Washington standard. [volume] (Olympia, Wash. Territory) 1860-1921, 1920-04-23
FRIENDSHIP AND HATRED

II notorioly difficult TO whether persons. both
whom may intimately known will b friends or enemies
when brought together 1t is generally agreed mat mere Nhou'o De
certain contrast that the should not be- too vide but
i, impossible to 60 and define the nature of the par
1lar contrast desirable IS general rule may perhaps say
two shy men will dislike They much afraid of
treg and made Uncomfortable by the
sight their neighbours discomfort that they get INTO state OF
ordinary The shy man 49, therefore, most at
with somebody who totally regardless of his vagae and
br, out ANYTHING that his head in the
missing fashion He would rather downright shock at
than be kept in constant hdge by companion as toucy
and sensitive as himself limits this prn
ciple irritable feels the soothing influence of a
oothed and quoted by contact with certain
mixture of mne and gentleness and naturally loves the person
M thny can he more rrtanr f. to take a riing instance an
missing train and his
exctab himself they will work each other into fever if
the companion is calm pcous degree they
mutual again the companion is tod be
incapable of sympathy the divergence of sentiment may lead to
for life In short the of an irritable temper
requires special degree of dicacy which missed either by
cess defect Of y%pay M . same s may be a IN rg" s
Unable harmony and hate each other when for equally nscruab
to lay down any distinct principles subject every
body who has tried the experiment Of bringing two friends together
m AGAIN m aftr l The reIat;on as certain nhiosonhers
wo atesy h SsS t organism an M so a
easily inverted by almost mprecepbe circumstances that
impossible any positive assertions upon the subject
We might without entering upon the impossible task
determining who hates who and for what attempt give
short catalogue of of the most generally offensive qualities
though fully admitting that for producing perfectly hate
qualities obvious plain to be mentioned that
such ought to be handsome to any desirable degree but he
should be endowed with of those loud discoant which
through like the sharpening of We have known DIS
agreeable with occasionally have with
the but out of ten the offensive
proclaimed which harsh thunder
manifest his He should be of rreproachabe
he be checked by people when
wish abuse him and for the would be well that
he should be clergyman shade of dOgmac
theology then be certain that shall be provided with
keep up danger cooling If this
condition be fulfilled he should be thoroughgong radical
because regard radical SUCH nOXOus than
but he likely be and
be extensively triumphant 1t that he
should be absolutely pacydeatou tread
sentiments without be of it. Otherwise
should not be under the of arcay heating
make effective One hardly hate
satisfactory unless he rather difficult wound He should
yet profoundly though
unable demonstrate the world large that
ough We should be able
assaig him dischargng public duty and overthrow
idol whose worship causing widespread mankind
If he such position that asai him with
it, for example, he close relation official dis
like will be prOpOrtiOnate intensified In life he should be
punctua to minute early riser Extensively supplied with
regular curchgoer wOhpped by his wife and children
socially successful He should paronize with aay
him in society and his should head the list
Vulnerable subscriptions his public meetings
ardeny desired That be all this and yet be the object
general reasonable hatred sound paradOxca
he something the kind hatred scarcely
like be of that kind which comfort
manty-The Chimney Corner