Wauwatosa news. [volume] (Wauwatosa, Wis.) 1900-1948, 1909-10-01


VOWS time o year when the cider
,aa.g.nsaioas amber-in the round RED
And he Boom on the grapes IKE the
Ai'N Neon on the cheeks
III maid at the tryst when low voice
speaks
Nov's The time o year when the Interests
Ana the he clear rfILmusic has a tlLlling fan;
I'Ipr of the south Wind. play up pay
Yol.s maud in mine, love, let US away!
Clinton Scollard.
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Marriage After the Honeymoon.
Society has no prettier pageant than
tbe familiar procession of the wedding
,vitb the white-veiled bride and her
u,ai,ieuS the flowers. the music and tie
beautiful ceremonial that is so soon over
and means SO much.
Young girl who lately attended Ii
wedding for the first time in her life eN.
claimed: Il never heard anything So sol
eun." She was right Underneath the
ga}e.; and the gladness there is the
far-ah sound of inevitable destiny in the
words. Till death do is part often 80
lightly spoken, sometimes so ilautly for
gotten.
yet. although divorce has become com.
means 50 common that it need cause "A
manic among us. Good women and good
men by thousands and tens Of thousands
are rue TO the vows pledged at the mar
rage altar. and households by the mil
lion in all our borders are witnesses to
tine purity and constancy OF the people
as q rule.
When bride and groom set out togeth-
or on their honeymoon they are followed
dy the loving wishes and warm cougrat-
uaJions Of kindred and friends. Even
strangers, discovering Mt a glance the
happiness they cannot hide watch them
with smiles and sympathiZe in their
pleasure, All the world loves lover,
and all the world loves to watch a new
beginning The laying of corner stone
is an occasion that never fails to attract
attention and that never pals by repe-
tition. Every wedding signalzes the
laying Of a corner stone for new fam
lily and new home.
After the honeymoon a young couple
have before them the real business Of
making acquaintance with each other.
Tie period of courtShip may have been
long or short one. This is Of no con
sequence whatever. Two peOple who
have met in the charming intercourse Of
vC5making do not really know one an
other in the fullest sense of the word
until, the world shut out, they start on
a new life together.
The bride has been accustomed to be-
ing the first consideration of her lover,
aud it usually gives her a little shock
TO find that he has other claims upon
his time and thought some of which,
apparently, push her into the back
ground. As one bride expressed it not
long ago in a burst of confidence. ''she
seems to be taken for granted, and the
man recently anxious to spend his whole
existence in her service is now intensely
interested in business, politics and the
c0mpani0nship of other men. He does
not plan, unless he be of Il specially do
nestle type, to pass every evening in
her company, although he will not, if he
can help it, let her spend many even
ingS in solitude. But the eXactiOus of
business M 9diately after the hGney-
moon com ei husband to leave his wife
to the ma, cement of her own affairs
for most Of the daylight hours.
4 process of establishment is likely
70 come to both unless they have a ster
ing fund of common sense, and stock
Of elastic amiability to carry them
through the trying period of getting thor
oughlT acquainted.
In these days, few brides, if they have
had the ordinary advantages Of the pub
lie school, are wholly ignorant of the fine
art Of cooking. Fortunately for girls
who have not been taught in their moth
frS kitchen how to make bread, brou
steak and boil potatoes, the teacher of
domestic science has introduced them to
its alphabet.
Fun is often made at the expense of
novice in housekeeping who does not un
derstand her profession, and has not the
least idea how much to buy from the
market man or what to do with it when
il is sent home Women are quick to
learn what they need to know about ca
terlng and cooking, and any ordinary girl
VINO chooses to give her mind to the
work may acquire everything essential
To- good housekeeping in six weeks.
Muddy coffee. sour bread, sodden vese-
tables and badly cooked meats need not
he set upon the table by any young
wife who possesses the capacity for tax
lng pains, and the deft fingers and clever
brain that are the distinction of Amer
lean girls.
If the young husband fall into the
unWisGom of making comparisons be
tween, his wife's cooking and his moth
erS, he is not only ungallant, but eX-
iremely stupid. Where no hired help is
kept the husband should from the first
lend hand in the harder portions Of the
work. as he may easily do in the morn
ings and evenings, and it should not be
thought beneath his dignity to assist in
the everyday task of washing the dishes
when the evening meal is over.
Entire frankness between husband and
wife from the outset will be armor of
proof against disputes and misunder-
standings. 1T is the little rift within
the Lutte. that by and By will make the
music mute" and if there arise the
slightest cloud upon the domestic sky,
II there is the least perceptible jar in
me harmony, whatever is wrong should
be- righted before the close of the day
The separation for the day after break
Last should be cheerful and affectionate.
Inc modern man, when he goes to the
ONCE or the shop, or starts forth on a
days labor, is in tie situation Of the
EAieht of olden time who went to the
battlefield No one can tell what may
lie before him Of temptation. perplexity
or disappointment, and the flower his
VIE pins in his buttonholc. her loving
Kiss as he goes away. her wave Of the
hand from the door or the window, are
as the lady's favor upon the knights
Mutual confidence and responsive SYM
pathy makes marriage perfect, whether
be Of prince in a palace or laborcr
I'D hut
Entire courtesy in sppech and act do