The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1913-10-09

j am married ] am not supposed 10
40 anywhere. lie used Ca take me To
dances before We uerr married. but
naw he won't ri~a@- answer. beeaus~
! am hrartbroLrn. DO sou think he
!. getting tired Of me-
SOt M BRIDE.
A Don't be silly because you
are in love with your husband and
he don't come up % what he prom
Used. II Is no use 20 run away from
"A problem. Try 20 work Il out on
the home ground Put aside your
hurt feelings and have quiet. very
quiet. talk with him. Give him a
good dinner before the talk. and
have on your prettieat dress Above
all have on reasonable aud truly
loyable state OF mind. Tell him you
are an individual now. just as you
were before you married. That you
have right 20 fresh air and sun.
shine and healthful exercise. and
that he need not expect you 10 cit
at home while he goes off for a
good time. Don't get angry. but
state facts kindly and plainly. n
your girl friends are the right Kind
there Is no reason why you should
not go with them occasionally and
invite them 10 your home Tell him
you will give up that much. but you
won't be hermit As the old
preacher said Keep sweet and
kan II Ia just possible he has
some great worry on his mind.
The Dove Send me stamped
and selfaddrcaSci envelope for "a
private answer cannot publish
your letter. CYNTHIA GREY
Q--f ~oold nk. 20 ask yaa f.r
same advice . have a boz 81 IA
tntii last year he all right
that H. he ~~nt To school. aud work
ed after ssheai. and earned what he
needed nicely. since last year he
doesn't .~sr, To care for anything.
not for clothes. nor for WORK
Z am willing 10 help him. although
Z arm poorl hut he even refuses to
~oEue bors-. cant Imagine whsrr
he ~@ts and sl~~ps. for he has NO
nien~y. Please advis- ms what TO
do. Thank you.
\ rHOtnLrD MOTHER
A-Your boy has evidently come
to a critical period In his life. He
needs you now more than ever be
fore. Your help must not be anx.
ious. but wise Something has come
up that he finds difficult to meet.
and with the pride OF youth he Is
bearing II alone. II Is your duty 10
find out whether he has formed bad
habits OF any kind. whether or not
he is in love" whether in n hasty
moment he has done something
which he regrets 80 much that IL
has taken all interest In life from
him. You must see him and assure
him OF your staadfast confidence In
his manhood and OF your love. DO
not cry and plead. but love him
with great and patient mother
love. Select the thing In which ne
has been most interested before
this change and adapt Il TO n means
OF livelihood for him II possible.
II you know a good business man
see II no will not offer the boy
work-not through you. but directly.
Q-I am - and under the In
fiuenee Of bachelor much elder
than myseif. lie has lots Of money,
aud II always giving He presents.
which my mothrr tells me To accept.
He made me promise not To tell n
saul. have started several tlmc-
20 tell mother but NJ SURE I do.
his face u before me, aud I feel tho
power which he has creep over mr.
What shall I do, shall I take the
medicine h. gave mrs
BHowS EyEs.
A-This man Is simply frighten-
ing you. He has no power over you
Throw the medicine away and tell
your mother at once. II she does
not project you go at once TO the
nearest juvenile Judge and tell him
everything. You have back Of you
greater power than any wicked
man can have over you. Don't hes.
itate DO as ! say at once. Then
write me again. will look for
your letter.
o. am - young married riri 81