The Detroit times., 1910-08-24
Gym THLA GREYS
CORRESPON DENTS


Dear Miss Grey: Although I love
my sweetheart very much and woulo
like to marry him, fear to do So
as he is a Catholic and am q Pro
testant. What do you advise?
X. Y. z.
A.-This is q question which comes
to me often and can only repeat my
answer: talk 1t over with his priest
and your pastor and be guided by
their advice.
Dear Miss Grey: What is your
opinion of q girl who will allow a
married man to spend the day alone
with her in her rooms? Is there any
excuse, even though she talks OF
"soul-mate" and affinity"
And what is your opinion Of the
man, whose wife to all appearances
is doing her best to make his home
a happy one?
What could the wife do, knowing
the circumstances?
CONSTANT READER.
Al decline to give my opinion OF
the young lady you ask about. What
think Of her cannot change her.
What you think of her cannot change
her. Thinking things of folks doesn't
do you any good and certainly doesn't
do them any damage. We spend too
much time working up opinions about
people. l have the same answer to
give about the man. But the question
about the wife Is different matter.
You ask what she can do. She won
him once; she knows how she did 1t.
She was Independent then and kept
him guessing A woman can always
do that the second time II she braces
up and tries. What won a man once
will win him again. I'm sure.
Dear Miss Grey have been mar
ried % years, and up to few weeks
ago was perfectly happy. When
married my husband he raised full
beard and l thought 1t became him.
A month ago he came home clearly
shaved. | asked him why, after wear
ing them all those years, he had
them taken off, and he said he could
not stand the heat would have be-
lieved him, but two or three days
after lady friend of mine said she
saw him going down River-st. with
quite young girr and she said she
hardly knew him, he looked SO much
younger. Do you suppose he shaved
them off to please her, and should
tell him what my friend told me?
MRS. II.
A-Your friend may be trying to
make trouble. Many men shave their
be ards nowadays, during hot wealth
err. Don't be jealous without better
cause than this. Be frank with your
husband.
Dear Miss Grey am twenty years
old, and was married at sixteen to a
man handsome and intelligent, many
years my senior whom loved devot-
edly and thought my ideal.
| did not care for a man Of wealth
or social position. My ideal was a
man who would make me first In his
life. who was true to me. l wanted
hCme, small and pretty, with children.
| have been married four years.
work side by side with my husband.
at his wish. have never had even
a semblance Of q home. l have no
child. My husband makes lots OF
money, but Is always In debt. / dress
plainly, at my own desire. He gets
drunk occasionally, during which !
do not see him for days, but know
that much of his time in spent with
a loose woman. Do you think that
my husband fills my requirement?
UNKNOWN.
Ale certainly does not IL all you
say is true. Appeal to the instinct
every man has for home and for
child. Keep his love and draw him
away from the unhappy influences II
you can. Dress better. Learn at
least that much of the art OF the
woman you think your rival.