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Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08
A Wedding in May

y IN. Editor Of Womuu'S Page:
Dear Madam want to- ask you sew
rral questions about n church Wedding
to take place In May IN the evening,
The party wiz consist Of three brides
maids, three usheTg, maid of honor, best
man and two flower girls
What position does the wedding party
assume at the altar? Tho father Of the
bride viii give her away.
WIN It be proper for tho maid OF honor
20 carry flowers and the bridesmaldR to
carry feather fans" l., s.
VIXEN the BRIDE ana bridegroom 81 up
% tls altar, the brides father steps back
pnd takes his place in the pew where
tNe mother Is sIandlnR, which Is the frsr
~. "a tle right-hand side. The brides
Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08
YOU CANNOT FORGIVE
UNLESS YOU FORGET, Ton,
These Twins Do Not Work SeparatetIf You Go 10 ,Lo
Bother OF Using One, Why Not the Other Also?

"T CAN forgive that, but ] haven't
J. forgotten it yet---and won't for a
long time, either said the girl who
had bccu offended.
1t is pretty hard to forgive some
things--in fact it's almost impossible.
You think you have forgiven, you
have accepted nn apology, perhaps, and
agreed to put It all down as past his
tory.
But every time you think Of the par
ticular person who has offended you.
that offcnse looms up bigger than the
person.
There's strained feeling in your re-
lations; there's something that keeps
you apart and prevents the sympathy
that makes intercourse easy and smooth.
Pretty soon you realize that you
haven't forgiven at all.
And then you say, "I'll forgive, but
/ can't forget"
Right there Is where you are dis
honest with yourself; If you could for
give you could forget. too, because for
getting is part of forgiving.
When you forgive you wipe the slate
clean, you set aside all thought OF the
''reecnt unpleasantness' you forgeS It.
II it still ranklcs, If it keeps in
truding itself between you and the
friend who committed It, you haven't
forgotten that insult, that offense, that
attempt to hurt or annoy you, what
ever it was.
And if you haven't forgotten IL you
haven't forgiven it.
Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08
THE WOMAN'S EXCHANGE

maid5 and uehers group themselves n,
the foot Of the chau&sl steps. on each
siGc the two littl, flower girls RtRndtns
nearest the steps. one on on"h side, n $50
The maid Of honor stands beside tho
bride and the best man beside the bride
groom.
II is generallv the custom for tho
bridesmaids and the maid OF honor all to
carry flowers. and somehow those arc
20 much prettier AND more lovely than
ANYTHING else would be. nope YOU will
decide IN favor OF different Co'orcd blor-
soma. instead OF tho Ceather foHS. How
cvo". thsso would be correct II y'ou prefer
. tltnn.
Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08

HNHERE is q very fine distinction be-
l. tween foreiving and forgetting. It is
easy TO mistake one for the other.
They are inscparnble companions,
and If you exercise one, the only way
to do it thoroughly and properly is to
use tho other. too.
OF course there are some things that
ought not to be forgiven. -
When you know that some one is de-
liberatply taking advantage of your good
nature, over and over again, it's diff
fcrent story.
If the earnest plea for forgiveness is
only one of many, and you know that 1t
does not come from the heart or any
where near the heart, it is not worth
listening to.
That is one time that you can forget
without forgiving. but you forget the
person not the fact.
You forget because you are no longer
interested in this person who pretended
to be your friend.
You are no longer interested because
you cannot forgive what she has done
and have no desire TO know her any
longer.
1t is easy for her to say "I'm so
sorry. please forgive me-" and then
commit the sclfsamc offensc all over
again.
Don't waste your time with her. she
is not worth the troublc-forgct her.
DUT when you have really accepted
- an apology because you don't want
to lose n friend. even if she has hurt
you, you owe it to her and TO yourself
A.. 4. u.
Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08

HhoN ~
please do,
ehe answered.
IIo sat down by
her and moodily
1T a cigarette.
Louder an d
louder grew the
music. The place
was ttin z
crowded now. An
air of conviviality
hung over every
thing.
But to Mary S
sensitive heart n
$50 m q I II n q
Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08
The Question Corner
lroday's InHnlrins

