Wauwatosa news. [volume] (Wauwatosa, Wis.) 1900-1948, 1904-04-30
MI. Right Is Easily
DISTINGUISHED from MI. Wrong.

Many girls with Sweethearts will read
this, but not one in hundred will think
that she needs advice on the subject. 1t
Is our custom to believe in our own judg-
ment. And to think that every other girl
is incapable of looking after her own af-
fairs. Each girl believes that she knows
to a fraction how much love her sweet
heart has for her. she believes so until
marriage, then she knows for certain how
matters stand.
Marry Mr.: Right, and life is sweet to
you in poverty, sickness or wealth: mate
with Mr. Wrong, and existence is one
long sorrow.
1t is a common failing with us to de-
spise somewhat the girl who has had half
a dozen swcethearts. This is hardly fair,
unless we are sure that the young lady
is flirt. 1T is possible for girl to find
pleasing qualities in half a dozen men.
and to find on better acquaintance that
not one of the six is quite the sort she
would care to marry. At the risk of be
ing called flirt, she does well to enter
tain no thought of marriage with n man
whose habits displease her, or who has
lasting faults that she could never put up
with in husband.
After all, it is simple matter TO tell
if man cares for you, and if you care
for him. But you cannot arrive at Il
proper decision unless ytt are calm and
dispassionate.
Mr.. Right loves you. and shows it in
words and actions that are unmistakable
to woman. What pleases you may not
always please him, but he willingly makes
it his for your sake, unless it is some
thing very frivolous. He never ceases to
respect you, and thinks of You a great
deal. He makes appointments and keeps
them. He hears all you say and re-
members the scenery you like. the books
you like Your pet aversiOus and your
chief delights. Your birthdays are days
TO be remembered with nm. The trivial
things You mention in conversation are
stored up in his memory, and used to
show his love for you.
Mr.. Right is never the man to dance
with other girls when you are waiting
for him. He never takes you TO muse
ums. forgetting that You hate such
places. The tie that you dislike is never
worn again by him in your presence,
and the people who do not interest you
cease to be a topic of conversation. Quar-
relS arise over trivial things, but they
become of short duration with Mr.. Right.
1t becomes the object of his life TO give
you everything you wish for and to make
you happy, for then you are most adOT-
able in his eyes.
When mar loves a woman il is rare
that he irritates or annoys her if She
cares for him in return. SO constant AMI
true is he that she cannot doubt him,
she can only wonder sometimes if She
is worthy Of being loved, for we are all
sinners.
The obvious sign Of Mr.. Wrongs pres
ence is doubt in the mind of his beloved.
Doubt is borne of things that displease
and its appearance prove Us TO he dis
satisfied.
You are not loved truly when Your let
tiers remain unanswered. and the fact
worries YOU MIR. Wrong is the man who
trihes with yohr affections. and is only
loyable when he feciS like IT,
The marriages that so often turn out
badly are those between couples who are
mere acquaintances. with inst liking
for one another. In courtship days they
may steer clear Of quarres hut the girl
with her eyes open would see that she
was not loved rs she should be by the
man with whom her whole life had to
BE- passed New York American.