The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1928-03-19

is more satisfying than being
rid OF more than bad bargain.
She believes that if she can not
have this man the other woman
can not have him either.
In answering this question, my
advice is to divorce the deserving
husband. A man of this sort has
SO little regard for any one besides
himself that the second wife will be
in far worse situation than the
first wife, who at least has her free
dom.
Another point, when a woman
has closed a chapter in her life, even
though she had to kill the love she
had for some man, the hurt is far
less than the one felt by the woman
who keeps the affair alive by re-
fusing to divorce the man she loves,
but who has not been loyal to her.
Dear Miss Lee: I am coming to you
for advice. Nine months ago 1 went to
my mothers to spend the day. When I
had left me and filed suit for a divorce
He had gone to live with a woman and
nvea with her as man and wife. They
face.
band for nine years, loved him and was
him feel as though have stood ta0 quite quite
had no grounds. This woman has broken
UP three homes and no one has tried to
stop her because she has money to back
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sue her or give him a divorce and let
him marry her and let that be his punish
ment,. or should I let them make a fool
out OF me. Thank you for your advice.
LONESOME WIFE.
Dear Lonesome Wife: The best
thing for you to do is to get a di-
vorce with alimony. You are en-
titled to support because after your
leading the life of a housewife for
nine years your earning powers have
decreased. You would be very fool
ish to stay tied to this man who
is doing all in his power to hui
initiate you
Being still his legal wife, if you
were to die he would be able to
make claims on your estate, which
know you would not want to hap
pen. This woman probably will
give him enough unhappiness if he
marrieS her, so perhaps he will find
out that the woman who broke up
three homes is not capable of
keeping her own intact.
Perhaps when you are rid of this
man and have regained your free
dom, you will meet some other man
for whom you might learn to care
and who might make for you the
sort of a husband every woman
wants.
Dear Miss Lee. SIN l5 DO you think
ase too t9 have Ne d2eS if do not
posed to girls my age keeping company
with fellows. I enjoy going out but
am going against my fathers '' wishes sfi sii9'
Another thing. Miss Lee, I run around
with a girl year, older than l. She
think she @d houg fus She SG IS not Se b9d
Do you think I should drop her because
Just what she is? BOATS
Dear Boats: You are too young
to be having dates and I we'll I'M
derstand your fathers reluctance to
Pe1lIl4G yOu 10 run AROUND. How
ever, I think that ar occasional
party or private dance or perhaps
a show now and then are all right
Tor a girl your age to attend.
You see, Boats, a girl who goes
out when she is still so young be-
comes very hard" and unattractive
in a few years because she saw all
the thrills before she had the men
tai balance to adapt herself to them.
Your father understands this and
that is the reason for his very SEN
Sible rules.
DO not go with this girl of whom
you wrote me. You are too young
to be championing the cause OF any
girl who has a sordid reputation.