Today's Inquiries
l. In her will, what did Mrs. Rose
i. Porcer, Of Chicago. leave 10
her poodle dog?
:. What old fashioned modes orc
dressmakers trying to revive?
}. describe n new safety device for
the talking machine.
l. What bright aud lustrous shade
IS extremely popular this sprinc.
D. How is an attractive little "drcss.
up apron fashioned?
O. Describe a wholly original look.
ing centerpiecc for the table.
Yesterdays Answers
/. Mrs. A. u. Fall, whose husband
is member of President Hard.
ing's cabinet, is considered m
authority on New McXiran his.
tory.
2. Noilc, with the dots put on il In
q like manner. is an attractive
substitute for the moro expensive
dotted swiss.
3. The modern idea Of indirect light.
ing IS carried out in n graceful
table lamp By having the shade Of
white glass reversed. so that Il
curves upward, and the open end
is at the top.
1. Loose trousers and coolic Jacket
all of white linen. edged with
bands of blue, make n cunning
style of suit for the boy Of three
3. A handy thing that will remove
fruit stains or rust from knives
is an old cork.
6. Large buckles are fad. in tho
slipper world, which is again
popular.
Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08
AT CUPD,S CALL
YVH.-"He Frightens Mew
BIZ MAY CHRISTIE

ALF-DOUBTFULLY, Dick drew
~ out his cigarette case.
sd you mind II ] smokc?" he said
Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08
Which Shall II Be?

10 the Editor Of Woman Pd9r'
Dear Nadam--P!case give me inior-
nation ns TO Il homo wedding.
Is Il considered proper 70 wtar :"
travelling suit for the wodd!nG or to
wear a dress and thcn change for q
travelling suit"
Some say wear tie suit ard othcre
say a dress "AhIra
II is matter &C "our o"a Individual
taste n3 70 whether .0u wear the suit
or the dress os N ~ small wedding
either Is approrr,a,r. But l would
tell you to wear - q d'c
Evening public ledger. [volume] (Philadelphia [Pa.]) 1914-1942, 1921-04-08

For names Of shop. address woman's raE,
Editor or phone Walnut or Main 5000,
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12
WHEREIN WILSON WAS GREAT

Our chief admiration for Mr.. Wilson
Is for the manner In which he drove
the war activities once We were com
mitted. That determination was
evolved from his character He used
CONSUMPTION. He furnished the allies
with what they needed--men, money
and materials In the amount needed.
Weakness at this time might have
ruined us. A man less determined to
have his own way, less impervious To
what was said of him, might have
ilinched ut conscripting soldiers He
might have tried to fight the war with
volunteers. He might even have tried
tn fight II with money and materials.
He might have tried to spare the na-
tion human sacrifices or to limit the
expenditure of human life.
Then we should have entered II los
ing war and have been among the
losers, just in time to be In the wreck
age. CONSUMPTION was the big decision
and whether he realized II or not, was
his most dangerous one. Hughes
might have had serious draft riots.
From Wilson the people took the draft
with hardly n murmur, and the war
was won right then.
The President did not allow the peo-
pie to draw back from drop In the
cup. He took their money. He spent
Il without thought for the waste of
II, There had To be waste. He put the
United States behind the allies with
promise of the last man and the
last dollar. Ii required courage. In
telligence and character, and all the
ruggedness and wilfulness of Mr., VIII
sons temperament served the country
us IL needed To be served
These were the high moments OF his
career. He sent 2.oo0,ooo men To
France before the astonished Germans
thought IL was possible to do So He
had a,o00oO In American training
camps and more were being drafted.
Then, also. from the White House
came the thunders of rhetoric which
stupetied the German people behind
their armies and disintegrated them in
the rear of their fighting forces, As
American divisions put the pressure
ON German divisions. Mr.. Wilson'S
words destroyed the morale of the
German people. who had been stead
fast, and the war was won.
Chicago Tribune.
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12
THE FRAT DISCUSSION

Recently there mas been an attempt
to stop the frat societies of the schools
of New Jersey. On account of some
bad behavior of Il few members of fra
ternities an agitation was started
against the principle of frats in gen
engendered A bill was finally pre-
scented to the legislature, but it was
this week put out of action-tabled
as Il last resort, Il fate that generally
awaits Objectionable bills. There are
many objections to frat societies in
schools, but as general rule their
other good qualities outweigh the bad,
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12

esting story comes to light this week
through the New York newspapers
from Ridgewood, n neighborhood town
of the Palisades ten miles away.
Ridgewood Is Mt the present time un-
der commission government, and from
reports Is making better progress than
ever before In It's history. The citizens
are imbued with n spirit of not only
getting together, but holding together
and sticking together Over there they
make up their minds what they want
and then go after ii with intelligent
method Result: Ridgewood is pro
gressive to the limit and going right
ahead--not performing great deeds,
but doing practical things that are
worth while. In proof fthe state
worth while. In proof of the state
where in this issue of The Palisadan
some of the forms of community spirit
now developing in Ridgewood In order
to place II proper valuation on what II
town can do towards making the right
kind of progress.
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12
FOR RENT

