The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1928-01-14
Problem of
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Untrue Mate
BY MARTHA LEE

to answer. When wife knows her
husband is untrue to her, ought she
to leave him even though it means
the breaking up of the home for her
small children?
NO woman wants her children to
lack the advantage of having a
typical home and also fathers IN
fluence. However, when a woman
realizes her husband has grown
tired of her and prefers other COM
pany, her pride rebels at her re-
manning where she is unwanted.
1t seems to be true that many OF
these women still love their nus
bands even though the love their
spouse had for them is dead. Does
that alter the case? should ike
to hear from my readers what are
their views on the solution OF this
problem.
NV advice is for the woman to
remain with her husband. l believe
that the happiness Of the wife's lit
tie sons and daughters will compen-
safe her for the humiliation the slt-
uation brings her.
NV suggestion to these unhappy
wives is to cultivate outside interests.
The wound made by the untalthtul-
ness of a husband will seem less
sharn when a woman has new and
different things to occupy her NINA
than if she kept her sphere just
centered around her home.
Remember, wives, that many times
a man will SOW his wild oats and
then will be moro than glad to re-
turn to his faithful wife. II Woin-
an really loves man and wants
home for her children, she VIII De
willing to take this long chance OF
keeuing her home intact by remain
ing and snothering her pride. Am 1
right, readers?
Dear Martha Lee: have been marr tGo
eight years and have three chilo Ifiid Two we
girls and one Boy beSfi s q boun e Tp in
nv husband, whom I always have wor5
Shipped. and my children. MY husoanio 10
provides for us as pest n ne S can b IgS With
so nervous | can not talK WIN nliii WIN
0u About out three months ago he started run
. urdsv night and comes back on MONDAY
morning. while sit home alone. II / say
anything to him ne Just lrt says avn we near ear
ly distracted. Just recently nave hearu
there are women connected with ms Trips
from home esg H9W him Mi IN s so many lies that
I can not believe him when ne oitterE
denies that there are osner i T9en to
me, where he used to be SO loving ana
COLletueidtt' ,,.;tl, i,;,, hue si,outd
be more ' Unhappy away from him. Please
advise me what is best for me to 90
FAITHFUL WIFE.
Dear Faithful Wife: Swallow your
pride and stay with your husband.
You really love him and perhaps he
will come back after he has had
his fling. Buy some pretty clothes
and make yourself the attractive
girl you were when he married you.
Join some clubs and become inter-
ested in outside things. OF course,
YOU are tied down with four little
children, but plan to go to some
meeting at least once a week. 1t
will rest you and take your mind off
your trouble.
DO not force your attentions on
your husband. Be friendly but cool.
Tell him you can be friends even
though you are not lovers. Make
yourself be happy. know it will be
hard, but it is your only chance to
regain the love of your husband.
Lonesome M. E. D.: Do not worry.
I am sure your flancee will take
back your ring. She is Waiting a
short while before doing SO, be-
cause she wants to make her sister
believe it means nothing to her. We
do very ridiculous things, you know,
Lonesome, just to satisfy our pride.
Be patient and remember if some
thing is worth while, it is worth
waiting for. y
Broken Hearted Boy: This girl
was a child when you lett. OF
course. she has grown up now and
probably her taste has changed SO
much that she finds you are not
the one for her. advise you to
start in night school. Your spelling,
grammar and writing are very bad.
BY going to school you will be able
to get your mind off your troubles.
shall be glad to help you enroll in
some classes. Write me again if
you care to.
SCHLOSSER'S