Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1920-11-04

I am anxious for your advice. 1
am a girl of eighteen. 1 have been
going with a nice young man three
years. We were engaged after
we had been together. for about
one year, but put off the mar
riage because he had no home of his
own, and 1 did not care to live in
the home with his parents. He said
he was going to build a home, but
claims he has never accumulated
enough money to begin. He seems
to be real smart, and we were much
devoted until the past year, he seems
to be growing cold toward me, and
still wants me to let him call the
same as when we really had no 9TH
er special friends except we two. He
goes with other girls and l go with
other boys who are respectable, who
take me to church and nice places
of amusement. I love him dearly
and he says that he cares the same
for me. That his love is the same.
Do you think it is right for me to
go on with him when he can't make
me any promise of the future? am
not jealous, but l don't like the idea
of him going with other girls and
calling to sec me. L feel that coulo
never marry any other man as long
as he is single. Please answer my
letter, as 1 need the good advice that
[ am sure you are competent OF CIV
ing a lonely girl. Adieu, JULIA.
Julia: The young man is act
ing in the right way toward you.
If you do not wish to live with
his parents, and he cannot afford
a home of his own, he is very
wise not to monopolize all of your
time. Even if he loves you very
dearly, he is giving you chance
to have other company other than
himself, so that you will have an
opportunity to select a husband
who is able to give you what
he cannot, and you should look
at the situation clearly. And 1t
is up to you to have other
friends, 1t costs a great deal
these days for a young couple
Just starting to Housekeeping TO
live, and if you love him Well
enough to marry him and i've
with his parents, you might IN
course of time save enough TO
set I'D an establishment of your
own. 1 think the young man is
very honorable in his ATTITUDE
toward you.
am coming to you for advice,
am girl seventeen years olu,
I've been in college two years: am
very unhappy, in my nome. NY 10 10
for me, However, they have done
lots through the past years Tor me.
Now they say they are not gong
to send me to school this fall. IN
tended to go this term and then
stand teachers examination. can
not stay here any longer. l nave
no desire for home, never, no more
and would you advise me to get
lob? [ got one once before put they
wouldn't let me go and, OF course,
YOU know they would object. Please
answer through Journal this week SO
as I will know which road to take.
VERY UNH+PPY GIRL.
Very Unhappy Girl' Do not
get the idea that your parents
care nothing for you, for they
do. even though they seem hard.
| hope they have changed their
minds about sending you to
school. Go, if you, possibly can an
Just be patient, and try to remain
at home while longer; If you
desire a position and feel that
you want to do something TO
nelp support yourself, talk ii
over with them, without any dis
play of anger, let them see that
YOU want their advice, and L
am sure they viii give their con-
sent. Teachers get very little
salary and the work is hard.But
if you like it, then take 1t up
if you can.
I am coming to you for advice. I
see where you advised "Girlie" in
this weeks Journal to do her hair
up in flannel rags several times