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The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1923-03-24
Music Notes

A recital and play will be given at
the Metropolitan School of Music Sat
urday, March 81, at o'clock by stu.
dents. The public is invited Taking
part in the program are: Alberta
Darneel, Everett De Witt, Gerald Gill,
Emily Mcfarland, Caroline Hitz. Alma
Mailman, Marjorie Carr, Marjorie Nc
Bride, Ernestine Baker, Krystal Ke-
gerries, Walter WandeH. Grace Mar
cum, Josephine Brown. Virginia
Boyer, Marilla Downs, Maxine Lark
ford. L1S>iIle Reeves. Raymond Knapp.
James Murdoch. Ava Louise Reddick.
Kathryn Walker. Marjorie Mass. Ger
trude Gutelius, Thaddeus Schoen, Ray
Eddy, Lucille Wilding. Minnie snaner.
Avaril Clary, Mildred Campbell and
Burt Longerlch.
Mile. Guimar Novaes, a brilliant
young Brazilian pianist, will be pre-
scented in recital at the Academy Of
Music by the indianapolis Maenner-
Choir, April l.
The Metropolitan School OF Music
Will present a program of ballet dane
Ing and a One-act play Wednesday
and Thursday evenings by pupils of
Miss Gertrude Hacker. assisted by pu-
pills Of Edward Nell and Miss Frances
Beik. The following will take part:
Gertrude Hacker. Ernest Daniels
Mary Elizabeth Clark. Catherine Bing-
ham, Betty Ridgeway, Betty Lou
Moores, Mary Virginia Freeman.
Dorothy Davis. Sue Tezzman, Amber
Ruth. Dora Jean Starbuck. LaVerne
Lunsford, Janet Nogle, Oneta Frank
lin, Viola Kassenberg. Lillian Mako
witt. jeanette solo ken. Pauline
Hughes, Anna Mae Banner, Louise
Pfster, Janet VanMeter, Elizabeth
Sanford. Marion Weller. Ida Alice
Stanton. Rosemary Clark, Frances
Lee Horner. Jane Slutzky, Violet
Mortz. Anna Ray Guthrie, Frances
Goethe. Roma Fisher. Alta Keller.
Mercede Miller Martha Brobst, Han
nah Louise Sector. Bernice Showers.
Dorothy Ryker Dorothy Fife. Clara
Oblinger, Charlotte Carl. Eleanor Hill
gemeier, Ida Schneider. Lovina Blan-
chard, May Ruby. Georgia Kline. Joe
Sullivan. Bob Moynahan. Harold
and James Weller. Sydney Sanford
Sylvia Golas. Mildred Redelman. Har-
cid Weller Gordan Baugh Jack
OMalley. Bob BauSh, Helen Payne,
Ileene Reeds. Julia Patton, Bobbie
Cruise.
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pathize with both Of you. However,
you know mother, and you know she
never would be happy unless she made
all Sharon society sit up and take no.
tice of the marriage Of her oldest
daughter. Besides, have heard many
an old married woman tell with great
joy of the pOmp of her wedding.
Mother has ceased never to bewail the
fact that her marriage was an elope-
ment.
I am going to tell you something,
Sally, dear, that I have not dared to
mention to any one else. 1t does
seem rather incongruous to have a
$4,000 wedding ,trousseau, among
which there are a number Of things
I know 1 never shall need as the wife
of a comparatively poor man, and
then have to live ON almost as little
as I had spent up to that time as my
personal allowance.
Dad has been very stubborn about
settling an income on me. I think he
wants to try US out.
Some day, perhaps, may be hook
ing my rose point wedding veil.
(Mother says she bought it for me
that I might pass it on to my chill
dren and children's children.) Private
ly, I think mother is starting in the
ancestor business herself. You know
Johns family is strong in ancestors
and poor old dad would have to have
a ton of pig iron rampant as part of
his coat of arms. I do not think he
1,
He was brought up in an orphanage.
Bee tells me that your married life
is to be as thoroughly modern as your
wedding was, that each one of you
Will put his share into the living ex-
penses and each one Of you will live
the same life as you did before, except
that you will have the joy of each
others companionshtp and love.
rift in Lutte
That sounds perfectly lovely IN
theory. Sally, but what If you should
want to enjoy your husbands COM
pany some evening at the theater and
he should want to go and play poker
with some Of his friends, what would
happen? It seems to me that right
then and there would come a rift in
the lutte"
Personally. am inclined to think
that, after all, am an old-fashioued
bride.
I just want to belong to John. 1
like to have him say, Wen do so
and so tomorrow or this evening or
next week." without waiting to ask
me If would care to do It. Perhaps
I'll change after I'm married, but now
it seems as though the sweetest real
ity that ever has come to me is the
fact that belong to John.
Let's keep up our correspondence,
dear Sally, and compare notes after
I'm married. 7 think it will be great
fun, don't you? Sorry you are not
able to come to my wedding.
Lovingly yours,
LESLIE.
MONDAY: A letter from Beatrice
Grimshaw TO Sally AthertOn-a con-
trast in weddings.
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Condemns Women

