The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1928-03-10
Fen1ininitv
Still Best
of Weapons
BY MARTHA LEE

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SiSt that young woman can do just
as any young man, thoroughly dis
agree with them. When I advise
young man to follow a certain line
of conduct to solve a problem, I
certainly do not think that a young
woman in that same situation ought
to use the same method to eXtricate
herself from her difficulty.
In all her affairs girl must have
more flneSse and subtlety than any
young man. She must be smart
enough to make use of her feminine
charm for girl who knows how to
make the most Of her femininity is
the most successful in all her af-
fairs, whether they be of the heart
or the head.
In the solving of an unfortunate
situation, generally caused by a
quarrel between the girl and her
sweetheart, the only thing for girl
to do is to be amiable and stamp
out any resentment and pettineSs
that she might fet4. Young men,
you know, value a good disposition
as one of the most attractive traits
in girl.
However, it is always the young
man who ought to make the eff
forts at reconciliation. Does that
sound old-faShioned, readers? Per-
haps it does, but it really is the best
policy for a girl to follow.
Teer DirS Ear1e TINA ana vo,, n
vised a boy to send his girl friend a little
peace offering after a quarrel: I did that
before eif Ass as though he o' was partly anxious
| TO make up but after that he treated me
with contempt and said that yes, he was
| angry. NOW he passes me up without even
W Vi1ts did s that that so change himq He goes
drinks. swears and IS fast to the nth de.
pupil IN G school -. Am Shrinking violet
Here is what do not understand. Why
does he every now and then put himself
Could very veil avoid ms alto ito Then NJ
| don't speak to him because he said he was
love nj this sn bow he a aSes nG5 ass his
l have tried so hard but I can not Our
quarrel Is OF three G mS6th'y star Ss2pGi1g
Dear Good Little Girl: You GER
tainly forgot all the feminine clev-
ernesS that has been passed down
from Mother Eve when you sent
this young man peace Offering. 1t
showed you know very little about
masculine psychology. There are
very few occasions when a girl may
give boy a present and this GER
tainly was not one of them.
The best thing for you to do now
is to forget all the faults you wrote
me concerning this other girl with
whom the young man has dates
now. Remember she in an A stu
dent, and in referring to her let
this be the only fact that you men
ton.
The next thing for you to do is
to stay out of this young mans
path as much as possible, but when
you do meet, speak pleasantly.
Treat your quarrel with good
humor, and am sure it will be
contagious. Good humor usually is.
OF course, do not know whether
or not this young man will start
going with you again very soon,
but shall wager that it will not be
long before he asks you for an en-
gagement. In the meanwhile be
sure and be seen with other young
men. 1t is good point to remem-
Der.
Rosalie: Announce your engage
ment in the papers, with or without
your picture. Do not send an
nouncement cards to your friends
The society editors of the news
papers will cali you the day before
the wedding and will get the story
from you. They will say that you
were married quietly, etc
Wear an ensemble in blue, rose
green, maize or some other popular
light color. You can wear this cos
tune as your going away frock if
you do not select too elaborate a
model. You may wear a large hat
at the wedding and change to a
small one before going away or else
wear small one for both. On the
train you may carry fur thrown
or a heavier coat besides the one in
cluded in your ensemble.
Invite only the close relatives you
care to be present, your brides
maids and the best mans families.
You do not have to invite any one
you do not want, even though the
relationship is very near. Serve an
appetizer, chicken salad, hot rolls,
ice cream, wedding cake and coffee
at the wedding breakfast. 1t is GUS
tomary for the bride and groom to
slip away before the guests have
left the reception.
Peggy: 1 shall be glad to hear
from you again as your letters are
very interesting. However, why do
you not be sincere with me? I still
think you do not tell me the abso-
lutte facts about your case.