The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-07-07

LEAR Jane JOTQdQ-InlS leJJer is TO
Wondering" (who wants to know if a
mans nature requires more than one
Toman}. I have been married six years.
have two fine BOYS and Beautiful baby
girl; I am as, happy as the day I mar
REG and my husband saws the same
other girls don't appeal to him at all
He IS gone most Of the time, for he has
Job that keeps him out of, town about
to the end of the world.
to W nsfe he e., is f h0me try to please him
He writes the sweetest things in his
letters when he is away. and when he
is Is, home we always are loving. I think
interested in his work. and acts happy
ana contented when he is near he can't
help keeping on loving her.
HAPPY and COMMENTED.
Dear Happy and Contented-One
reason for the success of your mar
riage is that the two of you are not
together all the time. If other cou-
pies would take a leaf from your
book and separate at frequent in
tervals their marriage would not
grow so stale. 1t is the eternal
dizziness of marriage that wears out
the romance.
There is an old saying that ia
miliarity breeds contempt. When
people are together all the time they
have tendency to let things slide.
They no longer make an effort to
put the best foot foremost. Not only
do they grow careless about personal
appearance, but they also neglect
the tesie
Husband which each ac-
CL IT:u corded the other
ohOWs HIS in days of theil
Good Sense. engagement.
Your husbands
frequent absences give you a
chance to miss each other. While
he is away you each have fresh
experiences to compare when you
come together again His home
coming is an event which gives you
something to look forward to and
keeps you on tiptoe with pleasur-
able expectation.
Wise couples separate from time
to time, even though the prefer to
be together. 1t is a good idea de-
liberately to tantalize love by put
ting distance between the lovers.
The surest way to avoid safety at
the table is not to eat too much.
The same rule holds true in love.
Another reason for the success of
your marriage is
that your hus- Neglect
band has the good
sense to make OOurUeSleS
love to you. He of Counting.
things that every woman Graves
to hear. No wonder you try to
please him and are happy and
contented when he is near. He
keeps you aware of your worth and
lets you know that you are Sc
cure in his love.
The successful marriage is one
in which two people form a mu-
tual admiration society, which adj
jcurns now and then to give its
members time to think up some
thing new to make the next meet
ing more interesting. If any other
wives have recipe for happy
marriage which they are willing
to share with our troubled readers,
I shall be glad to publish their
letters.
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Dear Jane Jordan-Unti couple OF
weeks ago was in love with a tempera- /
mental young artist who has little per- |
sonality few friends, and hates crowd /
OF young people. He left here nearly a
year ago to study art in Chicago and I
what artl He fell in love with his
model. He brought her home with him.
but his folks objected to her After she
left. he decided that it was I whom he
loved.
I know do not love him now. but 1
am wondering il I will fan for him
again. / am nearly II and going steady
with fellow my own age. He has won-
derful parents, very well of. with a fine
home. Am in love with either one or
not9 UNDECIDED
Dear Undecided-At II, hope
you are not in love with anybody,
and don't think you are. If you
were, you hardly would have to ask
about the state of your
emotions. Real love leaves no doubt