Atlanta tri-weekly journal. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1920-19??, 1920-06-22

am a married woman OF twenty-five.
Have blue eyes, fair complexion,
black hair and weigh 105 pounds. I
have been married nearly two years
and have one sweet little baby girl
ten months old. My husband is not
good to me only when he takes a no
ton. 1 am as good to him as
can be except I fuss at him because
he goes to town every day and
stays all day, but don't want me to
go but once or twice a year. He said
there wasn't any sense In woman
going to town every week or two.
All the other women go every Sat
urday. 1t is just two miles to town
from where we live, and he WON'T
to his people and l have to pet him
and treat him as l would a baby
to get to go anywhere else. We
live on d farm and have a car, and
don't get to go anywhere hardly
work and try to help him all can.
He says he loves me, but | don't
leaving him, but have my baby to
raise. 1 left him one time and it
liked to have run him crazy, and
came back to him, but it didn't do
any good, so please give me good
advice on what to do. Please answer
this in the next paper, as | am
troubled. Please print this. Yours
truly, BRIGHT EYES.
What you need is a shaking
up. The idea of letting your
husband tell you when you can
go to town, that is absurd;
Where is your womanhood?
Don't you know he cannot have
Yo11ob for Won If Won LET
him browbeat you like that?
When you want to go to town
just say, Bill, Pete, George, or
whatever his name is, L am go
ing to town this morning and L
will be back at such an hour.
You have as much right as he
has. This is not the Stone age,
and your husband and every 9TH
err husband will look up to his
wife, and respect her more if she
would assert herself. think
married people can be happy II
they will only work out their
problems on a fifty-fifty basis.
Don't be a nagger, and make
home unpleasant for your hus-
band, and for goodness sake
don't whine-anything a man
hates is whining woman. Be
sport and play the game to
the finish, you can do it. I know
you want to know what vam-
pire means this day and time?
She isn't the terrible creature
who has been painted from time
to time, a creature who preys on
men, and sends them to perdi-
ton by her sorcery. No, she is
the woman who understands"
The woman who has sense
enough to keep her mouth shut
at the right time, who has moral
courage and backbone, who isn't
afraid to do right, who by her
womanly sweetness and good
comradeship holds a man at her
thing to hurt another, a woman
who inspires confidence and re-
spect. That is a real vampire.
For she is the kind men will
never forsake. Now, you just
take a grip on yourself, see what
your faults are first, and try
to correct them, and little by lit
tie in quiet manner assert
yourself and, my dear, you will
win out in the end.
Here comes boy for advice.
have been going with girl for thre
years. and I love her dearly ! An
she says she loves me with her Who'll
heart, but she seems to take up lot
of her time with other boys. W
are engaged and the last time | wa
over to see her I went into the stor
where she works when I was leav
ing to tell her goodbye and she wa
talking with another boy. and sh
didn't make any effort at all to tel
me goodbye or give me q chance t
say anything to her. What do yo
think she meant by doing so? p
you think she loves me like sh
says? She likes for you to hug an
kiss her, in fact, she will ask you t
do such and she never gets tired
it. Do you think she means an
harm? Please give me. your advic
on the question and print it in TIL
Journal. BROWN EYES.
Three years is quite long
YOU marry her? I do not believe
in long engagements. This girl
finds just being engaged to You
very monotonaus and as she is
young naturally she likes the So
ciety of other men. I really
think she is a little tired of you.
The novelty Of being engaged
has worn off. If you love her as
you say you do. then you should
make every effort to marry her
without delay. Or else be mar
end release her from her prom
Use. T do not think she sholuld
ask you to kiss her, but if she
nldCeS tnaI IluCn COIlEu6ItCe Nv
YOU then be a man and do not
talk about her faults to any one
else. You are rather an excep-
tiona1 case, for most men like
the kissing game" pretty well.
and get really angry with girl
because she doesn't grant their
request. / do not think the girl
means any real harm. If you
love her, respect her. believe in
her, girls are not as bad as men
are led to believe. I would have
p plain understanding with her
though and find where you stand
end do not put II off.
iiRAaIRrRIAIEU