The Coeur d'Alene press. (Coeur d'Alene, Idaho) 1892-1907, 1903-05-09
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Art OF Managing q Aaas
There are three tAiHgs" saith ala
ancient prOveFb, ~ hleh eau only bs
managed by eOaAiHs A AID glove,
hre, and mah." Tie WOMAN. married
OF single. Who Nights tog hes right has
hard and bitter struggle. often 10
fail at last. - hlis che who Iakrs th~th
gracefully. with a smile aud sss~t
thank you. sir, IL allowed 10 walk "a
freely. II not inviIrd to coHl= asa'h
Any married woman. gifted With Sssa
a small degree VI diplomacy. may Ia ~
her own way quite as maeh. II h1k
mofs. than i good Tor her II eniy che
b.. eareful always 10 defer u hss notnl'
nai lold sB1 master ahd 4xvef 90 altos
any oA~, als-lf least Of all. 10 sus
pect that she has beeh able 10 persuade
III that nrr way Is hLs 9sh. tar
s~cret 81 avr power lies Id d nutshell
L is lhr power behind the thFoh1 " hieh
aetrf Op%hly asserts itself
All drcrnL lAru arr, 40 q fule. 80 4
h their WIyas. according % their llgHRs
, Z Il The part Of a clever wife ~ AV~f
those lights trimmed and baraihs TIE
maa W hJ awears AZ bts sitr Is bully
aui . coward. sgIll be sI4sIs, ani d Ia
sonrthlug .n the way VI excuse lot allan
that he B, usually husbaui 70 s9As
woman a b. hass. kyrn he HAy Be
/ best endured by nShFesistrHe~. or Al
least by grttfns eat u hls nay Tbs
m.h puwrr - Usually the ssfuAErst.
inI fortr~sa " airh r~slsis assault
Z may soulet u~a be easily carried by
iasd'9us approaches.
AL msn ha-s ~ be ruled iad<v'i
~ uaa viii be- 70 b, knoss r. lbs
hrup~raed hushana % tbs hamgftsl
Il l.maat naArRlst~at IAr uDnAh
who lie tguly mis'se~s 5f b~r a5assho1d
never fada ro Dot hsE ausbaai apoa .
psdratal lad Co .ns.st hat all lh, s5Hss.
| bold s4aIl lyuos lim az lord saI a.asgrt
thereof
A WDmaus pstytlrxrs are Ia nlosi
cases BY far alorr yaluablc than b~i
'sh's. The b~ut say la whteh 10 ia
rrvasr th0s~ privileges IL 70 gaks shsu
wiki great show % EraIisuds n n.
mAn vho ronrrrs thstn Vanity. van
/ ~. all u Taalty.' and 10 nan svsi
lived wh1 vas not accessible ~ nattTFi
/ tn some form og othsr To evaan~F.
woman must somstimss sioap. the Hts1s'
gracefully aud readily she does - IN
/ better fgg her purpose, u@nus per
suAaiop EDrs q mlirasgtsu wsrvu aEgrs1
slvensss cannot stiF foot. There 81
not many things In tho world ouiaid
/ os matters 81 conscience. pure an
simple, which are worth cgntsntls
upon a womaas part. against The na
whom she loves aud " ho loves her an
for these few things the reward. Esine,
through martyrdom. comes Usually 3
the hereafter standing Up sor oue'
rights against on~'s husband 10 wsasi
aons work. Il IL tnors rpmfprfats q
relindulsh them. stlil they may t- bad
except In rare Instances. b. asktus a.
them as favor 10 be- grated fpr l,rs.
s1kc. Moreover The submissive W
may easily escape responsibility whlrl
she does not care 70 assume by plead
: Ing her duty to her husband "Ja-s
likes this" Or Jack objects % that
, arr reasons N" validity Of WHICH o.
onr cau question
However perfect bl' - mechanical
may BE-, rs bearings must bs Kept we'll
o.l'vl or There VIII 10 friction. what
the Oh can ls to the mechanical su
gIn 'r j. tact 70 the wlsr wife. prf.r
enoT 20 her husbluI il The drop ~ oil
VII ch keeps tho wheels NJ tho 4 rnr~ft.-
machine running smoothly. II shs ls
clever enough To turn those Wheels In
The way In which she would hav. them
e.. ~hil' 10 al lntents and purposes she
l. acting under his direction. 40 much
N" better. perhaps. for oil concerned
There 10 much in mental suggestion
Tax" it for granted that a man vii
d. a certain thing uinp times out oI
ten h. does II. The tHctfui person drop
suggestions and leaves them 10 tax.
root aud bear fruit. just a. the husband
man sows his seed upon fertile ground
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