FURNISHED ROOM. privilege OF
hath. hot and cold water, with or
without board; overlooking Hudson
from Pslissde: private home: rea.
sonzhle- Telephone 2S-w. Cli1side-
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12
MARCHING INTO GERMANY


The action of the Allies in march
Ing again into German territory and
setsing three important cities is en-
tirely IN accord with the Treaty of
Versailles, The Germans agreed TO
that document. and Il is that which
Is being applied in the present oecu-
patton. Certain critics have seen
proper "a say that the Allies want
more than they are entitled To Ii
is just the opposite, They have been
more liberal than the world at one
time thought they could be, Lloyd
George when the armistice was signed
was IN favor Of making the repara-
tions fully twice as large as they were
finally put, The English Premier
named something like St2Ao0o.oN0,eo0
as sum Germany should pay for her
war damages, The present demand is
nothing like that figure, Besides, LET
the friends Of Germany say what they
may, the Allies are acting under their
fun rights, and are liberal, also Here
is what the Allies said AT Parts;
"rhe ultimate measures upon
which the Allies have agreed
among themselves, and which will
he applied IN case Germany re-
fuses 10 discharge Loyalty and en-
ttrely her obligations as regards
both reparation and disarmament.
will not for the moment he COM
muNieated 20 Berlin. The Motif
cation ~ these penalties will be
given immediately II the Germans
decline IL Ne at the london com
ference, or II, at London, they re-
fuse e. sign the ayreemenl,H
And after Minister SimenS refused
the terms laid down at the london
conference, demanding another wtvk'S
delay, "Germania." the German OH.
cial orSan said. Nm oar opinion, the
factor ~ America under Mr., Harding
should Ne brought forward" Very
likely, II the repatriation terms are
not met sS,eN. more territory will he
occupied, aud receipts eg divisional
goverunwntS he taken as payment
under the Treaty, This Viii he done
Il the whole ~ Germany has 10 h,
taken, To these who ask. Will Ger
many permit tAiSS the answer Will he,
She viii have to for the reason that
She cannot help herself, That IS the
sum af the situation, The PREPARATIONS
Susa was named at What Germany can
pay, and i, Will ~ at that or moth
tng, II is Justice
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12
THE ABSENCE OF FEELING

The change in administrations at
Washington was made ON March 1
without anything like the interest that
usually attaches to such an important
event. Somehow, there was lacking
n certain something that generally ac-
companies this great function. Per-
haps II was the absence of feeling.
There was none of the enthusiasm that
generally goes hand in glove with the
making of new President. To be
sure, there was nothing in Mr.. Hard
ing to inspire eclat, or to elicit even
enthusiasm. He was MS plain rs an
old shoe, II man without frills, man
colue ~ from the people, who hap
nened to be II small town editor who
never rose to super heights, and for
that reason he lacked the picturesque
presence that would have attached to
the great Henry Waterson, the late
Henry W. Grady, or to old Horace
Greeley. What II mighty character
either of these great editors would
have made In the White House. How
the country would have shed its skin
nf Indifference had either of them been
chosen ms President of these United
States, There is no other editor lir-
ing today possessed of the virility of
these men. The nearest approach IL
them Is Cobb, of the New York World {:
but even he Is too new IL be made
much of n fuss over. The others
named were men who set things aSog
every time they appeared in print.
When they made utterances they We're
read and they made men sit up and
listen. Colonel Harvey, it is true,
has made himself much in the lime
light. but he is too coldly critical. and
he lacks tie magnetism of Il Water
son, Grady or Greeley.
So when Mr.. Harding comes Ia the
White House the world looks m and
merely Wonders that such things can
be In this magical land of ours, That
there Is II fine lesson In Mr.. Harding,
however. goes without saying. He
clearly shows the beauty of humility.
though he may become less so when
he has become Injured 10 the hard
knocks of political President. But
his lack of magnetism, his lack of
vehement spirit, his utter escape from
aggressiveneSs. his plodding manner,
NIL take away that sensitive interest
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12

so that there is little likelihood of
further action being taken at this
time. limitations have been the cause
of much debate, a great of trouble
and some injuries to students. At the
same time, these things cannot be
helped, and the general belief Is that
no school fraternity would counte-
nance any unlawful act by it's mem
bers. The agitation no doubt will
make the fraternity members more
cautious in future for fear their rights
may be snatched from them at a time
when they least expect it. The way
as well as to be right.
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12

the public so much likes to see in its
leader No one can today pick Mr..
Harding as leader. Of eminence. He
went into Office, not having his direc-
ton, because his party was drifting,
and these things make against his
being acclaimed as Il popular idol.
But he starts out well. Let's all hope
he will grow in popular esteem.
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12
Scientific Research

