Omaha daily bee., 1919-03-22
Advice to the Lovelorn
Love Comes Unbidden and, ITO Love or Not We Are
No More Free Than the Ripple to Rise and Leave
the Sea
BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX

e FAIRFAX
to do right. Yet can not blame
myself for that one wrong deed. as
knew him. Please let me hear your
opinion. Thanking you in advance,
LILY OF THE VALLEY.
The man is more to blame than
you are. Jesus said to Magdalene:
go and sin no more" I can say
nothing more. II Jesus didn't hold
the sin against Magdalene, surely
cannot hold a sin against you. Dis
miss it from your mind.
A Young Mother.
Dear Miss Fairfax, Omaha Bee:
Since you have given such good ad-
vice to others, l am coming to you
married woman Of II; have been
married going on two years. we
have a nice little baby boy months
old. My husband has just come
back from France; he was wounded
once. We are housekeeping now.
but 1t seems as though he cannot
make enough to make ends meet,
and I always like to keep my bills
paid, for it's the best motto. He
only makes SIS per month, and the
baby nurses the bottle. So, Miss
Fairfax, you know how it would
keep one thinking. l have asked
my husband several times to let me
go to work and help, but he says
he il afraid the baby wouldn't get
good care, but you never know I'M
til you try. Do you? He is the
best-natured little baby, for you
never know he's around only when
he gets hungry; then he let's you
know. We have the coolest little
home anyone could ask for and l
would like to help out, too, SO we
can get Strengthened around. II !
could only find someone who would
give our baby care. Hoping to see
my letter and answer In print, and
thanking you for your kind advice,
I am A WORRIED MOTHER.
I cannot advise q young mother
to leave her baby to the care of 9TH
ers and go out to work. Call on
Miss Betty Stearns, employment bu-
reau. in the basement Of the court
house. She may be able to solve
your problem with home work.
-Four Brunettes.
Dear Miss Fairfax, Omaha Bee:
We are four sisters; we are very
dark complexioned. very dark,
straight, coarse hair; we have large
pug noses, thick lips, white pearl
teeth and are very fieshy, with large
foot Gould yrr, Uiyo ITO Soma o6-
vice to be popular among the boys?
We have not very many friends,
but try to be nice girls. We keep
up with the style in dress. Please
print this in the Friday Omaha Bee.
BRUNETTES.
Are you sure you do not exagger
ate your unattractiveness? Coarse
hair is much more easily dressed
than fine hair. Watch the fashion
magazines and the woman's section
of The Bee for styles. Olive skin is
considered beautiful If we'll kept
and powdered to remove the shine.
The selection Of shoes is most i'm
portant. Be sure that they are
large enough. This not only makes
your feet look smaller, but gives
them better lines and more grace to
the carriage. One cannot be grace
full or have poise with uncomforta-
BILE shoes. Personality and charm
are worth more than beauty, and If
you cultivate these you will be more
popular.
A Stranger.
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I am a lonesome girl in this city,
having come here as stranger.
Would you please tell me how l can
get acquainted with young people?
/ don't 60 to dances. Do you think
dancing lessons? What is your adj
vice? Thanking you for an answer,
UNCERTAIN.
see no harm In your taking
dancing lessons-in fact, it adds
to ones grace. A stranger should
go to some church. 1t is there that
one feels at home after few visits 4
and becomes acquainted with the
right KIM of people-and do not
think for a minute they are all pious
folks. They are good, wholesome,
bright, energetic, right-up-to-the-
minute people.
Some Letter.
Dear Miss Fairfax. Omaha Bee: I
have read your excellent advice in
The Omaha Daily Bee and have de-
cided that you are the person to
go to for advice. l am about seven
feet tall, more or less, and weigh
70 1872 pounds. My fathers I'M
cle's daughters son wants to marry
me. l am considered very beautiful.
Have the new taupe colored hair
and my eyes are greenish blue. l
have a wart on the end Of my nose.
How can get rid Of it? I am very
much in love with the movie actor,
Roscoe Arbuckle. Do you suppose
he would divorce his wife for me?
Mrs. James Evans, Jr.,