The Meridian times. (Meridian, Idaho) 1909-1938, 1917-12-14
Little Problems
8cWarricci Life
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WILLIAMS oRoRoR JORDAN
coMRApEsHiP N MARRIED. LiFE.


snpstal n love feel that they have an
as.salate guarantee 0f harmony and
hapulneaa chat viii endure through
eli their years. but II they depend sole
81 - soye they mny ind they are ex
haunting their capital instead III living /
81 tise Interest and tnay snon become
bankrupt 81 love- But love alone n
loo nne, delicate and emotional ~
stand ihe constant hafA usage vi daily |
ne. I4ke g0id. IL II better and strong
IN when alloyed love should be made |
sturdy and lasting reinforced,
strengthened and Intensified IN rs
powar ii pesist WeAr. II II only when
alleged. sr blended. with comrndeship
and trust that 1t IA vt its best.
The tFaest sweetest and happlest
marriages are those IL two who Just
are welded .weethcafts and good
ehunA with this duality ~ conditions
ana trust that keeps their atmosphere
pure, clear. braclng and wholesome, OIL
sources a. discerd arr ncntrnliaed, all
loys afe doubted BY sharing. all aoss
FawA Aghtcnel by mutual sympathy,
comfort and Inspiration, and all prob
lefas solved III the sweet saeredness of
conference with the united wisdom %
bnsh ever III the command Of either,
needing 40 outside referee.
Success III married life does not re-
nHlfe heroic spectacular qualities pos.
sibie only ID few chosen oneR, the
elect Il the earth II needs only loving
eaaradesliip aud confidence, little
selg control. courage, Kindness. unaei-
ashnsss. eheertulness and just duly
patience along the way, II does not
require wealth. Tor often the poor are
ne happiest and most contented. II
anas not demand intellectual powers
and hne eslucntion for two aged lovers
hardly ahle u read may sit together
IL the sunshine by a cottage door W
evengids finding all their world Ia
each others cyes. telling their heads
u sweet memories IL past joys and Of
soFfows eutllysd, aud az her thin worn
hand rests lovingly I'd his there seeIps q
beisdietinu ~ calm peaee nna eonaes
Grated iuYe that makes mere inteltee'
suns wisdom seem worthless by con
tfaef.
There are some who ten ue the qual'
ltles necessary il husband aud wife
T'he long Inventory sounds like an un.
abridged dictionary 81 an the virtues
and one can imagine tho saints blush
ing with shame at the sudden rcaliga-
tion of hnw fur short they are % this
perfection. III seems like toat ext
animation for q front seat Ia paradise
and few ~ us would get more than q
nine per cent rating on an honest
marking,
Lei as b. thankful that two who mrs
Iust human and with al their faults
foibtes and faiilngs cRn have Happiness
III they determine 10 have Il md pa
the price In thenshs aud EFFORT II q
not 1 eatGble 1t IA 4 eertai0ty Il boil
determine Ia tio their best and worl
ID union aud unity II does not meal
"A ilfa nnrloaded by trial, sorrow 9
suffering bus home tiiled with 10y
ANA peaee, rest and refuge wher
~ real silsco7a can Ions throw darh
entng shadows
Commercially Il one ~ the stronges
ties III mafrisA life, C'gmrMdeshlp
fYlendship la negiigee suit Il Is fre'
near. trustful. comfortable, famlla
and intimate II has basic respes
that makes faflnnlify 0It of place, 90
prstsnse aud poss seem treasoni g
Two arr their aatural telyes, sponti
nsaas ana GBrestFeibed except by thi
frmpses for each others indlvidualiI
that makes each careful not 90 wenr
Or ereua the other
Camrnaeship between husband a.
wife Il the 1pest type o. friepdshl
gor puiSng through Ii Is the constal
eufrent IL love, tenderness. Nympath
nsarnsss asarsess and ei0scr ea'
munlan 81 interests, that ever vitailz'
tntsns,fies end greshens Conrad
shlp gives "a eaeh ener t9tler und,
standing 81 the other that comes, n
from ths mere observation ~ acts ~
~ ssAstla. but from Eltlapsrs into 8
eanfhs n each 0thrr's thpnght, 8
yeyNaiinss u standards and ldsAis, g
paeonsrlom coafsskipn 81 hopes feH
ena isneings and essirss amatso
fhBf aFe hsadeh forces sfru4Ellag
wards pxprasslan ilke the root q
piaus saesine ID peuetgair the Soii q
reach tte nghs Thess cofne only
sasy CONVERSATION Wherr there +
thgHEhi q talking tor effect, % sef
~ hsiRr nn dress pasade.
when the tpo are reai cumrades I
Wife Is interested 10 the hobh4
grimes. business. friends and polit
- fhe hashand. She may aot see VI
run b. can hsye knocking a little
aser the landscape ana thgR pnkI
rousd blg leld - nnd Il but II i
gives him ANY Eeai pleusare she
riaa and = Interested, nnd wants
understand. Politics may seem 70
sess something We pay oslcehqlders
wnnare. but Il be sees anything "a
sh@ Is pleased % give him . chance
~ her ID % the puzzle
Her tpik about her friends.
clothes. her reading and TIE hund
trsfes Of gossip nna comment that ,