The Vinita weekly chieftain. [volume] (Vinita, Indian Territory [Okla.]) 1902-1905, 1905-05-25
WOMEN WAsTEFUL.
80 pEux.AnEs oNE on THE sKx
IN A PUBLIC MAMHKR.
Reason Assigned for the Failure Of
Many Young Men 10 Mary
Another visw af tho
Problem.

There was = confcroncs uf tAe adri.
sty for Ethical Culture held Ia Manhat.
tan the other day II q fair criticism "a
4 by mere men ID permissible. Il proved
% us b BE- very breezy and enteFtAin.
ins symposium. Tho leading topic TOE
oonference. reports rho Brooklyn TimeA
was Women Ia Relation 10 Household
Eeonnmiea. and Mrs Helea T Rich.
ards, who n . star professor % Bos.
% Institute. was very largely IA evi-
dence ~ the chief speaker The pth ~
aar rpmarks appeared 10 roet upon the
eyery DAY problem ~ 70 whs the young
men u the ttuica - not marry. and ohc
of the rearuna assigned hy Mra Rich
ards foF this lamantahle condition Il
affairs waa that annually given. { e..
5000 4 year = The least : professional
man Or clerk feels that as can safely
marry ou vita thO hope ~ 4 happy fe-
suit u the contract Ms Rieharia ln
discussing the FeAsun for ne solitary
existenee uf - many really nice and
eompanionahla young msn was geite
frank enouNh 60 say that Il 4 vas true
4 was ; Disgrace f9r our yoang women
ta b. 10 extravagant
VIA 81 poeubls dsfereuca to ths sa-
lefiof Nisdom - ars Riehafds snd
~ith a llecomlns moieaty We bsg -
difeF with thls statement laat Il BE-
cause q change ia social conditions
for which ne avrfsso yosne woman il
in aQWise accountable. that - many u
our ypung men Fefass 20 Accsps che ~.
sponsshllity pf married lifei lant il
because they are eeukins = wife Who Il
posaoaaed u ~ the virtues q q domss-
iie EacEins. sell cited and warranted
T. 30 or fcxsvur that theae youths wita
moderate Incomes rctsEa d take the
importaat plsngef Aud Il such 4 the
caso q lsrre u.alwity q them yin ga
% tAeir graves SUI iu q atAte u bach.
alorhooa
rhs average gsrl u ths prusenl day
4 uot uained a. het mother o. her
gfandmother wAa oentary ago do
NESTLE training Ger girls Waa entirely IN
tas aaoendanI ans nommerclalssm ana
the sciences wcTe relcgatsd entirely 10
he unfe rJbissf of the saxou. those kai.
tef nsted % stand up taf0fe ths hard
edges and nsamy sides Il thc world. A
radical change has Ievvlsd the surface
Il the worlds Twins m these latter
dasa Our girls have become ambitious
They ssek eqoaiiiy win nen Ia meas
work Thsy aro being educated ou ar.
fcFont linea Domesticity Il TOO tame
and oommonplaoc and l. relazatea %
the background. with tha rtzult that
houaewtFes are acarue and women clerks
~ plontifal ~ fallen leaves Ii the a..
tumn. The situation doesut disgrace
The girla. q simply changes The bent ~
their uasfuinsss Il may prevent them
from becoming the beet u Domestic
helpneesa, hat e Doesn't pruvent them
from being charming Companions. svn.
pathetic and levahle A laek 4 knowi.
esEz % experience n domestic Affairs
laast psFforce rutaii an increased llv.
ing expense het will TIE husband drop
his club. c.gafa and liquor e. make %
tbs Increased household ezpeusesg
Thsy dou1 ltks % So II. and esaerally
viii not. henes the difaeaisy 4 acsen-
uaeally edueated Youns woman can
generally brina inte use ; vell.traiusd
mlnd 10 tas running = 4 household. wsth
resultant ecouamy q eKpenditars. but
IN ssach eAats the wtfu deserves and
should SET ne clopssation u ths hus-
band Tte result - such cases -end
thef are aAnY--heaid - satisfactory
and oooyincins thai naFFsafn apon =
ltmlted incoma u JUSTIFIED
fet n SPITE e Ail oaf Arguments rsnk.
chesked maideHs aFs continually belns
led . the altar ~ nAnly T0uns mea.
and happy homes coaunua u eprtnR %.
II there + = tailine % IN marriages. the
blame resfA equally apon both sexss
There afe ~ many somea sto renaze
PROPOSALS a. thsFe afe men Nto neKiset
70 mahe them. Woman Iooks fuf mere
lo-day because she can a. aaosU for hsx-
saff