Perth Amboy evening news., 1923-10-18

DOROTHY DIX'S LETTER BOX
The Single Standard of Morals in -
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Girl, Which Makes the Best Wife?
How to Re-Win a Divorced Wife
DEAR DOROTHY D PIX am in trouble and need your help. ! an
3as nt tod me thu 's sSe h has a n a s sa eaperi eeas in He hsr u tarhy go IT h Ssfors she /
ss is a . 4 f f e her her a sSir @9F 5T. her he ms sn9pi her, ! S %i / sfw sas f &c sb slss
to . be fair and honest with her, but do not know what to[do about
.ano Of ;' 5s;s hold I Rr1 e. es themselves sc ssss a %y ssn.a But me" " X. G \. %l = Y
Right you ar W. R. w. The most sublime ezhibi-
ton of human an nerve ty in in the world Idd is the fact. fact that s the dark
mand of the woman he marries. n
sE1 '% S9tn 'T ~ipi aay off To@ 9hs slate is s"i aSd as sts sSIa a s f fresh IS; s sa ls ~l e. i 1t. that
xng las S a sSsss ssr$y !Si. 'front.' s@55's sSs .5 i 81 s"S narrow \ D, SS@ s@a
% Nj wife 4t than iSs !! is has to f ssa T Ess Isso an s Snts sPs sfhs y9P Sas s s%l
T Ey 9 tb sn 1%s r tn. O ag6s, f in sssiaS' h that . tnG B Pam Ssss
scared by shame Her eyes wept dry Of the screening tears
i i s1enss!R; While TO- i / gs Q "a girl there is IS always sons
,tam St f iTs9 tive T0% %ron wh9 sins sn ts a ws snRsr b at heart hs aos Many an tS a sm, v !
noolest instincts of her nature. 1t is because she has it in her to love
"a no" to and deny enc dear to her; because she is too trusting that
a acEcIo,b Wn md IN me nS shN wh hnts s %er "a o ot IL q n Done b.r M repsn1 hI IN
bn for for her her. and MD walks "a 81 w arad the ball nee Of ah her err life life ., And she he makes
her and trust her.
It is easy enough to distinguish between that kind of
do oil it. But But note ,teot this sN well. W. F: w: W. Don Don't marry any woman
and md never refer by word nS or deed to it The erpelest man. on
and then uses his knowledge of her past life to torture her
DEAR DOROTHY DIX am twenty-five years old and mighty cas-
pn the s %Ssn ad tt think x. L have nMe F getv common N nu sen nen III I make hsu my ng, living 1s
$ a sno aS9 like MIN o "''r'a girl VINO was a maid D0n A 4 think 2 :
I certainly do. It's men like he who send thousands of girls to work
mon ne%G thsn t Meyre eoa any get Hay By TO going Ge T T"to domestic % hiad sd d1T them rf fsr n ass
snemic -I si out m n a ss s%ea ts h e vs. where weu she rh has wo mRe6y u r. esit te most
2ns S conditions lite th3 for her fron morally r anyn and physically gaGaiI Q ia q nervous nne n
lived in a refined home and been brought into daily contact with gentle
the s zt w which IS is an os EXPERT fitted SSat ss %ass a . n s. a sE F9o % T,t ia.
n n1' i Bsss sBPss she T Ell her sT TG is s + ss p sts Ssf t ss1 . ssssssl s
f Tl6 a fs%iS S3 nn %9i has HsG the Gssi best fo sil t TsG m as ss sff 3 3 %sia
as h @d a. in n q ts S%@ entnwd d o @ sS9 fa E3oPg' S 70 's SRI
badly AL or work Tfi that fo %afes its p PR5s in lf the y est%at su Of z z th rs
the worst done work in the world that $ ma many GT people soan
It rests witt people .I like . to rass it to the dignity Q q learned
pale of good society, while to become an actor was to become a n out
tar and believe m me Annie the day is Sc coming when sensible men will look
proudest boast will be that he married Mr.: MIlionbgeks high
DEAR MISS DIX-Aboutt two years ago I married a girl with whom
lived very happily until last fall. Then w e had a disagreement and i
parents home. When ! got back Il / found she had gotten a divorce RCn 81 from rom
he in sy9 s sRSissf sne ra sStedn' pa nfr I ff fslnf s sRs sfi iova aay ms. and lasu COED
knows L v her. So ar she won't consent to a reconciliation, a IS she is
of a stubborn disposition. Can you tell me how to win her back?-K G.
Answer:
1t is the tragedy of love that is sc easy to lose and 10
dHhcut. to regain. Surely if young people realized that they
would be more careful of the precious jewel that fate has in
trusted to them. Older and more worldly wise people always
lev lovers quarreli, and the little foolish squabbles of
young married. couples, with shuddering horror, for they
know that NJ disagreement is evr quite made up. The heart
stab given by the hand we love never wholly heals There is
always a sore that beeds, always a ranking scar.
You will find it harder, K. G., to win back your wife than you found
It to VIM her In the first place. You see, she knows you o and is wise
TO all o your little tricks nd manners, and IA make a good guess 1T
what he with you will be. Evidently she didn't find it endurable in the
past, o you viii have to convince her that you will make things pleasant
in the future.
If tn fault of the disagreement was yours, be man enough to admit
u o hr, IN Isl Ter pardon for it, and promise to do differently If the
iiaut al hers. tell her that n o matter how thick her sins are upon her
you would rather have her than any pin-feathered angel woman.
Finally q whisper this for it is treachery to my SEX
make yourself picturesquely miserable before her. Com
vince her that you cannot live without her. Show her your
broker heart. Write her letters sodden with tears and e.
morse. There's something maternal in every woman that