The Bon Homme County independent. [volume] (Tabor, S.D.) 1904-1913, 1912-11-14
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\ admired q woman for the past six weeks
' % much 30 as to follow behind her Tor
Stocks. She has never given me the least
encouragement. She seems to be q peaur-
full woman in every way. A few evenings
ago I was standing with a number OK fel-
lows. This lady passed. One OF my party
bowed very courteously, ! inquired her
| name and to my disappointment learned
she was a grasswfdow, the fellow oon-
Guiding with the remark. When they
can't live with one man It's ditto with tine
next" '@ ... g,,"
THAT remark has often been made about
widows. Yet this ones husband may not
have appreciated her or they were mis-
mated. etc. It IL getting my goat.
Lonely Bachelor.
Sometimes a woman with a beautiful
nature marries a man with whom IL - nm
possible for a; good woman to I'VE. 90
not think any woman becomes q grass
widow without a great deal Of proyoca-
ton. 1t is bad enough for q woman 70
have the sorrow n disappointments OF
an unhappy marriage, without having
/; people say unkind things about her. IL
YOU think she Is the right sort, make her
acquaintance, learn what she 10 INK on
closer view, and II you are satisfied make
up your mind TO trust her no matter what
others say. a& "
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Dear Mrs. Thompson. Q)-Upon being
asked his name, should a m a say Mr.,
So-and-So," or would the surname alone
be sufficient G0-wouid 1t be proper for
a young man to correspond with q young
lady he had never seen2. : c:
a, A. Bonehead.
m-Everybody knows he Is a Mr." SO
It is not necessary for him to mention the
prefix. Q)-only a "bonehead' would 40
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Dear Mrs. Thompson: o young lady q
years Of age has been engaged to q young
man of % for three years. Reason or long
engagement: the g and hnancia cir
cumstances OF young man. The young
lady's mother died q few months before
the approaching marriage. The young
man has been al intimate friend OF the
family for years. Is 1t not his place to be
at the funeral at the side of his hanceeT
Problem. r.
The girl should be .sith her family,
though the young man most certainly
should attend the funeral and would nat
urally wish to be as near his hancee as
possible. ...
Dear Mrs. Thompson--Hoy can /
You might try a paste Of gasoline
and powdered magnesia. Spread II
evenly on the hat, let stand for a few
hours, or over night, then brush out
with a clean brush. But 1t would be
best to send 1t to a professional clean
er, ~@A
Dear Mrs. Thompson-Do you think
a man could regain the affection OF q
girl was has ignored him following a
quarrel? ~ -.
Re YOU care enough for her, go to her.
and tell her that IL only she'll overlook
the quarrel this time. you'll take
mighty good care that you'll never help
along another disagreement, that you
are desperately unhappy without her
friendship or love, and beg her to
please be sweet and lovely to you
again. .,sa~..., ... ...G ..sS@a1
Dear Mrs. Thompson--G) We are
sisters and both unfortunate enough to
have red hair. Have been advised to
Z use peroxide to bleach 1t. Will this
! prove successful or will 1t leave the
hair in a pinkish state? (2) One Of us
is engaged to q very ~considerate young
man. Is 1t proper, II invited by him, to
accompany the engaged couple to
places OF amusement7 II SO, would It
be proper for the other oneto be represent
when he takes leave after returning
homa?. ca When d young gentleman
calls on a young lady, Is II proper for
I her to be awaiting him or would II
him waiting? 90 In your opinion
+! which Is the best girls college In the
United States? EULA and LULU,
q Red. hair Is beautiful and FASH
ionable, so why change lit Brush It o
I great deal to make 1t fluffy and FURNISH
1t with a piece OF clean velvet until II
sparkles, dress IT becominglya and YOU
ufI1 hauaAa 0loru nrauun thar nannnf he
exceIled. Peroxide will bleach the hair
but will coarsen It also and 1t win new
er remain q desirable shade. (2ll Thank
him and decline unless It Is an ex-
ceptional instance. 1t would be more
considerate to absent yourself UNI
obtrusively when he leaves. l3) 1t
depends upon the sort OF man he Is.
Some men need to be kept waiting,
while others think you're Just stopping
to primp up on their account. Don't
have any set rule. Just make hem feel
comfortable. (4) The principal colleges
are of equal excellence. -"
Dear Mrs. Thompson am a girl OF
IA. There Is a boy I like real we'll, but
my parents object to me going with
him.. How can / arrange to meet him
Without my mother knowing? =
TILLA BROWN.
Are you not ashamed to even think
VI ueC6lNlnB your uehT mOIueTg Sne
is probably trying to bring you up so
you viii not have to be ashamed of
anything you have done, but II you
meet a boy secretly you are undoing
all her good work. Obey your mother,
my dear. She knows best.
Dear Mrs. Thompson-I am 40, never
was married, and am In love with q
bachelor who has lots Of money. How
can l draw his attention?
Invite him to your home, give him
good meals and make, him so COM
Portable that he would like to stay there
forever. A bachelor with money Is hard
to convince, however. .-.t~t
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Dear Mrs. Thompson-(D I am In
love withHa young man three years my
help 1t. He does things l. don't like,
but he is nice to me. CD What is good
for fine, oily hair?
LILLIAN B. a.
~ Three years do not make much
difference. IL he Is all right and wants
to marry you, take him and be happy.
ca Give 1t q good egg shampoo ev-
cry two weeks or 50.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: ! am a girl
Of Is and have been going to parties,
ETC., since / was IT, My mother always
liked the boys I went out with. For
about six months I went with one
young man almost steady. My mother
liked him very much, but when I broke