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Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

MANY people who are mis;nformea
Az about social customs, or who live
far away from a representative center
of society, seem to be under the impress
sion that the announcement Of ar en-
gagement is a matter which demands
the assembling of friends, who are tner
told Of the event by some member % the
family of the fair fancee. Nothing
could be further removed from correct
usage than this idea; nothing could, in
reality, be in worse taste than for a
mother or anyone to invite friends for
the purpose Of announcing an engage
ment and to tell the news in such a
manner in the preserce of the blushing
bride-elect, while friends ev-lain, or
evince their surprise, or rush forward
to offer congratulations, or perhaps feel
embarrassed at being compelled 10 say
with good grace what IS expected of
them.
The imagination cannot conjurc Up a
scene more distasteful than this would
be to anyone who possesses a sense OF
the fitness of things. No; it is not the
correct custom to invite friends for any
such purpose, nor to make young girl
a target for congratulations. There IS
degree of reserve and modesty still ex-
listing in modern manners.
The proper and dignifed way to an
nounce an engagement is very simple.
Its very simplicity seems to make 1t dit
fcult to believe by those who fancy that
etiquette must, of necessity, be an I'm
usual or extraordinary thing The truth
is that etiquette is intended to facilitate
and to simplify life, not to complicate 1t.
Etiquette has, invariably, plenty OF COM
nonsense and good taste about it.
Obtaining Parsnts' Consent
We will take for granted that young
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21
LESSENING THE FOUSEKEEPER'S DRUDGEI

for money alone is to be charged with
the greatest atrocities ever perpetrated
in the name of household decoration.
The new home necessarily stands as
skeleton which is to be clothed with
the vestments of our choosing; whether
they shall be grave or gay, artistic or
inartistic, lies wholly with the judicious
selection of the occupant.
1t is not difficult thing to have
artistic homes, attractive interiors, pro-
vided we approach the problem in a
systematic way, with a well-de6ned
plan and even moderately filed purse.
The Importance of the Walls
The first thing to be considered is
the walls of the room, for they furnish
the keynote for the color scheme of the
apartment. This is natural because the
wall presents the largest surface; it is
the thing upon which the eye rests at
once upon entering the room We may
be attracted later by some article, some
person, some thing. but first of all the
eye will rest upon the wall surface. The
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

ten to write to the bride=elect a5f;tty
to welcome her with cordially into their
family. His. mother may invite: her to
make visit to their home, 50 that all
may learn to know one another s,1
A girl should be particular not to
accept an invitation from the unmarried
sisters, unless the mother has already
written inviting her to Visit Them The
mother is the head of the family, and it
is her duty to fulfil the obligations of
her position 1t is advisable always to
bear this in mind q t'1
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

create an impression of sunshine. that
seem to bring a ray of additional light
and warmth into the room South and
west rooms require modified colors-
colors that will tone down the glaring
sunlight and give soft, cool and rest
full appearance.
A room that is to be used for general
purposes must certainly have a color
that suits all purposes, color that has
general utility and is of solid matt
surface, that is not easily soiled, yet is
sufficiently dainty in tone to reflect light
and still furnish suitable background
for pictures, bric-a-brac and furniture.
The woodwork of a room naturally
must be included in the color scheme.
If the woodwork is natural pine var
nished, yellow wall could not be toll
Grated, but soft brown or "a light tan
would harmonic with it delightfully."-.
Enameled white woodwork calls for
blues, tans, light greens and dainty wall
-colors. Mahogany calls for the deeper
greens, rich browns, and SO on down
the chromatic scale.
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

