Omaha daily bee., 1922-05-05
Problems That PerpIex
Answered by
BEATRICE FAIRFAX
Foolish MISUNDERSTANDING.

DGhT MISS FHlIIdA. ClAtesu
months ago I had a misunderstand-
ing with a young man for whom
cared more than ( nave ever cared
for any one else. Although he had
never sincerely proposed to me. he
went with no other girl and came
to my home from three to six times
q week. when he seemed perfectly
"at home" with my whole family.
After our. misunderstanding, OF
which neither he nor | know the
cause, he moved to another city.
He frequently comes back for week.
ends and holidays, and confides IN
my best girl friend that he still loves
me and Is absolutely miserable.
What can do? BLUE EYES.
Why don't you write this man a
frank note and ask him to see You
the next time he comes to town, II
the misunderstanding was trivial, a
talk will probably brush away all
the foolish barriers erected by pride
and sensitiveness. Don't hold your.
pride higher than your happiness.
In any event. a real man, won't hesi-
tate to give you the satisfaction of
an interview which he will be sure
to feel is your due.
The Happy Marriage.
Dear Miss Fairfax: A cousin is
going about with young man of
tho same nationality. age. religion
and about her own standing. She Is
also acquainted with young Span
lard who seems in love with her.
He Is Of a different religion and
speaks English with an accent. He
v,,txk To In
Cuba, and 1t would be necessary to
live there II they married. The girl
speaks no Spanish. Her people seem
inclined to have her marry the Tor
eigner, since he Is in better posi-
tion financially. Don't you think a
girl has better chance for happi-'
ness will, a man OF her own sphere?
B.
Happiness in marriage seems to
depend largely on speaking the same
language in more senses than one.
Mentally, spiritually and with a
BACKGROUND Of custom, ideals and
training, 1t is we'll for two who form
a life partnership to be in accord.
The more folks have In common to
fortify their love the more likely It
is to be deep and lasting. ! would
be glad to hear from my readers on
this problem.
Bobbed Hair Bobs Up Again.
Dear Miss Fairfax: I am a girl
Of IL and like bobbed hair. Would
bobbed hair be becoming to round.
full face? I like it and don't know
whether to bob it or not. Is it stu
in style? Hoping you can advise me,
YYAnTCInEn
Yes, my dear, it Is very much In
styie. Without seeing you. would
not like to advise as to its becom-
ingness. Why. not ask >your mother?
Happy: What your hope chest
should contain depends entirely up
on the needs to which you VIII put
it. II you are to live on a farm, you
will need different kind and guam
tity or supply than the young apart
4 nent house bride. You should nave
:, = bed and table linen as nice as you
can afford. Other bedding, and
fancy articles such as table runners
and pillows, that you will wish in
your new home, may be added. For
Yourself personally a dainty outlay
OF underwear. handkerchiefs, hos
iery and street clothing should be
supplied as you think you will have
need for them. The bride Of today
doesn't go in for the quantity OF
things her mother liked to have.
Troublcd. There really isn't much
YOU can do that will help. Some
people might suggest ankle straps,
but / really think they would make
little difference. Keep yourself well
and strong and occupied. and don't
think too much about the size OF
your lower extremities.