The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-06-13

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Dear Jane Jordan---what do YOU think
of wife who tells her husband he has
am too old to want to be always low
she IS Is S Sns 0S od and and am EoGne
t%entgsz we never was SY bsSa T been
separated and get along. fine. except
that She will not let me love her. We
Day or or night she turns from me when
I try to love her. I DO not know I %na5s
me- w0 Ss d Il ha o1ed S %s coSd yea
out? ~ O''O ''1 LOVING HUSBAND.
Dear Loving Husband-People
who now are in their 30s or 40s
were brought up with the idea that
no man is worthy of good woman
They were taught to believe that
every time a woman permits her
husbands approach, she is making
him gift for which he should be
humbly grateful. The desires of
the body were beyond the pale of
decent women, who sacrificed them
selves grudgingly to their husbands
after the wife had passed the child
bearing age were regarded as sore
crial for the woman.
This attitude which defies frig-
idity in women has resulted in a
flock of unhappy marriages. If the
husband of so-called good wom-
an" wants any real cooperation in
love, he must look for it outside of
marriage When driven out by the
GOODNESS Of his wife, she is the first
to condemn him
for his infidelity, Refuses to
without taking a
scrap of the Take Share
blame on herself, NJ
! where it really or Blame
belongs.
Modern psychology has deprived
the frigid wife of all claim to vir-
tue. She now has been denounced
as an abnormal type, in need OF
treatment from pSychiatrist. In
stead of interpreting her GOODNESS
as a guarantee of good character,
psychologists soundly have con-
demned her for her lack of CO.
operation and blamed many evils
of marriage upon it.
1t always creates an unhappy Sit
uation where one partner has more
love to give than the other is ca
.pable of receiving. This unfortu-
nate state of affairs condemns
one of the partners to life of
loneliness, full of struggle against
untitled longings.
Today the wife who shuts her
husband out in the cold is not con-
sidered virutous, but selfish. She
expects him to keep his part of the
contract by removing the necessity
for outside ex-
Mind Now periments. This is
Closed to t,tude. '' nv
New Ideas R e-e d ucation
on the part of
your wife is your only hope, and at
her age it will be difficult, because
her mind probably is shut to new
ideas. Forty-five years of false
education is difficult to undo. I
suppose that by sort of unwritten
law you would be justified in step
ping out" But I doubt if it would
solve your problem.
A mans whole being, mental as
well as as physical, should enter
into a relationship to give it the
meaning which the human heart
Graves. Lax behavior is threatened
by many dangers which hardly re-
pay you for relief which leaves the
heart as hungry as ever. These
dangers include the loss of your
peaceful life with your wife, the
condemnation of your friends, the
dislike of your children and the
risk of illness. Think twice.
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Dear Jane Jordsn-1 am Just poor
fellow with black past, trying TO live it
down, and I need some one to help me
do So. have paid the state for. the
thing ] was guilty of and now life is
The last fve years it has been this way.
Every time ask q girl for q date,
am. turned down because of my past life.
vet At the same sns II DO not '' Want s1 Il
die a coward In other words. I don't
care TO live. as I have no faith IN my
ss nG e II o ys b pPs ana ou Son IS
years old and feel that I have Tight
ing chance 70 make good.
Do you think that II ever should be
lucky in getting a girl that should tell
her about my past life? want a girl
and don't care who she is nor what she
has been, Just one who can make my
life aebit more cheerful Can you think