The Rock Island Argus and daily union., 1922-05-29
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BY nRC. ELIZABETH THOMPSON
LIZABETH THOf1pSON7

fancy and after you have known
him a while YOU may find you are
no longer interested in him, and 1
your love for your fance may re-
turn.
II is not fair that you should
wait so long to marry. Under the
circumstances l would advise you
TO let the other man come to see
you, even if you have to break your
engagement OF course you should
be open in what you do and not
deceive your fance. II woulc not
be fair to marry, feeling as you do
When you marry you want TO lcVel
the man with your whole heart
Dear Mrs. Thompson: / am en-
gagged to a young man and MS
mother has never called upon me.
Now | have had an invitation from
her inviting me TO his home tor
dinner. Do you think | should de-
cline the invitation until she has
called on me? RUTH l.
Accept the invitation to dinner.
without a doubt your nancc's
mother has the right spirit toward
you and does not realize you Woatd
prefer to have her call hrBG 10
not look for formalities. You WILL
be happier if you meet your nus.
bands people with heartful OF
love and cordiality. To look for
sights would be a very bad start
in your new family relationship.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: have
been going with young man one
year my senior. We have gone to
gether for almost a year. About
two months ago he became inter
ested in another girl. He tried to
keep it a secret from me and told
me several times after he started
going with this girl that he loved
NE and missed me when l was
away from him. He didn't know l
knew about the other girl l didn't
let on as l didn't want him to think
l was jealous
He has not spoken to me for
quite a while and he has not made
any kind of explanation don't
know why he has done as he has
1t seems strange after we went to-
gether for so long. Don't you think
if he ever cared anything for me
he should have made some kind OF
an explanation? "a.
loved this fellow and Ike him
to a certain extent yet am net
uneasy about not getting some one
else l will like just as we'll Don't
you think il would show there was
more to him if he would make
some kind of an explanation? II
seems to me If we had gone TO-
gether a few times it wouldn't
make any difference. but we had
come to a pretty serious point
am not quite IS but will be IN
a short time. Every time | see this
fellow he is looking at me- He
watches every move l make We
attend the same school Do yon
think he still cares for me?
Please pass your opinion on thiS-
SMILES
You have given your love to a
"masher" and are paying the price
with a heavy heart and humuia-
ton No boy or man has the right
to declare his love for girl un-
less he follows up his statement
with a proposal of marriage.
Yes, l do think he owes yOuzan
explanation. If he had had any
manhood he would have told you
that his love was gone and he could
not keep up his pretanse- Without
a doubt he will treat the new girl
with the same lack Of consfdeTa-
ton. Forget him as quickly as you
can, and do not let the mistakes OF
yesterday keep you from achieve
ment today and tomorrow Pres
by this lesson and in Tia fuGuTt
keep your relationship with boys
on a friendship and not . sweet
heart basis.
I do not believe he loves you
now.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: My girl
friend is to be married and ] want
to buy her a wedding present l
have only 81 Is there anything
nice l can buy for that amount?
ANXIOUS.
You might get your gizI friend
a cheese knife, lemon fork, pickle
dish. or salt and pepper shakers