The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-11-02
lMANNtRSANDMORALS0
g\ BY JANE JORDAN /D

I loved me. but he never forgot and never
Only today We we're taking Of it. Ile
told me l had killed the most beautiful
thing that ever had come into his life
| get It and never will be satisfied till he
kills the man.
I have been true to him since have
tried to atone for it. but IN pay for It
as long as I live, ana you tRepentant
Wife, will, too. by knowing we have
murdered something IN our husbands
hearts that women can't understand
ONE WHO STNNED.
Dear One Who Sinned Rubbish.
There is nothing in the heart of
any male that a woman can't
understand with remarkable ease if
she is the least bit analytical. Your
husbands pride received "a we'll
deserved whack and nothing was
murdered but his insufferable ego
which believed itself irresistible to
all women, his wife included.
Come now, be honest with your
self. You know you're well pleased
with his reaction. If he did not
want to kill the man, you'd be con-
vinced that your power over him
was dead. Your place in his life
indeed would be insignificant if he
was undisturbed by your inf1delity
But he rose to the bait with the
time-honored threat to kill his rival.
You know full-well that you derived
great qualification from his
righteous rage.
No woman ever tells her husband
of her misdemeanors except for the
pleasure of making him suffer. If
she can't bear to see him hurt, she
protects him from knowledge she
knows will be painful. Underneath
your thin veneer of remorse ran
the joyful refrain, "He cares, he
cares, he cares!"
I am no friend of the eye for an
eye, tooth for a tooth, and adultery
for adultery method. But I have
Scant sympathy for husbands with
serene stack Of scarlet sins against
their own records who pull the big
bleeding heart scene when a long
suffering wife retaliates with one
little puny pink sin on an otherwise
Spotless career. What do they ex-
pect?
Let's have some other experiences
from men and women who have had
this problem to solve. How did it
turn out? Is any wife honest
enough to admit that she felt a GER
tain satisfaction in striking back?
Let's have some intelligent opinions
to publish n the column!
| few words to Brown Eyes. What more
goes she expect from the man she is
living with? Surely she doesn't think
all he desires now.
nr ! wouldn't want 20 marry man who
| you. Now, Brown Eyes. if 1 were YOU
| I would make break right now, for
better or for worse.
If you have any backbone at all,
can't see why you can't get out and find
something to DO enough to take care of
Dear Just Pal-Alas, men often
marry their miStresses, so what is
Brown Eyes to think? However, I
do not believe that the man in queS-
ton has any desire to marry her
and I strongly encourage her to
win her independence as fast as
she can.
8aF Eyes Ian s 58Eaan through know S Ssss
done the same thing I loved the man /
lived with for three years. I still love
| him. He promised to marry me.
The woman where he rooms now told
| him he should marry his divorced wife
again for, the sake of their. child. He
afed Dto gSd iSE hfT eE but ne b easily <
and he stayed ali night With her. Now
/ they have him in place where he will
! nave to marry her, for he has told them
All I. can do now is to hold my head
up and make new start in life. So,
can No man cares Sd for a. woman SSGn as ySSe
ried.
Then the woman pays and the man
goes on as if nothing. ever happened. I
have had one lesson I never will forget
ONE WHO KNOWS.
Dear One Who Knows - And
sometimes a man does not care for
a woman if he can live with her
after they are married. But then
the aftermath is not so unsavory
for the woman who retains the
sympathy of her friends. If the
union was illegal. she has no re-
course against the man, and So
called good women draw their skirts
aside.
Dear Tow Head-Where are you?
I have a message of help for you
and want to write you personal
letter!
Guests to Be HONOred
Mrs. Charles A. Pfaf1in, 1874