Wauwatosa news. [volume] (Wauwatosa, Wis.) 1900-1948, 1905-11-25

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RULES FOR CHOOSING HUSBAND.
DR. Harriet c. Keatmge. the noted
| woman doctor OF New York. gives in
the World the following twelve rules for
| choosing husband:
l. The first requisite for a woman in
| choosing Il husband is an education. not
| such rs she gets at Na~Sar and Smith.
! but an education in morals,
> The next thing She should insist
! upon is a clean bin Of health. 4 man
/ of woman contemplating matrimouy
! should he examined by physician. as
| for life insurance. If there hc amy in
| herited or iucurahlc disease it will then
! become known. In the event Of nm al-
| lection that Is carahle marriage should
/ be postponed. Ii il be proved bpvoud
doubt that an ailmeut is out of the reach
! of medical skill, the man or woman
should be brave enough to reuouucc mar.
| rage and take UP SOL line of work
which may absorb his or her interests.
| For in marriage as in all else the mp.
! lifting of humanity should be The high
| est consideration.
- ~ NbltVH NitNii& tltHftlU among
| the good qualities of her husband that he
| be well bred. The little dchcncieS of
life go far toward oilmg the wheels.
1. She should look for conceniality of
tastes, as we'll as some quality of in
| tellect or it's development, y college
| bred man and Il primary school girl
would be hopelessly iIl-asSorted,
;. She should look for husband to
whom she would be not only a wife
| hut n good comrade ComradeShip is
one of the strongest ties in marriage.
6. She should never marry a man who
asked the sacrifice of her individuality pr
permitted her to dominate his. Zach
has n right to that inner self. for each
soul comes into the world and goes ont
of it alone.
7. As n rule she should marry Young.
| always providing she has a sufficient
knowledge of the world. The ignorance
of women in this regard is stupeudoue.
Eut men toe are ignorant. The father
should be his sons teacher, the mother
her daughters
s. She should choose a young man
preferably. because he then becomes edu-
Gated with her. They are likely to be
more adaptable to each other.
9. \ young woman should never mar
ry middle-aged man with the idea Of
changing him He will expect the WON.
an he marries To conform to standards
already fixed
10. a woman should take some time
to study the character of the man with
whom she expects to spend her life.
II. She should ask above all things
the confidence of the man she marricS
If she understands his circumstances u
woman with any heart will be willing t.
make sacrifices and not run her hus
band into debt
T. She should demand an allowance
and not consent to u housekeeping
scheme which includes the running ui
bills. She should handle the money she
spends and understand the value of "A
dollar.
| 70 sum ii all up ! should say that a
woman in marrying should look for the
man with whom She hopes to spend her
! life. She should marry him with the
/ idea of becoming the mother of his chill.
! hlNii- t7iit NAbHih III w III iLtiiN the WI
/ of harmony. | believe there should be
in the graduate course of every young
man and woman n series Of lectures on
marriage, on the domestic life. the
marital bond To- prepare young people
for what lies before. Not perfection.
but human virtues with human faults is
/ what we want.
If divorce or separation have to come
the man or woman alone may take mp
/ the broken threads and make a now life
If there be children "a blight falls upon
/ them.