The Cairo bulletin. (Cairo, Ill.) 1???-1928, 1914-03-07

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WIN does hs not a. ~ ans neth-
Cd at hom6: Why dop - Sot asswer
sentiy the Inst few yor6 e { discpra
there. disafin tie stt6e e a-ssfcasn ~
a smile, foreso the victDfy Of his leg
zeal position by word Of tendernsss
or csyess that gives hir aseE sri-
umph through 4 sw<et aprstl % senti-
ment, the fogic Of the beart;
When man Ends that be and hls
business partner. DO not agree be
says In a tone that will not make bic
partner feel that he s being put
through the third degree:
We do not seem to hive struck Ii
right somehow recently: We are on the
wrong trail; we are drifting and We
must find our way hack We are in
this business tosef6er to make It =
success: It needs n BOTH: We need each
other. There ii something wtohg some
how. may b It fault Or Jon. may be
TO blame; perhapk neither Of u Is
cut out for an archangel. Let IA talk
ii all over quietly and see II we can
get our bearings; let us call new deal
and start an over"
But there may be IN 6is home firu
a little woman who realizes that they,
too. are drifting. She, knows 0o$h in
her heart that she loves him and she
needs him and that be loves her. but
somehow little discords. are separating
them.
1t seems as though she is in q 10.
and She has lost her bearings and
the love laden craft of their happiness
has somehow slipped from. its moor
ings In the silence and the dark and il
drifting far out to the great open sea.
And she feels hopeless and helpless:
she wants to do the right thing. bnt
she does not know what she should do
or say that will be right. They nre
just drifting, and she is, tired and
worn, heartsick and heart hungry. and
she wants to be Confronted By loving
arms as we soothe frightened, sob
bling child. She cannot md her way
back--alone. 70 -,
II the husband. so wise .in. his ONCE.
were to transplant his business Wis
dom to the home, he could bring back
the atmosphere Of the old courtship
days in single hour. Seeking not the
blame of either. but the happiness OF
both, with no shadow Of recrimina tan.
he could tell her sweetly. seriously and
calmly. with the. occasional punctua-
ton mark OF Il caress or a gentle pres
sure OF the hand. thHts they need each
other and they have somewhere stun
bled on n wrong traii.and must 20 bacl K
together hand lii hand to find the right
path and they willsget light and lore
from each other, and they viii forglv.
and forget. and they, too. will shave a
new deal and begin all over. II ssss, y.
The resulting happiness Is sforeer
dained. 1t is merely business wisdom.
1t Is eonsecrated common sense. bring
Ing the two home partners, closer To-
gether and inspiring the home firm
with new life, courage dnd confidence.
In business there, dre minor annoy
ances, trivial sirrltationss and petty
trials. usually taken for what they are
worth, accepted as.-.all In the days
work" seen in their proper perspective.
passed by with smile and 4 shrng
Of the shoulders, and forgotten in Il
few moments. In married life tribes
| are often exaggerated. Augmented by
argument, given a fictitious value. VI
tally and force out OF all proportion
to their real impon.f :
Sometimes it takes oulS, three min.
utes from unjust fnpatienre over an