The Indianapolis times., 1928-03-28

a man because it arOuses her /
the wife who becomes annoyed
husband S "to put her on" is
to cultivate the quality Of for
bearance.
Remembers, wives, many a
man expresses his love for his wife
by gently chiding her, always call
ing attention to her little oddities.
The smart wife knows that every
man is afraid to reveal just how
much he loves his wife for fear his
friends will dub him lovesick. Con-
seQuently, when she is on his mind
he feels he must say something
about her, and he will generally re-
veal this by "just look at the way
my wife plays cards or isn't my
wife lazy; does nothing all day?'
Still, all the time back of this teas
ing is real love and affection.
Everyone dislikeS the person who
fails to be a good sport" The
wife who can not take this teasing
by her husband shows that she is
egotiss because she can not bear
any remark that is not entirely
complimentary, even though she
knows down in her heart that her
husbands means it just in play.
Be glad, wives, that your huS-
bands have this boyish streak. Give
thanks that your husbands do not
treat you with indifference for that
sometimes is a sign that love is go
ing.
seven children five of them are from ten
months to ten years. As we are OF mod
crate means, do most OF my work.
thai Hs & all I cSok. g sew. msnd. Clean ana @
run after the little ones from in the
morning, to 10 O'Clock at night: / dress
and I always try to have the house clear
when my, husband comes home .,,or+
Ny husband is a good dresser, has snort
working hours and works from / O'Clock
to 8 o'clock. and then he comes home to
girls he has seen. OF course. I am tired
'and this stuff sounds perfectly. silly He
does not seem to have much interest in
the home and that, worries me. The chill
dren do about as they please as lar as he
is concerned. He stands in front OF
Miss Lee. worst worst of all. when trihing
mistake happened. he said it was due to
my laziness. That really hurt my feelings
and have cried Just about all day over 1t.
MY husband had never know what 1T IS
to want for clean clothes or anything and
then he says I am lazy.
Please advise me what to do.
TILED WIFE AND MOTHER.
Dear Tired Wife and Mother: l
know that you have so many duties
that you are completely worn out.
You have worked yourself into an
hysterical condition over a trifing
comment that really amounts to
nothing. You know yourself when
something veXes you, you aSe apt
to say most anything without any
thought behind it. No doubt this
was the way your husband hap
pened to make his comment.
You do extend lot Of energy to
make your home a success, but you
forget that most husbands would
rather have more dust and better
disposition in their wives than
spotlesS house and a nagging, bad
tempered wife.
This teasing and ''primping' OF
your husband is just characteristic
Of some men. They mean nothing
by it and I am sure if you stop
overtaxing your strength by work
ing so hard you will be able to
overlook it.
Dear Miss Lee: I am l8 and have had
several dates with a boy who is -. He
cares a good deal for me and has asked me
to 90 steady with him and give up all my
other boys friends. If I do not go steady
with him; he will not have any more
dat rif wants
come first with me and not rate. third or
fourth I like this. boy a lot but I, DO
not want 10 go steady with anyone. l told
him 1 would give him two dates week,
but he says he can have two dates week
with lots Of girls for whom he cares moth
His main reason for not wanting to date
me, at all is that he would like me more
with others. He has a stubborn and de;
termined nature and do not think could
change his mind ebout this. I really want
to have dates with him as 1 think very
very much of him. SALLY.
Dear Sally: Forgive me for print
ing your letter but it contains the
question that puzzles so many
readers. I do not believe in going
with one young man at your age
because feel that it keeps young
girl, as well as the young man, Of
course, from having ali the delight
full fun of having many dates with
many different boys, that makes
youth the gay time it should be.
There are always many ways Of
avoiding a difficulty my dear, where
young men are concerned. Why did
you not explain to him that your
parents objected to your seeing one
young man so constantly? Most
parents do object because they
know that besides the good time it
deprives their daughter of, it also
is against the rules of convention
that dictates that we'll bred young
woman does not devote her entire
time to any young man to whom
she does not intend to announces
her engagement in the near future.
Since you are too young to think
of matrimony, you see yourself that
it would not be the thing for you
to see this young man and no one
else. Of course, young men at the
age of 10 are proverbially jealous.
He will get over it as he grows
older and gets some sense.