Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1920-05-01

for 9dVlC6. j am ~ summers Clu.
Four years ago l was deeply n
love with boy a few months young
err than /. However. he always
seemed older. We went together one
year. Then he went away, as he
is a half orphan, to work. We cor
responded about six months, then
stopped. Both Of us began going with
others. Since then [ have been GO
ing with another boy GOOut my
age. [ thought 1 loved him and
only him and really Thought [ might
marry him some day, but when he
mentioned it I always would put 1t
off. He was very jealous hearted,
high-tempGred and didn't want me
to enjoy myself with anyone else
except him. l saw him sometimes
once a month but heard from HIM
oftener The boy away from nome
came home OH visit last fall. He
remembered me and called me up
after ne went back. He sent nc
nice Christmas gift. He has been
| home again. This time he came to
see ire three times. He N&s kind
and thoughtful as he used to be.
Now / love him dearly and he
seems to care IS much for me. l
know / love him better than L ever
loved anybody. we never have had
q cross word.
The second boy I spoke Of quar-
rels with me every time l see him.
l get tired of it. What would you
| advise me to do? / don't want to
love but one of them. Would you
give one of them up entirely? If
so which one? Please tell me what
to DO for | am troubled.
BROWN EYES.
The boy who continually
quarrcls with you seems to
show 81 very jealous DISPOSE
ton And one cannot be happy
where there is so much jealousy.
My advice is to let this boy go,
and try to place your affection
on the young man who is so
thoughtful, and who's love
seems to be deeper and finer.
There can never be any real
happiness or contentment when
one is constantly quarreling and
nagging the other. The sweet
est and deepest love in the world
is based on unseIfishness and I'M
derstanding and confidence
without those one can scarce
Iy have real happiness.
Dear Mrs. Mary Meredith:-I am
coming to you for advice. After the
death of my mother all girls seemed
to love me more than they did boys
and finally ] was loving them the
same way. Do you think will love
boys as I do girls? [ like boys bet
ter this year than I did last year.
DO you think it is good sign I will
love one soon? Is there any harm
in a girl loving two boys at the same
time? What is the latest fashion
for arranging the hair? 1 am eight
cen years old, Do you think any
kept from me? Hoping to find these
answers next week. Yours truly,
Dew Baby:-I cannot tell you
anything about signs and omens, :,
for 1 do not believe in them.
You are at the age when it is
only natural to have love affairs.
And there is no harm in loving
two boys at the same time. pro
vided you aren't using deceit
with them. Ii you do, they will
find you out, and then first thing
you. A man likes truth and
loyalty in woman, above every
thing else. If 1 were you 1
would rather have one nice
friend than half dozen make
believes" 1t is d very wise
thing to have girls to like you,
it shows a sunny disposition. [
am sure you will marry after
while. You have lots Of time to
think about that.
The girls are wearing their
hair pompadoured high in the
back and on the sides for eve
ming wear. There is no set rule
or fashion for the hair this year.
I've observed that most ladies
and young girls dress their hair
the way it is most becoming.
We are two girls coming to you
for advice.
1, the seventeen-year-old, am near
ly feet and inches tall; weight
about 120 pounds. Do 1 weigh enough
for my height? Am L old enough
to have callers? If so, how long
should they stay? When boy
writes you a letter and" says 1 want
to come to see you if it will be con-
venient with you, what should ]
write and tell him? Is it any harm
to go with your school teacher?
There is one boy who seems to think
| a lots of me, but will not come to
my home. He wilt call me up over
! the telephone and talk to me and will
try to be everywhere he thinks I'm
| going to be, Do you think he kcares
anything for me? And what Aakes
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