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Miller, $50 NOrtn Bottom avenue.
Another sister Mrs NJ. c. Kahle
of Washington, Pa, will be q guest.
Appointments viii be in yellow and
pink.
Other guests with Miss Farson
and her mother will be Mesdames
Charles Brignan, Lester II. Rain.
Vergil Jones, Matthew Farson, John
F. Cady, Clell Rice, Shelley Givens,
Harry Pfarrer, c. D. Vawter, T. R.
LYDIA, Karl A. Staufenbeil Jr., Will
liam H. Boyd. William Gauding,
Alfred F. Gauding and Misses Helen
Gauding, Mia Hornaday, Margaret
Davenport, Margaret and Dorothy
Carey and Mildred Wolf.
Mrs. Frank r. Baker and Miss
Emma B. Kast entertained Tuesday
night at Mrs. Bakers home, 5427
Julian avenue, with a linen shower
and bridge party for Miss Farson.
A color scheme of rose and green
was used in the decorations. Bowls
of roses centered the serving table.
Guests with the bride-elect and
her mother included her sister,
Mrs. Davenport Of Chicago, and
Mesdames Clell T. Rice, Robert D.
Moor, Walter c. Honecker, Morren
l.. Payne, Helen Toms, C. I. Carey,
Steward Craig, Hugh NJ Leaning,
Harold Stewart, Matthew S. Farson,
Herschel Miller and Misses Dorothy
and Margaret Carey, Dorothy Perk-
ms, Clara Dieckman, Edith Wilson
and Alice Miller.
Mrs. Jones and her mother, Mrs.
Charles E. Wagner, will honor Miss
Farson and Mr. Gauding at a buff
fet supper and bridge party Thurs
day night at Mrs Jones home, 1882
Central avenue.
The table will be centered with a
bridal cake, decorated with flowers
in pastel colors. There will be six
teen guests.
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IF you're hesitating over an important
decision which you would like to tax
over with some one in whom you have
confidence, write to Jane Jordan, who
will answer your questions in this
column.
Dear Jane Jordan am in love
with a girl of II. I am %.
have loved her for eight months,
and we have been with each other
almost constantly. She is in love
with another fellow who absolutely
has quit seeing her, but she still
is hoping against hope that he
will come back. 1t is hard for me
to go or with her, hearing his
name at all times. I have done
everything for her, but still am at
loss to know if I ever will get
the girl. At present she is acting
very cool and Indifferent toward
me and says we will not see as
much of each other as we former
ly did. Will you kindly tell me
how to cope with her actions?
BEWILDERED.
Answer-You and your girl are in
the same boat. You both love some
one who can not return your love.
Human nature is SO perverse that
people value most that which they
can not have, Or that which they
are in perpetual danger of losing.
You probably are too safe and
sure proposition for the young
lady. You do not challenge her
power to charm. If you we're little
more elusive, her pride would be
piqued, and she would make more
of an effort to hold you, for vanity's
sake; but I do not believe that love
stimulated by strategy is apt to be
worth while or lasting.
The normal young man who fails
to win the love of a young lady
wisely chooses a more favorable love
object. 1t is only the exceptional
boy who goes on fighting a losing
battle. Some stick to the problem
because of tenacity of tempera-
ment which will not admit defeat.
They usually win out.
Some stick because they haven't
the courage to make the break and
fear to risk a second defeat in a new
field. They usually fail.
Somehow, feel you belong in the
second classification. Your letter
sounds more discouraged than de-
termined. You owe it to yourself to
break away from the girl and tell
her firmly that you have no more
time to waste on a woman whose
heart is set on another.
1 believe that this is what
strong person would do. Try it and
let me know what happens.
Dear Jane Jordan-I'm in love
with fine, wonderful girl. I'm
27 and she is %. She was in love
with me until about month ago.
She has been married unhappily
and now is divorced. She has
darling little boy 3 years old
treated her very badly at times.
I got mad or hurt at little things
said or done and hurt her terri
bly, by words of criticism.
Lately she acted differently to-
ward me. After lot of misera-
bic thinking, asked her if she
wanted to break our engagement
and she said she wanted a month
TO decide. as she is not sure
whether she cares or not. I de-
serve just this but oh, how I wish
everything was as it was before!
Please tell me what you think.
HOPING IT'S NOT GOODBYE
Answer-Your cue is to eat hum
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BRIDE-ELECT IS
HONORED AT TEA

