The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1919-01-16
Girl Bewildered
by Love Tragedy
Seeks Alienation

ne introduces her as his wife. but
sne has husband. aud an Smonths
old baby girl
IL broke my heart. ana can't ex.
plain what l have suffered and a,
VT Tor to mo he meant an No one
can ever know the slccplcss nights
anu all the tears | have shed for
MN. ! have tried SO hard not 20
worry over lt, hut | had planned
ana hoped II would be 80 different
trom this that | can't get over IL.
am SO weak and nervous from
" All that can scarcely do my
work. stay az home and keep
house for my aged father. "a my
mother has been dead II years.
We live in a small country place.
so II Is impossible for me 20 40
away and forget. as am the only
one that my father has TO care for
him, To make Il stili more unbear
able, ] can see. from where we live.
this man | love with this woman.
every day, I cannot got a chance
TO ask him the reason for his ac
ton. as she is always with him
wherever he goes.
| come to you for sympathy and
help, as | have no one else 20 30 TO.
love this man yet. In spite OF all.
| know his heart l. good. az least
cannot feel any other way. but why
he should so suddenly change and
he so different cannot under.
stand
Please. Miss Grey. II you can
spare tho time. do help me, as /
cannot speak 20 anyone without the
tears choking me.
\ HEARTBRoKEN GIRL.
Why Why should "A young
and innocent person be- made
10 suffer Sot II IL ono OF the
fanTS o. the thing We call love.
kipling touched on Il In his
lines. Man Kills the thing no
loves" Tho pcrfldy In heart
affairs OF some seemingly truth.
ful. trustfui men ana women IA
ono OF the unsNplainable mys
teries OF this life Perhaps II
you could see your lover alone
and ask him why he did this
truthfuily that he didn't know
Some psychologists have term
ed Il xmagnetisn-th attrac
ton and dominating influence OF
the stronger sex personality.
All OF this. however. doesn't
alleviate your sorrow II you
can believe that time will heal
the hurt. II will help some 4
broken heart might be llkencd
somewhat TO broken china. II
may be cementcd firmly to-
gethcr But many remedies
may BE- applied to heart which
VIII not stick pieces OF china to-
gether.
Too many girls who have had
an experience like yours make
a dreadful mistake IN taking the
lonesome read. They think they
find Solacc in sitting at home
trying 60 drown their sorrow in
oceans Of tears. They can't
stand the idea OF enduring ~.
tie heartache.
n Fate has decrced that you
shall not hav. the love which
was meant for you. vet n goal
for yourself Determining to
FORGET. and time. viii help
you TO succeed
Many a girl has made a beau.
tifgl nuddlc % her life and has
even spotted her reputation. BY
clutching for love which was
not genuine. There IN nothing
nothing as scarce. and. on tho
other hand. there IL nothing SO
drcary or dead as dead love.
And there arc many wonderful
things in the world beside tho
love OF a man.
Every girl has some medium
OF expression for her thoughts
and her energy II she win only
try to find q. she will find hap
pinesa also.
Not solitude and barrels OF
tears. but society and "A great
deal Of hard. wholesome work.
Is what you need. Solitude
means n selfish indulgence IN
the JOY Of being n martyr.
Work means a purpose IN life
and a whole -souled struggle for
sanity and health.
And. my dear little girl. II IL
not necessary to 20 away In
order TO forget. when you
once establish a forgettcry amid
the scenes OF your iove.tragedy.
IL will be lasting and permanent.
While you are robbed OF the
sitting. artificial pleasures OF
the city. there Is the opportun.
1ty for long walks in the open
country. OF studying Nature. as
you cannot do in the cities
There IL also the opportunity for
selfimprovernent. OF studying
the best magazines and books
which will lead you away and
beyond your present small life.
with this unfolding Of your in.
tellectual self the old shell viii
burst. and you viii be an indo.
pendent. free. happy girl. Moth.
ing. however sad. can rob you
OF that inner Joy OF a greater
understanding.
VIII you write TO me again.
would Ike to know how you
get along,