The Richmond palladium and sun-telegram. [volume] (Richmond, Ind.) 1907-1939, 1919-11-26
Heart and Beauty Problems

Dear Mrs. Thompson: have read
HIGH FLUTIN' SALLIES article and
felt that I must write that girl short
letter. Insolent and cheap does not
express my thoughts toward her, and
l am sure all true-hearted, Christian
men who know what girl should be
will agree with me.
This girl does not seem to know
that all men who are looking for a
wife want a different type Of girl. 1t
matters not what type of man he is,
he is always looking for a pure-heart-
FLUTIN' SALLIE is the type that a
lower class of men enjoy for short
while, but this type of girl Is the last
to get married to a good man whe
wants a good woman for a wife.
My sympathy goes out to all poor
girls who have become so impure as
to write such an article as this poor
girl did. Some day when 1t is too
late she will regret
AS soon as a man gets with his
friends he tells all about that class
of girl and it is not very long before
every man of his type in town knows
all there is to know about her. She
does not marry in that town unless
some stranger comes along and falls
in love with her before he learns much
about her. When her husband learns
he can never respect he as he would
have done.
You. dear girl. can never get hus-
band as long as you conduct your
self as you suggest. You are too
cheap for gentleman to want for a
wife. Live a clean life row. Some
on your knees and cry for mercy if
you don't change.
A HUSBAND.
Thank YOU for YOUR kind interest IN
HIGH FLVT1N' sALLIE. Your letter
that there is class Of men she has
, overlooked. hone that your words
will help her: and I know that what
you have said will be far reaching and
will make many other girls realize
the truth.
: Dear Mrs. Thompson: How lone
should boy go with a girl before he
can ask her for a kiss?
Would it be all right to speak TO q
! girl I pass on the street every day:
She acts as If she would like to speak
: Would it be all right to stop and talk
: to her, and what should say?
: THANK YOU.
The time to kiss does not depend
l upon the length OF an acquaintance
l but upon her. When young mar
| cares enough for a girl to ask her f
/. marry him, then he has a rieht TO kis'
! her. 1t Is not fair to the girl to ash
l before:
Convention would say that yo%
. should not speak to the girl. think
= however. If she smiles recognition i
} would be all rieht for you to lift you,
l hat ard pass on. Do not stop her am
/ try to talk until circumstance bring
you more closely together.
i Dear Mrs Thompson: ! am youn;
= woman thirty years OF age Abou
three years ago I married man will
y four children At first they were soot
> to me, but now they don't care hov
- they treat me.
{ The oldest Is a. My husband will
y sit and hear her talk to me any wa.
she wants to and make me out liar
Do you think O man cares for hi
wife, II he will allow children to max
trouble between them?
y do everything l can to please then
but this girl thinks she ought Il
1 run the place. I have no home, no
s. any relatives, Out l E1l IlCt diIdlu u
i work. I never was in any trouble O
= any kind. I have made my livin
/. since I was fifteen.
= I am not trated right here. and q
l. you think | would be doing wrOn
4 to go away and never come back?
|. LONESOME STAR.
i think you should feel perfectl
free ~ f.ave your husband, since 20
Il are not happy or respected. There l
4 a better way, however, and that Is t
change the attitude of the home an
a show your husband and his childre
L that you are mistress Of the home an
), will be respected.
n First of all, let the fourteen-yearol
ID girl know decidedly that she mus
IS contribute to harmony or she cannc
l. reap the benefits of home life
can see from your letter that 70
q are timid woman and you find il ii
9 ficuit to stand up for your own right
d Probably. therefore, it will be bette
+, for you to win your battle throug
~ silence than by scolding. Do not hes
- the girl or any of the rest unic!
10 they speak to you with respect {
kindness. When the girl is insultin
or overbearing, forget to set h
place at the table or to give h
:, any Oh lUc dlleulfOl "ulCll dlc d pa
10 of your work.
r. Dear Mrs. Thompson: l am just
an high school girl of seventeen. \
III brother and | are orphans and liz
~ with out aunt and uncle. My broth
NJ is twentythree, very much in love al
Us to be married soon. He works hal
or and makes a good salary. Neither II
at aunt nor like the girl be is to MARI
sy She is very pretty, but aside fro
~ that she is not lovely for she trea
~ her own mother very badly. Twi
Or when calling on some errand / ha
at heard her say unkind things.
III Her nearest girl friend told me s
7r- openly declared to her that she w;
- marrying him because he makes
TX fine appearance and can give b
ar more than some other fellows S
no likes better. Do you think it right
10 a girl to talk that way Of the man S
intends to marry?
was so worried about 1t that tc
my brother and instead of feeli