The Bridgeport times and evening farmer., 1921-10-01
Written by IMAGERY REX for the
 International News Service

! ed a national philosophy of conduct between the sexes?
 Is it quickly understood among American women that they must keep man guessing? Do all the married Sisterhood who manage to hold their husbands love play the game accord ing to the rules? And do the losers fail to abide by them?
 Be that as it may, foreigners con tinue alternately to be amused or angered at the outer aspect of mar rfcd life in the United States.
 Princess Antoine BibeSco, wife of the Rumanian attache at Washington and daughter of Margot Asquith, whose saucy book about personages in England caused storm of criti- cfsm. has some ideas of her own about men and women of America. She says:
 American men are charming, but it's just because they are so charming that the women aren't so nice. They are utterly spoiled and good for
 Nevertheless, American women as a general thing are more Intellectually ambitious than English women"
 Shame on you, Princess, for Spoil ed and good-for-nothing!" You are almost as catty as your mother, Mar got!
 Remarks of Professor Einstein
 Not so long ago another European, Professor Albert Einstein, whose the ory of "Relativity,' which made him famous and which is understood, he says, by only 12 people in the world, made some observations about us of America
 "Women dominate the entire life of America. The men interest them selves in nothing except work. They think of nothing except work-and to an extent I have never seen before.
 ''As for the rest of the men, they are nothing but the little play dogs of the women who SDeDd their money in a reckless manner and veil them selves in a most of extravaganza They do everything for the women that is in vogue or the whim of the passing moment
 Now, as always, the problem of what a man should do, what a woman should be, how husbands and wives should treat each other, is an engross- ing one. Recently in Philadelphia the New Century Guild. a woman's or Sanization. got together in heated congress and declared if woman could catch g. man there is no reason why she could not keep him caught
 All of which leads up to the set of rules of conduct the guild formulated for the guidance of distraught women Philadelphia Guild RapS Men Folk
 Beforehand remarks were made to cause masculine ears to burn all about the City of Brotherly Love. Men got theirs Note this:
 Men try to make women think they are doing them a great honor in marrying them, and then, if the women do not keep themselves look ing up to par, always sweet and dainty, and ready to be kissed, no matter how much they are battered about. they will soon be neglected .'
 With that as Q start, the guild gives these inside tips on the marital race.
 Don't be shocked if friend hus- band emits an occasional damn; it doesn't mean anything.
 Don't scramble around on the floor hunting for his shirt stud; let him look for it; it will do him good.''
 CThere's a loophole for European criticiSmD
 Don't ask him to shine your shoes (Wouldn't this surprise Einstein?)
 Never antagonize him, but always keep him guessing.
 Let the man do the proposing, and when he does be responsive. Being too coy is dangerous, for some men won't ask the second time.
 Make the man think he is it''
 In brief, let him swear and think he is cit" but keep him guessing as to your love and as to the whereabouts the collar button ally, both de- signed to drive men mad.
 But American is not alone in setting up rules for marital felicity. England herself recognizes the importance of promoting love and peace in the home and such well known men as Arnold Bennett, the writer, and the Rev. Der nard Vaughn have given their atten- tion to the subject. To husbands the noted English divine says:
 British Ministers Advice
 "Be kind and thoughtful to your wife. Bear. with her ii. ''e feminine ways. Never attempt to check the