The Big Sandy news. [volume] (Louisa, Ky.) 1885-1929, 1919-08-22
HOME CIRCLE COLUMN
A Word to Husbands.

Love and appreciation are TO a wo-
man what dew and sunshine are TO n
flower. They freshen and brighten her
whole life. They make her strong
hearted and keen sighted in every
thing effecting the welfare OF her home.
/ They make her to cherish her husband
when the cares OF life press heavily
upon him; and 10 be very providence
to her children. To know that her hus-
band loves her and ls proud OF her
and believes In her; that even her
faults are looked upon with tender
ness; that her face, 10 one at least, II
the fairest In all the world; that the
heart which is TO her is tn egreatest
and noblest, holds her sacred In his
innermost recesses above all other wo.
men. gives strength and courage and
energy and sweetness and vivaclty
which all the wealth OF the world
could not bestow. Let woman's life
be peryaded with such an influence.
and her heart and mind will never
grow old but viii blossom and sweeten
and brighten in perpetual youth.
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II is worse than useless 10 attempt
to repress n girls natural impulses.
The society and companionship OF the
opposite sex Is perfectly natural de-
sire. Shut her up and she elopes with
o coachman-cross her in love and she
may I'LL d suicides grave. Many OF our
young women are consumed with am
bilious desires-they feel the divine
spark which might be famed into
splendid flame, but parental authority
DEGREES they shall fold their hands
and wait while the spark becomes
dim and goes out. taking hope. per-
haFs life. with II.
One fault In the way OF living OF |
not a few people is that they never |
make company OF their own families,
The talk Of womens extravaganza
is only accepted as truth because the
man keeps the ledgers and his wife
has nothing but debt In them. II
isn't fair. II man were to deal hon
estly and squarely and figure up HIS
own expenses and all he gets for them
the woman would rise up before him
4 perfect angel OF economy and make
him blush.
Which way is your life pulling? Is
/ upward or downward? Are you help
ng somewhere or hinderinR any
where? Is this weeks record the best
;hapter OF your life story? Are you
'eady TO have II printed and left as
4 the matter with Il? Important
egacy to your friends II not, what
'roblem, isn't II
Social workers and reformers all
ver this broad land OF ours are con-
family trying to remedy problems or |
ice and install new reform methods:
nd II behooves every mother OF our 1
lone, Sweet Home TO do her share {
y exerting preventive measures upon
or boys and girls Prevention is bet 4
or than reform. lr
The boys and girls look at the old I
r people and see what they do They q
latch the words OF the father and IL
lother and the friends. and take their {
ue quickly. Even the little ones are I
yer watchful to see just how closely I
lther and mother adhere to the truth.
The habit OF treating those who are
earest and dearest to us with dis
ourtesy and disregard. Ia one that
onds the sunshine OF too many {
omes.
When We learn to be polite, not only
, society people. but as husbands and
ives, sisters and brothers, parents :,
nd children. we shall do we'll No =
'ms can be happy wherein sarcastic :, =
'eech and rude disregard for one an y
hers rights ID the rule :,
Let us stop to think OF the aged. y
Or US. too. the evening shadows win
ose at length. and we shall, per-
Iance. be left at desolate hearth-
ones. We shall need to be remem- 4,
red then. q,
Observe In what direction your thots ~
ID feelings most readily take when =,
u are alone. and you can then form W
pretty correct opinion OF your real ~
H. -
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We help our children most when We n
LIP them to take an honest view Of
emselveg, and this we can never do
fatterins their too easily fiatter- Al,
self-conceit. "A,
Bring your expenses down to your ~,
'ome, regardless OF Inconvenience, ~ ~
a you will come out with flying sL
ors. ~,
rhe only thing you own after you
is what you have given away. De-