The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1918-05-13
Observation-Disclosures
Cynthia Grey's
LETTERS
To Forget Is the
Nobicst RcUCHge

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Dear Miss Grey have been
married about ten years. My nus
band Is a quiet sort of man. not
given much to expressing himself
while have been called hiEhstruns.
We have had no children. lie never
Expressed any dcairc for them. cx
ccpt that he liked them generally
and | admit that am a woman not
given much Go homo life. but he
know this when be married me. !
had been professionally engaged hr
fore my marriage. and continued In
the Same way afterwards our home
wAH never neglected. AS I always had
help when was busy with my other
work
About three years ago | found
there was another woman" much
younger than my nelf. and. whilo
know nothing against her except her
relationship 20 my husband. tha'
alone proves her character. when
| confronted him with what know.
he admitted A. and asked M 70
divorce him lie promised TO sup
port me substantially, that he had
nothing against mo except that We
never had been happy and that we
never could be. lie said he would
leave me. and 20 give me grounds
Tor divorce on deBcrtlon.
lie then moved 90 another state
and some time later this woman
went there. | know people who are
friends OF hers. and who keep 'no
Informed az 10 what both OF them
are doing They are living IN the
Same apartment house. but have
different apartments. and Il Is I'M.
possible for me 10 prove that he
supports her. nH she has some ln.
como OF her own shc has n little
boy with her. whom she calls boy
my husbands first name
what | want 20 know r.. can
cause him some kind OF troublo7
won't sc; the divorce because that
Is just what he wants. and he does
not dare sue me. for he knows I viii
bring counter suit. and he wants
TO spare HER any disgrace. He
sends me money enough Ia live on
each month. but never writes "a
word
have spoken 20 an attorney. but
he says can do nothing except get
my divorce and Rhmony. and that
there ~ no possible way 60 bring
any other charges unirnH can
prove that they have broken tho lAw
or catch them in some way. but this
IL impossible. as long az they are
living separately. and she paid her
own fare 10 this other state. They
are both extremely shrcwd and ARE
very careful what they do This
attorney knows my husband. and
think. probably. is trying To keep
me from doing any thing 90 Disgrace
him
what would sou do Sincerely.
INQUIRER.
There IL no honorable thing
you can do. other than your at.
torncy has already advised YOU.
Any reliable attorney. dis3ntcr.
eatcd or otherwise. would give
you tho same counsel
You arr more 20 blame for this
state OF affairs than your hus.
band. our homo was never
neglected" Can you picture "a
HOME. childlcsa. tho wife and
homeksoper dabbling with her
profession. while servants nose
around Srvcrthoienz 10 Ia too
late to ever rccufy the past. Hut
could not refrain from saying
this for the benefit OF other
women who may read this. and
who imagine they can do justice
10 their homo and keep their
husbands love. while tho greater
part of their interests center out.
side Of the home. II can't be
done
Now you seek 60 hurt your
husband or the other woman.
Let me tell YOU. my dear woman.
that you will never find hnppi
ncssS or peace Of mind aa long as
you keep your rcvcngcful spirit
Revenge iH Ike roboundinE
stone. II will rs back and hit
you hardest when you want TO
hurt him who has hurt you. you
want something that irritatcs
you while you want u. diAp.
points you when you get 81. and
makes you feel mean after it's
all over To FORGET Is THE
NOHIEgT REVENGE