The Bon Homme County independent. [volume] (Tabor, S.D.) 1904-1913, 1912-09-26

mony? On what finger should h wear
1t during the ceremony and after she
Is married? COMICAL EYES.
Take 1t off yourself before the cere-
mony or any time previous that Is con-
venient. Do not wear n rings at all
during the ceremony until your hus-
band places the wedding ring. Wear
the engagement ring over the wedding
ring afterward.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: / am q young
man or ~ years and there Is a girl In
my home town that I really love with
all my heart. She seems to be kind to
me when I speak to her. How can l
win her love? I would like to stop her
whenever 1 meet her on h street, but
I always do not know what to say.
What is q nice name TO a her when
I meet her? T. G.
Do you want to marry her? Can you
support a wife? Are you old enough
to bear the responsibilities Of married
life? Do you know enough to make a
wife happy?
Ask yourself these questions before
you try to win a girls love, because
no honorable man will wish to do that
without intending to marry the girl.
You should not call the girl by any
~endearing name unless you are en-
gagged to her. Then you may call her
all the pretty things o a think OF.
Assn HtI II yOu IIluy Cdll Ou hSEs 1dhC
her u to entertainments, picnics, ETC.,
occasionally. Be courteous, good ma
tured and kind hearted and she will
certainly like you.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: How can I
keep my eyebrows back? They are
heavy and long and curl up, especially
when it is warm. RAY.
Pull out superfous hairs with tweez-
ers n train the eyebrows by smooth
ing them down with your fingers sew
eral times a day. rN#s. .
Dear Mrs. Thompson: I am II years
old and am acquainted with a young
man OF IS. Fou years ago we went to
school together and were good friends.
I meet him almost every day going to
work. / like him very much Inc would
like to speak to him. Is 1t proper for
me to speak first? BLONDE.
There would be no harm in pleasant
ly reminding him Of our school friend
ship.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: Recently I
went with some friends to q picnic ct
another town. I met a fellow from our
town. He danced with me and asked
me to take a walk with him. We went
about two blocks. He always wanted
to hold my hand and I ouldn't let him.
He didn't like ii very much. and he said
I was the first girl he ever walked with
that ne didn't take hold of her hand.
don't let anybody take my hand.
Then he asked me to sit down. I did
about W minutes, then got up and
asked him to take me back. He said
to sit down yet q few minutes. / re-
fused and told him If he wasn't going
to take me back I would go by myself.
which / did. / thought he would fol-
low. blu he arrived at the picnic Is
minutes later. / didn't pay any atten-
1 ttnRN 20 Htrn TO hn nnA1nutnnn nIA
should / do? VICTORIA.
l think you have been a little high
handed, my dear You could have told
him pleasantly that you didn't wish to
hold hands, and 1t would ave done no
harm to sit and ak a while with him.
He did not insult you and l do not see
why he should apologize. If he wishes
unless you know something against his
character.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: Do women
wear white shoes or slippers for the
street If wearing a white dress?
White shoes and slippers are very
popular now, and are worn with all
light dresses on. the street.
~
Dear Mrs. Thompson-Which is
correct to say: II need a pair Of cor
cINSs Va u AOGu a SOA1Ct3
ARGUMENT.
The latter.
Dear Mrs. Thompson-How long does
it lake you to answer letters? / wrote
last Friday. Can you answer 1t in
Wednesdays or Thursdays paper?
j. ]. K.
I have not received your former let
ter. and 1 cannot promise to answer
1 anu 1ntfn- In ~ ~ NffoNRInR NanVHa nf
the paper. Each letter must take Its
turn. to be fair to everybody.
-.
Dear Mrs. Thompson-Q) What is
n nice wedding gift at small expense?
(2) What kind of a dress would be
nice to wear to q wedding? CD
My husband has been working nights
for h last 10 years and is always
complaining of not feeling well. Do
you think II is healthy to work
nights, and don't you think he deserves
a day job soon? ANXIOUS WIFE.
a. Any small piece of silver or cut
glass. CD If you are a guest: n
pretty gown that you have will do.
(3) Perhaps he needs a tonic or a
change OF his food. 1t might be a
4 good idea for him to get q doctors
advice. Night work ought not to be
harmful If he takes care of his health,
though, Of course, q day job Is much
nicer for both him and his family.
i -
Dear Mrs. Thompson-I am near
is years old and have been a
to a young man II He Is the
second young man / ever went with
I went with the first about two months,
but he Is lead now. No n o
we are engaged n I do not think
this young nan treats me right. he
does not come when he says he will
and he does not see me for weeks al
a time-I know ii is not his work, FOL
he does not work IN Sundays. When
he does see me he says he means &c
marry me.
I am getting worried. for you know
he has kissed me and many little
things that would not have been-you
know how 1T Is with an engaged couple
I have heard he is going with another
girl. 1 don't want all his time, OF
course.
II you think 1t right to break tn
engagement / will do 1t, n be very
slow and sure and older before J
promise another man, as you can set
/ was only a child when / promised
him. He is past q. / think IL / wa
to marry him I would be very un'
happy.
EVERYBODY'S FRIEND.
1t seems to me, my dear, that neither
of you care very much for the othei
any more. Better break such an en-
gagement. Next time do not permit
any secrecy. Have the engagement an
nounced at once. n don't allow too
II many liberties to your lance @