El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1913-10-11
Love an Event With Women
With Men 1t Is an Occurrence, and
Not a Very Important Affair
With Some of Them.
Nv Reafrfcf. EairfaE
By Beatrice Fairfax

18th woman, love is an event;
w with man, it is an occurrence
w There are many proofs that
men love more lightly. more frequent
ly, more critically. more selfishIy than
women.
None of it." says Cupid, displaying
his stock of, mans love. "is as good
and pure and faithful and unselfish
as the love of a woman, and there Is
disilIusion in store for the girl who
expects it,
As proof that men love lightly.
Somewhere, there are four girls in
love with the same man. This is the
way he writes about it.
q am in love with four girls, and
they are in love with me. One Is a
blonde who talks. Another has light
brown hair and cooks. One is dark
haired and is a musician, and the
fourth is brunette and dances
Which of the four would be the most
economical for me to marry2
Doubtless each one of these four
girls thinks she is the One-lOve-for-
life in this mans heart For his part
he will not remember their names six
months. He is loving like a man.
They are loving as woman loves.
Advice Wasted.
Advice to such an extraVagantly
emotional creature is wasted, for the
reason that he has forgotten ere now
that he asked it. If he Remembered
and accepted it, his love for the girl
suggested as the most economical
one to marry" would not survive the
tar He would not take advice. so
why give it, for not one of these girls
is the girl for him.
Is Much Worried Girl.
very much worried girl tells of
another variety of mans love. She
and her sweetheart have been in love
with each other for two years, and
the only time he ever gives her is
Sunday afternoon and evening, plead
ing in excuse that the ride to her
home, which requires an hour is too
long He is faithful, reliable and
honorable; this is his only fault Shall
she give him up?
By no meansl That would mean to
lose him, and I don't want any girl
to lose mans heart when it is both
SOUND and whole. Mixed with his
love there is a grain of laziness and
several grains of pOsseSsive selfish
ness, which means that he feels so Sc
cure OF her affection he doesn't think
any effort is needed to retain It.
Don't ask him TO increase the num-
Der or his calls. Never mention the
subject again, but occasionally tell
him in the most innocent Way OF the
VIII not come in response to entreaties
but he will come oftener~ to inquire
into your happiness. That is the way
man loves
A TEghtwad.
Sophia has been keeping steady
company for a six months with a man
of good habits, of fine moral char
acter. and who calls sometimes four
evenings a week. But his time is all
ne spends on her. When not calling
on her, he is going to the theater, or
otner places of amusement all by
himself. He tells her ne loves her,
but SO far hasn't shown proof in the
piI Tt;. OF a 1ioWer or gum drop
With the lamentations of wives of
penurious men ringing in my ears. 1
can only urge, and almost command.
Sophla, to refuse to see this man again.
ne loves IN the way many men love,
its object.
Another girl writes:
am 20, very attractive to the op-
poslte sex, and this worries me because
50 many men propose to me One of
tnese men is now threatening to kin
himself unless I reciprocate his af-
! t &c IONS What shall I do to prevent
Refuse him, Of Counsel He will mr.
kill himself. and if he did he WonIS
De DONG you a greater kindness than
II he compelled you. under such
threats, to marry him.
Ahother little girl walls that her
..0Ver IS indifferent to her before folks
She doesn't know that it is GOOD
sense TO confine demonstrations of
aIIectlon TO moments when thew are
lione- she says he is good. honorable. |
ALnu' renaDle. and her mother ap-
proves With SO much in his favor.
| nope she viii forget his fault. IT is /
"a dangerous TO make too much Of a lit !
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