The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1914-07-18

several young married couples who
arc working together for their home.
suppose you suggest this plan 10
your fiancc. Marriage 10 really a
partnership. 30 why not conduct u
ON that basisf
o.---i am . young girl Of rs, and
have . great many boy friends. NY
parents object greatly 70 my going
out to psrties or oancss with them.
However. they keep asking me. and
hate 70 hurt their feelings or mako
rssh promises. What would you al
wise me TO dor Also 10 II proper TO
allow The boys 10 hug and kiss you :
CASEY.
A.---No. Casey. II II decidedly"
improper TO allow the boys TO hux
and klss you.
Don't make any rash promises.
regard your parents instructions
and risk hurting the dear boys "
o.--Whst do you think Of . hue
band who wants HE wife 10 work
and help herseNf He Decent care
what she does 90 long - she gets
the money.
We have been married seven
ysars. We hsve no Children. and
live In reasonable furnished rooms.
Ne dossn's want 70 buy . home, but
wants moro money Ter shown, but
he never takes me. He has . steady
posision. and dossnt drink. think
Il 10 hard TO work snd keep house.
but he ssys ell women do L. Please
let me hear from you soon. D. N.
Al am here 10 say that every
married woman DOES NOT keep
her house and work out. and the
wife who does must either over
work herself or sadly neglect her
home.
III he wished you to work only for
limited time. and you we're both
saving together for q mutual cause.
there would be- some excuse.
I attribute the real trouble to the
fact that your home II childless.
No marriage 10 truly successful I'M
less children come to bless the
home. II Il ia not possible for you
to have children OF your own. the
orphan asylums are OVERLOOKING
with homeless babes with childish
arms outstrctched and little hearts
yearning for some parental love and
kindness.
o.--pIesse describe q new way
for . girl to announce her engage
rent to q small party OF her girl
| friends. JUST A GIRL.
Al am sure you will find the
following scheme successful:
Prepare AZ many slips of paper
as there are guests 81 tho luncheon.
On each slip writ ono word Of n
sentence which give rho date set
for the wedding Nu bog The slips
and arrange them al quail dis
tances In the dough OF a cake before
II IL baked. so that after slicing
each girl will draw one word. AT
| the luncheon let each girl read her
word. in order. thus completing the
announcement.
al have had IN experience
thst want every young girl and
married woman TO know. and ! feel
~ N you will be glad 10 advise me
what TO do. When was 10 years
old I married . good man. He
gave me q beautiful home, dressed
me like a queen and gave me every
cent he made.
One day, through . married man,
and that was bad company (but at
the time ! never knew ~ ! met
a very good looking man. and my
husband being uneducstcd and un-
affectionate, I fell In love with this
man. He loved me and osrcssed
me, and ! was young and thought
N l only had him for . husband.
He coassd and advised me 20
leave my husband and get q d.
vorce. made life 90 miserable
for my husband that he walked
out. thinking he would stay away
for a few weeks and I would real
Ire then, but didn't.
I started divorce proceedings and
got $50 a month allmony and this
man paid oil expenses. In the
meantime ! gave birth 10 a baby
boy, and the second man was his
father. NY husband, thinking the
boy was HIS paid the hospital bill,
etc.
Now am that mans wife and
no 10 a drunkard and . dead beat.
He 10 a. Frisco, living with .
woman. He 10 very fond Of good
looking women. am working ev-
cry day and have my 3-year-oId boy
In . home. NY husband wants me
to come TO hIm--he writes those
love Iettcrs--but never again. And
my first husband. thinking he 10
the boys daddy, never falls TO pro-
vide for him and he always sends
money TO pay for his board and,
after all have done. he 10 willing
to take me back. for my sake a.
we'll as the ohlld's sake.
! am living In the cheapest place