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The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
Manners and Morals
BY JANE JORDAN

for they just won't see it our way.
Do you think we are doing right
or wrong? BUD AND BABE.
AnSwer-The pater familias who
ruled his family with rod Of iron
is archaic and simply out of place
in our modern milieu. Today the
father who tries to dominate his
daughter by infantile explosions of
rage simply loses the girl. In my
opinion, he deserves to be deceived,
and I do not blame either of you
in the least.
I only hope that you two young
people will keep your heads and not
permit a tyrant to drive you into
a hasty and ill-considered marriage.
The most delightful marriage be-
tween the most desirable people
fails when they incur responsible
tiles too heavy to be borne in their
particular stage of development.
Dear Jane Jordan-I am % and
was married at IS. I have a
wonderful husband and two chill
dren. My parents were very
strict and would hardly allow my
going to a show with my girl
friends. They were very much
afraid of my coming in contact
with boys; so when I met my
husband, coming home from
school, I was simply in love with
him by the second time I met
him.
Later I married him after these
secret meetings, thinking, of
course, Of my own home and the
opportunity to be my own boss.
Needless to say, I have often
thought I shouldn't have married
so soon, but strict parents were
the cause.
I never got over the pleasure of
going places with the younger
generation. My own children are
between the ages of 10 an is and
I can go places with a party of
girls and boys, but I am absolute
ly out of the picture when mix
with any crowd my own age. My
husband doesn't mind my going
any place I wish. At Is I did not
know a good man from bad one,
so my getting a good husband was
just a real miracle. You are
right: Too much care and pro-
lection is dangerous.
Yours for more morals and man
nerS.
Answer-Thank you for your let
ter which supports my belief that
parents defeat their own purposes
by being over-strict. There is nc
surer way to make the opposite sex
seem desirable thanto surround il
with mystery, prohibitions and
tabooS.
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ly refuse to believe that she hates
him at all. My opinion is partly
based on that part of your letter
which I did not publish in order to
protect you.
In many cases a mothers ami
mostly toward her daughters sutton
is only coverup for the opposite
emotion. She is Mortified because
she finds herself secretly attracted
to the youth herself, and hates him
for bringing home the bittersfact of
her age and its impotence.
Mothers who are morbidly curious
about their daughters love affairs
are women who have been thwarted
in life themselves. They have not
led the full, rich healthy life which
would make them generous enough
to desire the same happy experience
for the young.
To understand all is to forgive all.
Therefore, do not accuse your moth
er of attitudes to which she is COM
pletely blind, but lean on your own
strength for the inner serenity
which will help you bridge the dis
lance between courtship and mar
riage. Economic conditions are bet
ter, and if your lover is an energetic
chap, he'll solve the money problem
before long
1t would be an excellent idea for
you to go to work yourself. Besides
its financial advantage a job would
take you away from home during
the day. Remember this: Nobody
who ever commits suicide kills him
self. Symbolically speaking, he kills
the person who thwarted him Sui
eide is an infantile method of get
ting even with some one you can't
beat on the basis of tough reality.
.
Dear Jane Jordan-I am 10
years old and the girl is Is. We
have been going with each other
for three years and sincerely be-
lieve that We are in love, but
everything seems to be against us.
Her parents only allow us two
nights a week to be together, and
We must be back promptly at IL
o'clock. One night We came home
an hour. late because We stopped
in to see one of her girl friends.
The mother knew We had intend
ed to do this very thing. When
We got home her father blew up,
cursed and did a little bit of
everything.
Since then We have to meet
secretly, and We do so more often
than before. I don't go in. her
house or see her folks at all. 1t
does no good to reason with them
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30

Parents are invited to reply to the
young girls problem published below. How
have they solved the problem with their
own young people? Write your letter now!
Dear Jane Jordan-I'm in love
with a young man whom can't
marry because of the depression.
The other day my mother ac-
cused me of being intimate with
him. She said she hated him and
wanted us to break up. used to
let her read every letter I got
from him, but got SO that
wanted our love affair to be more
private. Maybe this made her
suspicious.
My folks are good to me, but
they ask too much of me. They
whisper about me behind my
back, and 1 heard them say, You
can tell by the expression on her
face" The boy 1 go with comes
from nice family. He loves me
and tried hard to please my folks
whom he likes.
I've cried until I can't eat, sleep
or even think. If mother takes
away the only happiness I have
it's going to turn out different
from what she expects. I'll either
run away or kill myself.
SKIPPER.
misunderstanding to witt
cism of Simplicissimus, Morality is
the fear that something is going
on" To my mind the statement is
more profound than funny, fol
current morality is founded on fear
Your mother believes that she is
afraid that you will get in trouble
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
MRS. GRIGGS AGAIN
HEADS AUXILIARY

