The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1921-01-29
cynthia
Frey
rtnin Amount Of Social
/ Life In School Offsets
Grind aud Routine.

Dear sEiss Grey; arm young
han Of -. and have lately read ar
iclce In your columns which have so
r~atiy inspired me that have de-
bkdcd to cosnc 10 you for advice.
am = student OF hsgh standing
land wvll liked by my associates and
cachcrA At the end OF the semes-
~. twc Of my teachers came to me
with advice As TO what studies l
should pursue. and also told me that
would surely be a success in life.
Nov. the question that am going
10 present to YOU concerns my SO
ciai life have spent lengthy inter.
walls away from home. and have
learned the environments of the
many classes of people that have
come In contact with. which range
frcm the paitry class to those OF re-
putc. have my many faults. as
most people do. but can say that
! arm . good Christian. and have
never dome anything that even my
best friend tmy motherl would hold
mAlevoicnec toward me for SO doing.
I DOM use tobacco. nor do spend
my time around pool halls and like
places Of amusement To the con
ftrary. most OF my time ts spent at
home After dinner I generally sing
to : few selections which my sister
Ck ~ playa after which | play
= few less popular ones on my Chart
pet I generally allow myself one
bali hour to peruse the daily papers,
md thu rcet Of the evening I devote
D@0y studies. After lunch. on sun.
Nay. generally take In theatre
with my chums. II not. I usually plan
70 attend some lecture
ny social experience Is lacking.
and. to b. frank about II. have not
learned 20 dance. have had several
invitations 20 parties and again. girl
friends have come to me and asked.
Arr you planning 10 take In this.
sd are you going to take in thatF
usually find some excuse for my
inability to attend. and then they try
- magnify some affair that might
~ q interest 20 me At a later date.
bue tighten sails and let the sub
1ec4 drtft BY.
Ensne time since was introduced
- = reSpectable young lady. and she
haa Impressed me very much.
chAnce TO meet her. to and from
ciAaDea. and each time ! ask myself.
Ia : student acquiring a round edu-
W4ion who does not participate In a
! nus1eed number OF social activities
Uecore I marry. l hope to have n
rood education. and also means with
| which 70 keep up a respectable home.
hut would you advis- me whether or
MOI an education is complete with.
out these social activities. as I have
neofionesl. ard would you advise me
x8 ke>p company with this young
kAy. or. In fact. any young lady. un.
~ have finished my educations
Seeking advice +. $. II.
yem. perhaps. hsue heard that old
G.nst1--Au rork and no play
Gnnees yscA . dun boy Bat the
o1hGv e8sysms. all play a~d no work.
ODu11 hacc practically the Same ef-
~ There y . happy sedism.
80 ~ STUDENT sAo fsrds q Ia the
- seeso FORCES ahead before IN
= epvs01s amount Of social IVc for
~ sfsdcsf--t keeps him fror,
tn1ekta1 ~ csvciea ~ he should
oftsn1 oas o. ftoo social functions a
speah, snv on Friday and Saturday
etohs1. Y should mot Interfere scsth
J ~ sfsdses. and sco.id hare tend
eucv - keep his school 1ork from
0AsuNs4no . routine aspect
\ H1oh school and ssic>rdfv ste
| 1ents should ssinoic socially; but IN
! oraW 70 DO this 70 L. not NECESSARY
- Keep steady company Yo.
shcsjd NOT hare ons. but a number
~ otrf ac1uatnfances in poar Gloss
elbow you scosid feel free to inptte
90 school fractions
Noted Writer
& Woman
Dear Miss Grey: Please let me
know II h. NJ. Bower. the noted
writer Of fiction. Is a man or a
woman. PUZZLED.
b. ~. Boscey IA q troni1n. and In
DvSr0xe Hfe u Mrs. Bertrand w. Sin
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