Atlanta Georgian. [volume] (Atlanta, Ga.) 1912-1939, 1913-11-06

| CIT OUT THE JOLLY BECAUSE YOU ARE
- MARRIED.
During courtship hatery aid to success After
marriage it is a necessity. 1t takes save applied with
liberal hand grease up the domestic machinery SO
that it does not creak and groan as it moves.
+ Unfortunately while everybody knows this the ma
ority people If matrimony gave them the PRIV
ege of telling partners of their bosoms about their
faults and if revealed the truth about the
holy estate we should obliged confess that we never
knew how many foibles and weaknesses we possessed
until got married.
It takes a husband to strip the last rag OF vanity
from a woman and make her herself faded and ola
and without charm 1t takes wife TO puncture the ouo-
bic of her husbands and make him realize
ordinary, common placed, driveling bore ne 10
Who husband would dare tell woman she Is tat
than her 40 years? Who but aW lie "ouo
knock the wind a mans story by yawnng in his
face and telling him that had heard 1t 40 times
before?
No Wonder
No wonder that married couples often disillu-
each other No wonder that there are SO many
survives the brutal candor of matrimony -. -
As matter of fact the naked truth mas no place IN
he family circle, possibly survive knowing
what our acquaintance and neighbors think OF
the ewes in which we most desire to shine all of
weaknesses with merciless ceaness No matter how
old she gets a woman believe that she is still
young her husband, and man desires
to feel much hero of romance to his wife
criticisms of each other in which the husbands and
wi hendishiy cruel barbarous. EVERY
word stabs right to vital spot
. When you think of it, 'is it little strange that
and women should make such efforts to please and
themselves agreeable to everyone except the very
ciliate?
How Different.
|. A man who takes a strange down to dinner
hangs absorbed on every word he listens to her
opinions with respect pays her deft compliments He
had on dress that was young for her that
made her look foolish that she didn't understand
of her joke telling it,
or to make her that regards fit subject
for a home for incurable mbecles.
Nor are women any careful of their husbands
the adorng and admring little creature who has been
sitting at his feet burning incense before aFrage rises S
grammar, and his manners and edit his opinions, and
show him what poor miserable sinner he is in her
Probably nothing else explains why marriage is so
often failure does the exit Of the jolly and the en-
of the crit sms as soon as the wedding cere-
mony is
Because every of us marres under the impress
sion that marriage the securing to ourselves OF
partner who will do nothing but throw bouquets
in direction and when we find out that instead OF
getting agent who will exploit our virtues, we
ike shrieking out that we have been gold bricked
taken in by false pretenses.
The Reason Why.
Yes, marriage is failure because cut out the
and VIII applaud efforts and tell that
the greatest ever and it is so hard to do things
for those who give a pat the head
and Good dogge" but who intimate that we might
cal better if had only been inteli
gent like Mr.. Smith Mrs Jones
And how love the society of those who feed us on
sweet praise whose fatery subtle and discriminating
makes us know that while dull and senseless world
may appreciate how talented and what remarkable
creatures are, there is with the mind and soul
to understand us. And how loathe those-how soon
we can get enough of their societywho point out
all of our mistake s. who harp upon blunders and
who searchlight all our faults and fraltes!
The that men consider their families bur-
den is because their wives fail reward them with
praise. The reason that women are dissatisfied and
complain of the monoony OF domestic life is because
their husbands pay them compliment.
The reason that the average home is a battle-ground
husbands and wives hand each other biting
criticisms soft soap The that many
married off after other Is because
man is bound have woman to jolly him along
and if his wife won't he up lady who will The
reason that married seek affint!es Is because
vanity Is starving, and since her husband
won't feed she to the who will
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