The citizen-Republican. (Scotland, Bon Homme County, S.D.) 1???-19??, 1904-09-15


inc written laws OF good manners, put
each newly acquired bit of informa-
ton into practice in your daily life.
Don't be satisfied with keeping what
you have learned Ill your head, and
don't drag out your newly acquired
knowledge only on particular and inn
portant occasions. You can never hope
to cast the spell of personal charm in
that FASHION. 1t Is daily and hourly
utilization of the rules of etiquette that
gives you the enviable and essential
ease IN the TulIliment of graceful civil
lt2S' ms IS an art like that of lnu-
sic. You are bound to practice in
order TO produce delightful effects.
The best way to practice the rules
OF IS 10 exercise them daily
and hourly in your family circle, in
your office, in the school room and in
the nursery. II you do this Conscienti-
0uSiy' you soon acquire the quite IT.
resistable habit Of p~oliteness. and |
mus mere add that, after q great many
years OF effort II observation, | have
discovered that personal magnetism,
like ~neatness, or veracity, or study, or
punctuailty can be made a habit by
any one who has the good will and the
good ambition to try for It's acquisi-
tlon.
Where ~As:eeability is of Service.
Now hon vou nov, .ono 49,, -,
SlbllS IN Inc fEppTU. and r1.Jpti,n rp
good and graceful MANNERS yc,, VIII ~ ~
sure 70 find mai ,,oiir ;, mnt a.
Time ana effort in fha st,d,' 80 ~, -
be agreeable. Is h~ominninp to nav ,c1,
really big divi6anas ~ Va, ~ 80
in business. occInied win tha etan,5r .
grind of getting your own living Won
Will urattv soon hoain 70 raS 80
the helnfuI effects az voUr "hprCCtuIs
bearing on yo,,r v,oy1r ond J., ,-ni, neS
Men will begin TO like Won hettar ntII
more readilys Thev Viii onnyooch "t'u
more freely, listen to Won 49, = nSN"
lively, and do Won IA vors r1o,.e "ttaaI
because Won have Iaarnnd ~ C 5,"ols
them at iiheir aaso 'I "a ,iGu nov 10 set
to understand Their Iittia nrnen out'
and TO hIrnor thai- r 80 PtS5erel!SeS'
less preiu6tces. n nnnIe -
member. the eve of an evner pt 20 ~
the value of a rough dianond bT "t' ~
very neysbov in ne strant is oL u ~
appreciate the i'm nortanoa !" "p'e -
beauty Of a n0Iishn55 ara " an" Inc
Therefore. in this v,n,.,1 and
progress and romnoti+iam ~ nay OF
highly l,,stro,s G:nrSa me most
mands he hirhest nTine a anG c'Ll-
mar with tha hnst 49, 49, ne
ceives the first hearing Exanti,, ~ "
same truth holds "o Ii hN1S.E me
the woman urba 9oIu "!tii regard 20
her snharn WI lS.It% 70 succeed IN
is not beauty aTS - T. l+4 ili"S pe; II
thai viii I'm 80. : 80 ~ MC1llH aloho
woman the noeirior H. "S,H.lH$ H5IhdG'
longs to be the leader in h h[, c ~ Sis
work, her family life, in her club. or ar
a bail, she cannot lure the admiration.
the confidence or the social power she
wants merely by virtue of a fai, face
or a full pocket. We Americans are =
very Independent and critical pcooIe:
fair faces and long bank accounts arc
not failtles among us. and we demand
something else in our favorites.
Above all things, we demand 10 he
won by charm and sweetness OF man
hef, and we are just indcpendant
enough to give all our adniratf0n az
the shrine OF the woman who, without
beauty and without wealth and without
ialne for her intellectual attaiurncnts 10
sui loved for her lovely manners "
I stand ready TO hririg fnrI,nr5
amount of actual ana irrefutab In eTiy
dence to prove that there ara non,,
such women, and that with Them . grney
ability is an art which they h5To
studied with much devotion. ANA vthjcl,
they have learned to usa thrn11,t ~
exercise of care and steady nra%fjco 'ie
Therefore l do most unhesftatinory
maintain that charm is the reeIIt -
also maintain in consequence that il
- SOtl Lduit OF my fault If Nva a. 49,.