The Fargo forum and daily republican. [volume] (Fargo, N.D.) 1894-1957, 1910-12-05
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nrs thoughts without speaking. That's
the chumship OF 1t. the congenial talk
Of books and music and plays and
philosophy. And then there Is that
part Of love that doesn't want the per-
ron cared for to be hurt in any way,
that would protect and shield that per-
ion against all the world, that would
80 infinitely rather suffer in place Of
The beloved.
"All those three kinds of love to-
ether make up the perfect affection
stween man and woman But IL only
lne OF tho three Is lacking there ara
FOUND to be discord and ianglinE.
that's why there are so many divorces
L-because the husband and wife don't
kare for each other In all the thred
hays that together make the relation
between them perfectly harmonious"
~ "
The status Of woman has improved
wonderfully In Korea. II was not so
long ago that respectable women were
not allowed to leave the family COM
pound except in q sedan chair. Re-
Gently in a small town in Seoul wo-
man was found who had not left her
little house and walled garden for
forty years.
There was also bell which tolled
ht noon and meant that all the men
10 ieave the streets for two houra
while the women did their shopping.
And now the Korean woman is fols
owing the Japanese example. She nd
longer allows herself to be shut up and
known simply as the wife of So-and@
30. She also moves in mixed society.
@ y
There are thousands of college bred
telf supporting women" says recena
writer, Elizabeth Hepburn, who marry
Hnen of moderate means and are there1
by cut off from work, as they have
learned to understand it, since the wol
man who has enjoyed years Of slim
dlating mental labor will never find
complete satisfaction or development
I'm the performance of houseworlS.
sewing or attending to the physical
needs Of small children. These things
must be done, and done well. but every
thing points to a perfecting of system
fin the housekeeping OF the future
which will largely do away with the
bid fashioned methods Of the past. In
consequence of all this evolution from
tue udyS Oh ING mousse WUEu .
woman was in practical industry with
out passing beyond her gates. we have
now reached a difficult and painful
transition stage. Women at this time
fight for an education and get it, and
then, having successfully met the
the competition of other women and
of men in business, trade, the profess
sions. the arts and crafts, they marry
into an anomalous world where ii Is
sundignified' to keep their particular
job of stenographer, reporter, teacher,
saleswoman, and yet where the only
work offered them is work which is
Nnspecialized chaotic and mentally
inadequate to satisfy the needs Of the
trained mind"
What is the answer? -s
10 - ~
There are twenty monuments erects
led to women in the United States.
Several OF these are of Indian women
who have rendered services to tho
whites, and more than one stands a.
a tribute to trained nurse.
, Perhaps the most striking NOM.
meEt Of all is in Elmwood cemetery
Memphis, Tenn. 1t was erected In
honor of Matte Stephenson and Emily
Sutton. who gave up their home tn
victims of the yellow fever in 1872 and
nursed them until both lost their
lives