Newark evening star and Newark advertiser. [volume] (Newark, N.J.) 1909-1916, 1912-07-06
and a Maid

have beer going with a young man
turteen months and previous to that
Ear, Now she Is trying to get back
18th him again by sending him telephone
lis and letters asking him to. call on
pr. He has been once, but insists that
was On business. This Ell came be-
Fguments over this girl because | don't
.ent him TO speak to her. He said he
Loulds avoid her as much as possible. but
she stens him he would ave to speak
over go with the girl again, But l
pubt his word and he gets angry at me
pr doing so, He says the only time |
pm kick is when he leaves me, but !
Ruse he said he wouldn't have nerve
Dough to pass her by II she should. try
stop him. Now what do you thinki
he doing this because he knows !
kf'? Thanking you for your opinion and
>rly reply. ! remain, sincerely yours,
Unless you are engaged to the
foung nan you have no right to
Question hts attentions to other
pung women of his acquaintance
pd even if an engagement or a mar
tage existed you should be above
skiing or desiring him to be rude to
ID friends. Happiness is possible
My where there is perfect conf
ence. II you start in by doubling
bur friends word or his regard for
kou nothing but misery will be your
BIT a3z
If you are engaged to the young
ban. even though you have not am
|ouneed the fact to your friends, he
popld respect your request not to
on other girls. His compliance
n this matter should arise from a
Eish to please you and should be
1ade as Dor as the wish Ia ex-
ressed. If ne does not do this re-
hember that nothing can be accom-
|lished by nagging. On the other
lbnd you should trust him implicitly
nd should be pleased to have him
bow to other women of his and your
kquaintance the little eourtesies
<hich bespeak the true gentleman,
his. of course, does not include call
hg upon other girls or taking them
places of ampsement but it does
Hclude responding to their greeting
nd rendering them any assistance
hioh is In his power when hs meets
lem. II you sincerely believe that
Q girl wishes 10 make trouble ex-
lain this to your friend but do not
equest him to pass her by without
turning her greeting.
Remember, that unless an engage
lent exists, you should not question
IS friendship for other girls, II an
Engagement does exist, l advise you
search your heart carfully, for
18th your present feelings. your un-
|rtainty of his regard and your ques-
bning of his faithfulness to you, you
Rn have nothing but unhappiness.
pn't make the mistake of thinking
ese things will right themselves
ter marriage. In 'matrimony, sup
&sed virtues often assume the guise
faults, but I have never, yet known
[e faults of courtship days to turn
ITO virtues under the process of con-
sant association.
THAT remark of his about the only
ne that you can "kick'' Is when
leaves you, gives me an unfavor-
plv conception of his character. He
Vows that he is very c~onceited and
no realization of the fact that he
not bestowing a favor on you by
tying you his company, but that he
nd all other men whom a girl hon
Is with her friendship should be
pankful for the privilege. Be very
preful of your choice, L. NJ. l hope
pere is no stronger tie than that
1 friendship, If there Is. consider
well while there is yet time,