Philip, who had received as birth
day present beautiful new micro
scope, presently astounded the cook
with the exclamation: Hey, cook
Lend ME flea, will you? I'll give it
back to you in three minutes! ~
Palisadian. [volume] (Cliffside Park, N.J.) 1906-current, 1921-03-12
slpeEwooo's COMMUNITY SPIRIT

Community getting gNgeshsr is al,
ways AR Interesting phase ~ life.
whether In city or village, An inter
The evening world., 1921-03-07
ROBBED so OFTEN
HE'S GOING TO MOVE
Thieves Won't Leave Borough
Park Man Alone Despite Police
and Burglar Alarms.

Bernard Arons, No. 1863 45th Street,
Brooklyn. told an Evening World re-
porter to-day he is going to move out OF
that house as soon as he can because
burglars won't leave him alone. He said
he had been robbed there three times
since buying the place, in June, 1919.
The first time the loot amounted to
$3.50. the second II was $1,000 and the
third time, just a fortnight ago, 1t was
$1,000.
He said he had made repeated COM
plants TO the police and had installed
all sorts OF patent locks and he would
give a considerable sum for the privilege
OF meeting the burglars and asking
them why they pick on him. He owns
an apartment house at Fort Washington
Avenue and 161st Street and hopes to
move into II soon.
Wedding gifts presented to Mr., and
Mrs. STANLEY Selonick Of No. 233 West
SD Street and valued at $4,000 were re-
ported stolen to-day in another robbery
about which the police have kept quiet
The burglars Friday night entered the
ground noor apartment of the Selonicks
who were out at the time, through the
bathroom window and made their exit
with their loot the same way.
The evening world., 1921-03-07
CABINET MEMBERS
BEAT THE CLOCK IN
GETTING TO WORK
Denby's First Official Act Is to Sign
Award of Navy
Crosses.

WASHINGTON. March Most
members OF the Cabinet were at their
desks At an unusually early hour to-
day. some OF them arriving even
ahead OF their office forces.
Secretary Weeks reached the State,
War ana Navy Building at a time
when the thousands Of employees
there were trooping in and was at
his desk before o'clock. He was
Joined almost Immediately by Major
Gen. March, Chief Of staff. with
whom he was In conference most OF
the morning. No visitors were al
lowed 10 interrupt the discussion.
Secretary DENLY had a series of
conferences with the Navy Bureau
chiefs, with whom he discussed the
status OF routine naval affairs His
first caller was Barnes Newberry OF
Detroit son Of Senator Newberry, a
former assistant Secretary Of the
Navy.
Mr.. Denby's first official act was to
sign the award OF navy crosses to an
enlisted man OF the Marine Corps and
an enlisted man OF the navy for he
roic conduct In the World War. The
medals went to Corpl. r. w. Hanson
Marine Corps, and Pharmacists Mate
Earl 8. Grauer OF the navy.
The evening world., 1921-03-07
SAYS WILSON WAS
LONG UNCONSCIOUS
Despatch Declares lansing was
OuSted Because He Called Cab
met Meeting During Illness.

The New York Times prints to-day
special despatch from Washington IN
which It Is directly stated that. during
the most serious phase OF the illness OF
former President Wilson. Mr.. Wilson
was Unconscious for a period which has
not been definitely disclosed, the more
general understanding being that It
lasted for a week, put statement ad-
vanced BY persons claiming to know Is
that II covered much more time thah
that"
The despatch states that It was dur
ing this period OF President Wilson
insensibility to his surroundings thai
certain members OF the Cabinet con
sidered the proposition TO have Vice
President Marshall assume the Execu- -
tive functions as Acting President. Sec
retary OF State Robert lansing. the
despatch declares, vetoed this plan and
assumed the responsibility OF calling
meetings Of the Cabinet to consider al
When President Wilson recovered
sufficiently to be, told what had hap
pened he requested Mr.. LanalnEs res
ignation, according to the Times COT
respondent, on the ground that the
Secretary Of state had no right 70 eau
Cabinet meetings without the Presi-
dents authority.
The evening world., 1921-03-07
INVITES
COOLIDGE TO SIT
WITH HIS CABINET
Continued From First Page)

