Evening star. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1854-1972, 1926-07-14
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There doesn't seem 10 be any more
| effective means OF breaking up nice
romance than 81 allowing the green
eyed monster to make himself at home
In your mind.
Whether you Or the boy friend en-
| tertains the unpleasant beast Tor g
while, the end IA pretty mNch she
same sss
scenes. luarreis and Gears. tlisn q
general craAh. That's usually the un.
pleasant series OF events.
Too many articles can't be written
about scdFFing away that troublesome
We've talked before about keeping
ones own thoughts clear Of the IN.
yader. But today we ought 70 chat
for few moments about the neces.
sity OF showing the ogre away from
1.-THE boy friend
You must at the very first signs OF
jealousy In your man put up q stub
born fight against the beast other.
wise he'll wreck your happiness.
June was so deeply In love with
Harvey that when he raised slight
runnpus one evening because she'd
danced too often with her old sweet
heart she was thoroughly sorry and
penitent.
She apologized very sweetly, as
sured him that she hadn't realized
how things looked to him, and prom
Used to be a very good girl In the
future.
Then Harvey. decided that he dis,
liked all OF her friends several OF her.
girl chums went with boys who had
known June before Harvey came
along the familiarity of these
old sweethearts irritated our hero.
So June consented to give up those,
of her pals whose boys had once been
in love with her. She did this, not
because she believed herself to be In
the wrong. but because she reioiced
In the knowledge that Harvey cared
enough to be jealous.
As she told her friends: I'd rather
he was jealous and worried about me
than that his Indifference made me
jealous and worried over him. As
long as he cares enough to fuss over
other boys attentions to me-, I'm safe
and happy"
But things didn't work out as beau
tifuliy al all that.
Because June had been sweet and
reasonable about acceding TO Nils first
demands, Harvey was not satisfied.
He grew more and more suspicious.
Irritable ana jealous. June IOun0 one
night, to her amazement, that for the
last seven times she'd seen Harvey
they'd quarreled steadily. Then she
sought out an old friend and asked
her remedy for the situation.
She was told; You've got TO go way
back to the beginning and start all
over again. if it's possible. You never
should have given In to that jealous
streak In Harvey. You. should have
fought It persistently, tooth and nail,
until he realized the folly of his ac-
lions. : BY giving In, you virtually
admitted he was right. You let his
suspicious and doubts and fears stay
with him. You let him keep on en-
tertaining the green-eyed monster.
You should have killed 1t with ridi,
Guile and clear.headed thinking. You
can't xiii a mans jealousy by yielding
to It time after time. He'll only make
more and more demands on YOU
quarrel with you constantly as you,
give into him. Show him where he's
wrong, and stick to your ground.
come what may. Eventually he must
see your point of view. or else must
II he's thoroughly pig.headed and un-
reasonable himself out OF your
life altogether. In which case you're
well rid Of q narrow-minded fool