The Northwest enterprise. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1931-1952, 1932-02-25

Instead of being happy and trusting, |
they usually are disagreeable and
suspicious of every move that is
made.
If this young man isn't fond
enough of you now, to take yon
around even a little bit, I am afraid
his wife would have ample time IN
which to get very. very tired of
looking at the wallpaper in your
own home If he has ambition
enough to provide the home.
II | were in your place, | think
would look for a new boy friend.
TWO GIRLS-What are you gain
ing If you girls do marry those
boys. without the consent of your
parents? The boys aren't able to
support you: and that fact means
that you will have to fall back on
your parents in the end. "1ndepend-
enee" is all very we'll when you
have something to back 1t up with;
but in your case, I'm afraid its
rather out of the question.
Ellis excuse appears just as
WOTIHieSh DIS HIS buS HtoAioiis anu bOAi
indicate a lack of proper respect fol
/, YOU Under such conditions, marriage
might mean nothing but misery fol
both you and him, for you would b.
- in constant terror lest some othe
:, woman attract him more than yo'
, do. Better stick to the old conven
p tions-they're pretty good after all
q and they're so safe.
DON JUAN-No doubt your PAL
ents would much prefer to have
home of their own; but inasmuch a
that is impossible and it will b
necessary for you to make honi
for them. at least you should stai
married life with a wife who Is viii
st ing to be a daughter to them, an
n who will welcome them into he
ID home, and not make them feel lih
a. rank outsiders. If you do your pa
Ell now, there will be no regrets III II
after years. Plenty of other CIR
X who will be only too glad of u
home you can give them, even vii
i'll the conditions that go with it.
ed MISS SIXTEEN - Most of yol
III friends undoubtedly know that VI
don't dance, and therefore il TIL
take the trouble to invite you
their parties, you may take 1t 1
granted that they want You for yc
company, and that they enjoy ha
ing you with them. Accept the
yitations by all means, and ha
good fun with all your friends, a
,er don't be silly enough to refuse to
he to another party just because y
ITO don't dance. Even If you'd ne,
nd seen a dance floor, | have an Id
,e- you could execute some of the dam
DIV as well as those who do consit
not themselves quite expert in the art
md dancing.
i've
D PEG-If this young man is HI
,vo ing his good times as he writes y
mn he Is, | can scarcely blame you
,+n not caring to answer his letters. "
/, i he inclined that way when you KIN
,,f him-or do you think he has cha
ed? 1t is barely possible that he
lust writing these things in I
Just to see what you will say.
the other hand he may have fal
into undesirable company; you
-. probably judge before long which
NIL the case. Knowing him as you
YOU can decide whether a letter
him now and then would do
good written in a pleasant, CHI;
way. Tell him the sort of things
are doing, mention some especi
interesting article or book you h
ado read - and without appearing
'ad- preach, show him that you are
lex interested In any but worthw
hill things. Write to me again in
alt, weeks, for l shall be interested
add knowing how you succeed.