The Bridgeport evening farmer., 1915-08-21
THE KIND OF
 WOMEN WE LOVE

s.The time of lovers is brief,
 From the first fair joy to the gr1et That tells when love has grown old; From the warm wild kiss to the cold. sswhat- use to call on 1ove-or-thee My heart holds but one wish, alas!
 that I were dead.
 I know not what thing evil have
 done
 That life should hold such heavy hand
 on me-.
 .tAl1 the girls like her, but somehow she doesn't take with the young men.
 How often we hear that remark about a really sweet, ikeable young woman, and you wonder why it is that she is not as much of a favorite with one sex as the other. She is quiet and and is so very sedate and sensible Therein lies the exact tion-the girls head is too old for her shoulders and her heart for her years
 Youth ftime is a young girls care free jolly time, the time for the ever ready smile or laugh to spring to her lips, betraying her hghtheartedness because the world is young and as yet uncIouded with her.
 Young men are bright, active, with high spirits, full of life and merriment. The girl who. can understand their moods and enter into them, please them most, is more eagerly sought by them for companions. The young Wo- man who never enthuses may be as pretty as a picture. but she soon be- comes monotonous. Every man app preciates a good listener, but even the most 1oquacious young man gets talked out all too soon if he has to do all the conversing. and has for com panion a. girl who can only say yes or no. then fall into silence.
 If a girl is troubled with extreme bashfuIness a man knows that it can not to notice it.. If it is her settled way, that is quite another matter. serious minded young man may fancy that the man who weds her will have a home so quiet and wife so un- demonstrative that it must pail upon him if he is of a merry, jovial disposi- ton.
 While a girl cannot change her na- ture, she should strive to throw off a too serious temperament and enter into the merrymaking and laughter of those she is brought in contact with. She can accomplish this f she makes up her mind to do it and energetically bends her every effort antiringly to this result. Men, young and old, like a sweet, modest woman, one who can n0lpi them lauSn away the Dues WE4Su even the most jelly is sure to get once in while.
 The male sex does not care a rap about fnery.. They can and do adore 3. girl in a cheap lawn dress quite as much as if she wore an imported lin gerie affair whose price was apparent even to uneducated eyes in every per ky. bow and frill Of lace. They like. a girl who can take good long walk with them and enjoy every step of it. in short ia creature not too good for earthly food.s'
 The over-pretty girl is. apt to be conceited and insipid. She does not become interested in any subject for long save one--her attractiveness among the beaux-that she had a dog en offers from as many different young men to dance while all the rest of her girl friends looked on as wall flowers
 After a few doses of this conversa- tion who can wonder that the firt is left severely alone? Nor is the girl who shows that she is eager for love making popular with the right kind of men. They want to do the 1ovemakins if there is any done.
 In all fairness to each and every maid it must be stated that there is a class, of men who admire a certain the case may be, and would fall in love or wed no other, but the majority of men are ready to woo and marry the girls who make themselves agreeable to them, in whose presence they are happy and contented.
 Every girl should make a study of the companions with whom she s brought into contact and exert herself to be so companionable that she will be liked by both young men and girl friends. These girls whom only girls take to. or those whom only men seem to care for, seldom become wives with happy homes. When with Romans, be like the Romans.