packing They should then be wrapped
several times, with newspapers
. The, odor of printers ink isSHotagree.
able to moths, and one can afford to be
generous with papers. Be careful that
they are whole and that the openings
of one wrapping are covered by the
next paper. Be Sare that no moths are
tn the goods 1Uhen packed. Before pack
ing furs, clean them by, wiping with
soft cloth dipped in alcohol or cologne
Varying the Wall Decorations
Changing pictures from one room to
another gives a pleasing variety and
keeps the wall paper from becoming
faded in spots. Many persons like to
pack away the greater part of their
bric-a-brac, bringing out only a few
pieces at time and enjoying each piece.
Those who know say that mantel-
piece should be used either to hold
necessities, or to display treasures. OBJ
viously in the first instance it is allow
able.to crowd the shell; but in the lat
ter case not more than three or four
sehoIoe pieces gre, propeE N Il
TIE idedisfetif1om has received much
attention lately Preference is given to
walls tinted in water-colors or painted
in oils picture nlolding and pictures are
absent; the floor is bare, the rugs light
and easily handled; mating and the
beautiful rag carpet rugs, shown in large
stores, are favorites
Draperies are simple and washable.
None but absolutely necessary furniture
is provided. Windows have either Veae-
tan blinds. giving an agreeable light
and admitting the air while excluding
the sun, or Holland shades are placed,
one on either sash, instead of single
one on the casing. They are never ex-
posed to wind or weather, and interfere
in no way with ventilation The bed
stands well out into the room.
Use Of Cleansets
1t seems needful to say word about
cleansing agents Liquids like gasoline,
alcohol, ether and chloroform vaporize
almost instantly, and the vapor ignites
at once if a fame is near. They should
He1er be used near flame, dl10dys in
strong current of air, and preferably out
of doors.
Even there fatal burns have been re-
ceived caused by the friction of rubbing
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

for each individual, to save the con-
fusion in the use of towels.
Simplicity the Keynote
The evolution of house furniture is
still going on, and after a period OF
elaborate designing and the use of tons
OF wood in construction, the simpler
styles of our ancestors are the most
popular to-day 1t is not a step back
ward by any means. but recognition
that our forefathers knew the principles
of comfort and adornment, and pro
duced many masterpieces in artistic
furnishing.
Mere money is-not a safe, guide in the
finisfihgs and the furnishing Of a home,
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

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Bedroom. chairs should. be ebmfort-
able,} aid should inohide Sone- with a
straight back-that can be used an front
of dressing table when doing the hair,
adjusting. collars and arranging the little
things that make aswoman sstoilet COM
plicated. A low rocker is very restful,
and has the added advantage OF making
1t easier to change shoes.
In this room, as in all others, the
carpet should be enough heavier in color
to give ground effect In the choice
of materials for draperies in sleeping
rooms. upholsteries. and pillow covers,
select the inexpensive and dainty cotton
materials, as they are easily Numbered.
The bathroom fixtures should have
heavy nickel trimming, and there should
be an abundance of clean linen con-
venient and easy of access. II is a
good thing where there, are several
members in family, to have nickel rods
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21
Simple Treatment of Walls Floors Furnishings the Secret

THE day is fast approaching when
l. private houses will rival hospitals in
cleanliness and sanitary furnishings We
are beginning to love cleanliness and to
abhor dust and dirt as breeders of dis
ease and discomfort. This love of
cleanliness has brought about a change
in our ideas of finishing and furnishing
our houses. We are demanding that
they shall be easily cleaned, and we are
learning that we must have simple things
and simple conditions.
The modern housewife has for her
working creed that of William Morris
Have nothing you do not know to be
useful and think to be beautiful"
Lessenins the Druigey
That creed means less drudgery and
greater enjoyment OF life. 1t means that
coy corners and oriental dens are no
longer the ideals. STIFFNESS and stale
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

softer, the more harmonious the sur
face. the better the impression will be.
so the first thing to do in, decorating the
new home, OF redecorating the old, is
to take up the matter Of walls seriously.
The color scheme of room depends
upon many things, but most Of all upon
the frontage, whether it be north or
south, east or west Again, it depends
on the use Of the room, whether it is
TO be a living-room, bedroom or a
nursery, or a combination Of all three.
The size of the room enters into the
equation, and finally, the nature and the
trim of the standing woodwork
North rooms and the east rooms re
quire warm, mellow colors-colors that
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

