The Richmond palladium and sun-telegram. [volume] (Richmond, Ind.) 1907-1939, 1921-09-03
Heart Problems

Dear Mrs. Thompson: For years l
have described the type of fellow of
whom | would like to think seriously.
A couple of months ago | met oy hap
penstance just that kind of fellow.
Can you tell me how l can make him
love me?
He has blue eyes, fair complexion,
easy, quiet ways, and a very sweet
disposition.
Please don't tell me to wait and
he will come, for have been waiting,
but with Improbable results. And
please don't tell me that if he loves
me he will come. What l want to
know is how | can make him love me.
To tell me to forget is useless for
have tried and simply cannot. l think
of him while working and while rest
ing. / have always admired that type
OF young man and know that it IS
real love and not mere infatuatior
After having met him l cannot more
than like other fellows All other fell
lows are uninteresting to me now. It
seems that l will simply go crazy
thinking about him | work in an of
flee but am going back to school in
the fall for few months, after which
! will have permanent position.
| am so situated that | cannot en-
terrain the young man in my home,
and am not blessed with a beautiful
face or wealth. | haven't even a good
disposition, although / try very hard
to be sweet and have never spoken
GROSSLY to this young man. / am wor-
ried and heart sick. | want to win
his affections and yet / want to do
what is right. MISS COMFORT.
You will not believe what | tell you
now, but sometime you will look back
and see that was right For 4 long
time the man could have lived only
in your thoughts, and then you met
some one whom you though was like
your minds picture. Little girl, you
are loving a creature of your imagi-
nation. and not the fair compleXioned
man with the sweet disposition. In
your mind you are bestowing upon
him the disposition and looks you
would admire. and are creating scenes
and conversations as you think he
would appear in them.
| only hope that you will have d
chance to know the fair compleXioneC
man with his sweet disposition better
Then would come your awakening
and he would be an ordinary man IL
your eyes. He would seem ordinary
whether he is or not, because M
could not be like your minds picture
You enjoy your thoughts about love
and you will not want to give then
up when | tell you to. 1t is mucl
pleasanter thinking of romantic
moonlight with this man you low,
than planning a picnic lunch for
young man who does not even interes
you. Nevertheless, the latter woul,
be far more wholesome.
Since you want advice about win
ming the young man, ! will help yol
all can, but | will not promise sue
cess.
First of all, keep your thoughts L
yourself Do not tell any one, no
even your dearest girl friend, of yol
love or admiration for the young mar
If he hears in any way that you car
for him. he will be disguised and you
case is hopeless.
Instead OF spending time thinkin
about your love, make yourself prett
clothes. brush your hair and comb
with utmost care, battle every nigh
so that your skin will look fresh an
attractive, manicure your nails, kee
, your shoes polished and your clothe
immaculate. This alone will not b
attractive. 1t will be your personalit
rs well as your appearance which wi
attract Read, exercise and improv
in every way you can. Also b
thoughtful of others and take time I
help whenever you see help is needed
There must be love and kindness i
your nature to attract a good man.
Never make opportunities TO tai
to the young man. If opportunitiC
arise. take advantage of them. Nevt
talk too long or show your deep il
terest. Let the young man seek yo
Remember the old saying: Cha
love and it will flee from thee; file
love and it will follow thee"