Atlanta semi-weekly journal. (Atlanta, Ga.) 1898-1920, 1920-03-05

1 am going to ask you for advice.
I really think you give good advice.
am a married woman, and my age is
twenty. If 1 should be out walking
and some neighbor man should come
riding along and should ask me to
ride on to my home or where had
started, what should I do? If I
should be visiting anywhere and
meet a lady while there and she says
she is glad she met me, what must
I say to her? Do you think if want
ed to go to town and my husband was
not going and neighbor man was
going in his car it would be any
harm for me to go with him?
WORRIED.
It depends on the kind of man
your neighbor is and the kind of
reputation he has in the COM
munity.. If he is g. good citizen
and trustworthy neighbor who
is merely offering you a friendly
lift I see no objection in riding
home with him. If your husband
has no objection to your going
in the neighbours car and if you
do not make a constant practice
VI Will LILO Same u6lSUDOT,
I should not think there would
be any criticism; but if you are
seen too frequently in the COM
pany Of any man other than your
husband it will subject you to
adverse criticism. Just tell the
lady in a friendly, easy sort Of
way that you are glad to know
her, too.
I am a lonely girl coming to you
for advice. I am rs years old and
have never had but very few beaux.
am jolly enough in company, but
a little bashful. All the girls are
very friendly to me and tell me
about the good times they have
with the young men. I am the only
child and would be glad indeed to
be so that I can go with the boys
and girls and enjoy myself. When
happen to be at party the young
men are friendly to me then, but
they never ask to call. Do you
think it would be alright for me to
ask them to call? And do you
think that is why they don't come
to see me?
I went with a young man two or
three times some time ago and
learned to love him dearly. He SEEM
ed to love me, although he did not
tell me so. When 1 told him that
1 loved him he stopped going with
me. Do you think I was to blame?
Will thank you for any advice.
NANCY.
Cultivate a pleasing manner
toward everyone, don't talk
about other girls to a man, and
learn to keep things you hear
to yourself. Dress neatly and
don't let men think you are
too eager for their society. Have
social gatherings in your home,
and invite the young men you
really like. See if you can't
make friends that way by be-
ing cordial and attractive. New
er tell man you're in love with
him unless he declares himself
in love with you. Withhold the
impulse then to tell him how
deeply you love him. Show 1t by
being kind and broad-minded.
Never ask him personal ques-
lions. If he loves you he will
tell you everything.
Here comes a girl, aged twenty
SIAO LII cION1CSs dIu 1ONC Will q
young man, aged thirty. I dearly
love him and I am sure he loves me.
We have known each other twenty
one years, and have gone together
nine years. He is a nice young man.
He kisses me most every day. Is
that right, do you think? We could
live happy together. Would it be
right for me to kiss him goodnight?
love him with all my heart, and
am sure he loves me the same.
Please advise me what to do, as
have no one to advise me. Please
answer me through The Journal.
AN UNDECIDED GIRL.
Nine years is too long to keep
company with man, unless
there are very good reasons for
not marrying sooner. Unless he