The Detroit times. [volume] (Detroit, Mich.) 1903-1920, 1911-05-23
CYNTHIA oREy's
CORRESPONDENTS

Dear Miss Grey:
! am 22 and married two years. Have
baby I year old. My husband ana
| idolize our darling. as only mother
I and father can.
My husband never goes out eAeep.
I on business and Is very ambitious
around the house. He makes usetul
and pretty things TO make our nome
more pleasant.
! But he IL very neglectful OF me. ne
knows love pleasure and nice clothes
both OF which he fails 10 provide me-
Understand me correctly do not ex-
pect him TO so beyond his means. but
do think he could give me more Oh
both II he chose TO do so. 49,,
Some time ago he told me he ala
not love me. | have tried hard TO ior-
/ get this and be happy. | nnd can
not. On the other hand. | know VIII
never forget II. Would IL be a goou
plan 10 talk things over, and plan
| friendly separation for our BABY
sake, so that we could at least pc
| friendsl Please give this letter your
prompt attention.-A. Is.
| A separation would be folly at It's
worst Count up this mans virtues.
BY your own statement. they far out.
number his faults Then forget ana
forgive. IL you both idolize the BABY,
YOU cannot possibly live apart
Do not think about yourself, ana
whether or not you are being neglect
ed. Keep your mind on the baby ana
the home, and you will not need any
other pleasure.
And don't worry because he once
said that he did not love you. he ala
not mean H. The man who loves his
home and his baby always includes
his wife. And he always deserves all
probation.
Dear Miss Grey:
Who pays for the flowers at we'd
dingf-C. NJ.
The birdes's parents pay for the
decorations; the groom pays for the
bouquets of bride and bridesmaids.
Dear Miss Grey:
Who is supposed TO pay for the best
mans and the brides fathers gloves
at a wedding Daisy.
Al The best man pays for his own
and so does the father.
Dear Miss Grey:
|: Please give recipe for caper sauce.
Jones.
A.: Chop one tablespoon capers
rub through a sieve, and mix with
1-2 teaspoon salt. little pepper and
one ounce butter. Add one hard
boiled egg, chopped fine.
Dear Miss Grey-Please name some
good love stories | could get at the
public library.-R. 8.
Lorna Doone." by Blackmore; The
Light That Failed" by Kipling; The
Rosary" by Florence Barclay;
"Tama," by Onoto Watanna: Able
Constantine" by Halevy; Letters from
G. Co." The Right OF Way" by Par
ker; Kingdom of Slender Swords"
by Rives; THE Prodigal Judge" by
Hester. and The Broad Highway" by
Farnol.
Dear Miss Grey-Is II possible for
anyone to love and still not trust the
one whom they love?-N. H.
Love has many definitions, and trust
undoubtedly enters into most of them.
But IN life, women say that they love
men whom they do not trust ~ and
men insist that they love women
whom they deceive. Perhaps great
love accepts the limitations OF the be-
loved, exists when trust has been de-
stroyed, and survives when deceit has
been acknowledged.
Dear Miss Grey-Is II proper for a
girl not quite Is to take dancing les
sons with her gentleman friend, with
out chaperon?-J. B.
Yes.
Dear Miss Grey-I want to cut down
the neck OF one OF my party dresses.
Which way do you think is better,
round, square or pointed back and
front?-B. r. s.
The y-shape Is newer than the round
or square cut, but 1t Is not becoming
TO women with long or thin faces.
Dear Miss Grey-(D Am Is. When
IN company OF a certain man friend
ne squeezes my arm. What does this
mean t2) I correspond With . young
man and he has sent me his picture.
Shall / send mine TO him? CD My
hair is straight and dark brown. How
shall | arrange It? az Are ribbons
worn on the head? 60 II a young
man pays for my stamps and paper.
shall offer him the money billie.
AID Simply that he's rather
fresh" CD That's question you
should decide for yourself Personally
I do not approve OF the indiscriminate
exchanging Of photographs. (3) The
center-part is fashionable now, and the
hair is rolled at the sides and coiled
or done In puffs at the back below the
crown. (D Yes, for dress 90 No.
Do not let him pay for them in the
first place.