Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1920-07-22

go? what must 90 Wnen BOY teIli
me he loves me? What should 1 dc
pretty. 1 had boy to put his arm!
around me one time and l slapped
him 1 did it before 1 thought, bu
am not sorry for it. Did l do right
[ told him he had better not do i
again. How should L act toward boys
to let them know l try to do anC
want to be a nice girl?
Should L let my boy friend have
my ring? Should 1 wave at boys
Does it look bad for a girl my age
to sit in a car all p. m. with a boy
at an alI-day singing? What can
10 to keep my sister and brother
from quarreling? Is there any harm
n using slang words before boys,
What must girl say when she is
to a boy or girl? WheI
A girl and boy goes anywhere, which
should go in first and sit down? l!
1t all right for a boy to tease a CIR
about another boy? Should you &C
cept chewing gum from boys ant
chew it in their presence? Does i
to any one instead of speaking
Should I let boys have my picture
[ am going to Gainesville and At
anta to see some relatives of mine
in uly. What should 1 fix to carry
and wear that's inexpensive.
thanking you very, -
VERY MUCH.
I will give you this name be-
cause you failed to sign yourself
anything. 1 want the letters
receive to be signed with the
writer's own name, with a fancy
name for the paper, and unless
they sign their names l am not
going to answer. All the letters
I receive are treated confident
80 them ffpr
printing the answers: Any one
name, needn't expect a reply to
any letters they write me.
When a boy asks you to go
anywhere and you find it impos-
sible. to. go, say, you appreciate
the Invitation, but you c canGa1'
When a boy tells you he loves
: you and you have reason to be-
lieve he does and you do not,
thank him in a polite manner
for bestowing his affections up
on you, do not ridicule him. 1t
may sound silly to you, but very
sacred to him; Men do not al.
do not shipper and Taught, take
it as it is meant. More than one
girl has been made a fool of
just because she swallowed hard
all the, flattery that was ba1ted
out TO her. You know what you
look like. You need not use the
method when boy tries to hug
you, but you can put him in his
place by your cool manner and
being a lady. There is no way
to act before boys except the
right way, so they will have the
correct and highest opinion OF
you. Never. let them become
familiar with you. Never let
them kiss and hug you. Never let
them say anything in your pres
ence, unfit for other ears. You
can do this by leaving them and
not mixing wit hthem again. If
you would have boys respect
lead. Waving, and winking and
hollering at boys and trying to
flirt with them, is mighty poor
taste and you will lay yourself
liable to insults if you pursue
that idea of a good time. At any
public place, such as church or
the theater, or movies, the lady
goes first. Letting boys have
your picture is poor taste, a pic
ture should be given only to the
closest of friends and relatives
only. A girl should be very
careful about this one thing.
Travelling calls for simple frocks,
and things which can be easily
packed You had better use
your own judgment in this line.
[ am coming to you for advice.
I'M a girl of "a. Am in love will
boy %, and he went to France ant
wrote me every week while he was
gone and he said he loved me dear
xxyn1I16r't on with Ot11nl
;irl until he came back. Then HI
,egan to go with other girls anC
won't pay me no attention, although
lie will speak to me, but that's all
He won't talk to me. If someone ha:
alked to him to cause him to do thi!
way will he ever care for me again
believe someone has turned hin
rom me, I know he once loved me
md I know I care more for him thar
lis love back? Should he or 1 speal
irst?
Please print this in The Journa
It once. A PEACH.
very great sometimes, and there
is no telling what will happen
or which turn it will take. I
would have to have the judgment
of Solomon (and I think I am a
pun SuUSIlIuCC) " SOlNC IliC
eternal question ever before me.
But if this boy has meant
great deal to you in the past. and
you are sure he loved you, and
you are at a loss to understand
his present attitude, and it con-
Germs you SO much, 1 think the
best plan would be to make it a
point to see him and have a
heart to heart talk with him.
Thoro ic TonthinO lilo lynnXyinp
how one stands, and l believe to
see him and find out will be the
best thing, clear up the mystery
at any rate. But do not by any
means run after him or place
yourself in position to have
him talk about you. If he hasn't
the manhood in him to act on the
square, he isn't worthy of your
love.
This is the second time I have
:ome, to you for advice and have no
een it in The Journal, but hope yol
will print it this time. for I am very
much troubled. I am a motherless
girl of Is years, and am in love witt
! boy of "a. 1 have known him fol
number of years. He asked me t.
marry him about two years ago. anG
told him to wait a year or two, bu1
le would not wait. He went and mar
led another girl and they soon part
ID and now he said he don't believe
'he was the right one for him. ant
till wants me and I am promised
o him and he is get a divorce soon
tut my father found it out and Is
loing all he can against it. He says
t would be a sin. and q shame to
marry man with a living wife
ven if he has got divorce. Please
ell me if it is wrong to marry him
Gather said he will never be any
rood, of course his people are of {
,ery low grade family and ere moi
hought; much of. but he talks like
le wants to- do some good and dom
'ou think if I would go on and try
o do right and make something
hat he would be all right and not
AXE after his people so much? OF
curse father is as good to me as he
an be and always gives me good adj
ice and never tells me a lie, but he
night have the wrong idea. So please
ell! me just what you think of this
no as soon as you. Thanking
ou in advance. LILLE.
If you refused the Young man