Omaha daily bee., 1916-04-07
M-Temper and
How 1t May
BE AUOided

II hiss been suggested BY nofe than one
writer of enpinfuee that iil.tefnper should
be considered iust cause for divorce,
Soms u course, are absolutely SHOCKED
~ tbe des bot he suggestion IL based
IN Rood common sense.
n was Harry Drummoud who said Mo
form ~ vice, nor H0ndlinesa nor creed
NJ g0ia, nor drunkenness Itself d0eE
more - uncbfifiiabize speiatY tbSB eVil
temper
Before such strong measures ~ ~
y0fce are thought ~ wound n not be
/b0ttef 70 aee N what waY ibis failing
7 might be euFedf
q8alntan6e Was perfect martyr 10 her
0NB violent passion, Directly any one
sDnoted her she flew Guf vim aBQfy,
psanlbRiess words, apd fba after effects
proved most painful 10 herself
nm quite aerry fof Nh, H.. fna
wIfs's aloh q terribly sbarp.tempered
woman she jumps on him FOR Tho least
thing"
Thoss vords we're Overheard bg TIE
is0y IN question, sbd they Nefe spoken
~ herself she kBeW ei3a Wa irritable,
bot had mi bofOre Rf8sped bon badiv
40, sha NJ once made ~ bnf mind ~
control her anger, aHd III tjme she "a
80.
FER method II worth relating fof tbs
benefit ~ others afflicted in the same
uaHs sha carried p9okefb00k snd pen
en-, hanging by her side, mn n any
hing annoRed her, instead ~ shouting
abot n, sbs wrote down me e8Bse N
her displessufe Thk che rea1 over ~
hour Of - later, mn then mn hoe fool
ish n would hsys been - waste her en-
cry IN getting 6BgrH OYER u.
~ c0Brss, there we're several "siius
bsck" ~ first bBt, eventually, sbe
achieved The art N controlling her tenn
per
The habit NJ rspose IL ihs art ~ Roo1
breeding, AMI every sensible man ~
woman viii cultivate reposs, 70 that they
may not gfow ON before their lime,
with faess lined and distorted ~ 6bgef.
Just ~ q fighting person acquires .
fighting fsne. tha fefmaKant soon higgins
10 look The paft
The folly ~ soiae young couples r.
Inst they Hse - ~ many pretty saviBRs
and compliments during eourtshlD tbat
they have exhausted their stock, when
fbeV come ~ the altar they eiOse their
shop, EonstiBes they opeH another after
marriage, stocking n with bitter words
anger, AMI se0w1ing looks, There IA grit
where there should BE- OF, and ~ the
wheels Of rostrimoiy cfeak aDa grumbis
~ they drag slonR.
The svefsRe B1aB or woman itsf little
IN no money ~ spsre on personal pleas
tirea TO keep the house going n ~
much ~ oan possibly be managed, and
ijfe IA absolutely not worth living n IN
ne home there are nothing but angry
words and Rr1mbljngs.
The woman VIM considers II her ron
aGentioua duty n remind her husband
~ bjs faults continually, aDd The man
vim seolds and grumbies with biz wife
v NJ every turn, would he far happier
and heslfbier " they would turn their
thoughts 70 me good qualities ~ their
respective partners.
The woman of violent temper VII be-
eome uulovJng and upiovable, ami Will
wreck any home, for when "nghtnF'
becomes habit, IN excuse for fighting
ja easily made.
Folk with no even temper are
usually spirittsss and embarrassing, but
fhero Il vast difference between the
man or woman who gives vent 70 m
, oufbnrat ~ long intervals, and such
folk WIN live IN constant state ~ irri-
tation, and shower volumes o. abuse
whenever their wishes are crossed. Such,
however. really require medical at
.endanee. and IN nine cases out ot ten
IMPAIRED digestion Is the cause
4 doctor told tho writer that reg
4 ular and even diet has worked wonders
Nevertheless. ill-temper can only be
cured by loitInR sound common sense
show up "storininG" and the harm II
Toes.