The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1928-03-13

the writer tells now much bit
teriness the affair has aroused.
Glove affairs" can be made
such wonderful things if youth
full cases can be categorical as such
Youth has to have many Of these
little romances, for how can one be
sure which dashing young man or
charming young woman is the right
one until a small affair Of the heart
has decided the question?
Naturally, not all of these ro-
mances can come to successful con-
clusion. Quarrels, misunderstood
ings and various other things cause
an end to the affair. All the re-
membranes of the friendship be-
tween the young man and woman
are completely forgotten by the
bitterness the quarrel caused,
Stamp out this unhappy trait,
readers. Really, life is SO wonder
full that it is unfair 10 oneself to
spoil it by cherishing any charac-
teristic that overshadoWs ones
chance at happiness.
Dear Miss Lee: Until just recently I
was engaged to a young man. We quar-
relied and it ended in our breaking of the
engagement. can not stand even to see
him now and though I try to avoid him
our many mutual friends invite US both
snd We are constantly meeting. Should I
just not speak TO him or should I refuse
these invitations where / know he VIII be?
WONDERING.
Dear Wondering: 1 feel SO sorry
that you have not trained your own
character better than to react in
this way to a situation of this sort
How can you possibly be so boorish
with a young man in whom you
once had a very deep interest?
think the love you once had for
him must have been a very selfish
sort of love for you to completely
forget everything once liked about
him.
1t would be very rude Of you not
10 speak to him. Of course, if you
can not have any better control
over your feelings than to show this
bitterness you feel toward your
former flance when he is in your
presence, it would be better for you
to refuse the invitations where you
know he will be.
Why do you not try to overcome
this mean trait of yours? It just
causes you unhappineSs.
Dear Miss Lee: I have been going with
a young man two years older than I. We
lave been going together for nearly q
DANGER, nice looking and / have attractive
clothes. My. parents are liked by all the
1 love this young man better than any,
thing else in the world and would do any
thing for him, but when l ask him to 90
] go, though, he win meet me afterwards
Do you think that after we are married he
go places once in awhile? Thank YOU in
advance for this letter. TOM BOY.
Dear Tom Boy: This young man
will be just the same after marriage
as he is before. There is no reason
to think that he will change just
because he is a married man. In
fact, most men like to 60 places
much more before they are married
than afterward. Hence this young
man probably will be a stick by
the fire" sort of husband.
If that is what you want and will
satisfy you, take him, my dear.
However, you know what you are
getting SO do not expect to be taken
anywhere after you are married.
Decide this question now while you
have the opportunity. If more
young women would analyze care
fully the characters Of their frances
we would not have so many I'M
happy and misunderstood" wives.
G. H.: 1t is much easier for a
girl to live at home than to go to
some strange city and work there.
Her expenses are decidedly less and
besides that she has home life that
can not be purchased. I really
think you can specialize in your
particular line of work here, so /.
advise you to remain here.
There is no wrong in your going
with this young man il you can en-
joy yourself with someone so much
older than you. However, think it.
very foolish for you to do so because,
as you say, you never intend to
marry him and naturally when you
are dating him, you do not have the
lime to on ont with VOilOes men