The Chattanooga news. [volume] (Chattanooga, Tenn.) 1891-1939, 1920-03-22
ADVICE TO GIRLS

Dear Annie Laurie-We are two high
school girls and have been having an
argument about broken hearts. Please
tell us the significance OF the express
sion. and do you believe that they really
exist?
What is girl to do when she is In
love with a boy whom she does not
want to be in love with?
frankie and LORRY,
''broken.hearted' is a greatly mis-
used one. While trouble and sorrow
may bruise and grieve, almost to the
point of distraction. yet there is no
woe so great that time. without It's
beneficient hand, will not heal IT a
girl finds that she is falling In love with
one to whom she finds it preferable
to be Indifferent. the best course to
pursue Is to use her will power, putting
him out of her mind whenever a
thought of him enters. and seeking TO
keep her mind centered on some other
individual or on some absorbing oc-
cupation. Perseverance is bound to
win the day.
Dear Annie Laurie have been going
to dances lately. j want to know II
you think there is any harm In 1t. and
Is 1t any harm to dance with n married
man? And Is dancing injurious 10 your
health.
Is it wrong to buggy ride" at
night with boy? Now please give me
your advice on this. PEACHES.
Peaches-There is no harm in dane
ing II you dance properly and do not
overdo 1t by dancing too long at n
time and too often. Neither is 1t inn
proper to dance with a married man,
occasionally. IL his wife or your other
friends are present. But II is I'M
proper for you to go riding alone at
night with boys
Dear ANNE Laurie-I am a young
girl IL. and have been going out with
a young man one year my senior. lie
told me that he loved me, and wanted
me to be true to him. and / was true,
and all at once he stopped going with
me and went with other girls. How
can / win him back again, as | think
the world and oil OF him?
Worrled--I fear. my dear. that when
boy leaves you for another as de-
liberately as your friend has that IT is
not worth while TO try to win him
back. Just forget him. and try 10
be interested in some one who will not
Dear Annie Laurie--I am a girl OF
81, and never had a friend. / cannot
enjoy myself among company as other
girls do.
WIN you please advise me what to
Brown Eyes-You should make an ef-
fort, my dear, to overcome any feeling
that keeps you aloof in company. Try
to sink thought OF yourself and go IN
for a jolly good time. just as you see
the others doing. 1t will come easy
enough after you once make the start
among proper people.
Dear Annie Laurie-We are five girl
chums. all aged II. We are I'm love with
five boys, all two years our senior.
Now. dear Annie Laurie. Is it right
to let them take us home Mt night?
Every night they ask for a kiss. Is 1t
right for them TO kiss your
FIVE GIRL CHUMS.
Five Girl Chums-It is all right to
let the boys escort you homo If you
all go together, but most recldedly you
should not permit them to kiss you
bo cherished for your husbands.
Dear Annie Laurie-It does not seem
Just the right thing to do to burden
time of the year. but l know you win
forgive me for once and answer a few
of my queries.
am 10 years OF age. and keep COM
pany with a boy three years my senior.
| like him very much, but he seems
condescending way says: HE guesses
he will have to take my word for it,"
He says he viii not 80 with me any
more If | go out with other boys, as
he would play second fiddle" to no
one.
Now. dear Annie Laurie. don't want
to lose the friendship OF this boy. rol
l like him n lot, and still / can't sec
any harm In going out with n boy who
is visiting. from another part OF the
country. | can't flattor myself that It
is jealousy that prompts him 10 Rct
this way, but | think It Is only. his
manner. Please tell me what you think
OF this. A DISTRACTED FLIRT.
A Distracted lclirt--Since you classify
your relationship with the boy as
friendship l cannot see any harm I'm
your having other friends. Until the
boy makes Il clear to you that you
are the only woman In all the world for
him he has not right to dictate your
associates or TO say what shall he mis-
place I'm your social activities. OF
course. II you were seriously in love
with him you would not choose that
he should play second fiddle" Put
yourself in his place. But ne has no
right TO ask such thing until he has
given himself tho right by asking you
to marry him.
No table oil Is quito so good as i'm
ported Pompeian Olive Oil.-(Adv.)