The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1929-06-14
Don t Pursue
En-. That Is
Fatal Plan
BY MARTHA LEE.

no good anyway, not much) TO give
inst plain, cold FLOODED advice 70
Youngsters. They isten TO it, shake
their heads sagely, say it all sounds
very logical and well-reasoned, and
turn right around and do what
they want, which seldom is, If ever,
what has been advised
But Just give them a parallel
within the realm Of their own eX-
perience to draw from, and they
look at things differently. What
happened to their great aunt MIN
ME when she happened to gaze too
long into the eyes of a strange man
never will f1utter cheekward the
Iashes of a modern Diana.
How Maud Muller was deceived
by the squire's son is not apt to
be particularly weighty these days.
Nodernity has advanced, even into
the realms of advice.
Insist on Pursuit.
Even concerning the lesser prob
lens this holds true. For instance
these letters which come from girls
who want to know what to do when
their very best beaus become tepld,
and sometimes even stone-cold.
You could tell them till the COWS
come home that love goes running
when he is chased and it seems to
90 absolutely no good. They agree
that it is very possible that love
cOe- 90 running when he is pursued
ana turn right around and seek him
out with a vengeance.
have two letter from two young
g.1I relating different clrcum-
stances, but the same answer fits
them both. That often happens.
Dear Miss Lee. I am a girl in my late
teens. For several months I have gone
With q fellow. He is not the least bit
good looking. but anyway I fell in love
with him. He said he loved me and
asked me to 20 steady with him did
until five weeks ago.
Friend Doesn't Like Her
Nov he has a friend who didn't Ike
ne much.
one night I had date with my boy
friend and he stood me up. It was the
FIRST time he ever had done anything
Ike this. so 1 was willing to forgive him.
but he did not come back to be forgiven
Finally I decided to call him up He
was very pleasant and friendly. but he
did not come over.
cannot forget him. DO you think
This other boy who does not like me. and
who is very good friend OF my boy
friend. could have had anything to do with
this9 I had q date with this other boy
before I knew the boy I am in love with
The other night I saw him again. And
all the love 1 have for him has come
hack. -,.,,--,,r,ot,r,-
Dear Martha Lee: am 10 and have
been going with a man, 81. for three
years. He never asked me to 90 steady
with him. but I liked him so much 7 did
not care to go with other boys. He went
away about three months ago to work.
Last week he came back to spend several
Didn't Even Say Good by.
The FIRST day I saw him in the after
noon and evening Ny girl friend was
with us and he paid more attention to
her than he did to me. got a bit peeved
and when he left that night he said
nothing about seeing me any other day
while he was home And ne didn't. He
even left without saying good-by. What
shall do to win back his love?
SAD EYES.
Both of you should sit tight and
do nothing. You like these boys
better than the others because they
are Indifferent and independent.
The boys will like you better for
possessing the same qualities.
Another thing, boys do not like
girls who moon over them, any bet
ter than girls like boys who go
hanging around with calf-eyes after
them. Get out and give them
a little competition to worry about.
They may not notice at first, but
they will after a while.
Heart Broken" it might be a
good idea for you to learn to know
YOUR boy friends boy friend better
while you are not going with him.
There may be ways Of making prog
ress through that acquaintance
ship.