Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1921-04-30

Here comes another grass widow
for advice. My husband left me
eight months ago with a baby two
years old. Since that time l have
heard nothing from him. We sep
arated a year ago, but he finally
coaxed me to go back, but he was
very cruel to me so / left aagin,
but did not tell him I meant to stay
away. He disappeared after that. 1
am very young girl being only Is
when I married. OF course [ was
foolish then. DO you think it wrong
for me to allow another young. man,
who seems to be deeply infatuated
with me to come to see me occa-
sionally? My home life (for I'm at
home now) is very disagreeable.
Would you advise me to go away
to work if my parents will keep
my baby?
Please answer in the Tri-weekly
There is no reason why Ry'' You
should mar your whole life, be-
cause of your unhappy marriage.
1t is better to get a divorce,
since your husband has shown
he cares nothing for you. You
are still young and may find
man more worthy of you, if
you are trying . to do right
yourself. After a girl marries
attitude toward her if she has
to live with them again. If you
are capable of making your own
living it may be the best thing
for. you to take care of your
self and let your parents take
care care of your child. People may
talk about you unless you are
first divorced, before accepting
the attentions of another man.
One must always be particular
especially in a position like
yours.
am lonely girl some times,
and happy too. Have come to you
Tor advice. 1 am twenty-one years
or age, have brown hair and eyes,
teet inches tall. [ have been
gong with a young man four years.
At first he came twice a week, until
he got in good, and then once a
week, and now he comes twice or
three times a month. Sometimes
he goes with another girl, but not
OFTEN: Whenever he does, he tells
me about it. He has always treated
me nicely and says he loves me bet
ter than any girl he has ever been
with. His father is a very old man.
and also his mother is very old: he
is the only child with them, and his
rather does not want him to get
| married while he is living, and this
boy told me if L did not want to
marry any other boy to wait for him
later on and he would not come so
often, so the people would talk about
It,, and if L wanted to go with some
other boys to pass away the time it
would be all right, and he would
think just as much of me as he ever
dld. DO you really think he cares
anything about me? And would you
Keep on going with him? l love him
better than any boy I have ever
been with. Please print this in your
next Atlanta Trf>Weekly Journal
Appreciate your. advice so much
Yours truly,
Your young man friend has
acted all the way through the
part Of gentleman. He must
care for you to continue his
friendship with you for four
years. Yet he realizes his duty
to his parents. He is taking the
only honorable course open to
him. Therefore you can go
with other young men, which is
the proper thing to do under the
circumstances you can keep
his friendship. 1t is not right
for you to devote all of your
. time to this boy under the con-
dltlons. Let the future take
care of itself-regarding him.
We, are two lonely girls coming to
| you for advice, but not about boys
We are going to have a rock party
| please tell us something that would
! be nice to serve and would it be nice
! to serve it in the parlor. Pleast print
| in the next Journal.
With love to you,
MUTT AND JEFF.
A salad course would be nice
to serve with iced tea, if the
day or evening is warm. Chicken
salad on lettuce leaves, with
mayoiaise dressing, olives, crack
| ers or cheese straws small light
rolls served hot with butter be-
| tween and homemade peach or
pear pickles, all served on one
plate. This is a very dainty re-
| freShment if the salad is well
prepared. You could use fruit
salad in place of the chicken sal
ad and serve thin slice of ham
| on each plate with it. And if
| you desire ice cream, you may
| serve it as a next course. Hot
tea or chocolate if preferred.