The evening world. [volume] (New York, N.Y.) 1887-1931, 1912-07-23

Because . Srande passion really H.
sacred. II 10 q combination Of selfless-
ness and self raised to the nth power.
One who really loves will sacrifice HIM
self . million times over for the be-
loved. On the other hand, one who
really loves II capable OF ethical. intel
lsotual. even physical achievement abb
soluteiy above and beyond his normal
standard. His strength 1. as the strength
Of ten-because his heart Is tho heart
Of Q lover.
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"a, n.nsitv FOR aau,,sration o. Tn.
emotions. And ,o-"we play with high,
loves by the portal" and perhaps never
realize that we've missed or ignored
the ono thing that makes life worth
living at all.
But surely some Of US know better!
Some Of us. who may have been cheated
ut flrst, have learned to distinguish real
love from any one OF the flfty-nine
varieties Of imitation. Won't you happy
ones explain how you came to know
your happiness7 You ought to speak.
Tor the bensnt of the other men and
women who are st!ll struggling In the
swamps OF passionate Illusion.
II seems that there 10 at least one
physician who has devoted himself to
IN accurate and scientific study OF love-
its causes and effects. The subject Ii
given an exhaustive analysis IN Or.
Bernard S. Talmey's recently published
book. Woman" And DR.. Talmey, who
has boon connected with several prom
inent New York hospitals, strongly EN-
phasizes the very point we nave JUST
been discussing-the dlferencs between
sacred and profane love
TWO KINDS OF HUMAN LOVE
Defined,
.rn human love" SAYS DR.. Talmey,
.. d,stlnc,,on can be made between
tvo different kinds; love as an instinct
ana love A. 4 sentiment.
"rh. former n the only love the
.r.a,sr nan Of humanity knows,
This love hss no depth OF dura-
saen, and whom satisfied cares NO
longer for the object for which II
temporarily hungsrsd.
There may be strong Individual
preference In such love- II may be as
fastidious a. pure love. 1t may temper
arily focus Its attention on one person
only. Yet tho Intense desire for ex-
elusive possession. the Jealousy toward
rivals. tho coy resistance and the moods
o; doubt and hope are only emanations
sf sngerness to crafty an appetite with
a particular victim for whom the lover
has no alteration or s>i-saeriheinS oe-
vouon.
Such lover loves only himseh' ms
ons object 10 to please MS own De-
loved IL" without any regard Tor 'he
feelings Of his mate, The latter hsures
only - means TO an END. that ehd
being his own gratiication. To such
lover ] love you means 1 iohs ior
YOU. covst yen. and am eager TO enjoy
you All lndulgences and favors SHOWN
10 the mate are only meant as means
to gain . certain end, ana when TINS
cannot be obtained love Will change into
thu contrary passion of hatred.
rur x,Nn os LOVE THAT
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"yondnsss. displaying a silly extrava'
ganss or unsesmly demonstrativeness
does not prove true love. 1t is only
foolish. doting Indulgence. Some meI
love their wives az chlidreh love oois
ana. - . natural result, treat then
Just - dolls are cared for. They dress