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The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27
BY phoebe Forrest

heathen. If she has Sunday school class for
young men, he should enter 1t, and proceed to
get converted under her teachings. If she is lit
erary and likes poetry, he should bring her a
volume of Iennyson and read it TO her In the
twilight.
Even if he does have TO wear glasses afterward,
it will be worth the trouble.
1t would be better, however, If he could mem
orlze few love poems, and reclte them to her
by moonlight This will please her immensely.
and offer suitable opportunity, moreover for
popping the question. Or, if she is proud of her
cooking he should contrivc to get invited often
to dinner aud should praise the cooking highly.
1t docs not matter If he does contract indiges-
ton, so long as he wins the cook; when they are
married they can go out for their meals.
He must by no means forget to admire her
clothes once in while OF course no woman
wishes to be jolhcd all the time but an occasion
al compliment, we'll put and well timed, is al
ways acceptable. He must not compliment her
at such times she has her mind upon hiaher
things as for instance, the heathen or the Sun
day-school class; and to the manner of paving
the compliment which will please best that de-
ponds upon the Some women like a
smooth, suave way of paying compliment AZ
they think that that indicates the true Chester
field: while others prefer rough, awkward way
of Jerking out the compliment, they think that
this is an indication of sincerity
| The poor man can only make q blind choice
between the two, but make it he must, for the
woman never lived who did not possess q little
vanity in her makeup, and who was not to be
won by an assault upon this, her most vulnerable
point.
As to the kind of man who wins it is genera,
" the one who knows how to take his lady bv
storm, who can make up his mind In minute as
to what he wants. and stick to that decision.
The man who waits patiently for her rowing
fancy to turn to him, and who hangs around the
premises year In and year out, may win her, but
the chances arc that some day his dilly -dallyinQ
will lose her. and that other lover bolder
than he, will step i'll and win in a sudden breath,
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sort of young fellow" He must bring various
toys and candies for her little brother; he must
establish himself In the good graces OF her SIS
ter by appearing to like her fance, although pri-
gately he may set him down as fool not reallz-
ing, OF course that the 6ance's idiotic behavior
is only mirror where he may see his own re-
hected.
He must he always upon his guard. for at any
moment, some little slip may make him lose all
that he has gained and while he may have won
the girl he will have lost the good will OF the
family, and marriage under such conditions can
not fail to be unpleasant, il not actually unhappy.
l. But while he may forget to court the family,
he will never forget to pay attention to the girl
Paying attention TO her, however is not so SIM
pie as it seems. but requires an art even more
subtle than that of winning the family, for often
the man who can please the old folks does not
seem to know how to please the girl at all His
attentions should be delicate rather than obtru-
siye suggestive rather than expensive,
For instance if violets are her favoritc flower
he should send her violets often as his pocket
book will allow; if she likes chocolates, he should
bring her some IN while; II she has a
dress which is particularly becoming, he should
send her fan to carry with 1t, OF, in this era
of the elbow sleeve. pair of gloves to match it
would be particularly acceptable. If she has a
light wrap. he should carry 1T for her; if the air
becomes chilly, he should see that it docs not
slip from her shoulders
He should anticipate her every wish, and
subtly convey the impression that be has no
thought save for her pleasure and comfort.
More can be said with the eyes, IN case of
this Kind. than with the lips and lover should
forget that women believe most devoutly in the
saving that actions speak louder than words
If she has a pet hobby of any kind, he should
anneor to be interested in it. OF course after
he bos once married her, he can return to his
own pursuits but before marriage, he should be
as much as possible creature without subjective
interests VI she is interested in the Orphans
Society OF in the hcathcn, he should at de-
yelop an uncomfortable passion for orphans and
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The paradox is that it is not the man who is
born with the gift OF winning women who makes
the Lest husband, OF even the best lover, but
rather the man who has no talent for it, tho
who has not practiced the art to excess.
