The Jersey City news., 1905-01-12
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There are few girls who seem 10 realize
what a man really requires in a wife.
It IS necessary that girl who wishes
ID be happily married to a good and true
man should remember that in choosing
lie partner man invariably decides on
woman who were she a man. would
be lis best friend and closest companion,
say< the Genhewoman.
Some men. Of course. marry their op-
pas.tes. But the majority incline toward
llte woman whose tastes, characteristics
and sympathies are Identical to their
own.
There are many girls who cannot take
N interest in mans pursuits and am
h.tions in life. They give it a purely
feai.'siae World. 50 to speak, composed
nsasAly Of 3lress, fashion and amusement
{ -asionally they may dabble in domestic
Fosis: but they regard the latter in the
Eight of a novelty instead of something
70 be seriously undertaken and thorough
II learned, in order to st them for the
position Of wife which they may one
day attain.
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are as difficult to understand as the
Greek and Hebrew languages. They hope
the man in whom they may be interest
ed will succeed in what he wishes TO do.
but beyond that they are not capable of
thinking or acting with him.
4 man wants more than this from the
girl he is TO marry. She must sympa-
thize with him aud his ideals and not
only syInpathize, 5ut gain some intimate
knowledge Of his work and ambitions. 50
thar he may be able TO talk 10 her and be
understood. BY taetfnlly inviting d man
70 talk over his worries and difficulties,
girl can learn all she needs about the
interests in life.
And it is surprising how a man will
be drawn to her in consequence. 1t is
to her he will come to talk over his tri-
amphs and failures, knowing full well
hat he will obtain delightful praise or
sympathy and comforting words, which
viii encourage him to make another
START
The simpering. gushing. frivolous girl
does not appeal TO the average man. She
appears 10 be TOO selfish. There seems to
be little concern or thought for Others in
her nature. OF course, it is few men who
lik hat may be termed the thoroughly
ser sininded girl She must be one
who can amuse, aud who exhibits at
times those feminine foibles which make
a woman 50 dear TO mans heart AT
the me time. she mnSt he capable Of
deeper feelings, and the girl who can
eonltine these characteristics has BY far
the best chance of marrying.
The practical-minded girl, as well as
the serious minded, is much sought after
By men in search of a wife.
There are some girls who are conf
dent Of marrying, and marrying well,
but who rarely succeed in their object
the class who put on airs.
Gentlewomen never put on airs. be-
cause good breeding and conceit never
go together, while the girl who is born
in humble sphere Of life and works for
her own living, soon acquires TOO much
common sense to be conceited. Ii is the
girl who apes the Ady who looks in vain
for husband.
You find this girl every where--tle
daughter of parents in comfortable cir
eumstances. She knows nothing of the
fafdxhips Of the world.
Marriage should, Of course. be easy
for a girl with so much time at her dis
pgsal TO make friends. and with all the
opportunities fpr Introduction Of eligible
men. Bur her first idea is that She mrst
marry man Of means. and she adheres
e It With a persistence that very often
leaves her withoat a chance Of marrying
at all.
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