Five Mile Beach weekly journal., 1915-02-19
THE ART
OF LOVE
A Lecture on How to Secure
. Husband
By F. A. Mitchell


young ladies' ON how to get husbands.
A lecture would be given every Friday
afternoon at 3 O'Clock.
On the first afternoon a numerous
audience were gathered In the lectur-
er's parlor.
Mrs. Robbins spoke as follows:
Young ladies'. you have doubtless de-
rived your ideas as to woman's part
in a courtship from novels. and that is
the reason why you are not married.
The heroine of a novel is usually so
modest that she doesn't dare say her
souls her own. There's more accom-
plished in this world In other fields be-
sides matrimony by assurance than
modesty and more accomplished by
management than by assurance.
The best way to teach issby example.
Therefore | shall put this lecture in
the form of u story. But TITS a real
story. not an invention. The heroine
didn't sit round and look pretty. She
was up and doing. That's what we
must all be III this world if we want TO
get on. Do you suppose a young fell
low who wants a position Whereby to
start a fortune sits round and waits
for 1t? No; he goes out and hunts for
it. And when he gets it does he mod
estly wait for somebody to tell him
to do things? Not If he wants to sue
coed. He does everything without be-
ing told and before it's wanted. That's
the part of a young fellow starting out
to fix himself In the world. and you
young ladies should act on the same
principle.
Now for my story of the way u
young lady secured a husband.
Her name was Jones, Sarah Jones.
just plain Sarah Jones, not M~altrayers
or Montmorency. like the h%eroines of
novels. or Gwendolin or ,Jaquelln for a
first name. A girl doesn't nSed a high
sounding name to get a husband; she
needs something that I'm going to tell
you about. Sarah Jones the day she
was eighteen sat down and did a job
of thinking. She wasn't long about it,
for she was al acting girl, and when
she had got her thinking done she act
ed at once on her decision. That de-
IAoAOH was LHdL nel pave was IA q
home as Il wife and the mother of
children.
Sallie Jones didn't go at things blind
ly; she thought them out beforehand.
She knew that she couldn't get mar
ried If restricted TO the society of girls.
So she Joined a dancing class. She
couldn't afford 1t. but she had to af-
ford it, and whatever has to be done
Is done If the party to do 1t is of the
right stuff. She had her eye fixed on
that dancing class. and she Joined
without knowing where the money to
pay her way was TO come from. There
were twenty young men members and
twenty-five girls.
Miss Jones realized that there is
safety in numbers but for the man she
was after, not for her. She didn't go
fooling about among the twenty men.
She picked out a steady young fellow
and made up her mind to land him.
His name was Abel Rogers. Nothing
romantic about his name either.
Rogers didn't have anything except
what he was getting together himself,
but he was frugal and a hard worker.
The first thing Sallie did was to let
Abel Rogers understand that she liked
him. She didn't pout when he danced
with some other girl more than with
her or look troubled If he didn't dance
with her ut all. She smiled on him
when he came back after a lack of
attention Just as pleasantly as If he
hadn't neglected her.
This sorI of work has been called
angling. and SO it is. A skillful fisher
man if a fish doesn't bite right off
wouldn't think of trying to jerk the
hook into its gills. and when it does
bite he doesn't try to haul it out of the
water all at once Some fish can be
caught that way. but n gamy fish needs
to be allowed to play itself out. So 1t
is with a man. First get him on the
hook. then play him.
We like those who like us. and Abel
Rogers. being aware that Sallie liked
was nothing deceitful about this in
Sallie. She really liked him or she
wouldn't have tried to catch him.
There is a difference in a girl showing
a man that she likes him and showing
him she wants him. Showing 1t would
end uncertainty, and uncertainty is the
line by which she must pull him in
after getting the hook in his gills.
Abel knew nothing about Sallie's feel
ings for him except that she liked him.
She might have liked several other
men and loved one other.
1t wasn't long before Sallie found an
opportunity to favor Abel above other
men. He came one evening to the
dancing class after an absence. having
no partners engaged. Sallie turned
down several names on her engage
ment card to give the dances to him.
This was an excellent way of showing
him her good will without indicating
that she coveted his attention. Per
haps there are some among you Who
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