The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1932-04-21
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DRING your problems to Jane
- Jordan, who will help you
avoid serious mistakes by her adj
vice. Whatever you are facing to-
day, get it of your mind by writing
your letter now
Dear Jane Jordan-About FIVE months
charming personality and makes a nice
appearance; After having several dates
with him. he, told me that he was mar
Lled He said he still cared for his wife,
but never would return to her He never
hts5 other dates but told me he en-
see me II would let him.
for Nov nv DO yog.n think i would be wise
enjoy enioy, III, his COMPANY as he is very in
teTeSting person and treats me very
Dear Wilma-It would be very
unwise for you to accept this mans
invitations, and II ltell you why. A
woman's affections are engaged
much more easily than mans. To
save her soul, she can't help looking
upon every attractive man as
prospective husband. AS soon as she
establishes satisfactory compan-
ionship with one of the opposite sex
she longs to make it permanent by
marriage. If the man is not free to
satisfy her long
ing for home He's Wary
and an exclusive Enounb 10
partnership, trag- w.
edy results Save Self
Of course, the
same situation may arise with a
man who is free and who does
not share the woman's desire for
permanency, but it is not so in
frequent The single man whose
intentions are not matrimony is
wary enough to protect himself by
not letting the situation develop
into a serious emotion for the girl
if he can help it. He doesn't want
her to have claim on him, and
if he shows signs of falling in love
he deserts.
The married man takes it for
granted that the woman knew n
the beginning that he could not
marry her, therefore, it's her own
fault if she becomes emotionally in
volved. The LONELINESS resulting from
his arrangement with his wife
makes him selfish in accepting the
devotion of another woman.
Her love flatters his vanity and
his conscience is clear to go ahead,
because he frankly told her he wasn't
fvaa CnoI mon
TO Have, often are funda-
To Hold mentally good.
with no .evil in
TO Let 90 tentions. Life has
taught them to
take their pleasures where they find
them, ito have, to hold and in time
let 60"
The average woman is incapable
of such philosophy When her af-
fections are aroused thoroughly she
can not tear them loose without in
tense agony Neither is it possible
for her to live happily when the
man she loves is bound to another
woman. She feels cheated de-
frauded of her birthright and. bit
terness results.
The married man is particularly
dangerous to the girl without emo
tional attachments, because he
knows more about women than his
unmarried competitor, He has
learned from actual living with a
woman what approach will be re-
ceived most favorably. He is bet
ter disciplined and knows which of
his masculine reactions to keep
safely hidden in the background
The susceptible young girl has lit
tie chance to pro-
tect her own heart He's Too
IN his practiced W;eo fo.
hands.
The situation as the Girl
YOU describe it
has a dangerously innocent sound.
No doubt you are quite sure that
yoN enjoy the complete mastery of
your emotions and are highly I'M
likely to find yourself in the predic-
ament of which I have warned YOU
But take it from me that the safest
prevention of future heart break is
to let married men strictly alone.