The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1929-10-17
Girls Should
Not FLannt
Their LOOe
BY MARTHA LEE

Il is always mistake TO wear
ones affections like a banner, for
when they become worn and shabby,
one is not allowed 10 forget the
fact that one once Haunted them.
A man, for some reason or other,
fears pursuit. He prefers TO do what
pursuing there is 10 be done, and
insists upon this preogative. There
are exceptions TO this rule though.
and you will find some men who are
Ilsttered by a little attention, VINO
enjoy sitting back and accepting all
advances. This type is very rare,
and not admirable particularly.
When a woman is in love, she is
Syumune TO any thoughts, ideas and
plans that do not in some way con-
Germ him" Her whole day is taken
MP with remarkable day dreams and
tnterminable lengths of time occur
between meetings.
Ideas RevoIve Around Him
It is impossible for her TO un-
derstand how her lover can bear to
b. parted from her for so long, or
why he doesn't phone her more
often He is her whole life. All
plans revolve around this nucleus.
Where she will go, what she will
wear, and what she will do, depend
on his proximity to her destina-
ton
A man in love is the same normal
creature OutWardly. although men
tally in the same turbulent mood a
woman.
1t usually is difficult proposition
70 get" a man when he is inter
ssted thoroughly in a particular
woman. The sggressor has to be
very fascinating, for men in a rut
TO their liking are contented more
or less and dislike to break away.
The majority of men are true to
their wives or sweethearts, despite
tales TO the contrary. and with
little effort on their part should not
Be hard 70 handle.
Dear Miss Lee would like to have
your aovioa. am not bad looking and
! am rather quiet. I DO not smoke or
drink. I have been going with nice
young boy. and thought great deal more
Of him than / should have.
He had been going with girl and they
he'd quit. We went together about four
months. then had quarrel. He had told
RE he never would 20 back with this girl.
Bot IN the last week I have s. n him in
hsr company. She puts herself in his
company 50 plainly that the neighborhood
notices IL.
am older than she is and I work.
She still Is in school. She told her friends
that she did not love him. but liked his
ear. really love him.
have not seen him TO talk to for
sssrly four months. I have plenty of
chances 10 20 out with other boys. but
can't get intereste. What is the matter?
ETsrytninE Jennings remind m, me OF him I'M Is there
would like him back. without letting him
know how much I love him?
II seems q shame that you can
not forget this man, because he
shows so obviously he cares for the
other girl. His statement that he
never would go back to her simply
vas a defense reaction. He must
have been interested all the while,
because the first chance he got he
did 90 back.
Keep Him Puzzled
II will be hard to get him back,
but II you are determined to do so,
you must force yourself into his
consciousness in some way. Having
done this, be cagey. Let him think
you care for him, then show him by
your attitude that you don't. Do
anything to keep yourself on his
mind. If you can puzzle him, You
have interested him and your fight
is half over. Once you are on his
mind, definitely, endear yourself tc
him, so that he will think Of you,
end often.
Don't let his girl know you are
on the warpath though, or she will
be on the lookout and make things
unpleasant for you. Map out your
campaign and play your hand alone.
Don't confide in anyone, because If
you do fail. you will have made
Yourself ridiculous.