Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-04-15
One Answers
the Other
By BEATRICE FAIRFAX.

~ N. O. writes. ~ am madly iu
< love with a young man who
L ~ though cared lot for me. I
have been out with him and let him
kiss me a couple Of times. and now
when / meet him he scarcely notices
me. I haven't done anything 10 hurt
his feelings, and can't understand it,
What shah / 90 to make him love me,
Tor am just hoart-broEen2''
Anxious asks for Information
- am deeply in love with "A young
man whom ! have been out with only
a few times, yet think ! know him as
wen as IL I had gone wi,h him for years
Now I am sure this young man re-
turns my love because the last time !
was with him he asked me TO Kiss him.
refused, and it. seemed 20 Erieve him
~o that promised 90 Kiss him at a flu
.ure date. WIN % be wrong 10 do so?"
win ash Anxious Go read the dis
tressed letter of TX. NJ. e." She loved
young man and thought ne cared
lot for her and she kissed him
couple of times which. am sure,
n the un9ccountable way IN which low
ers keep count was much ofteuer ihau
"a couple of times as understood ia
prosaic reckoning
She thought, with her loving little
heart intent ON winning him. that II
she pleased him boy letting him kiss
her she would have his love certified
and sealed, ready To take Geo the mar
rage license bureau
SHE saws paiutivcly that she did moth
ing TO hurt his tcalinE 40, but she
diH something calculated 90 bring hurt
To- her own lie asked her for Kiss
She gave 60 az freely as IL he had asked
for book or fan
Tie made no professions of love. nc
had not asked her hand in marriage:
he had given her mo- sign that he cared
mo@e for her uhan hc might care for
dozen others. 7 contend thar in giving
him Kiss, under these circumstances.
she gave him something which he has
reason for pricing lightly
tier kisses were SO easily won they
aroused the suspicion that other men
could win them as easily. Consequently.
mau-HJc. he lost an taste for them,
ami an regard for her
Anxious says that she knows her
q few times, as IL she had gone with him
for wears. The innocence and arrog
ance of youth are an that save such a
claim from provoking a smile After
She has known amy man for years she
VIII decide that she really doesn't know
him al all.
She loves this man, and is sure he
returns her love because he asked
her Go kiss him The heart of the
best man is patterned like the heart
of q Mormon, bust even the most zeal
Gus Mormon does not love every girl
he asks Tor kiss and life is TOO shor,
% permit him 10 marry every girl lie
kisses
from the mans point ~ view. the
kiss is uastme. From the womau's
30 is sacrament Of love Fer her
own sake. then, Ia giving this privilege
Jo man, size must learn how he re-
CARDS IT,
* NJ C's distressed experience
proves how one man regards it, "AuN-
ious' SAYS her lover is grieved because
she refused Better have lover who
is grieved because the kiss was re-
fused than one who is neglected. be-
cause it was granted
10 would be a tragic thing il kissing
went out Of fashion. bus ia is a tragic
thing when il comes IN fashion before
the engagement ring is on the girls
finger.
Experience is the hes; guiGepost
VIM those girls who have not Yet Weld
al read The letter Of Is. NJ g. and turn
the other way