The Pensacola journal. (Pensacola, Fla.) 1898-1985, 1912-06-19

to force my friendship upon her, which
1 have always tried to keep from do
ing for fear I might spoil prospects
which l am very much afraid are of
the weakest kind?
LAWRENCE.
Why not show the young lady that
you prefer her society above all
others? Call upon her and make your
self solid with her family. Pay her
little complim too broad but
convincing. Invite her to the theatre
and see that you get orchestra seats.
Take her flowers and good candy
you do not need to be extravagant,
but don't be cheap. Talk to her about
your interests and prospects. Study
her likes and dislikes and show that
you consider them of the utmost i'm
portance. Be sympathetic. optimistic
and big brotherly. If you are at all
prepossessing in appearance ana will
follow these tactics-and if the lady is
still heart-whole and fancy free-you
will have an excellent chance Of win
ming her. Watch for the first sign of
interest she may show, then don't wait
too long before telling her that you
love her and want her for your wife,
Dear Mrs. Thompson: / have been
writing to a young man for three
months. Just lately he has not an
swered my letters. 1 love him. Do
you think he loves me?
Ny dear girl. don't bank on man
loving you just because you have
been writing letters to him for three
months Have his letters been more
loving than yours? Has he written
two or three letters to one of yours?
If so, then he has been certainly in
terested in you. Usually. when a
man stops writing to a girl it is be-
cause he doesn't want to write to her
any more OF course, he may be i'll,
but the chances are that he isn't
If he doesn't resume writing in a
rea sonabIe time just forget him.
Meantime do not write to him again.
If he loves you he certainly will not
forsake you
Dear Mrs. Thompson: Will you
please print the different wedding
anniversaries. and greatly oblige a
number of your readers?
SIX MARRIED ONES.
| Here they are-and any brides who
see this had better cut this out, for
they'll need it in the future:
! First year. cotton; second year,
paper; third year, leather; fifth
1 year, WOODEN SSNeHtn StdAs NopiCl =
tenth year. tin; twelfth year linen;
| fifteenth year. crystal: twentieth
year, china: twenty fifth year. silver;
thirtieth year, pearl; fortieth year
ruby: fftieth year. golden; seventy
fifth year, diamond.
Dear Mrs. Thompson: We have
| been married nearly three years and
nv husband is not making very much
money. Now l thought I would help
| out a little and last winter took q
young man to board. He is a very
/ nice young man, a member of the \
NJ. c. A. and thoroughly respectable
| He paws me regularly and the money
/ helps out a great deal. But lately my
| husband has not been feeling just
right about the boarder. He has said
several cutting things and says at
i thinks If / must have a boarder in tbs
4 house / could just as well get WON
1 an boarder It looks like he was
Il Jealous and / assure you, Mrs. Thomp-
| son. he has no cause to be. Do yoJ
/ think I am wrong in keeping this
| boarder? MRS. o. II. s.
i BY all means get rid Of the boardel
L if he is a bone of contention in your
Il home Better do without the money
/ even if il is needed. than to baniss
i peace between your husband and your