Norwich bulletin., 1914-06-27
GOOD MATRIMONIAL RULES.

Dear Members of the Social Cor ner: What is so rare as a day in June," the month that can boast of more brides and grooms than two or three of the other months put togeth- CT.
 They enter the State of Matrimony (the capital of which is Union) with great prospects, confident that noth- ing lies in their path but Perpetual Bliss. Whether they find this Per petual Bliss or not lies wholly with themselves.
 The most envied of these newly welded couples are those who start out with wealth: the least envied, those who have health. Some use their health to acquire wealth: some try to buy health with their wealth; the latter usually fail and with no health, how can there be great happi ness? Thus, a couple whose assets are healthy bodies and minds have some foundation which the winds and rains cannot affect. and in the State of Mat rimony the gales are just a few unless the pilot knows his course
 It is necessary to remember a few rules to be assured Of happiness. First-Expect not to find perfection in your companion realizing your own imperfections.
 Second-What your parents have ac- quired in a lifetime should hardly be expected to be yours at the start you uO IlOI hNo on Easy street to begin with, you will not have to move
 Fourth-Strew each others path with roses-compromise Fffth-A complete understanding of ! all problems, including such as the maker. is wisest and best. Sixth-There are two sides to all ! questions; never admit the third. | Seventh-You will not find your ! partner always amusing nor even | pleasing
 Eighth-If you hammer hard enough ! and long enough at a certain spot in Q stone, 1t will soon separate; 'tis thus 1 with two people who enter matrimony I A certain question arises. It is not ! settled promptly. Both keep knocking; ! at last it separates them
 Ninth-Show no surprise when an | added fault crops out in either one Just keep the weeds down. 1 Tenth-Forget not the marriage an- | niversary day. even if you don't eel | eDrate with your friends. There are numerous other "do's and | don'ts'' for newly married couples, tc | keep in mind and for longer married ones to think about.
 If the newly married Mary" fails to get the hang of cooking right away
 John" must have patience. Perhaps
 she didn't do a great deal of house
 work previous to her changing hei name.
 It may be true that "housekeepers
 are born, not made" At any rate
 housekeeping doesn't come easy tC
 some women.
 When Mary" discovers that John is dreadfully disorderly. that's a gooC
 place to show more patience-I meaI most patience. He probably misse!
 his mother who kept his belonging.
 ir perfect order. He will learn tha when the article he is looking fo
 doesn't jump out of the bureau drawe into his eager hands. he must lool underneath the pile. It's there, laugh ing in it's sleeve.
 ) If 'Mary's" disposition is of tn,
 kind known as right at the boiling point" again have patience. John.
 She probably will improve with az , and experience.
 There are some really good Johns
 who simply couldn't be domestic, jus 1 as there are some equally gooi ? ''Marys' who don't enjoy splitting
 kindlings.
 Taken as q whole. it's a case o } compromise from the day John" am l Mary enter this place called UniOl } in the State of Matrimony until the leave It. which should be only whe the grim reaper separates them
 DREAMER