stats
in the Union In production Of the
kind of cheese that England needs
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21
Transporting Stolen
Car Leads TO Arrest

Arrested by federal officers for
transporting q stolen car across
the state boundary. Harry W
johnson was held in the city jail
Friday IN lieu Of 81 600 bond.
johnson IL accused Of taking q
stolen auto from Portland 10 ksiso.
He Vas arrested At the latter city
and after = hearing before . 4. \.
commissioner was bound over 10
the federal grand jury.
Two other men arrested - the
same time In connection s1th the
case are stiii awaiting a commits
sionsrE preliminary hearing 81
Vancouver. according 10 Deputy Z.
3. Marshal John p. garRo.
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21
Accident Is Fatal
To Fomous Pionist

HOLLYWOOD = Nj IaUFa
Lorimsr Hay Chapman. famous
concert pianist once known a. the
most beautiful women IN Eng
land" died IN = hospital here n
Injuries suffered yhsn shs was
struck ~ an sut0m0bils. she
sss 90.
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21
c. D. Weyerhoeuser
Appointed Trustee

Appointment Of &. Davis Wsysr-
hssuser. Of Weyerhzsuser Timber
Co. a. a trustee q Moody Bible
Institute. Chicago. was announced
Friday BY ths Rev Win II HoDgh-
ton. d. u. president q tins insil-
tuts.
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21

Prices we're unchanged on local
wholessls markets Friday.
A top price Of sais cents per ID.
IL being asked for butter. with
prices for lesser scores ranging
downward 10 s7is cents per ID.
Buttsrfst continued ct 81 cents
per ID.
A recent advance IN price Of
egg mash failed Ia Influence the
price Of eggs. which held IL d
cents per doz.. top grade Grade
% medium eggs are selling 81 -
cents per dok.
sugar. q strong market. 10 avail
able at ss4s per e~t for G q u
oans. Both Philippine and beet
sugars are selling a. tsas per
same weight Brown IL quoted Al
t57I.
Listed quotations are Nh0lssals.
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21
Card PortY Saturday

John =. Thompson camp suxi-
lazy. u the United spanish War
veterans. All sponsor . card party
Saturday 81 $50 p m IN the Ia
coma arrnOry. Plans for tables
Of pdn0chis and 500 and a late
aupper Nera anno4naed.
The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1941-06-21
Postpone Election
On Tribal Council

Members Of the Paiyallup tribal
council, scheduled to vote sAtur-
day on two vacant positions on
the council. announced Friday
postponsmsnt Of the election until
some time In July.