The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1928-09-18
Vices, Haze
More Faith
in Husbands
BY MARTHA LEE

I do wish some one would write
about a different" problem for
change. Either the advice I give
about subjects simply does not
take" or else every one feels that
their own special problem needs
SPECIAL attention on more personal
consideration.
Which is absolutely true. Every
case is different, regardless of how
similar they may appear from the
outside. There are the differences
in character, circumstances, past
misdemeanors, ages, exterior in
fluences-oh, hundred things that
make each case an individual one.
No matter how many women
there are who have doubts con-
corning fidelity and how to treat
the matter, each case is individual
and must be dealt with as such. No
matter how many girls there are
who are in love with boys who will
not even notice them, each case Is
a separate thing to study out.
But there are certain rules that
fit these cases each and every one.
They are the rules that govern alp
life and morals-those of faith and
trust, and in most cases Just COM
mon, ordinary horse sense" that
seems to be much less common than
we are led to believe. In fact, 1t
is rare in affairs of the heart as a
black pearl, and as beautiful.
The question of who Shall
believe, my husband or my friendsP"
is the question in the balance today.
Let me tell you something, all you
have such doubts. Always give your
husband the benefit of the doubt.
Why should you believe the rawlings
OF some one who has absolutely no
interest in you or your home or your
happiness excepting for the gay
repartee it provides at the luncheon
table, in preference to the man
whose interest lies deeply in you
and your home and your happiness.
Maybe you will be duped by him,
but how much better it would be
than to be cheated out of your
rightful heritage by group Of per-
sons who have no real interest in
you.
have such a letter today:
Dear Miss Lee-I am a daily reader Of
your column, l am living with my second
husband and have been married little
have had girls ten me they have been rs go
ing out with my husband I am working.
A young girl came to me recently and
band, together with another couple in our
Snd v baa 5e9 a % wbsn TIE haa
it. He said It Was untrue that he viii
face the girl and let her tell me those
one girl under similar Circumstances and
when IL came to a shown down she backed
out Of i and said she had been lying.
foolish? Sometimes he acts rather guilty,
but am not sure that he IS SAD WIFE
My dear, yours is the Example of
the fact that circumstances alter
the answer to each question. In the
first place, since it has been proved
to you once that the accusations are
unture, why do you doubt him this
time? Could not this other girl be
telling untruths?
If you have a car, which you men
toned, it is absolutely necessary Tor
you to work? I think yours is a
case where, if working is not a
necessity, you should devote your
time to your husband and your
home. And stop being suspicious
of him. Happiness can never be
founded upon suspicion. If you
loved him and believed in him
enough to marry him, he surely
must have been worthy of your
trust. Doubling out loud often
leads to a fellow feeling that he
may as we'll have the game as the
name.