Perth Amboy evening news., 1923-11-27
o DIX'S COLUMN
How Can a Bride Make the Honeymoon
Last?-A Recipe for a Successful Marriage;
Must She Tell Her Age to Her Fiance?
Should a Girl Work After She Is Married?

DEAR DOROTHY 5. RIX - t have be been sn"ds 1 f9r thrf Sn1 %9n5hs +, to Z
ask nothing nS further Of life than this~that he remain always just as he
to BELIEVE s%s The 4 f n. IN s 5s s4s%s2' Of f ' %E happiness happiness. is t 5at n ns9sls :s ss rot ,s;as
1; npb be %e Success a =! 0t or " aWas awhile While longer I@Sgea RIB before . boast. Every every
sG %si e. G. e . sssn way your # a as1si a n sIf. C. ! p %sss the he, 1 ss:ssass . ass,
from .@@erins down. There is little joy in winning happiness in
.non Mh ins S %%s s@issRs q9 9r. wfs a the of as m PttfsaS@'t ot t hem sfssesoa
the theory that what is ''hh ha' value " a mans Bride Bride
l believe: dear little Bride, that il any MAJ and woman
S Ts' e nee en- love 81 T 's f sSas.t 9's ssd, %ns9 to they mako Rs'f n.s zisss
eie s%G t6ere e Would dS be al almost mo maze no unhappy s%T Marriage m oges"F So if if you s0
set in your sky, it is perfectly possible to do o,
Of eG as some MEET Of the glamour .,s and IL the r saa,,s of the frs. Ida, days =, o.
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as .n ;s :;; : s: .f$ !; s; ;%s4 =:s s$s r; % ;Ps. +; :; &C. I ; :s S.; !: :; !; : 5, .; :s. Il:
hI fair IL" pl agte in % pon it easG inc d% appr @ afree w0ra'' " consists
:. Fair play consists in a husband and wife going fifty
This means that a "a gives his wife her share of the profits and per-
her share If the work. It is just IS much her duty to make a comfotab1s
t The" ot hs 1t the tbs h ind aH %aa f e. nyog that hs ht eah c %fan' fo "a hfm ase h Fl s sm.
retain P9 's Sssent r deserves ~ss" se taas m a hsssaq 3s. s The. wife sd 'h sl
o %e % just % as mS S%' IS iG they ~ ~ere st has ssseN'' N 'f''e''" 70 ~
.aeri Aesss sns tn. ,a T,, on near snn t% ses. they fr y sran ess t sn, II. ,as
eontc Tasge v Tosld # be 4q m sssDi Sisg wo"tS sba n~ss ssas ot Tish . D sgs, ns a..
love As a s' %o% SSaI aad 9 9ss a wife I G ssSSid shat 1hSv 1 nsr q su ss"S % her s sssFss f''
n. n'' a1,@ @ %s1ass: e S S' want: docs 's aS rs' tia. Is: :ss ! ;eH ":1 s ss'; ;ss
keeps. DOROTHY DIX.
DEAR DOROTHY DIX-Does it make any difference il a girl is tive
years older than her sweetheart? 1 am that much older than mine, and
he does not know this secret as yet. Shall 1 tell him? N. A. ~
sTf t% ss's @, !: ne: : :s sson 'ssass 'I L is always an yi s%;. when i. s t.:
mar to be the elder
and in the second place, when h woman is the older, she has to hav
snperhuman self-conTol to refrain from bossing her husband around a.
lar he we're her small boy, because if she is older, she always thinks that
me KNOWS best. And in the thHR place. when the woman is the older sha
Is always conscious of it, n invariably jealous She cannot se bF -
band Will young girls without feeling that youth calls to youth.
Never! A woman's birthday is a secret between her n the 4
family Bible, and it is nobody eBes business. A wise wife
never tells her husband her ge. n where she gets her col E
peMon, or whether her hair is hr W or not. All that he 8M
is concerned with are the results. And il she looks goo TO
him and seems just the right age that is all that matters.
DOROTHY DIX.
DEAR, DOROTHY DIX-should a girl work after she is married7
l. am a business girl. and have a good job that draws down a good salary
Iihe young MAJ to hon | am engaged does not make as much Al I do
pntt h e is industrious and efficient and in time will work up % a good place
years Of waiting before my fance makes enough for us to live N. What
shall we do? -"
Answer: a
| d o 10 see my reason why a business woman shouudn ot w.
keep on with her wor after she is married until the babies
come. mere are even many casesi in which there is a grand
makes 1t advisable for her still to earn IN voutdde n ~
nome, and where the money thus made is of or value 10
"r hhdren thn hr personal attention would be.
IN these days o the high cost of living nan mn nave 10 w+ -
long TO make enough to marry IN that they waste IN tbe sweenness M
freshness IF youth. Often they re kent from rnarrrinna - re em ness aMo
Il state OF AFFAIRS can Onv hn nGMiata1 L. II - go all a0 Wis