The times dispatch. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1903-1914, 1912-10-20
The Rights Of Others

Haven't you. times without numuSks
| made Tommy or Susie give up to ths
smaller children just to avoid cryr
Haven't you allowed Master Tom 70
be interrupted by q small brother -
sister when he Is trying to get h1e
lessons. or busy making something
that. to him. Is quite az important -
any work that you yourself hAvs
planned to do?
Do you think this Is fair to tbs
older children? Do you think Master
Tom can possibly recite perfect le4-
son In history. for instance. when
baby brother has been allowed 70
chamber over his lap demanding 70
be shown the pictures In the BOOK
while he Is trying to study?
After a while Toms patience gives
out and he pushes baby away ana
tells him to play with something saees
but repeated efforts to keep the youne-
er child away proving futile. there q
| q scene and the little fellow begins
To cry. Nine times out Of ten the
mother will take baby up in her lap
and soothe him while she scOlds
brother Tom for being . big rufnan
and blames him for making baby cEy
when the poor boy Is only trying -
do his best school work. s.
Any little girl Of ten or twelve WIZ
be perfectly willing to help her m0tn-
| er Win tuS care VI SA0 yVOb9~
| dren. She will cheerfully lend .
hand at dressing. undressing. feeding.
bathing and yhe general care OF the
smaller children: but mother snouid
not expect her to rush home afteE
school every day and take BABY
brother for a walk. neither should sno
allow the little children to interrupt
Susie and her small guests when thsy
| are visiting with one another.
40 pnf
tyrannical and woul dnot be II moth
ers would only teach them. from the
time they are able TO understand any
thing, that they must respect tne
rights Of others. Lot them undeSstauo
beyond a shadow of a doubt that they
mus not expect the older ones 70
yield to them the moment they e1-
| press a wish. After . while. II otneF
babie. appear, they in turn Will -
Ia greater help to mother and more
Kindly disposed toward the newcomer.
It requires vast amount OF tack
| and forethought to adjust the places
Of the children as they should De- ~
ten the beginning of tyranny is 60
| tablished when the claims Of the 40
baby take up all the mothers time
and the older children are neglected.
In discussing this very subject. A
eminent writer on the care of chill
n.
the ideal homo . system Of mutual
helpfulness reaching around the circle
binds the household together In Per
| feet harmony The little ones have
an undoubted claim on the carcass
the care and loving protection OF those
who are older. This being admNteu.
il is for the pareats to see tnA1 tns
| older ones are also immune from m
terruptions that hinder them from pro-
4 tha
daily obliged to do"
| Marking Lingerie.
Every dainty girl has q particuiar
mark for her lingerie. 1t may be her
monogram. initial In design or Ia
vorite flower One girl embroidsrs
her garments with . butterfly Sns
can always tell her handkerchiets ~
the particular butterfly at one sf0e.
never in the corner. The buttefH
.,so nois.s on her corset covers and
m the RULES Of her skirts. In fact.
these butterflies are on all her be-
Ionrinzs. Another girl marks heF
garments with q neatly embroidereo
daisy.
New monograms for marking ones
I clothes or linen are OF very stmpsS
patterns, some original with dencaSo
lines in bold relief. the same az
cord would appear upon the mase1Aa..
Heavy markings are no longer 49,.
and when one desires something or1S-
mai the initials are elsveriy Snees.
seven deIicateiy outlined and inc!osed.
In some plain border
SELECTING the wedding Veil.
So The selection OF the right weodin8
veil and its proper arrangement eSe
important matters. A plain EfrI IT,
auentlv makes q beautiful bride mere
ly because the soft. Hlmy tuIle
draped on her head in Decons
, manner.
Brides should noe forget that there
age numerous ways of arranging Seils
| and that a style which suits one type
nav be unbecoming to another.
| wise girl will not be Influenced -
!, any fad or fashion In selecting mex
!, veil.
Tho length Of the veil varies. Some
: brides wear real lace heiriooms when
reach only to the waist line. thouSn
!, they may represent small fortune-
The tulle veil should, al rule. az
tend ciear to the erS 1t tho eresa X
. . bride does not care to have lace
, bordered veil she should at least have
a. finished all around with . tiny soeo
h-atd- as that prevents il from tear
. ing.
Il For the girl with fluffy hair the wells
u Of tuIIe or OF allover lace can be n.
!, ranged in pretty cap Effects, while ~
brides of a more severe type the hale
or coronet arrangement - the styse
Il an. to b.. becoming. To FIX the lat-
ter satisfactorily cover hs,f-bendeoa
with white satin and use as four
( da,ion for the folds Of tuile. when
can easily be fastened on with ttny
pearl-headed pins.
~ m. bride aims not to look -
tail her veil should be p;aiteA back
q ,a,her fatty from the face and oranoo
. blossoms or small white satin aoWsf1
nav b. made into round clusters 49,
!. placed low. Japakese fashiea. -
; back OF the ears
4 tn. custom Of wearing the face ve0
}. "a chung TO BY some brides. though
7 s.shsou does not demand N Teo
short iron, veil Of trlle sAcs'd ee Ar.
ranged on cord o. narrow. nrm w.