( it into an open, self-respecting closet?
Bare Floors n
When carpets become worn and must
be renewed, it is good time to change
to a bare floor and few rugs The
finishing OF the floor is very simple
matter. 1t may be painted, stained, oiled
or waxed. In either case it should be
cleaned thoroughly, all stains removed
and given a coat of filler"
If the floor was not made for car
pet, there will probably be cracks which
need filling. Putty, colored like the
wood, is very satisfactory for this If
the boards are knotty they should be
painted; otherwise a transparent finish
may be used
Stains made by paint or va7nish are
easily removed with ammonia, but it
should be put on with a brush. The
whole floor may be clesnsed in this way.
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

silk wet in gasoline No article should
be put away until all odor of the cleanser
has disappeared Serious consequences
have been known to result from using
gasoline on carpets and then closing
doors and windows
Gasoline used out of doors in cold
weather Injuries the hands; the rapid
evaporation and low temperature cause
the skin to become thick and leathery,
and months of care are necessary to re
store it to normal condition. b.,
Sometimes II seems that only the
necessities of living are allowable, or at
least very few luxuries> This. is espe-
cially true where the home is frightened
by little ones.
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

The ammonia darl<ens the wood some
what; merely oiling with crude roll,
olive oil, linseed or kerosene gives a
good finish, provided a very small
quantity is used and that it is thor
oughly rubbed in and no superfuous
oil left on the floor. ..--
Removing Stains
When Summer comes, the heavy rugs
and draperies can be taken out and re-
ceive a thorough beating and cleaning.
Soiled spots can be removed by turpen-
tine, gasoline, alcohol, chloroform or
ether. When the odor has disappeared
the articles may be covered with clean
newspapers and rolled or folded for
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21
l.Nsver Be iunchaperoned;

|, sEtiquette is very strict in its rules
during an engagement. 1t is againsE all
the laws Of propriety for the y0ang
couple, to- go on sjourney, even for a
few hours, without a chaperon. or to go
alone to theaters or parties, or to drive
alone in the evening or on unfrequented
country roads. A girl cannot be too
careful in observing all the laws laid
down for her conduct. Parents are
Sensible who do not allow young people
to disregard the conventionalities.,
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21
The Passing Of Wall Paper


There was a time to which We all
bark back, when, without question, we
purchased wall paper 1t seemed the
only possible material to use, and we
pasted it on the wall, pulled it of again
and repasted more without a thought
OF anything better; but the better taste
to-day has abandonedi the use of wall
paper because of its unsanitary effects,
as well as its inartistic appearance
Wall paper is rnsanitary because it is
porous, being nothing more than
cheap, absorbent paper colored with poi
sonous cheap inks. pasted on the wall
with vegetable paste. which soon sours
and always furnishes a lodging place
for all kinds of undesirable insects.
Wall paper is inartistic in itself. because
1t IS not true expression of that which
is best in art, being merely a printed
imitation of anotheT's work.
The soft, velvety tintings are the ideal
materials TO use on the walls. but care
must be taken that the tinting material
chosen Is the best one to use. The hot
water calcimines are invariably unsat-
isfactory, Disappointing and Intellectual.
for they crackle on the wall, rub off and
fade. The. smallest tack driven in the
wall breaks off a piece of the tinting
three times as large as the tack, just
because of the glue with which the cal
Gimme is stuck to the wall.
The best class of colorings are made
from natural cement, and are mixed
with cold water, completely eliminating
all the undesirable features just spoken
of. As in many other cases, the best in
these is not really expensive, for one
package will cover three hundred square
feet Of surface in a satisfactory manner
at an expense Of less than two cents a
square yard. They do not fade, will not
rub off and are always durable and ex-
ceedingly artistic.
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

