The Topeka state journal. [volume] (Topeka, Kansas) 1892-1980, 1913-12-17

they made : Point Of being mtxoduood1
to each other whenever they met IT q
now house IN their social progress. II
wouldn't have done to let the ho9teaB
know they knew each other.
Naturally had to dreas . little bet
ter and spend > good deal ON the girls
who were helping mo to make = posi-
that think she liked the idea Of my
going about with the swells. - she
called my frienda Liked It very much
until began to compare her with the
mothers OF the girls knew.
For Z time things were very unset
tied at homo, but at last got my way
and persuaded father to build . new
house ON the South Side. I shall new
or forget our first party. mothers low
gown and fathers evening clothes and
how 1T turned out that really found
my husband through that same dre6.
suit
1t was easy enough to dress mother
but father simply baked when I
spoke OF dress clothes. I was 1t my
Wits end when remembered that
one OF the boy1 who had been taking
mo driving had got ON splendidly with.
father Il used to say Pop in those
days), when he came to see me.
The next time met him put It to
him quite frankly and asked him to
4e~e1s Aoe49sA4O
or frame Of mind. He was q good
scout and told me he had had the
very same trouble with his father. He
was 20 adroit In his management Of
Pop" that the next thing I knew
they were making appointments at the
tailor's- The next thing but one Pop
was putting my friend In the way Of
became engaged.
Then one Of the girls actually asked
me II dared to risk q home wedding.
She said she knew lots Of girls em-
barrassed as I was who had made
runaway marriages just to get away
from the family. doncherknow!
But had q church wedding and 1T
was a splendid AFFAIR.
The groom's mother came back
from Europe in time to be present.
She IL one Of those eastern women
who do not know there is such a thing
as q climber. She accepts my people
as typical of the west. They look
other world. She brings out all that
is fine in them and seems actually to
enjoy their simple ways.
am sometimes little lonely ana
once or twice have risked q snub
for the sake Of saying something, the
merest commonplace. to a strange
woman standing next to me at q re-
ception.
The snub has always been forth
coming, but even snubs can be taken
az details In the days work. The only
danger IL that exposing yourself to
snubs too often may make you cal
lous.
To be callous h fatal to climbing.
Sensitiveness will warn Of danger be-
fore 1t Is too late and a smile win dis
arm many an unfriend1y intention.
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