The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-07-01

I have told him I still want divorce,
put ne always Just passes it off by say
ing that we've got the baby to think Of.
He says that he loves me.
get to feeling almost panicky when
! think, OF going back with him What is
your advice? BLUE BELL.
Dear Blue Bell know of no
miracle by which love can be raised
from the dead. When one partner,
by his Wanton careleSsnesS, has de-
stroyed the love and respect of the
other, know of no formula by
which it can be restored. Your
husband had his chance, but muffed
his opportunity by the selfish in
diligence of his own desires.
The lovely marriage is smiled
upon simultaneously by society, re-
CARELESS of the misery it causes the
welded pair. If there is a child,
the unthinking would deny divorce,
without realizing that a loveless
home is not good environment for
the young
The question of whether it is bet
ter for child to lose constant asso-
citation with one parent or to be
brought up in an unhappy home
is question which never has been
answered satisfactorily If a help
tul and agreeable companionship
can be maintained in spite of the
lack OF love, perhaps it is better for
the child for its parents to continue
living together.
But when people are actively an
tagoniStic, the situation hardly can
be said to be beneficial for the child.
Only you can decide what is wis
est and best for the little girl whose
welfare should be your first con-
Sideration.
Dear Jane Jordan am considered cute
by most of my friends. but that doesn't
seem to get me very far. I haven't any
knew at school. and thew never YER ask me
tor oates. NV girl friends all around me
are Ere having Sucn good times with their
IeIioWs that l feel rather left out
When | have blind dates, the fellows
seem seen to like me. but that's as far as it
Until q few, days ago, my best girl
friend didn't have any dates. but She
does now, and I feel left out more than
ever I'm not bashful nor loud ike some
M me i Son,e giTI friends So won't you give
Dear Puzzled-Popularity is not
hit or miss proposition. 1t IS
something that anybody can achieve
II ne or she works at it long enough.
the rules for making people like
you are very simple.
Ask yourself what there is about
you that is failing to attract the
boys. Take stock of your physical
appearance. Are you making the
most of your looks? Have Won
dressed your hair in the most at
tractive fashion? Most men fall in
love with their eyes first.
Now study your approach. If it
Is too timid, cultivate a frank.
C1 cheerful manner.
Cdm DOWN 1t always brings
If You Are soon favorable foI re-, re.
BOastfuI has a way of be-
getting like. If
you are too boastful, calm down.
for braggartS never are liked thor
oughly.
Do you know how to improve a
boys opinion of himself? This is
always girls trump card, for men
invariably seek woman who boasts
their ego skyward. By subtle means.
the smart girl contrives to make
her companion feel important from
the moment of the introduction.
This is accomplished less by open
compliments than by such little de-
wees as asking his opinion on sub
jectS that inter-
est him. People Play Up
small favors that to His
b oobtI, ~ oH in+s Sone Hobbies
A stamp collector responds to a re-
quest to see his collection. A foot
ball hero loves to explain the game