The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1939-07-11


was very unhappy. She ha.
looking than herself lin fact.
her clothes were as smart as
What then, was the matter. shs
asked why can't I win people
to me wherever l 60, dom
want just men friends. want 9th.
er girls to like me. too. and most
81 them act ~ they are being nics
70 me because II IN the polite
thing TO do"
Surely. you or someone can tell
me what IL wrong"
l am sure any thinking person
can tell this unhappy girl what IL
wrong-if she win but listen. Too
often people turn = deaf ear on
advice they snk for.
To begin with. \ lot Of women
fool themselves when they think
they are fooling other people. The
girl VINO has deiusions Of grandeur
and would like I o have other
people think. too. that she u some
thing different" - will succeed
only in that they will think she
II different" They will know she
a. far Aillier than the average girl
who II usually bent upon having
. Wholesome good time.
II someone remarks about q good
looking hat q woman il wearing.
the affected I'd. c. fdelrsions OF
grandeur) girl usually remarks
casually ttoo casualty 1T re-
minds me Of little one I picked
up In Paris one year."
The d. G. tells you she doesn't
know what she IL going to do now
that "so-and-so" the high priced
shoe store has gone out Of bust
ness. She tells you with q faint
smile she wouldn't b found dead
IN most OF the shoes sold.
She Grams her conversation with
the names Of prominent people
and II they are socially prominent
she always refers to them by their
first names. Often II Il certain
she wouldn't dare b 20 familiar
70 their faces.
The D. G. girl just can't be her.
self. And furthermore she isn't
fooling anybody else. She Is doing
q fine job. however, Of deceiving
herself and then wonders why mo-
body likes her.
People could like her Just N
most human beings can win real
friendship II they would but try.
The d. G. prevents her own pop
ularity because she is afraid to
be herself. We have too many of
her kind in our midst and that Is
why we often see = plain, unaf-
fected girl walking away with the
most desired and popular man in
town. 1t Is merely good judgment
on her part, for It proves that even
the handsomest and most popular
men refuse TO be hoodwinked by
artificiality. X. L.
Marital Trouble
Dear Miss Grey: I wonder what
you or your readers think OF this
problem that has faced probably
every married couple that ever
went to the altar together. refer
70 the trouble that means men
and wives have quarreled at night
before going to bed. Both are
usually angry and sharp voiced.
for marriage rows bring out much
that il harsh in people. ! know
whereof I speak. for my husband
q about a ignorant q human be-
ing ~ ever lived when he u angry.
With things going his way. all y
usually .serene.
I do not think this 10 right and
have often refused to speak TO
him in the morning II we have
gone to sleep angry at one another
He gets even anErier II l show
my disposition to sulk and ! never
know what he il going to shout
Oext.
He declares II Il . woman's
place to speak first after = qusr-
rel. ! think II Is up to the person
Who started the fuss to apologize
and forget all the foolishness.
wonder II other readers have
been bothered with this problem :.
It would be = relief TO know !