The times dispatch. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1903-1914, 1905-01-15
BY Margarre: E. s';angstear'..5l

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nv mother, with q y look 81. q
= q poiogy and we have not
yet cleared up the llouse She ~ q tiie
daa III Kirl III, Ind world. but can, help
thinking thinking that she has bel bad brought y;
From the moment she arrives stle
tranples rough .slod over oil my trtltli-
tons She ignores every one q
ana sets a BAD example ! I q my children:
we tre fond 81 her, but Jane ana q draw y
breath of relief lieneYe are
overt ~ 5 II I.
d nurhte ten ar tie house, ". don yol link
tia YOU and Aunt Jane are a# II Ito too too
old.fashioned? Yo, reall are nuo' q
mod ern. Mary Is ike mos E 81 4 ne Girls =
kno Y, and when visit her the whole
family are amazed "a my par tlcular q,
thong here at home you are no presNh-
ed with Them. 8
w deai,,s said the mother, wi ensr.
ey,555.,if i eSer5S ina glned hat you, ~ hen
visiting In o. strange house, could leave 2!
trail of your gloves no -ha ndkcrch efs
and stocks marking your, pa til from your
own room to the other 70 ons of tho no usf,;
yifsyou8 turned ION g1is and electric ~ MS
and LETT Unnecessary burners blazing FOR
hours Iii & he evening, when you were not
needing them; II you came la to o l1l'ca IS
fast and late to- dinner, and generally "a
lamuck through every clvilityr should
DO asha,lcl 70 liayo you 80 out tls asrepre-
sentative OF my homo training. Il rahlly
DO lilte9 most Of your friends. and III ain
bond of Mary, but the mex t time she comes,
hero i sliall but y her In the second nest
bod room. and not Ain tho guest chamber,
She Is too destructive, too xnsperntlng.
She has ruined the cover! Of tho dressing
bureau BY spat tcrlng It Il with ink, aid
ed the soap al h, so that ii Will lava
to buy another, WI lcll spoil he sc .ss5
81 or Mary! e sighed Elsie '5ho5m must
have FALLEN into those ca rel esss ways While
she was at col lego, w III ny 3ss u "a
t95 ere Alln U! Jnno intcrrupte X tho con ~
versa ton iii her usual strenuous manner
Aunt Jane Il MI energetic spinsterB WHO
I has convictions on every subject undep3
THE sun,3b but who Is cspeclally 4pronOunccd
lin her Judgment when I t comes to- bring VI
Ing up girls she spoke ss eycrels,
VI knew her mother before he HID
was born. Not one Of the triba ever l',
had tho ghost of an idea OF tldlless, Mary
wa not we'll sta rted Consequently she ID
not an IDEAL guest III a.. FAST q inus house,
8NeYertll eless. for tho ia kn of her brcezf-
ness and sweetiiessand tho fun sho,
sbrings,f We must AXE her as she IL. ~
do $hope8t that tho fashion or bringing up.
girls to be neat VIII ono Of these days
come back. Il li35 s s5 is az; 4sSll t
Is u wonder II girls who a 70 something
like; Mary every stop In q their rt'oa ress
through the world II reflect that While
everyday likes q zephyr. few peop y can
tolerate 4 cyclone inst a little Thought
~ little time md Ia little tpnsld dora tlpl
for others often make tllas d Inference besI
tween an agreeable guest atld tho re-ss
verse, BIN, st d . 5t5 b. 5E
II you are going on a visit 4 the first
thing az which you have Y to I hink y is
Ewhethel OF not YOU are to take q Trunk
SIf tho Visit Is to- ext end owe y week otS
Slnore " is well 10 be provided Wltlnplothes
for every emergency. and these cannot
he so easily packed into 9 splt case ma
Into the large en- com M So 81 q slnall7 Siaea
/ or steamer trunk. II a. gir tls IN lted
either by, herself or as on OF house
party there Will presumably 20 occasion
when she ~ III require ~ pre- y. event Ing
dress, and when she SHOULD 90 properly
kgoWi,ed for a luncheon or q ~ ~ tel'no
Y tea, Her travelling dress VIII NEE the
requirements OF walk Ing, drly Ing, skat-$
ing or going about IN street cars IL It be
short and smart Wthont elabofat % 7 iinl,T8
ming, IT Is a good plal " hen con yenien Il
to semi n trunk byS ext resa III day hes
fore ono goes, thus n lsArir as fltH aISlYal
on the, same day with It's oW Ell y Ms
cannot be depended upon as certain IN
times OF gro Wdsd sumnlsg tray 81 or In the 4