The Washington times., 1928-11-09
Shall Sh w e d
This ] Jealous
Young Man?
BY Beatrice Fairfax
nEAR MISS FAIRFAX:

III
nEAR MISS FAIRFAX:
D do hope you will help me,
as you have helped so many
others. Please tell me what l
should do. viii follow your ad-
vice.
over q year ago 1 met young
man three years my senior
went with him until late last
fall. Then we quarreled and did
not make it up until last spring.
Now my problem is this:
NY friend is terribly jealous OF
me and at times won't come 20
see me for weeks. because l
dance more than one dance with
another boy. Now he let's me get
nv own dances, and sometimes
hasn't even the courtesy to see
that have the dance. ! never
say anything to him about this,
but Ii Is what caused our recent
quarrel
IT has been month since saw
him. but he is constantly trying
TO call / have refused so far,
but / love him SO much that IL
hurts me terribly to send him
away. He has often told me he
loves me, but think he Is too
Jealous to make me happy. You
see. he has asked me to marry
him.
During this month have gone
with Others. just to show him /
don't have to wait for him. But
somehow, I'm not happy when I
do this. No one can take Jack s
place. am good looking, a
blonde, and very popular, so I
don't have to wait for dates from
Jack.
Shall I marry Jack? is he too
Jealous to be llappy2 He is 20 and
am II. Are we too young?
Shall tell him to come back
again? Please tell me what to do.
CHERIE.
A girl who Is in love with an ex-
treme1y jealous man needs all
her love and cleverness to solve
her problems satisfactorily.
Do you love him enough to put
IN with his jealous tantrnms,
which are likely to go right on
after marriage2 Will he make
YOU happier than any other man
could, even thought he is un-
reasonable at times and despite
You win have to decide this.
question for yourself sooner or
later.
If you decide to become en-.
gagged to your sweetheart resolve
to avoid quarreling with him by
utmost tact, consideration and
common sense, never giving him
the slightest cause for jealousy.
But il you like to tease him and
make him jealous. you and he
would lead the life OF cats and
dogs together il you were mar
ried.
Are you not rather young to be-
come engaged. Cherie? If | were
you would offer him generous,
s1actful friendship for year or
4 kwo, but not to the exclusion Of
Iii other friends Later on, Il
you manage TO make the friend
ship a success, there will be time
10 think about becoming engaged.
to him. All happiness to- you
bothi
DEAR MISS FAIRFAX:
am a young woman of
q years. I have been keeping
company with a young man for
almost a year. When 81 had
known him about two months he
asked me to marry him.
thought we did not know each
other well enough, so | refused
him. have been expecting him
TO mention it again. but he never
has. He does not seem to be
quite as fond of me as at first.
! have changed my mind now
and want to marry him. Should
/ mention it to him? The only
thing that stops me is fear of
having him refuse. Recently.
told him there was something
had wanted to tell him for long
time, thinking he might take the
hint and ask me again. But he
did not, although he seems very
anxious to know what my secret
is. Should I tell him that | now
want to marry him? love him
dearly. Your reply will be ap-
preciated. ANXIOUS.
Let your friend take the initia-
tive in regard to the proposal.
my dear Ii he still loves YOU.
in due time he will ask Won
again to marry him.