The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1923-06-02

A mothers eyes and intuition are
sharpened by love of her children, so
that she can Judge keenly the people
she meets. And, in fairness to her
childrens friends she should Judge
them, not by reputation, without
meeting them, but by her own stand
ards, after meeting them.
HaSty Judgment
love With a fellow 10. MY mother does e
not want me to go with him because she
beard , his reputation fDIn;nd was not very good
you think mother ought to meet him before
she passes her opinion7 Another girl
wants to go with him if don't.
Yes, I do think your mother should
meet the young man before judging
him, She should meet all your
friends, anyway.
But don't make a love affair of this,
Cupid, or, Of course, your mother will
object Keep it a friendship. if it Is to
be anything after your mother meets
him.
Deception Discovered
Dear Miss Lee: I am a girl Of 10. I
have been going with a fellov 20. I love
him very muhh. But when 1 was out with
him one night l became angry and he got
sore at me. He found out I was married
and said he did not want TO go with mo
any mora. I love him and never viii for
get him, cannot do without him. Please
advise me how can win him back.
Apparently you have tried to wreck
your own life, and now you would
wreck this young mans life. My ad-
vice is for you to put on your wedding
ring and not to try to deceive people.
Get some work to do, so that you will
not think Of this man constantly. II
you are not divorced, you have no
right to accept other mems 4etentions,
and if you are, you should not try to
conceal the fact, for that VIII only
cause you further unhappiness such
as you have caused yourself now.
Difference In Ages
Dear Miss Lee: I am going with girl
% years old and I am 20. We seem TO get
along sll right. We have no thoughts of
marriage, but we have kept steady com
pany for a year Her friends tell her am
too young for her. but they are Jealous I
believe. All the girls run across are the
tapper type. Please advise me whether you
would continue going with this girl or get
a SRI Of my own age.
A TROUBLED SHEIK.
Usually girl arc more mature for
their age than men are. For this
reason, think it best. as a rule. for
q man not to have such a friendship
as yours. with a girl several years
older than re. Your case may be the
exception. Not knowing either OF you,
cannot Judge that.
However, as long as you and the
sir! have no thought Of marriage.
1 do not think 1t is fair for you to
monopolze her. You can be good
friends. without being "steadies."
DEEP IN LOVE: Please write me
again. telling me Just how far this
affair has gone. and sending a stamped.
elf-addressed envelope for personal
reply.
Jealousy Again
Ny Dear Adviser: I suppose as soon as
you read my age you will write You are
too young Please save your ink and
energy.
I am IL. have gone with boys since
I vas IA. Two years ago ] met boy who
then was II. For two years l went with
him off and on. We have had quite few
fuses. but have always Kissed and made
up" He Is dreadfully Jealous. month
ago we quit. He goes with another girl
and I with another boy. I like this first
boy better than any other boy but I can
nc give up my other friends My girl
friends say he still likes me better than
any one else.
What am to doH Don't tell me to for
get him. I won't and can't,
BLONDE BoBBIE
Avn I as bad as all that? I thought
was more tolerant than you indi-
cate.
We'll, Bobbie. I'm sorry you started
10 go With boys 80 young and I'm
sorry you take this so seriously. Us
that better way to put tn
Really Bobbie, you are doing quite
the right thing now-proving to the
boy that he must overcome his jea1-
ousy before he can have your friend
ship. Smile when you meet him, but
let him understand how you feel.
incl IGIRLE