Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-04-15
One Answers
the Other
BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX.

K love with a young man who
4 ~ though cared a lot for me. I
have been out with him and let him
kiss me q couple Of times. and now
when ] meet him he scarcely notices
me ! haven't done anything 10 hurt
his feelings, and can't understand it.
What shall / do to make him love me,
for ! am just heart-hroken?'
Anxious" asks for information
81 am deeply in love with "a young
man whom / have been out with only
few times, yet think I know him as
well as if / had gone with him for years.
Now I am sure this young man re-
turns my love. because the last time /
was with him he asked me To kiss him.
! refused and Il seemed to Lrieve him
go that I promised to kiss him AT a flu
ure date WIN IL be wrong Jo 90 so2'
will ask Anxious" 10 read the dis
tressed letter Of "K. NJ GO She loved
young man and thought he cared a
lot for her. and she kissed him
couple Of times" which, I am sure,
in the unaccountable way i'm which low
ers keen count, was much oftencr thar
"a couple of times" as understood in
prCSHlC reckoning.
She thought. with her loving little
heart intent ON winning him, that b.
she pleased him boy letting him Kiss
her she would have his love certified
and sealed, ready 90 take To- The mar
rlaEe license bureau.
She says plaintively that she did moth
ing to hurt his fealiuEs. No, hut she
did something calculated tu bring hurt
20 her own. lie asked her for Hiss
She gave il as freely as IL Ec had asked
for book or a fan.
lie made no professions Of love: he
had not asked her hand in marriage.
ne had given hvr no sign that hc cared
more for her than ne might care for
dozen others. ! contend than IN giving
him a kiss. under these circumstances.
she gave him something which Do, has
reason for pricing lightly.
Her kisses were SO easily won they
aroused the suspicion that other mon
could win them as easily. Consequently.
mau-Iikc, he lost an ,lste for them,
and all regard for her
Anxious" says that She knows her
lover as well, after going out with him
few times. as IL she had gone with him
for years The innocence and arrDg
ance Of youth are an that save such "a
claim from provoking smile. After
she has known any man for years she
viii decide that she really doesn't know
him at all.
She loves this man, and is sure DE
returns her love. "hCcause Dee asked
her TO kiss him" The heart cf the
best man is patterned like the heart
of a Mormon, hut even the most zeal
Gus Mormon does no; loyn every Eirl
he asks Ter q Kiss. and Nfc is too sEurt
to permit him 60 marry every girl Dc
kisses
From tro mans r".u, rr view. fIr
kiss b. uHstmc Prom the vumau.s.
20 is sacrament ur love. F,r rc~
own sake, then. iU giving This privilege
to man. She must learn Erry re zee
cards BE-.
Is. NJ C's distressed experience
proves how one man regards il can.
iuusr SAYS her lover is Er.cvoG because
she refused Better have . lower Who
IS grics-d because the Kiss va- rec
fused than ONE vrn A. r.E'r.iul be-
cause ID was granted.
% would hn TRACE tN."- Fl E.s rg
went ou. or fashion. hal b. IS . .raa.r
thing when 90 ,uues I'm fashion ls.r.
/ the eugaEcwcur ri"S '- ,1 100" Eris
TuEg-
Experience is che boss gaIour-t
7 VIII Those girls VINO ra,c ag. got -Fer-
( al read Tie letter CO Is. ". o.. and ur
Z th, other way