The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1931-12-11

NOulu any QUIET lTieIlQ anu SEE
what she has TO say in this column.
Dear Jane Jordan-I read your column
every night and sure enjoy It, I would
like TO speak to Young Girp' through
your column. I am interested in her
case because it is similar to mine. Young
Girl" you aren't alone for I am with
you. was called queer. But I have de-
cided the ones who called me that didn't
amount to much. The same with your
young man.
You'll find others more interesting as
you get older. Don't yisld to any Of them,
no matter how much you love them. They
will think more Of you II you don't
year ago I went with a fellow two
months and he tried to be too familiar
found I really didn't love him after all.
Three months later I met another and
went with him nine months. He drank
and I tried to get him to stop. When
he made love to me. he said Whats the
difference, we're going to be married, any
way" explained the difference and we
quit
Now he is trying to go with my girl
friend. Shall I tell her what he is like
or let her find out what he is for herself?
Please may ask another question?
Three different times q young married
man, a stranger. has taken me to work
just as an act of friendliness Should I
accept any more or not? I never see him
any other time. I know you will help me
as you have helped others.
DEAR B. B. B.-Thank you for
~ your advice to young Girl"
who would do we'll to write again
and tell her reactions to the interest
and sympathy her letter has
aroused.
In answer TO your first question:
1t never pays to speak i'll of any
one. If you have nothing good to
say it is always best to keep still,
unless you are asked. Besides, you
seldom receive any thanks for your
pains. The other girl is Just as
apt as not to think you are a cat, or
that it is case of sour grapes on
your part.
The young man will reveal his
own character in the course of time
and if she is a girl of any discrim-
ination she will soon find ont all
she needs to know.
A knocker never a KnockaY
is liked, even when
the knocking is Can't Be
justifiable.
In answer to Popular
your second ques-
ton: If the young married man
is not a masher, what earthly harm
is there in your riding down town
with him occasionally? 1 have been
given lift many times by strangers
and appreciate the courtesy very
much, especially on a rainy morn
ing.
l have been amazed at the stories
men tell of how wome snoot them
when they are kind enough to offer
a lady a time-Saving ride to work.
1t is a commentary on the conceit
OF women who believe that the
slightest courtesy from a strange
man indicates that he has designs
on their virtue.
once a man know saw a mid
dle-aged woman waiting for
street car in the rain. She was the
most unattractive, Observation-Disclosures
ing creature you could imagine, but
his chivalry got the better of his
dlstaste and he addressed her cour-
teously, Madam, may I offer YOU
rlde?" She turned on him with
Jury IN her Watery eyes and said,
How dare you! I
Don't Think am not that kind
of woman!"
lie S crazy Women simply
can not believe
About You that men are ca
pable of an imper-
sonal diSint rested attitude toward
them. If these women were afraid
of being held up and their pocket
books looted, that's understandable
In this lawless era it is risky to ride
in automobiles with strangers. But
when it is merely a silly overeStimate
of their own physical magnetism,
they only succeedsin making them
selves ridiculous.
In your case, commend your eau
ton because you are so young. It
is cheering to hear from a young
girl who is careful about her con-
duct.
Dear Jane Jordan-For the last year I've
been having dates about three times a
month with young man two years my
senior. I've f9llen heels over head in love
with him, about a month ago, he
just quit -ling me up or seeing or writ
ing to me. feel he doesn't want to buy
me Christmas present. He's just cheap
Do you think so?
He works and has a good position. I'm
in love with him and hate to give up his
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