The news scimitar. (Memphis, Tenn.) 1907-1926, 1920-01-29

Jaw my husband kiss and clasp
whose farm he manages.
man is doubtful about his love for you
and prefers to stand by his grandmoth- /
ers' money, II he is young and not OF
an age TO be seriously in love or to
marry, he is wise in his decision IL
does seem. however. that he lacks back
bone to give up the girl Of his choice. Il
Doubtless his grandmother would get
over her prejudice and he would in
hcut the money anyway. Since he no
longer asks for dates, regard him as
an Acquaintance and do not permit him
to run around town with you when he
does not call Whether or not he 10
worthy Of you l can not say. sinSe l
know neither Of you
Dear Mrs. Thompson: I am a girl 10
years OF age and junior In high school.
I love a fellow three years od1r than
myself. I nave written him letter, but
have not received an answer, although
he promised he would answer inmedi-
ately, ! met him while visiting friend
a few weeks ago. He liked me, took
me to party one night, and before ne
left called me up over the telephone.
love him dearly and II ne doesn't soon
an r,s Er would ans,D : be proper 'eT AlT NJ
No YOU should not write again. You
win probably hear from the young man
| later.
| Betty and Jean II is useless to
| try to make the boys love you since
| they do not voluntarily. Seek love and
| 1t will flee from thee The girl with
! the auburn hair would look best in
brown; the girl with black hair IN blua
or red.
/ Melting Icce." | have some inter-
| esting letters for you which ] Will tof-
ward II you will send me your name
and address.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: am 10 years
Of age and lonesome because ! live 80
far from the city. II Is about six miles
away and we live two miles from the
main road. have no frlends--neither
boy nor GIRL Mother thinks ! am too
| young to 90 out with boys In the eve
ming. II she didn't object to my going
with young boys and girls ! wouidn't
be so lonesome. don't care 70 read
books at all. | have big brother. he
has a car OF his own, but he never taxes
me anywhere. asked him to take me
for ride and he said he had no tins
and so / have to stay home. NY sis
ter stays In town and works and has
money to spend. don't get much 20
spend. How can | get In company with
uood friends7 would like 70 Get
boy friend. UNHAPPY LOUISE.
Your mother and brother both have =
wrong attitude. You are old enough now
to 70 to places and should be helped 70
make friends Tell your mother that
at the age OF Is girls are old enough
to go TO places OF amusement when es-
corted by a young man. OF course they
. should not stay out unreasonably late
nj night In about two years you would
probsbly be happier II YOU got a posi-
lion in the city You must read, now
ever. so that you will train your MIND.
Employers want keen and educated peo-
pie to work for them.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: am girl 70
wears old and would like TO Join inc
movies. Could you suggest any com.
pany could Joln7 Could Ioin ann
who is is, would also like to !cin; ~
shs too vounu7 TWO CHUMS.
The moving picture magazines give
the locations OF the different STUDIOS.
1t would be wise to choose one heat .
home so that IL the manager does nov
| think he can use you, you can return
M little expense Unless your frienu
Is accompanied by her mother sne woul1
not be given work. or course slri
can be in the movies and sun remaln
good !" The life Is exciting, however,.
and il takes a strong character 20 re-
sist the many temptations which are
offtred | would advise you to choose
some other line of work Tor Two q
three years. When you are older YOU
will have more discretion and VIII pc
wiser to meet the problems u st@s0
life.
I Dear Mrs. Thompson; Living some
distance from town ! seldom have an
opportunity to study fashions ana Ian-
RIGS az would like to. the pfcplcm
az sprIna and summer clothing 10 now
eonfrontIna me and being at loss
10 know where to begin ! am asking
YOU TO help me. ! am brunette W'tn
rather LARGE brownish -coiored eyes anu
quantities OF the same shade o. mar.
What coiors and materials shouio
purchase for a spring froek Also suG-
aest the slippers and shoes ! should get
for the beginning OF the season.
small golden brown checked mate
rial will be good for the spring lrocR
and brown oxfords Will pc nice 70 az
company the dress, AS for the nat !
would suggest sailor shape fashioned
out of satin and straw and trimmed IN
| small brilliant -colored flowers. Have the
hat golden brown and the flowers vary
ing from old rose TO lavender PINK.
near Mrs Thompson--I am girl
l6 years of age and deeply in love Win
a boy two years my senior, We wish
very much to marry, but our paIshta
will not give their consent, Would u
be all right for rs TO go away ana ges
married? DO you think we would pc
haupyg DOTTY AND JERRY,
Your marriage would not be legal =
YOU ran away and got married. Young
people OF your age can not marry Witn-
out the consent Of their parents Al
YOU did such a thing, Dotty's reputa-
lion would be ruined. II is not worth
while to be disobedient. Wait until
both OF YOU are old enough to do such
thing. You probably haven't even
thought Of the high cost Of living
There is no possible chance that sucn
| n union would turn out right.
Dear Mrs. Thompson--What would
YOU do If young man had asked you
| TO marry him and you loved him truly,
then he turns you down and brings
another right where you are and in-
PRODUCES her to you; then after two or
three days he wants to come backg
Why does he do this? BABY G.
If is impossible for me to explain
such a thing. Give the young man a
chance to explain for himself. There
is chance that he couldn't avoid be-
ing with the other girl. Try to put
aside all jealousy and judge the matter
fairly.
Dear Mrs. Thompson-I am a mar
ried woman and have been for five
wears. During all this time | have
lived with my mother just because she
wants us to stay and pay board so she
can make ends meet. She does not
think that l would like to have home
and get ahead All she thinks of Is
herslf My husband would buy me
home at any time. l don't want to
hurt her feelings yet she hurts mine
and it is all right.
They say TO be good to your mother,
But sometimes she gets on my nerves.
1t is getting hard TO serve my husband
and my mother. Which would you
stand by? | am 20 now and have kept
her house since | was IA. There are
two more at home to go through the
same thing MRS. j. J. w.
Stand by your husband. Your moth
er can cut down her mode of living so
that it viii not take so much money to
make ends meet You must not let