Mrs. Joseph S. Griggs was re-
elected president of the auxiliary to
the Altenheim at a meeting Satur-
day at the home. Mrs. Griggs, who
is serving her third term, will an
nounce committee appointments at
the next meeting Feb. %.
Other officers are Mrs. Oscar
Mueller. first vice-president: Mrs.
William Krieger. second vice-presi-
dent: Miss Kathryn Kerr. secretary,
and Mrs. Anna Siebold, treasurer.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
Right Meals
Depend on
Five Rules
Proper Balance Among
Important Factors
of Every Menu.
BY SISTER MARY
NEA Service staff Writer

If you remember that there are
certain well-establiShed rules which
govern the selection of the food you
feed your family, meal planning be-
comes less difficult.
Five definite rules have been
worked out to guide you and each
meal of the day must be planned
with thoughtful regard for them.
The first rule in meal planning
tells us that a balanced diet must
be maintained. This means that.
unless one is dieting under ply
sician'S supervision, protein, carbo-
hydrate and fat must be supplied
in definite proportions.
1t has been estimated that the
minimum calory requirement for a
day for adults is twelve calories to
each pound of body weight. Chill
dren require more food in proper
ton to their weight than adults.
Calory Distribution
Physically active persons need
more fuel or calorieS than those Of
sedentary habits. However, the
proportionate distribution of Gallo
ries remains about the Same-10 to
IS per cent should be protein, Is
per cent fat and the remaining 60
to IS per cent carbohydrates.
The second rule concerns mineral
constituents. Calcium, phosphor-
Gus, iron, iodine, copper and other
minerals are important factors in
every meal.
Third, the protective" foods
which are known to be rich
sources of vitaminS are impera-
tive.
Fourth, a quart of milk a day
for each child and a pint for each
adult should be used either in
cooking or as a beverage.
Fifth, each meal should contain
something crisp which requires
thorough mastication for the sake
of the teeth.
Supplementing these fundamen-
tails, bulky foods and water must
be included.
Energy Foods
With the exception of a few
concentrated foods like sugar, other
elements in addition to the one
which Classics it are found in all
foods.
Vegetables which are primarily
sources Of starch and sugar
NEUTRALITY-SUSPICIOUS. supply mineral
salt and vitamins.
Each group of foods is necessary
for specie reason.
Galleries - protein, carbohydrate
and fat-are the fuels which supply
energy for the human machine.
According to Mary Swartz Rose
in Feeding the Family" protein
is necessary for growth and the for
nation of muscles in children, while
a full grown adult can not keep in
health without it. Carbohydrates
furnish heat and energy, and fats
supply energy.
The minerals, organic salts and
ash constituents, are cleanSers and
natural blood tonicS.
The vitamins provide health and
vigor and the power to grow. They
steady nerves and have a marked
effect on the appetite.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
Personals

Miss jeanne DisSette, 1865 Wash
ington boulevard, is visiting Miss
Martha Carter in st. Louis.
Mr.. and Mrs. Shirley Turner have
gone to Lakewood, Fla, to visit MI.
Turner's parents, Mr.. and Mrs.
Torrance Turner.
Mrs. Raymond G. Fox has returned
from Chicago where she attended
the triangular swimming meet Of
the girls team of the indianapolis
Athletic Club Friday with teams of
the Lake Shore Athletic Club and
the Milwaukee Athletic Club.
Mrs. st. Clair Parry will leave
soon for an extended visit in Flor
ida.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30

able gloves wool silk underwear corset or grdle
box of Lux is included this week. To every woman
who has had unsuccessful experience in launder-
ing fine lingerie wooden sweaters, other materials
represented washable, Miss Wilde will listen and
explain her mistakes She has gained her experience in
the laboratory maintained by the manufacturers OF
Lux at Cambridge, Mass.
In this laboratory special service is given to stores
in reconditonng articles which have been improperly
Numbered Miss Wilde recalls in her training
perience dress with large polka dots which sent
by large department store It had been sold
washable and the customer had pressed it while it
damp but had used all iron which was too hot. She
had pressed the dye from the dots into shadow dots
the garment.
Il washed that dress eight times before it was re-
conditioned she says. But able remove those
spots and returned it to the store satisfactory cond
tO,nor
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
EVELYN WOLFE AND
ST. LOUIS MAN WE'D

