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El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
"What Is Love?" Big Human Problem
Also "When Do We Know We Have It?"
Though Hard Question, It Is Crux of Much Of Human
Happiness; Love Worth Having Must Be Based
On Liking; Is FTiendship-Plus

. OF revelation over the letters that re-
NAMED. As remember. 10 went;
[ Friendship. hatred, love, indifteF-
ence, marriage"
what a silly Game;
what a silly game Il seemsl YET
how much Joy we got out Of a
kindly verdict that said Reginald
loved US and we were his friend
OF course as we grow up, all OF US
discard the absurd game. But We
carry on with US into life. the abb
surd attitude that divides of states
OF feeling from each other and
doesn't see how all feeling merges
into what has gone before and what
comes after.
There isn't a wall between friend
ship and love. Some one has wisely
said that friendship IS love without
flowers and veil
That's true
A deep. splendid, satisfying friend
ship between man and woman ls per-
friendship and nothing more 10 the
end Of time. But 10 holds the germ
OF other feelings or perhaps we
might more conservatively say that
it Is fallow ground for the germs OF
other feelings.
when a man and woman enjoy each
others society. respect each other s.
ulation which being together brings.
they have no more than a splendid
friendship. They are IN the state Of
liking each other. And that state
may remain for years or forever. But
u Il fun OF potentialities- Il has
kinetic energy
Love Based on Liking
Love worth having must be based
on liking. Emotion worth possess
ing must have the background Of
respectful friendship The fusiuE e
flesh where there IS no call OF spirit
Is debasing and can't last
Love IS friendship That means
love is congeniality and respect and
interest and liking and regard and
courtesy and kindness
But love IS friendship-plus.
The affection deepens beyond Xxx
ing 10 desire The congenlality grows
TO a feeling OF interests shared, and
multiplied a thousand fold IN value
because shared The respect deepens
to reverence The courtesy 20 ten
derness. And the kindness 70 pro
tective passion that would suffer
rather than give suffering.
Love IS the beautiful trinity OF
spirit and mind and body. And never
-unless the heart holds all three
and reverences all three teelings-
has true love come 20 abide
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
Happy Yuletide Entertainment Given
At Red Cross ConValeScent House

wards OF the base hospital for those
too i'll TO attend the celebration IN
the convalescent house. The Woman's
club sent generous gifts. and owing
to the fact that the Red Cross
Christmas candy was burned IN the
recent fire the chamber Of CONNER
sent out five buckets OF candy. This
was arranged for by b. J.. Baron
through the kindness OF J. Il. Regain
assistant manager OF the chamber
Of commerce
On Christmas day at three o'clock
? m the bedridden patients Of the
base hospital were entertained with
a SNORT musical program given by
Miss Beatrice Kills and Miss anne
Chase who were conducted through
the wards OF the hospital by Mrs. r.
A Hubbard and J. ". Wallace.
In the Red Cross convalesceut
mouse at o'clock D. N. the Orpheus
clunr under the direction Of Charles
Andrews, gave an interesting musi-
cal program Mrs Robert l. Holiday
and Miss Barbara Worcester both
sang several solos. and Miss Elizabeth
Graham gave g. reading in connection
with the singing OF the club.
me follow Ing program was given
at the Red Cross house:
silent Night, Holy Night Orpheus
club two readings, Miss Graham,
Let the Hills Resound." Orpheus
club Chinese Lullaby," NY Col
leen, Mrs r. L Holiday: Deep
River and a humorous selection.
My Alexander" Orpheus club Good
Morning, Brother Sunshine" and
The Cuckoo" Miss Barbara Vor-
cester; Heart OF Nine" Banks OF
allen Water Orpheus club. The
closing number was 90 Come All Te
Faithful sung by the club and the
audience.
At the Eighth cavalry Service CLUB
al Fort Bliss, many soldiers were en-
tertained Christmas eve with a large
tree and a short talk was Eiven by
chaplain John McWuliams. Apples
and candy. which were gifts from
many generous Fl Pasoans. were
given the boys by a real Santa
Claus" while the Eighth cavalry
band played The hall was beautiful
" decorated with Christmas greens
and red bells. and a great log fire in
the fireplace gave the home touch. ~
This Service club is managed by
Percy McGhee, 81.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

