The Northwest enterprise. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1931-1952, 1932-02-11

10 not ask for a reply by mail. Answe
requested. Address, Edith White, Prol
please write on one side of sheet only
DEAR MISS WHITE am a
young man % years old and l am
in love with a certain young lady,
but she doesn't care a rap about me.
She has a fine position, earns a good
salary, dresses nicely and has car
OF her own.
I'm not on my uppers by any
means. and I could support her OK,
only she won't listen to me.
I've tried every way I can TO
win her, but without avail. Can you
help me out? HER PAL"
Apparently you have used the
wrong tactics with her.
1t isn't surprising that she isn't
anxious to exchange a business desk
for kitchen range. thus giving up
a pleasant, easy job to do your
homework. Also, she has probably
worked for men so long that she no
longer sees any halo shining around
your forehead.
For that reason, she has probably
told you that she enjoys your friend
ship and would just as soon let it go
at that. But if she likes you as well
as that. it is really your fault If you
don't win her.
You want to remember that when
you go fishing. you don't use the
same kind of bait to catch all yarie-
ties of fish; and the same is true in
life--you simply cannot use the same
line of courtship with all sorts of
women and be successful.
You've got to study this girl; and
| would suggest that you never, new
er think of popping the question
to her when she is wearing a new
frock and when everything is going
swimmingly, but should choose a
day when she feels that her ward
robe is terrible, when she is tired,
and when her boss at the office has
had crouch all day.
If you can strike psychological
moment when she is detected and
forlorn, then'she is probably yours.
You'll have to watch your chance
M.-No, by 4 all means! You will
probably regret 1t afterwards, If you
accept his invitation. Even If a
chaperon is as out of date as brush
braid around the bottom of a skirt,
you can't afford to snap your fingers
in the face of society to the extent
that you suggest. Stay home, please!
NEWL You're making the
same mistake that a lot of other
women make-you're taking that
new husband of yours much too Sc
,.so mnrh rrea-
lures of impulse as women are, and
they say and do just as many mean
ingless things, so don't take ii too
much to heart. The things which he
saws that seem to you like stab in
the heart aren't meant for you per-
sonally. | am sure, but rather they
are the result of the reaction OIL
nerves that have been harrled 10
the breaking point by business wor-
ries Turn them aside as such, ana
see if you aren't happier.
WIDOWER-If you have good
position and enjoy the reputation Oh
having been good to your flrst wlle,
lyou are probably as good as accepted
already. even though you haven |
asked her to step out with you yet.
You got up courage enough TO pro-
pose once, so you've had experience,
and | can't imagine anyone who mas
taken the fatal plunge hesitating on
the brink as you are.
TIMID-Reach for the telephone
right now and ask her to go to a
show tonight and see if she doesn |
accept before she hangs up.
PATRICIA-You are not wise 10
believe that he means all he says,
because he may possibly tell that
same story to every attractive woman
he meets. The married mans com
plant about "being misunderstood
was old when the Pyramids were be-
ing built. My advice to you is to tell
him that he had better tell his trou-
bles to a lawyer, and that you have
all the troubles of your own that