Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1920-07-13

1 am coming to you for some ad-
vice. 1 am not like most Of the girls,
lonely. I have been going and cor
responding with a young man about
nay age. I think more of him than
any of my boy friends, but he quit
coming and writing about two
months ago and did not tell me the
reason he quit. He has written me
again begging me to let him come
back and asking me to forgive him.
Should I let him come back to see
me, or talk to someone else? There
is another boy calls on me three
times a week, but I don't care for
him like I do this other boy, though
he seems to think a lot Of me and is
a real nice boy and is thought lots
of by everybody. This boy that quit
coming asked me not to talk to any
one else but him, and I wouldn't do
it. Do you think that is the reason
that he quit?
Thanking you for your advice, and
hoping to see this in The Journal
early, l am, BROW Ef Ea.
1t seems the irony of fate to
fall in love with those who fall
out with us. But the only way
to conquer it in the end, is grin
and bear it. The trouble with so
many girls, they let boy see
right away how crazy about them
they can be, and that olsgusts
man. The art of perSuing arouses
all of the mans sporting instinct
and they do not like to leave the
race unless they come away con
queror. If women would only
get that idea in their heads (girls
and women, | mean; what Lun
would it be if a man had game
of ball handed to him when he
didn't even throw the ball, or
any other game? And so the
game of love is exactly the same.
A girl falls on mans neck,
wonder why he wants to preak
away. wouldn't forgive him
SO quickly. He had no right, to
ask you TO- give up your otheT
friends for him, unless he ASKED
you to marry him. And you VII
boys do them any way, and Won
der why it is they are not able 10
hold their love.
Here I come to you for advice. L
am 16 years old and am in love win
a bow age 20. We have been taking
for about 5 months, but quit some
time ago and never talked any TOT
ABOUT Two DlOulHS anu so"
again last Saturday night at dance
and we talked then. He says ne
loves me dearly and I know L love
him better than any one else. he
goes with other girls when he is not
with. me, but never goes with them
when he is where 1 am at except
while we were mad and he Went
with one girl twice then. He says he
only goes with other girls when he
is not with me to pass off the time.
Do you think he cares for me? This
boy is very bad to drink, but 1 do
not care for that. I don't think L
ever can love anyone else. This boy
tells others he loves me more than
any one else. Do you think he means
it? Please print this in The Jour
nal and give me your best advice.
BLUE EYES.
I cannot tell whether the
young man loves you or not, as
I am no mind reader. If he says
he does, and doesn't do anything
to lead you to believe otherwise
why then you will have to be-
lieve him. 1t is too bad, though,
he cares for drink, because after
one drink nine times out of ten it
changes a mans thoughts, and
one drink calls for another and
young girls are not safe with a
| drinking man, especially if that
man has an automobile and
takes her out for drives. This is
a fast age we are living in and
| young girls allow privileges now