To that man a few hints will be rather accept
able than otherwise, and will not give oficnse to
the women who would rather him win out
than his accomplished brother.
For one thing. he must sooner later con.
trivc to get on the right side Of the family. In
Some coses il may be necessary to do this before
it is Lossiblc TO make impression upon the
girl but in our cmapcpatcd ngc 1t is moro likely
that lie will find it not only convenient, but also
necessary, to court the girl before he courts her
family.
The Young fellow who is wise is the who
ia particularly attentive to the chnpcrone, and
the lover who wins the lady fair is the one who
makes love TO her mother.
He must not stop with the mother, however.
He must talk to the father about "men and
things" about the affairs of the day, in order
that shc father may set him down as sensible
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less assault the fort that he has beseged so long.
A woman docs not for the man who has
no VIII OF his own, for she sets such man down
as The one who would let himself be hen -pecked,
and she looks upon such creature as something
below contempt. In other words, she wants a
man who is real man. and not poor imitation
She considers him renl man who has strength
OF purpose sufficient to take her in spite of her
denial, and to hold her In spite of her efforts to
escape.
Women are romantic, and they like to be won
in a true knight-ofold style. The man who can
WOO them in this way is the one who will hold
their affection longest
Woman is the weaker vessel and from time
immemorial she has liked to be treated as such.
But in spite of her prediction to yourmoney or
your-life way of wooing, she does not care for
that way of loving.
A man must be all Difference in his love, and
at the same time all ardor.
Above all. he must be constant
1t is almost an adage to say that the ways Of
women devious and that what will please
one woman will not please another, or even the
same woman at different times. Moreover,
dare not tell all I know for fear my sisters
should be angry with me for divulgng trado Sc
crcts.
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decorative well their practical value is high
ly esteemed today, when revived modes OF house
hold decoration are receiving much attention.
Many quaint Colonial patterns reproduced
in all manner of brasses which faithful!
copies of the originals.
What could be more effective both in practical
and artistic than the "whrlwind" candle
stick with its pendent crystals and tall etched
candleshade? The price for this old-fashioued
piece is but S3,I5, pair for 81. The same de-
sign is less expensive without the crystals, though
this detail adds much to its attractveness.
Less pretentious is the antique candlestck OF
brush brass that is fitted with candles for dining
table illumination employed only as decora-
ton. The day of having things purely for their
decorative beauty however is fast giving way to
more practical view of the situation, in accord
once with the teachings of that great master of
decorative art, William Morris
A unique candestick of japanese origin is also
pictured. crane holding aloft the cnndcstick
proper, is oddly mounted the back Of a turtle
The electrolier also pictorically shown is one
OF the newest of attractive styles shown The
pedestal is of brass oddly embellished with TO-
liage patterns. The mushroom shade may be OF
any color desired, though various shades OF amber
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you please. ,,
In either case it will be incumbent upon you
to make good and add your quota oil furnishings
for the new rooftree. Right here let me Whisper
pertinent word of caution
That tbs more blessed TO give than TO receive
we know OF old, but the blessing is sometimes
doubtful when the donor has chosen his GIT
with disregard of its appropriate value LOT the
home it is to adorn.
A gift is appreciated twice fold when 1t pears
an evidence OF thoughtfulness from the glver'
who has used discretion in his choice and not
purchased it In a hit miss fashion that seems
To characterize the selection in many cases
COST DOES NOT SPELL BEAUTY.
1t is not always the present having the largest
price mark that is the most artistic or the one
that Is the surest of receiving fattering recep-
ton These are comforting facts to Keep IN
mind. especially when the cost must necessarily
be within your reach. There is a pleasing vare-
ty of articles available in the shops for 50 and
less that are really very attractive and far more
practical than costher ones of a delicate, fragile
type,
The sketches on this page offer a diversity OF
suggestions that will nicely accommodate the av-
erage purse.
A bride counts herself lucky when brasscs are
included among her wedding presents as their
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27

