The Montgomery advertiser., 1904-09-13
OF INTEREST TO WOMEN
A woman's H.Spiness

for the sumfner bore the separation from her lover very well as long as his letters to her were filled with lone- illness and despair. Thus the first part of the summer was joyous and giad- some. Whenever she would get a iet- ter that was particularly miserapic she would put on her shortest dress. with open-work stockings. ana witn boisterous spirits would go out onto inc niazza and flirt outrageously with the attenuated old professor, who, hay ing lost his memory, still continued to visit the resort.
 She would also go to bed on these nights singing a song and with hap DIV smile on her lips, after having re- read her lovers letter. It happened however, that as the summer wore oil her lovers letters grew somewhat less Respondent and gave occasional ac' counts of little pleasures that had come his way. Whereupon the girl got . grouch and, falling to see the old pro- lessor. went for long walks alone. and noticed every time her mothers hat wan on crooked and began to find fault with her lover and tell him that his melancholy letters had spoiled her summer.
 Mora1-A woman's ideal of happiness Is only fully realized when she knows some man is unhappy about her. SeH
 Cupid md the Advertiser. Jamesville, (Wis.) Era.
 Miss Jennie Jones and Bob Henry were married at the Jones mansion last night. The bride is the daughter of our constable, Jones, who made a good officer, and undoubtedly will be re- elected in the spring. He offers q fine L. IL A groom runs a grocery store on -dain Street. and is a good patron of our ad columns and has got new line of bargains this week. All summer, he paid two cents more for butter than any other store in town. The. happy couple left on the ten o'clock train for Milwaukee to visit the brides uncle, who is reported to have lots of money and Brights disease. Bob certainly has an eye for buisness.
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 Why Men Should Marry. Exchange.
 What are the effects that marriage has upon a young mans career? Is it well or not we'll for the man to mar ry who has his way in the world to make?
 In the first place, marriage-espe- cially a happy marriage-provldes a man with a central interest outside of his work. How much it may add to the importance of his work in his eyes Is another matter; but the current be- lief Is that a man must be-to use a phrase that may be happily employed -wedded to his work, if he aspires to any considerable success in connection with 1t.
 The married man--and it is assumed hot ha In 1nvar-1aauac home with regret. and looks forward eagerly to his return. His work Is no longer the chief object of his life That he goes ito 1t with so much con- tentment as he does might be made the subject Of wonder if the necessity were less.
 For such is the strange condition of our existence that a man, having chos- en a woman to be his life's companion Is compelled to pass his days absent from her. and returns to her side only at the approach of evening, his best energies exhausted in the labors of the day.
 As far as his, comraedship is con. cerned he is compelled to inflict upon his wife a life of Loneliness,
 At least, then, will he return to her as early as the circumstances of his employment or interests permit: nor will he willingly devote the few re, maining hours of the day to work, or allow his mind to be occupied by the cares and problems of business.
 The employer, however unjustified he may be in his conclusion, has an additional regard for the employe who is in no haste to leave his duties.
 But the married man Is impelled not to extend necessarily the hours of business. and. further. though he may recognize the advantages that others have over him who can devote one or two hours of the night to that kind of thoughtful work that the routine of the office makes difficult during the day. both inclination and duty prevent him from occupying hi shours at home in this manner.
 Moreover, the anxieties, and not infrequently the worries of domestic life now distract his mind and make exhausting drains upon his energies.
 It is, then. decided that the young man who wishes to get on in the world ought not to marry? By no means.
 For turning from the drawbacks to the consideration of the other side of the questions. we find ourselves logi- cally drawn to the opposite conclusion.
 Let us find for our young man a woman whose devotion will make him happy whose sweet influence will wid- en his sympathies, whose encourage ment will strengthen him in thoAe mo- ments of Encouragement and despair that none can escape. and whose pride Tn him, whose confidence and hope strengthen his ambition, and for that may we predict a career in which neither honor nor success will be lack ing.
 1T we have spent some time in re- viewing the disadvantages of the mar rleo state to the young aspirant to hon. DTS Tn the great world of affairs, 1t is