The Princeton union. [volume] (Princeton, Minn.) 1876-1976, 1906-10-04
PERSONAL FAILURE.
People Who Are Always Driving Sue
cess Away From Them.

cess Away From Them.
| One of the strangest paradoxes in
human nature is that men and women
struggling, apparently with all their
might, to succeed are yet constantly
doing things, saying things and think
ing things which drive the very success
they are after away from them. They
are all the time counteracting their
efforts by some foolishness or weak
ness or indiscretion. They are saying
things which prejudice people against
them and doing things which destroy
confidence. Although they apparently
try very hard to build foundation,
they are all the time undermining
| themselves
Men work like Trojans to get a COW
eted position and then, by getting
pulled up with conceit or by some fool
lsh or weak act, knock the scaffolding,
which they have been years in build
Ing, out from under them, and down
they go. Their lives are a series Of
successive climbs and tumbles, so that
they never get anywhere, never accom-
plish anything worth WHILE Always
tripping themselves up, neutralizing
their work-this is their greatest Stun
bling block.
I know a powerful editorial writer
who Yields strong, vigorous pen, but
| who at sixty years Of age is just where
he was at twenty. He has had scores
Of good positions, but he could not
keep them because Of his indiscretions,
because Of hot temper and a sensitive
nature which was always being
wounded by trifes. There is no
harder worker than he is. Every time
he gets knocked down he begins at the
bottom and starts planning and re-
climbing, only to fall back again like
the tabled frog trying to get out Of the
we'll.
Now, If this man had taken an inven-
tory Of himself in his youth and
strengthened two or three little weak
points, he would have been a giant in
the field Of letters.
There are thousands of men who are
working as clerks or in very ordinary
salaried positions who might have been
employers or proprietors themselves
| but for some unfortunate weakness,
| some little deficiency in their natures
| or some popularity something which
might have been remedied by little
discipline and self study in youth. It is
not an unusual thing to see a man in
some subordinate situation who but
for one Of these little lacks would have
been holder man than his employer.
And so he has to submit to the humili-
| alton Of plodding through life in a me-
diocre position when he feels conscious
that he has superior ability to those
| who are over him.
1t is tragic to see thousands Of peo-
pie constantly pushing away from
themselves through life the very sue
cess they are trying to achieve, push
Ing it away because they do not con-
troll hot temper, because of some lit
tie indiscretion or other weakness or
lack in their nature.
Others are always driving success
away from them by their doubts. their
fears, their lack Of courage, their lack
of condolences; driving it away by
thought habits which repel success con-
ditions. They never make themselves
magnets to attract success, but keep
so many enemies of achievement in
their mind that there is no home for
harmony there, no place for a strong
purpose They hold the failure thought,
the doubt thought, the poverty thought,
instead of clinging to the success
thought, the thought of abundance I'M
til they attract achievement and plenty.
Success Magazine.