The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-03-08


will answer your questions in this
column.
Dear Jane Jordan-I am a working
girl, aged q: Last spring I met a very
nice man Of 30. We had date now and
then. but he never made love to me. He
said he was fond of me. Then he called
me and said he couldn't come one night,
but would be seeing me. That was three
months ago and 1 really am hungry to
never call my men friends if they
wont call me- He may think I should,
tired of working. / would love to have
home to work in, and have dinner all
set for the right man: Would you call
MIN up or Just let him alone 3. VIII.
Dear B. w. H.-Men never pursue
women unless they run in the OPP
posite direction. And how they
avoid the girl who shows she is anx-
ious to get married. 1t is far better
to pretend that you don't want to
get married at all. Then they will
try to change your mind for you.
Let the man alone. Somebody else
will turn up if he does not.
Dear Jane Jordan-My husband and
have been married five years and we
both desire children. But for the last
year or SO we have got on each others
nerves, SO badly that am afraid to have
reconcile us to each other, since we both
want one so much, or would it be that
we only would have something new to
THOUGHTFUL.
Dear Thoughtful-A child is no
cure for maladjusted temperamentS.
You have no right to thrust a new
life into such a situation. Divorce
is the only remedy l know of for a
seriously unhappy marriage, and it
is far better to make the break be-
fore there are children to suffer
from your pickering.
Dear Jane Jordan-I married my hus-
ought to. He was such a nice Steady
young man and he took my support off
their hands. Now we have two little
daughters. They are a great comfort to
me and always stand up for me against
their daddie. 1 have heard that family
quarrels are dangerous for children. and
Tn wondering whether / ought to leave
their father or not I don't actually dis
Ike HIM him, It is lust that | never was in
TROUBLED MOTHER.
OGdI 1IOuUlCQ N1OJll6I-A IIldI-
riage seldom succeeds unless the
partners are so completely in love
that they can't help marrying. Now
that the mischief is done and two
children have been brought into this
lovelesS atmosphere, it is your duty
to conceal the real or imagined I'M
worthineSS of their father from
them, at any cost to yourself.
Psychologists have proved again
and again that the young girl who
is brought up to hold her father in
contempt never makes a good wife,
Her emotions are warped early in
life by a wrong attitude toward men
and she seldom, if ever, achieves
happiness in her own marriage.
The most vicious thing about all
unhappy marriage is that the sins
of the father and the mother are
visited upon the children. Actual
statistics show that the children
tend to repeat the unhappy expert
ences of the parents in their own
lives. So, for heavens sake, either
preserve the semblance of mutual
respect or separate for the sake of
these little girls.
Dear Jane Jordan--I chum with a girl
friend who is awfully nice and we have
good times together She is A wear or
Two Older than ] am. nearly 20 in fact.
The only thing that she does that I do
not IKE is smoke cigarets. What do
you think about this? Please saw some
thing in your column that I can show
to her.
CrTr1M
Dear Chum-I think that it is
your girl friends own business
whether she smokes, and 1 would
not presume to comment upon her
private affairs. The pleasantest
way to support life is to take people
as they are, without trying to reform
them according to your own ideas
Enjoy what points of contact you
have with your friend and refrain
1lom intrusion upon her privscv