The Topeka state journal. [volume] (Topeka, Kansas) 1892-1980, 1915-12-11

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% Tell them that you are busy
Why orwry about their getting angry
| as long as you don't care for them?
I'D At 10 o'clock or 1920, which
| ever you prefer. tell him you must
ask him to go. because it is your bed
| Even the most interesting boy gets
| tiresome if he stays too long.
CD 1t would be all right to write
to him If he cares to correspond he
! will write to you.
Young Mother" % Consult a
doctor at once about the hiccoughing.
(2)Ask at a department store to be
1 shown some headScarfs. They are
made of various materials and sold at
different prices. BY looking a them
you can tell best what you want
/ Dear Mrs. Thompson: 1 am eigh-
/ teen and am in love with a fellow at
twenty-seven. He has offered me
presents many times, but l never have
, accepted thin. Do you think it would
be all right if 1 accepted one of his
presents at Christmas time. My par
ents do not like to have me go with
him and every time they see me with
him they scold me. What would you
| do if you were in my place? Go with
him and accept present or not?
BROKEN-HEARTED LONE
SOME GIRL
Rely upon your parents judgment
and don't go with him or accept pres
ents.
Baby DoIT': Send your Bird of
Paradise to a dry cleaner
Dear Mrs Thompson: CD Is it
necessary to have attendants when
one is going to be married in a suit
and out of town?
CD Does the bride have to carry
flowers?
go When there is no ring cere-
finger before going to the parsonage
or after the ceremony?
(4) Should gloves be worn during
the service or not? ANXIOUS.
% 1t is not necessary to have at
tendants, but it is necessary to have
two witnesses. The minister will fur
nish them if you ask him to.
fS) The ring is placed on the finger
as soon as they have been made man
and wife.
"a 1t doesn't matter when the cou-
pie is married so informally. If the
left hand is bare it is easier to put on
the ring.
Dear Mrs Thompson: Please tell
me if you think L will ever get mar
ried. L am looking ror a young WON
who does not read novels, go to
theaters, play cards, dance and dress |
in the seminude styles. She must not
lace tightly, wear high heel shoes nor |
get nST COIIpltAlOn SdhS anu !
boxes. She must love children more |
than poodle dogs. She must not be |
one who spends most of her time on a |
piano stool. She must not be popular |
among tipplers and cigarette sucking |
dudes She cannot hide a shoddy |
character beneath costly clothes and |
substitute cheap perfumery and CO. |
quettish mannerisms for the virtue |
that belongs to a real woman
On The other hand, she must be |
fa ri well educated. knowing how to |
make a decent batch of bread, to sew
on a patch or pull the feathers off a
fowl. One who knows what Forts
simo'' means on waSh-board as we'll |
as piano.
Nor am 1 looking for an angel.
Please do not SO misconstrue my
This is but an attempt to
depict a real woman. There surely
where are they?
Echo answers +fWhere?"
OSCAR"
If you are able to offer equal quail
find such a girl for a wife. The ideal
girl is almost as rare the ideal
young man, but there are still many
sensible, home-loving girls in
other kind. Be patient, don't be too
cynical, and be sure that you are
of her whom you seek.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: 1 was going
with very nice boy a year older than
myself and I introduced him to my
girl friend. She is very pretty and l
am considered so also. This girl friend
can be funny all the time and so can
the boy, but 1 am quiet and would
rather talk sense than foolishness.
For while after L had introduced my
friends the boy continued to come to
see me, and then he began to call on
my friend, too 1 didn't care much
I,ar, 7 10 low |
But 1 did care when he took my girl
friend to a school picnic a short time
ago. Do you think it was right for
aim to do SO when he had been going
With me and 1 introduced him to the
other girl? Last night he called me
Up again and asked to come over. 1t
has been three weeks since he asked :
o come last. 1 told him that I was
would phone later. 1 didn't really
nave a date. I only thought it would
De better to ask your advice before 1
ct him come back again. Would you
ldvise me to be friends with him still?
FLORENCE L.
AS long as the boy was not engaged
o you he had a perfect right to take
my girl he wanted to the picnic. Ger
ainly let him call again, if you want
him for friend. Since you do not
are for him seriously, 1 should think
rou would be glad that he does not de-
yote all of his time to you.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: am al
most thirty years old and was mar
led when very young to a man sew
raj years older than myself. We
lad children and he left me. I found
,ood homes for all but one of them
FOR two years I have been going
With a business man and am wear
ng a diamond engagement ring We
re to be married during the holt
lays. I think a great deal of INN
nd want a home for nv ba by who
S now old enough to go to school.
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