Essex County herald. [volume] (Guildhall, Vt.) 1873-1964, 1915-10-08
A Painful
Experience
By SADIE OLCOTT

those incidents trifing in themselves,
but which have caused the separation
of lovers. This led to a narration Of
experiences. Miss Dartmore said that
( she had broken with a lover because
she had invited him to dinner and. in
stead of appearing in evening dress, he
had worn a business suit. Miss Win
tiers confessed that she had shown tenn
per while playing tennis with a man
who would doubtless have proposed to
her. He had sent a ball that struck
her on the nose, drawing blood that
had stained a newly Numbered skirt
There were other omissions. mishaps
and displays of natural imperfections
which lovers do not expect to find in
each other and which had the par
ties been wedlOcked would not have
been considered of the slightest cOnse-
quence.
/ One lady of the party, still young
enough to repair any such damage.
sat mutely listening to these recitals.
wearing the while a woebegone coun-
tenance. Being asked if she had not
had such an experience, she admitted
that she had, but she had suffered so
/ severely in consequence that she could
not bear to talk about it. Every one
! present urged her to tell the story,
promising sympathy, and all were sure
that she could not herself In anyway
have been at fault. Being finally per-
suaded, she spoke as follows:
I'm my girlhood l always favored |
boys older than myself, and since I !
have been grown 1 have admired not
youths who talk of trivial subjects. but
men of caliber. Professor POindexter
caught my fancy by his dignified ap-
pearance and the depth of his under
standing. | first saw him at a lecture
he delivered on Antiquity Of Litera-
ture.' 1t seemed to me that every
word he uttered weighed a ton The
party | was with remained after the
lecture, and was introduced. l shall
never forget the courtly bow With
which he greeted me, and my heart
f1uttered at the look of admiration he
gave me-
THE very next day | was informed
by one of the ladies of the party with
whom had attended the lecture that
Professor PoindeXter desired to know
me, and she asked permission to bring
him to call upon me. OF course / as
sented and, | admit counted the days,
almost the hours, till he came. He
was very formal, but this only added
to the admiration felt for him. Dur
ing the rest of our acquaintance he
never unbent, but always treated me
with the most profound reverence,
which at times melted to tenderness.
Aware that it would be fatal for me
to make a display of my shallowness.
l contented myself with leading him
to speak on pOnderOus subjects, then
listened, with my eyes fixed upon him
in rapt admiration, though | confess
| seldom understood what he was say
ing Occasionally when a glimmer Of
his meaning permeated my duh brain
l would venture some question per-
tanning to the subject, whereupOn he
would kindly say that what l failed to
grasp had puzzled many of the strong
est intellects, and he would thus en-
ter upon an explanation that would
drown me in a sea of unintelligible-
ness.
MY admirer was twenty years old
er than l, but that only added reyer-
ence to the love | felt for him.
Il cannot refer to the evening he
proposed to me without emotion" Here
the speaker wiped away a tear. I'VE
were in the drawing room, lighted by
lamps with shades of various hues.
was sitting on sofa, he in an easy
chair directly before me. He took my
hand in his and"-
The narrative was interrupted by
food Of tears.
Never mind the proposal, dear"
said several ladies at once. tits too
affecting. Pass on to what caused the
separation"
The speaker composed herself, wiped
away her tears and proceeded:
1--WE had been engaged a month.
had introduced Professor Poindexter
to my friends, proud of him and his
learning. One day we went shopping
together ANON other things my
fiance bought was an alarm clock. He
said he wished to put in a few hours
Of study before breakfast and needed
to be awakened. The clerk showed US
how to set it and gave us a specimen
of the alarm, which was loud enough
to wake the dead. My fiance cOnclud-
ed to take it home himself since he
needed it the next morning, so he put
it in his coattail pocket. We went
home in a trolley car. Among the pas
sengers recognized several of my &C
quaintances. So proud of my capture
was I and so DESTROYS of showing off
his learning that led him to talk on
an abstract subject. Those who were
: near enough to hear what he said
were listening intently when"-
The speakers sobs burst forth again,
shaking her utterance.
Poor thing! Calm yourselfp came
from the listeners. while one curious
lady cried impatiently, stop your
sniveling and go onW Finally the de-
pouement came:
"The alarm clock in his pocket went
off,"
Nothing was heard for a time but
the speakers sobs till lady asked:
"Did it ring very long?"
Forever gasped the narrator.
"Then what2"
"When we left the car, both red %
beets, cried, You old fool, why diduC