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The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

Many q GIRL would prefer TO b
married quietly instead Of before .
church. hall or drawing room fun
Of people. but she gives IN to the
Mother. whose big day It u and who
has no intention Of being cheated
out Of It. The father Of the bride
allows himself TO b wangled into
the thing because he knows Mother
has set her heart on It and because
he believes. and hopes. that It u the
last thing he will be called upon TO
do for his little girl. Sometlmes, but
not often, It 10.
The family Of the groom u Gel.
dom 20 keen for the show wedding.
For some reason the groom'S moth.
e. Is always the lesser. attraction.
the bride and her mother have the
stellar feminine roles and. unless
she's very much lovelier or much
more important, she never gets .
chance to steal the show. Besides
which. she u losing her son, and
don't thing she doesn't know II.
One dislikeS thinking that large
weddings are often q way Of dis.
charging . social obligation. or Of
going the Joneses one better. but
one dislikes more thinking that
they are . sort Of hold.up .
means Of footing. iegali5ed and %.
cially acceptable. But I'm afraid
they often are one or al Of these
things. Certainly they are never "a
expression or reflection Of the love
and devotion that exists between
the contracting parties.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

Still one cannot blame . girl for
wanting 70 be married with al the
trimmings. II not with pomp and
ceremony. Many girls have few OPP
portunities TO stand out from the
crowd, or few occasions for which
they are singled out for special hon.
ors. And 20 many brides exit smiling
from the altar only to 60 into social
retirement. The settling down
process may not include many 20.
cial events and certainly none that
could ever hold q candle to the dfs.
matte moment when, turning from
the altar. she finds all eyes upon
her. Looking ct It that way one could
not begrudse q bride her big mo-
ment. but looking 1t 1t from Q com.
mon sense viewpoint, one cannot
help Wishing girls would think Of
the bridegroom's angle. also Of their
future standard Of living. Ones
wedding should have some relation
to the tenor Of ones life. A big
splurge that Is entirely out Of pro.
portion to ones home and trous.
seau. not to mention the income Of
either her father or her new hus.
band, Is In questionable taste.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Spoiled Child Wasn't "Born That
Way; Parental Coddling Did 1t
BY JANE HERBERT COWARD

certain important adjustments
when the little sister was born. Bet
ty. on the other hand. was never an
only child and was never called
upon to make concessions to . new
baby. She was always little sister"
The parents have always attrib.
uted the difference In their chill
dren to the fact that the boy Il
older and therefore has better
sense. This was their attitude even
when Betty was two and Bobby
four. Thus. Betty. apparently, Is
doomed to be the baby" for rs long
az she lives.
The position Of the child In the
family Is an important factor In his
character and personality develop
ment. Parents generally acquire
habits Of dealing with children
based upon the order In which they
are born into the family. The drst
born Is expected to conduct himself
one way. the second born another.
the baby another.
This Is deplorable. Fair treatment
consists In dealing With each child
% . separate person, and Of trying
to understand him on that basis
while teaching him 70 get along
well with the others. Where the pa
rent Il conscientious IN this. the
children - they Grow older will eee
that no partially Was ever IN.
tended. They will understand that
whore one child received . bit more
attention. IL was necessary because
Of some unusual circumstance.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

The teen age girl this year Is
eager for nets and starched chiffon.
Her graduation dress. when In for
NAL style, Is newest with full sleeves
pulled at the shoulder. She Is par
tial to rows Of rickrack or narrow
lace for trimming - all OF which
gives a sweet girl graduate" look to
the frock. One model Is inspired by
a Lady Hamilton costume In shad-
ow stripe starched chiffon with
flchu neckline and pastel sash.
It's perfectly natural that the
Lady Hamilton costumes should be
widely copied. since they are just
the type girls like for summer dane
ing and what-not. Most commence
ment dresses move on to experience
quite another sort Of life than that
for which they were originally de-
signed. Grads. like brides. want
their dresses to serve more than one
purpose.
Lace plays a stellar role In dresses
for graduation and other gala oc-
casions. Insertions Of Irish crochet
or Valcnciennes lace and clusters OF
tucking arc favored bodice dccora-
tions. Sclf-sashcd with full skirts
are very naive and altogether
sometimes founced, such dresses
charming. Nccklincs are usually
square-that Is. in the frou-frou
lace trimmed model But girls 60 in
for the elongated v, the plunging
neckline.
Summer evening wraps designed
to complete these costumes run to
stitched tafYeta In short swagger
lengths. Quilted taffeta is also liked
and there are snappy looking white
pique coats that are young enough
to be appealing.
incidentally. there are smart
looking white pique dresses with
sailor collars edged with lace. Lace
plays a very important part in all
summer occasional frocks.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15


