The Detroit times. [volume] (Detroit, Mich.) 1903-1920, 1917-11-10
Gehiality
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Author ~ The Riddle ~ Person
bfitN HryChoiogy and
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To oH The macmnere ot business
intercourse and sociai intercourse
/ c,nlalit, is one of the hest of ubu
I cants llut cHre must De- taken to
use 80 free from sduterants of any
Kind
And much geniality OF inferior
sort o. daily used The results aro
! necessarily and profoundly disap
pointing 20 The user
Perhaps commonest ul ALI 4mnu-
the adulterauts OF gcniality is insln
cerity
There are many mon Who DELHI
erafrly scr ont to win reputation
lor good fellowship simpi, because
I .hcy fcci fnat such q reputation Al.
dd to their bank account or im
prove their social standing rhcN
would maintain pose ~ frtCud-
moss for mere prestige or for the dol
/ laf's sake
Pure genalitv gives a glow 70 thr
rSc 7nd warmth 20 The handclasp
Grniahty slulferaied with inslncer
l'y leaves mo eye duli and dead. the
hand ,lap cold and HRbby
There Is an unmistakable hollow
ness In the laughter OF lnsncerc
renialiiv People detecting This. IN.
inCtveiv recognize ifs cause The,
feel contempt for and resentment
against ths selfish simulafor
So that ms pose " fycudllness
defeats frs purpose Had he never
adopted Il De- would have Jared IA
better
Hoorishness "a another common
ndultorsnf of Etnialty
To slap man on the back either
literally OF fElranvely Is rot tEc
IS, sest way 70 DISPLAY vour fricndli
ness for him Nor Is 81 wise 70 dis
play fraraliness IN conversation by
bGnr humorogsly sarcastic AZ the
friends expense
Not n few people fall into THIS or.
-or They mean no harm They
sire sincerely friendly and well 3.e
posed
pu, by their boo-ishness they On
w1tt.nElv irritate their friends The
senumcni they provoke Is not unlike
that man experiences when \ biz
dog maullugly leans upon him "a
evidence of affection
Genialitv agsin, should n~vcr b.
atultcrated With the slightest trace
OF cnrdescersinn. -
II fhore Is any Enobblshness N n
peryons makeup no mrs' contrive
20 eliminate r. or there Is no use In
his irving 70 be genial
Be'ug a snob. no VIII inevitably
take more or less patroniEing att
'ude toward all not IN his sci or
class" or caste
There. now" the would be genital
person VII seem 20 say. YOU must
admit that am behaving toward
Won IN a handsome fashion You
should b. hattered that IRIS r. the
case
Only those who themresves arr a.
heart znobs vii 30 fatfered by
Vaniality 81 this sort Al others
ain feel amused or re~entfuf per
hans both amused and resentful
They Will perceive they cannot
helm prrce'vinE-th the total absence
% anything Ike genuine fellow feel
ing And genuine fellow feeling.
tr7le human sympathy. Is tho Ye-y
essence OF Eenialfty.
This is me quality which ADORE All
Others needs 20 be cultivated by the
man who would be genial
No matter how tactful. how we'll
hammered. how honest he may be
Jet him lack human sympathy and
his genlality VIII ALWAYS remain q
pale. Thin weak substitute for The
real thing.
"You arr a man Ike n1vveR For.
tunafe or unfortunate. rich or poor
learned or ignorant. Tou stiii are a
man. Because os that am interest
ed IN Won and can feel FOR Won
Until this IL the attitude there can
he no real KeniAlitv.