The Newark star and Newark advertiser. [volume] (Newark, N.J.) 1909-1909, 1909-09-28


you can smile and tell her that you
like things just as they are.
Later on you may learn that the Sc
cret of these so-called "vivacious
active" persons is this own troubled,
inquiet nature. They cannot bear to.
see the neighbor who is content to
pass the afternoon pm her porch with a
book or a bit of lace work.
Such occupations are, to the busy one,
the sign of a phlegmatio, lazy disposi-
ton. She owes to break in on such
quiet moods with a piece of shocking
news. She calls herself Temperament
tall nervous, sympathetic-everything
but fidgetty.
Learn the joy of repose and the re-
wards 1t brings. Hold to the calm of
your life If you are blessed with an
existence that may seem a bit rou-
finish, Let no one destroy the blessed
realization of perfect peace.
Never fancy that the female whirl-
wind who deplores the ''rut" you are
in knows anything of real happiness.
She affects her vivacity and her en-
ergy and fumes and frets her life away
seeking joy denied.
You may welcome the stirring up that
her presence brings. but you will al
ways be rather glad when she goes. A
week of her society would drive you
crazy, says the writer In the Philadel-
phia Press.
Cherish your quiet life. If 1T is so. Go
out of your a to avoid friction and
irritating controversies and people. Let
many things pass by unheeded rather
than wear yourself out in chickering's
and fault-fndings that it is very easy
to fill ones day with If the Humdrun
of Happiness bores you.
The fussy woman may lave no serl,
Gus faults n you may bear with hel
if you will, but do not let her theories
affect you. Learn to enjoy and make
the most of quiet hours In self com,
Misunderstanding things out, planning
more of those foolish little pleasures
that your busy friend derides.
When you are lucky enough to ge
within reach of the ocean and in sigh
VI TIC IVttotf tOiittiit youl Soui VIII
great joy. Breathe deep and send W
a prayer of thanks to God for the won
ders you are allowed to share witt
h human family.
Appreciate, too, the JOY of your home
the little dinners you plan and serve
nings, the joy that has been yours. un
touched by a tragedy and trouble thai
each days paper is filled with.
Bye and bye you will acquire a splen,
did poise-a serenity--a contentment Is
the best visible proof of a faith in YOU
creator, and a love for humanity. You
may. in any city, find a crowd of men
and women. day after day, pursuing a
mirage called pleasure which they
chase after In crowded restaurants, in
eating and drinking until the early
hours OF the day. in feverish following
like sheep after others like themselves
who have no happiness within then
and who must seek it in material pleas
ures.
Be glad that your life is cast beside
the green pastures and still waters, II
you live in the country or in a quiet
village. Never confuse the Humdrun
of your Happiness with monotony, as
you busy friend would have it.
No quality Is finer or more indicative
of power and quiet purpose than thu
calm, deliberate manner which is called
judicial" 1t simply means thinking
before you speak, taking times to dc
things properly, rejecting before YOU
form opinions, keeping your temper
hysterical life.
1t means having reserve forces hat