The Anderson intelligencer. [volume] (Anderson Court House, S.C.) 1860-1914, 1905-10-25

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man himself rather than his char
aoter, and, sadly, enough, she is al
most invariably attracted by the
qualities that dazzle her rather than
those on which she must depend
through after years.
Women like sparkle, grace and
beauty, and as girls they love to be
worshipped. A very few are capable
Of choosing q husband from those
that present themselves as her suit.
OTIS.
For girl cannot choose husban
as man does wife. He may firt aud
spend his time with the alluripg mai
den, whose pompadour and blue eyes
are her chief charm, but in nine cases
out Of ten he will marry womanly
girl one who is fitted to be a good
wife and mother. Whatever lack
men have, their minds work very logi-
cally, with reason and foresight, when
1T comes to matrimony.
Girls ore different, and young and
old they ere most likely to be cap
tivated by the adventurer or unworthy
man unless they are closely guarded
in their homes and acquire certain
degree Of common sense as they grow
30 womsnhood.
Wise men in their wills, therefore,
tie up tho wealth left 60 vidovo. and
daughters so thst, in case OF death,
aome idle scamp who boasts tenor
voice or has, through constant prao.
tiee, learned to make love in q telliug
fashion, doee not step 10 and win not
only the woman, but her money.
These fortune hunters are the very
worst and most dangerous type OF
men to be avoided They ere che
professional beauties OF their sex and
aye vaiues by far than women, never
showing q trace Of real feeling except
when some girl who knows their game
laughs them to soorn, ignoring the
pretty ways and cultivated tones that
are their stock in trade.
Such men early learn their attfao-
tiveness TO women, and as they grow
older they become positively insup.
portable in their various mannerisms
and affections, tending, as they think,
to make them appear fascinating.
And, sad though it Ia to relate, they
are regarded as fascinating by foolilh
girls aud eilly old ladies who should
know better. :... .... g.. .......
One note Of warning that msy be
observed in regard to this class Of
man, NO matter how eleverly he may
cloak his real character to women,
men will rarely endure him. -"
~ Is is rather q safe rule 10 avoid
men that other men will not associate
with. .,..:.... +. -..... ! Z.
q They may not bs rsscsls 10 the
esriminal sense Of the word, bat they
are never manly, honorable rnnn, and
t&hey are 90 smitten with sense Of
their own oharks that o girl who
,anartieB one OF them is doomed to un-
Happiness unless she happens to havea
Full purse to squander on their whims.
Better by far. as men 60, is the
gambler OF even the man who drinks,
although neither Of these is the man
TO marry. But neither is so danger
ous, for every girl is warned against
these two failipgs, while the effemi:
nate dandy Of Beauty Man, as he has
jbeen called, frequently poses as crea.
! 3ss;Es sss;Ess without vices. e =. r. .'".
.'>3 His great aim is to be. attractive to
women, and he therefore esohews all
vulgar aims such MS card playing aud
drinking. Young men are not so apt
80 have these faults ID these strenuouo
!: :sucoess.s seeking days. They may
); have tendencies toward over.aociabii.
!. ity, but modern philosophy deals, With
i: these matters more aanely than in the
!. old timea. s. ;,1z :I2>E, EFss,:,: s,-,..