Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-06-25
Stay the Same
By BEATRICE FAIRFAX.

GGD ERPLExED." who seems 10
have a distorted notion Of the
valuation Of mans love, wishes
20 know II she and a friend whose woe
is OF the same texture shall change their
dizSositions and win the love Of man,
or remain as they are and stay single.
In this manner she describes her
plight: Both girls are good looking, they
are agreeable, as well educated as 9TH
err girls. and dressed better than many,
yet no man comes wooing
''wo do not allow men TO hug and
kiss US" PerpleXed writes, because
we know they hug and kiss other girls
and talk vilely about them afterward
and we don't want TO be talked about
In that way. For the reason that We
are reserved. and do not chatter sense
lessiy. run after the men. and act crazy
about them, we are left severely alone
We would like TO go TO dances. parties
and theaters with the boys, but they
don't seem to care 10 take us. Should
we change our dispositions. or remain
the same as we are and stay SINGER
Remain as you are. Perplexed and
don't get the notion into your foolish
you will remain single The girl who
has many lovers seldom marries The
girl who goes with this boy to-day and
another boy tomorrow, proving by the
number OF men who dangle around that
she possesses a certain kind OF popu-
larity. is never the girl who marries
FIRST, and seldom the girl who marries
we'll
The man worth while, my dear, may
seek a maybe for an evenings amuse-
ment, but he viii look elsewhere when
seeking a partner for life. He never
marries a girl who gives him a kiss
for the mere asking. and who. he knows,
kissed A yesterday and 3 the day be-
fore. and left some mark OF affection
on every letter in the alphabet.
Must Be Young.
You did not state your age, but /
am sure you are extremely young, for
only the youthful look At life 30 darkly,
At eighteen you consider yourself a
hopeless spinster and when you are
twenty eight you viii be less alarmed
both al your years and your pending
fate.
Neither will you call that pending
fate a doom" as you do now, finding
more reason every day you live that you
did not make a choice when too young
70 choose wisely and that your happy
girlhood has been prolonged.
To talk Of changing your disposition
in the hope Of attracting a lover is
idiocy. You are as the Lord and your
mother made you, and / am glad that
the product Of their efforts Is some
thing natural and sane. Il Is a Joy TO
know OF two girls who do not strut and
ogle and firt and paint and powder and
preen their feathers to attract the men.
II is pleasant 70 learn there exists
two young women who do not walk
do not impress all sane beholders with
the opinion that they are making a
very great display Of very inferior
wares
Increased Pleasure.
My dears, be just as you arel Go to
the theaters with your mother. II will
Increase your pleasure in the play to
know you are giving pleasure TO her.
There are dances to which you can go
and have a good time. though only
girls attend. There are no bars to any
good, wholesome amusement 20 keep
out women unless some male escort
attends
Don't NOPE because your lover is
long on the way, and don't shed any
tears N he never comes, finding con-
ISOLATION in the remembrance that many
TO whom a lover has come would change
places with YOU II they could.
II Is finer and better. my dears, TO
remain single because the right man
failed 10 appear than 10 know the plight
OF the millions OF women whose terror
OF spiusterhood was so great they mar
ried the wrong one.