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Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1935-09-03
Bridegroom
Faces Cost
Of the Tour
BY EMILY POST.
MRS. POST: Why are you

DEAR MRS posi: why orc go. w."
bouquets should be bought by the
brides family? Do you know that IN
many communities 1t Is customary lor
the bridegroom to buy them? After
all, his expenses are less than those
of the brides family
Answer-I don't INSIST don't even
suggest that any one do anything
other than follow local custom. what
ever it may be. In many communities
the brides bouquet Is always sent by
the bridegroom, which iii customary
is both reasonable and proper. On
the other hand, I have heard That In
occasional communities the bride
groom is expected to buy not only the
brides bouquet, but the bouquets Of
the bridesmaids. the flower baskets
of the flower girls. corsage bouquets
for the brides mother and grand
mother. and for his-o mother and
grandmother, and for all know, other
near relatives. as well as his own bou-
tonniere and those of his attendants.
Whether, after all this, he then has
enough money to go on wedding
trip don't know. In the fashionable
world of today it is not customary
to expect the bridegroom to order any
flowers except the Northumberland
probably a corsage for his wife to wear
away.
The reason why I am opposed TO
considering the wedding flowers an
obligation Of the bridegroom Is that
the brides parents can control the
wedding expenses and the bridegroom
cannot. The flowers are all part OF
the wedding picture, which properly
is a surprise" to the bridegroom and
not something that he designs. and
for which he should be expected to
assume an obligation which can be
embarrassing and even devastating 10
O moderate pocketbook.
Dear Mrs. Post: Is 1t necessary
that the bride be given away"
Answer: This depends on whether
the question, who giveth this woman
to be married to this mani" Is part
of the marriage service. If 1t Is, then
the answer Is yes.
Dear Mrs. Post: When o clergy
man officiates at his daughters we'd
ding, who gives her away?"
Answer: He does. When he has
read the question, he then replies to 1t
by putting her hand into that OF the
bridegroom.
"Dear Mrs. Post: What could I do
for my half dozen ONCE associates,
who cannot be invited to the wedding
at home because We are able TO IN
clude only the immediate families and
o few nearest friends?"
Answer: Explain to them that you
are able to invite pane but the family.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1935-09-03
Let Couture
ReflectHair
Glory Itself
Women Are in Error
When They Reverse
Logical Order.
BY ELSIE PIERCE.

WHEN I first saw the forecasts for
w Fall fashions in hats and hair
styles I wanted to shout with Joy.
Then I heard. isn't that intriguing.
isn't that glamorous. Me for that
style" I turned and sad sight met
my eyes-hair hanging wild, all the
color gone from it. dry. strawlike.
nondescript.
could visualize that head going
to an expert hairdreSser. being finger
waved and coiffed in the deep swirl
with curls clustering at the temples
And it would be adding insult to in
Jury. For the intricate couture would
only emphasize the shamefully neg
lected state of the scalp and hair. And
the lack-luster hair would command
the spectators attention, the couture
would be lost.
That's very common mistake
women make. They expect tn couture
to carry the honors, when actually
the couture reflects the glory Of the
hair itself. Whenever you have &C.
casion to comment, What a beau
tiful hair STYLE" look twice at the
head wearing it. I'm willing to wager
that the fashion graces a healthy,
full-of- life, shiny head Of hair. else
you wouldn't notice the style in the
first place.
Perhaps you have yourself received
compliments on the arrangement Of
your hair. Think back to those occa-
sions. Your hair doubtless was in
perfect condition at the time.
Men Comment on Hair More
Than Style.
I have noticed that men are quick
to comment on the vital quality and
beauty of woman's hair, sooner
than on arrangement. When they
say, what beautiful hair" they mean
first and foremost that 1t is healthy
hair, full of gloss, the sort of hair you
love to touch it looks so silky and in
yiting. Style comes second.
That doesn't mean for q minute
that style does not matter. Style is
the channel by which ones individ-
uality Is expressed, in couture as in
clothes, in makeup in ones whole
personality, the very style in which
we say and do things. I hope I'm not
discouraging the urge for new styles,
the desire to experiment and change.
But I do want to bring home the
le5so.. that style should be built on
foundation of beauty first. Until you
have conditioned your hair (and I'll
wager the majority Of heads need con-
ditioning these days. postpone chang
ing your hair style. People will notice
its lack of luster less If you don't call
attention to it by sudden change Of
style.
(copyright. 1889
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becomes an inverted pleat at the
knees. Altogether it is very smart
and satisfying little garment, one that
is becoming and very wearable.
Silk crepe, wool challis, thin woods,
or flannel, and, very prominent in
Fall fabrics, velveteen; all are espe-
cially nice for this dress, and it should
be very good in the bright, high col
ors, from which sports clothes are
fashioned.
Barbara Bell pattern No. 1745-B is
designed in sizes IL, IA. 16, Is and 20
Corresponding bust measurements 80.
80, "a, SO and 38. Size Is (34 re-
quires about AZ yards of 39-ineh
material.
Every Barbara Bell pattern includes
an illustrated instruction guide which
Is easy to understand.
Barbara Bell pattern book available
at Is cents. Address orders to The
Evening Star.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1935-09-03
My Neighbor Says:

