The star and Newark advertiser. [volume] (Newark, N.J.) 1908-1909, 1908-02-04

would carry him.
This we're the cost to ne.
That he were lstt to me-"
Nevertheless. when sees thedearest fellow in all the world drifting
just a niue tut OF reach o cal ne do otherwise than put nut a hand to
hold him back, especially when M fully is persuaded that it needs only the
oil course neither he nr anyone eem must be abe to say that it was other
wise than of his W motion and notion, but gently imperceptbb, as a
woman can if she knows how.
If a woman wishes that a man should love her se always aust seem o
be a little nut OF reach. Not too far; The climbs ever SO slightly she must be
OF ueasure' daring much tic titan 1t" Love is tn treasure o the whole world
to a woman, and it would be unreasonable to expect her to make no effort IL
Speets Is ceVerer IAN her toremothers were; he age demands il. of Ter, At
no longer is enough merely to be pretty; the woman who would marrya any
NN9. 10 no TINS requfe ooh cuhhHg and discretion; she must lot be to-
simple MOI yet mnsts she be too wise Man is a complex person, obstinate
ding ring. The girl who would marry the lar of her choice, which man is
just a tihe undecided as to his, indeed must be possessed o. the wisdom of
the dove.
There is nothing in all her armory which compete with sympathy.
of wom as well as men. hnt hat has otbina ~ az Pr t. et tba so
Just enough and not too much. Man lives in a hard and canous world. He
early learns to keep his small os and his sorrows areat or small 10 him
self What woman can guess the harvest of disappointment which is gar
nered in the heart wen of a successful man?
If man is worth marrying he ought to b WORTH listening to- One nat
listen. til not If it We're more people would do it,. On the contrary, women
who ought to know better often drive men way from them bv heir inces-
SAINT chatter their selfish engrossment in their concerns. Few things,
If any, are so appreciated by the average maj as intelligent, interested
listening. To listen and subtly convey the idea that what he is saving is
the most interesting thing which n ever has heard-that Isl O. all others. the
surest road to a mans heart, or to his vanity, which often is the doorkeeper
thereof He would rather talk and have m sit by in admning silence than
to have me answer cap his wit with something brighter. OF turn the CONVEX
Isaton to ones " personal interests
Yet it's a mistake to be too easily pleased, a mistake only less than that
OF being toe exacing, says Helen odfeld in the Chicago Tribune. No one
prizes what he gets without effort; half the charm Of woman is her reserve.
She should be frank and candid, meet him O his W ground, take al inter-
est in his pursuits but not insist upon sharing them unhHs urgently solicited
to do so When she has made herself necessary to him, as a clever woman
an ss VIII De Wise to 1thdraw herself for a little time and give him an
opportunity to miss her, to compare her with other women to her advantage.
The perfect woman exists in each mans imagination. and every lover thinks
N' M ns pWa her owe eaches a woman much She learns tt know
at once when she meets her lover what mood will please him best. He
out her; but When att asth asks her to marry him he lever guesses that
she ia gently led him on and she, being wise never let's him suspect it.