Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1920-05-22

find a good boarding music school?
Please give me some names of good
music schools. Do you think if 1
wear my brassiere very tight it would
me to have consumption? I am
always very particular along this
line because my fathers people have
it. I don't care for boys only as
friends. 1 think it so silly for a
girl of sixteen or seventeen to be
in love with the boys.
I am almost eighteen and I have
never gone with but very few boys,
it was because I didn't care for
them. 1 will appreciate your ad-
vice very much. Nov hope to see
this in print as 1 have written be-
fore, remain,
violets.-You show great
deal of sense to want to do
something worth while. Here
in Atlanta is the Lanier School
of Music, where they take stu
dents to board. The Peabody in
Baltimore is a splendid one.
they take students to board or
not, but you can obtain board
near there. do not wear your
brassieres too tight, just tight
enough to have a smooth fit.
Boys are we'll enough and it is
OllIy dIul al S1A 10 "dAI "
have their company, but at the
same time girls ought not to
marry SO young, they only lose
SO many opportunities to enjoy
themselves.
I hope I have given you the
information you desired. Am
sorry I waited so long to give
you reply. Write to me again.
Dear Miss Mary: I am a boy of
twenty-three years, coming to you
for advice and believe me, T need it
too. There is a girl that loves me
dearly, and L don't love her, only
with a friends love, and I don't want
to break her heart as I know the
sting. what shall I do? have
known this girl since childhood. We
played together, but 1 don't want to
marry her. My complexion is fair,
eyes gray, hair black. height feet
inches, weight 1873. SO I am not
good looking. 1 did not teach this
girl to love me, so I am in the mid
die of a bad fix. Thank you in ad-
vance. A. E. H. r. r. b.
A. E. H.
If you are sure you care moth
ing for the girl, it is best to tell
her SO. You can find the oppor-
tunity to break it to her gently,
without huring her feelings to
any great extent. Just say you
hope to keep her friendship al
ways but there is another whom
you love, and in justice to your
self you couldn't pretend a love,
you do not feel. 1t is far better
to be honest with the girl than
to lead her on just because you
cure for most things and it will
help her to forget you. She will
eventually get over it. Ones
ideas and notions change with
the years and loves of yester-
year are not the loves Of today.
1 do not think her heart will
quite break, at least 1 hope not.
I am twenty-six years old and
some time and 1 think lot of her.
L don't know whether she cares any
thing for me or not. How can L
find out and how often should a
boy go to see a girl? How would be
the proper way to propose to a
girl? Your advice on this will be
BLACK EYES.
Black Eyes:-How can you ex-
pect the girl to tell you she loves
you when you do not ask her?
If you want to lind out the best
way is to ask her the plain un-
vanished question. If you have
been calling on her for some
time and you have every reason
to believe she prefers you to
any one else, then ask her to
marry you. Some men actually
get scared to death when they
want to pop the question"
But there is no need of fear.
Don't be a coward, just ask the
girl to marry you and if she
says no, then ask her the reason
why, and if she has a good rea-
son and will not, then that is
your misfortune and maybe hers.
Who knows? Two or three times
a week is proper if you are much
in love, and if she will let you
call that often. Don't go every
night, she might get tired of
looking at you, and besides yoG
might be intruding on the other
people, her parents, for instance,
and they will call you a nuisan &c.