The Pensacola journal. (Pensacola, Fla.) 1898-1985, 1909-04-11

( IN the nome where love and regard
| rule, there is no likelihood of finding
| criminals, bIackguaTds and dishearJ-
| ened workers. The very sweetness
| and dignity of the mother tells of
| the rightness of the world, give cOUT-
! age, faith and hope. and have thejI
| influence upon all who come near.
| She is the uphoideT of good govern
| ment, not the one who fosters an
| aTchy, to its ruin.
Let US begin with the training OF
| husbands.
Husbands III the main are rather
harmless animals If properly man
aged, remarks Fanny Fern, an ancient
| and excellent expounder of feminine
| behavior. Skill and tact, she goes on
| to declare, are essential qualities for
! the capture of men, for the hand
that would guide things must be al
ways SlOYed. Being the lord of crea-
| ton, the hard-wOrked bread-winners.
men naturally resent the idea that the
| little while at home hust be filled
| up with nagging over tribes. 4 cei-
| tain amount of secrecy is necessary
! for the ragged ends of domestic gov
eminent. The faiIings of the cook,
the hOuSemaid and the nurse are food
for silent thought, the settlement of
them the home trials which must go
on behind closed doors, as far as
the husband is concerned.
Tired john must be met at night
with a whOle-hearted mercy. The
bathroom must be free for his fran
tic additions. There must be a smile
a pretty dress, a good dinner and
when he gets rested-some gentle aud
trickling talk.
NOfhius- DrofOvud NOV ha Fr5,,F-ro5
IN till John is, a man again. and he
store, the cotton gin or the tobacco
factory are far away. a hungry aud
tired husband does not care a rap If
Mars IS inhabited or if Aypnotism can
make good children of bad. He wants
merely 10 discover the curative prop
critics of appctizing food, the waIIow-
ing comfort of the easy chair and
10 be made to feel that he is boss
on his own little planet.
Woman's power over man lies in
just this consideration, in the hundred
and one little deeds whose roots
spring from her heart, and this ten
d6TneSs-fOr IL all means that-nO
husband short of a bear can resist He
may fly of at a tangent for a brief
breath, and over nothing, of course. !
But be silent yourself. Only give him
wistful OF smiling look, and after
@AC mas " sa-hEu dEOuhu inc BlDCh
he Will come back changed
and sanctifed being. A clever wife !
OF my acquaintance always says softly
when her lord shows signs of heated
discussion at home: Look out, or you
will have 10 walk around the block.
What does ne do? Why, he gTtDs
ali over, and in five minutes has kiss
ed her seven times
Children are never too old TO be
managed with the same sweetness, |
and the wise mother IS she who never
lets her fault finding assume a hate
fUl aspect I wouldn't do that, II
were you with some apt ilIUstra-
tiOn as to the danger OF the deed, is
lecture enough for a WeII-brought-up
son OF daughter
The mother who does all this, who
never fails in tenderness and courtesy
10 the husband aud children, who is
decOTOus, foTbeaTiug and kind in he=
home behavior from the day Of the
church blessing 10 that Of her death,
will reap 3 harvest Of confidence, love
and respect
In fact, ali the comfort, peace and
security of the home depend upon
the feminine head OF II; so, since
the home q the Nest sacred spot OF
al earth. WY rot show Cur best man
nerS there?
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