first be photographed silently going
through idealistic singing motions.
before their voices are recorded and
dubbed In. Because Of this failing.
Friedrich Schorr. Metropolitan OPP
era star and noted vocal coach.
teaches his pupils to sing without
facial Disagreement and without
impairing the full quality OF their
tones. Before he can do this, how
ever. he f1rst must teach them to
speak correctly.
Five Types Of Speakers
Mr.. Schorr divides women who
move their mouths incorrectly into
five general classes. There Is the
prison talker." so called because
she speaks without moving her lips.
Her words are inuffled and her face
has q set expression. Then there is
the "pouter" who pokeS out her
lower lip as she speaks, giving her a
petulant. whiny expression. and the
''guinmy speaker" who rolls back
her lips like cannibal as she con-
verses. barring gums and teeth: the
Coy talker" who tries to see how
small she can make her mouth by
puckering up her lips, and lastly
there Is the female truck driver"
who talks out Of the side Of her
mouth.
Any one Of these women Is dis
torting and running the shape Of
her mouth, the coach points out.
Natural speech. with free movement
Of the lips and distinct sounding Of
each word, Is attractive to the eye
as well as the ear. but Alterations
like those mentioned can spoil the
loveliest face.
Check up In front Of your mirror
on the speaking movements Of your
own mouth. Be honest with your
self. Speak as you normally do and
don't feel ashamed II you feel your
self making unpleasant grimaces.
Three out Of every I'VE women do.
With q little practice you can Join
the other two.
Speak Distinctively
The important point, he believes.
II to aim for distinctness and
naturaIness. not being afraid to
move your lips when the words re-
Quire II. The basis Of this Is learn
ing to pronounce sounds correctly.
The vowel q Gas In father) Is the
fundamental sound Of ell novels. In
saying It, open the mouth wide and
drop the lower Jaw rs much as pos
sihle. The p sOtind (aS In handy Is
smaller than .. The mouth Is
opened very little and the lower jaw
dropped slightly. The vowel tas In
mine) u the smallest Of oil. For it,
enunciation the mouth u almost
closed. The vowel o Gas In comb) Is
characterized BY the round shape
Of the lips. while U Is variation OBJ
taiued By protruding the lips for
ward - IN blowing. When you have
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Scalp Must BE Clean

Shampooing Is al important
thing. too. since this also seems to
depend upon the particular need
for having the hair done" The
application OF any sort OF lather to
the head should be determined by
the quality Of the hair and the
strength Of the solution. The prime
need Is to remove the dirt and oils
from the scalp. and one must be
careful not to damage in any way
the natural secretions which the
hair must have to remain beautiful
and healthy.
The speed at which We live has
reached the beauty parlor, and ap-
poiutments are continually being
rushed to point where all en-
gaSementS may be met In ones
best style. The doctor must make
one caution. do not use cold water
On the scalp In order TO forestall
taking cold. Chilling the scalp Is
not going to help. and 1t may do
do1lujte harm. Have the operator
rub . BIT Of oil into the scalp. CIV
Inn i q special loosening up be-
fore completing the hair dressing.
Nature viii do . lot to keep the
c1rculation going II given q chance.
II . hat u put on at once. Use a
1oo0o one, without any constructing
btnd - hamper the blood supply.
- elire the parlor you patronize
1lu6 .1uod steriltzing cabinets. and
t41t - instruments used are per-
tUCt)y cIeou. And never. never use
mo other comb or brush than your
own. There are no infectious dis
eoeos more stubborn and difficult
70 Bet rid OF than those of the
sap. You cannot be too careful
about this.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
DEFINITELY CONVENIENT

Use lr head. milady. and
you'll / gl,t In style at all hours
OF tic ,crnoon and evening II
you wear a hat like the one de-
signed for Paulette Goddard by
Edith Head. Hollywood designer
Faced with the problem Of making
a hat that would carry Miss God
dsrd from a daytime scene to an
early evening setting In a new pic
ture. Miss Head hit upon the idea
OF a quick change chapeau with a
removable brim.
The cap Is Of white eyelet en-
broidery, fitting snugly on the
head. It's removable brim, Of white
Milan straw. Is pulled down over
the crown. fitting tightly into posi-
ton. with no fsstenings needed to
keep IL there. For afternoons in
the sunshine. the hat is worn With
the brim. A quick pull takes of
the brim and the wearer Is ready
for dining and dancing. Conven-
ient7 Definitely!
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Care q Lifetime Job

