Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1922-02-11
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/ am coming to you for some adj
vice. ] am a girl 20 years old.
am in love with two boys, one is
20, the other is >18. I have gone
with the 2O-yearold boy over a year.
I love him dearly. He seems to
think lots of me- We have quit.
He has done me little wrong, but
he has tried several times to get
me to let him come back to see me.
Would you advise me to let him
come back? He has asked me to
marry him, but do no want to
marry now. Do you think I'm old
enough to marry? This boy lives
close to my home. He calls often
and is always wanting ME to talk
to him. I love this boy very much.
He is a real nice boy. e 18-year>
old boy, comes to see me cry Sun.
day, but I do not care him as
do the other. Do you think ne
is too young for me to 90 With? He
is just crazy about me and has al
ways treated me well. What would
your advise me do-quit the 1S-year-
old boy AID go with the other? I'm
Just crazy about him. Any Of your
UuNlC0 Will U6 dDpLSClcLIC0. L ACCoS OH
sWer soon through The Journal.
Thanking you for advice.
ANXIOUS GIRL.
Begin now to rely upon your, own
judgment AS you grow older you
will gain wisdom. Brains are given
us for us to use, the more they are
used the keener and finer they be-
come. If the boy you admire SO
much, has committed a grievance
towards you. not too serious or in.
su1ting, don't you love him Well
enough to forgive him? Try him
once more. If he tries the same
method of wooing as he did before
and you are not of the opinion he
is treating you fairly, let him go. II
the wrong he did you was purely
lack Of thought or selfishness on
his part, forget it, make UP and be
happy. If you do not care for the
boy IS, don't waste valuable tine
trying to mfslead him and fool your
self. Let him go.
AS other boys and girls are com,
ing to you for advice halso, will
ask for some.
1 am 27 years old andSam going
with a girl about % yearg of age. I.
have been going with this girl for
something like five years. She says
she loves me better than any one
else, but when / am in her compa-
ny she don't seem to care anything
about ME. III love her very dearly,
and ben I mention marrying she,
says wait. a while longer. Would
you advise me to continue going
withttl1is girl or not? Do you really
think she loves me, or is just flatter-
ing me?
Your advice will be appreciated.
Will close hoping to see an answer
in The Journal.
LONELY JOHN
1t is time you and the young lady
came to some understanding Five
years is a Iona time. Lookout or
you will serve TO years longer and
then some one else will steal her.
Tell her plainly YOU want an under
standing. Speak UP and ask her to
either set the date for the wedding
or marriage, or you are going to
quit. Tell her you are tired of her
behavior toward you. Show some
spunk. She cannot tell you any
h1ore than "get out" Rather know
The truth than be treated as poodle
dog. Let her give you very good
reasons for delaying matrimony, or
break off.
lam girl of Is summers and five
feet and four inches tall; have dark
brown hair, fair complexion and
blue eyes; weight ITO pounds. I am
going with a boy six years my sem
ior; he seems to be a niceboy but
he never calls except at night and
1 certainly object to that. l want
you to tell me what you think of
boy like that. I think if he can't
beat that he had better stay at
home. don't you? And how should
a girl of my age wear her hair?
Thanking you for your good adj
vice. RED WING.
If this young man has job-his
days are taken up with his work, If
he puts in nine or ten hours day
at labor. The only time he has for
calling in the day is Sunday. OF
course, if he has, time to himself in
the daylight hours, it wouldn't hurt
him to call on you occasionally. II
his manners don't suit you,>you
should tell him so. If you have
any reason to believe he isn't fair
with you, tell him so. Right the
wrong. And if it cannot be fixed to
suit you, let The young man go, and
seek other friends Bobbed hair is
pretty, to most young girls it is very
becoming. y But if you have long,
silky Hair or even if it is coarse and
heavy, don't cut it off, Don't tuck
it up, either; curl it, if you have to