Dear Miss Lee: Was the age for old maids
changed TO 80 years instead Of 202
Am thoroughly disgusted with my sex
about all you see is powder, paint, Ilpstck,
short skirts. low uecEs and no sleeves. ABOUT
all you hear is clothes, dancing, shows and
beaus Why wonder al unhappy homes?
Now women are taking upon themselves
the responsibility Of the business world, why
are they not more sensible and cultivate
themselves for the stand they arc taxing u
the world instead of being so frivolous:
Please do not take me for a pcsslmlst, or
consider this due to PIC being an old maid,
for I love pleasure and am Jolly, but Ike TO
dress sensibly and Ike to devote my mind to
my work when IN the Office. Love my Bible
and hate Sin.
I am not defending mems failures.
MISS BETH.
There never was a set age for "old
maids" No woman need be one, as
long as she keeps her heart young.
It does seem as If the majority of
women accept the responsibilities Of
business very lightly. Possibly they
80 to extremes because they fear bust
ness may rob them Of their feminine
charm. We arc in period of transit
ton. The new" American woman
has not been fully formed.
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Who Paws

1. A woman meeting a male &C
quaintance or friend on the street
car, ferry or other low-priced pub
lie conveyance properly permits him
to pay both fares. If he offers.
2. A woman CHANGING to meet
man in the depot, when she is
about to purchase reading matter,
candy or some other trif1e, pays for
it herself.
3. 4 woman meeting a man on
the train pays all her own expenses,
including tips, except that she may
be his guest in the diner for not
more than one meal.
4. Business girls frequently pat
ronize the same restaurant as
business men they know; should
chance bring them together for
lunch, the girls should ask quietly
for separate checks, please"
8. A man pays all expenses when
a woman is his guest at the ball
game, the races or similar places, in
Guiding score cards, programs and
refreshments.
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Letter From Leslie Hamilton to Sally
Anterior

Anterior
Dear, Dear SALLY am writing to
you because know you Of all my
friends will be the one who can ap-
preciate my feelings at this time.
I spent the evening with Bee the
other night and she told me that you
and your young husband seem to be
perfectly happy. OF course I cannot
dear, your fetish which
you call "the economic independence
of women" and / was quite Mortified
when Bee told me that you intended
to keep your position as private sec
for Mr.. Sampson, after you
were married, although your husband
was perfectly able to care for you ade-
quately on his salary.
Indeed, Sally. dear. think that Mr..
is getting quite as much
money as is Jack, and we are not only
planning on making quite a home, but
of entertaining a little as we'll.
every Unconventional"
Bee tells me that you also were very
in your wedding ar
dIlSeiIIShtS- hat Will Lile 6ACSpl1Oil
of herself, no one was present at the
ceremony, which was merely a civil
service at the city hall Immediately
after the license had been obtained
was quite surprised the other day
to find that my young sister, Alice,
seemed to have been vaccinated with
the same radical idea-in regard to
and married life
I am so very tired with all this
hubbub and hustle over my own mar
riage, that am almost ready to sym
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GGNNRs. INDIANAPOLIS Society
wi entertained with Nah

