The Bridgeport times and evening farmer., 1922-12-04
HOME:-MAKING HELPS
SoEDing Problems
 Thai May Puzzle
 Household Chest
By WANDA BARTON

H PRISONS who have been wei.
 trained are always sure of them
 selves. They know the right thin, to do and they do tt unhesitattnEIy Others not 80 sure often miss the marx by just being afraid they win make A mistake Being a guest calls forth early training In 8 most decided way. and one is quickly judged by her manners
 In coming as a guest to the average home, If there Is no one at liberty t3 meet your train. take cab or convey anca and pay for both the taxi and tho transportation Of your baggage. Dis patch any telegram you may desire to send at the station yo9 cannot be sure what the facilities are al the house for sending messages.
 Go 70 your room upon your arrival unpack, change your dress. and get in formation regarding family meal hours rnd so on After dressing for break 'ast. pick mp your clothing and throw back the bed clothes to air. This should ,s done whether or not there are ser v~uts.
 1T the household is simple. with little or no help sip upstairs quietly after breakfast md make 5-our bed. Offer to help with the dishes or errands or [. make a dessert-do something to help and you tiu soon know intuir.vely whether you are wanted UT in aIle way While the family are busy. write youl letters 50 aa to be ready when they are free to visit with Lheu.
 If your hostess is rich and expects tg en- tsrLa-u you, 1t IS correct 10 accept. but if she IS ou a rather alulLeI margin of .-gr IT, be -eEstood at once t4at al! treats are "D-tcA-' This vv4I relieve her o5 eEu Dalrrass5sLLl.- u .s also d good sd-z To make a note Of tne luulv.d4aI tastes and uee4s of Lha family SO Llztt the f5s- ue gifts sent at u.- next convenient season may be approDTIa.e.
 Should the guest rGce-.e outside lr- ..-a-lons during he visit. sae should ask the Drtvllege of bT.IEiag her i.5gt..y. "-LL her II possible During the visit refrain from making persona. Comment on family ai- alTa for remember that while you are q guest Iu Lle house you See things not meant for all eyes
 Do not borrow or b- q. bur4el In e,r.., way. unless in dITe extremity L.. r..r oEeT-ztay the limit set t-r your yI-.- unless for a good and sufficient reason. Do not accept marked attention From any Of the men who are engaged or re- lated to members II the family
 If you feel that you would Ike 70 yIslt a point Of interest alone, your w4sH can always be easily explained, and you will De at liberty to do s0
 The question of fleeing servants rests with the guest, and you may give Ia money in present of some sort Some women who travel a great deal always take gifts with them for this Bort Of distribution.
 The weu-brcd woman never makes ksrself conspicuous She Is quiet and capable and well poised In whatever position sae finds herself
 This Instiuctive poise IS not thing of a day. but the direct result Of train ing, started in childhood. when sae was taught to pick up her playthIngs 5al.e good care of her clothes. be courteous and polite to all return Cav0rs. and pay her way. If need be- with tho,Irnt- ful consideration and respect for Inc Ezkhta sf others iu all walks Of life