The Washington times., 1939-01-25

d, and before I knew it, 1 had
r husband.
They seemed sort Of happy, al
though they did have occasional
family quarrels like most mar
ried folks. I went back home,
and he came to visit me and
took me out to dinner several
times. My feeling for him con-
tinued to grow, and I became
powerleSS when he confessed
that he also loved me and
wanted to divorce his wife and
marry me. Please help me with
your good advice. MEGS.
My dear MegS, I'm afraid you
are lacking in a sense Of loyalty
and integrity. Your girl friend
invited you to spend your vaca-
ton in her home, and immedi-
ately you showed your gratitude
by helping to pull the props
from under it.
Almost any woman can aid
and abet an unstable, suscepti-
BILE type of man into believing
he is in love-it's a favorite in
door and outdoor sport with
them. If you should marry this
man, believe it or not, some
other woman will pull the same
stunt on you. Brace up, don't
try to get your happiness at an
other woman's expense. Very
often it proves to be a boom
erang.
Faint
Heart
Dear Miss Fairfax:
At %, I'm terribly in love with
a young lady who lives next door
to me. I like to 60 to her house.
and do so very often. I'm sure
I love her, but I seem to lose my
nerve when we are alone to-
gether. She's only 16, and al
though I'd like to take her out
riding or to a movie, her parents
won't allow her to 60 with me.
I think she does care little for
me. How can I let her know
how I feel, without losing my
nerve? This giri is still in school.
UNDAUNTED.
# you keep on visiting this
charming neighbor and enjoy it
each time. some day you will be
able to tell her Of your love
without advice from anyone.
It's usually a fine type Of young
person who is shy, and these
calls are just delightful mile
stones which you will look back
on with pleasure as years pass.
You say this girl is still in
school, and her parents don't
approve Of her going out with
you. Perhaps it would be well
if you didn't speak Of your love
for a while. Most parents don't
object to friendly visits from
neighborS' sons, where a pro.
feSSed lover would be very un-
welcome.
Willing to FOrgiUe
and Forget
Dear Miss Fairfax:
My husband is good looking,
a born humorist, and knows how
to hand out compliments
which makes all woman adore
him. One Of these women had an
affair with him, and I was just
at the point Of getting a divorce,
when I got my Irish up. She was
so anxious to marry him that she
came over and suggested q di-
vorce. It made me so angry that
I almost knocked her down. But
I kept my temper and Smilingly
said: Sorry but just can't see
my way clear to accommodate
you"
OF course, she tearfully left,
and said that was abominable.
But 7 just couldn't do it. I had
to think Of the two children, so
I just forgave him and now I'm
doing my best to forget the ar
fair, as he says he is trying to
do. But, I know how he likes
the women, so it wouldn't sur.
prise me If he repeated his folly
with this or some other woman.
Do you think I did right to stay
with him?
DISuLUSIONED.
MY dear, this is the age OF
wild women and easy divorces,
and I think you were very clever
to answer this person as you DID.
A woman with children to think
of can't leave her home every
time a vamp succeeds in making
a fool of her husband. There is
always one around, looking for
a break, and I'm glad you turned
-. lan.rr,n flat in her redNeSE