The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-07-25

easiest of all to correct, provided
you have the en-
ergy and ambition IT'S FaSv
to study your type CA
and learn how to W NOAIoCC
dress. Your Looks
The libraries
are full of books on how to dress
we'll. 1t isn't what you spend, but
how wisely you spend it that counts.
Newspapers and magazines are
crowded with ways and means of
making the most Of your looks. In
stead of being handicap, the eco
nomic depression can be made into
an asset, for this year of all years,
it is smart to be poor"
It's year when rich women go
about Dragging about their SIS
dresses. It's year when a simple
cotton dress can go anywhere and
be chic. The checked gingham eve
ming gown is one of the sensations
of the season. Where satin once was
required, pique will do as well.
The problam Of personality is
much more difficult, but not beyond
your possibilities. The conscious
ness of being we'll dressed has great
powers to put a woman at ease with
other people. But she must have
something else. She must have
something to talk
Fill Your about.
Mil 1E7:4L You can't draw
NAil'u WIN water from an
Something empty well. Your
mind must be
filled with something. What are
your interests? If you haven't any,
you must cultivate some at once.
The woman without vital interests
OF her own is drab. If you're frank
enough to admit that nothing in
terests you except men, then iden-
tify yourself with the things that
men like.
A good golf player interests some
men. Others require a girl with a
good knowledge of current events.
A student wants a girl who is widely
read. An artist prays for a girl with
some appreciation of pictures. All
men crave a girl to whom they can
talk about their pursuits, hobbies.
ambitions, and aspirations.
Every man needs a. listener. Manv
OF them marry for an audience. The
power of intelligent attention wins
many husband for a, homely girl.
Learn to question each man YOU
meet about the things he is doing.
II another person overpowers you,
see that person as
often as possible Tell Them
and try to figure
out what trait he HOW Wen
or she possesses They Look
that makes you
feel inferior. Let each contact be a
challenge. Practice on every per-
son you meet, particularly your girl
friends.
Try telling people pleasant things
about themselves. Without resort
ing to too fulsome praise, tell them
how well they look, what pretty
clothes they have on, something
nice somebody said about them the
other day.
In all your dealings with men let
them see that they are perfectly
free so far as you are concerned.
Never leok grieved when your friend
leaves early or has another date.
Never show jealousy. 1t is a sign
that you have no f-conhdence.
The smartest girls pretend indif-
ference to marriage that they do
not feel. They point out its defects
and refer to the matrimonial fail
ures enc sees on every side to give
credence to their distrust of the
welded estate. They are warm and
friendly with
Be Casual their callers, but
- W. contrive to make
w AOuA them feel that
Men Friends whereas they are
perfectly delight
ful friends, there is nothing perma-
nent about the friendship.
No matter how interested you NAV
be IN one certain man, always cul-
tlvate others. Learn to be casual in
your treatment of a man, and don't
be always available.
Men always like a girl who is cor
dial and inviting, but they do not
like her to cling too hard. They
can not stand harsh rebuffs; neither
do they like sticky dependence.
Keep an inner reserve which shows
him there is much untrodden terri
tory which he hasn't explored.
Avoid acting in a possessive man
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