The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1915-05-06
Cynthia Crey's
LETTERS

OIL arm keeping company with
a girl who wants her own way most
Of the time. am rather puzzled.
as did not suppose girls were ina;
way. 80 ! arm seeking your wise
opinion.
Should let her have her own
wayf ! arm afraid I can never get
along with woman who wants
her own way about doing this ard
that ! cannot say love the GRIT.
but ! have a very strong feeling
for her and think ! would be happy
with her. The only drawback 10
that she 10 getting 30 lately she
doesn't seem TO care whether call
her up any more or not. But when
am out with her she treats me
fine. She doesn't care 20 90 10
vaudeville houses. says picture
shows are good enough for her. and
will not let me spend much money
on her. Several times she has told
me she liked me better than any
one else. but stIlI insists on having
her own way. Here 10 what ! want
10 know: Should keep up my
company with her or notr have
gone with several girls. and so FAR
this 10 the only one I really thought
I cared for. What would be your
advlce-forpet II or not7 v. c.
Al fear you have n great deal
to learn concerning the traits and
eccentricities OF the fair sex. OF
course. n sensible girl wants her
own way when she thinks she Is
in the right. u the only thing YOU
disagree about Ia spending your
money. ! would say that you are a
very foolish boy. It's a pretty good
sign that girl cares for a man
when she wants to help him save
his money.
But why worry about this ques-
ton with this girl? You admit.
yourself. that YOU don't know
whether you love her: consequent.
Is. ~ you don't like her treatment
OF you or her attitude towards YOU.
forget her. You are as free rs the
wind. and, n her actions distress
you, you are not compelled 20 on.
dure them one moment. II you
prefer clinging vine to a woman
with a mind OF her own. you prob
ably won't have to look very far 10
find one Of that type. That Is the
best way TO solve the problem.
o.-Wouid you kindly advise me
in a matter that 10 OF great I'M
portance TO me2
/ have been keeping company
with a very nice girl of and on for
two years. She Is ~ and ! am 81.
love her very much: but she only
likes me as a friend and does not
love me. | want her 10 marry me.
but she won't.
Since ! met her. she has had an
accident. and mas not been able TO
support herself since. nor WON'T for
some years, during which time !
have helped her TO support herself.
Do you think she ought TO marry
me, even II she does not love me
She has been truthful with me and
has always told me that she did not
love me. She has never deceived
me In any way.
Should stop keeping company
with her and not help her any more
or not?
| am anxious 10 know. M. L.
Aft you really loved the girl.
with an unselfish love. YOU would
be willing to do anything to help
her. even though YOU knew she
would never love YOU. II YOU
thought for one moment that you
could buy her into marrying you,
placing her under obligations by .,s-
slstlng her under the guise Of
friendship. certainly, for her sake,
stop keeping company with her and
do not help her any more.
The girl Is most sensible 10 speak
the truth and stand by ~ There
are more than few girls who
would not hesitate TO marry n they
we're unable TO support themselves
and had n home nj their disposal.
Too many people marry nowadays
without taking love into considera.
ton. a happy. successful home Is
founded on love and love only. You
would not be happy married 20 q
woman who could not love you, 50
accept the verdict and make the
best OF H.
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