When planting tulip bulbs
alternate with rows of early tulips
Of one color and later tulips Of
another color. When the early
tulips fade. the tulips OF another
color viii begin to bloom, giving
you o succession of blooms.
Never leave fish, unless salted
soaking in water. Too long soak
ing removes the flavor and makes
the fish f1abby.
When any portion Of velvet
gown Is crushed from pressure,
hold the part over q basin Of hot
water the wrong side next to
the water. The pile will soon be
restored.
Flannels and blankets will keep
soft and white and will not
shrink If washed with . table
spoon Of ammonia in the water.
tCopyright. 1889
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1935-09-03
These Pound of Bacon Is Still Good Buy
Dorothy Dix Says
Friction Is Liable to Take All Romance
Out of Marriage.

should see that he could never become
q heavyweight champion. A man who
could not turn tune should perceive
that he could never be o grand opera
singer. A man with no gift for writing
could never be the author Of best
seller. And 80 on, and so on.
But beyond these very obvious ply
steal and mental limitations no man
knows what he can do until he has
tried himself out, and so you are weak
and foolish and cowardly to drop out
OF the race without even having made
q start The world Is full Of people
who are more astoniShed at their own
successes than any one else could pos
sibly be because they have developed
gifts and powers that they never
dreamed that they possessed.
IT IS only the very conceited persons
who never mstrust themselves.
The humble minded always belittle
their abilities and are fearful of being
able to accomplish anything And
that Is why they so often succeed be-
cause they feel that they have to work
harder than the brilliant at their Jobs.
My advice to you Is to get over your
inferiority complex Don't throw up
your hands and quit. Fight. Hitch
your wagon to q star. Aspire to the
best. Believe that you can do any
thing that you set your mind to and
you will come very near TO doing so.
And don't be afraid to ask your girl
to marry you. She will help and in
spire you and brace up your morale
and give you an incentive to work for.
Kipling said OF q weak and timorous
man who rose to meet heroically q
dangerous situation because he was
bound to shine in the eyes Of his girl
friend: Love hath made this thing
man" Lots of easy going men
would never fight at all If they didn't
have some woman to fight for.
DOROTHY DIX.
tcopyrisht. 1880
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pound of any other type of "hog
meat" for there is no waste, and
children that cannot eat pork can
digest bacon. This is also true Of
older persons who have an antipathy
toward pork in its fresher forms.
Bacon will keep a long time, in the
refrigerator, and therefore a pound
NAV be stretched over several days
an impossible feat with fresh pork.
Alone, or combined with other
foods, bacon presents dish full Of
flavor and food value. Its teasing
aroma is always appetizing. and,
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1935-09-03
Gourmet's Guide
BY LUCIE EBERLY.

