The Waterbury Democrat., 1936-02-01

er0I prOKeSS1OnAl men WOEk ekSO there Is one whom like very we should I say, I'm In love with. shows me . certain amount of at-
 tention, and I have heard he has
 told several people, that he likes
 me. He has never told me this,
 ever. He acts very friendly when
 talking to me, but 50 far, he has
 never asked me out, or acted per-
 sonal with me in any way. When
 talking to me he addresses me as
 Miss; but from what hear when
 he speaks about me, he refers to
 me by my first name. I hope you
 will give me Q little advice on what
 to do He Is the only one !
 feel like this about. He is Op.
 poslte to me, being tall and light,
 while I am short and dark. I
 hear that opposites attract, and
 I'm certainly attracted to him.
 see him every day, always hoping
 he will ask me out; but he never
 reaches that point. Miss Vail, #
 you would kindly try to stralghten
 out this tangle I'm In, would
 greatly appreciate 1t. Respectfully,
 DISCOURAGED.
 Why be discouraged? From all indications, this professional attrac- ton of yours, is taking his time, in watching you, and studying your personality before committing him. self, in his attentions to you. You should be happy that he IS showing such respect and serious considera- ton to you. If he took you lightly; that is, if you were just Q passing irritation to him, he would rush you and pass easy compliments and take liberties with you. There is nothing you can do but wait for him to make the first move. Tn the meantime let him see you at your best, in ap- pearance, and keep your boise iil every way. Professional men have c wide circle of women admirers and they know that their very pro. fession is 0 great attraction tc wealthy women, as to girls in aver- age circumstances. Possibly 6 slight air of sophistication might help you in winning more than his casual no. tice. Be careful not to over-do thii however. When you refer to op. posites being attracted, I must TO. mind you that by opposites, we don'' necessarily mean complexion only Two people might be the safnt height, and complexion, yet be al. rect opposites in disposition ant personality. Everything depends or that deeper attraction, below thu surface of appearance. However we are looking too far ahead in thil stage of the game. Watch and wait is all I can advise you for the pres ent. Just be yourself ct your best and hope for the best. Let me know developments. VITA VAIL.
 My dear Miss Vail: am the girl who wrote you last week; but was SO excited that I wrote
 and wrote about nothing. sign. cd my name Lonesome Girl"
 We'll I'm writing again and I hope that this time you will bet.
 ter understand my problem. I
 have liked this certain boy for
 some time. We went out together
 about eight or nine times, dur ing those three years, and know
 that he likes me . little. His Club gave . little party last week
 and they had refreshments and
 invited girls; but he didn't ask me to 90. Do you think that he
 still cares for me? Miss Vail, this
 is Leap Year and I am 90 eager
 to go to . certain banquet, given
 by my Club, and ! would like to know whether or not it would be
 right tO ask him to take me. Would that be lowering myself S0
 him? Please let mo know. is
 | should be bothered thinking of
 him, og lf I should try to forget
 him altogether, and try to enjoy
 ether boys company? I'iI be walt
 ing to see what you have to sey
 this week. Yours very friendly,
 A TROUBLED READER.
 My poor little troubled reader First I must apologize to you fc nnisunderStanding your letter . fast week. Now, to De frank, be iieve that when c fellow is reall Interested in . girl, he does no wait three years to declare nifnsen