tea, for staining the hair All these
give the hair a faded look and should
aes be used As the hair grows from
hall an inch to an inch month, the
roots show, in a very few days, the
difference between the natural and arti-
fetal coloring. so that one becomes 4
slave in keeping the color the same all
the time
Since it is not possible to prevent the
hair from turning gray it is fortunate
that we live at time when gray hair
is fashionable. and its becomingness is
appreciated. Great care should be taken
OF the hair by the woman who is ad-
yancing in life In old age the hearts
action is less vigorous, and the heart
has less power to drive the blood to the
tiny capillaries oft scalp and the skin ;
for this reason the hair follicles are not
sufficiently nourished, the hair becomes
poor in quality and much of it fails OFT,
never to return. This can be prevented
by little daily care.
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21
The Attic and the Bonfire

The attic and the bonfire are two allies
of the courageous housewife. In the
first she stores things that are under
suspicion" until she feels that her judg-
ment is final; to the other she assigns
things which are of no use to anyone
Every house is full OF such things.
They have been put away at odd times,
having lost their first usefulness, but
kept in the vague hope that they might
be of use some day" 1t has been neces-
sary to handle them and clean them
time and again, or else they have lurked
in the dark corner of some kitchen cup
board, covered with dust and dirt
By the way, what do you think of
removing the front and doors of that
little closet under the sink and making
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21
When the Children are Small

When the Children are Small
1t viii probably be best, when chill
dren are small and time limited, to put
away ones best china, because nick
or crack cannot be borne patiently.
Cheaper china that is dainty and pretty
and easily replaced, if broken, will save
much friction and worry
A great amount of trouble comes 10
the little woman who loves spotless table
linen. A whole meal has been spoiled
for everyone because of one luckless spot.
Why not try using doilies1 When once
the table is oiled OF waxed it Is no
trouble to keep in order, and doilieS are
less trouble than tablecloths to launder
As soon as old enough, each child
should have some share in the house
work The task should be simple and
something he can do 5UelL at should
never be such as TO fret or .overwhelm
the child, and the reward should be
mothers praise aud not impsey 1t is
only fair to allow him as much time for
bis very own as he spends IegitimGiety
in homework. D. 80
Childrens Rooms
Older boys and girls are sure to have
craze for collecting things, and take
the greatest pleasure in arranging this
collection in their own rooms This
desire should: be respected and en-
couraeed. The countless decorations"
mean an immense amount of labor TO
keep in good order. but bargain should
be made.
Girls should be allowed TO decorate
exactly as they please. provided they take
care of their. own rooms The same
privilege should be granted to boys, pro-
vided they give some service in return
for the care of their rooms.
The dining-room admits OF any se1ec-
ton of set furniture, but as far as pos
sible have everything in harmony with
the woodwork Of the room. II the
decorations are red. do not use a ma
hogany dining set, but one of weathered
oak Old blue or orange or green are
perhaps the best setting for mahogany.
In choosing a table. l confess | am par
tial to round one, which will always
be in good taste. A sideboard should
never be elaborate A simple buffet
with china cabinet and small serving
table is in much better taste
To- If there is a small room for coy
room or den. there could be nothing
more appropriate than the Mission style
of furniture The walls should be
decorated in warm. rich color, and with
the selection of furniture offered in
Mission styles will fill every need.
Furnishing the Bedroom
In selecting. furniture for bedrooms,
avoid that which is clumsy and heavy.
Metal beds, perfectly sanitary, can be
procured in graceful designs and dainty
colors. Dressers should be made so
that they can easily be moved, and they
should set up high .eueugh from the
floor to allow sweeping and busting
~,
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21
Keep the Scalp Healthy

