Barton County democrat. [volume] (Great Bend, Kan.) 1885-1915, 1913-02-14
BAMA AS A BRIDE.
By FRANCES A. WALKER.

1
! had often heard my mother and
grandmother describe the negro wed.
dings on the plantations in the old
days in Virginia before the war. How
the dining-room generally would be
decorated for the occasion, and the
conscientious mistress would see that
cake and wine were provided. that
Judy, or Betty. or Sally las the case
might be), had white dress and her
man q new suit Of clothes, and that
they were properly married by the
nearest Episcopal minister new.
er failed to admonish them beforehand
on the solemnity Of the marriage tie
and their duty to each other.
An earnest effort was made to i'm
press upon them the sacramento
character Of the act, and everything
was done "decently and In order"-so
that l was very interested when q
friend In Mississippi, on whose planta-
ton I was visiting, informed me that
her maid "Balma" was going to be
married, and / must certainly witness
the ceremony.
What an odd name!" l volunteered.
Where did she get it,"
I'VE asked her mother that" said
my friend, "and she said: Don't you
read yo' Bible? Amt you never heer'd
of the Balma Gilead?' So she's called
'Balma' for short"
How very funny"
Eyes, but it's nothing to the names
of the twins, the youngest members
Of her family, two of the most absurd
little pickaninnies you ever saw. They
are called respectively ''Postle Paul
and 'Pistle Peter, and will, no doubt,
figure at the wedding"
A few days later, when l went into
my friends room, she was busily en-.
gagged in finishing off white organdie
for Balma's nuptials, and was con.
templating it with a good deal of sat.
isfaction, when the "bride-elect" walk.
edin with a bolt of excruciatingly blue
ribbon and asked her. please, ma'am
to trim it up with that" So, although
it went sadly against the grain, and
wounded all our aesthetic sensibilities
we festooned, and looped, and TO
setted the garment to any extent to
galma's great satisfaction. She show
ed every tooth in her head and pro
nounced it "jes' dazzlin'!" which II
certainly was.
The preparations being finally com
plete, We were duly summoned to the
cabin Of the BRIDES mother, where the
ceremony took place in due and an
cient form.
The groom (EzekieI was a very
good-looking young negro. and was ar
rayed in butternut trousers and 8
black coat-a present from his mas
ter.
He seemed to be in delicate health
however, as he leaned heavily on the
arm Of his walters" and could hardly
support himself, but l soon discovered
that this was part Of the etiquette o.
the occasion.
The preacher was of the typica
stage variety-black, clothes, buck
wing collar, and huge horn spectacles
. over which he contemplated the cou
/ pie, who stood up in front of him, will
great severity.
The next day the happy pair called
at all the cabins ian invariable custom
on the plantations), and then m!
friend told me that they had gone of
on wedding tour, round trip OF
, the Belle Of the Bend to Vicksburg.
Accustomed to see all the newly
weds" back in the cotton fields tn,
day after wedding, she questioned
Balma, on her return, with no it'll,
interest as to how she had enjoyed
J the trip.
Nightly. ma'am! Nightly! sho1,
did enjoy it."
"And how did Zeke enjoy it," W,
queried.
"zeke?" she echoed in establishment
! "Zeke? You think I'd let dat fool mig
ger go on a bridal tower with me, ant
spend my money! No, ma'am. lief
him behind to pick cotton; amt n,
use spoilin' him that-away. Ell 70,
begins right you ends right. Dat
what | say" And with these sent
: ments she founced out Of the room
whereby we perceived that the germ
OF the suffragetta movement had nana