The Tacoma times. [volume] (Tacoma, Wash.) 1903-1949, 1913-10-02

Dear Miss Grey: Please
tell me what is the correct
attire for a man who is to
be married at the minister's
residence in the morning.
have requested this before,
but have seen no reply. l have
been a constant subscriber
for your paper for eight
years and do not understand
why sensible question like
this should be ignored.
Sincerely,
BACHELOR.
Al remember you, and
both your letters. The first was
answered in an issue soon after.
The second request was accom-
panied by the information that
You had been out Of town, and
had not gotten your paper. Now,
comes the third, blessing (?) me
as plainly as you dare to in print.
1 cannot take space to repeat an
swers for people who do not take
the trouble to get their papers
when out of town. Had you sent
q stamped, self-addressed en-
velOpe, you would have had al
hasty reply. II You don't learn
| to be more considerable to yOur
wife than you have been in this
matter L am sorry for her. Our
files are open to the public, and
you are welcome at any time to
consult them free of charge.
Dear Miss Grey: AS L
haven't many confidential
friends, come to you for ad-
vice. I am %, and a Har-
ward graduate, in very good
circumstances, and desper-
ately in love with nurse.
She is very pretty, we'll
educated, and refined. have
known her for almost two
years, and have gone with
her steadily for six months.
I have always heard that
nurses are immodest and de-
ceitful, and too free with the
doctors. and I have known
1t to be the fact In several
cases. From my standpoint,
the doctors have rather
familiar air when conversing
with this nurse-although
that is probably caused by
her extraordinary attractive
ness. Nevertheless. the
woman / marry must be my
wife alone. Answer in your
column as soon as possible.
BANK CASHIER.
A.-There are nurses, and
nurses; doctors, and doctors, bank
cashiers, and bank cashiers.
Good and bad In all professions.
Have you never known Of q bank
cashier who failed to come up to
what he ought to be? Does that
make yOu any less man because
you, too, are q cashier?
Nurses sometimes get credit
for immodesty when in reality
they are more modest than their
accusers, who are SO terribly
shocked (because they have vul-
gar minds) IL one calls q spade q
spade instead Of wrapping 1t in tin
foil for the benefit of those who
can't stand the sight Of . common
| garden tool. Doctors and nurses
join hands in the struggle to ward
off death, and disease, and forget
that the world has decreed that
certain parts Of the human bodies |
arc unworthy mention, or should |
call for . blush. They are above
such rot. or course there are
Others, whose minds dwell on the
low and vulgar. And it is for you
to decide to which set your sweet
heart belongs; but what you
think familiarity may NOT be SO.
Study the qucstion thoroughly be-
fore deciding.
Dear Miss Grey: I am q
girl Is. and in love with q
young man, I'll. We went to-
gether about month, then
he went away. His name Is
George, nice, good-looklng 4
young man, who has . very
few bad habits.
When he went away / gave
him my picture. and he said
he would send his; but he
has not, and no letter. What
shall do? He has made
me promise never to 80 with