Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1921-06-23

I am twenty-one years old and go
with a girl eighteen. L dearly love
her and L feel sure she loves me. l
would not want to marry her if she
is not nice girl. L have been told
by another girl, and also by boy
that used to go with her that she
was not a nice girl, SIZE has always
been real nice to me. How am to
know? I have been going with her
one year, but am a little undecided
about her. Do you really think that
a girl loves you if she will not even
kiss you good-by. Thanking you
very kindly.
TROUBLED Blonde.
Perhaps you don't know that
there are many people in this
world given to gossip, and when
they repeat things they hear,
they magnify and distort it so
the story would never be recog-
it happen to get back. Some
people live and thrive on gossip,
especially if it has anything to
do with a girls fair name. There
fore do not judge this girl, and
pay no attention to what you
proof that she isn't the right
sort. If you have kept company
with her for year you should
be able to judge for yourself.
And until you know" that she
is not just what she should be,
be fair enough to her to give
her" the Benefit of the doubt.
own soul and see if you can't
find a few flaws. This, I ask
you as one friend to another.
Be fair and just. 1t is the least
you can do.
Here comes a girl of eighteen for
advice. L am a stranger in the small
town where l live, and have only
been living here five months, and
months, until here of late he has
gone back to the girl he went with
before [ moved here. He treats me
friendly, but doesn't seem to care
about going with me. The other girl
was always jealous of me-. though l
treated her kindly as I knew how to-
Please tell me how 1 should treat
him. Should 1 be friendly and just
like I was before he stopped going.
or be Indifferent? He still treats
me well, and waves at me in passing.
Should L wave back? Thanking you
for your advice.
You were the newcomer" in
the small town, this boy was in
love with the other girl all the
time, yet he wearied of the same
ness. You were a new arrival,
so he sailed forth with his best
air, to conquer. Conquer he
did-he saw you were liking him
pretty well, but that little voice
of his first love" kept calling,
so back to her he went. Now
you must grin and bear it. Don't
let him see that you care
snap, treat him always politely,
but let him sweetly alone. At
any rate to give him the oppor-
tunity of laughing in his sleeve
at you. But look about you and
see if you can't find some other
boy or boys amusing. Don't let
him see he has hurt you.
1 am a girl IA years young and am
in love with young man just five
years older than me. He is a quiet
and nice young man. He hasn't any
bad habits at all. I have blue eyes,
fair complexion and light auburn
hair. Do you think I am pretty or
not? We are engaged to be mar
ried in october. We are going to
What color do you think would suit
me best for a wedding dress, and
what would be best to travel in?
will have to run away to get mar
ried? Do you think it is proper, and
do you think that this boy is too old
to make a nice husband? Do you
think I am too young to marry? for
L am in the eighth grade. Do you
think it is any harm for a boy to
give a girl oranges and apples? This
boy respects me anywhere he sees
me, for he and L are deeply in love
and won't be happy without each
other. He never goes with any other
girl but me, not that I'm jealous at
all. Your best advice will be appre-
Ciated. EVENING~STAR. ,
[ can't tell whether you are
pretty or not. If you have any
claim to good looks" you can
improve on them by being pretty
of mind and disposition. What's
the idea of running away to
marry?" If your parents object
you are too young and haven't
any business to marry. You
should try and get an education
you need that more than you
do a husband, and 1 am sure
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