Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-06-08
WOn1Qn'S Life and Love
The LOUe Doctor
BY WINIFRED HARPER COOLEY

masculine trait and that such ldiosyn-
crasies simply must be ignored. A..
She sums up the chief crimes OF tne
genus male something Ike TINS an
husbands are Unconditional, easy golns;
seemingly Indifferent to tears, poreu
with herring the state of ones heai,h
or soul, impatient at analysis OF tne
tender passion, cold to inquiries as 10
the progress Of their love since yest.et
day. A few are jealous to apsural.s,
others are Indifferent regarding your
male admirers to the point OF oelhg un
complimentary. They regard maiti, mat.
existence as a commonplace, uneNcltius
state. not to be discussed eternan enu
any effort to elicit passionate ana Jonn
Rnrrymoreish declarations or teverlsh
nassion bore and ''just like
woman " -.
When the foregoing universal male
brutalities are thoroughly understoou
by the young wife and she has peen
commiserated but urged to endure them
in the interests of the home as a unit
of society. she feels much more normal
and. in time, may even be caJoled INTO
laughing and agreeing that deviiss
though men be, we must have nem
Youth almost always is tragic ma
turitv achieves humor. II the middle.
aged woman could not laugh she would
commit suicide. Happy the young ma
tron who has wise counselor WIN
real humor as family physician OF
emotional maladies.
II the love doctor gets chance at
Younghusband also 1t is fortunate. In
n tactful. nolchalant manner, she can
enliebtcn him on the way to treat
women. It is so easy, If the stupid
males only knew it; one little recipe
for every quarrel known to humanity,
outside Of those arising from real crime.
Women may be prim or foolish, or in
tellcctual or silly or violent or amiable
but IL they love, they are Vulnerable.
Their weak spot is their affection and,
instead of arguing palnstaklngly the
merits of the question in hand or labor
ing TO convince the wife of the mistakes
she has made or of holding post NOR
tens generally that will reopen the en-
tire quarrel and start them off again-
instead Of these, he should just take her
in his arms and smother her with
kisses
This recipe never has been known to
fail It has materia medica and Chris
tian Science and the entire pharmaco-
peia beaten to finish. She may strug.
gle a few moments ito save her face
OT SDulltI nus SO'iN
pride and you needn't think you are
going to appease her that way, she's
not child and you can just stop
But if the kisses continue, the argu-
ments cease and all is blissful as a
Hawaiian moonlight night with uku-
leles playing on the beach at Wau-
kaki!
So says the wise love doctor, and one
would think the husband would accept
the advice gleefully. but to take charge
of the situation thus amiably requires n
bit of self control and common sense
on his part and sometimes the tempta-
tion to continue the argument, just to
show how wrong she was, is irresistible.
Unless he honestly wants to stop fight
ing and is good d-humored, the scheme
will fail.
1--WE don't mean cave man tactics"
asserts the emotion specialist that
is too crude and sometimes engenders
hate. We only mean sensible under
standing Of the real, fundamental diff
ferences in men and women. IF you
love her, tell her so !; how else is she
going to know it," declares the love-
doctor. mo charge for prescription :"