The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1928-02-07

difficulties OF which my corresp'
To make possible the exc
leaping into matrimony, 1 conSt
marriages because I understand
knows about the sort of life
partner he or she desires. Other
cases of impulse leading to I'M
happiness are young men and
women with mature minds who
meet with some one new and be-
fore giving the matter serious con-
sideration run off, marry and then
quarrel because they are unsuited to
one another.
Selflshness Of the husband or wife
Is certain to throw discord into the
home. With selfish mate, the
harassed partner must cultivate
Machivellian qualities If ever the
marriage is to be a success. How
ever, by scheming and planning, the
selflshness of this husband or wife
can be overcome, but this takes
much cleverness and flnesse.
False pride is such a ridiculous
thing and so easy to overcome that
it Is unfortunate that it causes so
many troubles between husband and
wife. Lack Of consideration for the
feelings of ones partner also Is
very simple fault to overcome be-
cause many, many times this lack
of consideration really hides a great
love for the one whose feelings are
hurt.
It is the duty Of every husband
and wife who realize that quarrel1ng
Is running their domestic felicity to
analyze the situation and get to the
direct cause Of the trouble. When
the cause is discovered, try every
means to remove it before giving in
to the last resort, divorce.
Dear. Martha Lee; I am a young wife,
"a, and my husband is the same age. We
works the biggest part of his time and
he tells me he. never has time to think
rel he tells me to leave. but I still keep
H Hs also tells me he sees other girls with
not mdoid date iis them them willie he and, i've to-
gether. He says he like them, but not any
T TSSSaA him for r. support; otherwise should
leave him the next time he tells me to go.
However. I have told him any time so ne
Il tbr reaoD % y SS9p think am doing 0 wrong
living with him, or do you think 1 am
doing wrong Ry ts snd him ID TO tge ae
Please answer at once for am anxious to
hear from you. WORRIED.
Dear Worrieds My opinion is
that you and your husband are both
naughty children who are "ragging"
each other. Children like to tease
and that is what you both are do
ing about this dating" idea. I
really do not think your husband has
any intention of going out with
other women and you ought to be
smart enough to realize this and
stifie your pride and frankly tell
him how much he means to you.
Of course, 1t would be wrong for
both Of you to have engagements
with other persons. Forget this and
try to make your marriage a success
by having your husband so interested
In you that he win forget all about
these other little girls, real or
fictitious, Of whom he delights in
telling you now.
snd MS s lei s love w Tss HIM orfs wasn't aP
two weeks before he asked me for, a date
toSether sO AND VcSontinued for Tires months
and during that time he claimed he loved
But as most girls do. broke a couple Of
dates With h but Re nseT e9anna Se
he did hot keep t. I have not seen or
Kindly tell me What I should do so he
will come back to me and care as She Re did
Dear Waiting: You have heard,
I am sure, the old saying about the
worm turning. This young man
probably awakened to the fact that
you had broken these engagements
with him and decided he would for
get all about you. He was very I'M
gallant to fail to keep his date with
you. IF he had been a true gentle
man he would have kept that date
and then stopped asking you for
any more.
There is nothing you can do to
win him back. If you really like
him in spite of his churlish treat
raent of you, perhaps when you
see him you can make him under
stand you are sorry you broke those
dates with him.
Are you sure that Is the reason
he stopped calling? Perhaps he
realized that you were not the girl
he wanted to marry, so decided to
stop seeing you before you fell too
deeply in love with him.