The Washington times., 1929-07-17
M MAkIN(T. ROMANCE LASI ~ By Bear
Noted Love Authority On
Ethical Problems
By Beatrice E Fairfax
. AatherIty % PrOhlems q Love and Mariar.

tomorrow. What Is the result?
Betty thoroughly enjoys herself,
and this makes her vital and in
teresting. She doesn't dream about
the man she shall one day love,
or work up romantic sentiment
over every man she meets. But
in her practical way she likes
folks and brings out the worth
while. companionable side of boys
she knows.
Naturally Betty is loved be.
cause she is 50 irresistibly lovable,
interested and interesting. And
she has sense enough to appre.
ciate Joe. who wishes to marry
her Just as soon as he finishes
his night university course in ac-
counting and gets his promised
raise at the office.
Betty knows from experience
that Joe Is sensible. serious, de-
pendable, worthy OF girls inter
est and love. The two are likely
to make a sound, congenial sue
cess of their marriage. because
both are inclined to make the
most of today's comradeship and
love and neither expects the ro-
mantle impossible of tomorrow.
Cultivate, with all your might
and ability, today's pleasant COM
radeship, good friendship, court.
ship, love. Maye the best OF your
marriage. today-now! Then you
will be building we'll for tomor'
rows romance and need NOT
worry. The great universal law
of progress and growth. over
which you have no control, which
governs the harvest and the
Towering of the rose, Will give
happy fruition to your romance
and marriage, as 1t win to your
garden, provided you do your
part weil--plant suitable seeds,
water the ground, uproot weeds.
Playing the piano well requires
daily hard practice. Shirk the
daily practice and what awfal
discords you will produce when
you try to play! Give to your
marriage the hard work. clever
thinking. practical efforts 1t re-
auires each day and you should
create q lovely, soul-satisfying
harmony.
Light.heartedness. praise that
might be flattery were it less
sincere, absolute neatness OF dress
and grooming will help keep to-
days friendship and love. gay.
companionable. satisfying.
You live this moment once.
Today In yours, Stop dreaming
of tomOrrow's perfect; thrilling
romance, forget yesterdays fall
ure Of love. Enjoy today's at
lection and friendship, earn fun
measure of JOY and love nowl
81 told myself that when I
married, all my worries and eft.
forts to attract would be over"
a successful wife confided to me
the other day. so after the
honeymoon | relaxed into rather
sloppy clothes, stopped powder.
ing my nose, ate all the choco-
lates and whipped cream l wished
and didn't worry about charming
my husband.
THE first thing / knew he was
looking with interest at flappers.
1A6u 4 GGd44ACu tAdG IL WAAHC0
for success In love and marriage
I would have to earn it each day.
so l began amusing and enter
tanning my husband, took fresh
interest in fashion, made our
home not only comfortable and
restful but stimulating. I find it
Is never possible to sit down lazily
and take things easily. Love
has to be won and rewon every
day."
When we learn that We must
take our loved ones as they are
or lose them altogether, and that
they are just as eager to make US
over as we are to improve them.
we begin to improve our own dis
positions, escape much of the
mental friction of marriage and
enjoy wholeheartedly, loves NOW!