Shoshone journal. [volume] (Shoshone, Idaho) 1884-1931, 1903-10-09
The Usefulness
Of Self-COntrO


What is dangerous for one person
may be perfectly safe for another.
Very, very few inherit SO much money,
muscle or mind that they can squan-
der all their life, never acquire and
die rich. As one mans food may be
another mans poison, so one mans
pleasure may be another mans pain.
Self-control is quality desirable In
all phases of life, in social, profession
al and commercial fields. 1t means
money and victory.
There are some people whose per-
sonality seems to throw me on tho
track, and no matter what they say or
do irritates For some time I have
been trying, when I see such person
to study out how l can be useful to
that person, and when l meet him I
make an extra exertion to be agree
able and sensible Sometimes unset
fish work pays. The other evening on
the train the above kind of person
sat few seats from me. Nc doubt !
scowled, as I felt it, and though
we know and saw each other, neither
of US spoke. / resisted my temptar
ton to remain where | was and took
a seat by his side. l introduced myself
as though / had been forgotten, and
we had a very pleasant chat after we
got started. / so forgot myself that I
left the train with him before reach
ing my station, but subsequent events
proved it was to my advantage to get
off at that place
From a number of communications
which I have received on the subject
of self-control, the following are some
extracts:
Thinking of consequences is ono
way of gaining or maintaining self
control"
First of all, Christian principle;
second, strong will power-the God
given power to hold still, no matter
how hot the furnace; third, fear of los
ing ones hold on ones SELF"
The source of selfcontrol lies In
an earnest purpose to show strong
manhood and womanhood."
"Self-control is the result of expert
snce; mistakes fortify one in the fu-
ture against the same acts. and help
to decide kindred actions Education
tends to give one command over self.
partly by the wider range Of view
acquired and partly by the knowledge
of experience of others Some per-
sons can not profit by the experiences
Of others, but must pass through the
fire themselves Se1f-control appears
At times to be the gift of nature, ~
some people even In childhood re-
veal q self-command which could not
have been acquired. I believe self
control to be An acquired accomplish
ment, resulting from experience and
observation rather than from any
study of books"
About the severest test Of self-con-
troll is to say mo" to a friend and
run the risk of losing his friendship.
Good solicitors tell me that self-conr
troll is one of the most valuable forces
in their Hne of work. An attorney
who Is a collector told me as a rule
he thought It was q good thing to
leave his club at home, as he might
feel it necessary to hit back some
times. but at all events be sure never
to lose your head. believe that 1t II
very profitable for us to undermine
our own errors and explode them our
selves. 1t does you more good to kick
three minutes than to kick
the people thirty years. To have self
control is to have almost everything
else desirable, but self control II an
Indirect product of daily good Judg
meut
In order TO have self-control You
must have something to control
has no self-control DO
cause it has no weight. and it would
be the same If 1t had intellectually
and had no weight A very smart
man with very weak muscles is sure
y much in need of self-control. eys
.smatic saving fosters self-control and
rood Judgment. Think-think twice
thrice II necessary. Practice In
,rder to be able to perform suddenly
md satisfactorily. Be something and
prevent your blood getting thin The
world needs more agreeable disagree
ng. but before 1t can have It. 4 must
contain more self-controA