Iowa state bystander. [volume] (Des Moines, Iowa) 1894-1916, 1915-04-09

MQpery In all seriousness, DO all mar
cried couples quarrel?" He goes on to
state: my brother and his wife live
An a constant state of warfare. My
partner and his spouse find existence
together intolerable. He sleeps on the
roof in summer and in the cellar in
winter time.
a my best friend married girl in
'lEFhom he reposed the utmost conf
ldence. Quite as soon as they returned
from their two weeks honeymoon she
played her first card, turning trick
on him that nearly lost him his bust
ness game In other words, she turned
koff his stenographer because she was
Amiddling young and good looking, caus.
Eng two of his other young women
clerks to follow suit.
1 &e,r family physician, who was a
bachelor like myself, braved fate and
look unto himself wife, eschewing
voung girls for the sake of sensible
widow. His patients for the most part
we're women.folk. She has shooed
Them all away, and he has applied to
me for position as bookkeeper, clerk,
light Notwithstanding to earn a
living independent of womankind. T.,
THE young policeman who welded
gecently has hard time keeping out
spf Jail, which place his bride declares
&he will land him the next time they
engage in either fist or tongue battle.
n AL these examples make a timid,
unmarried man~Quite fearful Of the pit
Falls in, the path Of matrimony. !
Il therefore ask you the honest question,
) DO all welded couples Quarrel?" ss,
l make haste to answer this query,
assuring this bachelor that quarrels
among married folk, by all that ! can
lee or hear or can ever learn by tale or
history Ito quote our, learned Shake.
speare). are really the exception-not
the rule. ~ -
! Where man or woman has entered
into wedlock because the one or the
other had wealth such couples vent
their disappointment in upbraidings,
sarcasm, unkind words or deeds
when they realize they have missed
happiness and all that might have
been had they welded for love only.
Dit takes two to quarrel. A man should
mot rush blindly into the marital yoke.
He should choose a, wife with profound
wisdom. He should be certain that he
gets a congenial mate. and be careful
not to arouse her to jealousy. The
most quiet of women may develop q
4 streak Of jealousy that can produce a
/ nationwide disturbance II goaded into
st by the man she loves. ~ Gs'>r@,.~j .
/ do not believe las far as can dis.
icoyer) that there is q married couple
twho do not have differences Of opinion
}Spn many subjects now and then. Their
Nkood Judgment tells them they must de.
Ter to the wisdom Of each other now
\ and then, which they do graciously
and good humoredly. 9%E 1&e '-s2..
II Ere the argument becomes a bitter
2kusillade of angry retorts, the wise
husband or wife resorts to silence or
1leaves the room, quietly avoiding the
iquarrel. Temperament should be
|studied by both during ,courtship.
\ Sweethearts who bicker and fall OUT
llwith each other over trifles should not
lived they will have stormy married
.hife if they do. A sweet.tempered,
Movable woman abhors either uttering
l|or listening to angry words. Where
1.-TWO hearts love truly, the couple will
Nbe so devoted to each other. that a
5lblow directed at one heart cruelty
iIwounds both. Where real affection be-
tween married couple exists quarrel.
ling is unknown. Choose the right one
{and married life will be a blessing d.
J rect from God. @...t.2>%,s M.e,.....s