The Cook County herald. [volume] (Grand Marais, Minn.) 1893-1909, 1907-01-05
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college-bred sons and daughters feel
ing that they are miserably. deficient
and hardly fit to breathe the same at
mosphere, with their gifted offspring
IT stand by the side of the road and
gaze at my daughter almost with
ave." confessed a mother who had no
excuse for such profound humility.
Another, filed with joy and pride at
the triumphs of son whose genius
was admitted, dwelt continually on the
Incredible fact that she was regarded
with constant affection by one so bril-
liant and commanding, as her boy.
This mental attitude is of course en-
tirely wrong and much to be depre-
Gated.
Experience has been a richer and
more profitable feature to mothers
than schools and colleges have been to
their children. The right management
of a home imparts to a woman who is
responsive and receptive, sympathetic
and enthusiastic, something quite as
useful as university education.
heard not long ago a story that
seemed to me full of the sweetest
sentiment and the most practical sug-
gestiveness. A daughter: who had
been graduated with high honors came
home with her diploma and spent her
first vacation in becoming intimate
with her mother. In the four: years of
separation the two had drifted little
apart; not in love but in acquaintance
with those common affairs that form
the staple of life in thought, and con-
versation. The daughter did: not go to
her room or; her hammock and spend
hours in. study and reading that would
have been exclusive. though. delightful,
but immediately took hold of the daily
work with "a viii. In every possible
way she lightened her mothers burden
and when after her mother: and herself
had passed many pleasant afternoons
together over books that TO the mother
opened a new world of culture, the
daughter planned course of study
that they might pursue together.
Their home was remote from neigh
bors and they had plenty of time. Re-
sisting the inclination to- go abroad
and find a congenial field for study or
professional work, the younger WON.
an stayed by the elder and awakened
her to a new youth.
after a woman is so years old she
may as we'll die" was the bittG
speech of a mother who realized that
so far from taking the first place with
her children, she had become cipher
in their estimation.
Naturally, when children have left
behind them schools and school mas
ters and are confronted with the prob
lens and situations of maturity they
have right to independence. They
must take the responsibility for their
own actions. They are not unlike the
birds that have learned to use their
wings and get their own food and that
no longer need the supervision that
| was once so untiring in the days OF
the nest. Yet it were we'll for most
grown up children to delay too much
training of their parents. How shall
! We train our mothers would best he
answered in most instances, by ain
emphatic order to let them alone. Let
mothers dress as they please, set thei1
tables as they like, hold fast to little
provincialisms in their dialect, un
checked, and be old-fashioned if they
wish. There are endless varieties Of
roses in these days, but the white
rose that blooms in the old-fashioned
garden is sweeter than any of the
lnewer productions.
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