The Indianapolis times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1922-1965, 1922-11-22

Few years apart.
DEAR MARTHA LEE: am 90. I have
BEEN married seven wears TO man twelve
!. years my senior and have daughter years
I ahsn't waste your time making excuses.
y simply married before I was old enough
and have grown away from my husband
more each year. .
hotels and furnished apartments. That fs
rather hard on the child, so each summer
Rave gone homo so my little girl could play
ny husband has made many changes and
fs alb ut TO make another ne. Now I would
GsA t ,SaB 10 go hS %S S 5d. have HaTe the
Fight 70 take my little daughter away from
her daddyi
90 e f. Impossible ever to have any company.
and on Saturday afternoon and evenings ne
is always out. He says that is the only
I have S tiled TO consider the other side. I
hsSe plenty OF money. good CLONES ano
many OF the things most girls want. but
such Jolly times I could cry.
tried to explain how I felt 20 my hus-
500 500 That hurt because I've really tried to
consider his side always and realize he mas
no desire TO go any place with me. Want
10 Be perfectly fair to him and TO DO what
IS best fer my little girl. but don't you think
am entitled to my YOUTH
Do sou think 1t would be right for me 20
40 home when he makes the change. even II
he did not approve, and tell him that If ne
vas sure he wanted to stay there and would
set place far enough out that enna
could play, that I would conner he always
HAS il7iS'sN O'' - ~ HOPEFUL.
Answer: You seem to have "sized
UP" the situation pretty well, Hopeful.
You are right; your child should be
reared in a home, instead OF being
moved from hotel TO hotel and apart
ment to apartment.
Your proposed course OF action
gems about as good as any OF
course. you should warn your hus-
band Of what you intend to do. That
NAV bring him to his senses" If
Il does not, carry out your intentions
n But. Hopeful, disagree with you
s bn one point You were entitled to
YOUR youth. but you threw it away.
Now you must make your child your
first consideration You are doing
that; keep on. Remember, every act
Of yours will affect your daughter.
If possible, keep your home intact
PERHAPS YOU can effect a compromise
with your husband; if you are willing
70 stav in with him almost every
night, he should take you out once
In a while. Remind him that turn
sbout's fair play" And remind him
that his acts, as well as yours, AFFECT
the little girl, and that a quarreling
father and mother, or a life without
either one Of them. might cause her
much unhappiness.
DEAR MARTHA LEE: I have been read
ing your questions and answers IN tne pa
Per and have pitied many girI IT.. N , ne nes
love affair. but have found out ooh nave
70 to a show almost every night 1
think a great deal of a fellow who seems TO
ii But he &c comes 70 SEQ me IN a peculiar
way; that IL, he comes over Just Wnsn l -
he feels ike Il, usually after the snow,
about p:15 or later. 1 do not know whether
he ts coming or not. - -
&c does not expect me to 90 with any
ether fellow and 1 never have caught LIN
Sit6 snv g1rIs. He says he does not care Tor
them. His past life Is clear rom every
Eat. e, hurt his feelings By asking why
~ Soea not show a little more OF his love
for mA and Why he does not ask me LOT
date a. my other friends ask tnsE ELI nS
Nov Mss Lee this little matter has oeen
going on for about seven months ana an
Siss7Isted with atchinE my Girl friends go
ing out with their fellows vs., ano enjoying me-
You have helped others win tnen
Nsroubles. maybe greater than mine. so am
seoping you VIII help me decide what 4;, % 90
Answer: I wonder whether the
man cannot afford to take you to
shows and other places. That might
EettIe one question. But he Is In
considerate not to let you know when
he is coming. In fact, I believe you
may have made him that way, by be