El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1920-03-27

sc CANT live without HIM What's
the use OF going on, now that
the one thing ] asked OF life Is
taken from me- writes Mary.
How an I going to bear this loss
Z Why did have TO love her II I vas
doomed to lose herr" walls John.
DO dare say to either Of my an
Bulshed young correspondents:
Ny dear this love. which seems 20
make your whole life a waste, nay
yet be the means OF turning Il Into a
garden This sorrow which seems 70
you 10 be running your youth may be
you've ever had"
dare not say It. But let's see II
II can be so arranged that Mary and
John VIII contemplate the possibility
OF saying Il some day.
out OF an unselfish love come IN
derstanding and sympathy and self
forgetting tenderness. We agree TO
that don't we2 Then. suppose the
man you love turns from you and
finds happiness elsewhere. isn't Il
possible 70 get 4 glimpse OF Joy out
Of unsei1ish rejoicing in his joys A
large order, isn't it, But 4 uaEufff-
cent soul might I'll it.
Now, let's see what we. who are
just human" can make out OF a
Illustrate love.
Can COneede Mistake.
Surely it's possible TO concede that
botch" OF what should have been a
beautiful love, we've learned some
thing Of what chills and dismlsses
love out OF that experience we bring
an equipment TO make Us Y iser and
sweeter and worthier when next love
visits Us.
Love VIII come again to every ach-
ing, waiting heart. For God above
Is great TO grant as mighty 20 make
and creates the love 70 reward the
love"
Suppose instead Of discovering diff
ferences and difficulties which break
off a love affair we go on into the
marriage partnership where the fall
ings which drove Us apart would
magnify into terrible proportions in
the closeness OF everyday contact
Then there would be hatred. bitter
ness and the calumny attendant on
seeking freedom-0r the degradation
OF living in a marriage with none Of
the vital illumination OF love. A long.
dragged-out misery-or the hideous
conspicuousness Of the court process.
Children. perhaps 70 share disgrace.
period OF adjustment that stretches
over years instead Of the weeks or
months an unhappy love affair causes.
Wounds Always Heal.
Wounds heal. They always have.
They always wiz. Sunshine and fresh
air and clean living and sane think
ing help But nature takes care Of
give her a bit OF help.
A sad experience in the court OF
love leaves Two thinEs-the little scar
Of unfaith, Of doubt or cynicism, and
the big experience In life and with
human nature that can be turned to
use. A scar and a chance Of wisdom.
No heart breaFing" love affair is
really devastation. For the love
which has surged through heart has
carried off much OF dross and has
brought in big feelings and universal
experience
Perhaps a big love will come some
time TO take the place OF what was
only a preparation. II may be that
power to interpret life through work
viii grow out OF the capacity for deep
feeling love engenders whether OF no
It is completed and fulfilled. And
from giving love unwisely once there
may grow such understanding Of the
human heart as viii surround US with
love from the many who are ready to
respond 70 sweetness and fineness
and strength.
Key to All Life.
In the capacity TO love IS the key
to all life. In the capacity TO sur