The Washington herald., 1909-06-13
ANSWERS TO SOCIAL QUESTIONS

! 1 Question: am 10 Be married the latter par-
q ms month, and ! want 70 ask you II you vii
&c very mucn- FIRST. ny aunt has sent me 500 q
90 as want With don't need anything very
mhcn-that Is, | have clothes enough and iewelr5
enough Tor girl IN my circumstances; 50 II
0ey ANYTHING with the money II vii be luxury.
| Now now had best lay IL out. IN books or Dic
lures CT pretty china and silver for we are going
hoasekeeping, and / want ms home 10 be attrac-
/ tl'et Second. where shall I spend my honeymoon.
can &C 10 Newport OF Narragansett 70 Atlantic
N4As U New York. We are not rich but nv
sweetheart has been saving up for this trip for
the last year and be says be wants 70 DO the
handsome thing. Third. would you keep a girl
wien We 50 housekeeping IN our fat? X Is this
way. iher0 are only two OF us and the fat Is 4
sl-n one snd am quite used 20 houseWurk. haV.
IAS always helped my mother who does not keep
eiri around the house. Fourth would you call
Sc'r husbands mother mother If yosi we're
me: Now, Mr. Arbiter. every sunday I 90 down
cary and get The Herald 50 ! can read your ad-
wee ana you have helped ne very much in a Iot
of ways tOr you will sec by tho handwriting that
ms y not the trsi time I have wristen 10 yuu.
% pease answer these questions and the best
way / can thank YOU is 20 do just what YOU say.
"hieh intend 10 do MABEL.
Answer; II you do not need anything.
put the money gift from your aunt in the
! oank 70 your own credit, and II you have
not already a bank account. let this be the
nucleus OF many small sums that Won
can spare from time TO time You NAV
have all you want or need. but il Is a
very comfortable feeling to have a sum
OF money tucked away that can be az
once available IN case Of that traditional
rainy day"
l should go for my wedding trip wher-
ever my fancy led me. You must have
some choice II you do not know New
iorA well the time you will pass on your
honeymoon can be most pleasantly and
prontably expended there. The theaters
oiIer endless attractions. the Metropolitan
Museum OF Fine Arts is a perennial
pleasure, and, there are many excursions
that can be made IN and outside Of the
city that will teach as well as entertain
you and furnish pleasant memories for
the rest Of your life.
Living al the club and never having
essayed Housekeeping. I am a poor one
10 advise as TO whether you should keep
glrl or not but II would seem 20 an
oid Dachelor, who likes 70 bark back IN
the DAYS when life was simpler and. more
Deauthul than il is now. that II might
De wen for you 70 do the light work In
your little fat for a time. al least an5
nave a woman come in for the heavy
tasks This. OF course, II there IS anv
reason for you 10 economic. There Is
no virtue in woman making q maid
OF herself II she has sufident means 10
pay lot one, because. although there is
as much beauty in housework as in many
other things, and one can make poetry
OF sweeping floor even. Il Is not right
to keep those who must work for tbeir
bread and butter out OF a place that they
can MI better than you: moreover. Won
can use your time 70 more advantage
than by doing housework. Make your
own clothes. learn 10 do the beautiful
me needlework that our great-grand-
mothers dainty fingers busted themselves
with' which Is now so much in vogue:
read' study. keep up your music. but
ABOVE ali. make your husband happy.
Don't let him degenerate into a contented
animal, but keep him interested. busy.
alert
Can your husbands mother mother"
by all means. II he wishes IT, II viii en-
dear you 10 her and please her son.
Thank you for your appreciation.
2 Question: Ny husband has Promised ne a new
motor car or u1p % Eu-ope this sumner.
have never been abroad Which wo,l5 No., 49,
ny husband says you VIII advise Eurore. but
think yoo VIII say take the motor. for rhfnt
you are something of sport. NEWLYWED
Answer; The trip 10 Europe. by all
means
5. Question: Should a young man int-os,cs
mend 70 the girl he is escorting 6rs.. o. should
he nrst pre~ent him 70 the chaperun. ARMY
Answer; To the chaperone. OF course.
4 Question: Can you tel nc IN what e-Ilerv Of
Europe the portrait Of Pope InDooent X by yeias-
guez. Is hung'
Answer: In the Doria Gallery. IN Rome.