A surprise reception and tea at
the home of Mrs. Charles Railsback
1923 North Illinois street, was given
Monday afternoon in honor Of Miss
Alice Dora Cahow, daughter Of Mr.
and Mrs. James L. Cahow, 1921
North Meridian street, whose mar
riage to DR.. Roger L. Trueblood will
take place Saturday
The affair followed the meeting
of the Vincent G. l.. S. c. Mem
bers presented Miss Cahow with
silver tray. The hostess was as
sisted by Mesdames H. o. Garman,
F. G.. Johns, Robert Armstrong and
K. E. Lancet.
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Lenten Service
Held at Y. w.
by DR.. Want


DR.. w. w. Want of the North
Methodist Episcopal church talked
on Worship" at noon today at the
Central Y. w. G. A. at the first of
the Lenten services scheduled for
the next six weeks.
At the second service, Harry White
of the Y. M. G. A will discuss
What Is India Trying to Do?"
Other speakers include DR.. Ernest
N. Evans of the church federation
on THE Harvest of the Heart" and
the Rev. M. w. Clair of the Simp-
son M. E. church on Faith for To-
days Problems"
Special music will be arranged
and the meetings are open to the
public.
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TUDOR HALL HEAD
GOES TO FARLEY

Miss I. Hilda Stewart, principal
of Tudor Hail school, has gone to
Chicago to attend the meetings of
the Progressive Education Associa-
ton from Thursday through Sat-
urday.
Others attending from the school
will be Misses Elizabeth Chapman,
Lillian Reeves, Martha Gill, Helen
Hartinger, Dora Atkins May o.
Mackenzie, Sara Lois Haber and
Dorothy E. Mccullough.
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EGYPTIAN MOTIF
SCORES IN PARIS

Fashions with an Egyptian lean
ing suddenly have appeared in Paris.
For some on-unaccountable to
the stylists-many of the newest
spring modes appearing in the
French capital seem to have come
from some Egyptian origin.
Oriental colors and designs are
noticeable in the printed silks, in
handbags, in decorative scarfs-in
any phase Of fashion which calk for
pattern or combinations of color. In
jewelry especially is this new ten
dency in evidence.
One Of the most frequently seen
indications of the Egyptian is in color
schemes-bright green jade and tur-
quoise used against backgrounds Of
yelloWish gold.
Another is in the combinations of
greens-yellow green, blue green and
brownish green all used together in
the same design.
In jewelry there often is seen the
combination Of different green gems
Jade, turquoise and green jasper
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FRESHMEN WOMEN
WILL ATTEND TEA

Unorganized freshmen women of
Butler university will be entertained
with q tea from 3 to 5 this after
noon by the women's unit of the
B. I. A., composed of unorganized
students.
Music will be provided by Miss
Harriet Payne, violinist, and Miss
Nadine Beauchamps, pianist Miss
Marguerite Emory, vice president,
is in charge of arrangements.
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FORMAL RECEPTION TO
HONOR VISITOR

Mrs. Samuel T. Douglas of Boston,
Mass, will be honored at an in
formal reception from to 5 this
with Mrs. Chauncey D.
Meier, Mrs. H. Edgar thinner and
Mrs William j. Henshaw as hos
tesSeS.
The affair will be at the home of
Mrs. HenshaW, 3145 North Delaware
street, and there are no invitations
Mrs. Douglas is the house guest OF
Mrs. thinner.
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Serrie
TOLLYWOOD March 1.-The sports
IL is making headWay here runabout outfit.
Crawford tweed twosome of this the
very square necklne
three metal buttons fulne kick pleats
center of the front
The English with mannSh patch
cts and reequarters length She has arish beret the
tweed, a S
No single of upheld THE thing
anywhere, in Hollywood The variety of
things interesting Take luncheon This
varied costumes doomed mighty their
Caude Colbert back from New York minus her trouble
unchng Paramount black
plaid dress with ightting ribbon
hat tiny, with fringed bow the of
Barbara Kent unchng at the Brown Derby picture
spring suit with skirt reequarters felt
hat Shoes
Gretchen Wilson, into the RKO wearing brilliant red
tOpcOat to match with equally brilliant
wearing crepe
exquisite lingerie touches tiny black tilted her right
and
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Hostess to MeetillQ

Mrs. Alfred Mathey, 1860 North
La Sale street, will be hostess for
the meeting of the Martha Wash
ington Club Thursday The group
will sew for the Red Cross and the
p. H. N. A, under the direction Of
Mrs. William A. Boyce Jr., chairman
of the committee.
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Book to Be ReUielUed