Food speciality shops aiming to cater
to the epicure are bobbing up all over
the country.
Although a food shop devoted ex-
clusively to the unusual and exotic
has not made its appearance here,
Washington women do have the unique
opportunity of celebrating on their
culinary adventures. To our Capital
City come specialties Of every land
to meet the demands of the diplomatic
corps. Menus at the embassies gen.
orally follow the traditions OF the
countries they represent. Realizing
this, a few of our local enterprising
merchants have made it their bust
ness to import large variety OF food
stuffs from the world over.
Many who reminisce about gas
tronomic delights enjoyed abroad lit
tie dream that right here in Wash
ington a large assortment OF imported
delicacies are available to appreciative
food connoisseurs.
If you are longing for some snack
enjoyed In other lands, or If you are
eager to find something new to serve
at the bridge party or buffet spread,
strike out for yourself and discover
some of the oddities that are the gour-
NETS delight.
You will find that English Cheddar
cheese with port and Holland Edam
with sauterne come in stone crooks,
large and small, and are not, as the
general opinion might be, prohibitive
In price.
Imported Japanese biscuits made
from don't be shocked) seaweed and
rice are really one Of the most tan
talizng crispies ever tasted. Be sure
to order a good supply, because there
will be a raid on them once they have
been introduced to the masculine
members of the household or party.
The sailed soy bean, another jap
anese contribution to the novelty
group, is welcome change from pea
nuts and other domestic nuts. The
soy bean, as you know, is that nutty
particle generally found in chop suey.
Toasted, sailed and crisp, 1t Is q brand
new taste sensation.
The rice enthusiast, who is still
looking for the finest quality, will find
the domestic Honduras or Fortuna
the best A dish of this, cooked prop
erly, will stand as q challenge to the
starchy mush generally encountered.
Among the numerous imported dain-
ties you will see good old English Bonn
malice fish or Bombay duck, as it Is
otherwise known; from Norway come
herring tidbits in fruit juice and
herring fillets in dill sauce.
Genuine Russian caviar comes
from the sturgeon-and smoked stur-
geon is the newest fish delicacy to add
to the cold-cut platter.
Try a cordialized tea drop in place
OF sugar in your next cup of tea or
glass of iced tea.
Call National 5000, extension 396,
and information as to where items
listed may be found will be given you.
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Roas. Beef Salad.

u cup mayonnaise.
"a teaspoon horseradish mustard.
tablespoon vinegar.
Il teaspoon salt.
Dash of white pepper.
Dash of paprika.
u cup cooked potatoes, diced.
cups cooked string beans.
l cup cooked roast beef, diced.
Blend mayonnaise, mustard, vine
gar, salt, pepper and paprika. Com
bine with potatoes. and beans (cut
and then crosswise into
Inch pieces. Chill until ready to
serve. Add beef and toss together
lightly. Serve on crisp lettuce with
radish roses and additional real may
Serves six.
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Cooks Corner
BY MRS. ALEXANDER GEORGE.
ALL BAKED AT ONCE

ALL BAKED AT ONCE
OVEN DINNER SERVING FOUR
Baked Spaghetti and Cheese
Baked Stuffed Tomatoes
Bread Grape Jelly
Chopped Pickle Relish
Dutch Apple Cake
Coffee
Mix for Children Daily
BAKED SPAGHETTI AND CHEESE
2 tablespoons = teaspoon chop
butter ped onion
tablespoons cups milk
Hour n cup cheese
u teaspoon salt 8 cups cooked
Il teaspoon Daprika Spsshetti
Melt butter, add -four, salt and
papriks. Add onion and milk. Cook
until sauce thickens 3 little. Add
cheese and beat we'll. Add spaghetti.
Mix and pour into buttered shallow
baking pan. Bake 80 minutes in mod
crate oven.
BAKED STUFFED TOMATOES.
frm tomatoes L Tablespoon chop
] cup corn ped gTeen pepper
= cup soft bread u teaspoon salt
ped onions . tablespoons
Wash tomatoes. Scoop out centers
and stuff with rest Of ingredients COM
bined. Place in small pan. Add one
half inch water and bake 80 minutes
in moderate oven. Serve hot.
DUTCH APPLE CAKE.
ia cups -four I. teaspoon salt
s Teaspoons baking / sIs ur
Mix dry ingredients. Cut In fat and
add egg and milk. Pour into CREASED
shallow pan. Cover with apples.
APPLES.
2 cups sliced 1 teaspoon
apples cinnamon
Ia cup brown sugar 2 tablespoons soft
butter
Mix ingredients and spread on tor
soft dough. Bake rs minutes in mod
crate oven. Serve warm with cream
or hard sauce.
EN- brochette" means ION stick" "
and is . popular method Of cooking
bits Of meats and vegetables. Wooden
or metal s,1ewers can be used. A gooc
idea for leftovers.
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1935-09-03
BY BETSY CASWELL.

