The Indianapolis times., 1928-10-08

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which the wrong? I wish all you Y
out of your marriage that you feel
you might, had seen Sunrise. Z"
There was man, who, blinded by
passion, almost ruined his life be-
cause he had come to the conclu-
sion that he had married the wrong
girl. There are not many who
would have been as sweet and
patient as the wife Janet Gaynor
portrayed, who would have forgiven
with such readiness, who would
have with sweetness and beauty of
spirit, won back from the brink of
disaster the man she loved.
Quit Too Easily
There is something heart break
ing about hearing young persons
give up so easily. There is some
thing startlingly frightening about
seeing those who have been 50 gay
and carefree and faithful suddenly
becoming doubtful of their love for
their mates. There is something
frightening about seeing affection
fly from one to another, even after
marriage has made a wife and
husband out of two SweetheartS.
Of course. there are examples of
mismating. OF course, there are
times when separation Of two per-
sons is the only thing that can
bring happiness to either. But when
that separation, that feeling Of be-
ing mismated is brought on by an
other, a third party. it is more apt
than not to be even more fleeting
than the first.
Needs Consideration
When someone, whose superiority
stands out in glaring contrast to
the girl a man has made his wife,
he should, first Of all consider the
traits, character, personality, and
sweetness that his wife has shown
him. He should remember that she
loved him enough to trust the rest
of her life to him, with the hope
that she would grow in beauty and
kindness that he might always find
something in her to love and ad-
mire.
I have pitiable letter today. 1t
may be a reason why hasty mar
riages should not be made. 1t may
be the explanation why wise folk,
or towards think so long over mar
riage that their chances are gone
5 before a decision is reached.
Dear Miss Lee: Just the same old
story which know you have heard over
and over again. I married the wrong
girl. have been married a little over
two years About four months ago I met
the girl of my dreams, the girl who
means more than life itself to me.
She is married also. but she loves me
as much as I love her. We want each
other for all time and now we want your
advice as to whether we should continue
our love affair or give all our devotion to
the ones God gave us in the holy bonds
DO you think a year and eight
months is time enough to have
Judged correctly, whether or not
you have married the wrong girl?
Has she at any time given you
K cause to be unfaithful to her?
When you married her you prom
iSed to love and cherish her the
rest of your life. Has she done
anything that justif1es your break
ing that vow? And, why, if you
love this other girl so madly, and
she you, are you both taking into
consideration the VOWS to someone
else? Is it not because you have
doubts as to what happiness you
can gain by snatching it away
from another?
Do not see each other Try to
find in your wife the things you
loved in her when you were mar
-ried to her. Try to devote yourself
to giving her all the happiness you
can. And have the girl do the same
thing for the man she married.
You could not believe her the girl
of your dreams if she caused misery
and sorrow to someone you had at
sone time loved enough to marry
Give your first marriage chance
to prove out before you think of
disSolving it and taking on another.