"Beveridge and the Progressive
Era" is the book review to be pre-
sented by Mrs. Kathryn Tourney
Garten at 7:3O Thursday night at
Tudor Hall. This is the last in the
series of lectures sponsored by the
Chronicle board of the college, and
is open to the public.
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Personals

DR. Thomas J. Dugan, 1888 West
Washington street, will leave Thurs
day for Washington, D. c., to visit
his sons and to attend the inaugu-
ration.
Mr.. and Mrs. J. N. Shanahan.
formerly of Omaha, Neb., have ia
ken up residence at the Marott.
Mrs. J. A. Goodman, Kessler
boulevard, has as her guest her
sister, Mrs. Alexander S. Wolf of
st. Louis.
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Manners and Morals
by JANE JORDAN :

BILE pie and lots of it. Assure the
lady that you will love her, no mat
ter what her decision will be. Few
women can resist truly repentant
man if they ever have loved him at
all. After a woman has had one
unhappy marriage, she naturally is
wary about placing herself in the
same miserable situation again.
I do not blame your girl for
doubling the wisdom of marrying
you. It shows that she is an in
telligent woman. You'll have to work
like a Trojan to prove to her that
you are capable of change, and are
not going to make a disagreeable
husband.
Note: Three letters have arrived for
Marcia, who is in search of group in
terested in elf-improvepent.
Dear Jane Jordan-Read the
letter signed Marcia in your COL
umn and if she will call Drexel
4655-M and ask for Lille, I may
be able to assist her. LILLE.
Dear Jane Jordan-Our study
group is looking for ladies who
need friends like Marcia. We
meet every Tuesday night at 7:3O
and have a social time. We can
bring lots of happiness into your
life and there are. no charges.
You will not need any change of
dress, for all Of us wear uniforms.
Some of the ladies are like you
and have just one or two good
dresses. My telephone number
is Belmont 1882. You may call
me and we can arrange to see you.
MRS. N. G.
If Marcia will send her address,
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JERSEYS for SPORTS

For sports and morning wear the
new Chanel jerseys are of particu-
lar interest There is a wide range
of tweed jerseys in neutral mixtures
of black and white, brown and white,
dark blue and white and gray and
white in a variety of specify de-
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KAPPA ALPHA THETA
TO ELECT OFFICERS

Election of officers and a musical
program will feature the meeting
of the indianapolis chapter of the
Kappa Alpha Theta sorority at 2.30
Saturday afternoon at the home Of
Mrs. Roy K. Coats, 1860 Central
avenue.
The following program will be
presented: Piano duets by Mrs.
Ebert Glass and Mrs Chester Al
bright, and vocal selections sung by
Mrs. Harold Robinson, violiniSt, &C
companied by Mrs. Rosalee Spong.
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Mrs. John G.. Benson, 1868 North
Delaware street, entertained mem
bers of the executive board of the
White Cross Center of the Metho-
dist hospital with tea Tuesday
afternoon. The monthly business
preceded the social hour.
Mrs. Felix T. McWhirter, appoint
ed the nominating committee, COM
posed of Mrs. William C. Hartinger,
Mrs. Dwight S. Ritter, and Miss
Alta Roberts, and named Mrs. j. H.
Noble, Mrs. James G. Myers and
Mrs. Ritter as telephone commit
foo
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Governor, Wife
Entertained at
Dinner Party

Mrs. Thomas G. Marshall enter
tanned in honor of Governor and
Mrs. Paul V. McNutt at a dinner
party Tuesday night in the Propy-
laeum. Covers were laid for twen-
ty-four guests.
The dining table was arranged
with bouquets of white roses and
carnations and lighted with white
tapers.
Following dinner, musical pro-
gram was given by Mrs. Marie Daw-
son Morrell, violinist, accompanied
by Mrs Frank Edenharter.
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Initiation Is Set

Women of the Moose, chapter II.
will hold initiation services at s
Thursday night at the hall, 1876
North Delaware street. Mrs. Mary
Rosemeyer will be in charge of ar
rangementS.
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Initiation Is Held

Initiation services for Misses
Ruth Marie Price, Marjory Watkins
and Mabel Espey were held Monday
by the Butler university chapter of
Theta Sigma Phi, womans profess
sional journalistic sorority.
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O. r. 8. to Meet

