The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-03-07
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By1ANE JORDAN
.ORDAN

HERE is your chance to talk
4 4 about yourself all that you
choose. Now you can air all the
things you've been wanting to tell,
without revealing your identity.
Your letters will be answered in
this column.
Dear Jane Jordan-I am true mother
and have four children. NV husband
has done me real dirty" I have loved
him. but he is turning me against him
with his mean. despicabIe disposition.
am living terrible life. in a way.
hRhtinR to keep my family together.
am extra good looking. with dark
proWn, dreamy eyes and blackish brown
WIZ ali tbe Wev SsTS am don PERSIST 6o
nv age People take me to be about
DO YOU think it is all right for me
10 open my eyes and go places. and get
acquainted with other men? Some day
might want to marry again. What
should I say to my children about their
Daddvs disposition? MISS 20.
Dear Miss 29-It is more sensible
to close the books of business be-
fore you begin negotiations for an
other. AS long as you are eco
nomically dependent upon your hus-
band, it is safer for you to live up
to your part Of the agreement.
Friendship with other men at this
point would antagonize him and
add to your already unpleasant
complications.
Moreover, the men you meet
while you still are married would
not respect you for your disloyalty,
and all you could hope for would be
a shady affair under the rose, to
which the mother of four children
is not entitled.
Your first duty is to the chill
dren, not yourself. If you keep
their home together while they are
little, the chances are that they will
help you to independence from
their father when they are older.
In the interim, it is best for the
children that you maintain a char
liable attitude toward their father
and carry on all dissensionS out of
their hearing.
The Goals of fire method possibly
will work better than any other
with your husbands unfortunate
disposition. It is difficult to be
mean to person who is perpetually
pleasant and impossible to war
without an oppopent.
You still are young and have
plenty Of time to achieve your re-
lease in a dignified manner. Your
present situation was not created
in day. Neither can it be I'M
revealed in short time. An I'M
savory reputation would be a de-
cided handicap to your readjuSt-
ment program.
Since your advice to Sad and I'm
decided Man agrees with mine,
will not publish it, but I acknowl-
edge your letter and thank you
for it.
Dear Jane Jordan-We are a girl and
bov. age is and Is wears. respectively.
and are quite enerossed with each other.
We are both in high school, We are not
going steady and have no definite plans
for the future. Lately: to mar our hap
there is too much difference in our ages
to warrant our going together. The
than his ace. while that fact applies
vice versa to the girl. This fact ac-
counts IN large sense Tor our content
ment and satisfaction with each other.
While the statement concerning our
ages does no worry us particularly. we
would appreciate it very much If you
would state YOUR opinion on our little
problem PUNCH and JUDY.
Dear Punch and Judy-It is rot
a question of chronological years,
but of congenial temperaments,
that makes for a happy compan-
ionship. If your birthdays are only
three years apart, it is ridiculous
for calamity howlers to set up their
usual hue and cry.
If, at your age you are too smart
to lay plans for the future, my
guess is that you have so many
more brains than your meddling
friends that it would pay them to
seek advice, instead of proffering it
Dear Afraid-Although I think il
is advisable not to print your let
ter, I sincerely hope that you see
the answer and act upon it at once
Tell your mother exactly what oc-
Cured You need her protection
Avoid the person whom you wrote
me about. This is very important
If you want more information Senc
a stamped and self-addressed en-
velope.
n
Dear Miss NJ. CT do not have
the Reformed Fast Steppers adj
dress. I have received several let
ters for him, whichh I have MOI
3 space to publish. All are sympa-
thetic.
Ro@o-o@s~%o-o~-e
u NJ