Warren sheaf., 1905-09-21

boy or girl feel more comfortable By
saying something kindly. ana show
in& an appreciation OF soneshi14 IN
Hniee either nzy b nrareztsd- To
1slA 2 tSlid girl that her hair Il ar
ranged IN 4 most becoming mzEnsF-
taaS size has Z very pretty head OF
ha1r- anyEaE- that her gown IS pretty
OF becoming Is sure TO make heR feel
good Tor some time TO cnMs Snow an
interest n the collection the boy nay
ue making. make very light Of his
sWkEar6nes In dancing assuring rim
RhaS ne IS learning quickly and ne viii
sL1losE ~0rship sou In his heart Re-
member that ehs very young and the
seEE Old are good ehalps0ns 10 have
On GHss side since thsv feel pr5vE-
fsssG 20 speak Of likes and dEslLses.
and sE the same time. caess vEv
same very old and very youas friends.
especially Il one Of the latter Is youug
ooF- eaE become mosE eIaspsFaEiEg and
annoying. and prove Z stumbling hlOck
10 ones progress In 2 mast GEseoaesrE-
ing way
Be frank and pleasant with thoss Of
your own age. showing an interest and
sTsa assuming Il II 1t does not exist
N ~narsTs they may be eaIosssd
sEIH Al the time Assuming an inter
est "ll coUntsrse1 any tendency 10 in
oaIeEsaes you may have. and keep yoE
out OF the clutches Of ssIhshaes-5hz1
horrible oeropu. that slowly winds it's
Csot2sles around ever! happy rair
one DaE possess. countsracaiag and
Crushing It TO nothing and leaving in
Us place the stun Of which nsannsS
ana uaars-zstiyeasss is made
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The first place to acquire gracious
hess Is In oas's home One family
s1o~a 10 the writer mas q small ruon
that IS known as the GoEiev.-
When any Of the children become 6Esa-
EeeahIs and threaten to spoil the al
1ospheTe Of pleasant kin6liaess tha.
should exist in all homes TO make
seen -or1hy the name, he or she Is
requested 10 retire to the rovIGE,
tas s6Glrs. TOO. first As a sort Of joke.
began 20 retire when sesfshaess showed
iISet in the form Of exhibiting . disa-
greeable Crouch {so make use OF lit
lie slsogaasel- and IS each one Ee-y
sooa recovered when left sIons bE
himself it was easy TO come out
with smile On the face Indeed il.
Is lard 20 help smiling q. the very
idea
There Is no place like hons. In
which 10 eulrIvaEs the gift Of gracious
ness Il father comes TO the table
With MS before breakfast crouch re-
member only that he may not have
slept veil last night: ne may have
business worries and difficulties you
Know nothing ot, and may be worrying
Because ne caalos secure for his fam
LIZ so0s Wished for pleasure Or pos
session. assume Z pleasant expression
and keep still until ne mas mis- break
Ias- wslf under way, then Il yoo have
sole pleasant thing TO talk about.
some biE OF news Or DIT Of knowledge
subject In tseGal way. and the
breakfast table will sooo become 4
most pleasant meal Father will start
Go~DcO~l With far Lighter heart: he
may not know just Why, but he viii
have Z particularly kind heart for his
daughter She's fine girl anyhow
ne viii say 10 himself perhaps UneDa-
SeIoSl.- and he viii SURELY take 4 new
grip on his business affairs and MAY
even come ouI successful and all be-
cause OF gracious Gaushts- Mother
~i4 forget for z time her ae-vs"
and the responsibilities OF the house
hold and family the children VII
start for school With light hearts and
home will usal 10 them the yer. best
place On earth There are little ac1s
10 perform In the effort TO acquire the
sE1 of Srac5oCSnsSS- ask mother If
she has any sran6s- do not wsTs till
she must ask Il IS favor from you
and OF all things never say you
haven't any tine for any Of EtsSe lit
tie acts remember it IS the busiest
people IN the world Who always can
make time for something extra. 1t IS
the busy ones who do the worlds
work Do not refuse the snsI. re-
quests Of the little brother Or sister
Not only IS the gift of graetousnsss
for youns girls. although it Is more
easily cultivated In youTh- it Is really
q must hare for the womsn who IS
leaving youth behind Ssl6sansss and
Indifference leave their sure marx on
the face of any woMan. and do more
THAI any other one thing TO help the
Eears trace the lines of age On that
face 4 mother has particular need to
De gracious for young people OF the
better sort love TO enter home where
the mistress Is tssstul and gracious 4
little tact goes far In rearing children
10 be Ehsi ne would have them and
the children of a tzeSfu mother have
far more opportunity 10 meet the right
sort of companEons- and make their