The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1913-09-23


TO fool" you Il not worth your
time.
wish parents would realize that
In cases like this. as IN some 9th.
era, There IA strength IN numbers.
As YOU value your peace OF mind.
don't imagine yourself In love. but
have good time With the boya
and girls alike
al am . ,aanK lady 81 "a. and
have e-en Euiux with q gentleman
for four years. and I lihe him aaite
bit nut there are ists Of nice
hoy. around hsrr whom q tiks Iu.t a.
we'll Do ysa thtHk u waaid he
mice Zoe me 60 tell hiua 60 find ss,ae-
body elder than mes Ne l. e.
Thanh Nor.
Al believe In young people as
soclating with those OF about the
same axe. In your case YOU proha
bly, feel that you are not grown up
enough 90 be too much In the com.
pany OF a young man so much older
think YOU are right His opinions
are TO degree formed Yours are
not. and u much better for you
that your hoy companions be those
who are nearer your own age. You
feel | am sure, that you arc too
young TO have boaux hut a girl IA
never too young TO associate with
boys u her own axe, and II she IL
sensible, and requires them TO be.
great mutual benefit results.
Q--i am seunK slri Of IS. and
am very attractive. bo Nsu ,re any
harm In fiirtins with the beysr
ai.s. do you think thrrr &. harm
IN letting boy Hiss yea good nixht
N you have kncWn him Tor two
thr~- w~~kss Ny beau 3. very At
fcctlonste. aud I do not like Is tell
him rot 60 kis- me. a. rather en-
Joy t. .inS~s~ly hope 70 .ss yeat
answer. HpsAtt>p.
A.--And I sincerely hope you will
see Il. YOU poor. bcnlghted little
piece OF humanity, ! wish ! could
say something that would bring you
out OF the woods In which YOU have
lost yourself while engaged In ad.
mlratiou OF self. Pray stop for
moment. at least. and try 20 see
how small girl Ia who thinks OF
nothing but her face. her form. her
attractivcness, her beau and the
silly worship OF an equally silly boy
I presume your beau Ia about the
axe you are. and I want you 20 re-
member that boys OF that age are
usually affectiouhte. and that
should you throw him over he will
begin without delay to tell some
other girl how attractive she IL. ask
her 10 kiss him. and worship her as
readily as he does you now. Assert
your innate womanhOod and refuse
to offer your lips 10 every stranger
you meet who seems TO be affcc-
tionAte. and gives you foolish
compliment Are you making OF
yourself the kind Of a mother you
wish 10 giva your children when
you marryT II you are old enough
to hink Of thlngs at all. you are not
too young TO think Of their future.
OIL am e~-.tant reader Of
your advice. ssn~ time ago !
nstirrd . xiri stated .h~ 80. In love
With n married man. snd wanted :"
know N u vSaIa se rich, Go trp 90
ain him from hi. wife. fsur sd
vice wa. st.-tisnt. Z want To .sy
that married a giri when she va.
10 and ~. sud moved 10 New
York. wh.r, lived happily Tor
~ year~-
ON. nixht at . dance . received
an tntroda~tion Co a ysuux LADY who
ssnied to fall In love With me at
sne.. She separated a-. and I maj
ri~d h~rl but I want to ssy that
.ach marriage. are not good
can how my wife cried. I
thouxht nothing sf ~ Thea. bat the
pats q have suffered through r.mers~
/. klning nae. eannt b~ hapy wiih
my present wife. All the sunshine
va. lost when ! lost my first wife
Thl. has horn my lesson u does
not pay.
BROKEN HEARTED HUSBAND.
A-You are right II does not
pay. No doubt the girl did very
wrong. and am not upholding her
for a moment but you are TO blame.
too. You need not have fallen In with
her at the expense OF your honor
and your wife's peace OF mind. BE
Just to both women. and bear your
part OF the responsibility. A man
or woman who allows another TO
come between the most Intimate re
latlons OF human life has himself or