The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1922-12-09
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Dear Miss Lee: l am girl 20 years old
a od and s619 aBd aTe q
and I have been going with fellow ever
since since gqt my dlyofGe we I0ve each o., otheg
he says he does
but ms Is %hat worries me most; ne , Is
been separated since last May. / guess
had d, better tell you that l did not know him
me- ITong dont Want q a1y q one to think
was the cause OF their separating,
nIanned To- l-et Married a. soon az he does:
but his wife does not want him to have
at tbe ~ "S FIN up oeg & siss woiG no. %
come up again soon. He wants. to leave
divorce | . then Hay % Se ,S w be did n r
get his divorce. whether I would leave town
70 say where we could be toSether oIteh'
Every time his wife sees him she begs him
to ta,Ie her back ana start all over. have
be the best thinr Tor him to do. He says:
Do {yon want to get RIO Of me- II you DO
Vow Miss Lee I do love nin bnt am
AFRAID sometimes that he does not love me.
whether I am doing wrong to 20 with him
before he has his divorce:
their ' separat9g and if he would 20 back
to his wife I would give him up. But he
20 hacS ~ ' her TO- do do Itsnf 6im i
TROUBLED.
Inc only Tune you mention your
child IN your letter Is when you tell
me she EXISTS Apparently she never
enters your mind IN connection with
your relations with this man. But how
would you feel H. when your baoy
grew up she would De summed be-
married man."
Y0ii do NOT foil me ~, what errou,,ds
-.
this man sued Tor divorce; but IN TINS
day. when divorces. are so EASY to get.
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II occurs 10 me JnaI ne may not nave
had req SON tn sue Hts actions NOW a ID
10" i0'I7Ot' ~ 9N0' i'0 ''-'-0ii7 44O'' az"
strength 70 Inat theory.
Surely you are not thinkini seri-
ouslv of going to another town lust to
no nea. This man That is ahou+ the
v.oret thing Won could do
7,ha r,.n CIV, NOV, bo ,,.o,,l1 not on
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As the marriages OF polh oil you were
unhappy ! snou'u tii'Hh you "oul" ho'
again.
You'd better think it over deeply for
a while. Don't see this man. at least
until he is divorced, If he continues his
efforts along that line. Then, whatever
YOU DO. think Of your daughter ana do
what you know Will be- hest for her.
Do not give her a stepfather who may
cause her unhappiness.
DEAR MARTHA LEE: [ wrote you the
pfie qaS G9i,gtil.ns VINO snoplo pay 'ne
out together, If he Is the girls relative,
visiting her for a few days You said t4ee
5r i gong 30 a theater or downtown 70
lunch or some other plage-should the Eel
and il SENS tha, would be- "A nron5r ,lsy
tor her TO entertain hum. PEACHES.
The right TO pay the bills - one
which women do not seem eager to
grasp. So the man still pays, even
would be embarrassed if the Girl
should suggest paying.
You should not suggest entertain
meut which YOU think the man can
not afford. That is as far as YOUR
OBLIGATION goes in that rasDect
Answer to ALA: %. Handker-
chiefs with drawn threads always
make good gifts for men. PERHAPS
Won can make a counIe Yourself to
- . e .,.
HiF7 ~ SO"i 'la',e LOU lH-Sii' XIV
hIin SIR SOCKS. fountain pen, gold
or silver DenCil or = tie. If Won GET
q b'' be CfreilH 40 select one You
know he viii Nke-aOi Will not lIte 10
,,.oo, to1;a,.e ,.~,, ,,.i11 t,,.7 j., .l,,.
veal oV4le'c S"u VIII Hil' I'LL l1dI
list something which YOU can afford
and which vou t3nca viii like
20, - :,
W II your sister ana You nVS
alone. and she Will not be home for
s,h,istr,as T +lipl, ,-o,, bsd he+o, ,,o4
80 '''4'''''' e'A'N , -" l-h' 'N'0l Ho'
invite your lanCe to dinner. It Is
hest NOT tn hreaL conventions when
we can a,oid doino so parhorg no
will asI, vo,, IN have dinner With him
dovrn+ovr0 IF he docs NOT 7 SUGGEST