The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-01-21
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H\ By JANE JORDAN /py

decided that hereafter he would find
them, love them, and leave them He
was quite bitter
I. too. am young man and I've been
Snubbed by. young ladies. I have learned
to forget it. Regardless of all vulgar
thing indescribably sweet about it. Wom-
en- have made wrecks of some men, but
I know Of others whose love has helped
their men to attain success. An I'M
married man of IS is only half a nan.
What does he know of unselflshnesS or
the joys of honest love9 Yours with 2
CHUCKLE.
Dear Chuckle-Don't worry about
your friend; he's probably posing
a little. When you've failed to at
tain a great desire, it's natural
human reaction to pretend that you
don't want it anyway. That's only
defense against the hurt. Romance
probably will endure in spite of vul-
gar quips, for nearly every day
yearnS for romantic love, and the
quipS are the easiest defense against
ones failure to realize it.
Dear Jane Jordan-A year ago I
SnoTn i sSs almost % ten is Years H aaT IS
but went back together. Then Came insOii
third break. His folks do not like me-
l started out to spite him and became
sick the first boy came back and acted
as II nothing had ever happened, and l
broke my engagement. Last Saturday
hen ne made a , date with me and failed to
readers think about this? M. v,
Dear M. VA gentleman keeps
his engagements or explains why
he can not. l would not excuse
him for an affront of this kind.
Your frequent splitups indicate a
basic uncongeniality. Quit him and
wait for something more perfect.
q
Dear Jane Jordan---A friend of mine,
aged 70, is engaged to marry a man 46.
This man has broken many girls hearts.
He and l we're sweethearts for years.
He's man who has sown his wild oats.
When they are Just about Teady to be-
come engaged. he tells the girls he
doesn't think he, will, get married. Do
get married? Should I tell her about
him? HANNAH 6.
Dear Hannah C.-No don't tell
her. You will get no thanks for
your pains. She only will think
that you are jealous. In the last
analysis, perhaps you are. The most
difficult person in the world to be
honest with is ones own self. We
hide our own secret motives with
great diligence and cover them up
with altruistic explanations.
No doubt the man is a love tramp
who thrives on the sweetness of
every young girl he meets, leaving
her unhappy while he goes on to
fresh conqueSts. Once in blue
moon man of this type settles
down, but the cards are stacked
against it. However, your girl
friend has right to make her own
mistakes. Your part is to remem-
Der that it is none of your business.
Dear Patiently Waiting, and
Worried and Blue-Both of you
want to know how to attract the at
tention of particular boy. I can't
help you much without knowing the
boy. Find out all you can about
his tastes and habits by observing
him and by asking questions. Then
start a conversation on some topic
that you know will interest him.
If he expresses a preference, re-
member it. These thoughtful little
courtesies are flattering to either
sex and help to make you popular
with your fellows. If the boy is
timid, encourage him. If he is bold,
discourage him.
But whatever you do, be femi-
nine and flattering, easy to look at
and easy to talk to, but difficult to
obtain.