CT An going about with a young
1 man and all our recent talks
have been on the one subject. What
Is Iove7~ Ny idea is that Il a man
and woman go about with each other
and feel happy when together. and
take pride IN each others company,
and then on leaving one another are
anxiousiy waiting the next meeting,
then they are in love. Ny friend.
however. insists that love IS surely OF
another nature"
This letter in today's mail eE-
presses a question I am asked over
and over every day and every week
and every year. Why not? This IS
ore OF lies biggest problems It's
one Of the things hardest to answer,
most difficult 70 measure and define,
and yet II Is the great crux OF much
Of human happiness.
Love which is genuine and true is
the feeling that can be trusted 70
great dream Of the human soul. We
all long not only Tor romance but
for the great romance-the romance
and mystery clad JOY that come from
the one great love We reach for il
and miss it. We are given 1t by the
kindly fates and destroy Il. We have
II. perhaps. and never know 10.
when IL Lever
And one OF our biggest human
problems lies in the question. what
is lover and its corrollary. How
are we going TO know when We
have it,"
There are a great many people to
whom love Is nothing more than
physical attraction - the magnetic
leaping Of some force from eye TO
eye-the biological pulp between
man and woman
Love 70 others Is a sublimated
friendship Of the mind.
Some fancy that love is tenderness
and devotion.
Real love. however. is all OF these
and more.
Life isn't built on a floor plan OF
water-tight compartments.
You can't shut off friendship from
love and liking from loving There
aren't walls between the various
human emotions
Do you remember the childish
game OF ~canceling names2" We used
10 tell fortunes by bracketing our
name with that OF tho boy we liked,
and after striking out the letters
hey had IN common we said ritual
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
Out Of Town Visiiors

sam Hawkins, who is In Fl Pasc
from Ranger visiting his wife, form
erly Miss Olive Davis, viii return &c
Ranger Sunday.
Christmas day from Hot Springs,
Arkansas and win make his future
home here at 500 Mesa avenue
Mrs Lee Riggs and little daughters
OF Columbus, New Mexico. are in the
city for the holidays at the parental
home, 1O14 North Florence street
Francis Bean is here from Los An
Eeles visiting his wife and daughter.
who have been here for several days
visiting Mrs. BeaIs parents, NIr. and
Mrs W D. Nayfield.
W H Groom ard wife. OF Darda-
nelle. Ark, are visiting Mr. and Mrs.
@ ". Groom during the holidays at
their home down the valley. The
Crooms are brothers
Mr.. and Mrs J. T. Lynn. Of Dallas.
arrived in the city Christmas day to
spend few days As guests OF their
son g. W Lynn OF The Fl Paso
Herald. and Mrs Lynn
Lieut.. and Mrs .. r. NacCollum
are in Fl Paso on a visit with Mrs.
MacCOllum's mother. Mrs. Alice Nor
ria, on Corto street Mrs. MacCoi-
lum Is the former Miss Ruth Morris
Lieut. MacCollum IS IN the United
states coast guards and IS proceeding
20 Mobile. Ala, for station He was
on the Seneca during the war.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

The closer you watch
your household bills, the
more you'll see the wisdom
of using Schilling Tea.
It IS rich in tea-fiavor.
and makes more cups to
the pound than any other
tea we know of at any price
is actually cheaper per
cup than tea costing a great
deal less.
And then think of the
pleasure of drinking fine teal
Really fine tea, at less cost
per cup than common teal
There are four fzvors Of ScbaHnz
Iea-Japzn, Ceylon India, Ooiong.
English Breakfast. An one quality. n
pa1ehmyn-hnedmoisture-proofpackages.
AT grocers everywhere.
4 Settling 6 CO San FSazeise0
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
SOTG IhTOat, cOIdS
Quickly Relieved BY HanIln's
Wizard on