n the women think they are
better looking with the present
s'hnir. dos" bless them. should
not want to disillusion them. Par
tjcularly when some of them think
theY have made themselves look
younger than the almanac says
they are.
Al I ask Is that they do not
aoteAt their own purpose. Hair
thnt q % carefully styled and
Oot0ured Il not likely to be dis
talSbed frequently for the daily
tgustiug and scalp massaging. the
secret Of beautiful hair. / wonder
how my patients are going to look
md 3eel 10 years from now. Hair
care u . lifetime Job. 1t must be-
g1n Ia babyhood and be kept up
1aarough al ones days. Ask any
baldheaded man and he will tell
you that the loss Of his hair was
the eoverest blow to his pride that
the years had brought. Next to
actual deSormity. ] believe that
men regyet badness more than
anything. And now, the women are
4BU18 oSA0t Way yOA koAl HSbAS
the hair styles and you will ind
them being arranged to cover the
thin spots. s.
Txestsnent and care OF the hair
s6cu1d be % much . routine In our
daily program ~ any other form
Cf bodily hygiene. Ar and sunshine
are good for the hair, but the habit
oS going without head covering Is
not always good for It. That Is
attributable to the fact that the
soot and dirt Of city. and even OF
the country roads. are hard on the
hair. especially since the elaborate
ARRANGEMENTS do not (. ield to the
vigorous brush as often as We like
70 advise. There are now available
half round brushes. with good
bristles--and this is the most i'm
portant potnt-which will 60
through the hair to the scalp It
oelf. and really reach the skin
without brushing the curl out Of
the hair. These are advisable for
brushing the hair. since this oper-
alton seems to be limited to GER
tain periods and brushing is no
longer q daily process.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

completely mastered these oral
gymnastics In front Of your mirror.
and II you're wise you'll practice
them as diligently - your setting
UP routines, you are ready for the
consopants.
In pronouncing b. p, {. d. x, q.
close the mouth completely, then
open suddenly. In saytngf, v. ". 3.
z. l. sch. tn. h, partly close the
mouth and open suddenly. As for
m. n. and ne. close the mouth 50
that the sound must ind its way
out through the nose, and In say.
ing r. close the lips almost com.
pletely and allow them to nbrate at
the margins. Speak 1T . moderate
rate. Too fast gives an unpleasant
effect, too slow becomes monoton.
Gus. Close your mouth - soon ~
you cease speaking. Smile often.
Make q conscious effort to achieve .
pretty speaking mouth and your
lips and face can't help but look
lovelier than ever.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Bishop Manning,
At IS, Marks
MilestoneS
By TALBOT LAKE

MOST prominent dignitary Of the
lv1 Protestant Episcopal Church
in America is the Bishop Of New
York. the Right Rev. William T.
Manning. whose church Is the beau
tiful and elaborate Cathedral Of st.
John the Divine. Bishop Manning
has recently celebrated his 18TH
birthday, and also nifty years as a
priest and twenty as bishop.
His work has not been easy. and
even now il calls for l6-hour day.
seven days a week and ten months
Of the year,
Il don't feel any need Of It," the
Bishop said smilingly at his desk as
he dismissed the idea Of beginning
to take things easier. In the course
of human events that time must
come. but don't at present feel any
need Of It,"
Bishop Manning Is an English
man. having been born In North
ampton. England; May IL, 1865. He
was ordained In 1891 and became
bishop Of New York In 1921. At that
time he became president OF the
New York Protestant Episcopal So
ciety. which Is celebrating Its 10th
anniversary.
His duties are great and his par
ish huge. The bishop has not only
spiritual matters to oversee. but he
also manages the business Of doz-
ems Of good-sized corporations. For
instance. the City Mission alone has
more clergymen on Its stan than
many q diocese. The parishes col
lect and expend millions Of dollars
yearly. for all Of which Bishop
Manning Is Responsible.
The domain takes In $500 square
miles and extends from Staten
Island to 5augerties. N. Y. over -
miles up the. Hudson, River. There
are 800 parishes, missions and
preaching stations. $50 clergymen.
100000 registered adherents and
100000 unregistered.
To manage all this. the Bishop
rises for breakfast at eight and
works till past midnight. Two
months vacation 1T Mt. Desert, Me.
(during which time the Bishop Is
constantly In touch with New York
by phone) may have to be foregone
this year because Of world condi-
lions.
The cathedral was only partly
built when Bishop Manning took
over: now 1t Is two-thirds finished.
at a cost Of $25. 600. 900. It will take
ten years and ten millions to finish
It.
As for this country going into the
war, he said. THAT. our President
and our government should decide,
and must. It is only common sense
and IL Is our absolute duty to do
whatever may be necessary - I'm
not saying what-to preserve jus
tice and human liberty In this
world"
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

