Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-06-25
Stay the Same
By BEATRICE FAIRFAX.
GCDERPLEXED." who seems TO
have a distorted notion of the
valuation Of NM L.. ..-s.,.-.

6CDERPLEXED," who seems 10
have a distorted notion of the
valuation of mans love, wishes
to know if she and a friend whose woe
is of the same texture shall change their
dispositions and win the love Of man.
or remain as they are and stay single.
In this manner she describes her
plight: Both girls are good looking. they
ere agreeable, as well educated as 9th
x girls, and dressed better than many.
ct no man comes wooing.
"Wo do not allow men TO hug and
kiss us Perplexed writes. because
we know they hug and kiss other girls
and talk vilely about them afterward,
and we don't want to be talked about
in that way. For the reason that we
are reserved. and do not chatter sense
lessly. run after the men, and act crazy
about them. we are left severely alone
We would like TO go to dances, parties
and theaters with the boys, but they
don't seem to care TO take us. Should
we change our dispositions, or remain
the same as we are and stay single D"
Remain as you are. Perplexed. and
don't get the notion into your foolish
little head that that necessarily means
you will remain single. The girl who
has many lovers seldom marries The
girl who goes with this boy to-day and
another boy tomorrow, proving by the
number Of men who dangle around that
she possesses a certain kind Of popu-
larity, is never the girl who marries
first, and seldom the girl who marries
well
The man worth while, my dear, may
seek a magpie for an evenings amuse-
ment, but he win look elsewhere when
seeking a partner for life He never
marries a girl who gives him a kiss
for the mere asking, and who, he knows,
kissed A yesterday and B the day be-
fore. and left some mark Of affection
on every letter in the alphabet.
Must Be Young.
You did not state your age, but I
am sure you are extremely young, for
only the youthful look at life so darkly.
At eighteen you consider yourself a
hopeless spinster, and when you are
twenty eight you will be less alarmed
both at your years and your pending
fate
Neither will you call that pending
fate a doom" as you do now finding
more reason every day you.live that you
did not make a choice when too young
to choose wisely and that your happy
girlhood has been prolonged
To talk of changing your disposition
in the hope of attracting a lover is
idiocy You are as the Lord and your
mother made you, and I am glad that
the product of their efforts is some
thing natural and sane. It is a joy to
know of two girls who do not strut and
ogle and hirt and paint and powder and
preen their feathers to attract the men.
1t is pleasant to learn there exists
two young women who do not walk
out as if dressed for market and who
do not impress all sane beholders with
the opinion that they are making a
very great display Of very inferior
wares
Increased Pleasure.
My dears, be just as you are! Go to
the theaters with your mother II will
increase your pleasure in the play to
know you are giving pleasure to her.
There are dances to which you can go
and have a good time, though only
girls attend There are no bars to any
coed. wholesome amusement to keep
out women unless some male escort
attends.
Don't NOPE because your lover is
long on the way. and don't shed any
tears if he never comes, finding con-
ISOLATION i'm the remembrance that many
to whom a lover has come would change
places with you If they could
It is finer and better, my .dears, to
failed To appear than to know the plight
OF the millions of women whose terror
Of spinsterhood was so great they mar
ried the wrong one.