Of Congress was discussed by the
President to-day with Senator I'm
derwood Of Alabama, the Democratic
leader OF the Senate, who is under
stood to have urged'that a date some
time in the first half Of April be Sc
leoted. The Alabama Senator indi-
Gated that a date probably would be
announced tomorrow.
Speaker Gillett, Representatives
Mondell, Fordney, Green and Long
worth expect to see President Hard
ing probably tomorrow. TO discuss
tariff legislation which will be taken
up early in the special session.
The President also conferred again
to-day with Elmer Dover of Wash
ington, former Secretary Of the Re-
publican National Committee. and
now prominently mentioned for its
Chairman TO succeed Postmaster GEN
eral Hays.
The Presidents appointment list
also included conferences with former
Senator Chamberlain Of Oregon, Sem
ator Calder, Republican, Of New
York; Senator willis, Republican,
Ohio. and Senator Robinson and for
mer Senator Kirby Arkansas. both
Democrats. Later in the afternoon
he was to receive a delegation from
the Massachusetts, Press Association,
and afterward was to be the guest OF
honor at a special entertainment
given at a Washington theatre by the
National Press Club.
OF the pending treaties, 1t was indi-
Gated strongly by Republican leaders
that the "three-power" treaty, guar
anteeing France against aggression,
would remain in the Foreign Rela-
tions Committee pigeon hole indefi-
nltely, while President Harding's in
auguraT address was said to have left
no doubt that the Versailles Treaty
would remain in the archives OF the
White House.
AtAluncheon to-day President and
Mrs. Harding were hosts to tn,
women members of the Republican
National Executive Committee,
The evening world., 1921-03-07
Mickey ARNSTEIN
MAY co FREE IF
NOT TRIED BY JULY
Judge Rosalsky Says He Will
Then Consider Motion to
Dismiss Indictment.

Judge Rosalsky, Of General Ses-
s.ons, announced this afternoon tha;
IL the cases Of ''NiclSy" ATnstein and
David W. sullivan. indicted for COM
plicity in the Wall street bond ROB-
berries, we're pending before him by
July 1, and had not been put on trial
by that time, he would entertain a
motion for Dismissal of the indlct-
ments.
The statement was made after
Judge Rosalsky conferred with Judge
Mulqueen and Acting District Attor-
ney Banton. He said also that he had
been informed at this conference that
Judge Mulqueen told Mr.. Banton last
month that he would give the District
Attorneys Office until July / and
not later to bring the cases to trial.
The Arnstein case has been postponed
several times, and when it was called
again to-day Assistant District At
torney John 7. Dooling asked for a
further delay until April, saying he
wanted the Government to have the
first chance to try Arnstein, his trial
in Washington being set for an early
date.
Attorney William J. Fallon, for Arm.
stein, objected. He said the alleged
prosecution Of Mickey was jokt
and that there was no corroborativ,
The evening world., 1921-03-07

evidence. He added that he had never
asked postponement OF tho trial. Judge
RosaislSy seemed inclined to agree with
Mr.. Fallon. Turning to Mr.. Dooling,
he said:
when you get indictments you
should press then, otherwise don't get
them"
The second trial OF former Deputy
Police Commissioner Augustus Drum
Porter on a charge OF neglect OF duty,
which has been postponed fourteen
times, was set for March Il. Martin
W. Llttleton, counsel for Porter, will
ask Judge Koenig for permission to in
spect the Grand Jury minutes.
The evening world., 1921-03-07
BURY CHAMP CLARK
IN BOWLING GREEN
Simplicity Marks Funeral on 7iSt
Anniversary of Former
Speakers Birth.

BOWLING GREEN. No. March T.
Champ ClarN's home folks to-day
received his body and accorded a
final tribute TO their friend. All bust
ness was suspended, schools we're
closed. and throughout the town flags
were at half mast and buildings
draped in mourning.
Simplicity marked the funeral ar
rangements. There was no church
ceremony, but the burial service n
the Episcopalian Church was to be
read at the grave by Rev. Robert y.
Boyd OF Kansas City, a nephew OF
Mrs. Clark.
To-day was the seventy ami
versary OF Mr. ClarS's birth.