separate dish without the handle that is, OF
course, adjustable. The sketch of this desirable
table requisite is shown in the upper left hand
corner.
Quite as interesting is meat dish with tree
and well indentations that accommodate the
dressing, thus doing away with the extra dish for
gravy.
This idea has been taken from an old English
pattern in meat patters and is very cleverly pro-
duced in silver In plated silver these attractive
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27

IN CRYSTAL AND SlLlI
Individual casters have beea iel-
again appear in new and aisrzd'
Large casters accommodating frcn q
ceptacies used for the ends Of ths b
shown in the shops. The caster I5a
per right hand corner with plstd I
sold for $3.50.
The very latest idea IN bon ba I
silver and crystal, The silver NJ
with c rystal trays that FAY 4
bons, salted nuts, preserved ang1 Z
dainty It'd bit OF the kind.
Sugar and cream sets Of plated Gre
in a number OF attractive nsT !
grape" motif having preference Y
same as the rose" held sway hS =
Gus cut glass and etched pitesm
mountings are very desirable, rzspl
from S3.75 to 50 and 50,
Colonial glass whisky, eluret "a ,
range in price from IS to $40 ans
Charming wine sets, flower viso'
in the new Bohemian crystals are q
ly and not expensive,
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The design given is good copy OF an old Ro-
man candcabrum and the stiff, severe outlines
make it especially pleasing.
Flower vases and various receptacles for potted
plants arc shown in this pretty green that har-
monies especially well with dark furniture.
NOVELTIES IN SILVER.
Among the attractive pieces in silver is veg
cable dish with lid, the latter serving also a
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27
How to Make chaadl,s r.

Chaudfroid sauce is - i'~l Thss i |
sauce to each half pint @ : tsbIs,7s'
of whipped cream anu =, milk ef 9
ct sn' 'ntG then add ths s.IsSs %s''gss' t
mask the meats oelo,S sa,s eopasss'7
he Of a smooth, velse's
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oil of lavender. Keep in little glass jar.
"a Quakeress," said a physician, never catch
es cold Her immunity is due to her bonnet. If
] had my way all of us, women and men alike,
would wear Quaker bonnets.
"This bonnet protects the back OF the head
and the nape Of the neck, two very tender spots,
The nspe especially il tender. Let a good
draught strike you there for just second. and
I'll guarantee you a weeks cold.
"The Quakercss bonnet may not be beauti-
full, but, protecting her nape it docs, it keeps
her free from colds year in and year out"
The German Empress recently had a some
what dsconcerting experience. While staying
at one of the imperial hunting castles in Alsace
abe paid visit TO village school few miles
from Strasburg. Before leaving she gave the pu-
pills the customary permission to ask any request
they pleased, with the promise that che would
grant il il in her power to do So Fully expect
ing the favor would take the form Of whole
holiday or supply of cakes, she was not lit
tie embarrassed when one Of the elder girls stood
I'D and in q somewhat trembling voice asked
that the French language might be taught in that
school. Her Majesty looked thoughtful, but
realizing the necessity of keeping her word, she
gave the required permission, to the great de-
light Of the pupils.
Keep close to people who understand you
who believe in you. who will help you 10 discover
yourself and encourage you TO make the most
OF yourself. This may make all the difference ia
YOU between a grand success and mediocre ex
istcnce Stick to those who are trying to dc
something and to be somebody in the world
people of high aims lofty ambition Keep close
TO those who are dcad-in-earnest Ambition il
contagious. You will catch the spirit that domi
mates in your environment. The success of those
about you who are trying to climb upward vii
encourage and stimulate you to struggle harder
Il you have not done quite 60 well yourself.
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27

