The evening world., 1912-04-16
10 Stay Married Congen-
iality Is Necessary-F
the Wife Err, She Should
Be Forgiven, for She IL
the Weaker of the TWo.
Couples Ought Not to
Be Separated for Any
Length Of Time-Jeal-
ousy the Cause Of All
Trouble-Happiest Mar.
riages Among the Poor.

Nov, please" began Miss Held. with
. sman point Of protest. please DO not
asst ms 10 talk about my divorce. Be-
oauss Mr.. Zieefeid and ! are u O WHY
goea friends. and q Is only . little mat
ter quite between ourselves"
NAieo HElD's VIEWS OF MAR
RAGE REQUESTED.
~Of COURSE I asscnted. with the non
Shaiance evidently demanded Of me.
no one takes divorce seriously nova
day.. But I called 20 extract your views
On marriage. Miss Held"
The petite lady dropped gracefully
into the corner of a paic-gresl sofa,
which harmonized perfectly with the
tailored creations Of cafe au lait md
Alice blue. which she MAS wearing. For
he moment. the m~isbehaving brown
ey0 were penstve and ponjering. I had
time TO notice that apparently ago can |
not wtther Miss Held. nor domestic DIFF
Acuities worry her. She In M fair and
smooth and round and dclicatciy tinted
a. sver.
But now she smiled. and spoke in the
carcsaing vo4ce. with the delicate for
eign information winch her admirers know
- well. What perhaps they do not
know n that Miss Held's mental pro-
cesses a that Gallo iucidty ana
freedom from cant which never ccaS~
10 alarm the Angio-SAxon sentimental
ist
Ter saia shsi Marriage 10
sometimes very Moe Indeed. hat
that - whore there - a agres-
nsa4 In intsreots aAA aims bstwssA
he HUSBAND aAa wife. Oomstizass
tA1s agreement does moi exist.
Sometimes saeA looks forward ana
ylaAs . quite ai9srsat future from
sAas assirsA ~ ne other. Then
sAsy eus1t not any longer 70 10
AusbsaA ana wife. when they Are
separate n fest, Why should neg
-:ot ~ separate n namsf"
! was o pleased to interrupt. and she
continued: II cannot understand these
society people who will not get . divorce
because Of the scandal. Scandal, what
. thatf Pouf! And also they forget
q . man and woman are unhappy to.
'Gether. they cannot conceal II. The
world will see. the world viii taik-ths
divorce will not make more talk.
DIVORCE MORE -oioNiFiEo THAN
FlohTINo.
TO me II seems 20 much better. 90
much more dignined. than 2e continuai
quarrels and nights. IL husband and
wife cannot be happy with . o other.
they ought 10 separate. Then. perhaps.
zach may md some one else with whom
he or she oan be happy. Or II agree
ment with any n Ia impossible be-
cause Of the temperament. then there
can be the living apart. oh. I think It
10 wicked for a marriage to be a dhain!'
81 quite agree with you. Miss Held" ]
eaid: ''bu you wouldn't do away with
marrying altogether. would your
The pretty head shook In vehement
denial. mo. indeed" she exclaimed. II
believe always In the marriage for love,
II from the beginning there II love be-
tween the husband and wife. the other
things, money. q home. a position In TIT
world, can be gained somehow. o.
course. by love ] mean the affection tina
includes congeniality. No marriage II
happy where the husband and wife can
not be chums, comrades. friends. rha
means they must like the same sort o.
people, be Interested In the same sort o
things. It is very sad when there Il
nothing the husband and wife can dis
erss together.
s9hat 10 one reason why ! do
not believe In marrying ont OF
ones class. There may be . very
strong temporary attraction be-
tween . rieh girl and . poor
young asn, bat u VIII not last.
EAsy VIII tire Of each other be-
sauso they have been brought up
aigsssntly. xhsy will quarrel BE-
cause they have almost no points
n COMMON, and because they dis
sSrss IN % many ways.
Happiness Ii more propable when
rich man marries u poor girl. becaus
the husband should always be stronge
and wiser and more efficient than h
wife. Perhaps / am old fashioned. b,
! think the wife who can look up to h,
husband Is the happlest. lie ugh to d
master In his own house or there will |
continual confusion. How would a bus
ness get along without one person at Il
head OF Il? What would q republic {
without a president? The husbands W
should be law, but'-Miss Held smil'
acknowledgement the wife dlsobo,
or makes "A mistake she should be 70
given, Just because she Is ths weaker
HUSBAND AND WIFE sHoul
REMAIN iNsEFARABlE.
81 believe you think that husband al
y wife should spend mos, OF their tn
under the same roof" J suggested. Il
this remark OF Miss llold's was once .
ported from Paris: III Mr.. ziegf,
wants to keep his wife. he'd better col
and take care OF hertz
She has evidently not changed b
opinion. Yes, indeed, the husband a