El Paso herald. (El Paso, Tex.) 1901-1931, 1911-11-15
ciously pleased with the adulatiOn Of

ciously pleased with the adulation Of
fered to him.
Of course, this isn't what a woman
anticipates when she gets married. No,
indeed. Far otherwise. She expects
to occupy the pedestal herself or, at
the worst to stand on level with
I her husband, and for them to strive
equally together to make happy
home.
She soon finds out, however, that in
marriage it is a condition and not a
theory that confrOnts her, and that If
there is any adapting OF the one 10
the other TO be done. she has to do It.
and If the home is to be happy she's
got to undertake the job.
Otherwise there will be discord and
divorce.
Nobody will deny that it is hard and
unfair on women that the wife should
have to DO the propiuating and the
pleasing, and that she should always
have to walk Warily to keep off OF
her husband toes, while he feels at
perfect liberty to trample all over her
little feelings with his number 10 boots
and be as gruff and impoitic as he
pleases.
It would cheer a woman up just as
much after d long, hard, monotonous
days work cooking and sewing ana
baby tending to have her husband
come home with q bright and CHEEKY
smile as it does him to be met BY
glad eyed wife.
Up to the Wife.
Only a man never considers that it
is up to him TO be Little Sunshine IN
less he happens to feel that way. Some
body has got to GO the optimistic
stunt in a household. or else it is so
dreary that it drives people to drink.
Therefore the wife has to smile.
It would be just as soothing to
Woman's temper to have her husband
always rub her fur the right way. and
to conceal the things that annoy her
from her gaze, as it is to mans
temper for his wife to sidetrack all Of
the subjects that are like a red flag
to mad bull to him, and to cover up
all of the family happenings that are
sure 20 rile him and get on his nerves.
Only a husband COeSnt take the
trouble to be tactful and diplomatic
with his wife, and unless in a house
somebody keeps the domestic machin-
cry fabricated you can hear its creak-
ing and groaning cor blocks around.
The bare facts in the case are that in
ssmuch as a man won't get along with
his wife, she has to get along with
him. Hence women hold down the
perpetual job Of salve spreaders.
It would be just as pleasant to a
woman for her husband to put on his
Open-faced clothes of an evening, and
devote himself to entertaining her and
talking about the fashions. and wheth-
er hoop skirts are likely to come back
again or not, as IL is to a man for his
wife to marceIle her hair. and put on
her prettiest frOck. and spend the
evening trying to converse with him
on the stock market. or the green
grocery trade. or whether the politi-
clans are really going after the trust
or are just trying TO get bought up.
Only a man isn't going to make
the eXerdOn of dressing up just for his
wife. or bore himself talking to her
unless he happens to feel like it, and
somebody in a house has got to tear
off some conversation to keep it from
being like a deaf and dumb asylum.
In most homes the husband sits up as
silent as the grave. Hence the wife's
tongue has to run like a flutter mill |
because she has TO talk for two.
No, "One Who Smiles but Is Tired Of |
Doing It." there is no reason why you
should smile any more than your hUs-
band does. But you will find that if
you don smile there'u be no smiles in /
your household. It isn't a question Of |
duty for you to smile. It's all a mat |
ter Of expediency, and in matrimOny
a wise woman learns to take all Of the 4
short cuts to peace and happiness.
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