El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1911-08-12
Success Talks To Men and Boys E sypr
How to Be Happy Though Married -

strative than youthful still real.
Love will keep the soul sweet and
free from the warping process of life.
Love is wife's only wages. Don't
scrlmp In your pay Consult each 9th
en- Lord Bolingbroke said: .Tf 7 wa
making up a plan OF CONSEQUENCE 7
should like first to consult a sensible
woman Be frank with one another.
avoid. as much as possible. all dis
putes- Every dispute between husband
and wife forces good humor out of its
channel and fnsidfously. though in
sensfbiy, undermines affection and az
last destroys that cordially which is
the soul OF matrimony.
About Getting Mad
Never be ashamed to apologize vben
you have made fool OF yourself
People who never act foolishly seldom
act wisely Nobody is always consist
emit The man or woman who never
made a mistake is a myth The most
dangerous internal machine in the
nome is the last word. II you must
get mad don't both get mad at the
same time Take turn about.
once, In while let your husband
nave the last word-it win please him
and De no particular loss TO you
carry over into the welded life the
refinement OF manner that character-
ized your wooing days. Don't imagine
mat because You have now won each
otner you need no longer be affection
ate.
Throwing Away the Net.
some women make all their charms
net for one haul and when they have
made the haul they throw away the
net. spend as much time after your
marriage making cages as you did
making nets before marriage and your
pro VIII not be so apt to fly away to
some other dear charmer.
Have some knowledge OF what Is 90
ing on in the world. Read the news
papers Be interesting. Be compan-
Ion TO your husband. He would rather
talk with his wife than with anv ora
else II she has anything to talk abou,
besides her petty annoyances. Man ia
apt to be self-centered and il you can
laik interestingly about his hobby he
VIII likely have his club at home
Don't be afraid TO praise each other.
Let your husband feel that YOU think
MIN a good one-it will be a strong
stimulus to his being so Let him
know that he has lost the name and
ne VIII soon abandon the reality.
wives must not cease honorins their
husbands on discovering that. instead
or being poetic and romantic they ara
very ordinary imperfect beings
Don't Be stin<y with Praise.
Husband, donn't be afraid to tell
your wife that you appreciate her
she has right TO an expression OF ap-
probation OF her unselfish devotion to
your interests Don't keep all your
flowers for her cold. dead brow. As
Nixon Waterman has it: "a rose to
the living is more than sumptuous
wreaths to the dead"
Don't pitch your expenditures too
high. Better shut down on petty ex-
penses than stoop to petty gettinzs.
Never speak to any one outside %
one another's faults Not even to your
minister or your doctor-they have
troubles enough OF their own.
Pay attention TO little things. Es-
arrangements are rarely the work OF
one day or caused by one offence.
The sunbeam Is composed Of millions
II minute rays. So the home-life must
be constituted of little rencernesses.
of kind looks, sweet laughter xeuIre
words. loving counsels and soon il will
De found that kindliness will spring
lp on every side. sdisplacing incom-
patibility of temper and irreconcila-
oility OF spirit and want Of mutual
even as we have seen sweet
Tiolets and primroses dispelling the
depressing gloom of the gray sea
.ocks.