The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1914-08-20

This mornings mail brought the
two letters printed below. They
arc 10 strikingiy similar 10 their
appeal that one answer will serve
for both.
al have been married eight
years, and for six years none could
have been happier than we were,
but about two years ago my wife
began to accuse me unIussiy Of
being unsaIthsui. and continues TO
30 accuse me at every opportunity.
never 90 out at night except.
perhaps. once . month to lodge. ard
svsn than she follows me both TO
the hall and home AFTER the meeting.
am barely civil 20 ladies Of our
acquaintance, thinking TO give nor
no excuse. and then she eaiis me
boor. and says ! might be pleasant
70 them.
She has forfeited my love. and my
respect for her 10 also fast slipping
away. Now. we have no children.
Miss Grey. or ! wouldn't think Of
leaving her, but my patience 10
about exhausted. and unIcss you can
offer some solution from your vast
knowledge, ! am done. And In CIV
ING your verdict. remember there 10
no other woman.
Thanking you for your kindness.
remain. JOSEPH.
os--What would you advise me to
do In . case like THAR Have been
married nearly five years. and we
got along quite well until few
weeks ago my husband accused me
Of being untrue TO him. which have
not. Miss Grey. have always been
true TO him. and always Intend to.
but II hurts me TO have him think I
have not He says he will always
think I have been untrue.
Please advise me what 10 do.
DISCOURAGED
A.--Why can't every married man
and woman be made to understand
that when suspicion and jealousy
enters one door. love flies out the
other7 Husbands and wives. each
OF you must decide such an import.
ant question for yourselves. Per.
sonally see no reason for divorces
II each will do what Ia right. have
always thought II I made bad bar
gain in marriage | would treat IL az
do any other mistake | make: that
Is. make the best of IL. correct my
own errors. and try to bring good
results. An honest endeavor on
both sides will bring good results
A happy marriage means much more
than loving. II means an infinite
capacity for self-sacriflce. II means
tact and the ability to make Joy out
of little and TO only grieve over tho
big hurts that fate deals to you. Il
means courage. and patience, and
faith. and hope.
o,-Will you kindly publish a
recipe or formula for making elder
berry wine, " you know Of one7
BY so doing, you will greatly obilge
ONE or YOUR READERS.
A.--Gather the berries when
quite ripe. on dry day. pick them
off the stems and brlise them with
your hands. Strain the Juice. let
the liquor rest In glazed earthen-
ware pans for ~ hours to settle.
Allow TO every pint OF Juice Il II pts
OF water. and to every gallon OF the
mixed water and Juice add lbs. OF
good moist sugar. Put IL over the
fire in large saucepan. and when
II In ready to boil, clarity II with
the whites of eggs. Let II boil
for an hour. and. when nearly cold.
nat In onf,,c vaaat m sxoru g. npuY.
Il into the cask. reserving some OF
the liquor to fill up the cask with.
as II sinks with working. Tf you
have about 10 gal. II should be 1T
10 bottle In two months time
after Il has been closed down.
Keep at least year in bottles.
OIL have come to you for a lit
tie bit Of advice and comfort. Do
not think me an orphan or foolish,
silly girl.
| am 10, almost ~, and am very
disappointed with life and all OF
its surroundings and am very
unhappy.
Miss Gray. are there any nice boys
and men, or are they all brutes7
For a girl Of my age ! have had con-
siderable experience with boys and
men also. am not q bad girl at
heart; II 10 the company have been
thrown Into. have gone with all
kinds OF fellows from lawyers TO
laborers and II seems they are all
alike.
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