Americus times-recorder. [volume] (Americus, Ga.) 1891-current, 1911-08-03
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THE OTHER WOMAN
nupp1ap Observation-Disclosures
(By Cynthia G~ey.)


all liars-the taIebearer. Many a faith
full heart has been wounded and many
g. home broken up through this source,
and history will repeat itself just so
long as wives and husbands permit
themselves to listen to the tales.
Dear Miss Grey have been away
from my husband for a long time, not
separated by law. btu financially. He
was unable to send for me until the
present time. l wrote to him every
week, and he was kind and would
answer my letters.
But since l have arrived I find o1t
that he has passed for a single man
and has been quite attentive to a
woman. She tells me she told him she
loved him and he told her he loved
her. But he never limited that he was
married.
Well, now she has found out and
! tells me all about their love-making.
Now my husband stays at home and IS
true to me, but | doubt his love. Do
you think l should? l was supporting
myself, but he has been sowing his
wild oats, going to all kinds of amuse-
ments with this woman. | have not
told my husband that she has told me
Should l tell him.
He gave her a present for Christ
mas and she gave him a remembrance
Do you think he still cares for the wo-
man? Will you give me your advice
on this? l don't believe l love him as
| used to, for this comes to my mind
and l know that the woman has told
me the truth.
Since l have been here he acts
sarcastic towards this friend of his
but she said to me, I'll never speak IL
him again. He has deceived me- She
says she does not love him now, but
don't believe | can either. So advise
me-Alma."
Don't worry about it for one minute
If you had not been The One Wo
man to your husband he would no
have sent for you, and neither would
he stay at home with you now.
If you care for him no longer jus
on account of this silly woman's tattle
I haven't a very high opinion of tht
quality of your affection
1t is easy for US to drift into friend
ships when alone and lonely. Their
may be any number of sane and sens
IDLE reasons for this particular friend
ship in which you are interested.
The fact that your husband has beel
going to places of amusement will
this woman does not argue that he ha
been sowing wild oats, by any means
: And the very fact that he does no
seem to care for her particularly nov
indicates that the friendship did no
amount to so very much after all
You and I know, and so does every
, body else, that there are plenty o
vain, foolish, man-crazy women VIII
are ready to believe that the man VIII,
chances at them twice is dead i
love with them
These women fool themselves, an
then when their tender feelings ar
hurt they run around and howl abod
it afterward. If in doing this they Gu
hurt some other woman, so much tn
better-Or so they think.
= There's not the slightest doubt tina
a woman who would go to a wife witt
such tales as this woman has told t,
you, would also stretch the truth yer.
materially in the telling in order t.
gain her point.
You made your mistake in listenin!
to her tales in the first place. Yol
should have turned her out at one,
when she began to talk to you abou
your husband.
What if he did remember her a
Christmas time? He may have admir-
ed her in a friendly way as a womanl!
woman at that time, and discovered
| since then her real nature, which i!
undoubtedly mean and indicative.
; Don't if you love your husband, pa,
any attention to her Refuse to Sc.
l her when she comes to you. Put hel
out of your mind as nearly as possible
latter confiding in your husband-if yoD
> wish to do that.
Of course he loves you, and if you
: love him stick to him. Remember, you
= married him and he married you, fol
better or for worse.