"Masssi o }4aion1s %i4s So3 %5g
POngg party this afternoon;'
perhaps that lis what we will see
in the society columns soon If pre-
dictions come true. This new game
viii take the place of bridge, many
people feel, and while it is more ex-
pensive It has I many compensation.
One could spend some tir-e merely
lingering the attractive bits Of ivory
with their Chinese figures and numer
Gus significances before even begin
ming to learn all of the intricate rules
and regulations. It is all the rage in
diplomatic circles in Washington and
has taken many cities by storm. Local
stores are selling out their orders fast
and 1t looks as though it will not be
long before those of us who have spent
many hours trying to develop a good
game Of bridge so as to be among the
elite, will find ourselves among the
passe because we don't play Nah
Jongg.
~ ASKETS OF yellow jOnquils tied
with lavender tulIe carried out
- the brides colors at an attrac-
tive luncheon given today by 1Irs.
Victor r. Jose in honor of Miss Laura
Woodbridge, whose marriage to
Charles J. Foster of Chilicothe, Ohio,
Is TO taRe place April !. Covers were
laid for ten, and following the lunch
!. con the guests hemmed towels for
Miss Woodbridge.
Alvin P Hovey Relief Corps will
meet Monday afternoon in G. A. R.
Hall on z. Maryland st.
The March luncheon of the depart
ment of community welfare Of the
Woman's Department Club viii be
held on Wednesday, March IS, at
1890. The program is in charge Of
the committee OF cooperation with
the Housewives League, Mrs. W. II.
Hart, chairman, and the market
house committee Mrs. Ira N. Holmes,
chairman. The speakers will he
Charles y. Thompson and John F.
White. Mr.. White is chairman Of the
citizens committee appointed to formu-
late plans for a new markethouse.
Members of the Housewives League
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Surprise Yourself

My Dear Miss Lee: am II, high
school graduate, employed in office. Peo-
pie call me nice-loolIing and say l dress III
good taste. / have been told by people that
as a child was very goOdnatured and took
all slaps and rebuffs from my Older sisters
and brothers; until now they constantly
make me the boob" of ihe family. What
can / do to prevent such actions.
While they have good times, sit at home
I care very much for certain girl friend,
hut il seems that we never are together
much. What is wrong with me-
It is time for the worm to turn. ="
Surprise your family by refusing TO be
the goat" Keep yourself cool be-
cause it would do you no good to flare
up, but stick up for your rights.
After you begin asserting yourself
at home, you will find it easier to do
when away from here. That will at
tract more people to you.
| do not mean for you to be agrees
sive: just do not take a back seat
and fold your hands.
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FianCe Is Jealous

Dear Miss Lee: / am is and engaged
Ny hance and I both love 10 dance. But he
VIII not allow me TO dance with any one
but him. II stay for all of the dances
We are very conspicuous. Please toll mo
hat YOU think OF this. PEGGY.
If you have not announced your
engagement, you would cause much
comment by dancing only with each
other Even though you have an
rounced II. your fance IS foolishly
jealous. Remind him that you would
enjoy his dances more If you could
compare his dancing with that of less
skiIlful partners.
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Friends 0nlV

DESPERATE DOLLY: l. You are
not really in love with either Of these
men, or you would not be so uncel-
tain. Let tho first one understand
las he probably does) that you and he
are just friends.
.. You should find another position.
rather than to try 10 win this second
man away from the girl with whom
he apparently Is in love. You prob.
ably imagine you love him just be
cause you can not get him.
3. As long as you are not engaged,
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Y. W. g.. 4. Notes

be Mrs. Ruth Hendrickson Alice. Mrs.
Alice will discuss France where she
spent the past summer.
On Wednesday night the federation
girls will enjoy a program Of piano
and vocal numbers during their forum
hour from 7 to 7:30. Charles l..
Soldani, French-Osage Indian will
give a program Of tenor solos accom-
panied by Miss Cyrilla II. Humes.
Miss Humes will give a piano solo.
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BRIDGE NOW PASS
Chinese Game of "NIah Jongg" Is
Latest Fad.

If you are considering yourself elite
and up-to-date because YOU can boast
a good game of bridge you arc hope
lessly mistaken, because bridge is be
ing quoted as hopelessly ''passe" just
now. The intricate, intriguing. for
hidden Chinese game, Nah Jongg,"
has become the fad and has gained
a following including the diplomats
in Washington and all of the smart
set in most large cities.
The new game, which has only re
Gently arrived in Indianapolis. has
Ibeen the bane of the Chinaman's ex-
'istence for years and is ruled out
supposedly over there. 1t is an ad-
rritted gambling device and players
have been known to fritter away for
tunes and whole days playing the
game.
- local store has sold out three
orders and has only one set left of
the fourth. This set is one of the
cheapest obtainabIe. selling-for S25.
the better ones are as high as $1,000
and are made Of the finest ivory.
ebony, teakwood, silver and brass. 1t
Is played with innumerable little
squares, sticks and circles of ivory.
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Not Worth While

