The Julesburg grit-advocate., 1909-07-02

your mind will form the tFieh Of fol
loving the old ehanneis. and 700 will
come to live on the oA memories ex
elusively. That means decay Of msnd
and dissoistioa-
Or
II yoa withdrav yosrssaf from the
new faces. shrink from sociabiiity
and, like . rat In his hoSe. issse forth
only whea yoa mSst. yos Will soor
become . back number. Let this
world alone for ever % shoFt Q time
and 1t will 1t yos aboas foe god and
all.
Or
II you are inhospitabls to new idea.
youf attention to the things Of cusrent
interest will soon grov rallossed. tn,
mind grows BY what II feeds On.
Or
Cease from your earnest endeavors
"retire from business." make no plans
indulge 10 hopes Of fstsre accomplish
ments. What can yoa expect? You
will age rapidly. both In body and in
spirit.
Bot II you keep . youthful soul by
means Of new memories. faces. IDEAS.
hopes. you will not only keep old age
In the background. but yo0 will have
sympathy for the young and tole,
ance.
You VIII not say. - % many elderl,
pefsons are apt to say:
well. people did things difRerentis
when ! was young. Manners and Gus
toms were bstter in the good old
days"
Rather you will ask yourself II you
really did do better in yoar day and
WHISTLER. after all. the world IN not
gFoving better.
Above all. II yos would keep younr
In spirit be careful your temper does
not grow intractable. Do not become
irascible A. you srow older. The man
ifestation II temper In an elderly per-
son b not only very unbscoming. but 1t
b dangerous to him who indulges II.
You should have learned to control
yoar feelings. Yos shosA have learned
how to cultivate the virtues Of IA
tiencs and tact and sympathy and
charity.
And. II 70. you viii realise the truth
Of the Scripture that, while 'the outer
man decays. the inner man b renewed
day BY day"
Grow Old gracefully and graciously.
TAKE YoUR W1gE'S ADvDcE.
II you contemplate some important
step without having consulted your
wife-don't!
Her intuitive insight may be worth
more than your de,ibesate reasoning.
Some one has said:
when q man has toiled step by
step up 4 flight Of stairs b. viii be
sure to ind q woman ct the top. but
she will not be able to tell how she
got there"
A man comes up to . conclusion by
the slow steps Of deliberate logic. In
stinctively the woman reaches 1t by q
single bound.
Especially u the normal. average
woman quick to So the right or wrong
involved in a proposition. She jumps
over subtle distinctions and evasive
phrasing and lands on the hrm ground
Of eternal Righteousness.
Ethically every woman 10 q seer
And especially clear are the eyes Of
q wife in any matter involving the
welfare or the good name Of her fam
fly.
30, when in doubt. consult your wife.
A wife's judgment ID usually good
in matters Of business. Especially IL
she to be trusted where insight into
human nature 10 required. She will
give you valuable counsel in the se-
lection Of a partner or an important
agent or representative.
Make your wife q close confdant in
all things. especially II she IL a wom-
an Of character and not one Of the
social butterflies whose chief desire b
to show herself.
Your wife's counsel may sometimes
seem to be wrong. but events are apt
to Justify It.
There was Victoria Colona. a strong
character Of history. Her husband
was 4 loyal friend Of the great Charles
v. At one time the former was Of.
fered the crown Of Naples II he would
Join the league against Charles.
Though strongly tempted. he asked his
wife's advice. and she babe him spurn
the proposal.
Not every wife would have refused
to be queen.
But most wives would.
Because the project meant base be-
trayal and treachefy. and the true
heart Of a woman 10 turned against
such baseness.
You should seek your wife's advice
because she Is your best friend and q
competent and honest counselor.
Make her q full partner.
Take no important step Of any sort
without q conference with her. She
viii help to clear away dimculties and
may be able to suggest ways and
means that might not occur to you.
And she will be glad to share your
confidence.
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