The times dispatch. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1903-1914, 1911-01-08
Over the Nuts and Wine
By FRANCES couR7EMAY BAYLOR

creatures they can take the expert
cncc Of !, lady who has srcnt thirtv-
five years in Kings Daughter mission
work. and bid farewell 10 every
fcar'--bc sure tina, they would be
Going angels work
The Hnbit of Hurry.
II would be worth while for every
cuSy American to make some pretty
stern resolutions about hurryinE. and
aeep, them sternly: Never to dress in
hurry: never TO dash along the
streets even to catch trains, as If
competing with an auto. never 10
COCK his hours of rest amusement
sleep. because lie is hurried. In
short TO set his pendulum for every
act of his life for the long swing. not
lie Snoh hau aSi,t III one and stick 70
digestion, MS spirits. his health, hap
pineSS and prosperity would gain by
II II he would simply stand like stone
val jackson. and let nothing. no one.
nothinS, induce him 10 hurry. For
nurrN produces worry and Hurry. To
set up In IL swivel. put on his hat
h jn,n b Wi'n r,o; alarm az his watch dash
anu bolt breakfast, run for n car.
PC ratified and banged DOWNTOWN rush
INTO the Office and spend the whole day
IN q business swivel and whirl Of see
me pcupic, making contracts. dictatin.
70 a clicking typewriter, rushing back
tn another hurried meal. running to
yd,ch SECOND car. living out an af-
haiI ~ ad-well, the Sphinx couldn't
stand II n week, 1t would crumhic
~, III Snnd, iet this is Just the life
men have made for themselves. II is
simply suicidal. and II is not ncces.
Tafy AZ NJ. II is just u bad habit
20 !nst what you are doing now-wc
SAINT choose our work. Eut do 1t dit
,erentiy. BE master OF the situation.
not IT'S slave! Ii may possibly DC in
f t6 power TO cultivate serenity in
nj Tia
running their health and nervous sys-
icmS by strain ana rush Tho very
ihinS that strikes an American
IN England is that nobody ever seems
70 be in hurry, though as ii is tho
centre of an empire. they accomplish,
~ much as their more cXcitlbic and
ir eINons neighbors, the French and
Itst as much as Americans. y New
oIkef VINO mas set ND II large manu-
lacturtnE plant in London two years
40, was perfectly amazed and dis
81 all London business people to rest
ior hulf an hour and take IA cup of
= th H," !: Is tea, Ike every one else in
Such nonsense! Such waste OF
money!" he at first cried out. But YOU
rhg6 n niss ms IVY ven hope TO move The .\llc
man lie found himself obliged to
Weld the point lie found his force
refreshed and alert after t,cir iit;Ie
rest chat. tea le wound up by TAX
Wnrk less we'll, but, better and longer
Tor the unhcard-of indulEcnce. What
Is the use Of killing yoursclf." they
hahed: when you are dctd YOU will
some comfort as YOU gu?' Here is
what a very clever don in this coun-
Try says OF it:
70 "My a al, i,, was recently called
professor I'm which the writer RIO.
hulIcd us individually and as ma
no, ,,"h Tor our lack of manners due TO
,nG hurry habit. lie classcd this
'nhit among the bad. scnselcss. in
tNcusablc habits and | fully agree
WIN him Watch crowd anywhere.
lni onto them lighting for first places
ETtnE upstairs or down; squirming and
elpoWinE 10 get through gateway
or an open door, and II YOU were to
Mario could icll YOU why lie or she
was on thf Gend Jump.
nc average mhlo being will con-
suit his watch, bound across the lawn.
run like mad for car, hire a cab
|" break tho speed law driving TO
!: ferry dash into his Once az II he
, M" aone 90 Yards III ten seconds. re-
move his hat and ovorcoat, omen his
ucsH. nuil out a slide cock his feet
on IT, light cigar and wonder what
ne going 10 do next.
The average female being will boro
lnrcuSt a fringe of shoppers nnc feet
uccu 70 forEc TO bargain counter
inu litter shes arrived she'll calmly
Ply down her purse- and Tlrasol, ginger
tho goods for fifteen minutes. ask
questions concerning the prIces--past
present and future-nnd move OF
ioisurely without buying SO much as
q spool OF thread '
GOOD manners arc Important we
are losing ours rapidly by great land.
Siidss and aramnchcs: good health is
wal essential, How could We put In
1911 better than by giving orr yot,nr.
nrppic IN every class Of life some ole.
mental ideas Of dress and address,
I9iher than ''IIcllo:'D treatment of
| elders and supcriors and interiors nnd
| SranScrS; conduct in public places,
oblieutions TO our clergy. hosts en-,
ourtlon' TO peoplc who have enter
,alncd us AZ dinners, balls theatre
parties; 10 rclntivcs visiting our com
, nuhtS: TO our parents friends and
ora Ichooimatcs: TO watering place
chsnail acGuaintances; to cveryhody
IN inns country among rcspcclablc
pcorle. II IS not too much TO say
that one rarely mocts a polished votIntr
man. OF high bred girl nowadays
| hmohS those young pcoplc who come
from Colonial families. Even ir they
are not such horrible had form as
!" swear. To tipplc. 10 smoke 10 be
have like a football sport in pettl.
coats, they show In a thousand ways
mat they have had no authority cXer-
G,Sed oyer them and are without breed
lnG-tac Scn;leness. grace. charm
sweet unseiishneSs. modest dctneanor.
giriislI ionk At life over dear mothers
wing mat was and is and always will
pc 50 charminE-thc natural position
ot young girl in patrician families.
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