Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-06-25
Stay the Same
By BEATRICE FAIRFAX.
E6DERPLEXED." who seems 10
have a distorted notion Of the

ECH ERPLE8ED," who seems TO
have a distorted notion Of the
= v<fuation OF mans love. wishes
10 know II she and a friend whose woe
is Of the same texture shall change their
dispositions and win the love Of man.
or remain as they are and stay single
In this manner she describes her
plight: Both girls are good looking, they
are agreeable. as well educated as 9TH
er girls. and dressed better than many.
yet no man comes wooiug.
''Wo do not allow men to hug and
kiss us" Perplexed writes, because
we know they hug and kiss other girls
and talk vilely about them afterward,
and we don't want TO be talked about
in that way. For the reason that We
are reserved. and do not chatter sense
lessly run after the men, and act crazy
about them, we are left severely alone
We would like TO go 20 dances. parties
and theaters with the boys. but they
don't seem TO care 10 take US. Should
we change our dispositions. or remain
the same as we are and stay SINGER
Remain as you are. Perplexed. and
don't get the notion into your foolish
little head that that necessarily means
you will remain single. The girl who
has many lovers seldom marries. The
girl who goes with this boy to-day and
another boy tomorrow. proving by the
number Of men who dangle around that
she possesses a certain kind Of popu-
larity is never the girl who marriss
first. and seldom the girl. who marries
well
The man worth while. my dear, may
seek C. maggie for an evenings amuse-
ment. but he viii look elsewhere when
seeking a partner for life. He never
marries a girl who gives him kiss
for the mere asking, and who. he knows,
kissed yesterday and b the day be-
fore. and left some mark Of affection
on every letter in the alphabet
Must Be Young.
You did not state your age, but !
am sure sou are extremely young, for
Only the youthful look at life so darkly
At eighteen you consider yourself
hopeless spinster. and when you are
twenty-eight you viii be less alarmed
both az your years and your pending
fate.
Neither will you call that pending
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more reason every day you live that you
ia not make choice when too young
20 choose wisely and that your happy
girlhocd has been prolonged.
To talk Of changing your disposition
IN the hope of attracting lover Is
idiocy. You are as the Lord and your
mother made you, and am glad that
the product Of their efforts is some
thing natural and sane II is Joy 60
know Of two girls who do not strut and
ogle and firt and paint and powder and
preen their feathers 10 attract the men.
II is pleasant 10 learn there exists
two young women who do not walk
out as II dressed for market. and who
do not impress all sane beholders with
the opinion that they are making
very great display Of very inferior
wares.
Increased Pleasure.
Ny dears be Just as you are! Go 10
the theaters with your mother. II will
Increase your pleasure In the play TO
know you are giving pleasure 10 her
There are dances TO which you can go
and have a good time, though only
girls attend There are no oars to any
good. wholesome amusement to keep
ont women unless some male escort
attends.
Don't NOPE because your lover Is
long on the way. and don't shed any
tears II he never comes, finding con-
ISOLATION In the remembrance that many
10 whom a lover has come would change
places with you II they could
II is fner and better, my dears, TO
remain single because the right man
failed to appear than to know the plight
az the millions OF women whose terror