Dear Miss Lee: I am IS I have been
going with a boy of % for six months I
mad because ] would not let him kiss me.
when he asked me for the first time. the
other night We had ap awful quarrel. lie
said | was silly. ] have had several other
boys call me silly because | would not let
them kiss me. Can you please advise me
how to win back this boys friendship? Re
member. / Will not allow kissing
DINPLES.
II 5his boy is a decent sort, he will
apologize to you and will ask YOU to
forgive him II he does not do this.
his friendship is not worth bothering
about
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Dear Miss Lee: I am stranger in Indi-
annapolis and want to get acquainted with a
girl. but am very bashful. IL there Get
Acquainted Club IN Indianapolis2 Please
publish the different dancing schools
DUMB.
I know Of no such club Church
would be the best place for you to
go to become acquainted.
l cannot publish the names OF dane
ing schools through this column. You
will find them listed in the telephone
directory
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Convention Is Cruel

Dear Miss Lee I am 10. My husband
and, l separated in November. 1921. I live
with my mother and pay the rent and help
her l think a lot of a nice girl where I
work. Almost every Sunday l tell my
mother am going over to her house. and
she and | go out with two boy friends. Do
you think this Is wrong? Mother does not
allow me to keep company with boys I
want to tell my mother about this. but do
not know how VIII you please help me2
LONELY BOBBIB.
As long as you are legally a wife,
in fairness to your own reputation
and to the boys, you should not break
the conventions as you are doing.
That may seem hard to you, but it is
best.
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Swimmers Organize

The swimming club which was re
Gently formed at the Y. w. C. A. has
started off with thirty-three charter
members. The club meets the first
and third Mondays of the months at
6 p. m. to swim. Anyone who can
swim the length of the pool is eligible
for membership.
At the meeting of the health
education committee on Thursday
night it was decided to hold the an
nual dinner on April 9 and the annual
demonstration on May 4 and 5.
The religious education department
Of the Y. W. c. A. will hold it's annual
dinner in conjunction with the groups
who have been taking the Y. w. c..
4. world tours" Reservations should
he made at the Y. w. c. a. office by
Saturday noon.
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W c. 7. ILLS Pleased

Central ". c. T. L. has sent a let
ter of commentator 10 the committee
in charge of the Sahara Grotto Circus
because Of is decision TO allow no
gambling devices at the circus. The
resolution for the letter was passed
at a meeting at the home of Mrs.
Dona Warren. 1915 Ashland Ave, Fri
day afternoon.
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.Ioin in Dinner

The world tour groups will unite
with the religious education depart
ment in a dinner on Monday evening.
April .. G. NJ. Morton will be the
last speaker for the South American
group on Tuesday night from to
$50. on Wednesday night the last
speaker for the European group will
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Wants Old Friend

Dear Martha Lee: 7 am ] .. divorced and
have a haby II months old. Before I was
married 1 went with fellow who thought
very much Of me and still does. Next 70 my
baby ! love him Could you please tell me
some way 10 locate him. He does not know
am divorced. am divorced because my
drunk. l work and my mother keeps my
baby AMMO y
I don't Understand how you know
this other man still loves you, II you
do not even know where no Is.
Don't try to rush back into mar
riage, after ono unfortunate expert
ence. For your baby's sake, no care
full. You still are quite young.
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Aftern.ath-Narch 30. hostess, Mrs.
Joseph ". Capron. There viii no
formal program at this meeting.
Fortnlghtly Music-March 81; host
ess. Miss Yuba white Mrs Der
nard Batty will talk on Mime. ca
hier and the Cincinnati Symphony
Orchestra
Home Ecouomics-March IS: host
ess, Mrs. w. !. Marks Mrs. L. G.
Rothschlld will review T. V McCul-
! Ions deficiency Diseases; Planning
the Diet" i'm the Newer knowledge
of Nutrition" Mrs l.. w Burcham
will speak of cake scoring and there
will be a cake demonstration.
Independent SociaI-March 27; Or
phans' Home Mrs. James Van Malta
will be the hostess.
indianapolis Iiterary-March 90;
Propylaeum. Fletcher Hodges will
speak on ESTABLISHMENTS Of Europe"
Inter-AIia-March 27; hostess. Mrs.
G. Gets. Mrs. Ray Macy and Mrs.
Earl Hanson will speak.
Inter Nos-March 28; hostess Mrs.
J. L. Stacy. Miss Elizabeth Scott will
give the biographical sketch and a
short story Of Alice Brown.
Trvington Chautauqua Reading
March 27; hostess Mrs. Carey s.
Frye. Mrs. S. p. Mcknight will dis
cuss the social message Of George
Elliott's middle March" Daniel
Deronda" and mill on the Floss"
will be reviewed by Mrs. H. w. Hay
worth and Mrs. Charles f. Hill.
Irvington Tuesday - March 81;
hostess. Mrs VILLAS X Miller.
Efficiency, the Keynote Of American
business" will be the subject of a
talk by Mrs. f. c. Rumpler. Mrs. Lon
Craig will talk on Alexander Ora
ham Bell"
Magazine - March 81; hostesses,
Mrs. Mary r. Perine, Mrs. George
Earhart, Mrs. John Newman, Mrs.
Rose Coleman and Mrs. J. J. Martin,
Mrs. F. c. Robinson and Miss Adelaide
Carmen will be the speakers.
Meridian Heights Inter Se--March
81; hostess, Mrs w. II. Wheeler, John
Galsworthy's life and works will be
reviewed by Mrs. Charles A. Mueller,
Mrs. F. c. Lytle and Mrs. Jesse
Potter.
New Century-March 49, hostess,
Mrs. w. K Newton, assisted by Mrs.
Medora Hoover Mrs. Elizabeth Smith
will give the story and selection from
Madame Butterfly" and there will be
talks by Mrs. l. E. Rush and Mrs.
Nj. T. Scudder.
Thursday Lyceum March 20;
hostess, Mrs. r. M. Malloch Mrs.
F. N Messick will talk on Oriental
Krpa
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BI ACK AND WHlTE

