Tulsa daily world. [volume] (Tulsa, Indian Territory [Okla.]) 1905-1919, 1918-03-03
Hearth and
Hon Problems

Dear Mrs ThOmteNDn. | am "A
married woman. having married II
widowcr Rth two small children.
Thelr real mother was bad and left
them when the girl was one and the
boy about three My husband loves
mo more than he did her. at least
he has always told mo SO, and he IL
good to me. but | am Jealous OF the
children.
They are old enough nowto he told
OF their mother Do you think they
should ho shown her picture and
should be told the kind OF woman
she was9 ! think they should, but
my husband says they should not.
He wants them to see her picture
and ! don't want them to unless they
can know the rest.
love my husband and hate TO
disagree with him. and so VIII YOU
please settle this question for us?
Mrs. o. A. l.,
To keep your husbands love YOU
vii have to control your Jealousy.
lust as soon as he feels your jeal.
ousy and thinks that you are trying
to poison his chlldren's minds
against their mother who made a
mistake no will become dlsgusted
with YOU and his disgust may even
turn TO hate
We were told by Jesus not To Judge
the sins OF others. and | think He
was right II YOU want to show a
big generous spirit, one that will
make your husband love you more
than ever you will show the child.
pa fhH ntTtnFn NJ hal at k.r a..
as your husband wants YOU TO, but
YOU will tell them nothing OF the
wrong she did You will probably
have to explain that she went away,
but you can do II In IL kind beauti-
ful way 80 that they viii always feel
that they had n sweet. lovRble moth
cr who was not strong at the time
she went away and left them. sac
rificing her right TO her children
which was her greatest gift In the
world,
Dear Mrs Thompson: am a
young man twenty-five years old
and | have always been very indus
trious and steady When was
twenty two | met girl fell in love
with at first sight | got acquainted
with her and took her TO several
parties and we cared a great deal for
each other A little later lost track
Of her and | always believed that
she had become tired OF me and
j wanted other company
Just recently she secured posi-
tion as bookkeepcr In the office
where | am employed and IL made
II very embarrassing for me be-
cause We had not seen each other for
Loo "A A..s. u
In mo and find that care for her
am anxious to have answered are
these.
ca DO you think she still cares
for me-
t2j Would II he all right tn aelI
her TO so to a party with me7 BOB
/ Bic
OD | presume that she Is stlll in
terested in yoh and perhaps she
would like TO renew the friendship,
You might talk TO her A. little and
see n she Is ready 20 tell you about
| her life during the yeut or so since
you were going with her.
t2p Yes.
Dear Mrs Thompson: Would II
be proper for girl TO accept pho
I tograph Of a young man that she
| has known but short time.
/ THANK YOt.
II the boy offers the photograph
I voluntarily the Eirl should accept
I It rather than hurt his feelings, but
she should not ask for It In the first
place.
Dear Mrs Thompson: ! am going
with young man who has asked me
10 meet his mother. Would " I've
proper for me to- | would love to
meet hts folks THANK NOI.
Certainly II would be all right'to
meet his mother II you are invited
to his home the invitation should
come from his mother herself