The Morning Tulsa daily world. [volume] (Tulsa, Okla.) 1919-1927, 1921-04-10
EIVES VIEWS ON
| HAPPY WEDL0CK
|yittv and Talented Divor-
Gee Is Authority on
Problems
PRIvACY IS ESSENTIAL
,rtinual Eating of Meals To-
oether Breeds Dislike and
Dissension
Il, MARGERY REX.

Hy MARGERY REX.
yEW YORK. April Docs the
.w York woman marry only for
honey?
n,e4 she over smile?
s the happy woman an insuffera-
1pauion in n crisis?
Who IL bcttcr able to answer these
,.-ics than q woman whose charm
"A cleyornoss have brought her
B,grdant opportunity to study man
"a womanhind? ?
ponrhyu Stanlaws called her the
-,st beautiful woman i'm America
She called herself "1Iildric Dav-
mort" when she wrote the trench
nj and tantalizing things OF love,
yrtship and marriage.
She h Mrs. Hilda Davis Owsley,
ose recent divorce from Harry
,,yan Owslcy. obtained through her
og,scl James 4. TiTloy, has caused
r TO be- questioned az 10 her ulti-
ate opinion of marriage as a happy
tate.
sull young and lovely woman,
ler only IN experience, Mrs. Ow-
on mas tlIIliIlfNl W. lVi ill' ilNA N'Al
usoss on matters romantic and
uctical that deal with religions Of
M and women In the trying tests
.wedlock.
Mrs. Owslcy States Views.
"Is release welcome ?" she re-
,aled the question. Il can't say
hs,. Il pulls one this way and that.
,y emotions are mixed, sad.
at is happiness that hardcns one.
h. happy who are untouched by
70 are very hard.
They are iusupportahle compan-
'ns in any relation Of life or i'm n
rsis Happiness and success alike
rden people.
That is why believe that the
roman who docs not marry too
|,-y makes a better wife. Perhaps
certainly well after 25. is the best
me for her to marry.
Such woman is more mellow.
be has not escaped the experience
suffering. And one doesn't profit
b. suffering Till one is over 25.
Men appreciate that mellowness
b a woman. They realize worth in
Fha, they get from such a wife.
Empathy and fine understanding.
Many Marry for ENpcdicney.
The basic quality Of marriage to-
isy. since our weddings in most
ts'os are not made for love. is ex-
'diency.
q don't say all women marry for
toney, Some already have wealth.
Tho typical New York woman,
tho has her choice Of number Of
e,l 70 marry. will choose the one
IN can give her Advancement.
AfsThis woman OF Manhattan is
Il xfhout-there is no English word
3 express it-what the French call
tindresse.
She never smiles, although she
tten laughs
We never 500 upon her fair face
beautitul smilc at seeing "A lovely
Tower, or some wonderful child or
smile at some loved one.
Need Personal Privacy.
Long engagements are bad. We
ltd to say, NIaay In haste, repent
Z say. Marry at leisure. repent
o haste
The ordinary marriage is not
Compatible with happiness.
The only possible method to In
F1re some degree of felicity is a
decent privacy freely given by one
70 the other.
The maximum of privacy, then,
the secret OF n happy marriage.
believe separate wings should be
V4't on houses for men and their
wives
Taking an meals together Is bad.
me mornings ! would want Choco-
@'e my husband might want coffee,
ma with the domestic problem as II
= now such difference might
week our home.
Personally I like. the man be-
.'hd mis- newspaper at breakfast, \
nan with any sense Of humor
'ouIdn't have breakfast with one
Cayway.
! Colorlcss Contcntment.
Many marriages last because a
~Ghan lots herself degenerate into
nal ! call sitting bird
lou know they say a true sports
la won shoot sitting bird. and
nay Is what keeps some women
Ne and snug in their matrimonial
shelters.
lou will find that in any relation
"een man and women the one
u' loves most ia always controlled
we one who loves least.
me one who loves most must
KIP about play dead. do any
tus under heaven to hold the one
'Io loves least.
und that twentieth century
giH Is not tho sort TO cope LONG
"I me one who loves least
q,. brings 20 mind the truism
"a ions anA that has no turning
n.W present ! am suffering with
II might hc called a matrimon-
naneoycr,' smiled Mrs. Owslcy
again '"' "oH'" over hlHrrS
. aaat exactly expresses my state
p,,a"u' ".'nu' Vet | won't say I will
sa,, marry again. We haven
"a ot,eht perspective on ourselves
,,-use what VIC DO. at the moment
Mn say nothing Of predicting what
happen in the FUTURE"
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