A gown Of black satin has an eab-
crate front drapery lined with white
satin. The lining IS slightly revealed
and makes an interesting arrange
ment of black and white effect, which
is much more popular than unreneved
black. s.
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iPOStoffiC0' Again

CURIOUS ROSE: The old-fashioned
kissing games that were played at
parties are quite out Of style now,
so don't let that worry you. They
were not right" of course.
Yes, L think a man could love
girl ten years younger than he; but
it would be unusual for a man Of 26
TO fall seriously in love with a girl
of Is
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MUSICIANS END C0NCLAVE
State Music Memory Contest Is Clos
inc Feature.

A luncheon at the SpinIl-Arms was
one Of the closing events Of the an
nual convention of the Indiana F'ede-
ration Of Music Clubs today. The State
music memory contest was to be held
this afternoon in the Manual Training
High School auditorium with Miss S.
L. Mcconnell of Rushvilie presiding.
The State board Of education, Benja-
min J. Burris. superintendent, directed
the contest.
Tonight in the same auditorium the
contest selections viii be played by
rn1lsicaI organizations from the fol
lowing high schools: Martinsviile,
Vevay. Technical Of Indianapolis.
Rushville. La Porte, Clayton and
North Center.
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Martha Lees AdUice--
If You Wish Popularity
Then Be Good Natured

there is no reason you should limit
your dates" to one man.
A. 1t is all right to keep up a friend
ly correspondence with this man who
has asked you to marry him, as long
as he understands it is just friendly
correspondence.
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COVERT SUITS

Among the seasons tallor-mades
are many smart models Of covert cloth
with closely Citing sleeves and plain
skirts. They are worn with frilled
blouses or fancy vestees.
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VTOEN of today bent upon realizing the fullest equality
w with men, They not only willing but accept
the responsibilities that equality imposes It's in keeping with
this tendency of the times that prefer pay
way The mannerly insists paying when
Indicates by word that she prefers herself pay
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The features at the Young Women's
Christian Association for the coming
week will be a ste~eopticon lecture
by DR.. Frank Foxworthy, on "Travel
in South America" on Sunday after
noon at the open house. a party on
Monday night for all clubs in the in
dustrtal federation, the last two meet
ings OF the world tour" groups on
Tuesday and Wednesday nights, and
special musical program by Miss
Cyrilla Humes and Charles L. Soldani
at the meeting Of the industrial
federation on Wednesday night.
All the clubs in the industrial
federation will hold separate club
meetings on Monday night from z
70 s. Beginning at s they VIII join
in a 1T Is to Laugh" party in Hollen-
beck Hall Games will be played and
a surprise half-hour VIII be put on by
the Carry on Club Gladys Wiley is
in charge OF the program for the eve
ming.
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All arrangements for the formal
dance which Butler chapter of
Kappa Alpha Theta will give this
evening at the Hotel SEVERN. were
made by Miss Patia Carver, a
snnhomore at Butler.
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PICTURF HAT

4 large black picture hat is trimmed
4 with a wreath of water lilies and with
long velvet streamers which reach al
most to the hemGne.
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RIBRON TRIMMING

Circle Of ribbon in shades OF blue,
green and rose make the unusual trim
ming on a bOufant frock OF black
taffeta-'
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Household Suggestions
Pouring Hot Liquid

When filing a glass with hot liquid
put a silver spoon in before pouring