Norwich bulletin., 1921-10-15
ANsWRRs RY k1rrY Lou.

Dear Social Corner Sisters: l have been asked by Puzzled when relatives living at quite distance and all hay ing standing invitations to visit each other occasionally, who should write first, the guest asking if it is conven- tent to come and when or should the hostess send an invitation and set the date?"
 If you mean just what you have written. That there is an agreed stand ing invitation to visit each other ooca- sionally You have really supplied the answer. It would be good judgment for the guest to write when the time comes for visiting this friend who has held out bhe invitation for her to come any time and hud out if it would be agreeable for her to come on the date she had planned, but if for some reason it would not be convenient for the hostess to have her at that time then she should ask her to please advise when she could visit her. Then she could set the time. If the party lives in the same city with her and she is invited to come to din- ner or lunch at any date then she should go whenever she has the in cination and time.
 Emily A, DayviHe; Excessive worry may cause congestion as you say you get blue. Constipation will cause con- gestiun. There is a form of congestion caused by nbrous masses under the scalp tiss~es of the neck This sort of congestion is relieved by masSage. If you get blue and worried or get angry you will find you have congestion and then you imagine a great many things. I think diet would be a grand thing The stomach is a wonderful, au- tomatie apparatus, which does it's duty perfectly and absolutely refuses to dc what is net it's duty. You should mas ticate your food thoroughly. l presume that you get nervous and do not sleep think that is one trouble though of course I can't tell: but you should have eight hours sleep. You need a lot of fresh air.
 Professional fasters have demonstrat. ed that men can exist for weeks with nothing except water Cut off the sup ply Of air however and human beings will perish In few minutes. Mankind is immersed in air as fish is in wa ter.
 The individual of very nervous tenn perament, high-s+rung. cratic, ire quentty fails to exercise a restraining 1 Influence on the nerves. would keey | In mind something pleasant, cut picture. 1 out Of papers, cut recipes and make 8 cook book-take walk every day ant then you might sleep better at night 1 The food that causes constipation 1. i such a diet as the favorite American | diet of meat, potatoes. and white bread l Try not to get nervous, think of you l journey south, what yov are to take with you, cut out pictures to look a on your way south. Make the best O everything. don't kick about anything i Kicking" about the weather, if you ! xrTil1 s-Ir aho fe most foolish thing you can do. If yo, kick about your clothes. or you work. you are at least kicking abou something you are able to change, bu the weather is one thing we must talk as it comes
 But try and sleen all you can. Dlt you ever read the experience of Charle Dickens When Dickens wrote tha story of The Haunted Man. he knev terribly well himself what it was to b a haunted man. for Dickens was in tn deviAsh gfT Of insomnia for a loni time
 Medical science then was not what
 Is now. Psychology. as bond-brothe
 to bodily medicine. hardly existed. Dick
 ems had to work out his own salvation
 Night after night that magnificent min of his went wandering through inter , | InAnaOle COIFfOOrS Oi thought, Hurry1n
 on and on in agony. He has set dow
 some of that pain in 8 story Jyin
 Awake, so beautifully written. whs did Dickens do? He teTls it at the en
 of the story: 'T had been lying awaF
 so long that the very dead began 1 I awake, too, and to crowd into Ir i. thoughts most sorrowfully. Therefor resolved to lie awake no more. b' to get un and go out for a night walk He did it and kept on doing It until l conquered.
 You will find the simple medicine f, l noises in the head, congestion and a such troubles. open air exercise, ar
 thoughts that cro%ed out the worry vi be good for you.
 : KITTY LOU.