The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1922-10-09

Trust and faith go hand in hand
with love. Without them love can
not long survive.
A man who knows that his wife
trusts him implicitly does not betray
that trust. unless he is a scoundrel.
On the other hand, a man whose
wife constantly suspects him of things
he eve does, finally feels he MD as
well give her ground for suspicion.
OF course, faith may go so far it
becomes foolish. 1t must be mixed
with common sense.
Answer to TESS: 1 am glad YOU
realize you are wrong; that will help
you to overcome this trait that is
causing you so much trouble. OF
course, o could not be happy mar
ried to this man, as long as you are
suspicious Of every movement he
makes.
You will have to use will power
and trust. Don't let yourself tell him
of your suspicious, even when you
feel them. Then. gradually, l believe.
you will find yourself more trustful.
Instead of reasoning the matter out
after one of you outbursts, a it
out before you speak.
Because you happened to have an
unfortunate experience with ons man
is no reason to mistrust all men. And
DO not excuse yourself by saying this
mistrust is a family trait. You saw
how unhappy it made your father;
that should be enough to make you
change your manner.
Answer to GREEN: l. The man
walks on the outside of the walk. The
girl gets on a street car first: but
the man gets off first, so he may as.
sist the girl.
2. 1t is not stylish" to keep a man
waiting. It is far more considerable
and complimentary TO be ready when
he arrives.
8. The girl should wait for the man
to suggest a way to spend an eve
ming. IL he asks for suggestions from
her. Of course, it is right for her TO
make them.
Answer to WORRIED: Apparently
you are a natural worrier. That's a
bad thing to be. Stop worrying about
this man. What IL he doesn't write to
you more than once a week and he
used to call you every night? You
were not engaged and he is under no
obligations to write more often. Be.
sides, men are poor correspondents and
~ write more letters than they
have to.
No. don't say anything about it in
your letters to him. That would only
make you seem foolish and pre-
suptious to assume that il is his
duty" to write to you often.
Answer to WILMA NJ. w: /. Even
though you have very dark hair. you
might look very well in black. II
your skin is very white. the black
probably would make a striking con
trast. However. I could not Judge
that without seeing you.
2. Either e coat sweater or a slip
over would be good for winter. Both
are being worn a great deal with the
slipover slightly I'm the lead.
Answer to EIGHTEEN and NINE
TEEN: You want to know how TO
make the boys like you. You are
quiet. but like to have a good time.
There is NJ rule for popularity,
girls. Men differ so much and SO do
girls, that no one can give a rule. Per
haps o T too quiet. Don't be
afraid to laugh and show that you en-
joy a good joke. There Is a happy me.
dium between rowdyism and mouse
Ike quiet
Read about current happenings, go
that you will be able to converse in
diligently. But don't monopolize the
conversation: listen as we'll as you
talk. Talk about things in which
other people are interested. not just
about those hat interest you.
Study yourselves and bring out the
best points in your dress and manner
You should DO able TO help each other
in this way.