The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-07-06

1 y letter about that problem
that has been bothering YOU Jane
Jordan will answer your letter in
this column within a few days.
think of a fellow who treats you won
derfully; talks and acts as If YOU we're
the the t only girl while you're with him
girl with a terrible reputation? Can
he rS Tesy %tb Sne good girl and
he cares nothing about?
This boy used to come to my home
otten. but now he never comes. l love
sm12 s h0nsS for true the TsTy
sight Of him. Would Il be wrong for
invite few bows and r grs in 0r mV 6ro oRd
and phone this boy and ask him to
Join us?
BROWN EYES.
Dear Brown Eyes-It is perfectly
possible for boy to love one girl
sincerely while he slakes his thirst
with another. The reason is that
the two have no connection in his
mind. He pursues his physical adj
ventures with no thought of love,
and without attaching any impor-
lance to them beyond the pleasure
of the moment.
This is not possible for the girl to
whom passion and love are one and
the same thing. The most impor-
tant thing in life for her is to keep
her body inviolate before she is
married. This sharp divergence of
viewpoint has been the cause of al
tercation between the two sexes
since love began.
1t doesn't sem to me that the
young man in question is in love
with anybody in particular The
fact that he is attentive when he is
with you, doesn't mean thing. He
only is behaving in the way that he
has learned makes hit with
women.
If you want to invite him to a
party, I see no objections to your
plan, unless you repeat it too often.
If he thinks he is being chased, he
will regard you with contempt. 1t
IL better to make him do the chasing
Il
Dear Jane Jordan-I met a Young man
recently and he showed me a good time
and promised to come back the next
Sunday. but he never showed up and he
never has written Why do men say one
thing and do another? He was a very
nice and could have liked him. but why
you. WHY do thev make dates and then
break them2 I was surprised because
he seemed different from that;
Dear A. C. CT do not know
why you did not register with the
young man. 1t is impossible to
say, without knowing him. what
kind Of girl would make an APP
peal. 1t is far more to a girls adj
vantage to get married than it is
to a mans.
This has tendency to make her
over-anxiouS, particularly when
time speeds by without leaving any
scalpS on her belt. Unless she is
very clever in concealing her an
xiety, it scares the male away.
For him, love loses its SAVIOR
when there is no need for perSua-
sion. The girl who knows just the
right mixture of encouragement
and disbursement necessary to
stir man to action is a marvel of
her sex.
just because this young man did
not stick is no reason why another
will not. There is no way of &C
counting for the fact that some
personalities do not click, whereas
other combinations with the same
people work fine.
Dear Jane Jordan-I wonder there are
not more elderly people who take part
in your column. The people from Is to
40 speak OF loneliness. I am past 65 and
wonder II those younger folks know what
loneliness really means. I. too, would
like lady companioShip. But from so
up, We are looked upon as having lived
our lives and are passed up when we
should be the happiest.
Take me, for example I would like
TO 60 out once in a while with a bachelor
girl IS or 60 years OLD. and 1 believe We
could be lust as happy rs some of the
younger set. used to teach school and
q bachelor school teacher would be lust
fine, or any single girl who would like
to break her loneliness. You can give
my address to any lady answering this.
LONELY JOHN
Dear Lonely John-All of which
goes to show you that you can't
judge age by the arteries. Some
times I wonder if a complete def
milton of love wouldn't include
somebody to grow old with. It's
harder to be alone when you're old
&r.nx. xr~1,n,n x,1., 49,, x.1..x-