The Topeka state journal. [volume] (Topeka, Kansas) 1892-1980, 1915-12-11

with us. 1 try to have myself and
babies looking nice. I keep my house
winter. l do all my work by myself.
In trying to please my husband I do
more than 1 should, for I am not
strong and 1 have a nervous trouble
which think is caused by worrying.
| My husband tells me many stories and
L don't know whether to believe him
| or not sometimes. He promised me
last winter that he would quit drink
ing but he failed to Keep his promise.
| My father and mother are dead and
L am left alone. 1 love my husband
and babies and home.
A WORRIED MOTHER
/ Unhappiness and worry are newt
able as long you live with your hus-
band and he continues 20 drink Alco-
hol SO breaks down a mans moral
sense that he cannot be expected to
overcome his drink habit, keep his
promises, tell the truth and do the
right thing for his family. There are
reliable cures for the drink habit. Get
your husband to take one of them. 1t
might make a man of him.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: Cd I am
young girl of eighteen and I am
in love with a young man of twenty
three L met him at a dance a long
time ago. He does not speak to me.
How can I get him to speak to me?
CD Is it all right for a girl of
eighteen to go to dance and stay
with a different fellow? E. M
Cd 1t would be cheap to try any
way to get him to speak to you.
CD A girl should not go to
dance unless accompanied by a boy
inStance).
Dear Mrs. Thompson: % I am
engaged to be married and am 8
years of age. Do you think 1 am too
young to get married?
CD My fiance and have had sew
eral MISUNDERSTANDING of late and
he makes me take all the blame for
everything. 1 do not like this. What
shall I do?
CD He says he loves me and that
he is not Jealous. Nevertheless when
he hears of my getting letters at
angry. Why is he angry if jealousy
does not exist?
ca Is diamond always best for
an enga cement ring?
CD How often should you write to
your fiance?
CD Is twice a week too often?
BLUE EYES.
% you are very young. Whether
you are too young depends upon cir
CD Refuse to take the blame when
it is not your fault.
CD Caution would make him rebel
against your receiving attentions
from other men. He has a right 10
ask you to give up entirely all other
men.
ca The stone which can best be
afforded is often chosen.
60 AS often as you want to and
think it is best to write.
Co No.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: % 1 am a
girl fifteen and am going to school
am behind in my studies, but want to
finish school and be a teacher. There
are several girls in my class, but none
of them seems to care for my COM
pany. 1 try to be agreeable. 1t is no
pleasure to go places, because If I do
1 have to go around by myself. They
always have boys go with them. but as
l am so young / do not care to have
boy friends accompany me places and
my parents do not either What can
do they will not avoid me? 1t is
not the way l dress, because l try to |
look neat and tidy.
CD What would you do for red
hands and face?
CD What would you do for large |
QUESTIONING BLUE EYES.
Cd Ask your school teacher to tell |
you frankly why people do not like |
you. She can answer great deal bet |
ter than 1 can, because she is ac-
luainted with both you and the girls, |
while L know neither.
CD Skin that is red should first be |
reated by washing with plenty of |
good soap at bedtime and brushing |
oriskly with rough towel. After |
ward rub in a little of a mixture of |
equal parts of glycerine and rosewater. |
If the skin is rough, avoid hot or cold |
water; use tepid water, good soap and |
L soft towel.
CD There is no way to reduce them. |
Dear Mrs. Thompson: Cd L am
eighteen years old and the girls and
Boys at our church do not care for
ne. L have been wanting to go to an
)ther church, but 1 have gone to this
me so long that l hate to leave it.
What do you think is best to do?
CD l went with a boy, and I must
lave done something he did not like,
or he stopped going with me and did