The Waterbury Democrat., 1935-09-20

the palette of the greates of arti But with the leng h n 1 n s shadows of fall days, 1t oc- CUTS to us how autumn is the mid dle age of the year. A lover of na- ture can't help but feel a pang of sorrow, as he notes the first warn- ings of the approaching fall. So too, a woman while still in the full bloom of her beauty, shrinks, In the privacy of her, boudoir. when she notes the first warning that the autumn of her life is near. Time was, vixen women took those signs seriously, and actually, withdrew from the gay activity and intrigu- ing romance of life. Not so, today. We no longer believe in signs when they te2d to deprive us Of our place in the glorious game of life. We no longer measure our lives by veal ;; instead, the modern woman makes us of the many aids to beauty, and remains right In the fashion picture of the day. Beauty q. any age goes hand in hand with romance. By romance we do not necessarily mean love interest. Tn ,re's romance in the competi- ton of business; there's romance even in the quiet of the home, to the woman who finds the hum drum of daily life monotonous, If she will study the secret ambition of her life, and tries to develop whc tever of talent she may pos- sess. Never fall behind the parade of life. Each day is a gay adverl- tu.e to the woman, who refuses to believe the outward signs of na- ture, for the autumn of life is as l glowing and radiant for the mod ern woman as 1t Is in the verdure along the wayside. My Dear Miss Vail: like to read your Heart to Heart talks in the Democrat, and I would like to know what you would advise me | to do in the problem which has come into my life. While away on my vacation, went around With a young man, and we had a very pleasant time. was very much in- terested in him during the sum mer, but as I see him from time to time in the city, I do not care | for him in the same way. He, on the other hand, seems to love me seriously, and wants Jue to go with him steady. I do not know
 how to break with him. Will you ] tell me how 1 should let him know that l don't want to know him further without hurting his feel ings? hope that you will answer
 me this Friday. .
 Signed: Pickle.
 Fly dear Pickle girl: You're in
 no different situation than many q
 girl at this time of year. Some
 how, the summertime spent in the
 romantic settings of wooded glens l or along the sea-shore. usually , does things to a romantic nature ! whether boy or girl. You thought
 you cared for this man; in reality
 you were In love with love. Ant
 now, that you find yourself in tho
 everyday surroundings or you usual life, you see him In the re.
 ality of commonplace business. T
 is to be regretted that you led hin
 along, playing with his affections Men are more serious in this mat ter than girls; and the fact tha
 you must face him with the fac
 of your indifference, will disillu
 sion him and possibly turn hin
 against girls in general. However
 as you say that you no longer car
 for him, it is better to open hi
 eyes now, than later on. You nee'
 not be rude about it.; gradually dis
 courage him. by refusing his invi
 tations to go places, and assume
 true attitude toward him. and
 he is q gentleman. he will no
 press his suit. Then too, why no
 be frank with him. and tell hin