"HERE is the old saying that
you can use every bit Of the
pig but his squeal"-and in
u these days of bounding pork
prices about the only thing that
isn't prohibitive in price is that very
squeal. But there is still our old
standby-bacon, which has not flown
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completely out OF
sight, and may
be used to such
great advantage
in many varied
ways.
Bacon Is ex-
pensive. too, just
as all pork prod
ucts are at this
time. But, rela-
lively speaking,
you can get more
for your money
out Of a pound
OF bacon than
yo,I can out of q
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Copyright. 1850
Corned Beef and Celery.

pound cooked corned beef, finely
chopped.
l cup celery, finely cut.
/ small onion, finely chopped.
n tablespoon horseradish mustard.
"a cup mayonnaise.
Blend all ingredients together thor
oughly. Spread between slices Of rye
bread, spread with butter or vegetable
margarine. Makes enouak filling for
II sandwiches, ~
Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1935-09-03

EAR MISS DIX: A man and
woman of my acquaintance,
both married and with chill
dren and both people with
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It is, Of course, . good thing for us
to know ourselves and to try to make
q just estimate Of our talents in order
that we may not waste our lives in
trying to accomplish the impossible.
A frail and sickly man, for instance,
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II you wish advice on your indi-
vidual household problems write to
Betsy Caswell, in care of The Star,
inclosing stamped, self addressed en-
YeIone for renlY.
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PONTIAC,

Sunday school at Newman A NJ
Il. Church. opened at $3.50 "A. m
last Sunday. with +. L. Harris as
superintendent. Prayer and class
meeting on Wednesday evenings
are being well attended. On Oct.
IL. Mrs. Clifford Eason was select
ed president OF the Pastors Aid.
and aided by her staff OF fine as
sistants. much success is antici-
pated. Thursday evening. the SEN
ior choir rehearsed at the home OF
Mrs. Annie Johnson. on Highland
street. Rev. X. L. Ferguson Is pas
tor OF Newman A. NJ. e. Church.
Pastor +. Is. Reed. OF New Hope
Baptist. preached al the morning
and evening services last Sunday.
Next Sunday, Rev. X. L. Ferguson
OF Newman. will speak at y. m,
at the special rally. He will be ac-
companied by his congregation.
A series OF sermons on the doe
trines OF the church will be con
tinued by the pastor. Rev. w l..
douglass. pastor of New Bethel
Baptist Church. On Oct. 20. at
IL a. m. Rev Douglass spoke on
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MICHIGAN

Justification Through Faith.
Next sunday. his subject will b'
The Freeness OF salvation Pra,
er service is held at "a. m cacl
sunday
The On Time Club sponsored q
tea at the home OF Mrs. Mani,
HAYNES. on Branch street recent.
ly.
MIR and Mrs. Gullatte. on LAX,
street. gave a birthday party In
honor OF their daughter. Frances
The guests were: Emilee Thomp-
son. Johnnie Johnson. Anna Bak-
er. Evalyn Matthews. Rena Broad
max. Agnes Plear. Louise Ellis?
worth. June Gullatte. Horace Irv-
ing. EDGAR Tucker. David Simmons
Ernest 'Seay. Roy Coolie. William
Gamble. James Mcclellan. John
Jackson. Arthur Branne. l.. ID.
Gracey. Homer Ellsworth. Ernest
Parker. and A. J. Broadnax. The
honorcc received many lovely
gifts.
Messrs 4. Is Mulrhead and C.
NJ. Muirhead were visitors at the
home OF Mrs J +. owen. on
Franklin Road. The former resides
in Chicago. the latter. in Ann Ar
Dor
The Rescue Entertainers Club
will sponsor a Halloween dance at
Hall. Oct. &c
The Detroit tribune. (Detroit, Mich.) 1935-1966, 1935-10-26
Says Every War Has
Hoodwinked And
Enslaved Negro

New York The Negro has been
hoodwinked into modern wars
with the cry OF patriotism. and has
discovered too late that war serves
only to fasten his shackles more
firmly, declares Harold Preece In
his article War and the Negro"
In the November Crisis.
The rape OF Ethiopia is the
rape of the Negro race" writes
Mr. Preece.
The Negro peoples must not be
hoodwinked by any specious pat
riotism into supporting con-
flict encompassing their destruc-
ton. Black blood has been spilled
on every continent for the defense
of allen political and cultural in
stitutions Negroes OF one coun-
try have killed Negroes OF another
country In the recurrent wars OF
modern capitalism. Negroes have
mistakenly contributed money to
support these conflicts. thereby
displayed more loyalty than any
white government has deserved. II
Is questionable that the Negro has
ever derived one permanent ad-
vantage form these periods
slaughters. In fact. when one con-
siders the universal proverty OF
the race. ne n inclined to think
that each war has riveted the
manacles Just a BIT morearmly.
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Macedonia Baptist

