The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1933-03-24
by JANE JORDAN

Tell your troubles to Jane Jordan, who
will help you see what to do. Read your
answers in this column.
Dear Jane Jordan-I was mar
ried at II to man Of 26. 1t lust
seems he never can hold a Job.
Nhen he has one. he usually gets
laid off or quits. Not long ago
he got drunk on the job and was
fired. He always did make good
money, but never knew how to
save. Most of it went on drinks.
1 have loved my husband very
dearly, but he has me so disguised
don't know what to do. I don't
even care for him to be around.
When 1 loved him, he didn't care
to pay any attention to me. but
now since he isn't working and
hasn't any place to go, he pays
attention to me, but I don't seem
to care whether he does or not.
l don't love him any more.
I used to be jealous of him, but
1t is someone else I'm Jealous of
now. For the last six months I
see fellow all the time where I
work. Even before we were ac-
quainted, 1 looked for him and
missed him the minute he wasn't
there. I have such a funny feel
ing just don't know how to tell
you. If he speaks to another wom-
an am jealous.
Do you think I really love him?
I'm sure I do. Do you think T
should stay with my husband?
This man also is married. 1 went
with him once and expect to go
again. If he loved his wife. would
he be out with me? Does he love
me, or is he just passing away the
time? FOUND NEW LOVE.
Answer-Truly woman is the per
petual builder of illusionsl She lust
has to have some one on whom to
hang her dreams. When one man
fails her, she learns nothing from
the experience, but hopefully pro-
ceedS to weave rosy fancies around
another.
The twilight Of one love is bear
able only when it comedies with the
dawn of another. When she isn't
loving, she isn't living. That's
woman.
1 hope to save you from another
jar by pointing out that you can't
recapture romance by endoWing a
comparative stranger with the vir-
tues you miss in your husband. To
begin with, he's a married man and
you mustn't take such small
amount of attention so seriously.
No doubt he has noticed your at
titude toward him and finds it
amusing. I do not know if he loves
his wife. but his interest in YOU is
no proof to the contrary. Men are
flattered easily by a little admira-
ton and make it point of honor
not to neglect an amorouS lady. if
she is new to them. But the hui
initiating thing about it is that they
so often laugh at her unaSked af-
lection.
If your love for your husband is
dead, and you have no children,
leave him. Call it a day and quit.
You have a job Then with your
bridges burned back of you, wait
for some one who is as free as you
are.
This is the only dignified way to
rebuild your life, and TO protect
you from exposing your tender emo
tons to ridicule.
r
Dear Jane Jordan have been
dating a fellow for more than a
year and found out last week that
he has been going with a girl
friend of mine on odd nights. I
am aWfully fond Of him and don't
care to go with anyone else. Would
like to have some advice.
MARGUERITE.
Answer see. no reason for can
ming the young man Just because he
likes to see another girl OCCASION
ally. The other girl has more rea-
son to complain. since he sees her