Prospect auxiliary 452, Order of
Eastern Star, will hold an all-day
meeting Friday at the Masonic hall,
State and Prospect streets A pitch
in dinner will be served at noon.
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Dance Is Set

Young Mothers Club will enter
tain with dance Friday night at
the Community house Of Brookside
park. Indiana Mite Hawks will pro-
vide the music.
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Card Parties

Center Council S. B. A. will give
benefit card party at 2 this after
noon at lie East Maryland street
Drill team of the Women OF the
Moose will hold card party at
Thursday afternoon at the hall, 1875
North Delaware street, with Mrs.
Fred Kinnan in charge.
University Club will give a card
party at 2 Thursday afternoon at
the hall, 125 West Market street.
charge.
White Rose drill team No. 25
Ladies auxiliary to B. r. T., will
give card party Friday night in
Trainmen's hall, 1902 East Wash
ington street. All games will be
played.
Lauter Mothers Club will enter
tain with a card party at Thursday
in the clubroom, 1909 West Market
street.
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Miss Frances Beik will present
Edward Sheldon's play, "Ro-
nance" at the guest recital,
sponsored by Phi Beta, profess
Sional drama and music sorority
of Arthur Jordan Conservatory Of
Music, Friday night at the Civic
theater. Bomar Cramer, pianist,
will share the program.
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Daily Recipe


I f-2 cups cdHn e d or
fresh cooked shrimp
3 tablespoons butter
8 tablespoons -four
2 f-2 cups milk
I small onion
1-2 cup celery leaveS
1 teaspoon salt
is teaspoon pepper
1-2 teaspoon prep AIRED
mustard
2 tablespoons mincG d
parsley
Melt butter and add peeled
onion, minced celery leaves,
mustard. salt and pepper. Sim
mer over a low fire until
onion is tender. Sift over
flour, stirring constantly.
Add milk and bring to the
boiling point. Strain. Re-
turn to heat with shrimpS
and parsley and heat thor
oughly. Serve with a sprin-
kle of paprika over the top.
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A. W. T. Club to Meet

The A w. T. Club will meet
Thursday at Red Mems hall for a
covered dish luncheon with Mrs.
Elizabeth Call as hostess.
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Initiation Is Held

Formal initiation was held recent
ly by Omega Chi sorority for Misses
Frances Patterson. Lorine Filling
worth, Aleathea Read and Jeanette
Sims.
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Many Parties Are Held
for Miss Helen FarsOn
Preceding Nuptial Rites
City Girl Will Become Bride of Charles H.
Gauding Saturday at Irvington
Presbyterian Church.

Preceding wedding Farson daughter Mrs
Charles
parties Heschel Miller M
Chicago of Mrs
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ADay'S Menu
BredkfG

BREAKFAST
Chilled tomato juice, ce-
real, cream, baked finnan
haddie, corn bread, milk, d..
coffee.
LuncheOn-
Tomato rarebit on toast,
endive salad, molasses
cookies, milk, tea.
Dinner
Mutton stew with rice
dumplings, creamed car
rots, broccoli or diced
turnips with easy Hol-
landaise sauce, radishes
and new onions, steamed
graham pudding with
lemon sauce, milk, coffee.
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Mrs. c. Hiney, 1741 North Illinois
street, sold an electric washer and
electric range from one want ad in
The Times costing only S144
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Mrs. Harri-
son Williams,
hailed in New
York social
circles as one
of the b e S t
Dire S S e d of
A m e r i C a n
women, photo
graphed at her
villa in Palm
Beach, where,
with Mr.. Will
liams, she is
pa S sin g the
winter.
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GROUP HEARS TALK
ON HALT OF CRIME

Criminal Judge Frank P. Baker
spoke Saturday on Crime Reduc-
ton" before the Perry Township
Women's Democratic Club at the
home of Mrs. o. D. Ludwig in
Edgewood.
Committees appointed by the
executive committee, headed by
Mrs. Ludwig were: Reception, Mrs.
Essie Penrod, Mrs. Frances Repp,
Miss Margaret Specs and Mrs. Mary
Rutledge; constitution and bylaws,
Mesdames Beatrice Highsmith, Pearl
Mcfarland and Mabel Norwood;
publicity, Mrs. Alice Orme and Mrs
Eva Gross Smith; ways and means,
MeSdames Nettie Brown, Elizabeth
Nicholson, Doris Orme and Lillian
Holt; program and entertainment,
Mrs. Marcia Murphy; Eleventh dis
trict and Perry Township vice
chairman, Miss Bernice Murphy,
Mrs. Margaret Hamilton and Mrs.
Gertrude Memmer.
officers with Mrs. Ludwig are :
Mrs. John Bright Webb, vice-presi-
dent; Miss Grace Massey, secre-
tary, and Mrs. Harry Cook, treas
urer. Next meeting will be held
Nov. Is at the home of Mrs. Harry
Cook, near Beech Grove.
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GUILD WILL RAISE
FUNDS FOR ROOM

