The Washington times. [volume] (Washington [D.C.]) 1902-1939, 1928-04-28
Famous Expert
Gives Advice
to Girls
BY Beatrice Fairfax
An Authority on the Problems Of
Love and Marriage

line. They were speeding
smoothly along over white ribbons
Of highway. in Dicks roadster.
The weather was April at her
most enchanting. The scene
well. scenery--flew by so swiftly
that 1t was blur of orchards
bursting into pink bloom, and
Landscapes of the delicate green
only seen in very early spring.
Marceline snuggled down under
her soft robe and shifted eagerly
IT the cool, perfumed air. She
was happy, she felt in a roman.
tic mood
It was sweet to- know that
Dicky cared. She pondered as
10 whether she should accept
this. his fifth proposal in as
many days.
Marceline was fond of Dicky.
And because she was a young
widow Of ~ she assured herself
she would not expect the inn
possible Of marriage.
Cosnradeslnip, security, dear at.
4ection, willingness to overlook
inevitable faults and failings-
We will go wherever you want
20 20, darling--to Europe, South
America, Africa, for our honey
MOON" DiclSy was day-dreaming.
And IRENE"
Yes, Irene" interrupted Marco
line. suddenly alert at the men
tiun of her little daughter.
Irene viii. of course, be kept
ut good boarding school"
Away from me?" Marceline
questioned, incredulously. The
thought of separation from Irene
was not to be taken seriously.
.'Of course! She will have every
advantage! don't want her with
III, Marceline," he pleaded. Il
cant share you with anyone--not
even Irene"
At that moment, Marceline knew
she would never marry Dick For
she realized that he, like the man
who had been her husband, was
4 slave Of jealousy. He would
hate her baby because she adored
it.
Suddenly Marceline breathed a
deep sigh of relief because this
revelation OF Dicks jealousy had
come in time before she married
him.
The five years before her hus.
bands death had seemed to her a
nightmare. He had questioned her
every glance and smile.
.Srfey4 idalnrFGxy9
fl question 4 am sometimes
asked.
The real question is: Can love
exist with jealousy? And the an
swer is an emphatic "No!"
Love and jealousy cannot exist
together, because they are direct
opposites. and each destroys the
other. When jealousy makes it's
appearance you will have to Danish
It or love will soon lie dead. You
can uproot jealousy IL your love IS
strong. fine and wise enough, be-
cause the stronger of the two quail
ties IL bound to prevail.
Love Includes trust, but jeal.
0usly never trusts-it always fears
being displaced by rival. Love
Admires and appreciates, while
J5hlOuDH ID anu
proaehful, ready TO believe the
worst Of the one 1t claims to love.
Jealousy cannot enjoy the happi-
ness of today, fearing it may not
last. Nor is it willing to let the
object of its jealousy be happy
or free from reproach.
Love desires above all else the
happiness and welfare of the loved
jao Intteu iVaIy ar,1,r
of itself and its own desire for
absolute possession. Naturally this
emotion, the direct opposite of love
In it's nature, brings failure and
unhappiness.
A jealous woman is even resent
ful of a mans business because
1t takes his mind off her She is
jealous of his club, because II
keeps him away from her-of his
cronies, his books, his mother and
sisters. In her desire to keep him
bound to her closer and closer,
to absorb every corner of his
heart and thoughts, she strains
harder and harder at the tie that
binds him to her until finally it
snaps.
As nearly as I can figure out,
love and marriage can be attri.
buted directly to jealousy and her
twin, envy. An envious woman
cannot be happy while a friend
possesses rug. a hat, a house
a car or husband she considers
superior to her own. Tn other
words she is never happv and
seldom agreeable.
What fz fba
Ole OF jealousy, which calls itself
part OF love only 10 murder love?
rams and control the gree.eyed-
monster as you would any other
keast.
do not show jealousy even II
you feel it. If your sweetheart in,
vltes another girl to the dance.
what of it? You want him to be
happy, don't you? II he is hap.
pier with her. why stand in his
way Be good sport and a
good loser.
Learn 10 dance a little better
yourself, find "A new. becoming
way of doing your hair. visit a
beauty parior, ask yourself where.
in you failed to hold his interest
Then go to the dance yourself
dance all the dances, have a good
time and be especially sweet IA
that young man and the other
girl:
If love makes marriages, ieai
ousy wrecks them. DO not lei
jealousy wreck your romance
Drive out the greep-eyed monster
bV eultiVating truer sense oi
love with more faith appreciation
and joy. then jealousy canno'
hurt the adoring affection be
tween you and your man!