urally wants to be 1t her very love-
lest, to knock her already groggy
bridegroom right OF hts feet. for BY
the time Of the ceremony he's more
nervous than any woman could be.
And II the truth be told, he's In a
mood to bolt. Not that he doesn't
love his bride. but that he doesn't
love the ordeal he must 60 through
before she 10 oflcially his, Men dis
like any public display Of emotion
and how they do hate wedding
including their own. Z
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Short Cuts

AS an accompaniment to a fish
course, try nodded sweet pickle
relish. This Is how 1t Is made.
Dissolve one package of lemon
gelatin In a pint OF boiling water.
Chill. When slightly thickened
add six small sweet pickles finely
cut up. Turn into individual molds
and chill until Arm. The quanti-
ties named in this recipe make six
molds. Serve on a leaf OF crisp
lettuce.
when celery Is stuffed with
cheese, or a cheese base mix
ture. garnish with a sprinkl-
ing Of paprika.
II you are shopping around for
andirons for your fireplace, make
sure that they are the right size
for It. To flt q fireplace properly.
andirons should be half the height
Of fireplace.
Cook vegetables In enough
water to cover In an uncovered
pot.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
NOW TWO SKIRTS

II men can have suits with two
pairs Of pants. why can't girls
have dresses with two pairs Of
skirts? The answer Is. why uot?"
Such q dress has Just beeu added
to the personal wardrobe Of VIZ
ginia Dale. Aim player. And It's
not O mere passing fancy or . gag.
but q practical dress designed for
practical reasons. One skirt, you
see, is long. and the other short.
One Is for afternoon rogmps, the
other for evening. Top Of the dress
Is short-sleeved and short IN
length. leaving the midrtH bare.
Both skirts are six.gored. dider.
ing only In their distances from
the floor. All three pieces ere o.
the same material. heavenly blue
sharkskin. II you md . single
style you like 20 well that you'd
want 70 wear It oil the time. the
two-skirt dress y your answer
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

eleven year-old Betty to change
her mind once II is made UP. and II
denied her way. she has tantrums,
Heredity may have something to
do with the difference In children.
but both heretlity and npironnient
60 TO make tie individual. Heredity
is something which we cannot con.
troll. but environment Is something
over which We do have control.
Even though they may be brought
UP under one roof, no two people
have precisely the same environ.
ment. Bobby wss an only child for
ga years, and was required to make
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
POWDER Blended

II you have difnculty dnding .
powder that Is datteying to . pale.
dull or nat olive skin. try using ttDo
powders. one that matches your skin
tone as closely % possible. the other
a warmer. roster shade to give q
healthy glow to your skin. BE sure
to blend the two powders carefully
with a brush to give Q translucent
skin quality.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

, y y Qb-
matte urge to
8 Q Q herself.
o ndhAve
others SEE her.
starred 1 n .
beautiful spec
{ q c lie. + h Q
bride /. to . be
has Q vision Of
h Q elf In
3 ] e q m l n 3
" hite with
misty veil. the
admi "a tion
and 0 w of
all eyes. s h e
AlaA a1AasRa nat
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

0SAAsS SA
nomenclature)
and all sorts OF
figured treat
ment. W h ! ! e
the colors were
wild fgments
of
Blue, platinum
orc h d. and
steel gray on
" h a t should
be snow white
tresses. Brun-
e tie loo k S
ira d e d I Or
z o ! d . a n d
blOn d e ones
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

OF I n cir en-
vironment. AL
though b o I h
have had the
same upbring-
ing each n a S
his own pecu-
liar faults. AL
I h o u g n in
clined to b e
Sc fish too.
Bobby, who is
thirteen. C a n
usual lily be rea-
soned " 1t n i.
But 1t Is prac-
tically impos-
.iIl- 4 ~Al
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Girl Enjoys
Spotlight at
Big Wedding

BY MARIAN MAYS MARTIN
THE case Of . big wedding
versus q quiet one Il now be-
fore the Jury. All those Ia favor
OF the SNOWY kind say aye;
all those In favor Of the quiet
wedding-but why 60 on, that Will
b every man present. en detest
show weddings-women love them.
Why? There are lots Of reasons for
women liking them. The drst Is pos
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

