The Anderson intelligencer. [volume] (Anderson Court House, S.C.) 1860-1914, 1903-05-20
WOMEN SHQ 10 / 2 PROPOS
The Plan " enld save Much D Unhap,,iness.

did QOb Cd1o AVA LUZ q A1 SkSM 111 AubA
,eo if there was any way BY which !
goman could win the affections Of d
man. For, the dignity Of my sex ]
louged to answer No.. bus 7 have
seen so many men. married in spite of
themselves th.sL cpald Sniy assure
her that the woman who went out
on still hunt sftsr any man was
., city sure to bag him. for q husband.
The old theory that man 10 the pur-
suer and woman the pursued in love-
making is beautiful and romantic
legend, but it has few facts to sup
mort it. Custom and svnycntion de-
urive woman Of taking any active part
il courtship, but while this cripples
her energies and depriyes her Of fair
ulay it does mot bar her from the
matrimonial game. It only forces
| her to arrive BY oitcuitous ronte,
instead Of the plain and open path.
Every man aatters himself that he
discovered the timid and shrinking
little violet he elects to wear on his
! heart, but every woman knows that
nine times out Of ten the little Ioweret
! had her eyes on him from the start
] and deliberately put herself in his
road SO that he ooulin.t get past her
without breaking bic neck.
1 The silent tac .ios WithsSsg ghfch q Wo.i
aman conducts Q ccurtshiH afe not dig.
3nifed. They are even 8 ,iite landtssre5
4hauded, but they arc ;trens donsly
effective, and when q man find that q
gToman is in love with him Ind Iii has
marked him for her own, his own safe
y lies in fight. If he remains within.
athe radius Of her sphere his name isl
Benedict. Little By little he yields
! b the aattery Of being 40 adored:: Her
judgment and taste in preRerriDg him
{ and from having been perfectly in-;
different to her in the beginning, he
commences thinking she is q fine wo-,
aau, discriminate: woman, the idesl
aoman he has been seeking, and il.
all over then but the Wedding pres-
e 4nts. II ss.S
q And he never knows, bless his
lear, unsuspicioua heart, how she
urned the trick. For the things men.
en't know about women, NIP sisters,
ss US all return tht nks. Il is our.
alvation. ,.,s S:s 5s5. 4
d Now, the mere sugge ltion Of . wo-i
ssAan making love ana actually popping
hs question is sinply hooking 60 the
hsiority Of nannla e s bh5 81 81 5uia ia hear
hat Saliie Smith had frankly told
ob Jones that sske loved 5im and
|auld like to marry E;m ie he res;pro-
ased her sentiments, we would. liftj
~ hands atos heaven and cry ont: /:
The brazen thing bat when Sallie
|pns after Bob, when she throws her-
eli in his way and calls him DIP half.
dozen times q day by telephone, We
81 \ condone the sact, though is means
81 81 iscisely the same thing and ;isn' t half
direct, as honest and as dignifeaia aias
would be for her I !, come square ont
i!h the truth. s 1.zS
The old ideaS that a girl never ipok-
B4 at man until he proposed TO her
I'D never thought Of him as. 4 possible
g ! Feetheart or; susband until ne aaked
ITO name the day, 10 too idiotio and
influential 8 pose for thia practical
y. Long, long before any man pro-
Rses girl knows whether he IS going
"a "a do it or not. Cor women ara iincrsdii-
y subtle In theae natsera. More
aan that, ahe knows vixen she is is
Ping to let hin propose, ard she has
ken the temperature Of 2ler affec-
pms to the last fraction % q degree.
girls heart isn' !; aI bog Of safety
Atches that dosen,t ignite until you
|iatch q proposal on it. III is d piece
tinder that will s with spoisan-
)us combustion the moment q mar
T. loves looks al her, and when 4
4 tells q man she must have time &c
Amine into the atateiof her affec.
Pas she means she Siss ssoally going 10
p into his rating in Bradssrost's, B
he will do we'll if he withdraws
y offer. 7,
NOV, personall 4 S,slieys mat The
aVeOtion women from sailing & mar
a. she loves him aud asking him Ii
my her. works 81 muoh unhsppinssl
any Other one shing IL the sprid
lon't think that shaso can be ati, ln
abs that women aeo more diacsrninl
matters of the heart then men are are
thatli9 women cDuld shoose shsil
sbands, insteaa sR hsgins to tax.
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