Keep the Scalp Healthy
Be sure and keep the scalp loose upon
the skull, which can be done by moving
the scalp UP and down on the under
lying bony framework. with the tips OF
the fingers. These movements at the
same time will bring the blood into the
minute blood vessels. Scalp massage
by one skilled in it is, of course, very
beneficial. but my readers often live re-
mote from the large. cities where such
services can be obtained, and it is, after
all, the daily care which tells. Going
oyer the scalp from two to three min
utes night and morning, when dressing
the, hair, will do a great deal 10 keep
the. hair and scalp in good condition.
A stimulating hair tonic, one contain
ing quinine, will be useful, and II the
hair is dry and thin apply to the roots
some crude yellow vaseline. Above all,
keep the hair. clean Nothing looks
worse than. dirty. faded white hair. To
remove the yellow look, rinse the white
hair in blung water, of the blueness
( that you .@ohld use in rinsing white
clothes. 'r'
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21
Dressing Gray Hair

Take great pains in dressing the hair
becomingly. 1t is mistake to strain
the hair back from the face. GRAY hair
should be soft and fluffy-loolling about
the face.
Caring for the Skin
The skin of the hands ard face shows
the effects of time because OF its ex-
posture to the winds and elements. while
the skin OF the other parts Of the body
remains soft and white The constant
washing, and the use of harsh soaps,
will wrinkle and wither the skin The
skin needs to have the oil OF which it is
thus deprived restored to it.
Cold cream should be used beautifully
for the hands and the face. The tend
ency to the growth of hairs about the
face becomes greater with the advance
of years, and one is in fear of promoting
the growth OF these with the use OF oils
Use, therefore, the vegetable oils, olive
or almond oil, to which add the spirits
of carnphor in the proportion of one
part of camphor to eight of the oil
All the functions OF the body are apt
to be less active after fifty, and the skin
will not do It's part IS we'll; therefore it
should be stimulated by frequent warm
or hot baths. Cold baths lower the
vitality, and should be taken less fire.
quently, al at ALL Alcohol baths are
good for the skin If they are too dry
ing, mix with an equal part of.sweet oil.
Discolorations of the skin frequently
occur, coming on the forehead, the sides
of the checks, and especially upon the
backs of the hands. These can be re-
moved 6y the use of colorless iodine.
Paint the spots with it night and morn
ing, unless the skin becomes. too irri-
tated, when the applications should be
made less frequently. Lemon-juice ap-
piled daily for some time will remove
these discolorations, if they are not too
deep.
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

acquaintance The young mans
mother writes to the members of his
family connection and the young man
himself writes to a few OF his men
friends or may speak to them of his
good fortune.
All of the notes are sent out by post
and sent simultaneously At least the
family of the young girl should take the
initiative in the matter, it being under
stood that a young man and his family
are not at liberty to tell OF the engage
ment until it has first been made known
by the family of his hancee.
Receiving Congratulations
In the notes written by the young girl
and her mother it is allowable 70 men
ton certain afternoon, near at hand,
when they will be at home, very in
formally, if friends wish TO call. Friends
usually hasten to offer their good wishes,
or they send notes of kindly congratula-
tons. Often they send flowers. 1t is
fashion to send a pretty gift, cup
and saucer, or a spoon, but not obliga-
tory to do SC.
The parents of the bridegrcom-elect
should call first on the bride-elect and
her mother. After the visit is returned,
it is in order for inequalities to be ex-
changed between the two families. Din
ners. ,theater7 parties and other enter
tainments are given fer the young couple
by their frieuds.
Us. .---fi -rs
Congratulate the Groom
The custom, Is for friends TO con,
graduate man on his engagement and
to wish happiness to girl. 1t Is a mis-
take to use the word Congratulate in
speaking to the young girl OF her en-
gagepent One would say something
of this. sort: Il am so interested to hear
the news" or, 81 wish you every happi-
ness" but to a man one would say: ~
congratulate you on your good fortune. "
One would try to say something cordial
or expressive of admiration about the
person chosen.
If the parents and sisters OF the young
man live at distance, they should has
Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1909-05-21

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