Perth Amboy evening news., 1923-10-25
DOROTHY DIX'S COLUMN
A Young Man Asks Me if I Will
Give Him Some Hints on How to Woo
a Quiet, Unconditional Girl to Whom
Caveman Stuff Does Not Appeal

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sumption to guess the co comb hi attic NOPE Of its " lock 1e fs day. man and w Walk hn'hHsA Ahd
hers So sg6 it ! is f@ up t % you to find ht the key key and %o do g. a little p@eh-eunbns ad
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w wSet t o death %a w If l d, marry him him.? t%. than they to inquire Of their souls !
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happiness is going to depend on how "| entertaining a mS a damy e wnaps he1
If % can get girl SC interested in what you think that she saves, M
as "a a toll BE- contInu @ dIGp yom y nT IA lego got lei gomg. You're s fascinating
some intelligent t%d gent person o with whom to talk, and o whom to listen.
gu f S n yaw WI and says that mother does not approve If callers afer
haven't touched either N her heart e9r GF hs s Spd hnS c fgpnd yu tedious and you
ne 1pp Sr second @peda t play is to convince your quiet, Unconditional girl that you
her. 4 ore she wants him ha But W Wth the Gs5ti ty se Of IS g that tse s st ws1pts
n mqs be S reversed she never falls in love with a man until Ti hess he is a6jeet
IT,, Therefore. make Yourself self Pt rescue e % aps nd h bsfcre your onfst
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anal %sfs so 1sS F y%s e. that that: : i i. iS he sa 3 8 yen 3 S SS5.a fs THIS aa; : :ss
in rsa Fhs P TO 5h wa aaa s%a at 5eat ieny is Ss sa% to Low love. said { i I'll Il
is nd ne maternal and She owes only tR'nn a. H HSo r Sl P 9s hr
that she had scolded, and then kissed T his ears "a sa aw aas boy
IN II II yI haye a pas past do not hide it under q bushel when you g . court
sweet ~@" w oDpn in m SSu ca San n@ ma1 yo1 her t FG 81 Si that az AZ you nee Is her
or play another card, r see another skirt she is you re f S90 ths fsF asain'
She will lecture you OH Sc gently, and pray for you. oh.
ESasdlsa ssHss IN It T" all Q vs %'P pt . sn$S5s'e ess t the be su a %aS.
Camp 9 :" %' 5 '"iS' l S'Y o '' not sod 's sS " ssGsss ss a T habit S' WITH a mav' D'u'".s
Let her get used to depending O n o for most of nr
pleasures n entertainment, and then, if she still persists
IN telling. you tha she "a only be a sister to GU suddenly
tell lei tina you accept her decision rs final. That will give
hra shock thai will make her sit up and take notice. Then
s; ls% 5 to- to- me me- that S& yoar f% lady a p% sTsn viii Hos discover eRs it that has n hss
teehhgs oward you are not sc patnic, after all.
FINALLY, son, do not put too much faith in the theory that a ril ~
Unconditional because she does not fall in love a. first sight and hroa5
cast her feelings to the world. Because a girl does NOT wear hr ha,+
upon her sleeve is no sign it isn't doing business at thu old stand in y
breast. "e ou Stanu IN ~
Often the quiet people who have least to say about their
directions love III truest. Still waters run deem Won N
INC there are vocanoe masked with
n these uiet people, who are too sy to n their
WI ttecton are he easiest to weep off heir fer with
violent I'M tempetuous love-making They yearn to he
loved, to be fattered, caressed cajOed. They m to "a fold
that a mn can't live without them. and there's NOT a
mothers daughter of them who can resist the nan sets
the wedding day, and tells her that he is going 20 marry
her whether she will have him or not.
-. 20. II L were a young nn In love Will a quiet. moto
I'd just step on the gs and break thu speed Lar eoinp n ~
sonage with her. Ae -
connu,. ~, DOROTHY DIX.