The Oakley herald. [volume] (Oakley, Idaho) 1908-1961, 1923-06-15

how dearly you love her, but be con
; tent with this for about two NOR
years. Would it not be much better I
: have her find some one she might Low
better before you marry her than ar
terward? You can afford to walt, a
you will be but twenty-five then and Il
those two years the little home mes
can be made cozier still, and II tn
love you think yours now should turf
out to belong to another. you have beer
saved the greater pain at least, becaus
to know her to be unhappy with yoi
or seek happiness with another nftei
the marriage vows, would indeed be thu
greater pain, would 1t not? Your love
seems true blue, and your plans fol
your little sweetheart sound wonder
fully unselfsh. but / see it, my ad-
vice would be to just wait little while
at least. What do you think? Can
| you see II this way now? / shall be
very glad to hear from you again after
you have thought it over. may L?
Dear Miss Brooks:
| Here comes another "Questioner."
I guess you won't mind If 1 ask you
two questions that 1 think important.
certainly enjoy reading Between
You and Me-" "a What makes per-
sons mouth so dry that they can hard
ly speak when they are talking or
reading before an audience? (2) What
is a becoming way for a girl of four
teen years to comb or do her hair when
II Is not yet to the shoulders after II
has been bobbed. and what should be
done with the split ends or the knobs"
on the end of 1t? Wishing you happi-
ness and success, ] remain, yours,
''STENOG." Montpelier. Ida.
Awfully sorry. Questioner, but your
answers were sent to the name you en-
closed in your letter, and are now re-
turned to me marked unknown"
hence this delay. You are welcome /
assure you, and thank you for liking
my corner, and for your good wishes
ID There are several reasons for the
mouth becoming dry when one is talk
ing or reading before an audience.
First, It is partly due to nervousness
and stage fright" Then. the mouth
being open so much. the glands are ex-
posed to the air and this quickly dries |
up some of the moisture. Nervousness
and fear interfere with the glands dis
charging as much moisture as they |
otherwise would. II you will hold your
mouth open a little bit, you will notice
how quickly II becomes dry. and people
who sleep with their mouth open find
II absolutely dry when they waken.
People who are accustomed to speak
ing and feel no timidity, generally
have pitcher of water on the stage
when they are making a talk of any
length, as no doubt you have noticed
Cd 1t is quite problem to know what
10 do with bobbed hair when Ii begins
20 grow out. However. II you are at all
clever in doing up your hair. think If
you Will tie IL in the back, having first
'urled 1t. and then arrange the short
urls across the. back pinning them in
place, that you will find this rather a
licc way to do 1t. Or. If you cannot make
he pins stay In in this way, weave
'our ribbon in and out and arrange the
lair so 1t can be pinned above and be-
ow 1t. II your hair is too short to do
his nicely, about the only thing you
an do is to have your cut hair made
nto National Bob, or curls. To get
i'd of the split ends, the best way is J
o have 1t singed carefully.
This Is my first entrance into your
orner. have enjoyed the information ,
rom your little corner and now 1 hope |
am welcome. 40 What should you
ay to a person when you refuse to
ance with him? (2) And what is the :
roper thing to say to your partner 4
fter the dance? Wishing you success
l the future, I remain,
BASHFUL PUG NOSE. Myton. Ut.
You are welcome, grille. % You
Mould not refuse to dance with a boy :
Mess you have very good reason.
IL Is public dance you should not =
ance with young man unless he has Y
cen properly introduced by a mutual u
lend and IT is not then proper to re-
Use to accept his invitation to dance
1t is an invitation affair ii would be r
nproper to refuse to dance with any
lie present. OF course in every case
you are i'll or too tired to dance. this -
sufficient excuse and you may say. =
hank you so much, but l am so very
red. feel that / cannot dance this one
, In accepting young mans invita-
on to dance you may say Thank you,
viii be delighted to dance this with
~" or something similar. Your ac-
aintances vary so much in DISPOSE
ms and manner, that you cannot well
e a set phrase in these THINGS
ry them to suit the Individual 1t is !
stomary for your partner to thank
u when the dance is ended and Won
~ answer by saying "Oh, enjoyed n,
e dance very much indeed" etc, etc, nj
rying 1t also to fit the occasion and Nj
iivldual Only two questions are al -
wed one person at time. dear.
ar Miss Brooks:
wonder IL you could and would To-
e the following songs for me? The |
81 is THE Outlaw" and the begin
ig lines go:
rider stood at the lamp lit bar,
gging the knot of his neck scarf
loose, ~
lille someone sang to the silver
strings in the moonlight patfe"
The other / do not know the name of =
1t starts like this: <
The Ridin' Kid from Powder River. j.
II got no lungs nor nary liver
ne says 1t was blue cayuse." etc. e
banking you in advance. Sincerely <
IFS. z
ALICE. FIT. Bridger. Wyo. /
sincerely hope some one of NV =
ders will have these songs for you. Z
,e, and IL so, will forward them to q
in your envelope. "a