Honolulu star-bulletin. [volume] (Honolulu [Oahu, Hawaii]) 1912-2010, 1917-08-10
HOW MEN AND WOMEN LOVE
BY DOROTHY Ok
The Worlds Highest Paid Woman
Writer.

Writer.
- HE reason that men and womer
are eternally fascinating to eact
j other 10 because each sex 10
perpetual riddle that the other II
trying to guess without ever findint
the answer.
Men and women are only attractive
to each other a. long as they are dit
ferent. Women hate and despite Sissy
men with effeminate characteristics
Men Ioathe mannish women who al
feet masculine ways and clothes. The
more unlike men and women are &C
each other the more they are drawn
together. ..~ -.7 -s'-r
This 10 why little Fluffy Ruffies
with nothing on her mind heavier
than her golden locks, almost. always
outmarries her big, strong sensible
sister, and why refined and wealthy
and gentle little ladies 90 often pick
out husky brutes for husbands with
whom they have not . thing on earth
In common. 49,
The reason that men and women
love each other and hate each other,
why they marry each other and quar-
rel and get divorced, and why they
never understand each other, ID
because they are 90 different constt
tutionally and because they approach
everything from different point OF
view and see everything from such Q
different angle.
Take the matter Of love for instance.
The two sexes love differently. Wo-
mon loves concretely. She loves some
epecffic man. Man loves woman %
4 ser. He loves an ideal which ne
attempts 20 ct, with imperfect sue
cess. upon some particular woman.
And especially man loves an ideal
II % because man loves an ioee
rather than the woman herself that
We have 90 many catastrophies -
love. Man % IN love with an ioeei
who - always fair and young. ana
heautifuIly guwned and calm and VINO
rneets her husband with Q glad sweet
smile when he returns home at night.
Sooner or later he comes across
come girl who serves 90 . tar UNDER.
sufndy for the lady Of his vision ana
unrrfes her on that platform, Du1
-. life a no conserver Of dreams.
n The process Of years and vicissi'
kudes Of matrimony the wife GroWs ~
and forty. Calm cannot always De re-
tanned n the face Of teething babies
md over sweltering cook stoves. 4
husband q bound to zee his VIE Win
crimpers On her hair and crimps u
her disposition.
puf fhe mn Il stilI ID love with his
i1eai. Who e young and fair and bean.
fifu1Iv rowned. and 90 he either goes
out Is hunt up one who comes up to
hie enocfficati0ns or else secretly To-
1919 himself a. domestic victim.
ore AZ those who was handed . GOLD
brick ii the matrimonial trade.
that Is, unless he b one OF the
suner idealists- lone Of the dreamers
Who never wake up and who never
really see their wives 90 they are.
but always surrounded by the halo o.
romance Of their days Of courtsnip.
These are the men who always speak
Of their wives 6 little girl long
after they are grizzle headed and have
: thirty.four inch belt measure.
Women often complain that their
husbands never notice how they look
and that they have TO call their Johns
Intention to the fact that they have
on 4 new gown or hat, or. even that
they ere looking pale and sick AND
run down. Foolish creaturesl They
little rOsltss the lnck they are playing
n when they have ncn-obseryant
husband, Tor he d not seeing his Ma
ria as she Is. time marked and lie
damagad, but - she was when he
led her, Z beauteoss bride, to the altar.
On the othef hand women are al
most br1taIly clear sighted In their
view of men. No woman has any illu-
sions insreeErd TO her husband. She
sees Al Of lii6 faults and defects with
4 clesrness thai would sppall him
did he evan suspect Il.
she doesn't atiii zee the waving
locks on his head thet she used 20