The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1914-11-18

A.-She Ia a citizen. because she
was naturaliLed by her husband 3
papers.
o-tast Wednesday the olrl with
whom ! an, very much In love, and
whom ! expected 10 marry. went to
q dance, and, while there. without
being introduced. danced with a
boy whom ! know TO be an objec.
tIonabie character. Although &C
eompsnied by her mother. she per.
mlt,ed this boy 20 escort her home.
have always thought this girls
character was beyond reproach, and
told her ! would gladly escort her
homo, or 10 any place she wished 20
90. even though do not dance.
Please tell me n you think this
10 Important evidence that she
would not make . suitable wife, and
what should ! do 20 convince her
that she 10 In the wrong, which
Do you think ! had better stop
going with her, or would u be more
manly 10 ''forolve and forget"7
HARTFORD.
Alt II not considered good
form for girl 10 dance with a
man 20 whom she has not been In
troduced. II your friend viii not
admit this, II rs because she IL stub
born. II In unfortunate, indeed.
that society ia in such a state OF af-
fairs that clean. broad-minded men
and women may not meet. even
though they be strangers. and pass
the time OF day as two strange men
may. but since II In so. girls who
want to be respected had best obey
the conventions.
Mothers are considered the fin
est sort OF chaperons. so you should
not take exception because the boy
acted M an escort. When passing
Judgment upon another's character.
II is always a good plan to keep In
mind that there IN so much bad
in the best OF us. and no much good
In the worst OF us. that II scarcely
bchooves any OF us TO talk about
the rest OF us" This young man
may have made mistakes. and
grievous ones. but he may realize
them and want TO do better. Good
girls and women can help him. Do
you think you are justified in con-
demning your girl friend. or her
mother. II such were the case?
o. am q man past 20 and ask
your advice. became engaged TO
q woman near my own age and
gave her an engagement ring. She
worked for me. and I always treat
ed her az . lady.
had a gentleman friend for
whom ! had proved my friendship
In time OF need and who accepted
my hospitality. He became ac.
qualnted with my fIaneee. She
left my employ and ! found was
receiving the attentions OF my
friend. ! then asked for the return
Of my ring, which now have.
did not get angry. but treated them
as would any ono else.
Now the woman has asked mo 10
give back the ring TO her, while
telling me that she expects to mar
ry my friend. What do you think
about III ! think wac hlt on both
cheeks, and don't feel that owe
them more than my good Will, II I do
that. Nevertheless, they have II. az
never wish any one III; but do
owe them the rlna7
JUST A MAN.
A--Certainly not When an en-
gagement Ia broken II Is customary
for the girl to return the engage
ment ring to the person who gave
II TO her. You ought to consider
yourself lucky TO escape marrying
woman with so much nerve.
o.-You have been a great help
TO thousands who were In trouble,
so now ! am coming TO you for aid.
have a problem before me which
do not understand. am an In
dian and possessed Of good under
standing. Recently ! read an ar
tIcle In one OF the papers that look
ed funny to me, and ! cannot get II
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