The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-08-30

lem, I am glad to share his letter
with our readers.
Dear Jane Jordan-I think that you
dismissed one of life's real tragedies
With yah halfihch Of SPACE in your COLUMN
Girl" However, the boy is the one l
recognize as the tragic figure, because
when I was 10 I played the part, of the
describes, and just as she no doubt will
40, my girl left me for more demon
Why can't a girl realize that it is the
boy who will get up at O'Clock in the
morning to play tennis with her who will
get up in the middle of the night to give,
see that it is the boy who is so dazed
with. her charms that he is willing to
worship from afar off who is the more
in love with her?
talk about books, plays, and life is
ever so much safer for her to fall in
love with than another fellow who starts
0uG vs WIN d various other pretexts, but al
. NOW II this affair has the potentiali-
Ties OF one of those lovely serious love
analrs thst, contrary to popular opinion,
occasionally do occur outside of fiction
If the two Of them are of the same re-
igious belief, and there is no other seri-
Gus bar to possible matrimonial conse-
1NSHOCos L dill sure L know what the
young lady should do one once did it
to me and 1 always shall bless her for it.
MAT AT the he end md OF the evening, any eve
n I4dg put Preferably tonight. when the
stars are blinking and the moon hangs
low, let her say ever so softly, DO you
think it is all right for boys to kiss
glrlS? l know his answer. Then she
nice to me tonight that I am going to
allow you to kiss me-
She has my word for it that from then
on her love affair will proceed smoothly.
And I'm sorry I can't be there to see the
SHOW, but you see tonight I have a date
WIN the girl who once gave me up for a
more demonstrative lover.
]. M. C.
Dear j. M C.-You may be exact
ly right. 1t is entirely possible that
the young man suffers more from
timidity than from scruples. If it
is timidity that holds him back
your method will work like a charm.
II it is scruples that tie his hands
and seal his lips, he will be highly
panied and shocked.
The only time it is safe for a
woman to be the aggreSSor in a love
affair is when her partner is diff
dent. The modest man finds it diff
cult to press his own suit. He NAV
be ever so bold in his work. but
timid where women are concerned.
Such a man is grateful for every bit
OF encouragement he receives from
his girl.
He needs it to bolster his self
esteem. The girl can do all the
counting so far as he is concerned
The more she loves him, the more
he loves her.
II College Girl has the nerve to
try this experiment, will she be kind
enough to write to the column and
tell our readers how she came out?
L. T. H.
Dear Jane Jordan-I have fallen in
love with a girl; We were to- become
now she on ba ner birthday next month but
christmas. She says she will know more
about it by then. ''''4e
sw sh0n n6w5 y When Or t insist on her
comes over me that makes me want 10
9e i[esn with my hands. I love her and
9 qo = think OF 1t in an ornery'' way.
girl it is all right to do thisq She saws
It IS wrong, but it is a feeling that
can't fight of. What should I doq
Dear l.. T. HIT seems to me
that you are 100 per cent human in
your reactions to the young lady.
but I would be guided by her sense
OF discretion. I am unable to see
anything deep, dark, or sinful in
kissing between people who are sin
cerely in love. If your young ladv
isn't quite sure of herself yet, I don't
know what you can do, except wait
on her pleasure, provided she does
not put you off again when Christ
mas comes. II she did this, I would
suspect her of stringing me along.