Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1921-12-15
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You give other girls such good adj
vice l thought I would write, as l
am in trouble. I am nineteen years
Of age, fair complexion, blue eyes,
blond hair, five feet six inches tall.
have been going with two boys and
they seem ITO think lots of me, and
the one / like best is twenty-one
yearS of age, and there is another
girl that is just crazy about him and
every time / am with him or she
sees him anywhere she calls him
just to get otalll to him. I love
him dearly, but I won't let him
know that 7 love him at all. This
other boy is nineteen years of age,
and is crazy about me-. Doesn't want
me to go with the boy of twenty-one.
What colors would suit my complex
ion best? How long should 1 wear
my dresses. Thanking you.
TROUBLED BLUE EYES.
Troubled Blue Eyes:
You are much more attractive to
the BOY than the other girl. She will
wear herself out after a while. Men
like to do their own counting; they
prefer to seek rather than be seeked.
Don't chide your sweetheart about
the other girl, pay no attention to
her. If he sees you are jealous he
will let his thoughts stray in that
other girls direction, Intentionally.
1t is rather hard job to keep ST.
lent when you see what is being
done, but it will pay you in the end.
Blue is your color, dark blue, light
blue, any shade of blue is yours. 1t
will make your eyes the color of the
sea. Whatever you want to wear,
stick to blue.
Here comes a heart-broken girl
for your advice. AS have no one to
advise me. am in love with a boy
twenty-three, whom / love with all
my heart. And he drinks, but prom
Used me if 1 would marry him he
would quit. He has proven his love
for me. We broke up once but he
asked me to take him back. 1 was
the cause of it so I took him back.
He has asked me to marry him and
prove my love by kissing him. May
I kiss him? 1 am Is years old.
Please give me your best advice.
Must I kiss him and marry him or
not, as l am in more trouble than 1
can stand. e. J. I. M. o.
y
you can reform this boy by marrying
him. If he won't stop drinking for
YOU now 1 have grave doubts about
his stopping after marriage. If you
are a good girl, with an angelic dis
position you may accomplish the
good deed. Don't let your love for
this boy ruin your whole life. EXer-
else "self controP'-to save yourself
tears of real sorrow later. One OF
the greatest battles one has to fight
in life is 'self control" How often
and how gladly would we not yield
to our impulses and desires IL there
were no piper to pay" But there is
always tomorrow and we must see
to it that nothing happens to us to-
day to mar the brightness OF 1t!
Guide yourself now with a firm
steady hand-that your future may
be one of right living and above re-
proach.
/ am coming to you for some adj
vice. I am Is years of age and
weigh $50 pounds and have blue
eyes, and dark hair.
Please tell me what to say when
come home from party with boy.
Should I thank him for carrying me
or not.
PATIENTLY WAITING:
On your return from party 1t
is always polite to say you had
nice time, or enjoyed the party, but
YOU needn't thank the young man
for escorting you, as the pleasure
should be his. If he hadn't wanted
to take you he would have arranged
matters differently. But you can
let him know the evening was spent
pleasantly.
AS I see in The Atlanta Journal
that you give good advice to boys
and girls, I'll ask for some. What
other stones, other than diamonds,
would be suitable for an engage
ment ring? Please answer in Trl-
Weekly Journal, as early as posi-
BILE. Many thanks.
A birthstone is used in the set
ting of an engagement ring III one
cannot afford a diamond. However,
it is a matter of personal taste. Any
pretty stone, not too cheap looking,
may be used. Engagement brace
let's are also used. These are very
narrow gold hoops, sometimes three
narrow hoops linked together, IN
green gold, platinum, or the old
fashioned yellow gold. This yellow
gold is cheapest, yet it is very pref
ty. Sometimes the bracelets are
plain, and they are lovely also carv-
ed. It's a matter of choice.
Just another girl coming for a bit
of your splendid advice.
I'm almost % years old and am
very unhappy at home. My one OBJ
iect in life has been an education,
but I am about to give up In de-
spair.
NV whole heart is bent on finish
ing school, then entering the busl-
ness world and do something worth
while. But my one great obstacle
is NV mother. She will not hear
to me going away, or doing any
thing / want to do. IF ever go
away to school it will be strictly
against her will and I don't believe
S can do that. She has heart trou-
BILE and acute indigestion and cant
be left alone very much. Since
fathers death eight years ago IL
has fallen my lot to stay with her
most of the time. So you can mag
inc I don't have much pastlme-
not the kind that most girls thlnK
belong to them. I'm sure I'm not
a selfish child and expect nothing
but a good time, but, oh, I do want
to realize a few of my dreams. !
realize that we are never young
but once and if we miss the good
things then, it's just good-by.
On one side it is my mother, and
on the other-my career-the thing
that means life. Please tell me
which is the greater debt-the one
we owe ourselves, or the one we
owe mother)
Now what must I do-stay at
home, and give up the brightest
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