The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1913-09-29

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your solutions to problems
every night, and l wish you
. would be SO kind as to help
me.
l have been married only
one month. The first week
my husband treated me fine;
but now he comes home mad
nearly every night. l ask him
what's the matter, and he
won't answer. Miss Grey,
1t very nearly breaks my
= heart, when / know l have
not done anything to cause
1t.
sit alone from morning
till night, and when he comes
home he is no company, and
won't let me go out with my
girl friends. Sundays he goes
away and stays all after
noon, and leaves me alone. i
can't stand this all my life,
He thinks because 1 am mar
ried l am not supposed to go
anywhere. He used to take
me to dance before we were
married, but now he won't.
Please answer because / am
heartbroken. Do you think
he is getting tired of me?
A YOUNG BRIDE.
A.-DOn't be silly just because
you are in love with your husband,
and he don't come up to what he
promised. 1t is no use to run
away from problem. Try to
work it out on the home ground.
Put aside your hurt feelings, and
have a quiet, very quiet, talk with
him. Give him a good dinner be-
fore the talk, and have on your
prettiest dress. Above all, have
on reasonable, and truly lovable
state of mind. Tell him you are
an individual now just as you were
before You married. That you have
q right to fresh air and sunshine
and healthful exercise, and that
he need not expect you to sit al
home while he goes off for a good
time. Don't get angry, but state
facts kindly, and plainly. If your
girl friends are the right kind,
there is no reason why you should
not go with them occasionally, and
invite them to your home. But, if
i were you would not run around
to dances with anyone else. Tell
him you will give up that much,
but you won't be a hermit. As the
old preacher said: keep sweet
and kam." 1t is just possible he
has some great worry on his mind.
Dear Miss Grey: What do
you think about this? A GER
tain young lady of our ac-
quaintance, engaged to q
travelling man, kissed him
goodbye as he departed on
the train. We all thought
this extremely out of place.
What do you think of it?
A.-HOnestly, think it their
own business. Personally, do
not care for public exhibitions of
affection, simply because the pub
lie don't have the right idea of it.
But, If more kissing were done in
public, and less in private, the
world would be a sight better.
Dear Miss Grey: Will you
please tell me how to proceed
to adopt a child? To what
homes shall l go for one, and
is it necessary for both man
and wife to go? ! also want
to know If a child can be
taken care of without adopt
ing? Any information will be
greatly appreciated. Sincerely,
G.. F.
A.-YOu will find the addresses
in any city directory, or telephone
book. Gall them up and ask their
method. After the application Is
I'm, one must allow the Alone" to
make investigation, for you know
1t is not right to place a child in
q private home without that, and
no sensible person will object. A
child can be taken on trial. Oh
Just to be cared for for awhile.
Dear Miss Grey: Please
tell me how to clean a silver
AhCoh bd6 that ud6 q Wulld
kid lining, which cannot be
washed. Thank you.
A READER.
A.-You might try the regular
cleaning mot coolking) gasoline
Do not go near the fire with it
Dear Miss Grey: The 9TH
- er day asked a friend his
birthday, but he wouldn't
tell me the date. He said he
was born in 1877, Pentecost
day. VIII you kindly tell me
the right date? p. s.
Alt will require more re
search than I have time to give
Pentecost was festival held the
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