Tic m p or"
lance Of your
lips. " q I c h
your mouth as
you s ! n g In
song, q We ry
movement o I
tn e lips Is
m a g nif e d
threefold.
In the NOV
les, the mouth
Of q 8 n 6 er
often becomes
s o distorted
t h q I m q n y
] e q d ! n g So
~oA~AA 90 a.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Talk Yourself Into Lovely
Mouth, Urges Vocal Coach
By JACQUELINE HUNT

YOU talk yourself into beautiful mouth can Just
easily yourself Of The choice depends
Every you speak definite bearing not only
mouth, but the appearance OF your face whole
Heredty tooth structure naturally have much to do
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15

for brunette. Well. the vagaries OF
fashion are not for a mere profess
donal man to figure out. would
better stick to my own last.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Broilcd Salmon or Halibut
Cucumbers Espagnole
Farley Potatoes
Salad Bowl Of Mixed Greens
Sliced Oranges with Shredded
Coc0nut

Spinach goes well with all sea-
foods, and so do carrots. cucur1-
bers. peas, celery. snap beans. lima
beans and asparagus. Cabbage slaw
and beet relish or picked beets
are also good Iish accompaniment.
Stewed tomatoes are another sug-
gestion. When you make these. try
fiavoring the dish with q generous
amount Of celery seed.
Sometimes cream the tips OF
asparagus with a little nutmeg for
the flsh meal, and make q soup the
next day or an asparagus ring OF
the pureed stalks. Cucumbers may
be served either as . salad or as q
hot vegetable and are delicious
with either hSh or meat. TO make
stewed cucuInbers, peel. then slice
or cube and cook IA Q small amount
Of boiling water until tender
(about 10 minutes). Season with
salt, pepper and butter. or serve
with q Hollandaise or white sauce,
or sour cream. Dandelion greens
may be cooked like spinach. sea-
soned with salt, pepper and butter.
The following vegetable dishes
sre appropriate with fish. and
different"
BETS IN ORANGE SAUCE
tablespoon cornstarch
tablespoon sugar
II cup orar e Juice
u cup beet liquid
Il teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons butter
cups cooked beets, diced
Ind cornstArch and sugar IN
saucepan. add orange juice and
beet liquid: cook. stirring con-
stantly. until thickened. Add salt
and butter. Add beetS and heat.
CUCUN1BERS ESPAGNOLE
medium .SiSed cucumbers
"a green pepper, minced fine
II small onion, minced fine
Il Glove garlic, minced flne
z tablespoons cooking oil
cup tomato sauce or
canned tomatoes
Salt and cayenne pepper
Peel. dice and cook cucumberS
until tender. Saute green pepper.
onion and garlic In the oil. Add
tomato sauce and cook 8 minutes.
Add cooked cucumber. Season with
salt and pepper. Simmer . few
minutes.
SCALLOPED TOMATOES AND
CHEESE
onion, sliced
u green pepper, chopped
tablespoons butter
Tablespoons -four
mo. ~ can tomatoes
- teaspoon thyme
n cup grated cheese
Saute onion and green pepper In
2 tablespoons Of the butter until
soft. Do not brown. Blend In flour
smoothly. Aid to tomatoes. to-
gether with thyme and blend In
thoroughly. Place In baking dish.
cover with cheese. dot with re-
naming butter and bake In mod
crate oven 1850 degrees FJ IS
vSS(sS,stae
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Girl Graduates Approve
Lace Trim, Puff Sleeves
BY ELEANOR GUM

NEW YORK- of your problems preparing the sweet
girl graduate for her big moment, you will want to know
feelings girl grads general about what they shall
Here's poll the subject and it's pretty informative
you will you check with own bright and shining STAR
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
Vegetables
To Go With
Fish Meals
BY JUDITH WILSON

WITH 30 many varieties OF
W flsh plentiful at this time OF
the year. the housewife should
have no dimculty deciding on
the kind to serve. Indeed, she Is
more likely 70 b puzzled g TO tho
vegetables that should 90 With It.
The daily monitor. (Mount Clemens, Mich.) 1940-1942, 1941-05-15
You'll Graduate with High Satoa onors You Wear Net Chiffon
Look Out Your Hair Isn't
Ruined by Some New Fad
BY CLAUD NORTH CHRIsMAN. MD.

nHAES Names everywhere No, haven't been TO morse
VA show Just walking from the office glorious May
day on every side and girls with their hair hang
ng down about shoulders like horses mane AT nrSt
Thought would that the hair would have an unusual