The Waterbury Democrat., 1935-06-28

wise daughters must respect their parents wishes, in regulating the family routine.
 MY DEAR MISS VAIL: have known Q very nice young man for three years. During that period we've gone out together four times. The fact is that he doesn't care for girls. He said I was the only girl he ever went out with. Of course, I believe him, because I've never seen him going out with other girls. He prefers to stick in his club house. My problem is, do you think should continue waiting for him or should I associate with other boys. hate the thought of losing him, he is clean cut and we'll hammered. What shall I do?-- PERPLEXED.
 You have every right to sign yourself "perplexed." You say in three years you've gone out with this man four times, but how often do you meet him? That is more important. Perhaps he Is not the social type. If he does not show interest in your society, by all means associate with other young men. You cannot force his atten- tions, if he is not so inclined. To attempt to do so, would spoil your chances of winning this type of young man altogether. If he cares at all, he will object to your popu- larity with other men, and in this way, you can learn his true regard for you. Do not waste any more time waiting for his humor. All too often girls fiatter the selfish vanity of young men in this way. Enjoy life while you can. Then too, if you are party-loving and gay do not hope to make 0 success of mar riage with an unsociable man. You will be miserable. Let him make the advances, from now on. Men who are in love, or even deeply inc terested, nevr fail to prove their attitude. So, my dear "Perplcxed" 1t is up to you, to force him to show you just where you stand.
 Those letters which are not an- swered in this column, will appear in my next. Should you have any problems on which you'd like to have q. heart to heart talk, just write to Vita Vail, care of Water bury Democrat, or Radio Station WATR.
 MY DEAR MISS VAIL: I'm just a regular fellow, and though 1t might seem strange that I should write to you for advice, 1t occurred to me that you always talk to girls, and tell them what to expect of fc1- lows, but suppose you consider what we fellows are up against, when we take girl out. Gan you explain why the average girl is 90 dumb in her conversation? All she can talk about is clothes, or movies or other girls, and their love prob. lems. This bores me plenty, and don't care to take the chances Of inviting other girls and go through the same line. Will ever meet the girl of my dreams, or doesn't she exist? Signed JACK.
 Well, Jack: Unfortunately what you have to say about the average girl being very shallow in her con- yersation, is all too true. Yet, do you realize how unpopular the in- tellectual girl is, or the College bred girl who is highly sophisticat- cd in her remarks? Of course, 1t Is seldom one meets that happy medium, the clever girl who is wise enough to know just how much of her intellect she should project, when out in company. of the boy friend. It's hard to say 1t Jack, but from observation and experi- once I must admit that men are very inconsistent in their choice of female companions. It's usually the attractive though silk girl who Is dated up, while the ideal girl" is left alone with her ideals, until she learns to park her brains when out with the boy friend. Of course you will find your ideal, for she exists, but don't go looking for her. When you meet her you'll know 1t, and there'il be no doubt in your heart or mind that here at last is the girl of your dreams.
 VITA VAIL.