The news scimitar. (Memphis, Tenn.) 1907-1926, 1920-03-09

met her Christmas. She Is a blonde
and unusually clever. IL was at
dance that we enjoyed our first corr
versation and she said she would be
glad 10 have me call. Five times !
tried to make a date and on each oc-
casion she said she was otherwise e1-
Gagged. now doubt her sincerity, but
why should she have prstsndsd 70 IKE
me at first1 THOMAS.
Somebody evidently has Influenced
her against you. Perhaps II is another
man who is interested In the young
lady. Either drop in unannounced AZ
the girls home and draw your own
conclusions from her reception, or
meuts at which she will be present.
Always make date for the evening
with the most sought after girls whom
you know and In a thoroughly pleasant
way flaunt them before her. DO not
attempt to make any other dates with
the girl herself, but prove your worth
TO her. always being gentlemanly and
interesting.
Dear Mrs. Thompson have been IN
love with young lady for three years.
Last year after leaving the navy, led
a rather gay and reckless career which
was painted more scarlet 70 the young
lady, by nelahbors than II really was.
She then broke our engagement and
returned all previous gifts. Now she
more dissolute than !. but a person ~
far greater wealth. She still writes 20
me an denies being engaged to the
other man. In addition she refuses 20
allow me TO call, but haf.heartedlY
says she might care to see me " an
other year, provided, OF course, that |
reform. What shall dor NJ. NJ. NJ.
Make something OF yourself and do u
quickly before the other man buys her
with his wealth. Girls, as rule, are
not inclined TO be mercenary. but par
ents sometimes are.
Dear Mrs. Thompson--A young mar
ried woman and | recently went TO the
movies together and on the way we
ran into her brother, who accompanied
US TO the window and purchased cur
tickets. As too, am married. was
II correct for me to allow him to do
III " so, what should have saldf
Also young boy acquaintance Of mine
and my husbands often makes me
presents Of candy and flowers. y Il
and as my husband works at night. u
II all right for me to 90 to the theater
occasionally unaceompanled?
brother to purchase tickets for Your
self and his sister. Ii was simply a
mans courtesy to his kin and her
friend. You should have said casually,
Glad TO have seen you or met you"
| and simply bowed at his departure. As
TO accepting presents from the young
boy, | would allow my husband to be
the judge Of that, and as to going to
the theater unaccompanied, would
not do so. 1t does not look well and
men sometimes take unaccompanied
women for members of the feminine
sex who are careless OF hours and coIl-
Verdons.
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/ Dear Mrs. Thompson--As q chlld
loved boy whom I engaged myself to.
Later when we both were srcwn ne
| spoke TO mother and dad and they re-
fused to allow me TO marry him. He
\ went away and | married another man.
Now he Is back and says he loves only
| me end that belong TO him. | do
| not love my husband, although he 10
good to me- What shall ! o.. -
Cleave only to your husband. You are
wife Did you not promise ITO for
sake all others7" Put the thought Of
the first man from YOU and do your
best to make your husband happy. You
have cheated him sorely in marrying
him when you cared for another Is
that not enough? Shall you add dis
grace and bitterness to his cup, alsof
Think, II you had not sworn ITO honor
have, aud she probably would have Civ
en- him her heart along with her hand.
Dear Mrs. Thompson--l am a young
girl who long before her career cared
for a trusting maid Of an excellent fam
lly. This girl now faces the Valley Of
the Shadow without the proper cerkifi-
cate, and having no one to help her she
has come TO mea I wish to assist her aa
best | can. Is there not a home IN
Memphis for just such pIrIs7 ~ 60,
what lie its name and what will become
Of the ehlldf She wishes TO give u
away. 5ERNtcE.
The Fila Oliver refuge. 9i3 Walker
avenue, Is the home that you seek. An-
other institution Of its kind is the Beth
any Training home, sol Chelsea ave-
nue.. As for placing the baby. Mrs.
Alice Saxby, head Of the Juvenile court
win be glad TO have the Home Finders
society care for II. Children who pssa
through this organization are found
pleasant homes and are adopted.