The labor world. [volume] (Duluth, Minn.) 1896-current, 1909-09-11

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asSspo not sil,isl,lll me. nm not
slayins fhat divorces n s. ,,nsa yivocal
evill Personally, I shslleve that 81 - y
crime for two persons Is M "a i love
less unio lon. But neither ths man mis-,
! 'l i! nor the Vie abused has any
Itsht Visit the unfortunats results
ofsthetr own folly On a innocent head
nor draF : III whose chief fault ID in
ovsrs ock 81 ny md tenderness
into the mirs 5of their domestic scandal.
The man who hds really been ywroInxed
a his domestic life viii Keep lis lips
ae4lsd on III troubles until he is ready
stq' art. and. having. acted. to qfter Ia
the woman who he thinks would con-.
5sloles him Tor: years Of emp tina.s ma
dlallpsio nnnent "a untettered hand and
Mans. siI5 81 ssF fSsSS
]. The man who really, loves ! woman
sdoes not want 10 place the smallest
blot On her fair name. He, does not
wspt her dragged through the mire 81.
divorce. scandal. He ID willing to take
chaApes on her waiting until he is free
10 nsarry her. ~; q : 1.5e .ss
Md VI a this axe Of teo-easy d.
vorces. following on. too. hasty mar
:riases. there are many girls who be-
neve that the I sreatest evidence Of q
MANS leye 20 his UNIV willingness to wait
until freed from matrimonial letters.
h i an not saying that the husband Of
whom NY correspondent writes Is not
nilsunderitood. doubtless even Erievous-
ly burdensd. by matrimonial letters.
But the question propoinded by the
.sirl / ii not What OF the man ~ but
What Of 1asf u .,l Isl: 4:
4 She sean depend upon Il that she will
pay the price OF the mans weakness
s:weil g her own. That So inevitable,
Ana the next woman to whom he goes
&or sympathy viii probably hear how
dreadful Il q to havea girl take ones
attentions o. seriously. s III. ' Ns-5s
* For, believe mo. dear girls, the man
generally rnisunderst by his wife re-
quires : great deal Of sympathy, moro
than you or any one women can sup
ply. 4, He Graves sympathy snd. appre-
citation as you crave pretty frocks and
ynur little brother yearns. for sweets.
You think II you could have q stun
ring tailored. suit! in shimmery broad
cloth your cup Of, happiness would be
fun But, possessing the broadcloth.
! you Immediately begin to lay aside pen-
nies TO-: buy q dancing frock with chit
Ton trimmings. t s,s. . pc !. 2sst s', -.
Your small brother lives in hopes Of
buying some OF those big fat choco-
e lates In, the corner shop window. but.
securing: . couple of these, his soul
yearns for Ice cream soda. .ss.
And please bear in mind that the
!. man misdnd erstood Views feminine COM
panionship much as you consider frockl
. and your small brother sweets. There
!. Is little more dignity attached to his
!. devotion. or hunger for companion
ship and appreciation He. has simply
]. substituted conquests fori,sweets, and
t the sreater the variety In sight the more
s.:voracious he becomes. ss1s: 81 IS:
& ,Jiist remember that, when the other
woman . husband u forced upon your
/ horison ~ the. elsw Of propinauity, the
CREST love. the love which is worth
while. = the love which denies and
bides its time. not the love which urges
! you to defy conventionalittes and en-
danger your social and moral standing.
! For the girl who earns her own living
! has both OF these standings to main
tain s s-@fys ~ & iI4ff -