The times dispatch. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1903-1914, 1904-11-13

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! he has not found in the paths Of
Pleasure nor In the hy-waSs OF License.
| He wants the unmercenary Devotion OF q
| loving woman, and he wants to walk
forth in the broad light of day, sun-t
:, ashamed with his wife by his side,
1t Is the inevitable goal OF every worth
while man.
The world approves of%such marriages.
| and the woman feels that she is Filling
woman 8 highest mission In retaining
a lost sheep.
But how few suoh women know the
| wise middle course toSwalk with such q
| man. s iSs SG
II Is all very well to listen and believe
when he tells you he IS happier than
he has ever been In his life before. and
| that his home is dearer to him than any
club on ca rth. s.s .
But 1T Is far from very we'll II you
| fal upon his neck and weep the first
| time he intnates that he would Ike to
| drop in at the club and talk with the
old chums for mn hour.
This IS the poorest method YOU c..'lu
adopt to convince him OF the greater JOYS
| of home. -,
There is a. certain fascination IN CLUB
life 10 most men. There Is danger IN
| this fascination to some men,. Nhen
man slckens OF 1t and wants ~ nome
! It is because he has had nothing nv ms
! club. and because there is a worthy eie-
sment in his nature WillcH catis ~ so'e
| thing better. 1,
'rhe fact that he should want to visit
| thei old sccne now and then Is not I'M m
| dication that he Is sick Of home or that
he is wandering from the fold again
II the pasture Is sweet and the shep-
herdess kind and wise. the sheep VIII not
wander far
II you have married a man who has
been overfond OF the fair sex. and IL he
| Is kind and true and loving, q Q NOT ne
| forever upon Che alert lest lie stray from
you
Constant surveillance never yet kept
| a man true. IT has made many a man
unfaithful
Although your husband may have told
| YOU over and over that yon are tenfolda
more pleasing to him than any woman
| liza ever knew before he mot you. that
docs not signify that he might not like to
sit by some other at q dinner party
dance with snn,e other ata cotillon. "
| does not signify that he would not enjoy
| talking with others whom he regards less
highly titan ynu. In the association with
the women he does not love q man often
most appreciates the woman he does loye
Should nc take n scat by some other
woman and converse with her In your
presence. do not uct sulky. distract or;
injured,
l'at Only mnkcs you ridiculous and
| unlnynb,o
Although yout iunoeence ana unworldlt-
| ness won your husband from, the paths
1 OF fnly, thnSs qualities will not keep him
| Mt your side unleas You nlingle common
! sense and tact with them,
/ 1t is easy for many women to be prll-
liant and 1t Is easy for others to be good,
But It seems the most difficult thing IN
the world for n woman to BIO sensible.
| Genius and virtue ara everywhere, but
/ we must scar oh for common SENSE. Wo-
man Is called n composite creature, but
man Is tenfold more composite. When a
man has had tho whole world catering to
everything III his makeup. except his
love OF virtue. he Is not to be made ahid-
ingly happy with nothing but that quall-
4 ty satisfied, III,
He cannot suddenly and permanently
change his whole mental structure
Be satisfied then II your huaband gives
up the liberties and vices which the world