The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1939-07-04

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II it Is possible, woman should
beat her husband home. II not only
means marketing. but the planning
and preparing of a meal by n
woman and any man loves that.
The woman who has to get out
and help with the family check
may feel abused now and then.
but II she has halfway common
sense she VIII be grateful to know
she has the ability to help with the
family problem. Her day may have
gone wrong. but she IL usually
smart enough TO keep II to herself.
II her husband suggests a show she
II usually good enough sport to
70 because she knows he needs the
advertisement AZ much N she does,
II not more no. She never iif she
q 4 smart voman) In a weary
way says. I'D just ~ soon 90 II
YOU want To-" for she knows that
u far worse than to say in a whin-
ing tone, You're picking on me.
don't want to 60 any place" than
It il to say. "oh, come on. Lets
co.
Many working wives write to
Miss Grey. but 1t seems to me that
they don't realize the danger they
face Il the one that confronts all
working wivcs--and that Is the
nroblem that has to do with neg
lected husband. Husbands have a
way Of feeling neglected. whether
they are neglected or not--so pity
the poor working girl who II try
lnr to help with the family budget.
the double job Of being play girl,
pretty-girl and business woman Is
not 4 funny one nor happy one.
Because someone must see that
food il prepared-clothes kept IN
shape and houses in order-the girl
who works outside her home must
be lust a. conscientious within her
four walls ~ she Is In a business
office.
The great danger business wife
faces is the one that entails The
excuse saying. II have to excuse
certain things I DO TO neglect John
and my home but ! just can't 90
everything
don't mind seeing 4 wife work.
Miss Grey. II she has the brain
power and the ability. mat IL her
right and her ability. But ] must
admit l do hate to read and hear
about the poor abused darlinss
who want to have their cake and
eat tin other words little
.oftics who want soft jobs At home
and in the business world. too. ]
for one, hope they never get them.
L. o.
Family Problem
Dear Miss Grey: have 4 prob
lem I would like TO hear from your
READERS about.
The other night my husband and
I were visiting my favorite sister
and her husband. Ny sister and
have been married IL years and
have two children each. Ny hus-
hand and / have always been very
much In love rs have been my sis
Ter ana brother-in-law. Imagine
my surprise and shock when !
came upon my sister and my hus-
band retting. ! don't think ! VIII
ever feel the same toward them
any more. l have never suspected
my husband Of being unfaithful
and to see these foolish actions
With my own fsvorite sister IL
about a. unpleasant an experience
e ever want to go through. !
would like to know what your
readers think I should do. 8.
8esitates
Dear Miss Grey: Ny family
nnoyed away from the town where
NY boy friend lived. Before ! left,
ke limited that he would like to
pome down and see me often. but
he il terribly shy and hates to
Nrite letters. So far ] have no
ndea a to what he wants TO do
He has always been a perfect gen.
kleman and I respect him very
much. Could write to him, ask
lnr him to come for = day to SCI
ne at my home and still retain m,
nride, / don't want TO do any
fhinr that viii cheaper me IN hi