The Waterbury Democrat., 1936-04-24

shortly pluck a single bloom, to bt pressed ana cherished for memories in the years to come.
 How long will that happy pail beam on each other those smiles ol love and pride? Let's consider tho scene just few weeks after the honeymoon, when all the glamol and novelty of being married has passed. l call it the "post-honey- moon Stump" which manifests it. self in more cases than we like to admit. It is not uncommon to hear ugly remarks pass between the new lyweds in the presence of visitors. That is the one mistake which does more permanent harm during the years ahead, than all the battles of later life.
 This "post-honeymoon slump" is usually caused by the irritation of the little wife, as she tries to make ends meet; and her disillusionment of her young husbands limited in- come. Particularly so in the cases where the bride has lost her own job because of marriage.
 Of course it is unfortunate that so many business concerns fire girls after marriage. But this is no req son why the brave young husband should be insulted and heckled when his moderate salary won't stretch two-ways.
 Much of the stormy weather ir early married life may be attributed to our standard of living. Both hus- band and wife expect to start where their parents left off. There's noth- ing we can suggest to offset the in- evitable strain on the budget Sys- tenn, but there are volumes of words of caution would like to say to the new bride, regarding this sensitive point.
 Do not belittle your husband, es- pecially before his friends. No mat ter how aggravating the situation may be, be sure to guard your words in a discussion which concerns money matters. The nasty remark spoken in anger refers to in-laws, or intimate details of his former life; and no man quite forgives any slur or disrespectful reference to his past
 Remember that your honeymoon does not necessarily close on the return to your normal life. Honey moon days last while romance per- vades the new home.
 No matter how small the apart ment nor how modest the furnish ings, it is your Blue Heaven if you accept the responsibilities on a fif- ty-fifty basis, and give as we'll as take in the exciting game of being married.
 Dear Vita Vail: look for your column every week in the Dem Ocrat, and because you give such good sound advice to so many people, I'm hoping that you will tell what to do in my problem. am in love with a fellow who works out of town. We met two years ago. when he was employed here. He lost that job and got A good position in larger city. like him very much, and am will AhB sU Uc cHBdBCu, put | WHnt nm to settle in town. There are OppOr- tutnities in his line right here, and I tell him If he loved me he would not want me to live in a strange place after marriage.
 He cannot see h my way, and we have quarreled several times about this. There Is another boy who wants me to go steady with him; but l can't take an interest in any other man. Miss Vail, what should I do to make my hoy friend work In town? ! will be looking for an answer as soon as p0ssi- ble. Thank y0u for your advice,
 UNSETTLED GLORIA.
 New Gloria: If you arc really in love with this ambitious young man, any place where he would hang his hat, would be home to you. For n short time, you might feel q b't strange and unhappy In . different