Omaha daily bee., 1920-02-21
Too Young 10 Love.


Miss Fairfax: I have read your
advice to others and now I came to
you with my troubles. I was intro
duced to a, young man some time
ago and liked him the first time /
saw him and / found out through
others that he also cares for mo.
Once. shortly after we were ac-
quainted. he asked to take me home,
but refused for very good reason
and ever since he has acted kind OF
peeved. We are both II years Of
age. Do you think we are too young
to go together? I have called up
this young man several times upon
hearing that he was i'll. He talked
real nice to me over the phone, but
he never calls me up. How can /
regain his friendship? Do you think
l should ask him frankly II he is
mad because / didn't let him take
me home? Or should let him 70?
l don't love him, because I think
We're too young to think Of love.
Don't you think so? just class
him as a good friend and like him.
/ liked him as soon as I saw him.
Hoping you will print this.
WORRIED,
Your letter sounds sensible ana /
believe your own good Judgment will
be your best friend and guide. I
think you know that It ID not be-
coming or advisable for q girl to
make an obvious effort to attract =
young man. True friendships are
splendid, and the ordinary interest
which they inspire ought not to be
criticized. You are too young to
think seriously of love. It is quite
natural you should like some boys
better than others, but keep your
own self respect and you are sure to
gain the respect of the young man
and perhaps his interest.
Overcome With Her Looks.
Dear Miss Fairfax, Omaha Bee:
I am girl Of II and am
considered very good looking for
my age. I attract all the young
men and they are always call.
ing me up to makes dates with
me, and calling on me, and ! am
bothered very much. I guess ! am T
too pretty to be left alone. would
like for you to tell me how can get
the young men not to bother me 20
much. Thanking you for your ad-
vice, I am. BLUE EYES.
You seem to be overcome with
your own looks. No one is as pretty
as you think you are. And no one
who is not beautiful in mind can
long attract with only beauty of the
face. Don't be concerned about the
vast number of young men you IT.
tract, for unless you develop SOME
oil ~.As
won't attract them long. And, too.
perhaps the young men who call on
you can't get dates with more SEN
sible girls. ~
DOlIy--Explain to your mother
that you are not happy without girl
friends of your own age. II she
were to know that you desire the
companionship Of school friendsYI
am sure she would not be unreason-,
able.
Leona-You are too young to
have beauS. Be good friends with
the the boys. but do not be sentimental.
The marriage of cousins Is not per.
mitted here. Wear your hair In q
soft knot at the nape Of the neck.
Black Eyes--Why not send flow.
ers to the young man? Puffs are
not usually becoming. Dress the
hair simply and 1t will look far pref
tier. Valentines are remembrances,
such as are Christmas and Easter
cards. There is no longer much sem
timent connected with the sending
of valentine.
Anxious--Write to the city clerk
where you were born. 1t Is prob.
able that the date of your birth Is
registered there.
Lonely Kate-Try to cultivate "a
happy disposition, be cheerful, and
always be kind. Your writing is
average. Write to the county SUI
perintendent concerning require.
ments for teaching there. Since /
know nothing of the young man II
can not judge his actions 1t is not
necessary to give wedding present
In this instance. Do not "fiirt' over
the phone with strange young men.
A. DIN regard to the location
of summer camps for girls In Colo
rado, l suggest that you write to the,
secretary of the Y. w. c. A. at Dem
WI, WIZ, uOuUl, Will U0 dUlO 4kQ
answer all your questions.
Natalie-These are the addresses
you request: Sessue Hayakawa, Ha-
worth Pictures, Brunton Studio, Los
Angeles, CAL: Antonio Moreno, Ii A.
Athletic Club. Los Angeles; ]. War
rem Kerrigan, 1425 Fleming Street,
Los Angeles: Herbert Rawlinson,
Lambs Club. New York; Roscoe Ar.
buckle. Comique Film Co., Los An.
giles; Charles Chaplin. 1416 La
Brea Avenue, Los Angeles; Louise
,Glaum. Ince Studio, Culver City.
CAL; Pearl White, Pathe, New York.
Doubtful--Remain friendly I'd.
ward the young man and perhaps he.
himself, will explain his actions, II
is not best to attempt to force your
self upon him. II he still desires to
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