The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-04-13

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1Vl adviser. Write full explana-
ton of your problems, and your
questions will be answered in this
column.
Dear Jane, Jordan am lust, a, Young
pretty good salary; When I first met
nv wife I was madlv in love with her
we go on a party she always is taking
an interest in other fellows. She has
done this so many times that I wish
l could get rid of her. When I ask her
WHY she does those things. she SAYS
don't be silly. 1 was lust enjoying my
| am good looking fellow but haven't
got a car. She wants me to buy one.
but I can't. sometimes l think she
would take a better liking to me If I
had one, but l would be afraid for her
TO- take the car out alone. because she
I think sometimes I will Just give her
enough rope to hang herself. If l catch
her then could do the rest or what
would YOU advise? BIZ ISLANDER.
Dear A Bystander-Do nothing
until you find out whether your
wife really is cheating or whether
you are deceived by your own jeal-
Gus imagination. ! often have heard
it said that there can be no true
love without jealousy, but the OPP
posite is true.
Jealousy never is the sign of love,
but merely an indication of one
partners wish to dominate the
other. It always arises from a low
self-esteem and a fear that you
will not be able to hold your own
with other DeODle
1t is not love of your wife, but
feeling of inadequacy, that tor
ments you when she notices other
men. If you we're absolutely sure
of yourself and your attractions,
you would be better able to hold
her affection
Possession is the bitterest enemy
of marriage. AS long as you think
of your wife as your property in
stead of your pal and companion,
you are going to be hurt by her
slightest attention to somebody
else.
If your wife's love increases by
the addition of an automobile to
the family, she is not worth keep
ing. 1t indicates that she loves you
for what you can give her rather
than what you are, and that's not
love, but avarice.
You have answered your own
problem in the suggestion that you
give her enough rope If she really
is unfaithful it will come out sooner
or later. In that case you have
right to divorce if you want it.
Dear Jane Jordan-For four wears
have been married to a man who never
has supported tb mG nor our baby He
nut NJ with this Tor long time because
have a stspfsther who win not let me
care for F't the BABY While Will Work. Do YOU
think there is any hone at All for me?
BLUE BELL.
Dear Blue Bell-Yes, indeed;
There is hope for any one who is
able to work, especially when the
baby grows old enough to be put in
school You could move near day
nursery, where your child would be
cared for during your working
hours. Or you could pay some kind,
motherly woman to take care OF the
little one. If you can get the job,
some arrangement can be made.
Many mother has brought her
child up alone.
j. your husband does not support
YOU, who does? Would this support
ce withdrawn if you left him?
n
Dear Jane Jordan--I am 10 and wish
some advice. What do YOU do when
someone asks YOU to be his bride when
YOU are going to California the next dav?
Your parents are sending YOU there to
keen him away from YOU, and YOU love
him very much. L. B.
Dear L. B.-I would go to Cali
fornia and see if my love survived
the bewitching climate. Your par
ents are giving you the chance to
test your emotion for this boy. You
know the old saw, Absence makes
the heart grow fonder," and it's
modern paraprrase, absence makes
the heart grow fonder-of some
body else" Go and see which way
it is with you and your sweetheart.
California is ever so much safer
than marriage at 10.