Hamlin's Wizard Oil Is 4 sfmols
and effective treatment Tor sore
throat and chest colds. Used as :
garsle for sore throat It brings uuicI-
relief Rubbed on the chest Il vii
often loosen up a hard, deep seated
cold IN one night
How often sprains, bruises. cuts
and burns occur in every family. as
well as little troubles like earache
toothaehe, cold sores, canker sores
sun neck, and tired aching feet.
soothing, healing Wizard Oh viii Al
ways bring quick relief
Get It from druggists for 50 cents
II not satisfied return the bottle z15
get your money back
Ever constipated or have s;et
headachel Just try Wizard Ifver
Whips, pleasant little pink oiIis. &
eentS Guaranteed
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

TIE Christmas entertainment on
1 Christmas eve at the Red Cross
Iconvslescent house at Fort Bliss was
indeed a happy affair. The house
was decorated for the occasion with
the Christmas greens and crimson
and green crepe paper. and Christmas
bells. holly and mistletoe- The dec
orations were arranged by the men
OF the base hospital One OF the in
teresting appointments for the party
were the rugs presented by the Brit
ish Red Cross TO the American Red
Cross Tor Americas hospital in Lon
don After the signing OF the armis-
ice the rugs were no longer needed
They were sent TO America and 10
OF them were sent TO the convalescent
house at Fort Bliss.
The entertainment opened with a
program, which follows;
Trio, violin. cello and piano. Miss
Marjorie Livesley. Miss Sammie
reading, Sergt ". q. Perrine, whis-
ting solo. Miss Julia Crist: song.
Miss Sammie Livesleyi song, Edward
Schencl.
After the program all the lights
were turned out except those Of the
CHRISTMAS tree and then Santa Claus
came down the chimney. Pvt Clar-
ence Kehr was Santa Claus, and her
aiding his approach the bugler, Pvt
Garcia, blew the notes Of assembly.
In santa Claus pack he carried pres
euts for the children Of the men OF
the hospital detachment OF the base
hospital After the children received
their presents the men received
theirs Following the distribution Of
presents Col ". E. Cooper. command
ing officer at the base hospital IN
troduced Maj. Gen. Robert L Howe.
who made a short talk TO the men.
Following Gen. Howze's talk a social
hour was enjoyed and there was in
formal dancing. with Pvt. Edwin
Cover at the piano.
Arrangements for all OF the details
OF the party were made by the off
GERS OF the base hospital and their
wives and the Red Cross. Local
firms made generous donations OF
decorations, Christmas trees and
other articles for the entertainment.
Christmas trees were placed in the
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
Saturdays calendar
In Local Societu

CHRIsTaLAs dance at the Tolteo
y club.
Miss Frieda Laslzin viii entertain
Al the home OF her aunt. Mrs. r. T.
Talpis in the afternoon. houorinE
Miss Nay Landau.
The social club OF the White Shrine
OF Jerusalem VIII give a dance in the
evening.
Class in dieteties at the Red Cross
shop. conducted by the Red Cross IN
der the instruction OF Miss Blanche
Bailey.
Riding class at Fort Bliss at p. m.
Gymnasium classes 1or children In
the morning from 10 10 II o'clock At
the T. W C. A. clubhouse
saturday evening dance at Khaki
club No. J.
Mrs Folney Browns luncheon at
the Harvey House at 1890 o'clock
loloEeo BY matinee party TO fhe
Bird Of Paradise at the Crawford.
Meeting az o'clock, at No. 10 Palms
Court Of the board OF directors on
Gentlefolzs Home and Hospital.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

