The Washington herald., 1919-06-19
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place to speak first. II you are
spending the evening on the lawns
or ,porches in your immediate
neighborhood. it seems to me that
8 o'clock would be a sensible hour
to come in. / would not advise YOU
to go out of the neighborhood at
all after dark unless with some
grown person or a boy of whom
your parents approve. In that case
your parents might be more lenient
with you as to the hour of return,
say ten o'clock for any special
occasion.
Neglected.
Dear Miss Lee: am n years OLD and the
mother Of tuo childreu Nv husband never
takes me out with him in the evenings and
seems to have lost interest in me Won't you
please advise mef-A HEARTBRoKEN WIFE
Every man notices the little
things. whether he mentions them
or not Try adding a new touch
here and there about the house and
in your own peS,onal attire. !
would suggest that you find some
one who could take care of the
children for you for a few hours
one evening a week. Then tell
ticularly anxious to see some pic
ture or play and that you have ar
ranged for this person to take care
of the children. Ask him IL he
would like to come along. II he
refuses, hide the hurt and go alone
or with some neighbor, then try
again.
Too Attentive.
Dear Miss Lse: love a man who 10 now in
France. ! became very lonesome after he left
this side and started going around with the
other boys and girls. One young man became
rather attentive. Now I find that he is in love
with me. while care for him only a friend
I have told him this but he persists in coming
to see me. How can l put a stop to thisi-
PERPLEXED.
Be perfectly truthful with thi:
I young man. Tell him that while he
is the best sort of a friend that yoU
do not care for him in any other way
and are positive that you never
will. You hight also say that you
do care more for the man in France
Then IL you are sure he under
stands just how you feel and still
wishes to take you to parties and
visit in your home. / can see no
reason for asking him to stay away.
Ex-SoIdier.
An Ex-Soldier-In endeavoring to
obtain information concerning your
questions, 1 was told IL you would
write direct to the AdjuI<lt Cen
erals office you could receive de-
tailed information. There are such
ribbons.
Wants Songs Published.
Dear Miss Lee: l have composed a numbez
Of sonEs which I hnd It impossible TO have
published Several publishing houses have re-
TUNED them TO me. What do you advisei-
DISCOURAGED.
Have some authority here advise you
as to the merit of your songs. II
they see no reason for them not being
published. continue sending them to
musical publishing houses.
Attention Of Lilly.
In reply to a letter received from
Lilly. I wish to say I could answer
more in detail IL she would send me
a self-addressed, stamped envelope.
You have certainly not done anything
to be censured for. IL conditions are
as you say. 1 would suggest that you
continue to visit your relations, and II
I were you l would tell my parents
the whole affair. You can acknowl-
edge any advance toward conversa-
ton with this man with a nod of the
head or such a curt reply that you
will not be bothered by his unwel-
come attentions.
His or Her Initial.
Dear Miss Lee: In giving q bride-to-be q
shower, should the initial Of her present sur
name Or that Of her future husband be used on
lnensf Does a wedding announcement call for
a wedding present !-ANXIOUS.
The initial of the brides maiden
name should appear on the brides
linens. A wedding announcement does
not necessitate gift, though it is per-
fectly proper to send one.