The Chicago whip. (Chicago, Ill.) 1919-19??, 1927-11-05

Dear Miss Holly: If a fellow
mas never called on a girl and
phones her to ask her DIS his COM
p,any to dance, do you think she
should refuse him? That is what
aid and girl friend Of mine has
told me I did wrong, SO I would
like to know what you think of
such a case. Thanking you in adj
vance, | am Brown eyes-Chicago.
1t all depends on how well you
know the young man in question.
Ii you have known him for some
time and he has never seemed in
cllned to call on you, then I should
say you were right in assuming the
attitude you did. But if he is a
new acquaintance and probably in
\ all sincerity has not had an oppor-
tunity to call, then I am afraid you
owe him an apology. We must look
at many things with an eye as to
the motive and whereas otherwise
one would consider an act breach
OF etiquette or unconventional, il
the motive is pure then the act is
accepted.
Thinking of Old Sweethearts.
Dear Miss Holly: Tonight I have
been reminiscing and thinking Of
my old sweethearts, and there
comes to my mind a pretty and
dear little girl that 1 almost
snubbed some five or six years ago.
She lives in another town and I
indirectly hear Of her occasionally
and know that she has not married
yet. | couldn't appreciate her when
l had the chance, she seemed to be
so slow and uninteresting, but now
since | know SO much about these
''wise and interesting" girls I long
to re-awaken the friendship with
this other girl. Do you suppose if /
write her to this effect that she will
answer me? Or would you go to
her town to see her, for she doesn't
live SO awful far from me and l
could go to see her very easy il
you think she would pay any atten-
toin to me. hope you can find it
convenient to answer me very soon
for somehow she is greatly on my
mind tinght. G. H.-KalamaZoo
There's no way have of telling
whether the ''little grip will reel
Nprocate the awakening Of the
Friendship or not, but l think the
\ clever thing to do would be to send
short note to the girl and tell
her you are expecting to be in her
town a certain day and if she was
going to be home free # engage
ments, you would be happy to call
on her. You might drop a hint that
you had often thought Of her and
you are hoping for this opportun-
ity o1s seeing her again. =
Demands Apology.
Deak Miss Holly: / have been
going with a girl few weeks now
and she is becoming quite prob
lem to- me to understand. She is q
nice girl and quite pretty and all
that, bat unconsciously | am always
offending her and she is always de-
man that I apologize. Now no
4 U7Tirsf has ever acted like that
with be and I am wandering
whether the fault is with we or this
girl, frankly / think it is with the
girl. Would you stop apologizing
or do you think am the one in the
wrong? I like her very much other
wise but somehow this apologlzlng
business gets on my nerves.
1t looks to me like this is clear
case of cIashing of temperaments.
think you had better confine your
attentions to other girls who are
Unaffected by your mannerisms as
this young lady is. If you care to
continue your friendship with the
girl YOU are now interested in then
NV advice would be to profit by
her corrections and keep from hav-
ir,gaIIo make apologies.
Fashion News.
II seems there is a fur coat for
everybody, regardless of the size
Of ones pocket book. The calf skin
coats are made in such clever styles
and are SO attractively priced that
mary are welcoming them into
Their |wardrobes. Caracul, which
has been very popular for num-
Der Of seasons, is still enjoying a
higI blace in favor; it is a fur
ranging greatly in quality and nee
eesariiy, in price. Some Of the near
Seals are very acceptable and are
generally quite serviceable. There
are many others and it pays the
shopper to look around bit be-
fore deciding on her purchase.