Atlanta semi-weekly journal. (Atlanta, Ga.) 1898-1920, 1919-05-09

enough to live where you can see
each other occa siona1ly, the situa ton
will take care of itself, L think. If
he loves you and you love him, and
do not mind his knowing it, sooner
or later his love for you will lead
him to find out that you care for
him. You might tell him that you
would be glad to have him come to
see you sometimes, and show your
interest in him by asking him to
tell you of his war experiences.
I am a girl eighteen years old. l
have been going with a boy of twenty
for year. He is a boy that is liked
that he liked before he went with
me, but he said he liked me better.
He has been coming right along
every week till some time ago. Then
it was every two weeks; then every
tire weeks; nof it is very four
weeks. He does not write only once
in while. He does not want me to
go with anyone only just him, and
l don't. He does not want me to
go anywhere unless he is with me.
Would it be all right for me to wave
at the boys when they wave at me?
What colors would suit me? l have
dark brown hair and eyes and real
fair complexion.
VIVIAN.
Answer.-If you are not engaged to
the boy he has no right to insist that
you go with no one else, and you
are foolish to give in to him, par
ticularly when he seems careless as
to his attention to you. L would be
friendly with all the nice boys, and
sweethearts with none of them un-
til L found the man that | really
cared for. Then it will not make
any particular difference whether
anyone of them writes once a week
or once month. l would not wave
at the boys except occasionally per-
haps at those l knew very we'll in
deed. Almost any color will look
we'll on you, though brown and tan
are very becoming to your type.
I am a girl fifteen years old and
have met boy that is only sixteen
years old. l love him very much
and want to go with him but he
does not pay any attention to me,
although we meet very often, | feel
that my life will be very sad without
him and l don't know how to win
his affection. 1 am jealous when he
goes with other girls on Sunday att
e1noons and when we are at any EN-
tertainment he does not notlce me
but has nice time with the other
girls. PleaIe tell me what to do as
'''l'l'O' ~ UNDECIDED.
Answer.-When one is fifteen, the
feeling that one cannot do without
any certain boy is largely a question
of the imagination, l am afraid.
You are in love with love itself, not
with the boy; and you will know the
difference when you are really in
love. You should have too much
pride to show any boy that you want
so much to go with him, and jealousy
is very foolish. 1t is foolish not
olyncS a
but it will make you less attractive
also. Why not begin to think OF all
the wonderful things that are hap
pening nowadays in the world, and
find out especially what women are
doing to improve themselves and to
help make the world better? You
| are young yet, and the future is full
of Lportunities for happiness and
service.
I am a girl, age sixteen years,
and go with a boy fifteen years. At
a box supper is it right for the boy
| to open the box or the girl? How
must l fix my hair? How long must
[ wear my dresses? In what style
should he fix his hair? Must he
wear long trousers Or not? Would
| it be any harm for me to go with
- BROWN EYES.
AnSWer-lC WOuIQ De DGIIer IL yOo
went with boys older than yourself.
| The girl should open the box. Brush
your hair back from your forehead
and puff It a little over the ears and
arrange it in d knot at the back.
Your dresses should be nearly to
your shoetops. The boy can brush
| his hair away from his face all round
and have it clipped short at the back
Ii he is overgrown for his age, he
might put on long trousers now,
though usually they are not worn
until sixteen years. 1 personally do
not appl owe of girls and boys so
young going to the theater alone, but
| you must be guided in that by your
mothers wishes and the custom of
your community.
am girl of Is years of age, and
am asking you for some advice. I
am liking boy of nearly my age. He
seems to think lot of me when 1 am
|, with him. Is it all right for him
to walk home from church with me
or from school? Is it all right for
him, to call on me some Sunday aft
ernoons? Am 1 old enough to have
dates? Would it be correct for me
to kiss my soldier friend when he
comes, if l thought a lot of him be-
fore his leaving? Is it correct for
me to ask a boy if he loves me if he
asks me first, and I tell him? Would
it be alright for a girl to write to