The New York herald., 1922-05-28

At this time Chan-King did not quite comprehend
my mystical Interpretation Of love. But he answered
happily, ITO have for wife everything
else the world OFFER"
But surely mother will not give you up!" ex-
claimed day when dawned one message
had she sent in all the correspondence.
mot in her dear heart, he sad with unshaken faith,
but of course she will not write to my disap
proves"
ings come first always!"
ChanKings tone patient after the manner of one
who has explained obvious fact many times China
he reminded again. the family always the
individual But with you Margaret beloved has
first Importance"
His failing nsistence upon viewing ours as an
individual instance not to be judged by ordinary
ards source of great strength always During
the short period that followed before marriage
few times in the most conventional with
Jealousy that had foundaon small disrusts my
part were merely efforts to uphold what considered my
proper feminine pride and his often failures
count this characteristic mine Only somehow,
there was never rancor In quarres
we deny our love for each other.
So we planned to be married Immediately There we're
why should delay further say
but practical reasons, do with young
people in love? 1T is little late begin practical
thinking, said ChanKng cheerfuly when discussed
ways and means But might well make expert
ment"
Chan-King no longer merely student gener
allowance from wealthy father resources
with his education completed about to acquire
foreign wife and to face untred world strangely
light hearted about all this ChanKng had regularly mt
by than half of his allowance coming to America
meant to be teacher of languages economically ndepend
en If circumstances required such aid beginning
career. Our plans completed. the end of
another term which would finish together Chan-ing
would be graduated and then after practice
profession he would return China there begin
work to follow later Nothing could been more
delightfully."- simple far could days later
we were married in my mothers house by Anglican
clergyman "Of will live here with you
go to China my parents had said I'VE want
WITH us IL you can be happy here"
This seemed very natural arrangement to ChanKing,
accustomed he to family life.
The popular Western idea that people friends
they related by law heavy my mind did not
expect drastic readustment OF
Chinese husband and but did look somewhat
tmorousy to trying period of small complications to
differences in domestic customs and the daily
living
/ need not have worried moment; a spirit
of family cooperation important Chan
Oriental heritage From the day of wedding
place with charming and nauraness
household The afsction that existed between my
and parents smplifed that phase relation per.
fecty and left free adjust ourselves other and
the world though the latter took very little
Until met Chan-Kng the idea Of being conspicuous was
unendurable to me- But when early perceived that
with him anywhere gaze the curl
GUS discovered with surprise that 1t mattered not ALL
proud of husband and loved go with
him. We happy from the beginning.
Discovering life together proved splendid adventure
which renewed itself daily