The Indianapolis times., 1930-04-18
WUes Want
More Than
Mere Home
BY MARTHA LEE

About the safest guide ia our
treatment toward others IS to do
INTO others as we would have them
do unto us. II We would rigidly
follow this adage, a lot of hurt
feelings and crushed spirits and
broken hearts would be avoided.
A husband who has an idea in
his mind to cheat on his wife would
do well to consider, before he took
the step. Just how he would react
u his wife we're contemplating a
similar step.
For some reason married men
have the idea that they are the only
ones who start yearning for TO-
nance after five or more years of
marriage. You'd think they had a
corner on all the heart hunger in
the world
Women are Just as eager for ad-
Fsnture, lust as hungry for love and
romance as men. And when they
don't get it in their homes they are
sust as dissatisfied as men ever
dared be.
Girl Is Very Foolish
1t isn't fair for men to take their
added advantage Of being out in the
business world, in contact with
people. A great many men have
the idea that if they provide their
wives with a legal married name, a
home, furniture. and a few children
20 take up their time they have
done their duty toward them. They
seem to think that a woman'S desire
for the attentions Of a lover dies
after five or ten years of married
life.
And so they feel justified in giving
these attentions to others, outside
their homes.
The girls who allow married men
70 shower them with attentions
however, innocent they may SEEM
are doing themselves and their sex
an injustice. If the girls are lucky
someday they will be wives them
selves.
Here If any place the wisdom OF
doing unto others as you would have
them do unto you is shown. A girl
who will accept little attentions
from a married man, knowing he Is
a married man, is very foolish. A
girl who finds she has been ac-
cepting the attentions of a man
already bound legally to another
woman is unfortunate.
Told Wife of Love
A girl, under these last circum-
stances who continues to accept at
tentions from such a man is blind
ing herself to the despicable traits
such man must have in his
character.
Dear Miss Lee:
an very deeply In love with a married
man. He is as much In love with me.
n was too late. after I learned he was
married. to forget him. He has been
away from his wife for several months,
not because OF any domestic difficulty but
because his work called him to this city.
ae has always, and still does. support his
wife and their small adopted child. whom
he loves very much.
OF his own voltion the other day he
wrote his wife and told her about his
having fallen in love with me. and asked
her to release him from his present bond,
that he may be free TO marry "the one
EiTi he loves more than all else in the
world"
To this. as I have at all times. 1 re-
mained silent. for fear OF influencing him,
although he knew I was UNHAPPY as things
we're. He said he could not 90 on living
q dual life. ahd vet he could not forget
me not give me up.
If his wife answers this letter. refusing
so gran. him divorce. should 1 give
MIN up or make a fight for him? We
surely know our own minds as he is 80
and am 27 I know I will make him
unhappy If refuse to see him again and
! an afraid / will make her unhappy II
do. And I myself constantly am
unhappy because the man love legally is
bound to another.
ELAINE
Fundamentally the man is pretty
caddish, don't you think, to have
allowed you to fall in love with
him, thinking he was a single man