The Ogden standard. [volume] (Ogden City, Utah) 1902-1910, 1910-07-07

on his part. but as her right, and TO
be spent by her as she has always
spent her o wn earnings. without crit
icism. The business woman when
married wants her own untrammeled
bank account, the same as she had
II In her single days And she wants
her husband 10 understand this posi-
ton and TO grant her financial inde-
pendence freely and sympathetically.
The business woman wants a hus
band who Will regard her as an in
teliigent being; not as somebody con-
venient to have about to cook his
food the way he likes It, to darn his
socks. and other wise TO valet him.
Not that she objects TO getting his
slippers: In fact. II Is her pleasure to
minister 10 his comfort. But she does
not want him 10 regard this as the
limit of her intelligence and ability.
SO to speak. Nor does she want him
TO look upon her as cllnging vine.
doll, or a being whose sole interest In
life is in pretty dress or new hat
She has been 50 thoroughly In
touch with the big, busy world of men
and women. with the vital problems
that rule that world. that she could
breakfast hour buried in the morning
paper, the evening, hidden in the
lepths OF the sporting extra; who
gives an occasional grunt IN reply to
her attempts at conversation; who
knows nothing but his business, which
he keeps for his associates. and the
baseball score. which he discusses
with his friends.
She wants n mental equal and she
wants n man who appreciates this
desire, husband with whom can he
spent happy hours with mutual sub
jects of interest outside of them
selves and the petty round of domes-
tic duties OF the trivial happenings of
their little world And because she
is economically independent. because
she knows men, she waits for mar
riage until she finds the man who can
give her this companionship and con-
geninlity that mean happiness.
The inexperienced girl may not
know how fits of grouchiness. lack of
self-cortrol. bad temper. can spoil the
JOY OF life. But the business woman
who perhaps has to endure these all
day long from some man in the Office
knows. She realizes that marriage Is
not going TO change lifelong habit.
not Immediately at rny rate. II she
accepts these in a husband, she ac-
cepts them with her eyes open and
prepared to make the best OF them.
Ne wer and better ideals OF marriage
are undoubtedly coming because OF
the business woman She wants the
same clean manliness. the same tend.
er love, the same companionship and
congenienalty that her unprofessionai
sister desires. But she Is better able
TO judge il she is going to get them
Best OF all. the man knows She
knows. And II Is inspiring him to
live up TO the ideals she has set for
him For. after all. the business girl
is the same lovable daughter Of Eve
she was before she doomed shirt
waist and short skirt, stuck pen be-
more practicable.
moro practical, more capable. And y
she demands more In the man she
marries she also gives him more. Her
little excursion into the business
world has taught her the grind man
endCres there. She can appreciate
with the sympathy born Of experience
all the jars and frets AID trials of
the business day. She realizes how
much n restful, happy home means
and thus is better able 10 provide II
and TO be In Ii, the true helpmatt
that is an inspiration for the daily
grind and JOY when the days work
is done.-ChicaGo Tribune,