Lawrence democrat. (Lawrenceburg, Tenn.) 1884-1925, 1905-06-16
BY KATE UPsoN CLARK.

On, you KNOW nOtnlng OF the COM
plexities of life!" sighed the Mother of
Girls to the Mother of Boys. IF you
had three young lady daughters, as
have, you would find that the simple
life,' is an idle dream Girls have to
have SO many 'things!' Girls are so
critical! Girls have to do SO much en-
tertaining! Girls must not be talked
about They cannot go about alone. l
long to simplify their lives and my own.
but society demands so much from girls
and their mothers!"
This is unfortunately true. Nobody
can realize how true until he has lived
right in the inner circle and seen just
what the requirements of the position
are.
How can the simplifying be done?
There are three chief things which
an average householder has to attend
to. She must see that the actual daily
work of the family is done. She must
see that expenses are kept within GER
tain limit; and she must make her mind
into an animated memorandum book on
which she carries not only these two
prime departments, but also the health,
the intellectual welfare and the moral
condition of her family, to say nothing
OF their clothing and their social en-
gagements and standing.
The oversight and ordering of the
table are the first duty, The family
must be fed before much can be done
to elevate or purify it. In households
where professional cook is kept, there
is small hope of simplifying the cuisine.
The professional cook generally insists
upon cooking more courses of more
elaborate things than are wanted, in oy
der to show his skill. One high-priced
chef left good place because the family
liked plain living every day. He thor
oughly despised them, and told outsiders
that they were "low."
But in the ordinary home in which two
servants or one or no servant may be
kept, little hard daily thought upon
menu which shall be nourishing and
toothsome, and yet require little work,
would pay in every way.
On this point our excellent friends of
the "uncooked food" cult can help us
greatly Nuts used to be considered, in
many quarters, unsafe and indigestible.
Now the 'uncooked foodists" have
demonstrated that one or two dozen
nuts, judiciously dipped in salt and
thoroughly masticated, may take the
place of a slice of roast beef, and allow
us to snap our fingers at the beef trust
that salad and an apple are more
wholesome and really more savory than
pieandcake; and thatraisins and prunes,
with grains of wheat or rye, we'll masti-
Gated, make fine breakfast They al
low coarse breads, and some of them, as
a great concession, will let you soft-boil
your egg, instead of swallowing it raw.
You may drink milk or koumiss. But
they have fully demonstrated that not
only may life be supported on their easy
diet, but many diseases may be cured by
it, and that the normal development OF
the body, from too much adipose tissue
or too great leanness, may be promoted
by it.
Without going to the length of full
fledged follower of this harmless ism,
the wise householder may borrow many
simplifying" ideas from it. Elaborate
cooking consumes an enormous amount
of time and strength uselessly, and ever
hurtfully. Girls often imagine that the
elegance" of a household is enhanced
by it. Young men, much as they enjoy
good things to eat, are not half the
sticklers for style" that their sisters
OF the same age are. Simple cookery
plain, neat serving, few dishes, ample
in quantity, good in quality-these ar,
all that most men will require Man!
women, especially young and social!
ambitious women, insist on much NOR,
than this, and hence arises one impor
tant element in the completely of mod
ern life.
The washing and ironing are another
terrible problem. When one may sen,
everything to a laundry, or when ON
can keep laundress for nothing els
but her special work, the trouble i
trifiing. But in the ordinary American
household, again, with its two servants
or its one or no servant, the week.,
washing" is bugbear.
The more elaborate 'starched pieces
are usually beyond the capacity of tn
common hand. Do the girls and thei
mother see to it that the underclothin
As made as plainly as is consistent wit
comeliness? And do the girls try :
swear silk and .brilliantine petticoat
whenever they can, in order to reduc
the number of white skirts in tn
"'wash?" If they could be forced to I'd
mo- these back-breaking and nerve-try
ing articles of dress themselves fo
: awhile, they would renounce many
yanity in the shape of an unnecessar
white skirt. But many of them do NO
realize how heavily the family burden
are increased by the tossing into tn
laundry hamper weekly, of those two o
three or four ruffled and tucked cres
lions, which are going to take from 2
minutes to an hour each of laur