The times dispatch. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1903-1914, 1905-01-15
MISTAKES OF THE VISITING GIRL

winter when storms ana drl IL mn " delay
trains. N s
Visitor Sltoult arrive promptly d Ii tho
hour which has been flxetl I'll Once q ii the
thsuss % her friend q she should un0l,-
Itruslyciy fanlli ariza shcfarlf witt, Tho or-
dlnafyp ways Of the fiotlse. 81 Every homo
has i It's little ularities which belong
to itself .aS AL Jung girl should no neglect
the old or,la viioM shos finds ina FAM
lily, aid she sllot I'D DO careful not St oS
interrupt cony ersn Ito nor i,tonopollzs
are prese,it t. Ill this should go wt thouts
3snyit III, lie case Of well bred young
girls yet hey sometimes need q word \
6f raut ION.
Tor stance, * YOU Ii ra been spend
[ ing tho evening ou and come In late, = Is
Is thought ful for YOU ri to ID Quietly to-
you roo m. not ting loudly or laugh.
I Ing on tho sta trs and disturbing tho rest
If those ut lioa,a " d IRE Tread " In bed.
Another good Point forEt he Waiting glrlJ3
is 70 DO pleased wi TIL every thing that III
done for her and not to be a rald 70 ex-
press her Ian ks. n ever ecoilomizoS
thanks. q is be tier To- say 90 much
than to say too iii Ito In tho way ct ac-B
lmoWlt dglng kind II tteh tionp. II I a guest
wishes to carry books or maya zines from
the FAM 81 living room 10 her own ospe-3
cial st oinatll, which i,e guest chamber
III while she occupi {, she should mon
tio,l her desire to- do So. ~ some one may
possibly DO III the middle OF a novel, or
still $be feading some article In tho sniagu-E
zinc Melt lier should d girl 4 express OK
trn CANT Hiding for one member of \
famll and tren Ne other with indiffor-S
encn n. a girl Fl / ls,,e W once paid d visit
In, q house where there Wero twin Sis
ters, u little older than herself. SHE W,lsi
oh enx1l
equally rcpcl led from Miss Cynthia not
throug h X nc " on the part OF either
sist The girl wa s very young She
thought Il MISS lei lxnb beth tho prettierofs
tho two and took Tremendous fancy$to
her music, lingering 70 hear II her play tlie5
piano. III le Wlen Al tss Cynthia sang d
she Sostentatiously LEI the room. IIerS
MARKED y! \ that they aroused surprise and
comment, and she was not invited AZ los
That house again for ;Sea mrs,
@s a girl going from, home should not fore
get tha . he ls "a ad vert iHenneht to EVERY
one She NEE ts2 " the homo she comes 4
from. she rs rude md noisy. " sho
lice not quito Sbecop1ing a gcf, tlewoman.ss Il;
THE natural Inference Is that in5her$ homo
mon and are readily cond Oned & III
4s{ AZ list should a ways DO concluded ans
less here is excelieli 4 sons to the cons
$trnry, b at tho time which was Indicated
when the my ton was ser Mess .oll0
Very urgent Y tea. to extend IT. the
part of Wisdom ~ to 20 a wa Y he fore any
ono cail ba In the least tired or your press
ences In hospitable homes " leie I he yis-iiA
ting list e long, " our room may be desired d
tyond tho time allotted to your stn ~ You 4
may be the cause OF fcmharrnsSment and :
Inconvenience to your stess. The Visit
Ing giri must not forget promptly to Rend y
gnftcrher return to her home This ID kin,-5i
ply a pleasant Normal note, cling that 4
her hoinsWar I'd &jou IN ey lins been safely nc-
thanks fDr tho pleasure she has had,
though she has "a Tread y Verba NY expressed 4
them when taking leayo{fof her. enter
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