The Bridgeport evening farmer., 1914-05-02

~e-sr~s>s-Nee>ssNr~sse- with Please advise me.
 l A girl of seventeen is too young to think seriously of marriage. Enjoy your girlhood while it is yours. Do not worry about the beaux. The
 right one'' will come along all in good time.
 HE FEmTs WITH OTHER GIRLS Dear Miss Libpey:
 I ans greatly interested in a young man on the rai1road. but do not see 1 him often-he is so busy He seems l to think a great deal of men. and writes me long letters. but he hfrts with other girls Would he do that if
 he loved me Are tango slippers just
 for dancing l The young man who hirts with girls
 cannot be said 10 be in love with any one of them. Do not put too much faith in his protestations of affection -untiI he has proposed marriage.
 There are a dozen different kinds or ! tango slippers. ..'--heelIess are for dancing only.
 DO NOT TAKE THE INITIATIVE Dear Miss Libbey:
 l My troubles, know, sare very diff ferent from those of the other girls who write you for advice, but feel sure that you will show me the right thing to do. s 1T am neither very homely or par tieularIy attractive. and although ! have host of girl friends, am not popular with men. like them all as 1 friends, but there is only one that I care for. and it is of him that want l to talk with you. He is atwidower. 1 and a great favorite with the women; 1 in fact they all dance at his attend ance. I met him a year ago or so | through my cI1um who went with him 1 and little. by little grew to care for him. although he showed me no att tentions. My chum moved away, and since that time he has not gone reg ularly with any girl. He never asks to call on me nor does he even try 1 to get in conversation with me, but l no matter where T am, when he is I around he watches me; not for g few minutes, but all through the evening or afternoon, as the case may be. My | friends have all noticed him and have spoken Of it to me, but in one way or another, r have passed 1t over J l want to make him like me. and still 1 F am afraid to stop and talk and be l friendly for I am so conscious of lik- 1 ing him. and would not for any thing let him know that. catch my self at times acting too dreadfully l indifferent. He is eight years older 1 than am. and he may think of me 1 as ssyoungster. for all the girls l that we both go with are older than l. but L have had to take care of my self for so long that feel as old fl not older than they Won't you please helps me. for to have things go along in this manner makes me mighty un- happy My home is decidedly unset tied, and taking it all in all, 1t is very hard to be jolly and smiling. although T do my best not to get downhearted and to believe that "all's well that ends well
 I It does not seem to me that the wid- over who is causing you such heart pangs is sufficiently interested in you to awaken in your breast the desire 1 to make him care for you Al mans s liking, like kissing. goes by favor. " He is net a novice in love making. He knows how to step forward if he Ihad the inclination to seek your so- lciety.
 | He is probably simply interested in you to the extent that you are the i friends of his last sweetheart. A young girl should not allow her mind to dwell continuously on a man, es- pecially one who has given you no | encoura cement, as far as can see. 4 Try to employ your mind and time 1 with useful n1atters-which will give you little or no time to ponder, day dream and long for what may not be I best for you. Leave love affairs en- I tire1y to Cupid-you will meet the one
 intended for you when he wiIls.s Be | patient. Wait and see.