The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-10-10

Dear Jane Jordan-For four months
nave been courted by boy who pur-
then he dropped me- me like hot cake an"
didn't particularly want him at first,
but he pursued me night and day until
I fell in love with him. Now I want
him terribly, but he is gone. What do
you make of this? JILTED.
Dear Jilted-It's an old familiar
story. Men always want what they
want violently and will go to any
lengths to get it. A man will break
his neck to overcome all obstacles
in the way of his pleasure. But
once he has attained the object of
his struggle, straightway he wants
something else.
The trouble with your young man
is that he was in love with you on
the physical side of his nature only
The physical bond is broken easily
A spiritual bond holds for a life
time and when it is broken it is
as great a tragedy for the man as
for the woman.
The next time you fall in love
seek to be more of a companion to
your lover. Do not permit all the
emphasis to be placed upon sex
which always is a transitory ex-
perience, without a deeper bond to
hold it in tow. The physical side
of life is all-important, but it is
illuSory unless it is welded to the
spirit.
1t is well to keep something with
UOITTcnlf
as unexplored territory. This will
keep his restless interest concen-
trated on you. Remember that to
see each other too much is not to
see each other at all. Profit by the
lesson experience has taught you.
Dear Jane Jordan started going ont
ana having dates when I was 10. NV
mother encouraged this and as / write
now | wish she hadn't. Now 1 am IS
I want a good one but the crowd 1
run around with is a wild one.
I want to get out of that crowd as
eSen aRd e qTnk to or nScS v sT IN
I met a sweet. good fellow. but he
it is brazen to call fellows on the phone?
would give UP having dates. only I
Just can't. seem to do without them. I
have tried again and again.
How could I meet good crowd of
girls and fellows who don't go on neck
much Interested ter IN the letters OF Y oTFy
With a Chuckle" and Monsieur Twentv-
Two. I didn't send in nv letter as a
for these fellows. MISS FORTUNE.
Dear Miss Fortune-Sometimes
feel very sorry for mothers since
no matter what they do for then
girls, it seems to be wrong. d.
think it is a mistake for youth tt
anticipate the pleasures that belons
to later period in life. It is like
trying to work the problems in the
back Of the arithmetic before yol
have done the first.
Therefore, you are intelligent i
you avoid that which stirs up the
emotions before you have acquired
the wisdom essential to handling
the problems that arise.
do not know how you can meet
new group unless you go where
they meet. Possibly a echurch con-
nection would help you. Why don't
you join the Girl Scouts or the
Camp Fire Girls or some other or
ganiEatlon, comprised of girls with
ideals?
Many girls have asked for the
address of Yours With a Chuckle'
and Monsieur Twenty Two" be-
cause they seem to be young men
in search of something beyond a
mere physical attraction. I do not
have the addresses of these young
men. but always am glad to hear
from them, because OF the interest
stirred up by their letters.
Dear Jane Jordan-This is the first
time ! have written to YOU. but l read
your column every night and have re-
ceived q lot Of go9d advice I am writ