The Pensacola journal. (Pensacola, Fla.) 1898-1985, 1915-08-21

not TO notice it. If it is her settled
way, that is quite another matter. A
serious minded young man may fancy
that the man who weds her will have
a home so quiet and wife so undem-
onstrative that it must pall upon him
if he is of merry, jovial disposition.
While a girl cannot change her ma
ture, she should strive to throw off
too serious temperament and enter
into the merrymaking and laughter of
those she is brought in contact with.
She can accomplish this if she makes
up her mind to do it and theoretically
bends her every effort untiringly to
this result. Men, young and old, like
a sweet, modest woman, one who can
help them laugh away the blues which
even the most jolly is sure to get once
in while.
The male sex does not care a rap
about fnery. They can and do adore
a girl in a cheap lawn dress quite as
much as if she wore an imported lin
gerie affair whose price was apparent
even to uneducated eyes in every
perky bow and frill of lace. They like
a girl who can take a good long walk
with them and enjoy every step of it,,
in short "a creature not too good for
earthly food"
The over-pretty girl is apt to be
conceited and insipid. She does not
become interested in any subject for
long save one-her attractiveness
among the beaux-that she had a
dozen offers from as many different
young men to dance while all the rest
of her girl friends looked on as wall
flowers.
After few doses of this conversa-
ton who can wonder that the flirt IS
left severely alone? Nor is the girl
who shows that she is eager for love-
making popular with the right kind
of men. They want to do the love-
making if there is any done.
In all fairness to each and every
maid it must be stated that there is a
class of men who admire certain
class of women, either grave or gay
as the case may be, and would fall
in love or wed no other, but the ma
jority of men are ready to woe and
marry the girls who make themselves
! agreeable to them, in whose presence
they are happy and contented.
Every girl should make study Of
the companions with whom she is
brought into contact and exert herself
to be so companionable that she will
be liked by both young men and CIR
friends. These girls whom only girls
take to, or those whom only men seem
to care for, seldom become wives with
happy homes. When with Romans
be like the Romans.
Her Breezy Western Wooer.
Dear Miss Libbey: I am a girl Of
IT; write letters for our church pa
pers. Three young men wished worl
in junior society. All were sent help
Summer, juniors stopped, and onl!
one wrote to me, and correspondeC
| for years. He wants to come in thu
fall and see me. He sent his phott
and beautiful Christmas gift. l sen
return gift and photo. He has nj
other girl. Saves all his money; own
a buggy, three or four horses. Love
me as do him. He mentions fittint
himself for the ministry. l have nc
! the same liking for others whom
! meet as this Westerner. Ny parent
! are proud of him; said I could hav
| him when he came in the fall. w
have not seen each other. Please ad
wise if I should keep corresponding
} Lovingly, M. B. A.
: If the romance proves good to yo-
both and your parents consent, n
doubt it will be happy union o
hearts. With this view you Nigh
continue corresponding until h
comes.