The Washington times., 1928-06-23
. o tie d Authority
Solves Love
Problem
By Beatrice Fairfax


partment store!
How eagerly we gaze at the
treasures set forth, then proceed
10 buy what we want most and
-can pay for. The price of success
IS usually hard work. Love y
bought with love. Nothing Is Tor
nothing. We cannot get without
giving.
The great quest Of youth Is
life.mate. Even when there can
be no thought OF marriage for sew.
eral years. girls and young men
subconsciously size each other up,
using keen intuition and judgment,
Perhaps they are as yet only VIM
dow shopping. But they are new
ertheless shopping for mates.
"Ol, we're just good friends,
Florence insists when questioned
about Jack. why. Jack and
are stiIi at school. We will not be
able to marry for several years
1t would be silly to become en-
gagedl"a
'The incest girl ever met" Is
the way Jack sizes UP this friend
who inspires him to his best.
am going to marry her" he adds
to himself.
.Do your Leap-Year shopping
early. . advises a well-known wit.
There are only few months
left
But even in Leap Year. why
Jump to the Inclusion that the
wav to win a man Is to propose to
him? 1t he loves you, and IS IN 9
position to marry, he will only TOO
eagerly pop the question. If
not why humiliate yourself by In.
wiling, No, thank your
Since the beginning OF time,
mans work has been to choose
The best woman for his wife. Ana
woman has been Just as busy
making herself the kind Of woman
she should be to attract the kind
OF man she wishes.
a woman adnires most the type
Sc man who is strong enough TO
dominate her and who knows what
he wants and goes after It..
man. on the contrary. Is seldom
drawn to a woman who pursues
him. The girls role Is to capt.
vate by charm and appreciation
and discourage admirers who 90
not come up TO the standard.
Blind infatuation, sometimes
mistaken for the grand passion,
q not the emotion that makes
man i good husband. Steady az
fectfon, unselfishness trustWortIll.
ness are essential.
aHe Is the only man who ever
asked me to marry him.
THAT was the surprising ana
honest confession of q young
woman who is married to rather
efupid and unkind man. Yet she
q extremely pretty and had ever
40 many important beaus. But
haealse she was pretty and had
nIenty az attention she never MADE
an effort to be really interesting
and northumberland she lost out.
a ruiet girl with less vanity, rea-
igzi4~ that a lot of shallow atten-
fian III not any particular cornph-
.,neat might be far more likely to
r,,1tivsta 8 few well-chosen friends
end marry very well, indeed.
1f course. it is ridiculous to
nolemnly consider every young
man q possible husband. Every
one prefers disinterested friend
ships. The best way to drive a
man away is to make obvious Ell
forts to lnveigle him into an en-
gagement. But 1t is very wise TO
ask yourself:
IAN I cu1tivating the friendship
of the kind of men who would
make a good husband? Or am
secretly ashamed of the standards
Of my crowd? Am I a girl
worthwhile man could adore as
sweetheart and wife?''
Be yourself. Every man feels
more at ease and happy with
girl who is genuine and natural.
Even though your dress allow
ance may be small, you can be
perfectly grooned. Buy fewer
dresses If necessary, but see that
all your clothes are kept in per-
feet condition with frequent
cleansing.
Let the wild-party crowd alone.
You can't afford to waste your
youth, energy and time in dissipa.
ton. Devote intelligent effort to
your healthful beauty, but do not
try to hide a blotched skin with
AE1J CAS Va pO"0SI anu pcAtALs
They are not attractive.
You will have plenty of oppor.
tunities-never fear-to meet eligi.
bic young men among your bust.
ness associates and their friends,
or through church or social life.
Choose your husband with some
care, IL you would be happy and
successful wife, then make the
very best of your marriage-and
make it last!