The Southern herald., 1915-01-22
DR.. Marden's
Uplift Talks
BY oRIsoN SWEET MARDEN. !,
WHERE THE HONEY OF LIFE IS
FOUND.
Iht By Mcclure Newspaper syndicate

Some folks tries 30 hard ter be
happy in dis worl' dey gifts miserable
tryin'. Happiness is allus wbar you
amt lookin' fer it."
That they have not found happi.
ness where they expected to find 1t
has been the experience. Of every hui
man being who has made specially
of hunting for 1t. Happiness is not
gained that way. 1t is the product
of a deed and not to be found by
hunting, as sportsmen hunt for wild
animals.
Real happiness is so simple that
most people do not recognize 1t. 1t
is derived from the simplest, the qui-
etest, the most unpretentious things
in the world.
1t is difficult for many people who
are honestly striving to make the
most of themselves to see how they
can possibly get happiness out of
their monotonous, humdrum voca-
tions to which they are chained by
necessity or on account Of those who
are dependent upon them, These
people would get good lesson by
studying the bees, who, every min
ute during the day of the honey sea-
son, are finding sweets in every weed
In poisonous flowers, in things in
which we would never think of look
ing for anything good.
If we are ever happy, it will be be-
cause we create happiness out of our
environment with all its vexations,
cares and disheartening conditions.
He who does not learn to create his
happiness as he goes along, out of the
days work, with all its trials, its
antagonisms, its obstacles, with all it's
little annoyances, disappointments,
has missed the great life secret. 1t is
out of this daily round Of duties, out
of the stress and strain and strife
OF life, the attritIon Of mind with
mind, disposition with disposition
out of this huckstering, buying and
selling world-that we must get the
honey of life, just as the bee sucks
the sweetness from all sorts of flow-
ers and weeds.
An old farmer was once asked at
a meeting Of the Agricultural con-
gress to give his opinion on the best
slope of land for the raising of
particular kind of fruit. 1T does
not make so much difference" said
9he old man, about the slope Of the
land as the slope of the man." Many
a farmer who has the right slope
makes a good living and gets COM
petence on very poor soil, while the
farmer who does not slope the right
way barely exists upon the richest
soil.
Happiness does not depend SO much
upon our being favorably envtroned
as upon the slope of our mind.
Nothing contributes more to the
highest success than the formation Of
a habit of seeing the bright side of
things. Whatever your calling in life
may be, whatever misfortunes or
hardships may come to you, make up
your mind resolutely that, come what
may, you win get the most possible
real enjoyment out Of every day;
that you viii increase your capacity
for enjoying life by trying to find
the sunny side of every experience Of
the day. Resolutely determine that
you win see the humorous side Of
things No matter how hard or un-
yielding your environment may seem
to be, there is a sunny side if you
can only see it. The mirth-provoking
faculty, even under trying circum-
stances.is worth more to a young
man or atesnan starting out in life
than possne without 1t. Resolve
that yotfrpmI be an optimist; that
there. -sieIn e.. nothing of the pes
sifnist about you; that you will carry
your OWE Sunshine wherever you go.
Thus you may make poetry out of
the prosiest life, bring sunshine to
the darkest home and develop beauty
and grace amid the ugliest surround
angs.