Cameron County press. [volume] (Emporium, Cameron County, Pa.) 1866-1922, 1904-12-15
;HlE SELFISH COUPLE.
Husbands and Wives VINO Refuse to
MinSIe In Society.

MinsIc In Society.
SeliishncSS is the bane of all life.
| II cannot enter into life-individual,
! family or soCial-without cursing it
| Therefore if any married pair find
themselves inclined to confne them
| selves to one anOther's society, indis-
| posed to go abroad and mingle with
| the life around them, disturbed and ir-
| ritatcd by the collection of friends in
| their own dwelling or in any way NOV
cd to regard their social duties as dis
agreeable, let them be alarmed at once
1t is a bad symptom-an essentially
morbid symptom. They should insti-
tute means at once for removing this
feeling, and they can only remove it by
persistently going into society, persist
emily gathering it into their own dwell
ing and persistently endeavoring to
learn to love and feel an interest in all
with whom they meet. The process OF
regeneration will not be tedious one,
for the rewards of social life are i'm
mediate
The heart enlarges quickly with the
practice of hospitality. The sympathies
run and take root from point to point.
each root throwing up leaves and bear
ing flowers and fruit like strawberry
vines if they are only allowed to do
so.
1t is only sympathies and strawbcr-
ries that are cultivated in hills which
do otherwise. The human face is
thing which should be able to bring
the heart into blossom with a moments
shining, and will be such with you if
You will meet it properly.
The penalties of family isolation will
not, unhappily, fall entirely upon your
selves. They will be visited with
double force upon your children. Chill
dren reared in the home with few or
no associations will grow up either
boorlsh or sensitiyely timid.
1t is cruel wrong to children to rear
them without bringing them into con-
tinued contact with polite social life.
The ordeal through which children
thus reared are obliged to pass in gain
ing the ease and assurance which will
make them at home elsewhere than un-
der the paternal roof is one of the
severest, while those who are constant
ly accustomed to Il social life from
their youth are educated in all its
forms and graces without knowing it.
Great multitudes Of men and women
all over the country are now living Sc
cluded from social contact simply from
their sensitive consciousness of igno-
rance of the forms of graceful inter
course
They feel that they cannot break
through their reserve. There Is, doubt
less much that is morbid in this feel
ing, and yet it IS mainly natural From
all this modification and this depriva-
tion every soul might have been saved
by education in a home where social
life was properly lived. 1t is cruel to
deny to children the opportunity not
only TO become accustomed from their
first consciousness to the forms of so
ciety, but to enjoy its influence upon
their developing life.
Society is food to children. Contact
with other minds is the means by
which they are educated, and the diff
ference in families of children will
show at once to the accustomed eye the
different social character of their par
ents. But | have no space to follow
this subject further and | leave it
with You, with the earnest wish that
you will consider it and profit by the
suggestions l have given you.-"Tim-
othy Titcomb's Letters" in Boston
Globe