Barbour County index. [volume] (Medicine Lodge, Kan.) 1880-current, 1906-02-28
Ry MARGARET E. sANGsTER.

Copyright, 1900, Dy Joseph d. I'o"iS'''
Among the most brilliant ard beau
tiful of social functions, is the DEBUT
of a daughter. During the years oi
childhood sne is the joy and dellSht VI
her home, and in fashionable circles
her education is watched over with the
minutest care from the hour of her
birth. The nursery, the kindergarten
and the schoolroom have done their
best for the little maid before she
grows up and goes to college. Through
out this time her mother is looking
forward to the days when she shall
have her as almost her second self, her
Communion and friend with whom she
has everything in common and who is
the object of her ambition and the
crown of her life as no other possess
sion is.
The old couplet says:
"Your sons your son till he marries
wife,
But your daughters your daughter all
the days of her life"
American mothers are not in haste
to be rid of their daughters, they look
forward with pleasure and anticipation
to the daughters triumphant girlhood.
When a daughter is to be introduced
to society her mother sends cards of
invitation to an at home and so far
as she may, she omitS none of her own
friends and also asks the young peo-
pie of her friends families. Old and
young throng to the house to meet and
honor the young woman who yesterday
was in the background and of no &C
count to anybody outside her home.
Of no account socially, mean, for until
she has been formally presented girl
does not figure to any extent in her
mothers world. She has had birthday
parties and other pleasures incidental
to juvenile years, but she is not in the
least a parsonage, nor can she be until
after her debut. That event immedi-
ately puts her in the front rank, a
young person to be treated with con-
sideration, properly chaperored and
expected beyond everything else to
have a good time while she remains
young, beautiful and full of interest in
all that is going on.
The daughter whose debut takes
place under happy auspices is as like
her mother as if she were a younger
sister. The mother is still young and
charming, gracious in demeanOr, and
au fait in all the acquisitions made
upon her in society. Very likely this
girl has a grandmother who is still a
social queen, wearing velvet, satin, lace
and diamonds, with an air of royalty
a woman who looks back over life and
surveys a series of conquests. There
are sure to be courtly old beaux who
remember when the grandmother was
slip of a girl with the world at her
feet.
Society is by no means left to the
sparkling beauties who are in the first
freshness of their bloom. 1t enlists all
who remain attractive, and girls and
boys, though they enter it with zest
have by no means the monopoly, nor do
they take precedence of older people
Yet there is nothing in the world SO
sweet, so bright and so bewitching as
a girl in her early twenties, particu-
larly if she is an American girl.
On the occasion of ner debut the
daughter receives with her mother and
is surrounded by a bevy of friends of
her own age. She is robed in simple
white, but you need not fancy that her
toilette shall be inexpensive because
1t does not look elaborate. One paws a
rip nj ia
French dressmaker sends in her bill
Whatever this young girl wears will
be certain to suit her. Youth sets OF
| dress, and she needs no ornament OF
| gold or jewels. Flowers are her only
adornment. She holds them in hel
| hand and the house will be heapet
with them and fragrant with their in
cense, for friends send them in lavish
ly, and every time the bell rings q
florists messenger will be at the door
| Flowers are banked on the mantels
they stand on the piano. they fill every
available space, and this, not in sum
mer, when they may be had for thu
picking. but in winter when they cos
a goodly sum.
| After few words of greeting az
congratulatiOn to the mother wht
presents the daughter, smiling CON
pliment or two to the girl herself, ant
little desultory chat with friends. ~
guests drift naturally to the din.n;
room. where they find table sh.nin,
with silver and lighted with candle
and spread with delicate viands. Her
there are more beautiful girls, or els
young matrons pouring tea and coffee
Somewhere behind screen of palm
there is an orchestra and music lend
its charm to the elegant occasion. I
is not good form to linger too long i
the dining room, as the guests at
large function are coming and goin
and must be served in successive re
lays. Never should one protract he
stay in a crowded house, and a hous
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