The Washington times., 1933-05-05
Advice for
The Love|orn
BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX
She's q TwO-Timer

i,
to get a better education and
a position. We were to be mar
ried when I returned. The
only reason for leaving was to
be in a better position when
I married her. 1 suggested
that she go out with other
boys and have good time
while I was away.
The past two years have been
lonesome ones for me. I have
not had a date, or even so
much as carried on a CONVEX
sation with another girl. My
only happiness was receiving
her letters and thinking of the
real happiness that awaited my
return.
I returned with money and
a trade which will enable me to
hold a good position. I was
about to close a cash deal for
a nice home, when 1 found out
she had been going with an
other man ever since 1 left.
They are to be engaged to
be married. She never men,
toned this in her letters to me.
I would like to know just
what steps to take. Should
have a talk with her, or move
to another city? I can never
60 with or care for any other
girl. My Indian blood would
not permit it.
-JILTED.
If you'll let me predict, my
dear boy, my prophesy is that
the day will come when you'll
thank your lucky stars you
escaped that two-timing young
lady. If she had had the
honesty to write and confess
that she'd fallen in love with
someone else, you would for
give her. But to keep on with
you for two years, meantime
becoming engaged to another
maxwell, he has my con-
dolences! Dependable girls
don't act that way. You're
lucky, even if you don't realize
it. Old grandmother nature is
stronger than Indian blood, so
my best wishes to you for a
good loyal girl next time!
Won't Let Him See Her to
the Door
DEAR MISS FAIRFAX:
keep company with a young
lady and she is, to my mind,
wonderful. I have taken her to
shows five or six times and
each time she has insisted on
having me leave her at the
corner of her street. I was
agraid something hight happen
to her, as it was late. Also, I
thought maybe she didn't want
me to walk home with her be-
cause she knew I would kiss
her.
I 60 with her only when I
can take her to show, be-
cause I don't believe girls care
to go walking. I haven't a
car. FRANK.
Perhaps I may answer your
letter, my dear Frank, by tell
ing you what a girl wrote me
about a similar situation. Nat
your girl, because she wrote
from a different State hun
dreds of miles off. She wasn't
afraid of being kissed. Few
girls are; and if they don't
want to be kissed they have
ways and means Of letting a
boy know kissing is not IN
order.
This poor child wrote that
she could never invite in a
friend because, since the hard
times, every inch of their little
home was occupied by relatives
less fortunate than they were.
At night the cots came out and
grandmother, widowed sisters
and aunts filled the flat to over.
flowing. To have in a friend
was out of the question.
Perhaps something like this
prevents your girl from allow
my you to see her home.
An Answer to "DiscOuraged"
Dear Miss Fairfax:
I read a letter signed "Dls'
couraged" in your column re-
Gently. Food for thought, that!
Here's my case. I am a mar
ried woman, and have always
been true. I thoroughly de-
spised those who we're not faith
full to their marriage VOWS.
About 18 months ago I met
a young man with whom I was
associated in musical work and
fell madly in love. had no
desire for such an affair, but l
love him just the same. although
I have not seen him for over
year; neither do I intend to see
him again.
How I would hate to be
judged by "Discouraged"! What
is amusement for a man of his
type is often the woman's
tragedy. Make love to a mar
ried woman-then despise her
if she falls! BLUE.
In case you're forgotten, "Dls-
couraged" is the name under
which a married man wrote to
this column. 1t seems he had
had several affairs with mar
ried women and was disgusted
that none of them had been
true to him. Evidently "Dis-
couraged' was not suffering
under an "inferiority complex"
A lady who will be disloyal to
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