Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-11-04

IRE third deadly mistake of matrimony tsz u
TO MARRY OUT OF YOUR CLASH
ThiS / true whether you marry above or NS1o,w
yourself whether undergo the torture OF pa
alizng that you are being dragged by your hus
of being hoisted or her level Their Ia
no peace nor happiness In either process.
If would be happy though married don't marry
out Of your own class either financially socially ntsI
of money but this only unimpOrtant when advan
rich without endangerlng their chances Of domestic
bliss since custom makes man the purse bearer ana
woman the recipient of his generosity but man
marries a rich woman at his peril
Marry in your own social class Men make the mia
take Of marrying out of their own order Oftener
women do because there is tradition that the husband
abroad where the wife of duke becomes duchess
though he took her from the Elums but 1t is In
mans social position determined mainly by his
ANOTHER ILLUSION.
The illusion also obtains among that they can do.
hing husband pleases Misied BY this theorx
man who comes of cultured and refined people sn6
ries girl the social scale one VIII.
has had little education whose family noria
and whose associations have been nd vuIRar
He believes that marriage will change her into the
likeness of his mother and sister but stronger
than marriage ana as she grows older she like
her own people You cannot change blood and breeding
the man 1soss taste is for tborougsbreS % eno
self and her, too long they live her
the impossible, expecting in her the qualities
As for the who a man out of her 30
al class God pity him and her both, for there moth
Ing else earth that gets much womans nerves
as husband of whom she is ashamed, assurediy
nothing decorating a mans vanity
than wife who stands in the attitude him schooI
mistress and mistress OF department. con-
tnualy correcting him and telling him can de-
and mustn't do.
THE REAL CAUSE
Nine-tenths the tragedies of matrimonv ~. ~.
direct results OF people not marrying own intel
lectual class Men captured by beautiful face marry
women whose heads stuffed with sawdust Immature
girls, blinded by romance marry no more in
a
money making machines Then those men and women
bgbrained. great and broad of svmna
thy they for life 70 thoaa len
and who do them II /. a. ~
one vitality alive bound hand foot to a CORPSE
religious II place the moraIitieS
and the conventions marry Of the same jIk
ments Don't marry sinner believing thas
you forgive his-or her-fsut and that you VIII
reform him her.
You forgive but will forget and aYwo~~
the blackness of the wrong that has been done and
that cannot be ignored will shadow your happiness
Not often man marres a with ccrn
donay he does however but II almost turns out
we'll No matter how straight the wife walks the hus
band is always Suspicious of times of domestic
by he throws up to her tba thIUS
that she most wishes forgotten. 1t cowardly and
uns enerous thing to do. but very human.
The who haSsown his wild fares bettar .hsn
the woman when he marres. So does wife for meu
snd women sinners are not Judged by same stand
people recalling her husbands past than a. h
for husband to know that gossip busy with his 4fa-
but all the same doubtless the with noble
Christian WIFE VINO is lifting him the higher
life could unfold tale suffering that wouldp't r9vs
the early martyrs anything him
We had we'll face the first last
piness in matrmony 10 to be found only in coDger,
atty and like best and along comfortably
with those who born same things thai "a
WERE who about same amount of nnonav ths
education who used the same conventionn
and who thu tastes in literature pic thai