The Bridgeport evening farmer., 1915-08-25

There is no summer that does not have it's full quota of dirtations in cities, travelling or rural exclusions. A few of them terminate in heart break ings; others in showing the hapleSs participants of this habit their folly, safeguarding them in the future from what might be worse.
 There is always a type of girl to De found in most places who carry off the palm of being considered romantic ana full of fun nowadays They fegaro spirited young men who are locking about to exchange dull care for liveli- ness as fair play for what they start with-a little mirthful filtration to pass away the time with fun. The dash1ng girl believes that her artihces are harmless and that she can fascinate the happy-go-lucky young man who is a stranger, without let or hindrance She has no heart interest for him, even if he has tor her, which is rarely the case She makes up her mind that if he is not constantly eager to dance attendance upon her at the ice cream sparlors; soda counters, costliest con fectionery stores and at picture play houses, she will lose no time in looking around for another who will be more willing devotee, days and summer eve nings. They, are brought to realize that summer has it's rainy days which ldisappoint funseekers who have count ed on the dawning day of mirth $ ex- pecfaney.
 men and their new girl acquaintanees look forward to- The girl who in duIges in hirtations most always awaits in the 1oorways or convenient trysting places where he puts in an appearance daily. Soon they are off 1 on a mile jaunt, while he pretends to listen to her coquettish rambling talk, and give her to understand what he has no thought of-that he is smitten by her piauant, gladsome, responsive ways.
 He has by no means been kept in lthe dark by his fair cllarmer, but is wide awake to the fact that if she will f1irt with one man she will with another when his back is turned. Cu- pfd,s love arrows. therefore, fall wide | Of the mark, harmless. He jollies her along, with no intention of meeting her again another summer. She has taken no heed that men who are all lowed to raise their hats to a bright faced girl, whose acquaintance, beyond that moment, is unknown to them, in
 variab1y forget them when by chance they meet
 Seasons of the firt's conquest have narrowed into bygone days. She is still single and wears no engagement ring. Some Of these, fair yet forward
 girls do not have the pleasure of the lcompany at their homes of the young
 men whose acquaintance they made
 promiscuously Stern parents would
 object to opening their homes to
 strangers without proper acquaintalnce.
 Girls of this proclivity often have mod
 lest sisters, whom a man of this kind
 might turn his liking to in preference i to her. Heartmates are often found
 who are just the opposite in manners
 and attractions from those met be-
 fore.
 In fact, those who. truly love are
 the hearts which in many instances
 are caught in the rebound. Rarely, if l ever, can a young man become At-
 tached to a girl who takes the initia- tive and becomes acquainted through flirting: They respect and have an en- ftirely different regard, which is tender
 and reverentiaI for one modest girl, Ewhpm they would love and call their own sweetheart.
 The temptation of flirting dissipa- I ton is not in loves market All such
 reminders fade into the past. sooner
 or later. To come it is amusing to look back and think of. Not a few fsee the ridiculous ending, wondering how they could have brought them
 selves to spoil their good chances in
 summer and going beauless and for lorn more than one winter time in con- <