sur population has suffered more OF
less in winters past
Bee Eazley says II everything
would grow as good without cultiva-
ton as weeds there would be more
pleasure IN raising a croI. Bee Is one
OF the most influential members OF
che Hogville Loafers' club.
The Hogville Woman's club at It's
last meeting appointed a committee
% call on Bub Smothers and order
aim TO clean up the back en- OF his
grocery. The eliminate this extra
and unnecessary work. Bub has
placed a counter across the back end
or the store and now nobody IS
allowed 20 90 behind the counter.
sile Sims got a letter az tho post
oItice from farm paper wanting him
20 help the reach a J. 100000 sub
scrloers- Slle says the letter reads
just as though the editor expected to
get half Of them and wanted him 70
get the other half. He thinks they
are asking for too many and Is
sorry that he viii not be able 20 bring
up his half Of the Job.
buo Smothers. the Hogvi1le grocer.
says fellow has 10 watch himself
mighty close these days 10 keep from
being accused OF profiteerinE.
Zero Peck sees many ways By
which fellow can lose money and
mighty Few ways TO make money. He
says even his old hens are dead sure
20 stop laying right at the time when
eggs are the highest
Dan Hooks got notice from the
Fumpkinville bank the other day that
he had no funds there and TO be care
ful about trying to overdraw- Dan
thought there must be some mistake
bout this and went over 10 Pump
klnvillo TO have the mistake correct
ed, but found when he got there that
he had given two or three checks he
had forgotten about
The Hogville Barefoot club Is
threatening 70 demobilize since the
cool weather. This club Is made Up
largely OF members OF the Hogviile
band.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
Australians Lean
Necessity Of Ideal
For Land and Race

Sydney, Australia, Dec. 25.-Harry
Gullett, official correspondent with
the Australians In the campaign
which broke the Turkish rule over
Palestine, says that country =as
disillusionmeut all the way" In a
speech 20 newspaper men on return
Ing from the holy land" he added
Palestine was the ghost OF a
country living on the memory Of the
glory that had gone. Jerusalem the
golden was most verminous and
foul city. There was not cedar on
Lebanon; no balm blew over Gilead
and there were no bus in Bashan.
What the Australian learned from
this land was that he must always
keep and strengthen his tdeal OF
one land Tor one race
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

.DLACK lace has returned TO favor
u with a Juror Made up In all
black or combined with colors. such
as old blue. brick red. silver and gold.
black and lace. particularly IN
.nounces from twelve to eighteen
inches deep. possesses infinite posi-
bllities FOR making a charming frock.
This model shows a bodice OF Jet
made over two wide bands Of velvet
ribbon, the top one old rose and the
lower one old blue. There are no
sleeves and the sirdIe is Jet Three
lace nounces are draped over a drop
skirt OF black charmeuse satin and
give extreme youth 70 this black
gown. Wreathes OF small roses in
dun shades OF blue. rose and yellow
are posed on the drop skirt, and their
coiors show through the meshes OF
the lace I'm a very effective manner.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
p Posoons Refyrpino

Manager sam Johnson. OF Hotel
Sheldon cafe. IS back from a trip "a
haywood Hot Springs fl View Mexico
much imnroved in health
Tom Mavfield and wife are in Fl
Paso for the holidays from their
present home in Ranger. Mrs. May
field was formerly Miss Ethel Craw-
ford, daughter OF Mrs. :. :. Crawford.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
School No.

