The Pensacola journal. (Pensacola, Fla.) 1898-1985, 1915-07-29
LAURA JEAN LBMYS
8l1AILY TALFSONfEARISaA
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PoUTING SWEETHEARTs

POU11NG SW EEldEAKIS
"My dear and only love, pray,
Be governed by no other sway
Than thy good judgment;
For, if confusion have part
Which noble souls abhor
And hold council in thy heart,
I'll never love thee more"
It would seem to me that few of
our dear girls give this subject much
thought or they would be, oh, so care
full of that one fault some possess at
times. Young girls cannot afford to
choose the very companions whom
they find are uncongenial to them,
who ruff1e dispositions, are satirical
and compel them, as it were, to be
on the outs, sad of countenance, pout-
ing, ready to resort to tears, scarcely
knowing the reason why, when think
ing it over afterward.
What sweetheart could feel secure
in the promise of future happiness,
no matter how devoted her lover
might appear to be, if time and time
again he found an opportunity of try
ing her disposition on some trifing
pretext? A young woman who has
had faith in a lover she believed to
be ideal and found out some disagree
able tendencies on his part should
ponder we'll ere she decides to break
the tie of betrothal, closing her eyes
and ears to his past proclivity and
misdemeanors.
It is all very we'll for someone to
carelessly remark: ooh, I wouldn't
mind bit those random words you
are pouting over! Why, it is just his
way. You should try to understand!
He has been used to talking as it
suits him. He has sown hisNwild oats,
and young women are not inclined to
turn their back upon him."
A lover of this kind is apt to take
much of his time in reaping the bar
vest sown. If he sees a sweetheart
pouting when he keeps her waiting
in her parlor over an hour for his
coming, or if he contributes little to
her happiness by not inviting her to
amusements which she has set her
heart upon going to, there is lapse
i of his visits which he cannot account
4 for to her friends. 1t can make mat
tiers no better to make up with one
so Indifferent. She has to find out for
herself that they are generally light
of love, tickle and apt to fancy every
new, pretty face which fits across
their path. They are not the strong
oaks which young women fondly hope
they are.
On the contrary, they are the frail-
est of reeds to lean on when there
is need of the love, comfort and COM
partnership of helpmate. When 9
sweetheart learns by the parting OF
their ways that they we're not in.
tended to walk life's pathway to-
gether, she should take heart in the
belief that better prospect is II
store for her. Poutings should be
changed to smiles, and the result vii
be that she will be ter ., more at.
tractive than before. lad light II
her eyes will beautify her expires
sions and another worthier sutton vii
/ DI1IlB WSlCOIIlS 70 4lcI I14S anu HdRpl
ness to her chilled heart. They viii
not parade their affection before tht
worlds scrutinizing eyes as former
ly. They have congeniahty, comfort
seeking and soul-satisfying princi
: pies to devote to each other. Their,
is joy in their faces. Pouting sweet
hearts are thus of the past. Ther'
I. is nothing like true love to infuenc'
heart and face.
Miss Libbey's replies to your let
tiers. Correct name and address mus
be given to insure attention. Initial
J printed. Use ink. Write short let
2 tiers only on one side of paper. AID
. dress Miss Libbey, GIG Presiden
2 Street, Brooklyn, N. Y.
5 Visiting Her Oftener Than Half tn
Week.
Dear Miss Libbey: Reading of you
advice would appreciate same. / ar