The San Francisco call., 1913-09-23

should do CONFUSED.
~ II. fudge, you and your '1iked
the second and loved the frstn'
What are you doing. anyhow ?
Trying 60 make yourself think you
are dead in love-when you aren't
even in knee deep?
What shall you do. indeed? What
shall any one do who isn't in love
with the girl he is paying attention
10? Go on being nice to the girl and
stop trying to make her or yourself
think that you are in love with her.
You don't have to be, you know
with either or them-and whisper
Confused" 7 wouldn't worry about
the serious young lady and her deep
interest in you. Ten to one she's
just mailed a letter asking what to
do to a man who seems to be dead
in love with her. Think about some
one else. as she is too serious ever TO
csre deeply for one so light minded.
WHAT'S THE MAT-TERs
What's the matter with all you
young fellows. anyhows Don't you
want to have any fun at all before
you marry and settle down2
Marriage is the thing for you. of
courDe. the only real thing for any
one But you don't have to marry
the FIRST girl you say howde-do to-
or fall ip love with her, either-do
you?
s. And the first girl-she thinks there
are plenty of young men who can
give her all the good times she wants.
=; Is that what she liked you for-the
sgood times you gave her?
Didn't she care any more for you
than that-poor. silly little thing?
How could you ever think OF being
serious with a girl like that?
And as to the pretty" part-when
2 .. mans been married to woman six
? :Tsenths he doesn't know whether
she's the prettiest girl.in Oakland or
.the- ugllest woman who ever lived. If
he loves her she's pretty to him and
. If he doesn't love her shed look ugly
5 to him if she was Venus and a
broadway broiler and a saint all
rolled into one.
A QUESTION
. Beauty! How many happily mar
ried men are married to beauties?
Honestly. now, young man, think it
over and you'll see.
Ard then-what have you to offer
8 beauty. anyway?
Beauties want fine clothes and
fine house and automobiles and Jewels
to set off that beauty. They're born
that way. What are you going to do
TO make them contented and happy
with you-a man in average circum-
stances?
ss You're going TO live with the
woman you marry a long, long time,
i hope. Find out before you think Of
marrying at all whether she's the sort
of girl that you'll love better every
year Of your life.
3, Is she good humored? The prettiest
> thing on earth is hideous when she
ffowns.
Is she. light hearted? One of those
:. sad. lonely women viii drive love out
; or any mans heart in less than year.
Is she good. is she in love with you,
: really, truly IN love? VIII she stick
70 you through thick and thin-you
two together against the whole
SyorId II things come to that pass?
: Can you see yourself spending long
vacation with her. just with her, and
not wishing you were back at work?
no. she doesn't have to be brilliant
for that, nor wise either. She has TO
be your kind. the kind that your
nature seeks-and you must be her
ga Rind-and that's all there is to II.
-: stop Weighing and balancing and
guessing and puzzling over the two
girls. Puzzled? You aren't in love
with either of them. II you were you
wouldn't be the least little bit puzzled.