On Tuesday afternoon the pupils
OF the Holy Family school, which is
conducted by the sisters OF the In
maculate Heart. gave a very interest
ing entertainment On that occasion
also. a group OF the school students
took their first communion. attending
the service dressed as angels.
The school was attractively decor
ated for the entertainment with
Christmas embiems. mistletoe and
holly and Rev Fl J. 2. Aguirre and
Rev. Fr. J. +. Banks presided.
The program follows
Opening chorus. Adeste FfdelIo.
Welcome, Alice Guerra; A Christmas
Wish, Edward Dow; The story"
Mary Louise Orozco; -Four Little
Sunbeams. Adela Munoz: 'Navedad. DO
Sara Estella Bernal, what a Little
Girl Can Do" Rosario Madero; Jack
Homer" BENJAMIN Phillips; La Car
dad Luz Loiinar; The Enchanted
shirt William 3Iunoz: Dear Little
one. How Sweet Thou Art" Maria
Munoz; songs, "Hark, the Merry
Bells; santa Claus" "Hark What
Mean Those holy Voices silent
Night" Angels We Have Heard on
High"
A Christmas tree was a happy
feature Of the occasion
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
Parties.

The Wodesa club will give a party
on the evening OF December 80 at
the home Of Miss Pauline Eek on
Fort Boulevard. The program 81 in
charge OF Miss Bethel Osborne. Miss
Skillem Anderson and Miss Helen
Madlein. The invitations and decor
ating viii be directed by Miss
Juanita Anderson. Miss Ruby Tilley
and Miss Pauline Eek. About 20
guests will be present The members
OF the Wodesa club are Misses Mabel
Weston, Pauline Eek, Theodore De-
berry, Bethel Osborne, Juanlta An
derson. SkiIlem Anderson. Del De-
berry, GeOrgina Deberry. Ruby RILEY,
Merle Smith and Helen AIadleln.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
About e. Pasonr1,.

Little Rena Grace Carr. small
daughter OF Mr. and Mrs. Ohio Carr.
e III at the Carr apartments IN
Hammer Court with typhoid fever.
Mr. and Mrs. J. ". Crowdus. after
a visit Of several weeks IN New
York city. are spending Christmas
with Mrs. CroWdus's sister, Mrs
George F. Mcfarland. in Toronto.
Canada. They wiz return TO Fl Paso
after the first OF the year and viii
be at home in their new residence in
Manhattan Heights.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
Gen. and Mrs. Howe Give A Dinner
To Formers Aids; Gen. Lewis 4 Guest

MAJ. GEN. AND MRS. ROBTRT L
w HOWE gave a dinner on
Christmas day TO the generals aids
and other guests at the Howe quar-
tiers at Fort Bliss. The table was
centered with a Christmas tree, aglit-
ter with tinsel and lights and each
guest received a Christmas novelty
from IT, Covers were placed for Maj.
Gen Edward Lewis who was in the
city en- route 70 Douglas. Ariz, where
he goes to take command Of the milf
tary district; Miss Amanda Howe. a
guest at the Howe quarters. Miss
harrlott Howe, Lieut. Charles Whar-
ton OF the Fifth cavalry, a visitor AZ
the post. and Lieut. Jonn Hamilton.
Lieut. II. T. Featherstone and Capt
Carroll Counts.
Capt. and MS. Walter Buckley
were hosts on Christmas eve 10 a
dinner OF charming detail honoriug
Miss Amanda Howe. who Is ne
guest OF her cousin, Miss Harriott
Rowe ana her aunt and uncle. Maj
Gen and Mrs Robert I. Howe. at
Fort Bliss
The table for Mrs. Buckley's dinner
service was decorated in Christmas
motif OF crimson and green featured
with mistletoe and holly and lighted
with green candles. Covers were
placed for Miss Amanda Howe. Miss
Hlarriott Howe, MAJ. and Mrs. C. C.
Lieut. John Hamilton and Capt. ana
Mrs. Buckley.
After the dinner service the party
attended the dance given at the
o1ficer's club by the Eighth cavalry
Officers
Miss Ollye Seaton entertained with
Christmas dinner at the Rotel
sheldon Thursday evening in honor
OF Mrs Walter Wakefield OF Nash
vile, who is Spending the holidays
alLn ner son. craig Wakefield. The
table was conferred with a beautiful
bouquet Of crimson carnations and
each guest was presented with a
bouquet OF the same. Those present
we're Mrs Walter Wakefield. Miss
seaton, Craig Wakefield. Charles
smith, Capt Henry Earl Minton- Dr.
Goodwin, Of Nashville. Tenn. and
little K r Seaton, f.. OF sweetwater.
Texas.
Mr.. and Mrs. z. p. Dumas enter-
tanned with a Christmas dinner of
pretty appointment on Thursday at
their home on Octavla street. All
crystal vase OF crimson carnations
conferred the table. The guest list
Included Mr. and. Mrs. Il. Schleunfng.
Mss Eunice Mounger. OF Purcell. I
oklahoma. Emmett Ia Baume. OF Z
amarillo, Texas, and II. R. New Z
Kinney.
All members OF the provost guard 4
and their wives had a big time az
noon Christmas day at a special din I
ler prepared by their mess sergeant. I
Anthony Lipinski. The dinner wasI
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
Recebtions.