J,ISsGS&b aIc uhih'y '
- ceptable.
a novelty for use this sprlas {
of a coffee strainer. A good sfN ?
deep strainer with wide nrl''s :
tical cushion for bedroom use. .
silk or hand painted linen cove,
with hair or cotton batting, 49,
fit the strainer with a stih 'an
which is sewed to the wire eosa
edge-rcally the top of the ssfsH
the back Of the pincushl0nJ1 n n
satin ribbon about an inch ah1 :
is rufacd On in circle
The wire handle IS carefully ~ h
same ribbon and at the ead g q.
smart bow with two loops and W. = =
For soiled handkerchieis disy. T.!
pretty cretonnc. made on llnes M - =,
to the average opera bag, with .,is =; !
a wide bottom. are drawn tosels. =,
cotton cord and tasscl. WITH l.H : =
above the draw string to maA. ...,s;,
Waste baskets that are sprr rs q
in any room in the new nV s..,,.
mighty artistic lines this s' - 4
being round OF square, they " 81,
broad ones and four narr0sa' III i
Oriental appearance Coselea Co,d rls
cloth outside and a mereei.i me,.i ~
thew are decidedly orname1,sai ,s.i .by /,
on a light wood frame 20 ..,s;,s ~; =
inconyenieat to handle IN nD'
of a room to another. Lin, Al n
On a pasteboard iGunaai'l and lrnaasse
frames for photograph, ,,onsd aas sh,ps 2
oblong. square and scsn0Ss cssn.OSS.naintsa Y
and covered with nasu lsa,unne,, tA'i I
silks. bright colored cresuu rS','vs Saa =
artistic touch that Is away
living room.
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works of my watch?"
For great many persons think that there are
dishonest jewelers. who make practice, with
lun-Jeweied watches, OF substituting crystals
lor the Jewels at an enormous profit
As a matter of fact, there is no truth in this
suspicion A jeweler, no matter how dishonest,
would not steal the jewels in watch for they
arc valueless; they only cost 10 cents apiece
In antique watches the jewels were often cost
y. In modern watches they are never worth
more than S15 gross.
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is most subtle and delicate art to
be able to win woman. an art Of
which not every man is master.
1t is generally attained only by long
and arduous study; although in rare
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27
COPPER WITH PoMPEuAN FINISH.

Away from the beaten track attractive ar
ticlcs shown in brass with rich Pompeilan fin
ish Various tall candlestcks and candelabra
in art nouvcau patterns arc especially attractive,
ranging in price from 50 to So and 81.
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When Shopping

~7TART your shopping day early.
Don't try to do too much in day.
~ Don't wear trailing skirt to shop in,
tETzH Don't delay until p. NJ. to start
- out shopping
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Fallacy About Jewels

Jewellers, when watches nre left with
them for repairs. arc frequently insultcd
q with the remark;
81 i trust there is no danger of crystals
being substituted for the Jewels in the
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27

IIOH muhG q IIsJ OF uTICIcS dUu lnen
lenvc it home in your desk.
Don't carry large sum OF money in your pock-
etbook.
Don't walk miles to save few pennies. Shoes,
strength and nerves cost money.
Don't swing your purse recklcssly. Others may
care for it if you don't.
Don't let your generous inclinations do vio-
lence TO your financial limitations.
Don't drag the little children around with you
on the wcarsome purchasing tour.
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For q Woman S Eve

7EEF marrow pomade is made by dis
solving and straining marrow to the
n amount of one gill when liquid. To
f9 that add teaspoonful of olive oil,
and few drops of essence of rose or
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27

0ARGE formal looking envelopes, tpose
surc barbincers of June nuptials have
. been merrily sitting their way thtousu
Sl.5 the mails for the past fortnight 10 DC
received with delight or dlstastc' as
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27
For Bridal Sh0l

HERE is always sonsHl
cushions, and as thsy E
mand, the newest Oneh =
are dainty and pretty, =
captsble
The Salt Lake tribune. [volume] (Salt Lake City, Utah) 1890-current, 1906-05-27

and dull yellow quite fashionable the pendent
fringe may be had in any of the new decorative
designs.
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IN CRYSTAL AND Sill

fishes may be had from S to si9
the size and decorations
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WANTED sUIToR ExrLED.
Boston Man Annoys Beautiful Woman
and Is Arrested.

