The Pensacola journal. (Pensacola, Fla.) 1898-1985, 1915-07-14
FINDING FAULT WITH HIM.

Copyright, 1915, by the Mcclure
Newspaper Syndicate.)
Where the apple reddens
Never pry-
Lest we lose our Edens,
Eve and T."
It you have a husband who is try-
ing hard the best way he can to
get along, don't be milestone around
his neck to hamper him in his bitter
fight with the harsh world. One word
OF encouragement from the woman
he loves will put heart and strength
in him to make renewed efforts; her
sheer will make him so respondent
that the lightest blow struck at him
by an unfeeling stranger will force
him down and out.
1t is every mans right to have a
happy home if he provides one for
his wife and assumes the response
bility of its upkeep. If his nerves and
brain have been on the rack all day
by business cares and worries, he
should find peace, comfort, love, con-
sideration and cheerfulness within
the four walls of his home.
Wives may not think that such hus-
bands need coddling, and loving, but
they do. What encouragement has a
husband who has worked hard all day
If he is met by a fretful wife who
is ever ready to recite her woes to
him, but never asks of him Ibid you
have busy day, dear, and are you
tired? If you do not feel like going
out we will postpone going to the
movies or concert or lecture until
some other time"
How grateful the average husband
would be for such kindly solicitude,
which tacitly proved to him beyond
the power of mere words, how dear
he was to her.
Even if a husband does err in his
judgment now and then, he should
not be made to feel that he had COM
mitted an objectionable folly. Wise
is the wife who throws her arms
about his neck, assuring him that she
is sure he has done everything for
the best, and that success will come
their way when he is least expecting
it-that her confidence in him is un-
shakable. Such a husband will have
renewed strength to try again, aye,
and keep on trying, until he really
does win out.
Many man has dread of telling
his wife of his business affairs when
they go wrong, fearful of her up
braidings, which would be but add
ing fuel to the fire of his discourage
deserving husband. Worthy ones are
hard to get, being few and far be-
tween. 1t is in almost every instance,
the man who has happy home life
who succeeds and the man who is tor
mented at home who meets with ig-
nominous failure. Love and appre-
citation are props of steel to keep a
mans courage from sinking.
l wish every petulant wife who is
not doing her share in Tightening her
husbands burden would ponder over
these words and make the resolve that
she will experiment on being more
kind and tolerant with her husband,
to spur him on to more successful
achievements. Finding fault with him
will insure his anger, discomfort with
his wife and home life. His wife's
love and confidence will help him
climb to success. Wives, think it over.
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Miss Libbey's answer to your let
tiers. Correct name and address must
be given to insure attention-not to
print. Write short letters on one side
of page only. Use ink-not lead
pencil. Address Miss Laura Jean
Libbey, 916 President Street, Brook
lyn, N. Y.
A Home for Her or Another?
Dear Miss Libbey: l am a girl of
1S. A young man of 20 pays me