Long Valley advocate. (Lardo, Idaho) 1904-1907, 1904-12-01
Look In each package for a copy Of
the famous little book. The Road to
Weilville."
SUNSHINE AND SHADE
DUE PROPORTION OF BOTH IN
MARRIED LIFE.
Writer In New York Weekly Tells
Some Wholesome Truths and Gives
Good Acknowledgements In the
Household Best Kept From Friends.

Household Best Kept From Friends
Married life is not all made up OF
sunshine and peace. Shadows will
sometimes darken the domestic hori-
zon; the sun will often hide behind
cloud which apparently has no silver
lining. But don't fret over it. Make
up your mind to begin anew. Take a
clean, new leaf in your book of expe-
rience, and try to forget the blots and
erasures on the last one. Above all
things, preserve sacredly the privae
cies of your house, heart and married
life.
No good is gained by imparting to
relatives or friends the sorrows and
disappointments you endure, because.
sooner or later, you are sure to re-
greet making such confidence.
There are few friends who can be
There are few who can be trusted
with the secrets of your daily life:
there are few who will not whisper
the story of your marital difficulties to
some dear, confidential friend" and
soon your private affairs will be free
ly discussed by all your acquaintances
and commented upon without stint,
furnishing food for gossip over many
tea table. Build your own quiet
world. not allowing your dearest
earthly friend to be the confdant OF
aught that concerns your domestic
peace.
Let moments OF alienation, II they
occur-and they often do-be needed
at once. Never let the sun go down
seeing you at variance with each 9TH
er. Women cling to men, lean upon
them for protection, care and love. II
a man would have woman do him
homage, he must be manly in every
sense; true gentleman, ready at all
times to treat his wifes wishes with
difference and respect, because she in
woman. Such department, with no.
bic principles. a good mind, energy
and industry, will win any woman in
the land who is worth winning.
women all have their faults, and
sometimes they are very provokina
ones. But with certain virtues are al
ways coupled certain disagreeable
characteristics, and we must make nm
our minds to accept the bitter with
the sweet. For instance, every hus-
band In the land desires a c,eanlv.
comfortable, well arranged abode. but
ne seldom thinks to praise his wife
Tor her excellent regulation of tho
household machinery; and If she re-
quests him, on entering, to use the
loormat or footscraper, he is apt to
give vent to an impatient expression.
But what modification it would be-
% him II his house were In such n
state OF dust and disorder as to cause
'nkind remarks from the neighborsi
1t Is poor return when a wife has
made everything bright and fresh. to
Zee her husband unwilling to take n
title pains to keep it SO, or hear him
'o1ect with forcible language to being
eminded of those small points which
III men are apt to forget occasionally.
Don't worry about feminine extrar
gance and feminine untruth. youns
nan. Be true to your wife. love her
incerely and frequently declare youY
lection, and qualification will surelv
end to keep her loyal, devoted wife
Florence H. Birney, In New Yorh
Weekly.