In order to raise funds to helm
furnish the new White Cross
headquarters in the nurses home
of Methodist hospital, the Mary
Hanson Carey Research Guild will
give benefit card party next Mo-
day in the ballroom of the Marott.
Reservations for the special
luncheon preceding the party and
for the card party are due Satur-
day. Mrs. Carolyn Anterior is in
charge of reservations for the par
ty, and Mrs. Walter j. Hutton for
the luncheon.
Officers are: Mrs. Arthur Voorhees,
Brown. president; Mrs. Mary Han
son Carey, president; Mrs. Al
fred Conklin, secretary, and Mrs.
Allan Wilkinson, treasurer. The
guild is a branch of the White
Cross Center of the hospital.
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Manners and Morals
BY JANE JORDAN

genial spirits are imprisoned to-
gether.
The time has passed when girl
Is an old maid at %. One of the
most widely read books in recent
years is Walter Pitkin's Life Begins
at Forty" In Paris the charms of
a young girl haven't the ghost of
chance beside the charms of an ex-
perienced woman.
Obviously neither of the men you
described fit your mating require
mentS, but they aren't the only two
men on earth, you know. Of the
two 1 prefer the second one as a
sounder matrimonial bet. He is not
so completely selfish as the first. His
own marriage has taught him to
consider some one besides himself,
and create a taste for domesticity
which is lacking in your more ad-
venturouS friend.
1 have known people who married
for mutual convenience and fell in
love afterward. 1t is true that the
marriage dictated by the head fire.
quently outlastS the marriage
dictated by the heart. 1t is barely
possible that you might learn to
care for the widower if you have
no actual physical distaste for him.
In your place I believe 1 would
take prolonged vacation from both
men before making a decision. So
much can happen at 49, You aren't
old enough to be on the shelf, or
young enough to be callow. I'd
gamble on my chances of finding a
man whom I regard with more
enthusiasm.
Dear Jane Jordan-We are two
unhappy girls wanting some ad-
vice. We both are almost 20,
nice looking, with personality and
lots of friends. Our trouble is
that we just can't date most of
the fellows we know They al
ways are ready to come to us when
they are broke, to tell us of their
troubles when they are feeling
blue, but they just won't ask us
for dates. Is it because they
don't think of us as girls to date,
or is it because we just are too
nice?
TWO LONELY GIRLS.
Answer-Its hard to say, particu-
larly when I know neither of you.
Some girls seem to be born with the
art of provoking sex curiosity. T
suggest that you study the methods
of more successful girls and see
what they have that you lack.
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Are you faced with battling decision?
Put your case before Jane Jordan and let
her help you to clarity your thoughts
Helpful letters from other readers are
solicited.
Dear Jane Jordan-I have been
in love with a man work with
for five years. He goes out with
six or seven different girls, and
says that he doesn't think he ever
will marry. He is a professional
man, good-looking and is the type
most women admire.
Recently I met a widower whose
wife has been dead more than
three years. He has no children.
I respect him and he is quite fond
of me. He says that he would
marry me if I would consider it.
I often wonder if I could learn
to care for him if I could get
away from this other man. I don't
love him now, but on the other
hand my years are rather limited.
I feel like taking a chance, but 1t
would be terrible to be married for
life to some one you couldn't care
for. DO you think it is possible to
learn to love some one after you
are married to him? am %.
JOE"
Answer Sometimes I am in
clined to agree with a character in
one of Somerset Maughams stories,
who says that marriage is sort of
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adjustments of life. I am willing to
agree that the unmarried woman is
apt to suffer seriously from feel
ing of unfulfillment. Even those who
succeed in substituting something
else, such as art or professional
career, scarcely can avoid feeling
cheated at times.
I am not willing to concede that
the problem is in any way solved
when a woman marrieS a man
whom she does not love simply for
the sake OF being married. Mar
riage is not an end in itself, but
simply means to an end. The most
miserable existence in the world is
to be found in homes where uncon-