Wauwatosa news. [volume] (Wauwatosa, Wis.) 1900-1948, 1906-06-30
Is 1t Ever Right
To Marry for Money?

Is il ever right 10 marry for money?
Looking at it from the viewpoint Of
the woman who has been shielded all
her life from storm, financial and social
there is bat one answer.
This kind of women glories in the
sta temcnt that she will marry only the
man whom she loves devOtedly: that she
cares not whether he has but penny
that il would be a pleasure for her to
brave poverty for his sake: and that
She can afford to cast aside other friends
and live for him alone.
To this woman, the very idea of mar
rying Il man for his money Is repulsive
aud she would hate him before the Cere-
nony could be performed
She is IA good woman who can weigh
all the goods of this world in the bal
auce with love and find them wanting.
Here IA a noble resolve, and her chill
dreu should arise and call her blessed
But how about the other woman, who
has been raised i'll poverty, or at least
in circumstances of hardship
Perhaps she is one of the wage earncrs
for Il large family, and when she would
herself is continually confronted by the
fact that johnny needs a new coat or
little Mary must have pair of shoes.
Is il any wonder, then, that the very
name Of poverty becomes To her hateful
And would YOU blame her because every
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Love is ail-ahSorhjng and declared alb
solutely necessary to happiness. Can
respect and gratitude ever take its
! place. The very youthful, where ro-
nance rolgus supreme, hold the thought
/ that life without what they call love
/ would he void,
| There have been, however, many hap.
by marriages founded upon respect
! have heard wives say that mt the time OF
marriage they did not love their hus
bands, but the expression in their eyes
ms their looks followed the objects of the
conversation left no doubt as to tn,
depth of love that had developed.
\ man with money has every Chanc,
to win the love of wife even il lac doe,
luot possess it when she gives her happi
ness into his keeping.
There is nothing So quickly wins tn,
love Of a woman as thoughtful care anI
attention
y woman who had been battere,
against the rough corners of life for som
years once said To- me that she could Low
any good man who would be good to lie
: aud love her.
That is the secret Of the tired womat
+ who Is sn dreolatc on her lonely road tina
!. she Will marry man for his money, OF
l better put, for the care and comfort
$ which his money can buy her
a Before sou Judge your sister, you VIII
> nav ti""N Nud All that makes III
It worth while, try to realize what it is
: make hopeless fight alone Then 20
q may better he able to see that To man
d there may he other things besides loy
- Ia be considered as We each md the Ii
L tie niche into which we tit
IS The regard which grows out of graf
T. tude is many times stronger and MOI
$ durable than the hystercal love of otl
ii efs less able On appreciate the real thin
10 To marry man whom a woman couI
s. not respect. just from ! vain desire f,
II wealth, is not ONLY unwise. int is actin,
ID ly sinful kRt given respect. the reli,
G. that comes ia the overburlenci ami,
d, paung chance 20 unload these SAN
nj burdens M Some cases goes n long wa
In toward being real happiness.
- \ home, the goal o, every right.nip,
Of ed woman since time began. can be ur
M cured with money. and nine times out ,