Omaha daily bee., 1915-03-13

Fl
rossst every temptation life may offer.
In the next place you want to cuitl-
yate that rarest of all plants In the gar
den OF Iove-common sense.
Sit down and consider the situation,
why did your husband select you OF all
women to become HE wife? ProeaoV
becarse he loved you more than all others.
Wei. then. with his love and his daily
conpanionship to start with, you have
great advantage over all rivals You
have the power in your hands to ian
This flame OF love into a steady fire or 10
quench It forever.
However much a man may be impueo
with sentiment. he likes comfort ana
peace of mind as steady home diet AZ
YOU deprive him Of those. your senti-
mental love is Of very little value to Ehm-
Every time YOU allow your unreaSon-
able jealousy TO render him uncomfort-
able yoH lose ground with him and II Is
more possible for him to turn elsewhere
for distraction.
Added to this, you show yourself in an
unbeeoning mood. and he will be In
clined to contrast shllen, fearful wife
with more agreeable women he meets
elsewhere.
Whatever YOU may feel you ought TO be
able to control yourself In the eyes OF
the man you love.
perpetualIy jealous wife. remember.
Is the most unlovable object possible,
and II YOU feel your emotions getting
beyond control manage 10 seclude your
so's end cry it out alone. A good cry Is
often great relief to a woman. But II
would l,o well to steam snd battle your
Caec before you allow your husband to
see you.
Make up yoar mind that nowhere else
ON Garth shall your husband find such
comfort such affection, such cheerful
ness. such agreeable manners as he finds
with you. Unless he is the trashiest sort
OF characterless being he is not going
To be disloyal to the woman who exhibits
all these qualities
Try to become good comrade to your
husband. Make him feel that he can
speak his opinions freely to you. that
you can understand him fully and when
he expresses admiration OF other women
brace yourself up and agree with him
Brace yourself still further, and show
polite attention TO the women he al
mires.
Nothing will more fully convince him
that you respect his tastes and that you
have confidence in your own position
sufficient to admit his friends to your
regard.
Since you love him 50 devotedly and
are 90 morbldly Jealous this win be a
difficult task for you. But love Is full OF
hardships. and the effort is worth max
ing.
Aside from this II is wise thing TO
study carefully and closely the women
-.
when driven close 70 the piece Of flutter-
ing paper which has caused him 10 snort
and culver with terror. you viii become
calm and self-possessed when you dis
cover on close acquaintance how harm
less are the women You have considered
dangerous rivals.
On the contrary. II you avoid and dis
parage them you viii foster your Jealous
imagination and force your husband into
chivalric defense OF them. which viii
be maddening to your jealous heart. And
sou viii lower yourself IN your husband
esteem. while IL you are agreeable and
attentive 10 his friends he WIN admirs
and respect you.
Talk to him OF your pride IN his loyalty
tell him that you realize the temptationl
with which a mans life Is SURROUNDED
and praise him for giving you reason 4
respect him. IN he IL a manly man. n
win find greater happiness in belnl
worthy OF your praise and pride than il
yielding 10 any passing temptation othe
women may offer. II you accuse him o
neglect and infidelisy and nag him witt
your jealous fears. you WIN drive hin
TO others for comfort and abstraction.
Avoid talking with other women abou
faithless husbands who deceive trpstini
wives. Many women have a mania 10 re
late cases OF infideiity, and jealou
wives seem fascinated with the subject
Avoid Il as you would infection
II Obliged 20 listen 10 such recital
make mental comment that You hav
heard only one side Of the story. You q