New Britain herald., 1925-10-26
N AIRY YOUNG, IS
MINISTER'S ADVICE
But Pick Partners Carefully,
Rev. ". H, Anderson Warns

Young people before entering
mnirimony should earn the right TO
marry and should pick their life
partners carefully. according TO Rev,
William 1t, Anderson, pastor OF
Trinity NJ. l.. church. Mr., Anderson
Hpoko last evening In connection
with hia Hcries OF hermona TO younE
men, on Tho young man and his
Lost ElrL"
Young people Go be auccosstul and
happy In malrimony should frat
earn the right to marry, he said.
rhrlr conduct should he such that
their physical and moral state need
Not prevent happiness and compat-
lbllity as they so hand In hand
down the years, which, In their
youth, may seem long, but witch, in
fact. are only too short.
II Mess there are good reasons
which comparatively few unmarried
porsons actually have. everyone
should took forward to marriage be-
cause II ~ the agency through which
homes are mndo and home. making
Is one of the most important ami
sacred duties people have to per
form" nid Mr.. Aldoraon. without
| tho humn There can he no happiness.
success or enjoyment OF the good
| thinga of HE. The nation ilHelt ~
| founded ON aud depends on the
| homo Tor Its cNistenvo, Tho young
| man who, when financially ablo and
| having no family obligations 10 re-
| strain hun, and whose health nnd
morals are good, does not marry
may think he Is enjoying himself be-
cause the pleasant things of life are
| within his reach. but he oNorl"ok'
tho more important pleasure. tha'
! of making a home, TOO many Nounr
mon Arc only the lrtvoltica Of NE
and confuse them with real hhppi'
ness,
THE right person 10 marry Toe
] frequently marrirs A0mtono clHo "'
! remains unmarried, and too OTTER
and too soon after murriaso the
brides and hrldcgrooms discover
their mistake. II they had alorpe'
and given serious consideration II
the correct standard 10 which lh'
right person must conform ther'
Wuul be fewer unfortunate eases q
unhuupv contracts. Too many yonhi
people arc carried away by lahcS
'Thcy fcrl the thrill Of what the,
think IN love aud without waiting Il
look farther than the Visible guam
lIrA Of one Of the opposite sex, the
rush into matrimony, only to III"
later that they are not pr"p'Fl
mated and can never be happy VIII
each other, Then, where once thcr
was happiness, aorrowful mlSs'Nins
enter. both are aware OF the ms
take they made. Each realizes Una
, moro consideration and rune
realization Of the seriousness OF III
married state would have snow
them the impossbility Of Joint hay
pinraa.
9 "rhcn comes divorce" which NJ
I Anderson said hc Thought waa ON" Z
y Iho urrutrM rNila Of all time. 10
I easily procured. # IL looked on l
many as a remedy for the Ills tht
devotion from maIrim"ny, TO" hR",
! NOT hrlug sure Of themselves ~ the
b. enter the married state, consider ~
( divorce court their beacon lishl u
! ward which they may rlod Wh'
the shurklrA of the unhappy ana IL
uJviard murrmEr become 100 W''h'
iv II win set thcm free, permit me
X 10 return to their individual way"
' living, and they are Shorl@a'En W.
Il enough to imNEiuo that hohouN -"
II trrY Thev suffer and society SUI I''
u ,,r they not only shake their oN
e. nuh in human nature. hat they =
IL a hnd example which "'h'fH' H""'
& times too YOUNG 10 grasp III" IL
~ mort of what they are about l" v
T. rr too Arlrsh to care for anyone u
* Themselves. make haste to toIloW'
" MIR Anderson announces 'h"I
win give II series of sunday eve
ip.. arrluuua addressed particular
!" /, tho Young pruplo on subjects
" interest and lmportanc" I" lh''h'
,ruly 10 Il question. he hhid ne !
ur,,.s THAT. IN II general tu''' "n'
" ~ .nurs,. IA not without exception
''' "i Is tho proper AZ" for men
I'D, ,,.,,,,, and ~ for women. Vh'