The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1913-10-08

cabbage to keep on growing until
YOU are covered, like the BaboE In
the Woods were with leaves. Then
lie down and take last long sleep.
when YOU awaken In the next
sphere OF existence YOU may find a
woman who II all sunshine and Joy,
but who does not need 10 be told
so In language that surpasses the
ability of your development at that
con OF time.
OIL am q youss lady. -. and
very much In love with our pas'man.
lie 10 q young man. about 10. aud OF
very quiet disposition. realize his
position will not allow him 10 stop 10
tsll on other than official business.
Nt.. Grey. please tell m. how eau
show him that I care Tor him without
being bold. LONELY.
A.-Don't try H. The man may
be married. At least consider that
point. II the postman thinks any
thing OF you he has ample oppor.
tunlty 60 show you. Some postmen
have very engaging manners.
grant, but few women dare take the
initiative in showing a deep aftcc'
ton without appearing cheap.
"a. Z have q minute to spare.
Z thought Z weuid write and ash you
Co suggest . few suitable pfe.ents
for . hey Of ~ To give his mother,
something that weuidnt cost ever
ss. Thanking yoa very much. and
hoping I ~iii zee ssm answer
~. ". n.
"A shopping bag. shoulder
cape or a ''hug,me-tight," which IL
A croeheted. sleeveless house Jack.
et. a writing desk. n pair OF ali7'
PEERS, a fountain pen or the i've IL
self. viii be appropriate.
o--I have be-a marrtsd four
n,anth.. aud have Kept u secret
tlr~d ID married hf~. .nd h.. lrft
me 4 cannot iesat~ her, Have
good rroanas Tor divorce. and ~.aid
Yea advise noe 10 set enef u.pi"G
90 hear from ,oa. BILLY joSfs'
A-Do you want me to sanction
your wlsh for divorce 80 that
your conscience will not hurt you
too bad when YOU get one. marry
some other Girl keep u secret ana
probably give her some cause 10
leave your Nay. nay. Buy. You
took great care not 90 tell mo the
reason for secrecy in your marriage
There are very few cases where Sc
crecy IL Iustifiable. for Il usually
places the girl IN very bad lighf.
ana III. man. except In rare cases
generally has some Interior reason
for Il | certainly cannot recon-.
mend freedom through tho courts for
YOU. The fact that you care 80 Ut
Il. about your wife as 10 almos,
Immediately want a legal scpara'
lion units you TO enter the matri-
uoniai market so soon. You VIII
hav. TO be separated a year nj
least before you can get a divorce,
II your plea r. desertion.
o-K,raiy answer th~s~ questions.
and 10 will thank soa very mach
what viii be good ssme for
club sf siris'
What e.n ws do Ia eatestain'
Suggest . nir~ lunch "a ssrse 81 this
club. Eve tntsua to invite ear hoy
TREAD. every two we~ssl'
What !. tho esspes way to eat
club house ssndwiehr
A.-Yon might call the club the
Good Time Tillloums or the Socia'
bllity club.
Now that fall IL here and outdoor
games will soon be debarred. Indoor
croquet or tennis. or even the OLD
fashioned bean-bag Same VIII be
fun.
Serve sandwiches. apples and
nuts, pickles or cheese, and some
thing 10 drink.
Use the knife and fork in eating q
clubhouse sandwich.
Owe are two ehums. "a and ~.
There IL . young man In our neigh
4 borhsod who has been PAYING ne
gr~at deal Of attention. Vow, Miss
Gr~y We do not care for bis atfrn-
| tian, and our mothsvs think We are
| foaii.h. What esn No do 10 convince
them We are riEhsT
Alt seems too bad that soms
mothers act as II their daughters
don't catch a beau as soon as they
are out OF swaddling clothes they
will be eternally damned. Real,
they take a deal more interest ir
| finding them beaus than they do n
their future welfare. Then, later
when the girl develops the verJ
line OF thought the mother started
the latter throws fits. Why or
earth can't mothers allow their chill
dren 10 develop naturally and be
wise enough to simply direct then
in ways that every one knows are
right?
show your mothers this answer
Maybe II will convince them thai
girls OF your age should not have
their minds directed to beaux. j
your mother don't know better
Won ought 10 be content to trea'
bows lust as you do girl friends and
let beaux go for awhile.
| o. am % young Giri brought up
| TO regard dancing. smoking and tho
| attending Of theatres NJ evil doing.
Ny fispce, very as-n'nx ,"""s
| rbsp, IL - devofee to these evils.
/ am very much In love with him. and
| he PROMISE. 10 reform. Under these
| conditions. would you advise our mar
| riageg My parent. strongly object
| 10 a. A. am Of age, ! mean, Of
rour.~, 10 do rs Z wisb. hut . dislike
the idea Of committing nm act which
| will cause displessure. and perhaps
break their hearts. Thanking you,
ANXIOUS.
A.-No one can tell what am
man or woman will do one week
one hour or one minute from now
/ can't tell what will do myself
I think will answer these letters
but | may get n telegram calling m'
10 Europe, or I may go out and az
slst the managing editor, or 10 NJ
IN an airship, or something else. 81
I can't tell whether or not the youni
man Will reform" But do know
this. n were going to marry
man who had habits ! did not Ike
he would have TO reform BEFORE
MARRIAGE, and long time be
fore, for me 10 be pretty certain u
| uas REFORM