Capital journal. (Salem, Or.) 1919-1980, 1921-01-31

HN S&en.---essr 49, st~4assa
gyman's dictum. Her appearances
was disconcerting. You don't ex-
pect to find Irish lace blouses ana
real coiffures in the village, Much
less in Chelsea. But Miss Burr is
great success and can afford to
be as unconventional as she pleases
with long hair and other orna-
ments considered very radical in
| that vicinity.
Absurd" she said tersely. The
well-organized home has no head.
1t should be a departmental affair."
81 don't believe in the home
but that is beside the point
Believes in Two Homes.
81 do believe i'll two homes, one
for the husband and one for the
wife. That's what is the matter
with marriage - the mutual home.
know, I've been married twice.
zone of the two in mutual
home will always try to get the
upper hand, The strong one will
become stronger and the weak one
will become weaker.
With two homes the woman
goes on with her life as she did be-
fore marriage. Then there is no
such discussion about who is head
of the house.
II have heard many girl in an
office say: There's no way out of
here except through the church
door. which proves that to many
women matrimony is simply an
easier way of earning a living than
working in an office, for instance.
Departmental Domisticity.
IF couple must live together.
then let the domesticity be depart.
mental. Let a man have charge of
what occurs outside the home and
woman take charge of the purely
domestic affairs.
I'm some things | would be will
ing to let a man be the head. AS.
Tor example, n man could take care
of such enterprises as crossing the
street, helping woman through
crowds and paying the subway
fare.
once inside the doors of his
home, though. his power should
end Then he's hers.
That reminds me of something
II. q, Wells said to me when was
in London recently.
Wants 10 BE Mothcred.
DO you really think he asked
me- that man wants intellectu-
allty when he comes home at night.
NO - he wants to be mothered like
a baby
Yes, | replied to Wells, and
woman wants to mother man like
a pahy only if she respects what he
has been doing in the daytime
If he is a baby "a hours a dav
a woman gets good and sick of
mothering him"
If a woman wants to sink her
SELF in her husband and lose be,.
own personality say that Is an
very well provided his success
means enough to her, If to her he
is worth sinking.
after all, there's only one wav
TO get on with a man cultivate n
3oapy vocabulary This is Old ana
trlte' l suppose 49, but is unaltera-
bly, true.
Say to him, You are the most
wonderful salesman. or advertising
man, or writer, or whatever he il
and he will swallow it whole. hair
hook and line.
Men Designs Womcn's Clothes.
rms minister says women in
.heir dress are not as modest nc
men. Does he know that an wa
''ei clothes are designed by
men? g
Designed for women by men L.
or the purpose of attracting n,or
ana don men drcssmakers know
what VIII attract other mon i'm !,
"oman's clothes?
Modern dancing has como !,
FOR it's share Of criticism iron, tb,
RoT. Dixon, too. ] see. He e,,s a,
s. immoral
I say it has done away with "a
great amount Of immoraiitv. n ts
great outlet for pent-up energy.
Any ono who dances q great dear
VII DE i'm perfect health. Ii Is bef-
'f lhan exercise in "a gymuasiumL
''al duh at It's best Dressed tu,
u good clothes, moving along n.
GOOD music, the dancer Is jpJuIrr-
hs in the finest type Of exercise
be- could find.
Aitef all, men are infants the
u iealfht OF them J feel forty years
idef than any man ever met he
auSe ct their universal childish
- ihey never grow up"
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