Arizona republican., 1909-06-12

N NE may have just the dearest, H E sweetest husband In the world, al- M ways considerate and kind, but the NE fact remains that he has to be man
 aged and managed most tactfully. if the domestic peace and happiness are to be kept intact Why this is so under such conditions Is inexplicable. but 1t Is SO Perhaps 1t Is the nature of the brute to need managing snce In a while. and if ones husband be the other sort the necessity for managing him Is all the greater and. naturally, all the harder task
 To manage ones Iiege lord and master is m art. indeed. the first requisite or which Is that he shall be managed with out knowing he is managed. for no man is willing to admit even to himself that hls wife can manage him. To give your husband certain definite and positive in- structions about this. that, or the other thing is not managing him at all-lt Is. frankly, but Gn olt-and-out and Had vised attempt to make of him q grouch and Il wrangler. or Mfr. Hen-Peck- IL Is easy, no doubt. IO suggest that your husband can he managed with tact. sub tlety and kindness, and difficult thing to accomplish this desired result-but II is not q hopeless task in any but the
  felicity.
 Though 1t is generally admitted thnt the attitude of two married people. each toward the other. is 5eterElined by their relations iu this respect during the 1rst six months of their married life. there is no custom or tyranny of husband over wife that cannot be aleviafed if only the right remedy Is applied. To find that remedy is a difficult task. and the woman herself Is the only one who can do so.
 Study the idiosyncracies Of your lord and master and the peculiarities of his ego He Is not inyulnernble everywhere. though be may appear to be as much so as was Achilles If you can only rench his heel, to carry out inc figure. he will succumb as did that immortal hero of mythology.
 To understand your husbands character thoroughly. his tastes hls habits. and his mental calIber will enable you to avoid the sources of I1Hcb d.scord and irrita ton.
 To generate tLs idea In his mind that he must do likewise concerning you Is a more difficult task. but one not hope less of accomplishment. A clear Insight iuto what manner of man your llege lord is opens the why for you to avoid many of the jars aud jolts on the matrimonial highways
 It Is strange indeed. but none the less true. that the women who do the most Insnaging are generally Tue ones who are a trihe afraid of their husband. Fearing bis III temper. his irritabllity and his rensure. such a woman SePks to keep from her hnshand every little dumest'r disaster that may call forth these qualities ID him. She will even So to the extent of telling "a white lie" 10 avoid a family upheaval. .A. s-fn or that thing inside out. about and around. so thnt 4 will fall in with her husbands mood or desire.
 If there Is something she Is especially de sirous of accomplishing. she begins weeks beforehand to twist and turn the desirel thing so that it will be presented to her husband In light calculated to be most acceptable to him. Such a course may be wise or unwlse but 1t Is manifestly un- fair and its existeure unjustifable. Such woman Is really managing her husband Indirectly. though directly making her own wishes and efforts sulrservient to his If this Is the only way 1t can be done. then do 1t.
 There Is the other sort of husband who takes extreme delight ID rnnpling his hair all up, banging first one fist and then