Mr.. and Mrs. Lewis c. Wolfe. 1850
North Delaware street, announce
the marriage of their daughter, Miss
Evelyn Louise Wolfe and Clarence
B. Friedmeyer. son of Henry j. c.
Friedmeyer. st. Louis. Mo. The cere-
mony took place Jan. Is in Green
field.
Miss Irene Barlow and Jack Hig-
gins. Cumberland, attended the
couple. The bride is a member of
Alpha Zeta Beta sorority. Mr.. and
Mrs. Friedmeyer will be at home
after Thursday at 1850 North Della
ware street.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
SOrOrities

Beta Tau sorority will meet to-
morrow night at the home of Miss
Mary Hurt. TAO Laurel street. Plans
viii be made for rush parties.
Gamma Phi Rho sorority will
meet at s tonight at the home of
Mrs. Louis Meyer, 836 Eastern ave-
nue..
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
ALUMNAE GROUP
TO ATTEND TEA

Mrs. Harold M. Trusler will en-
terrain members of the Delta Sigma
Alumnae group at her home, 651
East Twenty-third street, tomorrow
afternoon.
Mrs. Ralph Suits will preside at
the tea table, assisted by Mrs. Jane
eastman and Mrs. Mary Caeser.
A miniature icicle tree will center
the serving table which will be
lighted with white tapers in black
holders.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30

m u S e um. o n
Thursday t h e y
will make their
first public ap-
pearance " h e n
they preside at a
tie a, h on orin 3
board members
following cir
annual meeting.
The idea Of the
guild of young
women 10 assist
with the routine
of the museum
has been in the
minds of board
members for sew
eral seasons. Miss
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
OAKLANDON GROUPS
TO OFFER PROGRAM

Men and women's Bible classes
of the Oaklandon Christian church
will entertain with a program at
the church tomorrow night.
Supper will be served at Gas, fol-
lowed by radio program" Mrs.
Charles Olvey, Mrs. Hazel Stoner
and j. D. Castetter are in charge
of the program. Henry Heller, Mrs.
Emma McCord and Mrs. Nellie Uhl-
man are in charge of the dinner
Music will be provided by the
Castleton high school orchestra,
directed by Robert Castetter.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
NURSES ALUMNAE
ELECTS OFFICERS

New officers of the Indiana
Nurses Alumnae Association are
Miss Mary Heckard, president; Miss
Nicola Habeggert, first -presi-
dent: Mrs. Marjorie Loudermilk
second vice-president; Miss Crystal
Halstead, secretary, and Miss Mar
garet Davenport, treasurer.
Directors are Misses Viola Hack
ard, Mabel Wharton, Aureia Willers
and Fern Coy.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
Daily Recipe
LAMB IN MINT
JEIIY

81 ILL
8 cups cold cooked diced
lamb
2 tablespoons qeldtine
- cup cold mater
II stalks mint
y cup sugar
IL cups boiling mater
2 tablespoons mon
Juice
II teaspoon pGprikG
Stuffed oliUeS
MayonnGiSe dressing
Green cOlOriRg
Lettuce
Soften the gelatine in cold
water. Wash mint. tie in a
bunch and cook for ten
minutes in boiling liquid. Pour
over the Softened gelatine,
and stir until gelatine is
thoroughly dissolved. Add
lemon juice. salt. paprika and
a few drops Of vegetable
coloring. Cool and when be-
ginning to set. stir in the
diced lamb and turn into
mods previously dipped in
cold water. Chill. unmold
and garnish with lettuce,
stuffed olive and mayonnaise.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30

She does not
realize that IN
some dark cav
ern of her mind
she is bitterly
jealous of your
youth and vi
tally. Unless
her hatred Of
your young lover
is intelligently
founded on some
actual defect in
his C h a racter
which makes
him unsuitable
husband mate
f.in1 Than L Hnt
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
Attended MeetinQ

