The Anderson intelligencer. [volume] (Anderson Court House, S.C.) 1860-1914, 1905-01-25

/ average American husband, when all
Iissaids is 3 chiid.like creature, easily
4 pleased, and the wife who cannot keep
what she has caught dseeryes &C lose
it for her own selfish stupidity.
i ] should like TO see every woman
4 who is at the head Of q house put g
taboo on the arguing habit and ruth
. lsssly suppress it. Let her swear OF
| froE discussing unpleasant topics her
selfiand keep her table and hearth
stone from being battle ground,
where politics. end financial and ss!;-
! gioue battles are fought out to q
/ bloody finish. The arguing mania is
the3peat of many Q home. It breeds
temper. iil-nature, si.iteful personali.
ties. rancor and hatred. Everybody
10 entitled 20 their own opinion, but
if they can't agree it is nothing but
common deoency to keep it to them-
selves. When o member OF family
tis determined TO do something OF
which the others disapproye let them
exercise their individual liberty and
please themselves, but stop from keep.
ling the whole family in turmoil by
discussing IL beforehand. Nine
tenths Of the family jars can be pre-
vented by this simple device.
Isshonld like TO see women swear OF
from worrying. Il does no good. It
| plovs furrows in the cheeks, and pre-
cipitates doctors' bills, and the thing
We worry over never happeno, any
Wey. IL is something We weren't
looking for, and hadn't worried about
|a particle, that occurs. OF course,
it's natural for every wife and mother
te sh:s ( che 81 10 thu pin lnat keeps the
universe together. But she isn't.
She dies and another woman steps in
aud marries her husband and keeps
her house and raiaes her children just
as we'll as she could have done. Let's
resolve TO take life oheerfully and not
TO worry over the things We can't
help or those we can help. We
shall be happier for it, and, after all,
we might trust God to run the world
He nsle. s. Il
/ should like to see women swear of
from 30 much novel reading. The
much.heralded free libraries are fast
becoming .: public menace, instesd Of
|'s public blessing. There are plenty
Of women tho spend their time doing
nothing bne devonring one novel after
another, and Who live in one consin-
ual debauoh of false ideals and false
sentiment and highly epicsd romause
and sigEiing passion chat iB every whit
% demosaiisiDg, mentally and morally,
as any other jag. There is reason in
all things and temperance in novel
reading is just as much to be desired
as temp peranceiin drinking Vhiekey.
/ should like Co see mothers resolve
20 brace mp and do their. duty By their
children. Because little johnny is |
seif-Willed ia no reason for not sona.
trolling him Because little Mary 10
determined on having Ger own way is
iat 40 e1uQus fur infringing her in it. OF
oouras, il ia hard to make children
obey aud teach them good manners.
Most dnties are, but nobody but |
coward ehirks them on that account.
There ien no other thing on earth tkat |
% snda in aneh urgent need OF reform
aa9the way in which children are rails |
ad It is On Issue that no mother. can, |
dodge g the Bhis stless, lazy mother
who let's her ehiidren grow up on the |
stFset. OF nyshsrs elsa, 80 they don:
worry her or Che ovestender mother,
who loves her children TOO we'll stol
make tEea mind lad alons Co suffer-
she conaeque enaes Of their folly and |
ain nit would not matter' 30 much, But |
every one 81 sna are the victims.of her |
'esrera, and &c would be 8 matter for
general reioieing ;s tth o women ofs the |
country would esteblish d me- II domes-
BIO policy that Wou.d eail For the ex-
tension gof the i spank king induatry and
theS snbiugation of the infant tarrors |
OF i ths househol ia 81
should u ikeas 10 Sysea young girls
swear oii from tal king sslang that soils
their pure lips and from trying tos be-
hood dlnms inslead 90 ladies
Ms 81 should like 10 ss sss ciub women
swear off from esp sponsing fool caaasss |
and reaerye their strengt II sfor work.
that III Icount in Tue general good
should lIke ssse debnsa nses
'Sswer on from ling gusb iog az ie &
acsors and sen ntimentaI letters 10 |
men - orses than wrong is
eh0nsd i'll ke t0 aes sooinl akrnsa