Deseret evening news. [volume] (Great Salt Lake City [Utah]) 1867-1920, 1906-01-27

and they gazed around the masculine
room and then into each others eyes
without speaking.
The Idea OF privacy seems to be elm
mated from modern home life.
The ordinary Hat can only induce that
KIND OF intimacy which breeds con-
tempt.
The modern dwelling house IL too Of
ten built OF the thinnest materials,
which aids rather than deadens the
echo OF footsteps and which brings out
marvellous carrying qualities In the hui
man voice.
The rush and hustle Of business
hours, the strain Of getting to and fro
on crowded ears. the necessary jost-
ling with strange people and lepen-
dence on them, al this would seem
to break down those barriers OF privacy
that are like barbcd- wire fences with
the barbs turned inward surrounding
the sensitive person.
But instead OF making us impervious
TO the daily friction We become more
and more acutely aware OF It, and
consciously or unconsciously long to
get away from everything and every
body and be by ourselves.
That man or woman Is truly TO be
pitied who has no time for quiet or
self-communlon, which is 80 neces-
sary to health. TO acknowledgment and
TO happiness.
II you have no chance OF being alone
yourself. you may allow others that
privilege
Each person should have a room to
himself, II possible one with a ioor,
an actual door, not draperea screen or
other makeshifts at privacy.
People should be allowed to say II
must be alone for little while with
out the possibility Of giving offense,
Nervous men, women and children
should have some quiet place to which
to withdraw from the strain which the
constant society OF others unconscious
ly eXerts upon them.
Children particularly are little mar
tyrs TO the everlasting attendance and
vigilance of their elders.
They too should be allowed and
taught to enjoy a little solitude, just
az they learn to knock az closed doors
and respect the theoretical privacy OF
postal cards addressed to others.
The art Of knowing when TO let
others alone has saved many a Hound
crlng matrimonial ship and many
household on the brink OF dislntegra-
ten,
/, is a secret OF success, an art that
irgratiates one with others while stead
lily developing the delicate sensitive
ness of unsefish sympathy.
A very delicious and artistic-looking
desert Is made with rice and preserved
peaches or pears. Aprcots may be
used. The fruit should have been pre-
served in heavy syrup. Press boiled
rice into a melon mold and set on ice TO
become very cold. At serving time
place the nodded rice in the center OF
q dish and arrange the fruit around II.
In the hollow of each piece of fruit
DIOR large spoonful of whipped cream
% which has been added chopped al
inCnds or pistachlo nuts. Serve with
whipped cream.
Strawberries In chocolate ice cream tx
a good combination and one which has
tho merit of being unhackneyed. Make
chocolate cream with a pint each of
milk and cream scdlded and mixed
with three ounces OF unsweetened choc-
olate melted In a little water until
glossy and one cupful OF sugar. Fla
vor with vanilla and freeze. When
frozen, remove the dasher and beat
well for several minutes. Add \ pint OF
preserved strawberries favored with
tuiGcoa. Stir the berries and all their
cJrur into the Ice cream, and lot
stand for good hour The curacao Is
added 10 prevent the berries from
freezing solid,