The Washington times., 1926-05-29
Beatrice Fairfax
Says II S One Of
the NObIest
By Beatrice Fairfax
Who Occupies B Unique Position
an the Writing World as an
Authority on the Problems
OF Love and Marriage

@lLAsS DAY ana commencement
y here. once more the sweet
gin graduate occupies the center
Of the stage.
Thousands Cf these charming
glls are emerging from finishing
and high schools, college and uni.
versity. diploma "a hand.
sWhat next3 What career shah
I cfoOee9'1
These questions are sure e.
arise if indeed they have not
been settled long ago AZ soon as
the excitement of commencement
subsidies.
Nearly an modern girls go IN
TOR some sort of career. While.
modern women have proved that
they can do almost an the work
men a.. though sometimes with
FAR greater effort. yet many pre-
Ter useful work they can do just
q little better than q man, In
which feminine characte sistics are
q help, not q hindrance.
IA girl who Is wise. whatever
career she chooses, keeps IN the
hack of her head her practical
ambition to become q happy wife
and mother With this hope she
takes up the studies I have men.
TONED and others Of similar ma
ture ct her advancer school. or
else after she finishes school she
studies them through courses at
the =. w. C. a. O. kindred organ.
izatiOns Of her own faith.
Children bring deeper happiness
70 women than fame or wealth
can ever bring Instead Of mar.
rowing her viewpoint and inter.
1ering with her beauty and charm,
they develop and complete that
exquisite individuality, beauty
ana charm. Many 81 our most
beautiful, enchanting women are
happy wives and mothers.
Ursula, q foreign -born 0pera
singer of my acQuafnta retired
GEDm opera on her marriage. but
was LEFT widow two years later.
Je was found then that her hus-
hand had squandered their money
and nothing was left FOR the
ygung mother and child.
She tried to return 70 her VOca-
ton but anxiety and trouble had
robbed her Qf her voice She went
- one doctor after ssether il
vain.
a young Aapper wrote me the
other day, Girls who don't 80
the pace ard pet and drink are
missing all the spice Of life.
What thrill = there IN missing
good fimes2
But the girl who gets the true
values Of life finds her thrill
"a knowing she II worthy Of
love. wifehood and motherhood
and capable 81 bequeat hiIg health
OF mind, strength Of body and
that shall come TO bless her mar
raage.
Some girls have the idea that
Motherhood is unfmpOrtant and
insignificant IA comparison with
..yphat Is Mary doing now?"
elsie asked Janet.
Nothing" replied Janet. shes
married and has two children.
Yet Of these three young
women. one a writer, one q bust.
ness executive and the third &
mother, the mother Is doing by
lar the greatest service TO her
country and humanity and H. ex-
perieneing an infinitely more i'm.
portant career than the other
two.
For she Ii bringing human lives
into existence! a mothers ca
beings to enjoy them, Of what
use would art, science and big
business be! Only q mother can
bring marvellous human beings
into existence.
a marriage without babies,
Ike q WOman's life without mar.
riage and children, Il not fulfill.
inE the mission for which nature
expressly designed Il and to that
extent Is d failure.
psychologists tell us we usually
get the one thing we most want.
Ask yourself whether this inner.
piagt desire Is not Tor love, mar.
rhlge and happy motherhood
II 20, do your part to ht(1
realize your dream. Cultivate
charm, character and practical
wisdom. which win enable you 70
attract and hold the love OF a
man kind enough, intelligent
enough to be your life partner.
Never let your subconscious mind
forget your ambition to become
q successful wife and mother.
Don't postpone marriage for the
sake Of ambition. Marry when the
Right Man comes along, provided
you are fully grown up physically
and mentally. Be grateful q
Providence sends you children
Remember, if you are not sc
blessed, that you can adopt babies
and 30 enjoy with your husband
much OF the completeness oi
family life.
In these ways you can IN al
probability realize that richest 10y
motherhood, and make Of it su
premely important. successful