The Waterbury Democrat., 1936-02-29

love. Make him prove himself worthy of the deep and burning love which, unfortunately, Still binds you to him. By all means. accept the invitations of this other man. Of course. I advise this. believing that the second boy ls the oallber of young man which you can trust In all circumstances. Accept as many invitations from other men, as you care to. If the first fellow really loves you, his jealousy win assert itself; and he will discard all friend- ships, to win you back. But be . little usurer; make him pay back with interest all the hurt he has caused you, tlrst. by aruusing his jealousy, then # you win him back, demand of him his undivided love and attention. If he is not willing to drop this other affair. then he does nto really love you, and you'd bet- ter forget him as soon as possible. Happy landing on the wings of Roe nnance Vita Wall.
 Dear Miss Wall: am . glrl eighteen years old next month. \ like . boy who ls almost 1@ Two been out with him, and he's very nice. The other night he barely spoke to me. but let the other couple do all Che talking. He @ wearing my ring. but the ether night he was cut with another girl, that ls. he took her homo from the place where we happened r to be, though not together. .R used Co go steady with another man, but broke up. {. EoAliRe that I am young and got Che urgo to go with different boys, instead oe being steady with enc. Fer with this one boy alene, and drep some reason | would lfke to % others. Ele never sAews that Ae cares any more for mo than tust Q passing liking, theugh he asked 0 wear my ring. I'm really wonder. Ing what to do. he leaves me un- decided, etc. etc. Please tell nc what Co do Miss Vall and thank yea. .. Undecided Girl
 You sign yourself Undecided. but I might suggest that you were also c bit hnsty in letting him wear your ring. I wonder why girls are 90 eager to comply with this casual request from Q young man. Is ie that they are so flattered with the idea of any fellow desiring . token of theirs? You must realize even though you are not yet eighteen that to wear your ring, or any per- Bonal token, is Q symbol of . real love. You say that he does not ex- press anything more than Q casual liking for you. Be proud my dear. A man does not appreciate the so- ciety of any girl, if too freely given. That he escorts another girl homes should not alfect you. Not until he declares . deeper regard for you. and asks for your steady oompan. ionship.
 It is natural for . girl to desire tho company and adUlation of more than ono man. Enjoy this freedom. with reservation, of course, while you are young. If this young man doesn't make his attitude toward you more definite I would ask the return of the ring, in your place. Tn closing, I would advise that you do not become too serious at eighteen. When you meet your man you VIII recognize the difference, and so WIZ he. Until then, enjoy life while you can, but be proud in your affections and reserved In your behavior with all men. Vita Vail.
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