Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1921-07-07

1eeL SIX lnCneS III nelBHL, WElSIlL
1875, brown hair, gray eyes and fair
complexion, who has been receiving
the sole attention from lawyer
who Is a graduate from one of our
Tearing universities.
He is also a musician, being able
to perform on piano, cornet, clario-
net and violin. Able to read and
transpose almost at sight, has an
excellent tenor voice, twenty-five
years Of age, six feet in height,
weight $50. brown hair, grey eyes,
fair complexion, has a good physique,
in good mechanical condition, has a
good law practice, has been calling
on me for more than ten months reg
ularly on Thursday evenings. Be
sides the other times that he would
accompany me to entertainments.
We were never away from my
home together without a chaperon.
He insisted on me having other
company when he called but clearly
gave me flowers. and many nice
pieces of classical music. He never
confessed to me that he had any
love or admiration for me, neither
| did he attend any entertainment
when 1 did not accompany him. Has
and would often consult with me
about certain plans.
One day with the help of two of
my girl friends we, planed to tease
him just for joke. We planned
with some other chums to entertain
on the evening my friend was ex-
pected to call. and for me to allow
young man to escort me to the
entertainment Gust two blocks
wait at my home and say to my
friend when he arrived that Mr.. -
was visiting friends here and Miss
= took him over to the entertain
you over. He thanked them very
courteously and said that as he had
met disappointment he would de-
cline to follow it.
I saw my mistake. I at once sent
| him written apology, but he fail
ed to acknowledge it. 1 then called
| in person at his office. explained
more hurt than he because I had
hurt his feeling. He said I then
forgive YOU then asked him If
he would call as he had been. He
answered Il Is subjudice' "a case
not yet decidedly
1 understand he has suspended the
completion on his new building and
ha sapplied for a passport to go
abroad. Thanking you in advance for
any favor you may deem me worth
am Respectfully,
N. B. The reason for using the
descriptions is to enable you to con-
| trast.
Your man friend is an ideal
list, a dreamer While he never
confessed his love for you, he
was weighing you all the time
in his mind. He surely expected
to wed you, I'm sure, but he
to see if you were different
from the rest. He would make
rather an exacting husband but
a kind one. You should not have
been so impulsive, however the
deed is done, and the only thing
to do is wait. Let time take
care of the affair. Surely if he
realize he was a little bit hard,
and he will come around. Do
not write to him, let him make
the advance first. You have
done what you could for for
giveness. Let him do the rest.
And if his heart isn't composed
| of granite he will return, because
| he can't stay away. Love has a
way of taking the wrinkles out
of the path toward you. His
footsteps will smooth them.
I have never come to you for adj
| vice before: but 1 have always read
| the letters in the papers of the other
girls and they have helped me so
much.
am rs years old. five feet 4 IL
inches tall, weigh. ITO pounds, have
| black hair and blue eyes, and fair
complexion. How do you think l
look? 1 have been teaching school
teaching school about three years
| ago L met widower, who is As
years old, and I have been going
| with him ever since. He comes to
see me everywhere I go to teach. and
has three children and his wife has
| been dead five years. He Is very
nice looking and seems to be good
man. He has been nicer to me than
any boy I have ever gone with and
says he dearly loves me, but he says
he is too old for me, and says he
never intends to marry any more.
| Do you think he will ever marry
| again, and do you think he Is too
old for me? We enjoy one another's
| company very much. He has a dis
position that he can go with any
| girl.
1 have learned to love him very
| deeply, too. Before I met this
| widower I thought 1 was loving a
young man about my age and he has
| never been with any other girl and
says 1 am the only girl he can love.
| But l don't believe l can ever love
| him any more. Which do you. think
| loves me best? Thank you-
TROUBLED HEART"
While this widower may be
very fascinating, and seems to adj
mire you, if he has told you he
never expects to marry again, he
| is certainly doing you great
injustice to take UP your time.
You are giving him your. best
| years, and he has no right to
ask it of you if his intentions
are not serious. The best way
to come to an understanding, tell
him plainly that you feel he is
not exactly fair with you and
you think it best to cease giving
your time to him, that you wish
| to marry. If he cares anything
for you he will tell you Soft
not-you are wise to give him
up and let some other man have
| an opportunity to propose.
Frankly, you are wrong, and are
| doing yourself a great injustice
to devote yourself entirely to
| this man. Let there be an un-
! Outstanding at once. You Will De
glad that you did so--later on.
1 want you to give me your best
| advice. l have been going with