The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1928-03-09

IS the divorce court Win all
mony as the piercing tip. Most
Of these men have such small
natures that money means
everything to them; consequently
this threat to touch the pocketbook
proves most effective one.
These men with warped DISPOSE
tiors refuse to take their wives any
where, to give them any money, to
buy them any clothes, and to speak
a civil word around the home. When
the wife rightfully objects to such
inhuman treatment, the husband
tells her to go if she does not like it.
Generally there are children to be
considered, and the wife stays on
beca:" -, she has no way to sup
port the children if she were to
leave.
Let these selfish husbands find
out that they are perfectly free to
become single men again, but that
that freedom will be as costly a one
as the law allows. There is no
reason why man of that sort
should nj 40 given the same lack
cf consideration he gives his wife.
woman with children, tw99 girls and a
with life. He quarrels all the time. has
never smile and is never satisfied I'M
less i am working, He ,, never g AYES my
me what his pay is or about any of his
business affairs.
Iy do not want to do. he tells me to 90
ahead. that he would enjoy being single
talked with his parents who want him to
come home as they have coaXed him away
at different times.
Miss Lee, I do what can to stay away
from them, but they come to see him and
It is their sons house: Would YOU leave
while the children are young. or would
YOU go ahead apd live thic life?
Dear jamie May: Absolutely leave
this man unless he changes his
ways. I know it is hard on children
to have the parents separated, but
it is much more detrimental to
their characters to have them as
ISOLATED with such a contemplate
creature as this person you married.
Bluntly tell this man that you can
not stand such ridiculous treatment.
Tell him that no court in the Coun-
try would fail to grant divorce to
a woman who has been accorded
such treatment. Remind him that
alimony would accompany the
divorce. Let him see that his
bachelor life would be a very costly
pleasure, because he would be forced
to give you most of his earnings to
keep you and your children.
Dear Miss Lee: am 81 and know
charming. educated girl of 81 who wants
to marry me. She knows my income is
IL 5oSr colu fh0u In fbe fme SoDr
Dear D. E. c.: There are very
few marriages that are successful
when there is such a disparity be-
tween the ages Of the husband and
wife as in your case. Perhaps this
girl really loves you. but rarely my
dear man, does girl that age fall
in love with man old enough to
be her father.
Your letter was brief and told me
nothing of the character OF this
girl; hence my advice has had to
be general. Another thing, you did
not say you loved this girl and
wanted her for your wife. 1t would
be very foolish of you to marry her
if you did not feel that you wanted
her as we'll as her wanting you.
All in all, a situation like this
takes careful consideration. Look
long and earnestly before you leap
into marriage at your age, D. E. c.,
with a girl as young as the one of
whom you write.
Blonde: Some girls your age, Is,
do prefer to have dates" with young
men several years older then they.
However, it is not wise for you to
go with the man of whom you speak.
You had better make friends with
young men who would make good
husbands later on, because most
girls, you know, want to marry
whether they admit it or not.
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