New-York tribune., 1903-02-25

To, Is poor substitute. and indeed Of the
tho to rsa snmeR The G
signi6cannatV nave It, and their "HeimMeh, is as
b id essentially home loving PEOPLE, and this may
BY far t6e NoFse Son6 ana Of fs Rsh
G rs ti L1Grited from the north-and as rule, the
scorn for the changefui vagrant idle careless and
sseeIn,,pagan temperament OF southern nations As
matchless way:
ma ndt r brlght "a and fierce and tickle is the South.
Oh. tell her, Swallow. that thy brood is flown:
Say SS,;, that l do but wanton in the South.
But IN the North. long since my nest is made.
My nest is made is the ultimatum of the lover
the nest or the home being the natural centre
the pest and surest safeguard against all evil and
freely enter and 6d RO5 b asPpy bs n sRN WIFE e y
and a women only this happiness in the nome must
nc matter how Wild and erring may be- if
ora ne fan always rely on fn6ng somewhere in the
home he viii EEL the saving grace of it sooner
II, darkening wilderness. But if he Knows that
1t Is mere hostlery-that his wife has pride in
right to enter there--that his servants mock him
@ 5enlnd MS 81 back I as poor. weak eredulous fool
grows to hate the very walls of the dwelling. and
does his best to lose himself and his miseries
whirlpool of dissipation and folly which too often
ends in premature breakdown and death. -
NO one knows the real character and disposition
Of the mistress of home better than the servants
hOnOred
praise or fattery Of her fashionable friends. 1t is
home TO all connected with t. The very kitchen
maid ma employed in it, the boy who runs erTands f9r
the highest should feel that their SURROUNDINGS are
peaceful and happy that the presiding spirit of the
he In9 mistress rs contended Win PeI m le d ana
her-then all things work together for good and
harb0r in storm 2 "neCt'' indned Uhsrs warmth
repose and mutual trust and help make the days
Restaurants 10 her nUpn dining roor1EVEhen with
each change of the seasons she is gadding about
s3meWhere. and avoiding home as much as pos
will care to stay with her, or ever learn to ad-
ners 10 possess In the natural and God-G1ven ways
of home life, if she choOses-but if she turns aside
and plays with the Sticks and straws Of the half
sh1d nSne SnS mas R Only & nerse TO nd pae me b s e
Of strife Pio'e out 'fe CONFUSION ana 'ne
Apart altogether from the individual dignity and
sself-poise which are invariably lacking 10 the
'vagrant' or home despising human being. the
70 the empires future Strength. II our coming
mothers indulging in a kind of high class public
house feasting. combined with public house morals
ence to home and home times they in turn viii do
, everywhere rather than as well established, self
respecting citlzens and patriots, proud or their
homes Even as it is, there are not wanting signs
with morbid apathy and sicEiy Inertia One
pIace is as good as another, says one section OF
climate" says another, preparing to pack of
Egypt or the Riviera at the first snap Of winter.
expressed by sturdy, patriotic forefathers who
place like England was tBir Sworn convteton no
naona senfa6 6f % . was me OF their
quite good enough for them, and they made the
fact that the much abused weather, whatever IT
may be is pretty much the same all over Europe7
but certes it is provided with hotels and
cnefest attraction of all-it has Gambling He'll
far apart as the poles: and those who seek the
But such English women as are met at the
De Iooked uFon as the deliberate destroyers Of all
that is best and strongest in our national life, in
fections The English home used 70 be model
cases high life it will become a byword for the
mockery Of nations.
The charm of home depends Of course entirely
on the uPbringtng and character of the inmates
StG2id Ihf and iiterate people make dull resde
themselves, put the fire out altogether II I were
for making happy home would ls7ai without no
moments moment - hesitation hes reply "CheerfuIness" A
and determined to make the best OF everything is
| home. People with a turn for grurnbiing should
The VIII ne nvr m 16ersan n0es anq 6o 6Re at at raj I
keep, home as it should be But given a, cheer
| nothing sweeter, happier or safer for the human
being than home and the life which centres within
Wandr a far d for a d5a rs 9 M Ref6 @ Tor
! Their work waits for them at their own doors. in
| the town village where they reside. No end of
for their doinreTerg day cam be ed 70 1Re Rn
basket of flowers, full Of good deeds and gentle
words by every woman. poor rich, who has
either cottage or mansion which she can truly call
whch the SaT Of s61es bhe aEhas
and best
Women complain lt that @ home Sis, is dull, q T. quiet
non9}ton4qs loney & and blame it for all sorts
an cannot be a few hours alone without finding
her house dull. her mind must be on the verge
lInacy OF
own COMPANY aggErs II for the moral equilibrium
at least for couple of hours in the course Of each
to rest and mentally review their own thoughts
words and actions in the light OF quiet &c conscience @ %
place to and meditate-and the hours that
pe per R neveP 9 b Wasted shoud be e
ously, borne in mind that it is only in the home
reverse, and. to quote Mr.. Lecky:
Importance. A tire. honest .and trustworthy nat
ure. capable Of self-sacrice and self-restraint.
~ quable and S SGneqted tepgeF mp poweT Of sy
pathy habit OF looking az me PETER ana nrgnter
Judgment. tact and order, are perhaps the most
will retain their full attraction to the last They
brighten in innumerable WAYS the little things OF
posed to petty frcu0Tf and TSGIrng d small & g
large appreciations are in the marriage relation
important than any great constructive or ere
thize to counsel and to endure. than the highest
qualities OF the hero the saint. 1t is by this
a,9h: tion. '"a' '"s MAI ''F' ''e ''''l'' :. '
complete failure and deplorsble disaster attending
many marriages. iet US look for the root OF the
life. the neglect and avoidance of home and home
ence For. whenever any woman. rich or poor.
high in rank or OF humble estate throws % e;, these
raj beautiful and thrice-bessed sphere of action.
of a queen who called TO highest sovereignty casts
away her crown breaks her scspIre @ Iran traIlpLeS % on