Wauwatosa news. [volume] (Wauwatosa, Wis.) 1900-1948, 1909-08-13

me tne the guests are 10 arrive a,5
having tue maid arrange Whatever aou,-
eEs nave been ordered in one of her
ton ''4'9' Iecofa-
And the man pays dearly. Cvarv
lhaii ms IN his heart Il love of homo ma
Il dfeam OF a home thar is to he a man
Sion o. happiness. with always a ,rar,ep
IN which he can potter at any spare mo-
hheht' ana stable with horses or else
garage where motor is ready. M the
toUch "f ms hand, to speed away in the
pm ana distract his mind from the
business OF the day. The reason thar no
has not all this and more besides il he
cause or the pampered wife.
American girls are spoiled MS daugh
ters' Tor the indulgence of American mar
ems IS only second to that of the hus-
bands. and so nls,iiy If them have y
good start in the direction of conSultin,,
theIr own wishes solely. and then hasten
10 90 TINS more t..are;i.liy .rhen dioni-
ned by the title of Mrs They ALWAYS
nave what they have been used to. to
IAN PACK upon when an argument coes
against them. To begin matrimonv ON
the same financial scale as their parents
Is the last thought to enter their minds
instead, they strive to make their bns-
oatdS give them more than the old home
furnished, for in their visits To other
" ann II CONSIDERED the
keyhOte TO happiness. they have accumu-
,2ted a list of suggestions calculated to
keep the nose Of any man of average
means continually at the grindstone.
Their demands, too. are not only on
the husbands pOcketbo0k. but on his
Tune lie must accompany his wife to
every social affair that she can drag him
TO. and rarely does she care to rendry
any courtesy to any of his business
friends unless they are desire hle acuuain-
tanceS from a worldly point of view. Of
a KIND that viii prove stepping stones in
her social march. Any others She de-
clares boreS and impossible creatures,
and Is lmperyious to any pleading as to
the influence they may have on the
mans tip3 Il" career
me Nployed by these lazy and
selfish - latrons to get what thew
want T and devious. and are n
tavorlte top of conversation among
them. Conversations overheard at Del
monlco's or Sherry's are very likely TO
begin with: Well, Jack doesn't want
me to do 50 and 50. but | know how 10
get my way Then will follow an ac-
count of the favOrite strategy and tha
listeners will laugh their approval and
take turns in relating thel, methods.
and the means employed to gain an end
III everyday matters are triding com
pared with the means taken to keep life
running along the luxurious paths which
the spoiled woman has mapped out for
herself OF these latter, making the hus-
band jealous Is one of the most danger
GUS and usual, and without home cares
the wife has ample time to plan and
carry out such a campaign. Ordinarily
it has the effect of squirting on her legal
lord to greater extravaganza and the re-
newal of many forgotten attentions in
the flower. jewel and candy line, with
an automobile or the yacht her soul has
longed for
when the mans eyes are finally
opened to her selhshness, and he turns
from her in disgust, does she come to
her senses? Not in the least. On the
contrary. she seeks a divorce, and al
leges cruelty and incompatibility of tenn
permanent carefully asking alimOny
much over and above the cost of her
present mode of life, so that she will
have no thought or care for the rest of
her years. With a really spoiled
child type of woman, which is the class
most in evidence III this day and genera
ton, the wage-earning man. and even
the man making a great deal of money,
has small homes either OF happiness or
success. Indirectly as well as directly.
such women are the cause of grave
business scandals, because they are a
constant drain on the purse, and can
never be that support ana good influence
so necessary to a man who has to Strug-
gle with the world New York Trib-
une