Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-06-25
Stay the Same
BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX.
EDERPLE%ED.F who seems 10
nave q Distorted notion u The


eH Ei't Li--A-l'' WI" seems ''
have a distorted notion n the
4 valuation Of mans love, wishes
10 know IL she and a friend whose woe
is Of the same texture shall change their
disposition and win the love of man,
or remain as they are and stay single.
In this manner she describes her
plight: Both girls are good looking. they
are agreeable, as wei educated as 9TH
er girls. and dressed better than many,
set no man comes wooing
Two do not allow men 20 hug and
kiss us" Perplezed writes, because
We know they hug and kiss other girls
ard talk viiely about them afterward,
and we don't want 20 be talked about
I'm that way. For the reason that We
are reserved. and do not chatter sense
lessly. run after the men. and act crazy
about them. we are left severely alone.
We would like 20 go TO dances, parties
snd theaJers with the boys. but they
don't seem 20 care 10 take us. Should
we change our dispositions, or remain
the same as We are and stay single?'
Remain as You are. Perplexed and
don't get the notion into your foolish
r little head that that necessarily means
you will remain single. The girl who
has many lovers seldom marries The
girl who goes with this boy today and
another boy tomorrow, proving by the
number OF men who dangle around that
she possesses certain kind Of popu-
larity is never the girl who marries
first, and seldom the girl who marries
well
The man worth while, my dear, may
seek o maybe for an evenings amuse-
ment. but he win look elsewhere when
seeking a partner for life. He never
rnarries a girl who gives him a kiss
for the mere asking, and who he knows,
kissed a yesterday and the day be-
fore. and left some mark OF affection
on every letter IN the alphabet
Must Be Young.
You did not state your age, but I
am sure you are extremely young, for
only the youthful look at life so darkly.
AZ eighteen you consider yourself a
hopeless sp,nstcr and when you are
twenty eight you twin be less alarmed
both az your years and your pending
fate.
Neither viii you call that pending
fate doom" as you do now, finding
more reason every day you live that you
did not make a choice when too young
80 choose wisely and that your happy
Eirlhood has been prolonged
To talk Of changing your disposition
In the hope Of attracting a lover is
idiocy You are as the Lord and your
mother made you, and I am glad that
the product of their efforts is some
thing natural and sane. II Is a Joy 60
know Of two girls who do not strut and
ogle and firt and paint and powder and
preen their feathers 10 attract the men.
1t Is pleasant 20 learn there exists
two young women who do not walk
out as II dressed for market. and who
do not impress all sane beholders with
the opinion that they are making a
very great display Of very inferior
wares
Increased Pleasure.
Ny dears, be Just as YOU are' Go TO
the theaters with your mother. II VIII
increase your pleasure in the play 20
know you are giving pleasure 20 her
There are dances 10 which you can 30
and have a good time, though only
girls attend There are no oars TO any
good. wholesome amusement 20 keep
cut women unless some male escort
attends
Don't NOPE because your lover Is
long on the way and don't shed any
tears IL he never comes, finding con-
ISOLATION iutthe remembrance that many
20 whom lover has come would change
places with you II they could.
II Is finer and better. my dears, 20
remain single because the right man
failed 90 appear than to know the plight
OF the millions OF women whose terror
Of spinsterhcod was so great they mar
ried the wrong one