The Big Sandy news. [volume] (Louisa, Ky.) 1885-1929, 1921-02-04
HOME CIRCLECOLUNN
A COLUMN DEDICATED TO TIRED
MOTHERS AS THEY JOIN THE
HOME CIRCLE AT EVEN
ING TIDE.

Opportunity.
Master of Human Destinies am !.
Fame. Love and Fortune on my
footsteps wait
cities and fields ! walk; | penetrate
Deserts and Seas remote. and paas-
ing by
Hovri and Mart and Palace soon or
late
I kuoak uhbiddan. once ut every
gate.
If sIeepins wake, II feas,inE. risp
before
1 turn away, Il il the hour OF Este
And those who follow may reach
every state
Nortals desire, aud conquer every
foe
save Death. Bu, those who doubt
er hesitate
Condemned to failure, pnnury and
woe l.
Seek me In vain and uscicssy inn
plore:
/ answer not and return no msre
--Ingalis
Men and women are no fundamen-
tally different Impersonally we All
acknowledge the fact yet when We
get down TO personalities few OF M
act upon our knowledge OF H. II 10
undoubtedly due To this lack OF pcrcen
ton that SO many marriages fail. Mach
man and each woman judges the other
by his or her own standards and fed
inRs In the matter. Naturally thore n
trouble III q man could realise that Il
is tho little things that appeal 10 4
woman and II he would stop just onc1
In while In his mad hurry 10 tArn.
living and show her Just some little
attention even though II may seena
foolish TO him, 10 her II means all tho
difference between heaven and vesT
mundane existence The woman IN
tNrn should realize that a man does
not see the smaller things and hcls
constant endeayor TO bring his attea
ton to things which really matter very
little TO him seems TO him like MAJ,
ging II each one could establish tbs
fundamental difference FIRMLY In thNir
minds aud mako Up their mipds 10 be
more tolerant with zach other prob
ably great deal OF unhappiness wupid
he avoided,
" Pleasure Is good thing aud ray
not with safety be sighted. Bnt when
given iirst place Il liz debaAing add
elusive business IL good and demands .
the best powers OF most OF us. But
whatever be the reward, we cannot AZ
ford TO be It's slaves Fortunate IN
deed lis the man who can master his
desires and strike a happy medium 10
tween businesa and pleasure.
Real achievements come through -
ruBcd energy. DO not scatter your tai
enta and energies carclessly about over
any number OF trades and yocations.
Focus your energies on the thing ysu
v iitssi 20 achieve sIiS. Ia; nothing ..tv==t-
your Interest from the main issue.
There il nothing 40 easy as TO set
behind with your work and once ypu
are behind there III nothing no difficult
as 10 get ahead Of e. Blu; the fss.;y
careful man is the one who pushes his
work rather than allowin. his work 20
push him
Why viii some people continually
worry about things that may nevcr
happen in the future and let thar
preaea, affairs get into such a mix-up
that some one elise has 10 worry to ct
them out
The keynote in the management or
children Is: Don't over manage then.
Let them decide ~ many things a.
possible for themselves and don't nag
or worry them about trifling things
Careful. painstaklng work scGas
pretty tough for the youngsters but
before they have passed half way thru
life they win thank the mothers ARd
fathers who required T.
Don't laugh M a man whose intea-
lions sound far too grand TO be achicy-
cd by him our achievements usually
are less than our intentions 50 IT'S a
wise man who aims high
The person VINO never makes a mis-
take never makes anything SUCCESS
was never achieved without some risks
and once in a while risk is bound 70
fail
There are too many peopletn the
world who laugh all the way home and
stop as soon az they reach the door
II you want TO be a successful mar
ried couple, do not herald the aacTi
tles you make TO each others taste.
habits and preferences
There is no condition in life 40 low
hut one may have hopes nor none 20
high but may have fears
Never deceive for heart once mis--
led can never trust wholly again
H5 --+---
blight thinking means right living
and right living means good health
---
Cleanliness is better than all the dis
infcctants known in science.
FITCH
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