The Detroit times., 1910-02-09
CYNTHIA GREYS
CORRESPONDENTS

Dear Miss Grey: ] have been mar
ried over a year, and | love my nus
band more than anything else In the
world. He seems TO return my love,
and he tells me occasionally that he
loves me very dearly. Sometimes
! think he does, but again | think ne
just likes me, but loves someone else,
lie kisses me quite often. but not as
( often as | would like. He caresses
me when | tell him he does not love
me. He is very good TO me. and never
goes out unless on some business.
and he Is generally prompt In com
/ ing back; but if he Is late (Which Is
very seldom) | am angry and want
/ him to explain why. When he does,
/ ! tell him it's Just a poor excuse. and
/ then he gets angry. When | see that,
| IL makes me feel badly, for | hate to
see him angry Then | try TO kiss and
/ hug him, but he won't let me, and
must beg and plead until he Is recon
ciled. That is what makes me think
that he does not love me, and | tell
! him so: but he says that II makes
! him feel badly when / scold him, and
that he loves me more than he ever
/ loved anybody else. Now Miss Grey
what / want to know Is whether you
think he loves me.
WORRIED AND ANXIOUS.
Abolish woman! If your letter
Ltells the true story of the situation
| fear that you are In a fair way to
! lose that which you prize most highly.
Can't you see that you are doing the
very thing that will turn your hus-
hate? And | fear that you are only
one OF countless foolish women who
jeopardize their happiness in this
way and then feel abused and won
der why such a dreadful calamity
should come upon them.
| OF course your husband loves you.
II he did not he would not bear with
your suspicious and your hectoring.
Why can't you trust him and believe
! in him when he tells you that he
! loves YOU? He can't always be telling
Iyou that-it isn't in mans nature TO
do so. To him belong the tasks OF the
nrovider. and he no doubt comes
home tired, many times TO find that
ugly specter, Suspicion, upon the
threshold. where he should find trust
i and tenderness.
4 The very fact that he chose you to
he his life-partner, that he loves his
home and is seldom away, that be
bears with your tantrums and then
forgives, proves that he loves you.
4 Take my advice. If you cannot
! keep these misgivings from your
mind, at least hide them. Be asham'
ned of them. Try In every way 10
make your husband happy. II he does
not often tell you he loves you, why
inst so much more often tell him
that YOU love him. Surround him
with tender care and sympathy. Let
Ltlnese doubts and misgivings continue
and you will soon degenerate lnio
FIAT most detestable, abominaDle
tildng-a jealous woman so re-
peat-your own future happiness anu
that of your husband rest enureiy
with you.
Dear Miss Grey-tD What is good
for a chapped face2 use good
gyftie of powder, but every time &c
QUA In the wind my face smarts an'
them pees. have used cold cream
but il doesn't seem TO help.
deb Also tell me what will dry colo
blia ers up.
| ar What is linseed oil used Tor
COUNTRY GIRL.
! AID Use soap but once a day
| and then simple one, such as cas-
| tile. Rinse your face with cold water
after washing in hot. Dry thoroughly
without much rubbing. Use race
lotion without grease or glycerin,
flax AMI ounce seed lotion. There