The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1913-05-29

i w Hot ethd IN any more
OF your wives confessions withou,
your own along with II. q. n. H.
THE sApoEsT WORDS.
Dear Miss Grey; l. like so man,
others. come 20 you with m,
troubles. Some years ago. had e
break off with my old girl. and IN,
only Girl | ever loved
came West 90 prepare for on,
future. and while here. got tangled
up with another giri. aud Of course
married her against my will.
try for the sake ~ my three
children TO be happy: but am sad
and discontented. I sometimes
see my old giri on tho car. She
came West later and married.
hear she IL happy
l want to warn all young men
and women not 20 make such a mis-
take as | did. II has ruined my
life. and | will never be man
/ again. bat ] am not so ready "a
put al the blame on the woman
She 10 n good woman. but the
other one Is on my mind all the
time She was 50 good and true'
We had kept company for nv,
years.
What shall DO to make mysel,
more con;ented and forget the
Past Many thanks A VIKING
A-"of all sad words OF
tongue or pen. the ,adoest are
these, u might have been.-
In relItsN L.
minds. although 80 few people
seem TO realize IL. N our
thoughts arc sad. we In turn
become melancholy: n they
are evil. we are so: likewise
" We flll our minds with tho
pures,. brightest and best
thoughts we cannot help but
be 30 20 a certain extent.
Certainly you Will never be
man again, N you refuse 10
change your thoughts. You can
be, II you will: u rests en-
tIrely with you. Quite true,
you made mistake. and cor.
rected u 20 some degree when
you married the girl; but you
are making another mistake
each day you negiee, your
I wife and children 10 dream Of
what might have been and
Girl who 10 now wed happily
to another. BE thankful that
she is happy ard that your mis-
take did not ruin her life.
u Is not possible. ! know. 10
utterly destroy the spark Of
true love when u once burns
brightly. but we can make that
love sacred and pure by facing
stern duty with resolute will
| 10 conquer. This love will be-
come a source Of strength and
peace when you learn TO turn
u into the right channel. LET
the pas, dead bury l,s dead"
The present Ia all you can take
care Of.
INFLUENCE
OF THE HOME.
Dear Miss Grey Ny husband
goes off on business, or tells me he
does. and don't come home when
/ he should: but gets drunk and goes
/ 20 card parties DO you think he
would flirt with other women when
he Is drunk? lie Is good and kind
wien ri home. but goes off on
these occasions
/ DO you think II would be wronR
for me 10 go flirting when he II
gomez love him and would not
/ flIrt. only thought maybe q
would bring him back TO me.
He loves children very much and
wants us TO have one. DO you
think he would stay at home more
or is II best We don't have any.
HAZEL EYES.
Alt will be decidedly Inn
/ proper 10 flint. " each Of US
took 10 doing something wrong
because someone else did, this
world would soon grow 60 evil
Il would be impossible for US
to live here at all. Your hus-
band does wrong. but your self
respect and pride should pre-
vent you doing likewise.
A home 10 not home With
out children; NJ the same time,
when contention and disagree
nent take the place OF har-
nony and the husband 10 sd-
dIeted 70 the drink habit, II ls
lust as we'll not 20 bring child
rem Into the turmoil.
II your husband would euro
himself Of the drink habit,
without a doubt a child In the
home would make great DIFF