The Aberdeen weekly. [volume] (Aberdeen, Miss.) 1878-1933, 1903-05-08

characters and dispositions grow
similarly alike. 1t is all the more
important then that you should be
gin to grow together when your
natures are fresh and unspoiled,
and that you may have the benefit
OF the communion of her finer
thoughts and give her of your own
before the realities Of life have de-
-troyed your ideals.
You will probably not be good
enough 10 deserve your wife, for
no ordinary man is worthy Of the
wondrous responsibility of having
in his keeping. for better or worse,
the life of good woman. Your
influence upon her character will
be second only 10 that of God
Himself, and il behooves you TO
bear yourself manfully and To-, a
far IL possible. fulfil her faith III
Won She will idealize you, and ii
YOU are true 10 her aud true To
yourself she will never discover
jurt how far short Of her estimate
you feel yourself 10 be. If you are
70 b. a success in great measure
you must be true to her, and To
your own best nature, for in this
way you will find yourself bes, hi
ted for all of life's struggles: II
you are false To- her. woe will be
yours In double measure. on Will
do violence to your own nature
and you will wreck this life that
has been given YOU to guard. for
the -adiest. emptie-t. drearie~t
thing on earth IL the hesrt of a
good woman robbed of her affec.
ton for and trust in her husband.
+ There IL NO association or Co
partnership which is 20 safe AZ that
OF Husband and Wife. Limited. its
4 output of pleasure is twice what
one can gain. for there are tive
striving 10 create happiness. aud
thus the joys of life are doubled
/ ito Liabilities are halved, for the
sorrows are shared equally. and
I thus lose half their effect And "a
! your investment grows with the
increment OF years you will find il
paving a constantly increasing div
, idend in a wealth Of rich and rare
experience. What can equal in
sweetness the sound of the catchy
feeble wall of a mans first born
when the air fills it little lungs
and it, troublous life is beguni
What can give the thrill that the
touch of baby fingers Imparts
What finer. holier sight IL there
X than the mother with her child and
the unfolding and development OF
Y the budding nature under her low
7 ing guidance If it is i'll the com
mon anxiety draws you nearer: il
. Il i we'll your love and pride are q
/ closer bond. and it, love and trust
in both you and her bind you to-
Z gether as nothing else can.
In Japan. am told. man i.
not supposed 10 be worthy Of con-
-ideration until he i married. and
\ the Judgment Of bachelor is Civ
en- no more weight than that of q
beardiess boy. Traly the Japs are
"a wise little people. for he who
lacks the good judgment 10 take
unto himself helpmeet l. not
safe 10 be trusted in other matter.
requiring fine discrimination. ano
he is weak who lacks the strength
ening influence of home. 4
home-a place where baby face:
watch for the coming of Father
where Her clear. honest eyes meet
him with the mutel v asked ques
ton Is all wellr"-where the
snowy linen. shining silver anC
the general neatness and orderli
ness tell Of her efforts to supple
ment your work where the weari
ness and worry of daily struggle
are laid aside and whence you q
with renewed strength for anothe
day of work for those AT home
Get married. young man an'
marry Vnnnu