Omaha daily bee. (Omaha [Neb.]) 187?-1922, 1920-01-27
Lovelorn
BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX
y Married Lovers.

Lear MISS y dlTIdS, Omdla Bee. j
am in slove with a married man. He
also loves me and wants me to
marry him as soon as he can get a
divorce. + do love him very much
and ] don't feel there is any one
else l ever can love. but l do not
feel just right about 1t, as I do not
believe in divorces, but he says he
was disappointed--so was his wife.
| have talked to him; said how hap
by he should be in such beautiful
home. etc, but he doesn't see that
way. Should l go away from this
town? I don't seem to take very
well with the young people. Il
guess they arc little selfish. / go
to church and try to live up to a
good clean life. This place is more
for dances, etc, Of which / don't
care for.
! am % years old, nice looking,
dress we'll, but don't feel above other
people the way some do. Please
give me some advice. I am alone
and lonesome. Thanking you,
LONESOME.
When a man and woman are mis-
mated ] think the best thing they
can do is to be divorced. Because
people are unhappily married once
is no indication that the second mar.
riage will prove failure. However,
if the man is living with his wife,
and you have only his side OF the
story-well, beware. Every man
who has trifled with girls, brought
them to disgrace and ruin, has told
the same story about being 'unloved.
The Coward.
Dear Miss Fairfax, Omaha Bee:
This is my first letter to you and i
sincerely hope you will be able to
help me.
] have only been in town for Ave
months now and all that time have
been working in an uptown Office.
A few days after I came to town
became acquainted with a girl in
the same Office as I work In and
since then have been keeping steady
company with her. / also became
acquainted with a young man, my
own age, and about a week ago he
tells me confidentially that this girl
was not as nice as she seems. Since
then / have heard this same thing
from two other sources.
Now, Miss Fairfax, to me this girl
always seemed perfectly all right
in her actions and I hate to be-
lieve anything i'll Of her and yet I
trust this friend implicitly and I
am sure he really believes this and
told me for my own good. ~
| would ask her about this which
hear except I>>would not have her
think for minute that doubt her
good name. The above are the facts
and now comes the question: How
can I satisfy myself that she Is all
right and dispe1 these dark doubts
words, how can a boy tell whether
or not girl is decent?
I will certainly apppeciats your
advice on this matter.
DOUBTFUL"
Shame! You moral weakling! The
girl should snap her fingers In your
face and tell you to get out. Has
she questioned your past? And
could you give an absolutely clean
record? If you love her and have
found her to be all that you desire,
why NOT take it for granted that she
is alright. She probably 10. and you
are so pusiuanimous that you be-
lieve every vile story that men Of
your caliber tell IL you had been
the right sort, when this boy tried
to prejudice you against her you
would have knocked him down. He
probably wants the girl himself. You
acted cowardly when this friend
spoke i'll Of the girl, and now you
are too much Of a coward = face
her with the story. No wonder girls
favor cave men.