The Wheeling intelligencer. [volume] (Wheeling, W. Va.) 1903-1961, 1922-11-25

ness, then tho game Is UP. and her In
fluence is nil
Should Be Generous.
A husband should be generous anu
thoughtful In giving his VIE eVeryIh
he can afford. and he should sho" greA'
interest in her clothes. especially those
which she wears when she Is alone Win
HIM He should make her always foel
mar har greatest pleasure Is secured by
pIeasing his eye and his ear. and MS
mind He should let her understand
mat he APPRECIATES all the daintiest re-
hnements and so encourage her TO Dc
always deloctable to him.
In the beginning he ought to express
Iust as plainly as she did. what he does
moi like in her-and then he ought 70
praise her. and make her feel pleased
with herself when ever he legitimatey
can.
Morose, mulishly silent men are never
sdored and grudging OF KIND Words
vithers love, even when Il started warm
~.
II only men could realize this. scores
~ marriages could be successes whl;A
are now failures.
Some seem actually determined nevei
n saw nice or complimentary thing
- their wives. willie quite lavish "'sh
sweet words TO other women.
Many men seem to tmagin" tha' no
sTort - needed on their parts 70 ne
good hushands:-that they IAN take
Young girl filed with Ideals and tender
ness. and crush them All out, and or'nS
The tie of marriage down TO a soroI"
humdrum level, and yet expect heF 10
come IN to every standard which makes
fn~ their own comfort and pleasure
Tho" have obtained what they des'rcu'
v"ich IN many cases - only s0aIh-
cation Of their sex instinct. and the poor
woman Is eft utterly uHsatsned III nr'
MD and ecul.--the craving for such
satisfaction having been the main rca5-
on which caused her 10 enter the BONDS
Of matr!mony.
Educate Husands
The education Of n husband should "a
undertaken nv himself even more strong
" than hy his wife. He should ask MIN
SELF daily X he Is coming up TO the
scratch, and ne would unconsciously ask
himself ~ he were an honest BUSINESS
man He would ask himself Il he g
really using his intellirence to make me
s~air work smoothly. X he Is really IN
dcrstand,nr his wife'S mind. and wants.
and IS really guiding and directing no:
"a the highest. or II he Is just drifting
aIone without arU thought Of her. and
only intent urrnn expressing Ills own Ner-
eonsl'tv. There are hundred-thousand
~ Tng'ishmen who II they only stopp"d
70 think and controlled their vanity s"t-
fcIentiv 70 enable them to see clearly.
who would be horrircd at Their own m
ro'ute seIAehness and want Of cone'd-
GRAFTON ~ ,He Girls they have persuaded
Into matrimony.
In this union Of rna-riag (which eve"
character IL the stronger really rnlha
regardless OF sex. But the admitted ~
slHon ~ authority OF the English hus-
hnnd gives even the weaklinEs an ad-
vnn.aee an allows them 10 express
selashness In the horne.
Woven I.ove Masters
am not for one moment advocating
snhverviance In a husband-nry View is
that he should always be master. II his
character can hn resnectcd sufficiently
10 permi, his wife to be ruled Willingly
by him But | do advocate Justice
iustfcer which automatically takes into
consideration the case OF the other side.
Women love to be ruled. the on!Y
thing is that they have grown too ~
telllgent not to resent the attempttto
rule lust heCauee the man is male
creature. regardless OF his nentalits.
ability. or qualities.
man who Is passionate and tender
lover. at once mastcrful and yet under
standing-who does not ohstinately be-
rrudEe words Of sweetness, and vet
whose character can be resnected, will
always be a6o-cd ny hts wIfe,-ant any
woman ne desires
And 70 re'terate the three important
points which I wish 10 enforce IN this
paper
vito must -emrmhc- that Il Hes
within her own power To charm and hold
as To whether her hsuhand can remain
faithful IN the .nirit TO her. even though
rrar--or pr'nc'nle. or convention, would
keep him faithful IN the body.
husband must remember that he