New Britain herald., 1930-12-15

| "dS, Nno NOuIQn give III 10 the
 girl who was d member of sorority
 or club, because she would be low
 cred in class, popularity, and be-
 come a back number. She wasn't
 going to do that. She would compete
 with that higher cIassed girl. the girl
 who could afford 10 belong 10 d
 sorority. I'm not convicting you
 girls, I'm only trying to prove to you
 what fools you are becoming. How
 ignorant you are Of what outsiders
 have in mind. How foolish your pranks are, and how they will effect
 you later. Boys will be boys They
 take everything and give nothing.
 They take girls but for the main
 purpose Of necking. One night it's you the next night another. They are mad in their lovemaking more so, because the girls respond so fuently 10 caresscs. Think Of the married
 ones. They all picked a nice, quiet girl, on4 who IS decent, and 4 good
 wife, q home loving girl. All these ! hot mammas are left for the Old ! Maids association. Yes, they marry, some of them, but their lives are all shattered and wrecked because they know the ones they really could have loved have gone and married sensible girls. They perhaps end m
 divorce, and then hide their real sorrows. their suffering is hidden, d l life of pretending is begun.
 4 girl can drink, smoke, and pet
 but pity the better. She loses the sweetness Of the real thing, loses all its rapture, She is the girl who IS willing to sit down on any ones knee and pct. That's the high school girl, always fearing shed lose q boy 1 friend, They seem 10 pride in boys. Each girl must have { strlng ot irI- 1 lows or she is conscious that she tisn't popular. In classes she makes up and tries 10 make the man teach CT fall for her. If he smiles she boasts to her chuns how easy the teacher fell for her. But what dId ! that exquisite man teacher fall for? What was his reason for Slnillng | It was not because he fell for her. Simply because SC saw in front Of him a brazen, conceited little yamp. l A girl who carries her brains ln ihcr feet. She missed her studies 5u order 10 have the opportunity To : stay after school and be alone With tho teacher. But he was a man or knowledge and who had seen hordes Of girls who were such as she. Really its pity to denounce High school girl but ! know all this Is true and 90 does she. Tn fact were 1t not the shame aud disgrace Of names, ! q name five or six who are continuing 10 do so yet. Speaking ot SnobbN girls and stuck k-uppishncss III say they are. There isn't one ot them who doesn't consider herself boauN- ful, who does not make an attempt to catch every boys eye. may take some of that back, and say most ot them, for there are very few who don't.
 Those girls that belong 10 sor- orlty especially. They try to ouido the others. Each one tried 10 riss above the other. Nice clothes, per manents, narcotics, facials, If they had 10 drudge to get them, ln order 10 boautify themselves. One gil note Urotcs that the money spent for summer cottages, etc, docs not come from their parents, but from th'm- selves. Where do they get lt? They arc not working, they have no bus band to work for thcIu-where does it come from? Their parents o' course, Each parent think ot lhs child in the best way, and tries 10 supply her with everything she or he didn't have in their childhood, even deprivlng themselves consider ably inst in order to please thclr children. Often it means great sac rIicc. but do they think of It? No' N's only their own grcedness they are looking after, 1T one girls has new dress the other is never at peace .until ahc secures one also, They eH- erciscs pouer-but are very weak. noticed one wrote that the girl who refuses 10 pet and give q guy break is out like a light l happen 10 De one Of them. Yet to my amusement l can contribute at least 1J boys who l still chum around with. They say q man never comes back If the girl doea not pet and obllgdte them for their company. To my kno"l- edge they come back more stronger than ever.
 A man speaks very often Of the girl who is high hat who will pet and do any thing. Ambitious Is one of these girls. You must pet, enter tain and even give the fellow ride home, says she. You poor girl, life must be Unbesrable 10 you. You also speak Of old days, old 1oeN Have you no shame, child? No pride? That old togy was your mother. In those days she had many men waiting on her at night She was the sweetest woman in ere ation. She was your mother, she had cleverness enough to cnsuarc him in a decent and clean way drag him 10 the altar and bring you up. You should stop and reconsider who you call fogies, Mothers day was good
 
 you 10 be suCh' but she finds you're not going 10 be 50 and is sorry but tries 10 hide her fears.
 Parents send their children 10 school to Use their brains and learn something But their minds avert 10 things not worth it. Your parents don't know what goes on, you are always clever enough to manage to keep if away from them. It's cinch 10 tell d high school girl, she has lot Of warpaint, flashy clothes, and q nose stuck high in the air They fairly shout-"B Beautiful ain't r." No one cares. It's the nice de- cent and respectable girl that gets the man. She doesn't smoke, drink or pei she is clean. She s healthy.