The Anderson intelligencer. [volume] (Anderson Court House, S.C.) 1860-1914, 1905-10-25
THE RIGHT SORT OF MAN.
Girls Love to @alk of ssIdeals.''
Chicago Inter-Oceau.

Every weeks record shows that
men are detected constantly in such
crimes ss embeszlement, bigamy and
eve: worse sins against the commuu.
lty and those whom they should pro.
tect, who, it comes cut, have never
smoked or played cards or visited &
horse race.
Yet there are smaller vices by far
than their own, and small vices will
always remain secondary to character,
which is the important thing in the
man one marries, as it 10 in every ip-
dividua!-man or woman.
Some Of the greatast names in his.
tory are those Of men who were not
exempt from faults-some serious
ones. But having character they rose
above them-developing their natures
at the true test of man or woman
Temptation.
Choose, then, man whose char
aoter is worth While, and one who has
pride in that character and something
that he holds in trust and that must
be sustained, who respects his mother
aud his father, bis family ties and OBJ
legations, whose language is clean aud
who doee not sueor at religion.
Next to the Beauty Man, who thinks
himself irrseistible to women, the
cheap aud hraggsss atheist, continual
ly voicing bis unbslief at afternoon
teas. 10 person TO be avoided.
He 10 unfortunately @ COMMON tyne
and youths who should know better 20
about inisatiug his swagsering ignor.
anee IL they 'hsve not been properly
trained and bsought up under the
right induenoee.
And this training and influence 10
OF the efeatest Consequence in the
man you marry. There are black
sheep in every fold, but the man
whose family has respect and standing
IN the community has something to
live up to, some matter of pride be.
yond himself aud will in most eases
prove good husband.
This rule is a sound one. Be a
snob in choosing q husband il you are
one in nothing else. A man or a woman
will often be withheld from evil bv
the thought Of mother or father, OF a
amily name that will be smirched
through wsongdoirs or even careless
living.
Don't marry weak man who is
simply charming in intellect, refine.
mens OF manner and speech, poetic in
mind, Eeverent Of womsn,. talented
but lsoking that moral stamina which.
II Il is called upon, will fail. =:
! such man is sure to be handsome
in an interesting, fascinating wsy,
and sometimes he makes an adorable
husband; hievery sentleness, which IL
part Of his weaknees, making him
aeem more Of q saint than man. >
:. II there 10 money enough in tho mu-
.tual exchequer to admit Of your hay.
ing husband whose artistio nature is
far ahead Of his moral principle, but
whose sooooaa seed TASTE will always keep
him from serious errors, you may be
very happs with one Of these velvet
coated philosophers whose code is TO
avoid all unpleasant problems rather
than meet them. .., ~ +.
He will, at allevents, never be stern
or ill.tempsred. He will submit to
anything to avoid a scene, and he
may be very amusing. Girls love to
talk Of "ideals," as though a thorough.
~ righteous man. who carried fam
ing sword about the house With him
would be 9 pleasant. party to have
about on q rainy day. t...> ::::,,,&,#s
In reality the velvet. coated man ID
the Turkish slippers comes nearer 90
womsn's ideal than any other; he iy
esthstie aud fits in With the furniture,
but woe be TO her il any Of life's real
emergencies come up and he is called
upon for atrepgth. .;..:5Ss s.. 3: ~ 81
Suppose you make aome mistake
yourself, serious Of othereias, uhieh
the velvet'ooated one cannot under.
stand for the reason that hs is INNER.
sed in some subject that he can fol-
low up with cushioned ease; inva.si:
ably he will condemn you or else con.
done for the sake Of peace and quiet,
: whichever is the sasieat at the time
will he do. ...<< s.$.. ,..: =, :: N. 3: E
81 Nothing will stir him while your our
gown 10 becoming and the cook Ia no.
disappointiug.' He sdismiases every.
thing wittily with an epigrana,l,,z !, and 81
this is charming ia a a'P;naYn8 Il NAV;