The Ordway new era., 1911-03-10
The W0man Beaufitu/
By MME. QU VITE

There is only one way Of reforming
a wayward husband. That way 10 by
gaining his respect. The usual method
Of nagging and weeping IL a worthless
and obsolete system. A clever won.
An with humor. Intelligence. reason
and good nature-dont smile. there
are such women and they are not
dead-can bring the most unruly hus-
band into line. She does not harp for.
ever on her own sufferings. If he dis
sipates. she very tactfully shows him
how his waste of time ruins his own
chances for good work and success.
She realizes that II he goes out with
the boys night after night, 1t may be
because there isn't much at homo to
attract him. She becomes his good
old pal. and II she keeps a strong
heart and . steady head. the time
comes when she can't drive him away
from her.
pick. She has no desire to make her
seif plain.
There are marriages Of unequal In.
tellects a. there are marriages Of dif-
ferent characters. But II one loves
truly and deeply the plainsst goose
will always be . swan. Tho moment
that we begin to criticiss and to md
fault. the rosy glow OF love grows
dim. Twilight dsscends on young Mr..
Cupid and darkness 10 on the way.
Th> k>>n >w>A -iS~ ~skAa hAr frat
great mistake whom she begins to pick
faws and seeks mental blemishss. II
. mans heart 10 properly located. II
he 10 faithful. willing to toll for his
family. and gives his wife all the ten.
der little attentions that rightly be-
long to her. she can we'll afford to
overlook the fact that he occasionally
forssts to put his slippers away or
that he does not handle bis soup
spoon exactly to her fancy.
With some people the matrimonial
climate 10 slthsr q roast or . frost.
Most Of the domestic unhappiness
that mars the beauty Of = delightful
world 10 caused by individuals trying
to make their relatives see life ~ they
see It. A word to mothers: To make
your boy think As you do 10 wrong
Times have changed. and what your
mother taught you may not be proper
teaching for him. Guide your boy
with love and tenderness. When he
makes mistakes don't scold him. Just
say you're sorry. and isn't It fine that
he will know what to avoid. And
don't forget that you must progress A.
fast ~ he does-if you can-so you
will understand. The right kind Of =
mother 10 always just the same age
a. her child. She Ia his good chum.
and bis jollisst. most Inspiring friend.
Divorce courts prove that sometimes
. HttIs beauty 10 . dsnssreus thing.
Physical culture 10 not mere mus.
cular development. but equilibrium
and grace. The habitual pose Of the
body 10 the nrst matter for critical at.
teution. Plato maintained that those
who we're educated in mind and
morals only and possessed unframed
bodies were cripples. The best way
to acquire pose and grace 10 to seek
good gymnasium. As the body be-
comes strong. the spirits will be hap.
pier.
Many . mans downfall 10 caused BY
. clip Of . girl.
Truly. tho world do get q move on.
All tho old ladies' are now wearing
hish.heeled shoes. They say they ara
more comfortable. they give spring to
the walk. and 4 general spryness that
IN pleasant. The same old ladies spent
years vigorously applying the bedslat
of conversational rebuke to young
ladies who turned up their toes and
their noses at common-sense heels,
This IL = case In which she laughs best
whoSe laugh lasts.
Be cheerful. Today will Be ysstsr'
day tomorrow.
Those women to whom the turban
co,ffure 10 becoming can wear 1t and