The Washington times., 1914-06-22

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I am corresponding with youns
man, and have been for a few months
/ and he wishes to come TO see me this
summer. 1 am undecided about telling
him to come, for 1 have never met him
What shall I do about It? Let him
come or not?
UNDECIDED.
wv HY don't you want him to
NJ come to see you? Are you
| " afraid he won't like you. or
do you fear that you won't
like him?
What is it you want for a friend. a
dream. or a reality? Ask him to come,
tell him you'll be delighted to see him,
! and then have him come straight 10
| your home.
Put on your prettiest frock. do your
sW eetest. and get in and get acquainted
| with the real man who will want to
know the real you as you really are.
| Letters tell so little. so very little. A
ter in the world and be at heart q selfsb
! brute He may write a tiresome, con-
E Nentionsl letter and turn out to be
: when you know him-a man of real
characttr and great charm OF person
. ality.
| Don't worry IL you're not pretty. II
! he likes you he'll think you're pretty.
| If he doesn't like you ned think you
| Mucous IL you were the venus de MILO
herself. even with the arms.
Don't put On airs, don't pretend to be
something or to know something or to
| look something that you are not
Is your home simple and old-fash-
| ioned' Don't be ashamed of it. Prob
| ably the man lives in a boarding house
| and Is so homesick that an old-fash-
| ioned sitting-room with a plush album
| on the center table and a whar-not with
shells on it in the corner will look like
. paradise to him.
I Write and tell him you're waiting for
MIN and want him to come, and whom
he comes you'll know more about
whether you'll like him or not in the
| 1rst five minutes you're with him THAI
You would through a years correspond
ence.
1 hope he'll get there In June when
the roses are all ablow. And / hope
you II look like the sweatest rose Of all
to him.
Brown Eyes-If you. my dear. don't
know whether or not the young man
er girl, how do you expect me to know?
II you are really fond of him, surely
you can trust him enough to take his
word in such a matter. II you can't
trust him that much, let him go, and
| let him go quickly.
l. E F.-Why shouldn't the girl you
speak OF go out with your friends?
She is foolish to deceive you about it.
for certainly you have no right to say
where. when, or with whom she shall
go. That is unless you are definitely
engaged to her. You ask what you shall
do. Why. don't do anything See as
much of your friend as you can. have
as many good times as you can. but
don't quarrel with her over her other
friends. When you are engaged to a
girl, then il il hurts you to have her
go anywhere with any one else, she
should care enough for you to say no
for your sake.
Constance-Perhaps the young man
you mention has some one dependent
upon him and cannot afford to spend
the money to take You to the theater
circumstances. can be the Judge of that
Certainly, If he is in easy circumstan-
ces, and spending money freely on
himself, ] should not hesitate to tell
him any time I wanted to go anywhere.
wouldn't hint about il, but just say
right out what wanted.
J. R-Just tell your little girl OF six
teen frankly that you are fonder Of
her than Of all the rest of the girls you
know. If you want to. but. my dear
young man, she is too young for you to
pay her serious attention-it isn't fair to
her-and unless you are serious there is
no reason why YOU shouldn't play round
her get any silly idea in her head that
you belong to her. Make her realize
that you are Just a good friend. and
that YOU expect to have other girl
friends. 1t may make her peevish for
a little, but il will be much better for
her than to feel that you are a beau
or a lover and that any attention to
other girls is disloyal Wait till she is
grown up for that.