The Seattle star. [volume] (Seattle, Wash.) 1899-1947, 1913-10-21

full mud profitable for you. some
thing that will be- real mans WORK
In the world. 80 do not be dlncour
aged II you do not got into this.
u have read many Of your an
swrrs. and wlsh you would Ei," me
one, am boy Of ~. ! work
eNet day, and 80 10 school. own
horse sud several other things. but
am odd from tho other boys. an
very bashfui when . am where the
siris are, aud when . trJ 10 do ~
oth.rs do, they laugh at me viii
be very thankful n you win tell me
how Ia overcome this.
ANXIOUS
A. Don't try 10 do as others do.
That little short rule ~ all | want
you TO follow, People who are not
like the others" are the ones who
make their mark In the world, and
are sought for out In the world
BE natural. only by being 80 can
you enjoy life, Whom you try to
ape others. you fall down | hate
10 see people following the crowd
like n flock OF sheep Never mind
who laughs nj you lie who
laughs last laughs best"
o.--I am 10 be married In short
time. and Wish yau would tell inc
whit To wear my head instead 81
veil Ny dr~.s IL q soft white
satin, The ceremony win take place
nj 30 o'clock NJ home. with only "a
few relatives aud friends
WIN II b~ all right 20 have ring
bearer and no other attrndnntsT
HtfDI. fD~ffI
4 Wear "A silver and white hair
ornament. or ham band 4 ring
bearer viii be appropriate.
al am 2a, aud came 90 this
country four ,sar- aEo. There left
Eift my age, We were srhoolnnte-.
then ssreth~arts. We have known
each other since Wo were ~. she
finished school. and il well ed-esi.d.
and sorkins IA a bis bsnk. she has
written quite often. and answer
promptly, In her last hitter IN.
spoke nic~ly about our sweet rhiid-
hood dreams. and the future when
are going 10 have dear little home
81 cur own. she must he thinking
have made lots Of money in this
country. aud she wants me 10 come
back a. soon possible. aud get
married right away In my answer
told hrt ! am oni) common
working man. left school and did
not learn any trade, aud don't have
steady occupation. IL really L. pretty
hard Ia set along. . told her
couldn't come before 1914. when the
canal traffic. opens and besides.
Intend To SO back that year. . have
not had an answer 60 that letter.
Mis. Grey. do you think "a .. heesus.
Of my pe.itionf she 10 s~ry smart.
and reads and speaks several Ian
Euss-s. ! told her straight out how
l. out h"r~. Prom what said
am afraid she fak~~ me Tor "a hobo.
! wait for Jour kindly answer
OkIN-uTAHrED.
A.--You may have shocked her
by your crude description. aud
there may DO dozen other rea.
sons Why she docs not write Ev.
cryone In this country knows
there are good men In all sorts OF
positions II you made mistake
In not taking an education, why
not do something IN that line now
Everyone can take advantage of
the free night schools. or even u
a man spends little that way. II
L.. well invested Every man can
read good books for nothing az the
public library. where heat. light. at
tendance. and books cost him moth.
ing A man Is not dlHgraced by
working In a ditch, but he il II he
gets down In the mire mentally.
You cant expect 10 be anything OF
companion for even "A well.resd
girl. II you become mentally lazy
Improve yourself for your own
sake. other things will work out
all right.