Mrs. E. May Hahn, state presi-
dent of the American War Mothers,
has returned from Washington
where she attended a meeting Of
directors of the American War
Mothers and Women's Patriotic
Conference on National Defense.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
H. EDGAR FRENCH
TO ADDRESS CLUB

H. Edgar French will talk on
South and Central American
Stamps" at the meeting of the In
diana Stamp Club at Friday night
in the Lockerbie. Mr. French will
illustrate his talk.
Members are invited to bring
guests.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
WAR CONFERENCE
TO BE REPORTED

Mrs. Robert S. Sinclair, who
attended the Cause and Cure war
conference in Washington as a del
egate from the Indianapolis League
of Women Voters, will report the
meeting before the study group Of
the league tomorrow morning in
the Rauh Memorial library.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
BOLES DINNER TO
PRECEDE MEETING

Major and Mrs. j. K. Boles will
entertain at supper Friday night
preceding the meeting Of the bridge
club at the Officers Club at Fl
Benjamin Harrison.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
Tissue Paper Affords Protection

VXTHERE there coore
w tail trimming which might fade
garment, pieces of tissue placed them
THE Importance of knitted
Wilde points
Finger pressing the important process the laundering
gloves Doesn chamoS washable
on the hands when nearly dry finger shape
and chamos gloves should laundered
apart washed the hands hands for
- ~ 49,
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30

him will be R. E. Phelps, Martins
vile; F. G. Whitehouse, Columbus;
DR.. P. o. Bonham, MooresvilIe;
Mrs. Frank Hoke, Charles w. Jew
EFT and Alex Metzger, all of Indian
apoliS.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
BedMticidns to Meet

Indianapolis beauticians, affiliated
with the State Society of Cosme-
tologists and Hairdressers, will meet
Thursday night at 1913 West Ohio
street. Mrs. Wilma Rogers of
Chicago will be speaker.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
New Guild
of Museum
toGive Tea
Group of Young Women
to Honor Board
Members.
BY BEATRICE BURGAN
Times Moman's Page EDITOR

members Of the newly formed
W. Children's Museum Guild have
been working quietly for several
weeks, educating themselves for
their proposed activities at the
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30

Frances Holiday was helpful in
organizing a group Of Smith college
graduates. who wished TO donate
their spare time.
They have been visiting the
museum frequently and observing
the technique of docentry service.
They have made the rounds of ex-
hibits with Mrs. B. M. Golden, ex-
ecutive secretary, and learned en-
Tightening points to add interest to
the children's observations.
They have been addressing en-
velopes and assisting in filing ma
terial. They have gotten out their
college notebooks and gone to state
and city libraries to delve into
books for data desired by the
museum staff.
Work Record Kept
The guild members devote at least
one morning every two weeks at the
museum. Miss Joan Dissette,
chairman, keeps an account of the
members working schedules.
Other members are Miss Juli-
anne Campbell. Anne Ayres, Melissa
Jane Wadley and Ruth linn; Mrs.
Thomas Sinclair and Mrs. Will
liam Todd.
Miss AyreS and Mrs. Todd will
preside at the tea table Thursday
and will be assisted in the din
ing room by the other members.
The group has met several times
to outline their activities. Miss
Holiday was hostess recently at
a tea and Miss Dissette will enter
tain the guild soon with a tea, fol-
lowing a discussion of the prog
reSS of work.
Junior Board Is Unique
Children have been given an &C
tive part in the projects of the
museum. while serving on the junior
board of directors.
LAS far as we can find out" Mrs.
Golden explained, our museum is
the only one that has a Junior
board"
Children are appointed to the
board from each of the twelve city
school districts. and they bring
messages regularly to their schools
regarding the activities and pro-
grams at the museum.
On this board are Anna Cotton,
Annabel Fisher. James Edwards,
Audrey Roach. Paul Thomas. Nick
Musulin, Myron Scarborough, Mari
orie Wineman. Mildred Steffin, Bet
ty Bond. Allan Young and John
Ryan. Mrs. Margaret Mccarthy,
teacher at School 9, is the board
sponsor.
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S1Ueater ProUides Most Washing Trouble

7 Z
most difficult thing
the formula follows
knitted garments:
First the garment is outlined This
of
washed in
especially if it bouce knit but SwiShed a
cuar that the weight shape
pinned the pencied outline
arrows the garment Wilt dry original shape.
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30
Graduate LaundreSS at
Ayres Store to Solve
City Women's Problems
Miss Virginia Wilde, Lux Representative,
Tells Proper Washing Methods for
Wide Range of Apparel
BY HELEN LINDSAY

