Evening journal., 1905-01-02
SELFISH COUPLE.
Husbands

Husbands ana Wives who Refuse to
NiuSie In Society.
Selfshnd fass is the bane Of all life.
It cannot enter iato Northumberland
family oil social-without cursing if.
Therefore, ~ If any married pair find
themselvc, Inclined to confine them
selves to one anotller's society. indis-
posed to so abroad and mingle with
the life ais FOUND them. disturbed and ir-
ritated bN the collection Of friends in
their ownH dwelling on in any way NOV
ed to rega IRA their solial duties as dis
agreeable let them bt alarmed at once
1t Is pad symptdm-an essentially
morbid sl fmptom. They should insti-
tute meal rs at once Tor removing this
feeling, arg IA they can lonly remove 1t by
! persistent- ly going in II society persist
emily gatlt lerng II intp their own dwell
ing and pcrsistently endenvoring to
learn to ! oYe and feel an interest in all
with who's N they mea The process OF
regenerau. on VIII noQ be tedious one
for the re- wards of Social life aream-
mediate.
The hen ut enlargeT quickly with the
} practice Oh hospitality The sympathies
run and tr axe root fRom point to point,
each root 4 0throWingN up leaves and bear
Ing 1owei2 e and nit like strawberry
vines if { hey are N0nly allowed to do
so.
1t is on " sympatN lies and strawber-
{ riCs that are cult ted in hills which
Z do otherva Use human face is a
thing wiz zen sAou be able to bring
the heart tlnto bios m with moments
shining. aHnd VIII SIGH with you If
, you will 4 meet 1t opelsy.
! The pen fllues o lanily isolation will /
I not, unhaI ppily, f entirely upon your
\ selves. lhey tr be visited with |
double fol ''e 70 dpfyNr children. Chill /
dren rearf ed i'm home with few or /
e no assocs .auonslI grow up either |
= boorish on senFey timid.
r It IS cii t'uel W children to rear
a them Will lout ~ them into con-
tnued coz ltact' npolite social life.
4 The or1et al ting which children
Il thus reaV ed areilid to pass in gain
d ing the ease aiaslrance which will
= pake thu EN- at Elsewhere than I'M
Ter the paterf-bf Is one Of the
AeSerestA.i WHO "fvhn are constant
re ~ accuston 10 social life from
s. their youth ed lcated in all its
forms and I 2 wit 'hout knowing il.
- Great mum rs Of men and women
40 all over the Cry are now living Sc
re cludcd from q col intact simply from
Of their scnSitA 'onrd iousness Of igno-
N rance Of thu ems OF graceful inter-
he course.
They feel ttley cannot break
through thei 1ervf There is, doubt
~ less, much Is RI Orbid in this feel
ing. and yet III mai My natural. From
n all this NOR dtionN and this depriva-
liz ton every highE have been saved
lis by education ONE where social
nd life was pro, q we'd 1t is cruel to
p deny to chi % III opportunity not
en- only TO beco ACCUSTOMED from their
ng first console kss II the forms Of So
AT ciety, but t, Joy hts influence upon I
ng their dovclo 4h life
W., Society IL Vol to children. Contact {
ne with other 4 rnhds 4 the means BIZ
which they fare educated and the diff '
ference in families OF children will
iirl show at onck 70 the accustomed eye the
hat different so al character Of their par
IAN ents. But have no space to follow {
era this subject further, and leave It 5
tea with you. with the earnest wish that r
seq you will consider it md profit by the '
@ suggestions have Owen you-''Tim- '
,n1 othy Titcombs Letters" in Boston c
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