I'm The beginning. God" was the
text of the sermon delivered sun
day morning by Rev tloratio H..
Coleman. the pastor The speaker
81 forcefully emphasized these
four words in Gen IL. that he
dccpk impressed his congregation.
The public is cordially invited
to hear Rev Coleman Sunday
morning and evening. Oct. p y
real spiritual treat Is promised as
Rev Coleman is a great Gospel
preacher
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] 1lpf1r. Destiny
II, In he .GrYSfaI
k.RANON' he M7ais1
he MyTHN

VI. l.. h. cant understand
Why my husband doesn't like fol
me 20 go oil with him!
Ans: Your husband always en-
Joys being In your company bu
he knows YOU had rather go will
your crowd and .et him so witt
his tie Is trying to please yot
because he loves you
W. 4. WHAT viii be my des'
thyi WIN my way Of living ever
chaugei
Ans The Years ahead OF YOU will
BE- fncrv eaioyable than your past
has esTn and you'll al least have
enough money 10 have the neces-
stiles ~ life-lour WAY OF living
Will thAnse AFTER you receive the
DIN AGE PENSION
4. Can you tell me what
viii be- doing i've years from now
win h. happier than | am now !
Ans II i my impression that
t,e wears from now YOU will be
MARRIED aud will also be living
in another city lou'il be very
happy ana conIenIed
u. u. r. VIII | get job that
will pa, good and wheni
Ans loull be lucky in getting
work during the month OF NOV
EMBEH although Il won't be a
very good paying one-iour
daughter will also secure job
during that month-Working con
diiions will be better for YOU next
year.
X. u. Would II be wise for
me Ia take up the course l have
In mind! Could make anything
ont of Il.
Ans II will be very wise for YOU
10 take this course. DRESSMAK-
ING and DESIGNING will prove To
be a worthwhile trade for YOU
FINANCIALLY and you can make
"A name for Yourself in this line of
work
T.. b. Why can't me and my
husband get along together,
Ans: Because you expect too
much from him He doesn't APP
pear 10 be working now and YOU
should cooperate with him and try
10 make ends meet until he can
ind something To do y u |
know he'll take care OF YOU WHEN
HE GETS \ jobs
u. VI. MIS- II true what I think
lbout this woman.
Ans: Yes ii is very trGe. This |
woman YOU are living in the house |
With appears 10 be- living with a
nan that is NOT HER Ill SBAND. /
II her conduct Is too disturbing to
YOU. then the best thing for you to
10 is TO MOVE
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| v. S.-Will 1 succeed In going
back 10 school any time soOnl
Ans: II Is my impression that
you won't return to schoolA-A
little later on you'll realize that a
business course will be more pro-
fitable to you since you are get
ting too old to go back to school.
b. G.-Will 1 get the money
am expectingi
Ans: You are supposed to get
this money you are expecting when
you are TWENTY ONE. providing
you are not married-Your COM
ing marriage this fall will kill
your chances Of possessing this
money.
Y. L. S.-Must 1 tell my husband
about what has happened In the
pastl would like for you 10 tell
me what Is best?
Ans advise you to tell your
husband about your CHILD. even
though you will have to suffer the
consequences think lot
more of you ii you'll tell him rath-
er than someone else and you
know that is something that won't
KEEP FOREVER.
l.. Al want TO know Ii my
husband loves me and what would
he the best thing for me TO do?
Ans: Your husband doesn't have
very much love for you. for If he
loved and respected you the way
he should wife. he'd give you
MORE TO EAT and some of the
necessities of life-Get out and go
to work and save your money to
20 home That is the place for
you.
T.. p. ST. have two things in
mind 10 do and would like for you
10 advise me about them!
Ans: believe you would be
a mistake by being so
hasty about MARRYING the boy
who claims TO be in love with you.
You'll be better off to GO TO
FLORIDA To work this winter and |
give yourself more time to think |
his matter over
l.. ID. U-Why did this certain
party tell this untruth on me TO n
yirl!
Ans. Because she wants to get
REVENGE and feels that will be
he most satisfactory way For
urther information suggest that
'ou write me for a private reply \
\. X. r. viii there be any need
or me Ia 20 hack t0 my husbandl
Ans: There is no need nj all for
le is still in love with the girl
hat you separated over-Yo can't
'e happy with him any more.
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them render a.
evening service. Nov. 81. ~
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Ans Yes ii is very true. This
woman YOU are living in the house
with appears 10 be living with a
man that is NOT HER III SBAND.
II her conduct is too disturbing to
YOU. then the best thing for you to
do is 10 MOVE