The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1913-12-03
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Oboe. bali roam etiquette de-
mand that q sirt he introduced 10 u
gentleman NJ public dance before
dancing with HIM Pleas. answer as
soon "a. possible, aud obilss.
4 oIRi on FIFTEEN.
Al believe at some public dances
they have a paid introducer who
VIII introduce any stranger who
has the price To pay for dances at
. cents u dance 10 any girl with
whom he wishes 20 dance. The
one who introduces the couple does
not know either. and men often
give assumed names.
The dances | attended were pri-
vate parties. or university or school
dances. and at those dances when
a stranger IL introduced II In by a
friend. who feels responsible 20 n
degree for the man he introduces
The public dance hall ia no place
for n girl OF Is. II Is against the
law. and wish every mother who
has u daughter who attends would
report the manager 10 the authori.
ties. II they can't keep their daugh.
ters away any other way. Now.
my dear. have told you the truth.
With this knowledge. II Is up to
you whether or not you feel cheap
enough TO dance with strange men
at FIVE CENTS A DANCE.
Dear Miss Grey: ] cannot pass
by the opportunity TO say n few
words TO In Earnest" tho young
mother who wanted TO know II Il
pays TO learn 10 play cards be-
cause her husband likes TO play.
Her letter indicates that she IL
capable OF weighing the evidence
submitted and deciding the quos-
ton in n satisfactory manner.
am young man s6. have
met aud known card players OF all
varieties. but l do not play, At
home we were taught that card
playing was sinful and To-Day 7 am
thankful for that training. We are
told to avoid tho appearance OF
evil and cards have that appear
ance.
A little child In the home should
bind the parents closer together. IL
the husband really loves his baby
he will rather play with Il than
play cards. II he must play cards.
why not suggest finch. pit. etc. :
They do not have the appearance
OF evil. My experience Is that II
does NOT pay TO play earda.
A HOME LOVER
Dear Miss Grey: Anent the card
playing: II seems TO ba an inner
ont trait in human nature 70 Judge
other peoples likes aud dialikch by
our own.
A card enthusiast In anxious 10
get everyone into the game be
cause he firmly believes they arr
missing one OF the joys iRdlcd out
10 us on this mundane sphere.
think one should know the com
mon games well enough 10 take
hand. as he can add TO the pleasure
OF others by doing no. In cards M
In everything else. We should have
regard for others. always remen-
bering there Ia n line OF dcmarca-
ton where our personal rights be-
gin and tho seinshness OF others
ends
Personally. at any time ! would
trade a hand of four aces with the
crowd all staying In" and a sky
limit for a good book. but ] realize
that a person bumped over book
Ia not an entertaining or interest.
Ing object 10 any not bitten by the
book worm. A TWo'sfoT'
Dear Miss Grey: cannot toll
In Earnest" what TO do. but ! can
tell her what not 10 do. and from
n broken heart. Do not stay at
home with your innocent enjoy
ment OF baby. books and needle
work. and let your husband go TO
prlvats amusements with nice girls
who know how 10 play and enjoy
cards
EXPERIENCED GRANDMA.
OIL am greatly In need Of help
Z am . p>pr orphan gtst. snd do s"f
have good health. snd have . hard
time To buy cloths. and pay doctor
biIis and feed myseif. ] am mar
~ 10. About two yesrs ago ! wac
60 marry n man whom ] loved as
dearly. Z think. - u 10 sny w"snsn's
power To love. Jusf before ~ we're
To he married he died. and I am
sur~ Z could never low. another man
~ I did him.
have met . man who h abie 10
take care Of me. who loves me. and
wants 20 marry mel bot although
s~spcet him. . cannot love him. One
wosnsn friend Of mine sdvis~s me Co
marry him. for che knows sii about
my former disappointment. ] Will
greatly appreciate your opinion on
thi. matter. Please tell me what you
wrsaIa do ~ef' 20" n ny ~, p'ses
Al have read somewhere that
the best thing TO do when one Ia
undecided Is to do nothing. I have
found II works splendidly to walt
until one Is directed by fntelli-
gence to know Just what to do.
Your answer will come sooner or
later II you will wait until you can
make your own decision.
II seems to me that back OF your
friends advice and your question
TO me Is the thought that By mar.
rying you will be provided for sub.
stantially. That side of the ques-
ton should not be taken into con
side.ation In the way many people
do. II Is unnecessary to marry
lust for support. Do you remem-
her that Jesus once said: "Consid.
or the lilies OF the field how they
grow. They toll not, neither do
they spin. yet say unto you that
even Soloman In all his glory Is
not arrayed like one OF these"
The same power that supplies the
flowers will provide for you II you
viii continually look to II, and
work and play as happily and cas-
lily as a child. Try II and you will
so improve In health that you VIII
not speak Of yourself as n poor
orphan" but know that there In but
one father of us all. the Life which
We embody.
Dear Miss Grey: In regard TO
the young man who wants to stop