The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1922-11-18


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DEAR MISS LEE: have thought
much about Heartbroken' letter, and
my advice is for her to tell him all.
II he truly loves her. he will forgive
her. If he cannot do this, he Is not
worthy Of her love.
For three years I lived the scarlet
life. I did It because my hearing was
so bad I could not get work. and 1
had TO live. Then a year ago I met
man who is a real man. / have
learned to love him and l know he
loves me. I have told him all Of my
life and he has forgiven me. He tells
me 1t is not my past life. but the
woman I am today and shall be in the
future that matters. When l told him
about Heartbrolen, he said II I had
not told him about my past, he would
have left me when he found out about
me after our marriage.
Now I am working every day and
m. hearing IS coming back TO me.
Heartbroken letter shows she is
not bad girl. l could give the story
OF many girls who lived wrong life,
but who changed and married the
men they loved. Every one told Of
her past life to the man she married.
and after she married she knew she
had nothing 10 worry about
If Heartbroken married without
telling. there will not be a day hut
she will wonder whether some one has
told him. I can look my sweetheart
straight in the eye and I know he
loves and trusts me. Some day we
shall be married. L. T. r
DEAR MISS LEE: I am young man about
IN years old. have had an experience with
a girl similar to Heartbroken. 7 was TO be
married last June. She confessed her wrong
to me and ! speak truly when l say felt
take on sense OF responsibility that I had
not felt before. Any man who IN any way
loves a rlrl viii do the same.
But upon discovering / did care so much
for her. she did not live M to that love and
we have not seen each other for several
weeks.
Please give me an answer to this:
We shall call the first girl NJ and the Sec
ond one V. when broke my engagement
with NJ, started to go with V, fine girl
VIC loved each other and her family liked
me we'll.
Through some friends OF mine. heard OF
for me, she viii not have any engagements
with me and viii not give me a chance to
explain; I don't know what has been said
NJ ALEC took It upon herself 20 go to see V
for what. do not know.
I realize now that I am too young to get
married, and have given up any idea.
Answer: I should say you are too
young to get married. I'm glad you
realize 1t.
V probably felt deeply hurt when
she found out about the other girl
You see how inconsistent you are
you advise Heartbroken to tell her
lover Of her past, but you did not tell
V about your engagement. From
what you say, I have an idea you
either were engaged or almost en-.
gagged, to V. She may have had an
idea that M was worse than she really
was. That would make her feel more
badly about you.
Write her a note. telling her the
truth. She may not tear 1t up. Dc
that just to keep her from harboring
hard feelings. But remember. not
Only are you too young to marry, but
your idea of girls will change a bit in
y
too young to be engaged.
Answer to UNDECIDED: You
seem to have no intention to break
your engagement. What you want is
sympathy, not advice. Well. I can
give you that. And I'll Just throw in
bit of advice for good measure.
Don't convict your flance on "cir-
cumstantial evidence" He may not
have been with the other girl the aft
ernoon he was not at work. Ask him
about 1t.
think 1t Is best for you to marry
this man. as you seem sure that you
love him despite your quarrels. Then
see you quarrel no more-or no more
than the average married couple.
Keep cool 1t takes two to quarrel,
you know.
Answer to TEDDY: I presume the
boy for whom the party is to be given
is a friend Of your escort. If you and
your escort are very good friends, you
might take a joint gift. Otherwise,
the boy should take something.
Answer to ANXIOUS: You should
be around boys and girls of your own
age a great deal, to keep your bal
ance." It is fine to take an older
woman as an ideal and to try to live
up to that ideal, but you are going a