Brownsville herald. [volume] (Brownsville, Tex.) 1910-current, 1929-01-10
Spare the Brush and Spoil the Soft Beauty of Your Hair
Advice to Girls
BY Annie Laurie
n ANNIE LAURIE.

nEAR ANNIE LAURIE:
~ wM you kindly advise me on
q Husband that doesn't trust his
wife"
We have beer married four
years and have a boy not two
years cid yet and a baby coming
in April.
Ny husband declares he loves
ms. He can't do enough for me.
bus thls one thing Is certainly
making life miserable for me.
/ don't know what ne wants.
an . good wife, saving, clean.
q good mother. and ! have to bear
al this. Why2
When he comes IN / don't know
what 10 expect. He says ne ees
the fellow 7 used 10 10 out with
before / vas married, In front Ct
our home In his car. ard when he
espiss ms husband coming he steps
or the FEs. ana arrives away.
RE accuses ne OF going out with
him IN his car. ne ssys l have HIM
IN the house after he leaves.
when my husband comes IN he
goes al through the house. looks
cut tho wladuTs. ] suppose 5or
fha boy friend. What VII | do7'
He IL making life miserable.
THh lac what re do and ] will
try whatever you say.
can 90 anyw here unlss~ he
follows me. HELENE.
HELENE: From the tone OF your
II letter. IL seems to me that al
ON time On other your husband
has had cRuss 70 doubt you. or
course. ] an not making a definite
statement o. tnls. but from the
Thugs you say this = the impress
$40 1 have gained. However. I may
be entirely wrong. You know. my
dear. that jealousy is more or less
a disease. Some people arc born To
10 through Ike doubling everything
and everybody. Nothing 10 ;tcir
distorted viewpoint. is right or fine
or true. sometimes Il from
the knowlcoEe that they themselves
ara ~ thI- nature. and therefore.
cannot believe That any virtue exists
Ia anyone. Pat enco and lots 81 II,
seems 10 b~ your only remedy. Don't
quarrel and argue with your hus-
band when ~ makes these absurd
-eccusat!ons. for this only inflames
the jealousy ard fans tie spark or
suspicion. Sometime try laughing
md agreeing with everything he
SAYS. Make him appear rather
ridiculous bv laughing AZ him. FOR
no a ant 70 be thought absurd.
Sometimes this VIII effect a sure
cure. Meanwhile. sae 20 II that YOU
do everything you can 10 avoid
nroussng his suspicion. When you
Eo ont. ask him 10 accompany Won
Suggest absurd things when nc
starts 70 search the house. Ask him
II he has looked under thu beds ard
IN this closets and under the rugs.
By NoI name you n show him
you ara laughing az him. while YOU
sctuaily are keeping an absolute
poker face" For the sake OF your
baby. you will have m be patient
and bear with him. Fee. SORRY for
him. Show him sometimes that ven
are sorry for him and that VIII make
him nader than ever. n. thns he
viii find that his suspicious are IN
founded and YOU WIZ see a gradual
~lssseninK Of the tension.
All this may sound like 50 much
hosh. hut my dear. YOU'D r. sur
prised how Il VIII work. Kee1 your.
self and your house above renroach
as 10 appearance. Meet him with A
smile and Dc always the laughing
sweetheart whom he firEt knew
rather than the harassed wife. And
when no starts his accusations. keep
quiet, agree with hun and let him
know that you arc treating thu thing
as a joke. And good luck 10 you