The evening world., 1912-12-10
;Mase a Home,aGtt Breakfast
and Hire stonaxaao Be
,,,t,,..sa,. .ss ;.G,t any rHIS
Hotik4hen s ., - -, !
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MRS. BELMONT'S advice.
All tn
Young MothslssDon't Know
About Babies; "Career" Is
More Essential.
Aavsuevite Sfooe,vs Marshall.

~0asss, asAr, -Arsy yeur wora
vssu ycs ere ssao3s(. a wonA.
~ stays ~ hGaS aAa tsuAs 70
~ he~ss sosa ertes tazssoAs.
Tea Aavs - u1GAs - sDsaA ysux
tavss AAAsine On - resas maa.
xaak Of eassss y eAs reason there
80 % many mSAlie-asSA wemsa
sAalarsA -
& a1lass . As.s.g ~ u, ana r..
tesaASase, Hire . vonaa - clean
ne Aaa aaA 20 oas ga attend 70
tus1asas. ~ ehhArsa eems, hire .
ssnvsssnt wealaA 70 care for them.
YsuA6 AstAsse ,Asa's know much
ateuA taSlss. S1ers 10 always -
ssAss psrsea sv6nnAis wac does w.
sss!S k.y1
II was % dslis6sfui to hear Mrs.
Bslmont champ>enins the rights Of
maa. Of poor. hard working. down.
troAdsn TNsad Husband. tbat was
moved 10 ask her to- sxpiain her posi-
tion even moro fury. She seemed .
bit surprised at my request
WOMEN WHO ARE MARRIED BUT
UNHAPPY. .t
Really. you Know. rve bscn advo-
eating tho econbmic Independence Of
the married WOMAN for more than
twenty year," 80 told me. And I
doa't speak from theory alone. Ever
% many dissatisfied. wives have APP
peaied TO me to sH&kest Away out Of
their dimcultAes. \ They kaaN little or
nothint with which to occupy thsm-
solves: they we're JsssHpsAed to ask
their husbands for evsry penny. and
they found life anything M happy.
''sInvarisbiy I Have urged them - 90
- work and obtain an Income for
themselves. In practically every case
whore this advice was persistently fol-
straisftsnsd out. Only when there
was backsliding diA, the troubles recur.
"In France and Germany the mar
ried woman has some ~ ge-earninx oc.
cupation ~ . matter of courps. II
she and her husband are young. and
there are one or more snail children
and no elderly relative svsilabis to
stay with them, the mother takes work
hons. Othsrwiss she, goSs 70 business
a. regularly a. hsr tubbahd." l,
~HutI thought II ~ generally con-
csasd." obsefvSd ssShet children
neufishsd best uadH - personal care
Of the mothor.~ f,,ti F3tti w
"Let her care tyr ~ fersslf." ~
piled Mrs. Beimaoky ;evsr theless. II
she knows how TO mtlake. she will yet
have much time left on. her hands.
ws:s s ss:y o.. INV a.. .,'; e..
S sS:s 70 % nx smcun Sa Of
ume At school or N. outdoor play.
- think very ofSsa the Children
Vou1l b better OF ~ their mother
- veil ~ their father was Q wage
eeSneY 1goyo money would ~ com.
~ into tie family, which would
nsaa uees aAa bsttsr foea axd
ssetAes fer tie youngstsss. xAsy
vsslA srew ~ usaeS the care Of A
opeet1nS mother instead Of . DO.
Osstao drudge. ne very fest that
~ was not constantly with her liz
tle eneo woulA probabiy mean that
sAs gavs then her bsst ana fresh.
eet ss1 instead Of showing tnsn
usyveNa, nAGUing psFVenAllty.
There are hundreds OF poor women
y a. the east side who 30 out every day
/ 10 work and leave their babies In the
creches. the day nurseries,. There In no
question but that these children receive
!, home" .-.s.s...-,
! for ths vr1 - Aela1tt W,a 4esk al a
shop 70 kS1S d slt ser ,vIlkSS3ter,
marriage when che must pay prac-
ticahy her own salary TO hire COM
petent maidf" -
. ''of con1s not., conceded Mrs. Bel
mont. That woman would be more
valuable II she stayed 1t home and at
tended 70 household affairs. On the
other hand. II we had moro married
fewer six-loilsr salaries.
HOW TO DO AWAY WITH THE
! EXCUSE FOR SMALL WAGES.
NOne OF the most convenient excuses
otthe employer who pays women smaller
wages than no would pay men In sim
Ter situations II that AZ soon as 4,
\ woman really beoomes worth anything
70 him she throws UP her job to marry.
Thea. he explains. he must train some
other girl. only to have her leave him
IW me same reason In two or three
years.
4 Even the srowing boy at school has
some notion Of a career. an end which
No hopes TO attain by his own exer-
tions: exertions which Will naturally
continue throug hout his active life.
Why should not our school girls have
similar ambitions. The teachers will
tel you that the girls stand better In
( theif stndies than the boys: that they
I ace tather moro dlligent and conscien-
( tivuA ! urge these girls. when they
hAgin their work after leaving school,
"a take , real and deep Interest In Il.
ne yeUnS woman should look
spen her chosen trade or profession
- . more tptsrreGaum between
1eeeol And maSrtags. Nor should
~ view the latter ~ the bs-all and
eAA-aL - her szAstsuos."
y c.But do You think the average hus-
hAAd wants his wife 70 work outside
her Aomer' suggested
Of course he doesn't. simply because
hoe afraid the neighbors viii say he
ceB4 support her." laughed Mrs Bel
me1 but no Difference Is due to such
lily pre1udices. An Intelligent hus-
band and wife. looking at this matter