Bisbee daily review., 1903-04-17
The First Requisite
 ef Love
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periods of happiness interspersed with periods of misery. He had found mar. Eiage a failure and must make the best sf it. He resumed his place at his clubs. This is mans advantage. If he does not find companionship at home. be can get it abroad.
 It was not so with the wife. She could not thus coolly make up her mind that there had been a mistake and partly resume her former life of inde pendenee. Instead of gathering about her her former friends. practically avoiding any serious pitfall. she listen ed to the first man who chose to whis- per soft word in her ear, and he. be- ing encouraged, poured forth torrent This in a measure supplied what she had lost. It was like being widowed and exchanging hearts anew.
 It was the anniversary of their wed ding, but the husband had forgotten it When the wife discovered that this first anniversary. which a year before she supposed would be passed in a more intense cooing than before, was absolutely aforementioned by her bus band. she gave way to irritation Nothing that he said pleased her. ev- erything displeased her. This is one of her moods,' he said to himself. q don't understand them, and I don't want to understand them I know . place where l can get quiet and com fort, place where no woman may en- ter-my club. There I will go." When he returned at II o'clock at night, the new source from which his wife had begun to draw the sympathy she could pot live without was sitting in his par Tor. The husband, entering suddenly, caught a look that was passing be- tween the two and believed that his place was supplied.
 A philosophic nature led him to think out a plan and follow it-a plan that would do the least harm, give him and his wife the least trouble. 'I shall be no dog in the manger,'" he said. If she prefers this man, she shall have all she wants of him. will go abroad and live But that my affairs shall not become common talk l must have an ostensible object in going. I will ap- ply for some petty consulship in a place where no American would care to live; then l will live elsewhere and pay a deputy" After be had given himself plenty of time to form an ir- revocable resolution he went to an- Dounce it to his wife.
 We are creatures of happenings. We mark out a course, take week, a month, perhaps year to digest it. then
 .lv-4 fyrAr, ton q circumstantial zephyr blows fl away. When the husband was about to communicate his plan to his wife, che forestalled the announcement by enc of her own. The germ of a new life had come into the universe
 In twinkling the mans mind, in tentions, affections were diverted into a new channel He was enough of a pbysiologist to know that the mother must have the best of care, both for her own sake and for the sake or her and his child. He was chained to a necessity. He would bear with her every fault her irritability, her pee gishness, her unreasonableness-ey thing. It would be time when this sea son was over to carry out his plan of living abroad or form another. He be gan by putting his arms around his wife atfectionately. She yielded to hi; caress. While they were standing st lent in each others arms servant rapped at the door and announced the man who had been called in for sym yathy The wife expressed annoyance
 "Teli him that am not at home"
 Then the husband made a discovery Controlling himself, bearing with those faults which had shattered his idea of married life. giving his wife occa sional expressions of affection whtcf meant nothing. but which were par of his plan, he soon found that there were no objectionable traits to beal with. or, rather. that they had los their vIrulence. His wife often ap Deared to him more unreasonable thai ever, but the defect was atoned for b, expressions of affection for him which aulikc his own. were sincere. The pail he had suffered from an unccngenia mate was changed for one of anxiety seftened by mutual affection. nutua interest in an expected pleasure. An, now thai this delightful sympathy wa restored be began to dread lest h. should lose her. This redoubled hi attentions. his sympathy. his demon strations Of love. and these quadruple' .he return.
 One day after hours of physical az cny to the wife and mental agony t the husband in twinkiiBg the SUI shone through raindrops. smiles brok through tears. There were not chi two lovers, but three. King Baby SC ID his throne in the household an ruled, an autocrat. It was what wi your majesty please to wear7 An what will your majesty please to eas And when will your majesty please { sleep? And. most of all. when wi your majesty permit others 10 sleep?
 Then the husband made second di. sovcry The first was that marital al Section could only be gained by hi sacrifice to the wife; the second wa fhat the sacrifice Of both to the chil was imperative. TfHs submission ( the stronger to thesweaker. q. univers' law of love. would not, even with thez