3Ir. and Mrs W r. Winch ceIe-
hrated their goth wedding anniver-
sary Sunday at their home. 351s Bliss
street, by keeping open house 20
the'r friends and serving egg nog
and other Christmas refreshments The
guests spent the afternoon dancing
M and Yrs. Winch were married ~
Kansas City.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
Weddings.

Fred Osmon and Miss Josephine
Montfort were married az 10 o'clock
wednesday morning at the home OF
the bride AZ Courchesne bridge. The
the Ninth engineers, stationed there.
The bride Is the only daughter Of Mr..
and Mrs. J. r Montfort Rev Harvey
S. Lawrence performed the ceremony.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

Pope Adrian " wss By birth an
Englishman. his real name being
Nicholas Breakspear- He lived IN the
18th century. He was the only Eng
iish pope.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

Golf originated I'm the low couu-
tries OF western Europe and was
transplanted to Scotland. where IL be-
came tire leading sport BY tbs mid
die OF the 18TH century.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

served at the provost guard barracks
209 south Campbell street Col Fred
erick A Jones is provost marshal and
Lieut. william d Little is his assist
ant
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

According 20 ar opinion rendered 90
attorney general BruudaEe. OF Illinois.
women may sic az dei-rates "a the repub-
hcau and dFmocratic rational conventions
and vote for the Nomination o. candi-
date Tor president
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

Queen Marie. OF Rumnnla. ir said 60
have offered former emperor Charles a
large sum Of money n he would ranouncs
all claims 70 the Hungarian throne 30
that Rumania and Hungry might be
Joined under a Rumanian crown.
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26
e. Pasoans Awau.

Alderman Park W. Pitman has
gone 70 Mineral Wells 90 spend the
Christmas holidays
El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1919-12-26

Hohoring her guests. Misses Marie
and Doris Davenport and Y. z. Daven-
port, Miss Loys Geddes was hostess
on the evening Of December % at a
dance at. the Geddes home. The dec
orations featured the emblens OF the
Christmas season and included Grim
son and green crepe paper. mistletoe,
and a Christmas tree was an enjoy
able feature OF the evening a Santa
Claus distributing gifts from it Ices
with cake were served during the
evening.
The guest list for Miss Goddess
courtesy 20 her guests included the
honor guests and Misses Lora Stocks
Eva Stocks. lIlnette Watson. Anna
Bell Watson, Ruth Davis. Louise
Am2dor. Leo Cohlentz, Bertha Wat
son. Elizabeth Watson. Mary Sted-
mond and Ray Geddes. Harry Davis,
Lawrence McGraw, Frank Davis, Paul
keavlain. Martain Amador, Arthur
Fineran. Thad Keavlain. William San
ford, Jules Carlin, Earl Carlin. Cliff
ford Carlin. Lawrence Willis, Wade
Haley. Arthur Watson. william Lyle,
Robert Lyle, Jack Mckinney, Mr..
and Mrs lIaL Flie-. Afr. and Mrs.
Connie Make and Mrs ". T. Watson.