The citizen. (Honesdale, Pa.) 1908-1914, 1909-06-04
'cs1NRDY Oak STYLE OF Wife
Crree ,cus CT Taste In Chicago as In
aieated by Pastor vaughn's
No.-, Esna

oaEc.-H 2Vlng discovered what
L.. average -,rl wants in the way OF
"A hcrd, the ler. D. y. Vaughn, OF
the Iiaistec Street Church. learned
g. taree score single men, COM
r.r..cart5 o. lis church, what they
fno--et would De about right in the
r 20 Inc.
On Sunday h. rropounded these
'u. ms 10 the men and ASKED Tor
.'. ,l replies:
".-.s sic be p-etty?"
'..st she be e good cook ans a
a. Lulsekeepe-?"
'..-t sle be s.y.ish?"
-. e.. she be viva ious, or quiet?"
'iust -. % society o. d home
,.'?"
',,1Gst she be a college graduate?"
must she bc talented-piano, elo-
a-ou. Lc.?"
10 you prefer new woman or
old-tashionod kind?"
-Gzt she have z good disposition? ?"
~ she be a club woman, d re-
80 44ei', or be interested in politils.'
'Lo you want a twining ivy CT a
st:.i1y oak?'
A:;e~ analyzirg the replies the pas
.oI said:
Tie men are opposed to the cole
:iate sri. Very few have a word 10
say in her favor. They are also
against the stylish girl. They want
ncatness but are afraid of style. The
majority favor the sturdy oak rath-
er than the 'clinging vine Their
ideal may also be = club woman and
in: ere sted in politics and reforms. She
need not be pretty nor a good cook.
They believe she can quickly learn to
cook, but she must not wear big hats
Extremes indicate a Lack of independ-
enGe.
Il am surprised at the. number who
say they will take new woman. The
present hipless gowns are barred on
the ideal wife. Almost all favored vi
vacious or jolly women, and one who
loves home, but yet not neglecting the
society of others. One man wru Q:
She must take an interest in ho2 g,
church ami baseball
of college graduates they wrote:
No, she would be too much for me.
they know it all, and that would new
cr do-her line of conversation wol.G
Dc too strong.
Piano players were not in denaiI l..
! can buy a pianola and a pro o-
-rarh,' wrote a score. still, a y. L.! '
layer would not be bad to cheer -.
. when ] am sad All wanted cr"
~ telnre~am ents. with humor all
eaiality."
,as,CT Vaughn also sent out to L.
.1nEI eEation these questions on VIA.
Institutes an Ideal Family
What ought to be the miniEl u.a
an. ount OF income on which a yo1-.
AN narries?"
Ought there be law restIi- -
marriage when the income falls be-
This minimum"
Who ought 10 carry the pocheto,' D..
the husband or the wife,
Ought one 10 buy on time o.! y.
pn;il he has the cash?"
Ought parents 10 sacrifice the .
Gives for Their children TO the pc.
+ indulgence"
Is lying TO children to enc
nha5ience CT for any other cause j. .
..D.e?"
Is it right for parents to open l.,
ch,ldrens nail?"
Here is a composite picture o. ,e
deal home. according to DR.. Nauz,E'
correspondents:
The wife has as much right 10 tla
iGCrey as the husband.
ositively no credit must be C..
sidered.
Parents must never sacrifice them,
selves 10 the point OF Indulgence.
Force children to be obedient, w.
hope of reward and be free il G.
pressing YOUR love for them.
Children should never be lied to IL
order 10 force them TO be obedient'
never burden the older children W.
he younger ones.
Tie sisters should never be obl-1,
q give up school for the brothers.
Brothers and sisters should trea'
?" n other alike and favors at hOlo
should not be governed according IT,
their sex.
Children have no right to be paid
for the work they do at home.