Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-06-25
Stay the Same
By BEATRICE FAIRFAX.
,EnERPLEXED." who seems 20
have a distorted notion Of the

have a distorted notion Of the
valuation OF mans love. wishes
10 know II she and a friend whose Woe
is OF the same texture shall change their
dispositions and win the love ~ man,
or remain as they are and stay single.
In this manner she describes her
plight: Both girls are good looking, they
are agreeable. as well educated as 9TH
er girls. and dressed better than many,
yet no man comes Wooing
'Wo do not allow men 10 hug and
kiss US" PerpleXed writes, because
we know they hug and kiss other girls
and talk vilely about them afterward,
and We don't want TO be talked about
in that way. For the reason that we
are reserved. and do not chatter sense
lessly. run after the men, and act crazy
about them. We are left severely alone.
We would like 10 go 10 dances. parties
and theaters with the boys but they
don't seem 20 care 10 take us. Should
we change our dispositions. or remain
the same as we are and stay singleT
Remain as you are. PerpleXed and
don't get the notion into your foolish
little head that that necessarily means
has many lovers seldom marries The
girl who goes with this boy to-day and
another boy tomorrow, proving by the
number OF men who dangle around that
she possesses certain kind Of popu-
larity, is never the girl who marries
first, and seldom the girl who marries
well
The man worth while, my dear. may
seek a maybe for an evenings amuse-
ment. but he VIII look elsewhere when
seeking a partner for life. He never
marries a girl who gives him kiss
for the mere asking. and who. he knows,
kissed yesterday and r the day be-
fore. and loft some mark OF affection
on every letter IN the alphabet.
Must Be Young.
You did not state your age. but !
am sure you are extremely young, for
only the youthful look at life so darkly
At eighteen you consider yourself a
hopeless spinster. and when you are
twenty eight you win be less alarmed
both at your years and your pending
fate
Neither will you call that pending
fate DOOM" as you do now finding
more reason every day you live that you
did not make a choice when too young
10 choose wisely and that your happy
girlhood has been prolonged
To talk OF changing your disposition
in the hope OF attracting lover is
idiocy. You are as the Lord and your
mother made you. and I am glad that
the product Of their efforts is some
thing natural and sane. Il is JOY to
know Of two girls who do not strut and
ogle and firt and paint and powder and
preen their feathers to attract the men.
II is pleasant to learn there exists
two young women who do not walk
out as II dressed FOR market, and who
do not impress all sane beholders with
the opinion that they are making a
very great display of very inferior
wares
Increased Pleasure.
My dears. be just as you are! Go &c
the theaters with your mother. II will
increase your pleasure in the play to
know you are giving pleasure 10 her
There are dances to which you can 60
and have a good time, though only
girls attend. There are no bars 10 any
good, wholesome amusement TO keep
out women unless some male escort
attends
Don't NOPE because your lover is
long on the way. and don't shed any
tears IL he never comes finding con
ISOLATION In the remembrance that many
10 whom a lover has come would change
places with you II they could
II Is finer and better, my dears, "a
remain single because the right man
failed 10 appear than 10 know the plight
81 the millions Of women whose terror
OF spinsterhood was so great they mar
ried the wrong one.