The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-01-18

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mon sense advice.
Dear Jane Jordan-What is your opin-
ion of a good appearing Young man IN
woman with moneyP The young man
is myself. but haven't been fortunate
enough to find a girl with any money
me for something. but they are never
willing to-, go f1fty-fiftX on Gneater err or
than than right for a girl to paw once in
Some men say they never will marry
a girl who has more money than Chey
have. they say, poor man never leads
a happy life with rich woman. don't
agree; for thousands Of po9T g7Iis Seem malt to
Get along. / don't see what difference
the money would make as lon, long as you
teh opinions Of the girls on this subject,
also. WONDErUASo.
Dear Wondering - The trouble
with you is that you are trying to
get something for nothing and IL
can't be done. The man who mar
ries a rich wife usually pays heavily
for what he gets, in countless ways,
for, as rule, such a wife expects
complete submission from a hus-
band who is poorer than she Is.
The hand that holds the purse
strings rules the home.
In this day of changing values,
when women are achieving more in
dependence than they ever had,
they still enjoy a benevolent dom
nance from this husbands, but they
will not take it from a man whom
they feel is in any way inferior.
If you had anything to offer in
return for the riches, that would be
different. If you had something to
contribute to art, science, or letters
which would make it worth while
for your wife to support you, that
would be different. But from the
sound of your letters, all you want
is to be a kept man.
So far as sharing the dinner
check is concerned, it is done lot
between business men and women,
or between young people in love,
each one working to get a start.
The Dutch treat" between boys and
girls of limited means is no new
thing. But convention will not
permit you to ask girl whom you
know slightly to go out for the
evening and ask her to pay nalf the
expenses.
It strikes me that you have
feminine streak of dependence in
you which you'd better overcome if
you want the respect of your fell
lows. Girls, what do you think?
Dear Jane Jordan-Four years ago I
married a wonderful boy who catered to
could afford. for you know an auto me-
chanic now doesn't earn q large salary.
We have been separated three times. al
he told me to think hard before I sent
him away, for there would be no more
Now he IS suing me for divorce What
shall do? love him so. Don't YOU
think I should swallow my pride PRIDE ., an9
I can't live without him l can't sleep
or eat.
E. please ind a tiny spot in your hearr
Dear Just Lou-YoH certainly
should swallow your pride and ask
your husband for forgiveness. Why
don't you get job and prove that
you want to help him with ex-
penses? Nothing will teach you the
value of a dollar so much as earn
ing your own living for a while.
If he gives you another chance, you
will have to work hard to prove
yourself.
Dear Jane Jordan-I am a .Oirl who
never had anything. MY aunt treats ne
me me'i to marry MARI him. He isn't rich, bns he
and the love rye never had, love him
will not like it and 1 will have to run
away. Please tell me what to do.
A RUNAWAY.
Dear Runaway-Run away if you
must. No person should sacrifice
any of the major interests of his
life for the sake of another. Be
sure you are right and then go
ahead.
Dear Jane Jordan-what would you Go
If the man you loved and who loved tcu
asked y you to &c on TIP WHEN bdi Toulq5
course we would have seDarate rooms
He is very nice and never has done Ut
S guess there there's first time for everrtniag
JUST ANOTHER GIRL.
Dear Just Another Girl-It would
be safer to take chaperone.
Il
Dear A. Fish, would drop the
girl who deceived me and concen-
trnte on winning the one had
trusted. You're. not a fish at all,
h,1t smart IN GAG the fgiffererre he