The Pensacola journal. (Pensacola, Fla.) 1898-1985, 1913-06-25
Heart and Home
y II BY Mrs.
TOn/OF77 9 Elizabeth
Thompson.

Dear Mrs. Thompson: % viii you
please tell me what is good for gray
hair, as | am only twenty three years
old and my hair is turning gray? The
ends are also splitting. 90 What is the
matter with young man, when he is
nice looking and dresses nice. but can't
get sweethearts? He seems to be nice
. to them and is not bashful. He viii
call once and they won't take to him
somehow. 90 How is the best wav II
punish a boy of four years? 1 have
tried sPankings and he doesn't seem TO
care about them much. C4) A friend
OF mine wants to know what she can
DO to please her husband? She does
all she can to keep him from coming
homo at night mad, but he is all r1ted
UP every night and wants to fuss with
her.
THELMA.
% Perhaps your health is run down.
Eat nOurishing food and take outdoor
exercise Also, don't worry or work
too hard. Rub a little coal oil into the
scalp every day and brush the hair
Well at least once day. Do not wash
it Oftener than once month SINCE
the ends once a month Massage the
scalp with the fingers a good deal. (2)
Maybe he is too fresh" with the girls
or he may be a bore. Girls don't like
either kind. CD You might try depriv-
ing him of something he really cares
abOut-something good for supper or
playing with other children. etc Tell
him why you do it and be very firm
about carrying out your purpose %
Perhaps she tries too hard to please
him. That is apt to riIe some men
Let her be little more Independent.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: ~ Is it
proper for a girl keeping company
with her Chum's brother to go up to
her chums house? I am eighteen
years old. 90 Is it proper for boy
TO stand out a t the front door and
talk 10 a girl after taking her home ?
80 If a girl had been keeping steady
company with a boy and he shouId go
away some place else and work,
should she go with other boys?
CHUMS.
go, but she should not go too often.
(2) If she does not invite him in he
should take his leave at once. go If
you are engaged to the one who has
won't care to go with other boys very
much. If you are not engaged there
is no reason why you should not go
with the others.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: 7 am a girl
eighteen years old and will be very
grateful for any advice you may give
me. I kept steady company with a
young man, little my senior for over
year. We thought everything of
ca en- Otner and were to be married in
a year or so, as soon as finances would
permit Some time ago he changed his
POSITION and now has a desk next to
seemingly attra Ctive girl. He took her
several places without telling me, and
when I asked him about it he acted
very unconcerned. Lately he has
broken several dates with me, but
when he is with me lie says he can
never give me up. He admits admir-
ing this other girl, but says it's only
passing fancy" What shall / do? |
Some have advised me to forget him. |
but that's easier said than done. 1 !
have gone two or three places with |
another young man, but that does no |
good. I feel that l can't give him up, |
for each day it seems my love for him |
increases, but sometimes he hardly |
speaks to me.
DOUBTFUL DOROTHY.
Your young man isn't much more ,
than a kid my dear, and really hasn't |
settled what kind of a girl he likes |
best. You may really be the one, but |
about the best thing for you to do now |
is to give him free rein. Let him see /
that you can do without him. Go with .
other young men as much as possible. |
Let him think you have a good time |
and are perfectly happy, no matter
how you feel. He may try to show
you he doesn't care, at first but in
time he will tell you that you're not
treating him highland then you may
be sure he cares for you. If he does
not feel himself neglected and deeply
injured by your conduct, you may
know that he doesn't love you and