The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1926-06-23

And that specie is the lesson for
today! More colossal suffering and
unhappiness has been caused by
meddling relatives, and more di-
vorces have been secured because
OF them than any, other one thing.
Why they should refuse to let their
daughter or son grow up, select the
mate that will bring her or him the
most happiness. marry and settle
down without hindrance / fail to
see. It's a kind OF narrow-minded
egotism that prevents them from
realizing that they no longer should
guide the grown child, and that an
other family with a family head is
to be founded.
Sometimes the child too early in
life. and because of immature judg.
ment, picks out the wrong mate and
parents feel they must interfere to
prevent unhappiness. Such cases
need adroit handling. But. when
real love comes and the young per.
sons have proved their worth and
constancy to each other, then
parents should heed the %No Tres.
passing" signs and let the young
grass grow and establish itself
TreSpaSS
Dear Miss Lee What shall do?
am still in love with my ex-husband We
y, and have been divorced TWO Snt Years sNf but
IN these two years have Thought OF and
nave secretly longed for him continually.
OnnOap6 n
our marriage. Whyf Because my choice
was poor uneducated orphan boy and
educated wealthy man. But / could not
marry their choice because / did not love
hin him and that would have been cheating
him and myself for / am only % now and
my my husSband is four years my senior A.
was very good and kind TO me Together
We made very coy home. the first real
at last my life long prayer aver = was ans answered
and | realized ! was TO be mother, no
one will ever know, my 10y or my, hus-
piness was soon taken from me by my
relatives telling me things about my hus-
a9eh an y p SSpt ShP P that made
Of his people and they are Of TIC Very
was born dead e RiSd BY my SsA worTyin Hso
wanted 70 die too. for y made my, life
empty and l cared for nothing. NY folks
cured By y yiSs and T my folks swearing my my
lies were the truth. NV husband begged
and pleaded with me not TO get divorce
and yet did not appear against me because
he loved me and wanted me 10 be happy
Oh IL parents would only think OF their
childs happiness instead OF money and II
their parents parents with theeir little troubles
and would think many times before they
appt ar u divorce court this would be
very different world. I have seen him
quite BIZ recently and he begs me 70 Re,
remarry and they will never enter my
home If do. So What shall ! doi
JUST A LONELY GIRL.
1t seems strange to me that you
cannot weigh all this evidence and
decide for yourself. Which, do you
think, loves you less selfishly, will
mean more to you, do more for you?
Your husband or your parents? Such
colossal cruelty on the part Of your
parents could not easily be condoned
in my mind. That they were respon-
sible for the death of your baby is
evident. They should have known
better than to torment you like that.
Your husband has proved his indi.
vidual worth. whether his blood is
blue or red. Simply because two
people bring child into the world,
they do not own that child's right to
happiness. II you and your hus.
band love each other. remarry by all
peans. Remarry and establish the