The Detroit times. [volume] (Detroit, Mich.) 1903-1920, 1912-07-12
Cynthia Grey's
Many Answers

Dear Miss Grey: love a girl. but
she does not seem TO care Tor me-
How can | gain her love.-A Reader
A: That's hard problem The
only advice | can give you Is TINS
BE a manly man. honest and square
II you do not win her love, remem-
Der that there's as good fish In the
ca as ever were caught"
Dear Miss Grey: My fance and
/ Quarreled and our engagement was
broken. Is IL my place 10 speak nrst'
since we were both equally TO blame
for the MISUNDERSTANDING Anxious.
A.: II you wish TO offer an opology
for your own mistake, you could write
MIN explaining your side OF the mat
ter. II he does not reply. do not
make any further advances. There
is absolutely no excuse for two peo-
pie who. having been friends. stop
speaking TO each other. That Is
silly thing TO do. although II Is nat
ural for little children. AS We grow
older We are supposed 10 acquire
sense with the years.
Dear Miss Grey: % Is II proper
TO send wedding announcements when
one is married In church and has only
small wedding? When should they
be sent? (2) Would a travelling suit
be appropriate for the bride? (3l
How long should the dresses OF a
bride OF - be? (4) Is a black beaver
hat too old-looking? 90 What are
the different kinds OF ceremonies!
60 Should an engaged girl correspond
with her boy friends-Louise.
A; Cd Yes. The day of the we'd
ding. (2) Yes. CD The fashionable
length. which is not more than ga
inches from the floor. "a Not II II is
a youthful shape and youthfully trim
med. co Your minister will inform
you. co That is a question which
can only be settled by those most In
terested. Personally, think there's
no harm il these boys know that the
girl is engaged.
Dear Miss Grey: l am very much
in love, but have only a small in
come. | fear the girl is inclined 20
be eXtravagant, but she considers her
on my salary. What do you advise?
Lover,
A.; The up-to-date girl is usually
so adaptable that she can curb her
| extravagant notions, II she has any.
| for the sake OF the man she loves.
Everything depends on the courage
and the health OF both. II you are
both willing TO try. and are full OF de-
| termination 10 win. and your income
is sufficient TO keep the roof over
your heads and leave a little extra
| for the savings account, why wait for
/ gray hairs and a competency?
Dear Miss Grey-Q) Has a girl a
right TO ask man TO take her 10 a
dance since II Is leap year? GU II so.
and he lives In one end OF town and
she In the other, should she go home
early enough TO let him get car
home? Or should she go home alone
on the last car ?-Doubtful Blue Eyes.
A.-(D II 1t is leap year dance It
is perfectly proper for her to ask him
to take her. (2) She ought, by all
means, go home early enough to per-
NIT him TO take her home, and then
get car for his own home.
! Dear Miss Grey-O I have been
going with young man for some time
I but he has never mentioned matri
mony. am 80 Do you advise me TO
waste any more time on him, or
/ should I accept the attentions OF an
other man who wishes to call upon
me? ~ Is II best for girl TO work
in public place or TO stay at home.
4 (3) How long should girl be engaged
before she Is married? az What are
10 be the popular colors this spring?
CD Will narrow skirts and velvet
shoes be worn Rosy Cheeks.
A.-G) Perhaps II you accept the
attentions OF Man Number Two, Man
Number One will come on time. Try
it, IL you prefer him Girls make a
great mistake in allowing one man TO
have all their spare time when they
are not engaged. So long as girls do
this, Just so long men will take up all
their time without giving a thought
TO matrimony Competition always
helps. (2) At home, II she can find
enough to keep her busy. (3) That's
a question TO be settled only by those
most concerned (4) Gray VIII be a
leading color. 60 Skirts will be wider
/ and velvet shoes will be very little
worn.
| Dear Miss Grey: I am going TO
/ have a water melon party, and want
each one to bring a watermelon.
\ Would you please tell me how / could
write the invitation BLUE Eyes.
! A: The presence OF yourself and
fine. ripe, Juicy watermelon is re-
ouested Tuesday night. - . -, at
watermelon party given In the home
! OF --. Knives. forks and fun fur
nished by the hostess"
"P. S.--If you don't understand the
invitation, ring up phone (giv.
| Ing number OF your own telephone
II you use this form 1t will be taken
4 In a spirit OF fun. Supposing the
nEDEECTu,'