The Arvada enterprise. (Arvada, Colo.) 1908-1970, 1917-11-22
loneliness, jealousy, vanity gone 10

nish the soil In which 1t finds root and
sustenance. Sometimes it Is the fault
OF one: sometimes husband and wife
both are to blame. The "innocent" one
Is often unknowingly, and perhaps even
recklessly, an accessory before the fact.
The way to prevent the ebb-tide Of
love is to'determine at the very start
OF married life that there will be no
ebb-tide. Sometimes husband and wife,
really loving each other as OF old, wan.
der blunderingly apart through petit.
ness, pique, false pride or misunder.
standing. Often with hands out.
stretched in the darkness, just hunger
ing for each other, almast. touching,
when II motion, Il smile. II term of en-
denrment, love light m the eyes OF
either, would bring them conquered
and submissive In each others arms,
yet Il recklessly indiscreet word, a
mean taunt, a psychic moment OF pos.
sibility passed by UNDECIDED. or IL 81.
lencc that seems cruel, may drive them
still further apart. The stream OF
fine sentiment and heart emotion
should sweep them out of themselves:
sometimes it backs water and engulfs
them.
1t really seems that some people dc
not want happiness or they would not
dodge 1t so successfully, and begrudge
the triiles 1t takes to secure 1t. People
who would be shocked ut the bare
thought of actually destroying two
dollar bill often toss Idly aside the
happiness of two for the merest triile
Life Is too short and love too great tC
sacrifice one hour through pettiness
What matters it whose the fault OF
poor brand Of personal dignity that
dares to throw its desecrating shadow
between them and the joy of recon
Citation and new bonds of love.
When the realization of the waning
of love comes, the two should seek to
forget for a moment the differences,
the saddening changes, the cemetery OF
dead memories and buried emotions,
and try to get back somehow to some
common ground Of unity and under.
standing. They should seek to gather
together the trlfles of sacred things
not yet lost. In the thought Of these
there may be vitalizing flame of the
old love flashing out from the dull
gray of the ashes that will burn AWAY
the dross Of dlscord and misunder
standing.
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10 hut nm ,ntol,octroI o,,o,I. ,,,,.t ..
needed 10 an emotion., insnTro,,on wv.
should recoyn,,o conditIons fu,,v IN,
mn own on,donca In .ct,on hu, !. =.
mot wiso 70 moLs evident mr. min h,
Meas md nrote.ts Crna, words mean,
~ s,,no con no rontroI,,.I IN n da'
oroe hv .bou,,no M .I.r NJ ho,ng .rac+.
az, NV thor, Tho-o i. a va,,o,v strooL
NJ cruelty in love grown cold. n lies
the bringing TINT shows its mower
Studied neglect md cool Indifference
are rnrelv continued n thev ore re.
co,ved with an INNOCENT .h.orn,,o, n,
prcoccunntion thew cannot nene,rota
There ia really little finn shoo+Inv with
these blank cartridges An uncxnect.
cd kIndness . note NJ tendnrness In
sneech or act tho reucner,t,nr lnau.
ence az the sweet sentiment md grace.
ful attention NJ tho eor,Ier day. NJ
loving NAV melt . mor., n, onnos,,,on
that any argument would solidify a.
heat sets clay.
Irving 10 get hack IN the fork Of
the road where partIns came mny n.
lumInate life and show the insidIou,