The Detroit times. [volume] (Detroit, Mich.) 1903-1920, 1908-07-07
REV. VAUGHAN GIVES
GOOD ADVICE To
THE MARRIED
FAMOUS PRIEST TELLS BOTH
HUSBAND AND WIFE HOW TO
GET ALoNG-ExPLAiN NEEDS
OF BOTH.

LONDON. July FIR. Bernard
Vaughan, the Mayfair priest who
preached the famous sermons on the
Sins OF Society,"" has delivered a
homily on marriage to a great gath
ering OF fashionable women. The
sermon. however, was by no means a
sensational outburst like his diatribes
against the smart set.
Except" said FIR. Vaughan" for
those who have some special call In
life the married state Is best. In
marriage both man and woman lead a
higher life.
THE first business OF a bride and
bridegroom Is to learn TO make allow
ance for all those differences which
must arise from the difference OF sex.
OF education. of taste. OF HON tradi-
tons. They must not expect too much
from poor human nature. They must
bear one anothers burdens, and self
must stand in the background.
ITO the husband | would say, Be
sweet to your life: never attempt TO
check the flowing ,ide OF her talk. Let
her talk on. while you get credit for
possessing your soul in peace
What a Woman Needs.
Remember. a woman needs many
safety valves and outlets. Most wom-
en- have a passion for jewelry and fin
cry. Give her what you can and let
her feel il Is from you she has got IT..
even II IL has cost you some self-sac-
rifice.
Forget not that women thirst for
sympathy. as flowers for sunshine. II
you are always at your club. IL you
are never thinking of her, IL you do
not send sweet notes-others may
come to offer their sympathy. and
who is TO blame?
II always put all the blame. II any
thing goes wrong in married life. on
the man, because he Is the stronger.
1t is the man who should overcome
himself and protect the wife of his
heart
ITO the woman | would say Tat she
must keep her home In beautiful or
der. and keep her temper. There Is
much OF the animal even In the Chris
tian man.
Likes to See Wife Pleasing.
Let her always be neat and smart
when alone with her husband, and not
merely when entertaining company.
He likes to see his wife we'll turned
out. and II Is her business TO be pleas
ing in his eyes. So many women
dress to look better than other wom-
en- Let woman dress to be pleas
Ing always in the eyes of her husband.
and he will not be jealous when 9TH
er men are in her societ..
ThursIac .fiw. VIA UL ID r HSCmN
"Never offer man excuses, and do
not keep him waiting while you put
on your things" continued the smil-
Ing father, amid cackles Of laughter.
ITO the wife, | say, Never nag. new
er scold, never cry These tricks or
women often bring them what they
want, but they kill their husbands
love. No man wants to be teased-
even by his wife.
so | would say to the wife. Try
to look like the flowers. even when
there Is no sunshine.
ION both husband and wife | would
urge that they will have splendid
time In life, no matter whether they
live in slumdom, or villadom. or May
fair, II they only live their lives trying
to build up the home.
BE courteous to each other. grow
chivalrous, do not wrangle and quar-
rel. and let the man stand we'll at the
back OF his passions and curb them
in. When there has been any misun-
derstanding, before the sun goes down
let husband and wife be locked heart
to heart, and let the tears OF forgive
ness wipe on the STAIN"