The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1928-02-23

Though every girl will say
the only factor in her decision
as to whom She chooses for a
husband, still with modern
prices as high as they are,
many a girl feels the call of the
god Moloch to tempt her into de-
Gliding against the dictates of her
heart.
can not say too much against
the folly of marrying for anything
but love. I hear SO many stories of
unhappy marriages that should
stress constantly that love is the
only sure way of making marriage a
success. Where there is love, you
know, there are the wonderful quail
tiles of tolerance, forgiveness, ap-
probation and consideration, quail
tiles that are absolutely necessary
for the happiness of the husband
and wife.
Remember girls, that material
things are so fleeting. We have them
today and tomorrow they are gone.
Love remains and though perhaps
I shall be accused of sounding ideal
istic, after all, love is powerful
enough to last through any trouble
that may arise later on.
Dear Miss Lee: There are two men yh4o
nave proposed TO me and l am FORCED to
this sound silly. Miss Lee, do not know
which to take though really love one
ond has rf mone S' shd 5 s eh me-
that it is Just as easy to love rich man
iayo R} oor oB man. feP Perhaps t is but III
works for a fairly adequate salary. but I
honestly doubt i he eyer will be a success;
and pay his bills, but his bills will have
to be small ones
I am not a frivolous girl and think !
Wealth in iS SPITE Of What my friends advise
Please. give me your opinion on this
Dear May; Constantly I am adj
vising readers to suggest to their
well-meai1ipg matchmaking friend
that if the friend had to live with
some man whose stock she is boost
ing, she perhaps would be less eager
to have him enter matrimony. 1t
is easy enough for one to tell you to
marry for money, but that advisor
has never known what it is to have
to live with a man who means no
more to you than a check book.
There is no pleasure in buying
pretty things if wife has no love
for her husband. She cares little
whether or not he likes her new
gown when he comes home in the
evening. In fact, life itself loses
most of its zest if a woman is forced
to live with a man she does not
love.
Take the man you love, May. You
will never regret it.
Lonesome: My dear, it seems the
hardest thing in the world for
young girl to realize that a young
man stops going with her most
times for the simple reason that he
realizes that he does not care for
her seriously and he has too much
manhood to ruin her chances for
finding a good husband There is
something about the psychology OF
girls that they hate to relinQuish
former beau. A young man will
philosophically pass off an unsuc-
cessful affair and will Immediately
start looking for new sweetheart
while a girl continues to regain her
lost "love."
That is my advice to you. There
are many other young men just as
charming as this young man who
has stopped coming to see you. Do
not write him or try to see him.
Let him reopen the friendship if
he cares to do So Anyhow, Lone
some, you said you did not love
him, so why worry about it?
j. A. S.: I am sorry, but am
too busy to send you personal
reply. I really think you love this
young man and you know that most
young men say that any girl can get
the man she wants if she wants him
bad enough, providing, of course,
there is certain amount of attrac-
ton between the two. Perhaps that
will give you some encouragement.
Young man is very peculiar, you
know. Sometimes he will rush
girl "frantically" as my young
friends say. and then suddenly he
win leave for a month or more
without even telephone call.
just from your letter, I should say
that he will be back to you. He has
dated you for a long time and I
wager that his dating this other girl
is just a temporary affair. Perhaps
he wants to see what all kinds of
girls are like. Men are curious crea-
lures, j. A. S. Cheer up, and ain
sure you will not be disappointed.
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