Indiana daily times. [volume] (Indianapolis [Ind.]) 1914-1922, 1921-10-13
DON'T WE'D PAIR
OF EYES, ADVICE
MINISTER GIVES
And Don't Marry a Dude,
JeIIyfsh, Tyrant, Pig or
Hyp0crite, Women Told.

WASHINGTON, Oct 13-"Don't merry
. dude-a jellyfish-a tryant-a pig-a>
pollparrot--a hypocrite--a despiser of re-
ligion, or bump on a log"
This is what the Rev. DR.. Charles
A. Shreve, pastor Of McKendree Metho-
dist Episcopal Church, tells young
women about to be married.
Look for good nature, noble pur-
pose, sympathy, industry, courage,
intelligence, perseverance and big
heart fun OF love to God and man ami
you. Be sure you choose the right
Ean. The Bible says: God made man
upright, but they have sought out many
Inventions You want to get one OF
the kind that God made and not one
of the Inventions. There are a great
many more Of the inventions than there
are real men, and 1t is not always an
easS matter to distinguish them. They
dress like men, talk like men and look
like men, but when their inner traits
Of character and their habits Of life be-
gin to appear they are seen to be in
ventions."
QUOTES FROM
JEREMY TAILOR.
To the young man DR.. Shreve gives
one word OF advice-"Marry."
at Is not good for man to be alone
livery man fit to have q wife ought to
marry. Be sure you are right. then go
ahead. And 1 sometimes quote to him
tie following from Jeremy Taylor: If
you are for pleasure, marry; If you prize
rosy health, marry; a good wife is
heavens last best gift to man; his angel
OF mercy; minister of graces inuu-
merable; his gem of many virtues; his
casket of jewe4s. Her voice his sweetest
music; her smile his brightest day: her
kiss the guardian Of innocence; her in
iustry his surest wealth her econocS his
safest steward; her lips his faithful
c0unselors; her bosom the softest pillow
OF his cares; and her prayers the a0lest
advocates Of heavens blessings on his
head
Don't marry a silly woman. Don't
marry a gossip. busybody, a gad-about
a UTTERLY, nor an inveterate taIker
Don't marry pair of eyes. There should
be good deal more to a wife than that
Seek woman who some Idea of the pur-
pose Of a woman's life-a lover Of home
AID children and Cod: and one who be-
lieves you are>the one man for her hus-
band.
HOME OF OWN
is ESSENTIAL.
And say to them both: Establish q
home OF your own. You may not be able
to purchase a house but In a rented
room or two you can have you- home
your nest Have no outsiders In 1t IN
less Il be an aged or a dependent per-
son, In which case there should be an
understanding beforehand. Home 10 a
! little hollow scooped out OF the windy
hill Of the world. where we can be shield
ed from its cares and annoyances'
"Ihen MN Will have m iaoru 70 Ifva
together Remember, that you are alike
IN one respect only, l. E., your love for
each other. Possibly in every other re-
spects you are different Harmoulzing
these d ferences In such a manner as to
strengthen love instead OF wrecking it ID
fine art. Much unhappiness and nu-
merous divorces have occurred at this
point. Suddenly realizing the presence OF
hitherto unnotlced traits. the man or the
woman, or both, sometimes, fly into a
panic, conclude that they have made a
mistake, speak hot words and separate
The divorce mill then gr nds up loves
sweet dream, and nothing but ashes re-
mains. There Is no need for thia II
you will be patient with each others
faults, respect each others rights and
tustes forgive each others sins and
study each others needs. you will soon
Db WeAueN AoEelHeT Win D0nQ5 OF mutual
understanding and sympathy and love.
KEEP Up THE
HONEYMOON.
"You must pull together for one goal
II woman wants a separate career for
herself she ought never TO marry. After
marriage she should enter heart and soul.
body and mind Into the career OF her hus-
pand. He has no time to run two es-
Establishments, nor to have a divided mind.
lie must pursue his chosen calling In life,
and be has married her for a helrmeet.
II you ever have a quarrel see which
can be the drst to make up Never d.
vulge each others wea knessea. Keep mp
your honeymoon. Take trips together.
Read books together. Sing, play, work
Gnd pray together.
Begin to make plans for the coming
Of the children-the GROWING bless ngs
Of the home. Brighter than the wedding
morn, happier than the honeymoon are
the birthdays Of the children. No home
can ever be complete without them. They
are the flowers In the ga.den OF love.
Happy is the man that hath his culver
iull Of them Love will grow as the chill
=, dren come and the laughter OF the little
ones will furnish the sweetest music for