The Washington times., 1919-04-16
Judge a Man by His Treatment
Of Dependent Women
The Real Man Shows in the BUSH
Store.

We shall give some extremely valuable advice to the
young woman who contemplates matrimony and to her
tsther and mother
The advice perhaps viii be found useful to the father
and mother The young who Is IN love does not
want advice. She wants poetry, S1Very moons singing
birds and large section OF space devoted exclusively 70
herself and other.
The cooler mother and father sister brother is
advised to study the future husband in his treatment
Of the woman or women who depend upon him
There are many men who put on very fine manners in
the evening but forget all about those fine manners when
they 60 to their Offices in the morning
The anxious father and mother should beware Of the
man who treats with lack Of courtesy lack Of kindness
the woman compelled to earn a living in his employ
The entrance of into all lines Of business has
changed Che aspect of the business world IN many respects
It has given many the chance to show their real
character And it gives to others the chance to STUDY
those real characters The latter chance should not be
missed.
The man who is sury to his typewriter and indifferent
TO her feelings viii be sury with his wife and Indifferent
to HER feelings.
There is a typewriter and wife, of But there
is also great resemblance and most important One
between them.
The typewriter tied to her employer by the necessity
Of earning living must put up with his bad manners
endure his III humor and ignore his boosh disregard Of the
fact that he is in the presence of woman.
The wife also is compelled to endure her husbands
lack of innate decency and genuine courtesy.
It is only in the intimate business he the intimate
married Hfe that the mans real character comes out
The who bows and sCrapes most politely when he
magnes himself ''in society," the who is most assidu
Gus deerent and formal in his treatment Of the
whom he expects to marry is often the least satisfactory
FINISHED product employer or husband.
Watch mans treatment of his amanuensis of the sales
under his control and you will get very good idea
his character of his natural instincts The and
tear the disappointments and taons of business make
It impossible for to conceal his real nature.
Needless to say would not have the business man
in his Office his store mnce and prance like foolish
creature in mnuet.
Just thing is offensive to sensible business
women than downright rudeness and that thing is
presumphous, condescending aectaton of great polite
ness and Difference.
In his treatment of women who depend upon him, a.
man is not expected to deport himself with the studied
strained exqusely udcrous poteness that characterzes
him when he tries to appear natural in a ballroom
: The man who employs woman should bear in mind,
first, that she is just the kind of his
mother, or his sister, or his daughter.
Second that she is DEPENDENT woman, and there
FORE deenseless than the average in this
world.
Third, that the man who treats poor woman other
wise than prosperous woman is sere and lackey
st heart and probably by breeding
Fourth that the woman for whom he most may
t any moment be situated is the now at his
mercy. i
And, fifth that man who talks to one a he
would not dare talk another or who shows lack of def
coward and generally very poor sample Of humanity