The Washington times., 1920-10-26
Beatrice Fairfax
GIVES
Advice.

DEAR MISS FAIRFAX:
I have known boy for about four months
and have grown to love him dearly, which ]
guess, accounts for my being little jealous
every time he goes out with snother slrl
(Which he does very often). He met girl
week ago and went out with her last night
and of his friends tells me that he is go
ing to see her after his frat meeting tonight
"a thing which he has never done for mel.
Now Miss Fairfax I'm the kind of girl who
feels dreadful If boy spends much money on
me. and so usually this boy and myself either
walk stay at home. although we go TO the
movies occasionally
1t seems (from reports) that the other girls
whom he goes to see make him spend lot OF
money them.
am wearing his frat pin, and he told me
that he wanted it to stand for an engagement
and when he is alone with me he's just
peaches and cream" but when someone else
is along he is dreadfully sarcastic, and 1t
surely does hurt me lots.
Do you think that he really loves me, or is
just trying to make sport out of me? Most
people say that l should go with lots of otn-
boys, and treat him just like he docs me,
but most boys bore me, and the few that
don't, won't come to see NE but once, just
because I'm not the kind that will let them
hug and kiss me. 1t is not because I'm not
nice looking because everyone tells me how
nice | look all of the time and | dress well,
but not "flashy." HELEN
am glad to know you'll not let the boys
hug and kiss you Life is too short to worry
about the ones who only come once and evil
IDENTIFY for this purpose. Keep your kisses for
the right man.
As for the boy who gave you his frat pin ard
goes to see other girls:
He probably is not serious with YOU or any
of the others. lie is too young. would not
let him hurt me. Why not go out with other
young people and have good time?
KIND OF MAN SHE WANTS.
DEAR MISS FAIRFAXi
Now what I want to know is just how I
may meet the man or ideal man | am looking
for have been looking for ever since have
been eighteen. The men have met or those
who seem to take fancy to me arc always
year or two younger have had many
suitors, some my own age but none older.
But none of my age ever seems TO be the
real man. Some OF those younger would have
been all right, but they had young foolish
ideas. Their thoughts were different alto
Rether from mine.
Now / would like some day to meet some one
which would answer to the following descrp-
ton:
He must either be my own age and not over
twenty seven years OF age either dark
fair. but would like dark better, must have
fairly good education, rather good-looking,
not under five feet four or not over five feet
eight One who likes to dress well and be
neat in appearance Must be refined. OF good
habits, and good natured mot one who gets
his feelings hurt at every little thing YOU
say), Must like to go out once In while,
such as taking in a movie or dance, and take
his part in the conversation and not let me do
all the talking.
have met many different types of men
but not the one I would like for husband.
DISSATISFIED.
The kind OF man you describe should not be
hard to find But one doesn't fall in love with
man because he Is dark or fair, tall or 50
short, or IL SO many years old. one loves man
for entirely different reasons, and doesn't stop
to ask how old, or how tall or how short he is.
II doesn't matter.