MEET Miss Virginia Wilde washaby specialist Miss Wide VIII
N1 Understanding
of the
uacters laundering problems OF In
booth the floor of the l. s.
purchase wash
The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1934-01-30

Left to Right-Mrs. Alfred NOlin,
To finance its philanthropic &C
tivities at the Indianapolis
Orphans Home, the auxiliary will
entertain with a benefit bridge
party Friday afternoon at the
Banner Whitehill auditorium.
The arrangements group met re-
Gently to discuss the affair. Mrs.
William Krieg is general chair
man of the party and Miss Con-
stance Fowler, president Of the
auxiliary.
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ned It to Che Store in satisfactory condition for the Gus
Evening star., 1934-04-29

Adding it all up, here's what you get when you
buy the new "G-3":
You get tire that averages more than f3x LONGER
son'skid mileage
You get tire on which "eupping" or "heel-and.
toe" wear on the non.skid blocks is cut dorm SO1.
You get tire with I6% more non.skid blocks on the
tread for better traction and greater safety.
And the best news is saved till the last.
Despite the fact that this tire costs more to build.
you get all these things in the new "G.3" ALL
Weather tire at no extra costl
THR GOODYEAR TIRB & RUBBER COMPANY, NC.
AKRON, ONO
Evening star., 1934-04-29

When you examine it, you
will find that it keeps the
famous All-Weather blocks in
the center of the tread where
you need them more than ever
before for qaick-stotpins safety.
1t would have been far easier
for us to follow standard
practice -and replace gIp in
the center of the tread with
smooth running ribs.
But Goodyear refused to
compromise with safety. On
smooth highways, you need
grip on your tires. For the sake
of safety, your tires must bite
Evening star., 1934-04-29

Old tire tieftl and
netD tiretnghfl shoD.
ing comparative
wear after same
mileage. Cross sec.
tions and tread i'm.
prints show s0hy
"G-3" tire gives
greater miieage:be.
cause Il has scidey
tread and more
blocks Of rubber IN
contact sOith the road
Evening star., 1934-04-29


and hold-or powerful brakes are useless. Asroads
getbetter and cars characterization becomes more
vital than ever to modern tires for modern cars
So the "G-3" keeps the ,Oorld's best knoyn safety
tread, but makes it epen better.
Those non.skid blocks are nested closer there
are l6% more blocks on the tread.
And the tread is broader BY SAS-he tread is Rattsr
the riding g.rbs are IIh% uider-fhe groopes are
norrosrer-a of which helps to fortfy the tire and
eliminate "squirming" under pressure, common
cause of wear.
Such design puts an extra strain on the sidewalks
but Goodyear was ready for that 1t has patented
advantage, something no other tire-maker can use.
In the extra-durable, extra-eastc Supertwist cord
carcass it has tire'body that can easily stand the
extra strain.
This new "G-3" An-Weather is the first time that
full advantage has ever been taken of the super.
strength of this matchless carcass.
Evening star., 1934-04-29

VOU should have seen them when the reports
i started fltering in-the development eng.
neers, trouble shooters, calender room men,
executive staff and all.
After little it had them sleepless with worry
Evening star., 1934-04-29

They oafran any p,svioss Goodyear AH.Wsothsr
and kept their grip tvics as long any other usll.
known make of tire tested!
We knew we had something, but we wanted
to make doubly sure.
So months ago we started feeding these new
"G-3" All -Weathers out to our dealers, in a
few sizes. We didn't announce these new tires.
We wanted a test BY the public in advance.
Month after month has gone by. Everywhere
the same result, no trouble. The tires have
made good with vengeance. The trouble
slate is clean!
You can get the "G-3" "no,o
There's a GOODYEAR Dealer near YOU with
Evening star., 1934-04-29

0Uu DdluCl1Culs
Far-scattered Goodyear sales.
men, who also serve as "per.
Torrance detectives in the field,
picked it up first.
Some time ago their reports
began to read like this:
"Something funny out here,
something happening to tire
treads. Not just competitive
tires, even ours. They don't
seem to wear as long as they
did BEFORE"
That was the beginning. 1t grew.
1t started an upheaval in the
GOODYEAR plants that involved