The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-10-19
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N\sBY JANE JORDAN /p)

XXTHAT is your problem? Get it
w off your mind by pouring out
your heart to Jane Jordan. She
will answer your letters in this
column.
Dear Jane Jordan have been going
with a fellow for two years. While we
were in high school, we were rated as the
cutest couple in school of 5000 pupils.
AS you probably know, most handsome
fellows either are woman-haters or they
are so fast you can never keep in step
NY boy friend is a woman hater He
never had dates until he started having
them with me. Now here is the situation;
He is 20 years old and in college OF
stantly and II I am not able to go there.
with him, he stays at the frat house and
am Jealous. and as. I am cute. he is
very jealous of me when 1 have other
dates. When We do go to dances. he
get married after he has been graduated
I from college, but l am hesitant. because
I am afraid that since he does. not go
with any other girls now he may have the
desire to when we are married.
How can I make that clear to him in
the incest way possible? Remember. we
are in LOVE. POOR ME.
Dear Poor Me-Never take a
young man seriously when he says
he is a woman hater. What he
means is that he fears that woman
hate him or are at least Indifferent
to him. No young man certain of
his charms ever poses as woman
hater.
Your sweetheart's mistruSt of his
own attractions shows up again in
his jealousy. He is not sure he can
hold you if you are exposed to at
fractions of others.
Jealousy is the mark of selfish
person. The highest type of indi-
vidual does not feel it at all. It's
a childish emotion, savoring of the
greed of the child who kicks and
cries because some other child
wants to play with his toys.
There is popular superstition
that jealousy is part of all true
love, but it will not bear the search
light of fact. Love says, Il give"
jealousy says II want"
A woman is not an inanimate OBJ
ject which can be possessed exclu-
sively, as house, a car, or watch
and chain. She is a human being,
who can not curtail all her contacts
with others in order to make one
man feel secure.
1t would be great mistake for
/ you to mention the possibility of your
lovers wanting to go with other
women after your marriage. Why
suggest it to him? Many a man
never thought of being unfaithful to
his wife until she pointed out the
charms of some other woman,s by
her suspicious nagging.
Don't put the taboo on other
women. 1t makes them too attrac-
tive. You know yourself what a
temptation it is to take a large bite
out of piece of forbidden fruit.
Occupy yourself in making your
lover feel like the king of all crea-
ton.
He won't be anxious to fall of
such a pedestal. Touch his, heart
by trusting him absolutely.
1t IS very hard for man with an
ounce of chivalry to betray the
woman who believes in him.
n n a
Dear Jane Jordan-There are times when
get ike Lonesome Virginia, disguised
7 With life. and I wonder IL the world really
/ IS going TO the dogs. Where can one 90
70 md the good people? why does a
descent woman have TO sit at home lone
I some7 e
Aren't there any descent men any rore7
DO any OF them want to be true to a
woman and expect her to be true in re-
turn9 ] have been looking for 1ust such
a man for a long time
! am getting toward the halfway mark
| In life. old enough to appreciate the better
things, and young enough to enjoy good
clean wholesome fun. Is there acnfher
Monsieur Twenty-Five. only twice 27s
LONESOME WIDOW.
Dear Lonesome Widow have no
doubt that there are plenty of men
twice % who would appreciate the