The Big Sandy news. [volume] (Louisa, Ky.) 1885-1929, 1909-09-10
ME- Circle COLUMN.
Dluma Dedicated To Tired Mothers
As They Join The Home Circle
Al Evening Tide.

Love is wife's wages; don't skimp
yodr pay. -.
Those who do not shut their eyes
their own shortcomings are al
Us charitable in judging OF others.
900
For a good, everyday household an
- give us the woman who laughs
er pastry may not always be just
ght, and she may occasionally burn
bread and forget to replace
lsslng buttons, but for solid COM
II all day and every day she Is Il
Try paragon. Home is not battle
Neld nor life one long, intending
ght. The trick Of always seeing the
light side, or, II the matter has no
light side, of polishing up the dark
Inc, Is q very important faculty. one
y the things no woman should be
sithout We are not all born with
kDInshine In our hearts. as the Irish
dtreltily phrase It, bur We can cult
s&ie cheerful sense OF humor II we
Daly try
Probably one-hRlf of the rudeness Of
Y0uths OF this day, that later in life
u1ll develop into brutality, is due TO
me failure Of parents to enforce In
ne family circle the rules Of courtesy
he son or daughter who is discom-
teous TO members Of the family, be-
eRnse Of familiarity with them. is very
likely 70 prove rude and overbearing
20 others, and very certain to be
tyrnt In the household over which
~ or she may be called on 10 preside.
There Is shady side to every
ksuse--we all know It; but II We
lave any regard for our health We
win sit In the sun. There seems 10 be
. sort OF morbid fascination for a
hTge class Of very earnest people in
kearlng their teeth chatter from the
shiyering cold. Let us not refuse 10
% through the dark and dismal spots
Wken duty calls, but let us beware
e staying there all the time, and
forgetting that there Is "A sun IN the
kayens and healthy-inspiring breeze
from the ocean of Gods love
The MODEL HUSBAND.
One thing which a model husband
, viii not allow himself to forget Is.
nat in giving himself to his better
half In wedlock, he established n
Eiaim on her part 10 reasonable
amount OF his time. Another thing
BE- will remember Is. that the very
flFst society instituted by the Al
wtghty for the benefit Of his crea-
esres was the home circle, and his
Eirst duty as husband is 70 bright.
On that sphere with his presence
The church even must not take pre-
eedence OF the home. AS to the pos
dbllity OF a conflict In such cases
between religious and home duties
Ee think that such a conflict is not
likely to arise; for true religion, Il
\ does anything at all for a married
laan, will be sure 70 make him goot
kasband: and one Of the first quail
- tles OF such a husband is certain Il
BE that he will love his wife, anC
Sfn like her society so well as Il
want TO spend in 1t a reasonable
amount Of his time,
All will agree that the essential re
qnisite in the model husband is for
hearapce. You thought your wifi,
Was an angel when you married her
tut she is not As Bishop Wiley say
Men are not long in discovering tina
= GaoIr idols, though seeming bright n
the sun, like the sun have spots
Veg, these wives do indeed hav
spots. They have their weaknesse
and foibles; II they had not the,
uOuld be very different from thei
husbands. Some one has said that
q order to have happiness In tn
Rarried state, two things are neces
; mry; the husband must be deaf an