The Newark journal., 1911-08-11
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 passed through and whom he eets into tine third he is there to stay. as the race now is. Some wise man Aas called them the stages of dependenee. independence and interdepcndenee Af-Grst fl is dependence Ee- cant walk or talk or dress GImself-caa't eaen feed himself The e9ly th.ps in Iaa world he can do#ts 10 summon az. sistance but ne Is certainly gifted at that one thing
 He could honestly say "tIt oaa thing Edo. if he were capable oI say. iu4 anything He has tezn fitted oct aish an appliance fer ura.a@ in distress calI or a riot call which is warranted to work at all heHrs. and to work exceptionally well in tHe darkness of the HisLt Foe aoN65a} wears he is in the strictly G#feaz at stagn. eyan iB his own siEW= of tfsa ease Then thore comes q period f iHdeuaHagueeano in fact hu- in lis feelings Ee son#ajine# thinks he would H6e 10 run aHaE.=laoeEh Tn ai- most every instance in which tEe aFa- away eare has been tried. if has com FIeto'H cured The runner. From mat t#4o ea running away is nat in H58 f5#a EE and by ta iz=more CT tzss asare ef tHe iatafle4eHaenaa za asz5 G.za there h's eh8u #ste. ia. ##i- eI## is HsaaltE like his asst st af taH likely to drop c9aa eay ed 2.sa was to tha ganz. Iz3lt szaer fae aaHe azTs, e5Ha=Hir ts h q in and has int tEe eleHeafs gi endurance
 So #ue#sae theee gro sRo eEHaMfa~ periods. before aH1 atzeT fte -EaE feflo8z one of tGa# aee# #ae aHA e#==e. dzza other s#sf# .##. sz1ata= =at} aza- H=rte3 with fho e7sa a#iHs ef tha s9- eial instincts Ell oftEam mark of nat ffaal state eE insa#'e.e## ###eaaee l##st prompts hHm iHt5 q aaazary ai#i. aHee with some bay and he keeps away from tHe aarss. fhan ha eats in 4h crowd cfz ZHnaar tta in- ttranee of fHls Ha= Iezf.'#a HFzzeh Isads him to taLa5n a larger sslz-an q his fellows. T#a moment tke #5=l begins 10 appear oa lis horizon, F. i5 aware If new phase Of iuter5 Head- eHco and he dror= tae gauE at one. wants 2 boy eham Is + for Tuolee- ton or cooperation? Thc boys come out Of their gang as the animals went into the ark two by two"
 In the first stage theif frlsGdship Is ike s4sla faH it comes win baH 2 ard q Fhiz and they must make tbe most c it while it lasts The two Use tie sane slang. the sane sell. fae same tones of voice f4a same SalH K and se.Etaety t'e sane personality They take turns drinking Eop oat af .he same bottle aAd chewing e#.ll ne piece Of chewing sam. and Taaa t4ey hare a3aHFai aH# a1aaa Ufa. zHe one E.o vas to Dam. 4sIa#lE treat g. Eaas af. I.#1 q s56z}s =ef= common fa7- ses-t -taaz oaa-eHad aeas and
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 H. tzat ffe age of n or r. tEat the maia el#m period aaa The elan impulse hes e,.eU is Hartic439r force and elsas wsy 10 another soofal inaui= =e raa5y double impulse. Ia likes the boy that he ties I'D wTf better ftau he eyer did like a boy before. and as for girls. they are tte newest thing in nseIs. just ont. an{ GsgatlF there Is some ono girl wbc certair.2 must have wings attached somewhere to her airy. fairy f94ra He fs growing seorctive. bccango la is the pesssso of newly awal-cred powers Of which he has not sat gained control and he finds that he ig connected with people and affairs in new way He is not yet sure oi himself His Cium has made him ehum for the same reason and the two understand each other.
 The things they talk about gre the things that belong 10 that age sports. of course. and what they in. tend 10 become and their plans and girls. That great day has Gaanad Some new powers are getting in com mand Memory is no longer lone some Imagination is actively at work The rational and delbeiative faculties are in the field. Santim nt hangs haloes over the outlying rutaee. His chum will put some Finishing touches on his character The might. lest influence of this period may come from Chat chum 10 blight or bless him forever. Even 1T theg go of to off ferent colleges or separate for differ eut parts of fhe world they will lfllefy cherish the ctnm feeling for each 9tLor all Of their lives He who deftly suldes him in the selection of his