The Topeka state journal. [volume] (Topeka, Kansas) 1892-1980, 1918-04-30
Heart and Beauty
Problems
ny MRS. ELIZABETH THOMPSON

Dear Mrs. Thompson: 1 am 19
years old. About six months ago /
met fellow and from the minute l
saw him it seemed to me that 1 liked
him. He knew I liked him from my
girl friends. One day he called me
I'D and asked me to go out with him.
did not have the right to go because
he had a girl and a good friend of
mine, too, but when he called me 1
could not refuse to go with him, be-
cause 1 liked him SO much.
From the time that he made the
first date with me he quit going with
the other girl. She is angry at me
now and will not speak TO me be-
cause she says l took her fellow away
from her. l told him that he had
better go back with his first girl and
he said that he never could since he
met me, because he loves me more
than he ever loved any other girl l
also love him and / have told him So
Did 1 do right in going with. him?
I went with him for about three
months One Sunday he disappointed
me and did not come. 1 was badly
hurt and did not know why he didn't
come. I called him and asked him
He would not talk to me at all. ] was
SO broken-hearted that l went to bed
and cried so hard that / thought my
heart would break. 1t seems to me
that life is not worth living when |
cannot have the man I want.
1 have many other men friends and
1 would enjoy their company. but I
can't. go with them because 1 think
so much of the man / love. Do you
think that he did not like me in the
first place,
SOFT-HEARTED GIRL.
You made a mistake in letting the
man know how much you loved him.
nf ofrI
he tired of you. Don't try to find out
why he stopped coming to see you.
Forget him as soon you can. You
are very young girl and should go
with other boys. You have a great
deal of happiness ahead of you if Won
will only see it and not spoil your en-
joynent of things by grieving about
this man.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: VIII you
please publish where L can get list
of names for both boys and girls?
In thes back of many large diction-
aries you will find the names of girls
and boys and their meanings
Dear Mrs. Thompson: am a sff4
of twenty-six. have had eight years
tired of it. 1 am now working In .
factory. but do not feel that it is the
proper place for me, as am not used
to that kind of life. / graduated from
public school, but have been unable
to go farther with my studies Kindly
advise me what to do. to get a better
position. BROWN EYES
Decide upon the kind of position
you want and then study for it, Fac
tory life will not hurt you If you en-
Geavor to improve yourself all the
time. There is SO mueh Opportunity
IL; factory that you could prepare
yourself for better position right
where you are Read books on far
tory welfare work il the idea appeals
to you You could also study nights
at a commercial school You win find
it very difficult to improve your cir
cumstances unless you do study.
Dear Mrs Thompson: have
brown spots on my hands and faco
every summer as soon as 1 go ON in
the hot sum- The spots nearly disan-
pear during winter months. Couid
you tell me what would be good tn
use or take 20 prevent them appear
ing7 b.
To wash your face and hands twic~
a day with buttermilk would helm
prevent the appearance of the spots
Another remedy is lemon juice ana
water applied every night before re-
firing.