The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-11-26


mistrust her when I am away from
her and love her when I am with
her.
When I get work We had planned
to get married, but I sometimes have
my doubts as to whether I should
or not. She wants to have a home
and set settled. She is very indus
trous and helpful We both are
jealous and have no arguments when
I speak of a girl I know or when
she speaks of some fellow.
She tells me that only one fellow
besides myself has protited by her
virtue. and that she loves no one
but me. I have never caught her
Chiseling on me in the eight months
we've gone together. DO you think
I can trust her? A lot depends on
what YOU say LONGO.
Answer-Of course I don't know.
Her behavior up to date is against
her. She is evidently a very
firtatious young lady who finds
it difficult to be content with one
boy. She is very young and may
turn out to be the most stable Of
women. I can not predict what
she will do.
l do not see how any marriage
can succeed when based on mu-
tual diStrust. Neither of you seem
willing to trust the other behind
a soda cracker, and this bodies Ill
for the success of any marriage. 1
believe that when a man feels the
deep seated doubt about a woman
that you feel about this girl that
he is taking a serious risk in
marrying her.
The BEST thing you can do is to
lei time work for you. In way
it . fortunate that you are not
financially situated to marry now.
If after a period of waiting, you
two are still unable to resolve
your difficulties, it would be a
smart thing for you to break with
the young lady and look for one
who inspires more confidence.
Dear Jane Jordan-I have written
to you before and all of your an
sWers proved true although I didn't
think much of your answers at the
time. The advice you give may
sometimes sound low down but you
tell people facts.
If you will remember, I told you
about a girl that l went with Tor
five years and couldn't get along
with her. Well, had that talk you
said 1 should have. Now l have
found out that 1 get along much
better without her. l am going with
another girl who is much easier to
get along with. She knows about
lie first girl and told me the other
night that if this other girl called
me back I would 90 back I don't
think so but sometimes wonder If
I ever viii 60 with ner again. What
do you think about this silly af-
fair?
A HOUND FOR PUNISHMENT.
Answer think that the rela-
tionship you had with your first
girl friend is not quite finished
in your mind. You failed TO DOM
mate her and it still inks you
somewhat. Your present girl
friend is acute enough to realize
that she hasn't completely won
you yet.
OF course you can't wash up a
love affair that lasted five years in
few weeks or months. You'll be
tearing out roots for some time.
The proof of the rightness of any
act lies in its results. If you're
happier in your present situation,
wouldn't it be foolish to go back
to the old turmoil just to satisfy
a childish desire to get the best
of woman?
Dear Jane Jordan-All fall l have
been going to football games and
in the last three weeks have seen
and talked to a player on one Of
the league teams. liked him the
first time I saw him and asked him
to little birthday party but he al
ready had a date and couldn't come.
He doesn't know my name although
ne knows my address. DO you know
of any way 1 could see him?
FOOTBALL FAN.
AsWer-If he is as interested
as you are he will find out what
your name is. You can't afford
to pursue him, at least not OBJ
viously. Have you no mutual
friends who can bring you to-
gether?