Wauwatosa news. [volume] (Wauwatosa, Wis.) 1900-1948, 1904-09-17
THE POPULAR GI9T
Courtesy Is the Flower OF Love ana g.,
W-ll to All Is the Trai. Thar
Wins Affection.


Wins Affection.
OF late there has been mach a,s,s....
( in English, French and America a
nails rs 70 the why. the Whereof ' ,,'
| the when of wOman's charm for H.. , ,I
pOsite sex; efforts 10 dissect the fa.a:,l
ton of the eternal feminine and I'D.
LONDON paper goes Sc far as TO offer. ia,
| photograph and numerous counan, W
send the name and residence 81 oss.'
affinity, as though atIinities stood y-,;.
ing TO come when called, ""
All such efforts are necessarily oLo.
live. Love.is like the wind which ..4o'l
eth where it listeth." or bowcfb nv,
however one may whistle for a Eroa1e
People may and do marry to order In,
nobody ever yet fell really and firmly t.;
love by rule, and as directed. Even tin
question as to when a woman reaches fb.
! height of her attractiveness is one lmon
which one mans opinion rarely gorn.-
with that of another man.
Here's TO the maiden of blushinc fffsa,
And heres TO the widow of tifty
Tastes differ, which is fortunate. simon
if everybody liked exactly the s,io,
things, either half the world womb H..
disc0ntented, or variety would H., no
more, and life would become mon0tou,nS
to a degree. What attracts one man r,.
/ pels another. Thus the ideal Of he.n.r
for one is when
All that's best of dark and bright
Meets III her aspect and her eyes.
/ While for another perfection is in.rr-
preted as
Eyes like violets wet with dew.
Hair with the sunshine filtered through
And yet another finds an Irresistible
charm in:
She has two eyes so soft and brown.
She gives a side glance and looks down
/ The young Japanese nobes who some
/ year ago came 20 this country to Study
! mechanical Engineering thought the
! round eyes of our women Il deformity.
and one of them, taken to a gala night
/ at the grand opera, closed his eyes he.
| fore tho brilliant scene. not that he was
dazzled thereby. but because he was her.
rfed at the to him indecorous display OF
neck and bare shoulders. ''One mans
meat IS another mans poison" the world
! over, literally and figuratively
/ Moreover 1t is an uudenable fact that
w0man's attraction for men is not
regulated by her age, by her beauty
which is largely a matter of individual
/ fancy, nor even by her power to draw
attention, since this may be transient
/ 1t not infrequently happens that Il plain
woman Is more sought after than Il beau
! ty. 1t is the soul which looks out of the
windows of the eyes which is really the
center of magnetism, the body is merely
! the case which contains the jewel In
/ ballroom one sometimes sees queenlv
creatures in faultless gowns, "splendidiy
4 null, playing the part of wall flowers.
while some bright eyed, freckie faced
/ girl, whose only charm is the all power
| full one of piquancy, has more partners
! ut her disposal than dances TO bestow
upon them.
If you want to have heaps of beanx,
you must entertain the agreeable fea-
lures and do the pretty polite This
advice, given by an old colored NANNY
to her nurslings, holds the gist of the
whole matter in a nutshell. Courtesy is
after all only the flower of love and good
I will for all men. He who would have
friends must show himself friendly"
People like people who put them into 4
good humor with themselves. who SAY
and do the pleasant and the proper thin.
and who never rub one the wrong way
This then, is the magical talisman which
renders one woman infinitely more
fascinating than another and draws men
TO her as though with magnet Some
may term it individuality, others nay
call it her personality, but it is really
her attitude of mind, her adaptabllltE
and above all the sympathy which puts
her into rapport with whoever she meets
Anu diSo. ny Il SlHS utuT DdIdubN. IT j
frequently in those moments WHeu
woman is most indifferent. NEST iEir-
pendent, and making least effort to
please, that she pleaSeS most Some
women are born with 4 calm Indifference
which has n wonderful fascination for
many men. the sort or men VINO always
desire the unattainable. and who fee the
woman they suspect of trying to aftrac.
them. Such a man quickly wpayieS u
chief *
self \ woman Ill such an attitude ot
mind lacks individuality. she is nervous
1 and anxious. she lacks reposc and self
poise. is invariably self-cOnSciOuS, and IS
apt to betray the fact that she is Strus-
Cling to make herself agreeable. whereas
the agreeability should he spontaneous
This is indeed the root of the whole
matter, 80 be the thing we seem
Many homely women are illtemprftt
or malicious. The prosecuted 'wItcde,,
of old time were usually old and u!3
women and doubtless illnatured h''
temper comes as often from the c}a-
SciouSnesS of ugliness. as uglines> rom
iiltemper. No one but the sufferer knows
what an ugly woman suffers all thro07I
lie; the pleasures she loses, the Sag,A>
and diSappOintments she cnduIe>. h'-
why should one be ugly. or old, or ais'r
all malicious? We cannot all ha NfesH.
but nobody need be disagreed BILE. H41
of the miserieS in life we hlln@ Ja1
( ourselves. and the rest are mostly htH-
able if not durable. Some people 'l-''
grow ala; whatever their age they u.'.
still the dew Of their youth. IrF'1''','
able uglineSS is 50 rare that il may
most he said not 70 exist. ilIa>~ #l
manners modify ones looks sd -Fet.'
that it is little short of sin unr 90 r.
them to advantage. We all WISH ~
loved by some one. and none aft '.- ''-'
repel if We care to take the paIa~
tract.-Ch;cago Tribune.