Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-10-03

IN nth woman Love is an event;
| w with man, it is an occur
| renee. There are many PROOFS
that men love more lightly more fire. D..
| quently, more critically, more selfish
| ~ than women.
None Of it," says Cupid. display
| ing his stock of Mans Love, lis as
| good and pure and faithful and un-
selfish as the love Of a woman, and
there is disilluslon in store for the
| girl who expects it,"
As proof that men love lightly:
Somewhere, there are four girls in
| love with the same man. This is the
way he writes about it:
81 am in love with four girls, and
they are in love with me. One is a
blonde who talks. Another has lighs
brown hair and cooks. One is dark
| haired and is a musician, and the
! fourth is brunette and dances.
Which Of the four would be the most
economical one for me to marry7"
A strange question from one who
commits the extravaganza Of think
| Ing he loves four girls at once There
can be no waste Of bread and butter
after marriage more ineXCusable than
this waste Of emotion before
Doubtless each one of these four
girls thinks she is the one love for
| life in this mans heart. For his par:,
| he will not remember their names sl>s
months. He is loving like a man
They are loving as woman loves
Advice Wasted.
Advice to such an extravagant,v
emotional creature is wasted, for tho
reason that he has forgotten ere now
| that he asked it, IL ne remembered,
and accepted IT, his love for the GIL
| suggested as the most economical
one to marry" would not survive the
| route from the engagement to the al
| tar. He would not take advice. 50
4 why give 1t, for not one Of these girls
| is the girl for him. The man who
! loves wastefully is the man who VIII
| have to be sheltered inside the hone
| after marriage while his wife stands
! outside and keeps the wolves awav,
| and not one of these girls GEMS 10
| be on the salaried basis that matri-
| mony with him demands.
\ very much worried girl tells Il
| another variety Of mans love. She
and her sweetheart have been in love
| with each other for two years, AMI
| the only time he ever gives her is
! Sunday afternoon and evening, plead
/ ing IN excuse that the ride To hcT
! home, which requires an hour, is TOO
long. He is faithful, reliable anu
| honorable; this is his only fault. Shall
: she give him up?
A Tightwad.
| BY no means That would mean to
| lose him, and | don't want any girl
! to lose mans heart when ii is both
| sound and whole. Mixed with his
/ love there is a grain of laziness and
! several grains of possessive selfish
| ness, which means that he feels so
| secure Of her affection he doesn't
] think any effort is needed to retain
! it. Nagging and entreaties only con-
! firm such a man in his belief that
! eXertion is unnecessary. and this little
| worried girl must dry diplomacy
! Don't ask him to increase the num-
| Der of his calls. Never mention the
subject again, but occasionally tell
| him in the most innocent way Of the
| gentlemenNw who call during the week.
| He will ND come in response to en-
| treaties, bA/ he viii come oftener t"
| inquire into your happiness. That is
! the way a man loves.
Sophia has been keeping steady