The Washington times., 1920-01-11


(not . very difficult matter with
most women!) and he must plainly
show his interest. lie must let her
feel that he 10 manoeuvring to be
alone with her and desires her CON-
pany. And the more he let's her
see that his character Is strong the
more he will attract her.
Il ID not OF the slightest conse-
quence how mastsrful q man shows
himself to be: II at the same time
he ID passionate lover, the woman
In the case will always adore him.
II In coldness and casualness which
disillusionixe, and. % ! said in my
last paper. above all, mulish word.
lessness!
Richard may reply: But cant
talk: when feel things very much
I am silent. Surely she will vnder.
stand that love hsr!" She mdv
understand. but silence will not
give her 80 much pleasure or make
her feel for you 30 much In return
a. II you told her % IN tender SEN
tences.
90 Il Ii Just that--yon must ask
yourself which you desire most--to
express your own personaiity and
not arouse responsive warmth or
try to overcome It and do the things
which you know spilI please Kath-
leen and so kindle her love for you.
It all lies-in your own hands, and
,x0,l- must -AsnidA Hhi6h lsanl lpsetssi-
Y supposinG you perceive that she
n Z giri who II very subtle and does
understand without much protssta.
tion on your part. then you must be
careful to show her that you love
her by inferewce. For the sover.
eign receipt for making woman
love you is to let her know, whether
by words, insinuations or inference,
that you ardently adore her! If
Kathleen is unkind to you and delib-
erately makes you Jealous, do not
meekly put up with It. Cool off in
your actions at once, and let her see
that she will not hold you If she
continues these methods. To cool
off and so suggest to the subcon-
scious mind the strong possibility
Of losing you would have more ef-
feet than your letting her see that
you we're angry or hurt.
For remember there is nothing
which can be so cruel as a woman
when she feels herself master Of
mans emotions!
Women can be consciously cruel.
and even take pleasure in causing
their lovers to suffer.
Men, on the other hand. are cruel
much oftener. but are very seldom
deliberately so: their cruelty comes,
from thoughtlessness and indiffer-
ence. and often because their affec-
tion has been transferred elsewhere.
But women, In some moods. delib-
erately hurt the men they love.
There is feline instinct insepara-
BILE from all things female.
A eynic once said to me that there
were really only two species in the
world-the canine and feline-snd
the highest development Of the ca
nine was man, the highest develop
ment ot the feline was women! \
felt obliged to find certain
amount Of truth in this upon think
ing II over. when one searches back
to instincts!
But after this digrossion we had
hetter return TO Richard and his
Kathleen.
When he II quite sure that she
loves him and the psychological
moment has arrived that he asks
her to marry him he must see that
his caresses are tender as well as
passionate. for exquisite caresses
are the strongest OF love awakeners.
The touch OF q hand in passing Is
enough to make a delicious thrill
II starts the working of the magnet.
Lovers always like to be close to-
gether And II touching grows TO
mean nothing to them then they
may know very we'll that tho intoxi-
cation Is over. and at best friend
shin Is between them. Love al
ways manifests itself IN the desire
to touch the Beloved One.
When Richard marries Kathleen
he can almost certainly keep her IN
love with him II he desires TO DO 30.
He has only to remain mosterfui
and fond lover to accomplish this
miracle. and not subside into tho
usual stodey. complacent husband
The tragedy is that by the un.
conscious working Of the hunting
instinct in man, Il is nine times out
of ten the adoring fiance Richards