The evening world., 1911-02-07
"Men and Women Here
Change Their Minds
So Much That When
They Do Marry There's
Little LoUe Left"
American Women Mental
Arndzons, but Too Inde-
pendent-Indian Wom-
en- Do Not Deem Service
of LoUe "SlaUery."
"Ths average American man and
omo live and die without know
ing what real love Is"

AS'e WV
There you have the opinion Of our
affections given by Prince lnayat Khan
OF the Court of Baroda, India.
Prince Hhan has come to America
TO study our people and customs. He
has also come to study our music. for
he is an ardent musician and holds.
among other titles. that OF Ten Sen, or
Champion Royal Musician to the Court.
The Prince has been In New York for
some little time and has had ample OPP
portuinty TO observe American men and
women in their homes. tn society and
In business, and wn ever opinions of
them he has formed are decided and not
to be shaken.
Truly" said Prince Khan. looking IN
from under his long. black lashes. II
mean what l say when | reinark that
the American man and woman, In ordin-
AIRY cases, do not know what real love
H. l come from a country where We do
understand the value Of love, and the
comparison OF the conduct OF the people
in tde two nations Is astounding.
Both Neglect the Home.
IN America, the arst thing that strikes
an Oriental is that the women dress
and decorate themselves not for their
husbands. but for society. This IS also
true Of the men. Both live Tor the otter
world and not for their own home.
Now. In East India we. have a very
different state of affairs. There the
woman dresses for her husband, no;
for other men. When the husband dies
the wife .subdues her dress and almost
considers herself dead witt him. Here
the women seem to dress all the more
after such a catastrophe. and walt 10
marry again.
women n ,nen In America are
90 busy making up their minds and
changing them about the one thoy
want to marry that by the time
they are married there 10 little love
left IN their nature"
1T Is useless to tell US. who have
made a study OF the greatest thing in
the world, love, for thousands of years.
thu one can change his or her mind a
hundred or more times and feel a real
love for the one on whom the last de-
c!sion falls.
II P.on otcs Jealousy.
In India nearly all OF our women are
4ucated 20 understand the higher
PHILOSOPHERS and religion. But before
the mind can be prepared to receive
spiritual instruction OF a high nature.
personsl love must have been felt and
understood. Love for ieliow-Crcaiurcs
ard FOR some Individual, when Il Is high
and great, is mex. to religion, and thht
IL what our men and women learn, and
tina; is why the3 grow up to love one
individual and haow they love, insteai
of loving, or thinking they do, forty or
flfty, and in The end fiudins out that;
they are incapable. and always have
Seen. OF loving any one at AL.
at would take many. many genera
tons TO tram tho American woman to
the state of mind to which the Hinloo
woman has arrived, and eve when she
reached 1t I do not know that she would
be happy. She is not Of tho same tenn
permanent, aud her surroundings are, OF
course, radically different. ic', Il She
would but study love in It's real sense.
and understand 1t from the spiritual
side, think you would hav happier
homes, less divorce. Tower spinsters.
This lack of love among mon
AID women in America leads to all
sorts OF complications. It pro-
notes jealousy, from which more
trouble arises than from any other
source. Jealousy promotes rent
Iessnsss, envy, and this terminates
in . lavish expenditure OF money
on social affairs.
The women in the delight OF showing
themselves and their clothes 10 society
gradually grow away from the husband
Cor whom they have, In all p~robab ility.
never felt any great love. This is the
most striking OF all the qualities of
American life when you speak Of the
association Of American men and
women.
But there Is another side to your
women that Is tremendous and astound-
ing. Because they are hungry for love
] believe that the women have turned to
other purposes in life, and the result is
that you have the finest and strongest
brains In your women of any in the
world when it comes to business and
affairs OF the world.
9TH American women are the