The Kansas City sun. (Kansas City, Mo.) 1908-1924, 1914-10-10
DIR. Marden's
Uplift Talks
BY oRRrsoN SWEET MARDEN
"SHE WUZ ALLUs kline TO
EVRYBUDDlE."
Copyright BY Mcclure Newspaper syndicate

in Kentucky, on a rough stone, is
- this inscription: Jane Lalor: Died
August, 1S49. She wuz allus kline to
ev'rybuddie."
Could anyone have a better cpl
taph?
One Of the greatest helps to happi-
ness, to the progress of all mankind,
is the habit of kindness, of the thought
fulness for others, of saying kind
things to others and about them.
There is a blighting, killing influence
In an unappreciative atmosphere.
II you would be popular and attract
people to you you must cultivate a
broad generosity, a feeling Of good
cheer and good will towards every
body, and you must feel a real and
not a feigned interest in others well
fare.
How many good things the spirit
of good will brings to us, and how
many unpleasant things it keeps away
from usl
If you form the habit of saying
kindly things about others and look
ans w bhO OCpt II lhClup gOul Lhllu
will become related, through the law
Of attraction, to all kindly people and
to all good everywhere.
II we persist in this habit 1t will
drive out all petty little jealousies, all
!. moroseness and gloom, envy and sell
fishness, everything that would Sc
riously mar our lives.
No affar4a wv ao o,rar aoIa. aon
bring such splendid returns as the
endeavor to scatter flowers as we go
along, to plant roses instead of
thorns; no investment will pay such
fat dividends as the firm effort put
into kind words and kindly acts, the
effort to radiate a kindly spirit toward
every living creature.
If we cultivate a sunny, cheerful ex
terror and a kindly smile, a cordial
manner towards everybody, we make
acquaintance and friendships easily.
l know a woman in New York who
IS a dwarf and a cripple, but who has
such a sweet, open, beautiful nature
that everybody loves her. She is vel
come everywhere, because she loves
everybody and feels interested in
everyone. She is poor, but she enters
into other lives with q heartiness and
unselish abandonment and an enthusi-
asm that ought to shame those of US
who are physically normal and in a
better condition.
The people who envy her popularity.
her sunny nature, do not realize that
their love Of gossip and their DISPOSE
ton to pick flaws with others, to see
their weakness, their unfortunate or
ugly side, are really exhibiting a very
unlovely side of themselves, and that
this Is the reason why they are so very
unpopular.
Practice open-mindedness, holding a
charitable. magnanimous, liberal atti-
tude of mind toward everybody and
everything, and you will be surprised
to see how it will enlarge and enrich
your nature. There is nothing else
that will make you so popular as this.
Everybody loves the open-minded,
large-hearted, magnanimous character,
just as he naturally despises the
small, narrow, stingy, lean soul who
sees everything through his selfish
glasses.
Sel1shness is n of the most despic-
able qualities of human nature and is
universally hated. The subtle, mysteri-
GUS something which we call magnet
ism, and which we cannot describe,
that something which everybody feels,
is due more to the one quality of unset
flshness and a large generosity than
to anything else. People may admire
you for your talents, but they will not
love you If you are always thinking OF
and working for yourself.
So, if you would get on in the higher
sense, you must get rid of this great
enemy Of your advance. You must
take an unselfish, kindly interest in
others. Remember that whatever you
send out of your nature viii be reflect
ed back to you.