The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-07-11

" OON1 people III love are invited
n to bring their problems TO Jane
Jordan, who will give them the
benefit of her advice in this column
Dear Jane Jordan-I am young man
"a years OF age, seriously in love with
e g very fo sensible ,S girl Of 20; The girl
want really to fall in love with any
one yet thai there is too much for US
as individuals, to do while we still are
so young and that we should not become
serious. but just be good friends instead.
I am unemployed and am unable to
afford to take her to places that 1 would
like, so have to content myself with Just
being in her company about one evening
week. l eniov her company tremen7
eeously. but each time | see her feel
l thought it best to try to forget her
so have been going. with other girls
practically every night, having good
time, but not forgetting.
l do think that II continue TO keep
away from this girl. I eventually will
erase the VividnesS Of her from my mind
She is the one girl would like to marry
some dav and for that. reason 1 am
unable to determine whether I am do
ing the right thing. .
Dear Wayne-If l were you, 1
wouldn't take the young ladys
statements too seriously. What she
says is that she doesn't want to fall
in love with any one yet. What she
means is that she does not want to
fall in love with any one until it
pays her to do so.
She is just as eager to fall in love
as any other young girl of 20, but
she makes her head rule her heart,
and she doesn't intend to be torn
by a futile emotion for a man who
is unable to support her in fitting
manner
The majority of women are hus-
band hunters, but the smartest ones
never let men suspect it. Your
young lady has built up plausible
defense by saying that she is too
young to fall in love, and there still
is so much to do before one gets
married. Bravo!
And what is your Here's Good
eaction? Tt Co,,,ro 60.
makes you all the "A % w
more eager to Other Girls.
change her mind
for her.
Other young ladies who write ask
ing how to bring man to the point,
please take notice. The girl who
makes herself difficult to obtain is
the one who diligently is most
sought. The girl who hides her de
sire to get married is the one who
inspires the proposals.
At this point, Wayne, your cue is
to think less about love and more
about work. You are handicapped
by an industrial situation unequaled
in the history of the country. The
ordinary man accepts it. The eX-
traordinary man ticks it.
Don't give up the girl until you
have hustled like mad for the
wherewithal to substantiate your
proposal.
My picture makes the young lady
sound like pretty cold commercial
proposition, blu t
She Shows this is not neces-
That She every very girl had her ar
Has Sense. sound common
sense in the
choice of a partner, fewer marriages
would go up in smoke. Falling in
love is not entirely beyond human
control. The effort to guide love
wisely by using the reason is highly
commendable.
Sooner or later. every marriage
is subjected to the stress and
strain of living. Emergencies arise
which require some capital for a
dignified solution. Love and bliss
rarely survive perjury. A wise young
girl with plenty of time to find a
suitable husband guards against
letting her emotions fly toward the
first man who asks her.
If you really want this girl, don't
give up without a struggle. Let your
love inspire you to a new resource
fulness in business. Prove that you
are a person equal to severe emer-
gencies. When your prestige thus
is increased by your own attain
ments, try your luck with the girl
again.
Dear Jane Jordan--I am 9 widow with
four children to make MAKE a avin n.y. toT; .vd
been very ugly to. me. They get nv
children at their house and say ugly
things to them about me and my mother.
w The s1e' never help me in any way. Do
for " the children's father and let the little
2 20sS earn s2 n snoash e e iesd fRem How
AN s9-POUND MOTHER.
DEAR 89-POUND MOTHER
The surest method of disarming
an enemy is to treat him with gen.
crosby. Treat your in-laws with
courtesy, and 0urn their heads with
Goals of fire. can not tell whether
these people loved the children'S
father or not. Their conduct to-
ward the children is not very en-
couraging, but the only thing you
can do is to ignore 1t.
Dear Jane Jordan-I would like TO tell
C. A. my own life story. which is the
describes Seb did the same thing to
save" my erstwhile lover. then mar
ried the man who seemed dearer to me
'a While. Then I found / could not
trust him, and he cared for me no more
than for his other lady friends.
I tried leaving him twice Since it is
all over, took back with an utterly
crushed heart 10 think l threw my
future away. I was young then and
had business opportunities which would
have KEEP. my mind occupied
I wish it were in my power TO de-
scribe my mental torture and remorse
constantly on my mind and can't get
away from it. A BROKEN HEART.
Dear Broken Heart-One failure
does not constitute a broken life by
any manner of means. Don't be so
ready to admit defeat. The gener-
osity which inspired this mistake
easily can be transformed into a