New York, April 6.--Infatuated near
~ to the point of insanity with Mrs,
Mabel II. Hull, beautiful divorce OF
Providence, X. l., Louis Gardner, repre-
scented as wealthy Boston man, was
arraigned in the lorkyille court. New
York, on q charge OF disortlefly con-
duct preferred by Mrs. Hull.
Gardner, who had vsinly protested
his love to Mrs. Hull and who sobbed
over and kissed her photograph in court,
was said to be president Of The Nantas,
ket Steamboat company and OF the 'Na.
tional Gas company both Of this city.
While Mrs. Hull herself saws he came
from Boston and belonged 70 splendid
family, he is not president Of the Nam
taslet Steamboat company. Nothing is
known OF such man at the Offices OF
that company. Nor is there any Ma
tional Gas company in Boston.
In court Gardner promised TO cease
annoying Mrs. Hull and was released
by the magistrate. But as soon as
Mrs. Hull started out of court Gardner
followed her and renewed his advances.
Then he called her up on the telephone.
As result Of his persistence, Mrs. Hull
Is preparing to leave The house at No.
LAG Forty.sixfh street, where she was Wis.
ting IN New York, Immediately, and
return to Providence.
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Augusta, Me. April 7.--What the pro
lsecution win contend was one of TIL
threatening letters written to Miss Mar
liam Carey, Miss Edith Given testifict
yesterday In the Cooper murder trialwa'
found by lIcr in the letter box in from
lof the witness home immediatel aftel
Mrs. Cooper had left.
Miss Given, who is fourteen years d
age, said She had passed the night witt
the Coopcrs, and the next morning Mrs
Cooper drove her home. On the way
the girl said, Mrs. Cooper asked hel
how their mail was collected, and she
explained it was taken up from the boz
in front of their residence by the mai
carrier.
Mrs. Cooper left the girl ut her home
and III few minutes the latter came out
Of the house, went TO the letter box and
found d letter addressed 10 Miss May
Carey" AIS the letter was not taken
up b the mail carrier, she testified, she
took it to the postoilice aud mailed il
there.
The State will Try to show BY the les
timony OF Miss Marian Carey, ofwhomit
il said Mrs. Cooper was jealous, that
| this was one of the letters which she
received, written in woman's hand,
in which the threat was made that il
young Northey did not cease his atten-
tion 10 the girl some harm would come
to him. t
Miss Given said she saw Mrs. Cooper
in the road when She came out OF the
house TO 20 TO the letter box.
when saw Mrs. Cooper in the road
in her team, she said, she was only
few feet from the letter box nearer
South Windsor. When / went out 70
the box | found our mail and letter
addressed to Miss May Carey. took
the letter into the house and carried il
ont to the box again that afternoon
about o'clock.
sThe next morning | went ont and
the letter was still in the box. ! took il
into the house again. and think lstools
ii out TO the box again Monday morn
ing. 1t was not taken from the box by
the driver. so tsolS it TO the postoffice
at South Windsor Tuesday and mailed
it there"
Miss Rosie Clifford, the chum Of Mar
ian Carey, earlier on the witness stand
told how young Northey lad repulssd
the advances OF Mrs. Cooper at the
Christian Endeavor meeting on the Sum
day evening previous to tile Tuesday
when the tragedy took place.
Northey had gone TO the church with
Miss Carey and Miss Clifford. He sat
down in the rear Of the room alone. Mrs.
Cooper beckoned TO him, Miss Clifford
said. but be refused TO 60 20 her. Later
Northey moved to beside Mrs. Cooper
and, according TO other witnesses the
couple quarreIlcls
The State will claim that il was this
quarrel that led Mrs. Cooper the next
day to buy the revolver with which
Northey was shot, and that Northey's
attentions to Miss Carey were the cause
OF the trouble.
Mrs Cooper listened TO the girls testi-
mony with smile on her face. Her
dcmeanor was that of person who did
not consider the testimony was Of great
moment.
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to the small opening on top, where the
milk has to enter.
Say be mcditated, that want
built for my hired man. He can't hit
the inside Of a washtub. He allus milks
up his boots"
B. NJ. Harwood, Of The state expert
ment station, shows the audience how
to cure milk fever with q bicycle pump.
What these folks need ii few Ben
Franklins,n lie said between times, ito
apply genius to their daily needs
There is much emphasis laid on keep
ing the milk clean. The calf ID the only
one that gets real frst.class milk" said
Mr. HARDWOOD. 1.-THE rest of us get
microbes, 600 in the cleanest milk to
100000 where the cows and stables
are not cared for properly Anything
under half million won't do any harm, z
added Mr. Harwood Or. Paige showed
how to save a COW from choking to death
by poising an old whip stock, with a
smooth knog OF wood in the end, down
her throat. Mr. r. RI. Smith warned
them to beware of false mixed feed full
of ground corncob. Or, Stone, back in
the tree car, warned the farmers against
the gypsy moth. 1t is pest they are
in great fear Of and it is hard To deal
with. Every effort is being made to
bring about Il general State campaign
against the critter.