The Pensacola journal. (Pensacola, Fla.) 1898-1985, 1915-08-07


Nor for itself hath any care,
But for another gives its ease,
And builds a Heaven in Hades' de-
spair."
Many young women who build air
castles of what they would consider
. happy married life for a woman do |
not exactly know what they should
have in heart mate OF understand
fully what varied experiences low
ing household unfolds.
If they marry young they do not
stop to consider the serious step.
There are those who marry because
they want good home provided for
them, nice rig to drive about, a maid
to do the housework, in short, a lazy
life for theirs. Every man should be
certain that the woman he leads to
the altar loves him for himself alone,
even if health or the little bank saw
ings should take wings.
When couple is poor, we find that
they welcome the coming of a number
of children. Deplorable this may APP
pear to be to rich outsiders who have
plenty of this worlds goods and few
if any little ones. But the day comes
when the miserable, overtaxed FAM
lily sees sunshine and bountiful re-
ward from the number of brothers
and sisters who have come to the
front and are comfortable supporters
in the homes where once the wolf
could hardly be kept from the door.
Parents realize that the best part
of their children's lives is yet to come.
AS they see them enter into Young
manhood and womanhood, they
proudly own that they are possessed
of great energy and youthful
strength, and from this time on they
well know that each will be apt to
make the best of his life for the sake
OF mother and father and their fear
full struggle against poverty in the
past.
Nothing can spur on children TO
become great helpers like those
thoughts of dismal days when they
hangerad pitifully and were lily clad
in a poor freless room. They have
no well-to-do outside relatives who
would willingly lend them a helping
hand. This is the foundation Of their
arnbition--the rise Of their future
successes.
It is when they drift apart. 90
alone into the pitiless world, or marry
and get together homes of their own.
that the tie of the large family of
grown children proves strongest.
There are always some who are IN
fortunate in making their way. Fail
ures and friends who have turned
from them in adversely have made
them discouraged and scarce able to
hold their heads up. Then come the
uplifting brothers and sisters, their
hearts filed with pity, their hands
and purses outheld, determined to
give them a footing to get up and
start anew.
Many Of the saddest discourage
meats which human beings have to
face are steps from which they cam
not recover themselves. They groan
out that the one wish of their lives
would have been to have had brothers
and sisters who would have comfort
ed them when pitfalls and troubles
were theirs. Instead of looking back
over the years Of hardships, that
large families may have brought one
and all should realize that the future
Of each child may bring loving re-
ward, proving an ideal help when
the shadows are outlived by sunshine
Miss Libbey's replies to your let.
tiers. Correct name and address must
be given to insure attention, not te
print. Use ink. Write short letters
only on one side Of paper. Address
Miss Libbey, No. 916 President street
Brooklyn, Ny.
Jealousy a Green Eyed Monster.
Dear Miss Libbey: am a married
. woman Of 2S. Am very Jealous o.
my husband. What can do to over
come this sadness? Sometimes / ee
: terribly sick at heart. / try my bes
7 not to feel like that, but l can't hell
it. Many times / wished / nevel
married. You may advise to see ,
: doctor about it. / am sure no physi
E clan could help me. Please advis,
: what / can de. BEATRICE.
Refuse to allow your mind to dwell
on anything which will cause you
4 jealous disturbance. Often there /
:, no reason for such heart torture
: Build up love in thoughts and deed
/. so strong and faithful that you vii
refuse to let d shadow dim your sun
y shine and affection. Keep love an
d belief in your heart. Allow nothinl
to disturb trust and happiness.
Delays Are Dangerous.
Dear Miss Libbey: | am reade
7, that takes great interest in your lei
II tArs. l come to you for advice.
q have been going with a girl thre
% years. We became engaged about
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