Rock Island Argus. (Rock Island, Ill.) 1893-1920, 1919-01-04

Take an interest In your husband,
but don't let him realize what you
are doing. Ask questions about
matters which you knowswiIl inter
est him and compliment him when
he has done something well. A
little flatteTy goes a long way in
! keeping a husbands interest.
| If you have no children, it might
be a good thing for you to go to
work for a while This will give
you broader viewpoint and more
money. Do not be afraid to ask for
money or to spend it, because if
your husband has enough TO spend
on other women he has enough for
you.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: l am
twenty and am going with a di-
vorced man. He wants me to mar
ry him. He is jealous man,
though l have a friend in France
to whom l am engaged. He writes
TO me every once in a while.
have written TO him a lot and he
says he hasn't received many of my
letters. Would you advise me to
marry this man or wait until the
other fellow gets back, as l am
working for my own living?
PINK BABY.
1t is far better to work for ones
living than to marry a man without
love. Such course would bring
you unhappiness. Since the di-
vorced man is very jealous and his
life with his former wife was not
II
him up. Wait for the soldier boy
if you love him.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: l am eigh-
teen years old. l was going with
boy at school and l thought he
loved me. He told me he did and
made me care for him. l loved
him so much that l kissed him
goodnight. After had kissed him
a few times he changed and was
cross and nothing l could do pleas
ed him. Then he stopped coming
to see me entirely. About that time
every one in the crowd 1 go with
started to act queerly to me, 1
thought The girls said sharp
things about my losing him and
were SO unkind that 1 know they
are not friends.
There is one girl who stood by
me. She told me that the boy had
been talking and told every one how
easy was and that he could make
me do anything.
Really 1 would be glad If I could
die. 1 think about this all the time
and 1 cry at night. l cannot tell
my mother because she has told me
that it is wrong to kiss boys and |
she would not understand.
What can l do to make people |
respect me again? DESPERATE. !
The boy is through and through |
a cad. He has not hurt you per-
manently by talking, because you |
were only indiscreet and did moth
ing bad. Most girls permit some |
boy to kiss them before they are |
but they are not unfortun-
ate enough to kiss a cad who tells t
every one about it afterward. You
may be sure that most of the girls |
who are unkind to you have either /
been kissed or have never had a |
chance.
III d lew WechS IIllS "uUle IIldl-
ter will be forgotten. You must
realize that mistakes are blessings
IL they are remembered and not
made again. People are going to
respect you just as much, little girl.
II you keep your character clean
and fine.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: have a
sallow complexion and no color in
my cheeks. Can you tell me some
thing that will bring color to my
cheeks and clear my skin.
V. I. r. NJ. c. NJ.
Do not eat rich foods or candy.
Sleep with your windows open and
get plenty of exercise. If you will
walk two or three miles every day,
color will come to your cheeks, I'M
ess of course you are an extreme !
brunette