The Pensacola journal. (Pensacola, Fla.) 1898-1985, 1912-10-20

makes a fine salary and there is moth
ing to be said against him, but she
does not like the idea of a girl going
with young man with whom she has
broken up before. I don't like to dis
please mother. What should I do?
HELEN.
II that Is your mothers only reason,
follow your own heart and good sense.
If you expect to marry, you are going
to like some one man better than all
the others, some day, and mother
might as well like him, too.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: G)-I have an
engagement with a young man from
a large city. He is accustomed to the
society of rich ladies. What shall
say to him after the theatre? o.
What should one order in the cafe af-
ter the theatre? (3)-How may 1 ask
him to call again? (G-Recently
young man forced me to receive his
kisses. Should / so with him again?
(5)-Do you think IL sounds bad for
girl to say she has q date" with
man? (6)-Is there any harm in per-
hitting a man to put him arm about
girl while out for a walk?
BLUE EYES.
(1)-Tell him If you enjoyed the
play and discuss 1t with him. (2)-He
should do the ordering. If he asks
you to order tell him you will be quite
satisfied with his choice. except. of
course, that you don't drink wines.
t(3)-Sinply say that you will be
pleased to see him again at your home.
a xyn1vrcaIf (S1
1T sounds vulgar. (6)-It cheapens
girl when she is not engaged to the
man.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: am 20
years old. I have been going with e
man for a year and half. l thought
I loved him and we were engaged.
About three months ago / met an
other young man and soon found he
was the right one. I told the first
of this as nicely as I could. He got
mad and said I had broken his heart
and would never be happy any more.
could never be happy with him.
I have promised to marry the one
I met last, in January. and we will
have to run away. What would be u
suitable dress? Would it be all right
to spend the first night at q hotel?
Where would be a good place to
marry? What day of the week is the
proper one? DISTRESSED GIRL.
1t was your right to ask to be re-
leased If you felt you could not be
happy with your fiance, but 1 hope
you are very, very certain that you
and this other man really love each
other and that 1t is not just an in
fatuation.
Why must you run away to be
married? Be married at home IL pos
sible If you have no home, be mar
ried in a friends home or in your
minister's study Any day in the
week is the proper one to marry If
he Is the right man. After you are
married there could be no objection
to your spending night at hotel.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: I am IS
years old, fair complexion, hazel
eyes, dark hair; am rather slim. Cd
would white messaline silk make
suitable wedding dress for home
wedding? (2)-Should I wear gloves?
(3)-How should 1 dress my hair I?
DIS is right for a young man to
kiss a girl when they are engaged :?
OILS 1t very wrong to go driving
and not get back till after dark? Co
lis 1t wrong for your intended to
stay until IL o'clock? How long
should he stay? (7)-Is it wrong to
go driving with a young man when
your fiance asks you not to?
ANXIOUS.
Q)-Yes. (2)-Yes. (3)-very SIM
ply dor course. (5)-You should
get home at a seasonable hour. o.
Send him home at 10 o'clock.
Many engaged people grow tired of
each other by sitting up till a late
hour making love" OF you love
your fiance you will wish to please
him and think he has a good reason
for not wanting you to go with the
other man.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: / am going
with young lady. but before I went
with her she had a. gentleman friend
she went with about Ia years.
About a month ago she told him she
did not care for his company, but
now she is afraid he will harm her.
What shall I do? She said she likes
me better than him. I also care for
her. e. G.
If you love each other, get married.
Then you can protect the girl.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: I have been
receiving a young mans company for
two years on an average of twice in
three months. He shows the proper
respect as well as devotion but since
his proposal of marriage he some
times seems to be in Greenland, !"
and does not talk as much as think
he should. Should I consider that
indifference and return it. or should I
not let him know I noticed 1t and
talk on in my usual manner?
MAUDE.
He is probably quite happy and con-
tented and likes to be entertained by
you.
ATTENTION TEACHERS.