The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-10-06

I lavish her affections and center her
ambitions.
If not a person, then some cause
which enables her to exercise her
concern for others. She has an in
sistent need to be loving others and
to have them love her in return.
MAN is far more able to satisfy
1V1 his longings independently.
Ambition is more important to him
than love. Wealth, honor, fame,
and power are satisfactionS which
he can attain successfully alone.
And his sensual longings are
stilled easily by any pretty woman
who crosses his path. When she is
gone, another will do.
A woman can not enjoy wealth
alone Honor, fame, or power leave
her cold, unless there is particular
person who appreciates her efforts.
She can not even enjoy a sunset or
tea party properly without sharing
her impressions with somebody else.
She is peculiarly dependent upon
the appreciation of her loved ones
and keeps an ever watchful eye on
the reactions of other people toward
her.
A man will slave his fingers to the
bone for woman and works
hardest when he has a woman to
work for. But it is the work and
not the woman that's important He
needs her to appreciate his proWeSs
and to receive his trophies when he
brings them home.
But if his loving soul
calls him to the south pole for
two-year stay when his wife is ex-
pecting a baby, he is off in gale
of mud.
A MAN is perfectly happy in a
N gathering where there are
plenty of well-dressed women,
women whom he never will. see
again and whom he has no annbi-
ton to annex. 1t is enough just to
look at them and wink wisely at his
neighbor if he spies pretty ankle
beneath an indiscreet skirt.
A woman in gathering Of men
can not help viewing them all as
prospective husbands or lovers, and
wonders which ones she will be able
to charm. In gathering of women
she constantly is comparing her
own charms and desirability with
those of other women and is down.
cast or exalted by what she dis
covers.
Woman is happiest when she is
intensely aware of herself and her
influence on others. That is why a
new hat or new dress gives her
so much enjoyment, by highten-
ing her consciousness of her own
desirability. Man is happiest when
he has forgotten himself COM
pletely.
A suit new enough to call his at
tention to himself makes his acute
ly miserable and he never feels at
home in it until it's a little bit
worn.
Woman'S instinct is to feel, to
suffer, and to enjoy, and to lose
herself completely in some other
creature. Mans instinct is to flee
from himself and reality, to avoid
all emotion, and to lose himself in
the outer world.
EVEN selfish women who care
II only for their own advantage
still think of themselves in rela-
ton to others. They want to outdc
their women companions and to
drag as many men as possible at
their chariot wheel.
While their ambition is not to
give service, but to exact it, still il
is others who occupy their atten-
ton.
The why and the wherefore of
wcmans devotion to others is beau
tifully explained in the words OF
Gina Lombrosa. Feminine altru-
ism is necessity of the species. II
the females were not endowed with
it, the life of the world cease, since
creation and education of the
young presuppose a parent willing
to sacrifice all or part of her ex-
istence to new creatures, and this
parent can not be other than the
parent who creates, that is, the
mother, the female"
q q
Dear Jane Jordan-Would like to say
few words in answer to a letter pub
llshed in your column signed by Yours
With a Chuckle." Mr. Chuckle did YOU
ever stop to think that the girls are Just
| reflections of the men2
They think they must be sophisticated
to please the men. They are not that
way because they really want to be, It's
just because it's expected of them. You
spoke of clean-minded men. How many
are they? In all my roamings around
| the world never have found many men
who were clean minded.
don't know. whether you would think
me loyable and sweet or not. but please,
| Mr.. Chuckle, II you are clean minded,
stay that way and let everybody know it.
! I hope a lot of men will copy you.
UNSOPHTSTICATED DEE.
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