The Washington times., 1925-08-10
LOVERULEDE ESSENTIAL
Miss Fairfax Declares Those Who Lack
Love Are Out Of Tune

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Why he never tired 81 listening TO
her voice and always associated
ii with ''love that makes the
world go round. Eleanor retired
from the stage in the Autumn
ana she and Arthur were mar
ried. For many years they've
lived happily In an English gar
den home and proved the truth Of
the refrain Eleanor sang that
May day.
It's true III America az In
England. In Shanghai. Greenland
end the South seas that love II
the irresistible power which
keeps life spinning happily along
Unless you love, you're out Of
tune with the harmony OF the
entire universe. Girls instinctiveiy
realize this, and 30 they hope
for and dream Of love and mar
riage. If a girls practical she
tries to attract and interest first
circle OF young men friends.
finally the enduring love of the
one Man.
But for some iIAscrutabie rea-
son It now and then happens
that q fine and lovable sirl. IN
every way suited to happy mar
rage and motherhood. does not
wed. Possibly she devoted her
gIrlhood Years to. aged parents Or
younger brothers ana sisters and
so deferred all thought Of mar
riage until youth had flown.
shyness may have impelled her
to avoid social gatherings that
bring young people together. And
Of course the world war has.
caused 4 tragic scarcity Of noef..
Whatever the reason may be. 70
nance now and thee passes BY
even the sweetest. most attractive
girl.
On the other hand many women
marry, then through ne fault Or
their own lose the love OF the
dearest man Of AL
Girls or women. with romance
dead. are likely to feel there Ii
nothing left to live for. They
become bitter or else crushed.
But this all is so needless.
Love that makes the world
go round Is a bigger. deeper.
more universal and inpersonaI
force than the love Of A man and
maid or even weddod love. And
nothing can deprie as Of the 10Y
and power of such love as long
as we let ii bloom In our hearts
II the love you counted on 20
last forevermore has failed you
in the early years Of your mar.
rage, you can still find sOlace.
comfort and real happiness after
the first struggle Of readJust-
ment. You may have your chill.
dren. who look to you for ali that
life can bring them and to whom
you owe 50 great d responsibility
and debt.
Social service, devotion TO chill
dren. alienation Of cruelty to
animals, participation in worthy
charities any good. useful work
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to be of service and with good
viii toward your fellow beings
win lift you out Of your slough
of despond. You always can II
you will actually be happy as wen
as useful.
But it's equally true that II
anything in the world viii ct
tract romantic love and help you
to find the mate most congenIaI
in every way, it is the luminous
charm and beauty OF disposition
which this impersonal good will
and universal love brings.
So when romance disappoints.
don't despair Turn to bigger.
more impersonal love and let It's
magic lift your life to a plane
above bitterness and querulous
self.pity Then you'll be happy
and useful at all events, and in
all probability. according to the
law of averages. you'll attract az
fection of the finest kind since /.
like attracts like. and finally
complete your happiness through
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