The Pascagoula democrat-star. (Pascagoula, Miss.) 1878-1920, 1909-05-28
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COUPLES hefofs msfflsaa agree that
the msn shall sttend strictly to b,s
own side and the wife 10 hers. and
That They shall N nD way interfere
With cnch other In word each
agrees 10 ,ct Independently 10 bla and
her own particular sphere Helieye
me. that II a vety bad arrangement
Anh u not NJ all conducive towa,d
peace and happiness existing IN The
home. think that where real ~.
lection exists there viii be ron,plets
candof and ffankness, and not one
item Will he withheld IN either aide.
obviously, a husband hHs every
right 70 know what Ia taking place In
the household, u " q wife's duty 10
Keep him posted upon all matters, cx.
cspt, of course, IN the case of a man
who very plainly Indicates that be
VIII not tolerate being prImed up 10
tho latest happening In the hume dur.
log his absence at business.
Very. very few husbands are like
that; most husbands arc delighted II
wives take theQi into their fullest
conhdence, and relate all their vr,cy.
ances, worries and vcxatinns. And
what is more calculated tp l,ghtcn
burdens than c0nnding all abput
them 10 one you love aud who loves
you IN return?
Surely u must tighten a wtfe's bur.
den To henr the sympathetic words Of
= husband; and may II not wonder.
fully aid her II she sees that he "A
willing TO lend assistance ir the soIv.
Ing OF domestic problems which have
worried dreadfulIy? Moreover, what
is wife 10 do In domestic trouble n
she does not 70 to her husband and
tell him all abcutIt Must she hrsmd
over the matter all alone, and Der.
naps end up by making herself thor
onghly wretched and miserable. or ~
TO an outsider and bc laughed at all
over the ncighborhoodp
A husband and wife agree 10 share
troubles ~ we'll asgjoys, SO IL Il but
right that, n any matter connected
with the home is tormenting 4 wom.
an-and II IL common occurrence
she should 90 to the one who has
promised TO share oil with her--her
husband.
When big things annoy q woman
she always goes straight 70 her hus.
band; but II is not the big thipQs
which worry the life out OF one most
III Il the little, nagging tbluRs
which seem almost too trivial 70 men.
tion--and those are the very thines I
wife should 10 to her husband about.
| certainly can counsel ali young
women who may be thinking Of ret.
ting married to resolve that, granted
they get husbands, these husbands
Will be told all--mark the word "sll.n
Nothing should be kept back concern.
Ing domestic affairs which have zone
wrong.
And, Of course, this bit Of advice sx.
tends TO everything. Nothing should
be hidden from husband II peace
and happiness are desired. Moreover.
two heads are better than one, and
any day husbsod may be able TO
show bis wife thst she was I little
silly To be bothered about such and
such . thing and may point the way
out Of her difficulty 10 . moment.
Yes, II 10 right that q husband
should be told eli shout domestic
trouble. what would wife say IL 4
husband hid business troubles from
her, and disaster happensd - Z result
maybe? She would declare that be
ought 70 have conflded in her.
Well, there d no Saying how any
domestic trouble might turn out in
the end. 80 II Is best to be on the safe
side. Let the husband BE- told, and
be Will not have any reason sor
erumblIDg and frettIng later on
about being kept 10 the dark q a
time when he might have solved the
problem. for really men are not the
stupid creatures women believe them
70 belt IT, astonishing the grasp
some men have Of domestic afYaiss.
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