El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1913-07-07
Do You Want to Be Hated?
How a Girl Can Accomplish This
With Ease When She Goes to
Visit With Friends.
-Rv Beatrice EafrfaA
By Beatrice Fairfax -
livery season offers great OppOr-

LIVERY. season offers great oppor-
= tunities for the achievement Of
- the ambition of the girl who
wants to be hated. and in no season
are these opportunities as limitIess as
the summer time
For it is then when the largest
home is too small for the comfort of
the faded, worn, fretted and half
baked jewellers therein. when the girl
seeking uupOpularlty has only to pack
her trunk buy a ticket. and she is on
her way to achieve it She becomes
a self-inyited guest, causing the
family of her hostess TO become more
faded, more worm more tretted, and
completely baked in the necessity of
crOWding up closer to make room for
her. and of increased attendance on
a hot stove to provide for her enter
Do YOU want to be hated? You re-
sent such a question, and declare that
no girl wants to be hated. And you
are right; no girl wants to be hated,
but hatred is the sentiment she in
spires If she planks herself and
trunk and valIse down on defenceless
friends with no other purpose in view
than a qualification of her own sell
fishness.
Live in New York.
We will suppose that her friends
live in New York. The girl wants TO
see New York she writes that she is
coming. However, that plan admits Of
delay and failure. a better way is to
telegraph and then start before their
excuses for not receiving her can
reach her. If she has any reason for
knowing that it is most convenient
for them to meet her on Sunday, she
must plan to arrive on any of the six
week days. There is nothing like
starting this chase for unpOpUlarity
on the right foot
It is quite the proper and graceful
thing for her to let her hostess pay
for sending up her trunk and to make
amends for this when it arrives by
taking from II an impossible hand
painted chrome or a nickel dish one
has won at card club and had no
use for, presenting II to the hostess
with the compliments OF those at home
The girl will be taken to all the
show places, and she should have with
her a list of all she has ever heard
of and many that do not exist, and
which she must produce every morn
ing at breakfast with the declara-
ton that she must see this, or that,
or the other or her visit will be
spoiled When taken on these out
ings it is always customary for the
guest to hang back and give her
hostess unhampered opportunity for
paying the carfare. This is so i'm
pOrtant that many guests who are
sale have been known to suddenly
become almost paralytic when reach
ing the loot of the Il or the top or
the subway steps.
Another Hint.
If the hostess hasn't an automobile.
it is quite the proper thing from the
guest point Of view to recall some
one from SpOdunk or Kalamazoo who
now lives in New York who has and
to say every hour: IF I visited them,
THEY would give me a good time"
I would suggest that the candidate
for unpOpularity remain all summer;
that she lie abed in the morning.
thereby causing an interruption in
the household routine That she re-
member her manners and tell her
hostess twice q day not to go to any
trouble for her. and then by hints or
open preferences for certain dishes see
that she does.
She has come to see New York. She
must see it regardless Of the cost to
her hostess's purse. patience or time
She viii be cordially hated when she
leaves, but will have seen New York
In similar manner and in an equal
degree any girl may gain unpopular
ity if she makes herself an unlimited
guest anywhere and at any time.