The Big Sandy news. [volume] (Louisa, Ky.) 1885-1929, 1911-10-20
home Circle Column.
COLUMN DEDICATED TO TIRED
MOTHERS AS THEY JOIN
THE HOME CIRCLE.

only one head, and that be yours,
postpone your wedding indefinitely,
There is an old saying to the effect
that an untidy mother has disobe-
lent children, and, while neither
parents or children may realize the
why or wherefore of Il, yet there
is always a lack of respect and an in
difference 30 the authority OF a
mother who takes no pride In her
personal appearances.
The meanest men in the world are
those who have allowed themselves
to drift away from their mothers an
forget all about them The best AMI
bravest men in the world are those
who have necer been co proud as
when doing something pleasant for
the kind old mother
Who does not feel more cheerful
and contented for receiving a polite
bow genial"good mornign''a hear
ty shake of the hand? Who does
not make himself tine happier by
these little expressions OF fellow
feeling aud good will? silence and
stiff, unbendiug reserve are especial
" selfish and essentially vulgar
There Is a certain species OF rep
tile found in all parts OF the known
world; It's home Is not so much In
the jungies and wilderness. as one
luents the haunis OF men. showing
by this that it is OF social char
lcter; cities. villages, and the spar
sley populated neighborhoods. each
and all olaiis It's attention The
name OF this serpent is SANDER
We hope Il has no abiding place In
The home OF any OF our readers
The Home Circle department is
The best antidote yet discovered for
this vile reptile. and seldom fails TO
drive it from the home in its week
y visits
The woman whose life book has
love written on every page; who
makes a home for a man,ahome in
4 house and in heart, a home that
he is sure OF. home that is full OF
love presided over byone whose price
IS abouve rubies, she is the mod
Il iwfe.
Parents make thir great mistakes
IN heir training OF children, by not
their individually. Each
hid has pecularitles IN mind. tenn
permanent, disposition and character
which makes it an individual prob
EN- Mothers in lamenting the fall
ire of home discipline sometimes say
4 am sure cannot understand it;
have always tried TO do my duty
BY them, and have always treated
my children exactly alike Therein
les the very secret Of her fail
ire; she has not realized their
she has made the
Of using the same formula
'or different problems: she has sougl
% moe distinctly different locks by
he same key The same sun meIts
wax and hardens clay
OF ali the evils prevailing among
Young men we know of none more
It's moral effects thon
The tendency to speak slightly OF
The yirture of women. Nor is there
any thing in which young menare
so thoroughly mistaken as the low
estimate they form OF the lnterltgy
of women not of their own mothers
and sisters, tAsnk God. but Of 9TH
ers who they forgetare somebody's
elses sister nd mother.
There is no question that a child
can serinously and fairly ask that
cannot be as seriously and fairly
To tell the child or to
lead it to infer that It ls"too little
to know any thing more on any subj
which IL already knows enough to
frame a question, is to deny It's ca
pjacity for further groth. 1t is to
thrust the childs mind into adungeo
of opening it to thelight-
We do not know why any one
should object to wife calling her
husband by his first name when
among friends but 1t is seldom re-
garded as good form to do so except
ing in the presentsofrelatiyse. No
one, however, can object to Mr. Smit
Nor r. White. And don't say Smith