The Topeka state journal. [volume] (Topeka, Kansas) 1892-1980, 1916-06-10

Dear Mrs. Thompson: We are
chums ranging from seventeen to
twenty-one We are trying to form
a little social set in the neighborhood
and would like few pointers.
Cd Should a boy give a picture to
a girl who is engaged to be married :?
CD What kind of chaperon
should be asked to accompany sleigh
ride party of boys and girls ranging
from fifteen to twenty?
go 1 have been going with a girl
for a long time and have fallen in
love with another. How can 1 break
company with my steady? 1 am
twenty-one-
"a Should girl expect a boy to
wait until half-past ten at night to
accompany her home from work?
HONUS, 30, CHICK, KAISER.
Cd There isn't anything wrong in
his doing so, but I don't see why she
should want it or why he should want
to give it.
ca The mother and father of some
one in the party.
CD Go to see the first girl less and
less and let your interest gradually
cool; and start to go with the girl you
like now.
"a She shouldn't expect it. If a
boy cared much for a girl l should
think he would want to go to call for
her rather than have her go home
alone at that time of night.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: I am a wild
ow, twenty-five years old. Ny hus-
band has been dead five years. I have
gone with a man ten years older than
be made a plaything. He seems to
think the world of me and nv child
A year ago he talked of marriage and
went so far as to name the month But
later he quit speaking of it and now
he never speaks of it. I am not anx-
iods for a husband and don't care to
ha do Low
be deeply grieved If have other
company What Is your 1dvice?
MERRY WIDOW.
If you are not very much in love
with tho man break your engagement
If you are in love ask him whom he
ought to know, and there would be
nothing wrong in your asking tho
question.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: Is it proper
for q young lady to return any of the
presents except the engagement ring
to the man she mas been engaged to
when the engagement is broken?
She would return all presents that
nave any special intrinsic value. and
/ his love letters, if he asks for them
Dear Mrs. Thompson: wouId 1t be
all right to tell boy what you want
Tor Christmas if he wrote and asked
you? We are engaged.
BLUE EYES.
1t would be all right.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: We are two
working girls and would like to have
you advise US in regard to the fol-
lowing questions:
C1l Why is it not proper for q
young man to kiss a girl good night
Cd Is it proper to go riding with
any one you happen to meet down
town?
90 After going to a show in the
evening and returning home. should
you invite your friend in? If so. how,
long should he be permitted to stay7
90 l was out with a fellow the
other night and upon returning home,
as IT was early / asked him to come In
lie did so, but stayed only a few min
utes- have not heard from him
since. Do you think 7 said something
to him that would make him act this
way, or do you think he was pro-
badly disappointed in me as we had
not known each other long?
te) Should you accept expensive
gifts from a friend you have known
for several years?
t09 Is it all right to dance with q
fellow, at a club dance, to whom you
hGye not been properly introduced?
CD Upon entering a hotel or cafe.