The San Francisco call., 1913-09-05
The
Cure for
Jealousy
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BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX

X[oUR husbands sister is jealous
OF you and wants to get him
away from you. does she. little
woman? You've been married two
years and every time you've quar-
relied it's been about that sister or
something she tried to get your hus-
Dand TO do. She makes fun of you
and he can't see 1t. She gets you
into false positions and he can't real
ize It. She makes you believe your
husband wishes he'd marry the girl
g he was so sweet on before he met
You, and you cry and tell him you
% wish he'd married his old sweetheart,
so there,
And then he's cross and won't speak
fer day and you wish you were
dead and she always happens in to
see you just at that time and gets
you to say things you don't mean
and, oh dear, what shall you do, and
was ever a human being SO afflicted
before?
There. there. little girl, don't cry.
It doesn't do a bit of good, the cry
ing II does harm-lots of harm
that's why the jealous sister Is al
ways making you do it; she wants
TO do you harm, poor, silly, small
minded thing, and you are playing
right into her foolish hands, you
Iunny little woman, you
Turn right around in those tracks
or yours and turn today-this very
hour She wants to make YOU quar-
rel with your husband-weu. don't
Vou do it. Be sweet to him, sweeter
than sugar ever dared 10 be- Tell
him how nice he is and how good to
alook at, and how clever, and tell him
you are so sorry for the old sweet
heart She must feel dreadfully at
having to give him up-and say you
don't blame her at all for loving him.
and tell him you think his sister is
sweet, and tell sister so, too
Every time sister tries to hurt your
feelings, act as if you thought she
loved you sincerely and was trying to
help you and be, oh! so grateful and
so good and so loving. Tell sister
how much brother loves her and how
you admire him for il. Tell sister how
you love brother and how anxious you
are for brother to love you. Tell
brother that you want sister to like
you-and never, never let her dream
that you think she is mean. or schem-
ing, or jealous or anything that she
should not be.
Don't understand, don't see, don't
realize-don't you know that a soft
bran wall is the best thing in the
world to keep out a bullet? They've
found that out in the army Don't
let a lot OF fool tacticians know more
than you do. Be soft, be sweet, be
yielding - and she can't even touch
you.
Fight back and she's got you
beaten before she begins. That's
what she wants-to make you fight
Don't satisfy her. You won brother
from all the rest of the world full of
girls He must have liked something
about you to make him do that
Find out what that something is
and practice IT day and night and all
the time-sister couldn't keep him
away from you when he was just
sweetheart. Why, she hasn't even
chance now that you are his wife.
Make his home the sweetest. pleas
ATTEST place on earth for him. Let
her do all the quarreling, all the
fighting. all the disagreeable things.
Associate yourself in his mind with
all the pleasant things-a low voice,
a light laugh, a happy smile, good
dinner. quiet peace; love and laugh
ter Sister can never fight that COM
bination in all the world. Try IL and
see-you'll be amazed to find how 1t
will work.