Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1920-07-01

I beg you to give me some advice.
I am a lonely girl; have been going
with boy about twenty-four years
old, whom I love with all my heart.
But for some cause he acts indiffer
ent when around me. He went with
another girl and me at the same
place.. but I've been told he thought
[ was with another boy. We have
been engaged over a year. What
must I do? Break the engagement
happy without him. What can I do
TO win him back? Would there be
any harm in writing him a note and
tell him to come, that l want to talk
with him? Please give me your best
advice, for l love him with all my
heart. l don't care to be with others
at all. Although [ can be with 9TH
ers, but I am always burdened and
can't think of anything to say since
he has done me this way.
Dear Miss Mary, please print this
soon as you can want ENTITY yo ~ ~ ad-
The trouble with you and your
sweetheart, you have seen too
much of each other. Even when
one is engaged it does not pay
to have your time taken up so
much with each other. Another
thing. even when girl is en-
gagged, she should be a little re-
served and refrain from telling
or talking too much to the man
she is engaged to. A man likes
taht elusive quality in woman.
he is naturally hunter, and to
pursue is his natural inclination,
and it really doesn't pay a .wom-
an to fall on his neck and say,
"Here 1 am. darling, take me-"
Man is easily disguised, and
while they crave love and affec-
tion (they all do, they do not
IXyhn jc
crazy about them. He .exacts
each and every minute of their
time Why don't you have
heart-to-heart talk with your
fiance, and if you feel he is
growing cold to you, find out the
win him back to you by being
nice and affable toward him and
try to understand him, and above
all do. not quiz him about what
he does; no man likes that, and
you will come nearer keeping
him by not asking questions ana
trying to find out his business.
If he doesn't want you to know
he will either tell you it's none
of your business, or lie to you.
And you have the same privileges;
there are many things it is wiser
for you to keep to yourself, even
if it may be ever so small and
insignificant And never repeat
to him anything you hear. He
will learn you can be trusted.
Women, as a rule, talk too much,
and many an engagement mas
been broken on that account.
Please advise me through The
Journal, as I am unhappy mar
ried girl. My husband is so easy
to get mad He stays mad for three
or four days at time. l don't love
him much, anyway, and when he
gets mad it makes me hate him. l
am only twenty. Do you think had
better leave him? He is thirty-nine
years old and we have only been
married eight months. I feel so
lonely I don't know what to do. My
father and mother live about two
miles away. 1 don't want to ask
their advice for 1 don't want them
to know L am so unhappy. Please
answer this in the next Journal. My
husband don't think they are real
letters. Thanking you for your adj
vice. MRS. M.
1t certainly is pity you ever
married this man, because you
must have known you didn't care
anything about him then. AS I
have said often before, it is hard
enough to live with each other
at times, even if you love each
other, and unless you love we'll
enough to forgive the short COM
ings you find in each other, it
is. mighty hard to get along
happily together. To bear and
fore-bear is necessary in order to
have a contented married life.
Perhaps you might be little to