Milford chronicle., 1927-04-29

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DEAR MONA DEWES-The fellow
| keep company with objects to bob
bed hair. l want to bob mine, do
YOU think he has the right to say
what 1 shall do? I've been going
with him for almost year.
LONG-HAIRED LASSlE
ANSWER-I think the bobbinS OF
your hair is purely a personal mat
fer. and no man has the right to dc
tate to a girl about any personal
matter. OF course if you care for the
Young man, you naturally wish 10
nlease him in your appearance, ana
il is therefore a question of whether
the comfort of bobbed hair VIII on
set the disapproval of your lover
Perhaps he would be won to APPROX
al if YOU should set before him the
many advantages of bObbed hair.
MONA DEWES
&#&*$*#*
B. e. H.
DEAR MONA DEWES-I am
Girl of sixteen and am in love WIN
A fellow 20. My mother does not
like him and will not allow hlm 10
come to the house to see me. lie Is
a nice young man and has Il STEADY
lob. We have been keeping company
for nearly a year but my mother has
inst found it out. He is now work
mo in the city and it is a real task
IN set TO see him when he comes
down. What is your advice on the
matter?
ANSWER-Your mother is older
than you, B. E. H., and therefore
more experienced and better able to
iudge men than a girl of sixteen.
Moreover. the glamour of first love
affair is want to blind inexperienced
ewes to many faults. This young
cod is no doubt all that you think
YOU could wish for in the man you
would love. Apparently it has new
er occurred to you that there is
very important element lacking III
the makeup of man who Will plan
secret meetings with a girl only
sixteen years old, deceiving her mo-
ther. and casting a reflection upon
the character of the girl! This sort
of romance is perhaps very thrilling,
but it is also risky and very wrong,
and no man with the proper respect
for a girl would agree to 1t or Wish
it. If he realizes this and shows his
intentions are all right by really
preferring to be honest in the mat
ter-then he will ask your mother TO
allow him to be an occasional visit
or at your house, purely On friend
ship basis.
You are too young to give all your
thoughts to one man, B. h. H., but
a sensible mother will welcome the
right sort of boy friends in the nome
if daughter evinces sound ideas IN
such matters and can be trusted. L
am inclined to believe your mother
would do this if you show her that
you truly regret your past deceltful
behavior, and that you can be optn
and above board now in your friend
ships with the opposite sex.
If, however, your mother has cell
mite good reasons for disliling and
not wanting this particular young
man for your friend, you should
drop him at once; you would make
big mistake if you continued these
secret rendezvous. Or, if he is un-
willing to meet you openly as
friend in your home, he is unworthy
of the regard of decent girl, and
the more quickly you end the rela-
tionship, the better.
MONA DEWES
#@*#&*#&
DEAR MONA DEWES-Do you
think a man has any respect for his
wife or children who will go out and
gamble every Sunday and never
send his children to Sunday school
or fix any way for his wife to go any
where? Should a man keep all his
business affairs a secret from his
wife when she helps him make a liv-
ing? Does a man really love his
wife when he treats her that way?
DOWNHEARTED
ANSWER-It is hard to believe
that man such as you depict your