The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1915-03-03

zee the young man and no, her.
surely don't.
A. love her dearly. II would
make Us both unhappy not 10 pay
her these little visits should
stay AWAY T.
A-Why. OF course not N you
do. Il will Indicate that you are not
strong enough TO withstand gossip
and the chaitertongues thus Tar
encouraged by their success. will
60 on picking you TO pieces until
they find something else to talk
about.
The best way 90 get the upper
hand OF gossip Is 10 ignore {, com
pletely.
al am % years old and have
never had to ask any one for advice
before. have been married four
years and we have two children,
whom we both love dearly. There
are Ivs, two things that keep ne
just wee BIT blue all the time.
though. Ny wife wants 10 90 10
dances, and am tired at night and
haven't been we'll for . long time
and ! think We are better OF q,
home with our family At night. any,
way. She always asks my opinion
when she goes, but she doesn'i
agree with me at Gil.
Another thing 10 thss she calls
on and receives calls from two
women who are not respectable BY
any means, and ! have asked her
why she associates with those worn.
en-. She says she likes them. VIVA,
can ! do or say TO solve this prob
lem7
I write for her sake. az she !,
three years my junior.
TRUE HUSBAND
A.-Your sincerity Ia not 10 be
houbted. but how strongly
that domineering. masculine spirit
crops out all through your letter,
Your wife must give up the com
pany OF two women because YOu
think they are not respectable. OF
because you don't Ike them.
Are you quite sure that all OF your
men associates come up 10 the
standard you set for women. and
would you pay any attention "a
your wife n she we're 70 ask you to
give up the society Of certain men
because she did not like their char.
acters7 Probably not.
Some OF the best people alive
have some grievous faults, and
some OF the worst have one or more
mighty good qualities. II your wife
has 4 strong character. she can
bring out the good qualities in these
women and help them over their
stumbling block This old world IL
IL sadly In need OF little more OF
the milk OF human kindness and the
true spirit OF brotherly love.
As To the dances. little compro.
missing upon the part OF both ought
to settle that question satisfactor.
lily. ! don't think either husband or
wife should be compelled 10 give up
all pleasures simply because they
axe married and have family.
o.-ThIs 10 my tale OF woe. My
husband was divorced from his
first wife, and now after he and I
have been married five years,
have Just discovered that he ap-
piled for and obtained his divorce
under an assumed name. giving an
assumed name for both himself and
his wife. Now 10 that divorce lie.
gal or not7 And am his lawful
wlfe7
He has children by his first wife
and We have one child. 10 this
likely TO cRuse trouble about dI.
vision Of property We have some
community property, and he had
some property before we were
married. A WORRIED WIFE.
A.-Nothing is said in the d..
vorce or marriage laws about an
assumed name, SO your husband is
legally divorced and you are legal.
~ married: but an assumed name
is apt TO cause trouble in legal
transactions.
The fact that your husband had
children by his first wife will cause
no trouble In division Of property.
They cannot inherit any OF your
personal property; but they will be
entitled to as much OF your hus-
bands property as the child born
to you.